Nightmare Neighbour battles In Kent Countryside I At War With Next Door | FULL episode | S1E1

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  • Dermot O'Leary presents this documentary that tries to bring peace between two waring neighbours.
    In this episode the Jacobson's from Canada wanted a countryside upbringing with their 5 boys in
    Kent but the Gray family moved next door a vear later caused a bitter relationship between the households, which was once a friendly community.
    #truestory #atwarwithnextdoor #northone

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  • @deanthornby2026
    @deanthornby2026 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    Never make friends with your neighbours....all say hello ...allways ask if they are ok and leave it at that....once you make friends your gonna fall out .. keep out of their houses and lifes and your get on for ever

    • @stevenwest3555
      @stevenwest3555 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      👏

    • @irenanes7634
      @irenanes7634 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah 😚🤗☺️💜🇵🇱💪🏻

    • @personalcheeses8073
      @personalcheeses8073 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Not in my experience, I have had some awful neighbours. But currently they are just the best. It’s the luck of the draw

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I don't even speak to my neighbours unless I have to.

    • @stevenwest3555
      @stevenwest3555 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@gillianbrookwell1678 not even good morning ? 😛

  • @saz9882
    @saz9882 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Who on earth builds a lookout point next to a fence someone has just put up. It’s horrendous, unnecessary & provoking the issue more. Take it down, stop being difficult or better still move out! It’s pretty obvious who the instigator is!!

    • @kburke9615
      @kburke9615 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Agreed, 100%.
      Signed, a Canadian viewer.

    • @Outnumberedbykidsandcats
      @Outnumberedbykidsandcats 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Absolutely. I expected it to be 6 of one and half a dozen of the other, but instead it was so obvious from very early in the episode that she was the problem. We don’t have any problems really with neighbours but even then, I put my kids climbing frame up so that the tower was furthest from the fence because it’s the polite thing to do ensure you’re not making neighbours uncomfortable for no reason. She put that tower there for one reason only and that was to cause trouble and spy on the neighbours. The fact that she is unable to see that she is the problem here is incredible to me.

  • @teresaalford5978
    @teresaalford5978 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Complete opposites, the one house and yard is trashed, the other neighbors are neat, they yards completely reflect how each live.!!!!!!!!

  • @nansmith8703
    @nansmith8703 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    This Hazel is so vile and the state of their property is disgraceful.

    • @kburke9615
      @kburke9615 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      As a Canadian I agree with you.

    • @lesleyboulant4053
      @lesleyboulant4053 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What a pigsty--inside and out.

    • @DN-me8mt
      @DN-me8mt หลายเดือนก่อน

      Move the playground from the fence
      Hazel : i should NOT!!!
      There we know who are the problem 😂

  • @sugarsnap1578
    @sugarsnap1578 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Get the landlord to give them notice unless things improve ! That trouble maker Hazel needs to get her house and garden tidied up!

    • @hoosierladyus48
      @hoosierladyus48 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yes, she seems like the problem in all this. If she spent more time on cleaning her home and yard, she wouldn't have time to be arguing with the neighbors. Her house is a pigsty.

    • @patriciawagstaff6302
      @patriciawagstaff6302 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I would put up a fence also as the inside and the outside of my neighbor's property has been - n probably will always be a pigsty, junkyard whatever one may want to call their living arrangements.
      Worse yet, he/ her their children will grow up thinking that living in an unhealthy- uncared for proper home is normal !
      When our children, including us as parents, b4 bedtime n baths etc. We ALl would do our part to tidy up our home. Inside n outside. Each child had their own basket to put their toys n bits n bobs taken care of. Even to the outside toys , be it something like junk... just tidy up. All things our parents had taught us. All of us are taking an equal part.
      To me, it just doesn't seem to be that hard of a thing to accomplish.

    • @catbishop27
      @catbishop27 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's truly a dump.

    • @nigelbevan8449
      @nigelbevan8449 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It should be the landlord who should step in and tell Hazel and her husband to get their "garden" and clean the house or face eviction....

    • @Outnumberedbykidsandcats
      @Outnumberedbykidsandcats 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Totally. Given that it’s not owned by them, but is a rented property, I have no idea why they haven’t been evicted. It’s clear who the issue is, but even if everyone was equally to blame it’s not good for a landlord to have tenants behaving this way to each other. So one of them has to go and you choose the one who allows your property to look like a pigsty.

  • @lily_m3538
    @lily_m3538 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Foreigners moving to the UK need to be more adaptable and culturally sensitive. Glad this guy isn't teaching my kids and Hazel is a weird one.

    • @imhere8380
      @imhere8380 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is what we say about when the Poms immigrate to our country.🤣😂🤣

    • @angelau1194
      @angelau1194 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@imhere8380 I thought it was "emigrated."

    • @timothywait9457
      @timothywait9457 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      lilly Hazel seems more like an American or an Australian then a Canadian

    • @timothywait9457
      @timothywait9457 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      abcxyz what Skippys aka Australians call us English

    • @timothywait9457
      @timothywait9457 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Imhere do not be a silly skippy

  • @honeybee4645
    @honeybee4645 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Hazel needs to be on
    " neighbours from Hell"
    Even her hubby falls in line with her 😂

  • @alfredisted305
    @alfredisted305 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    The Canadians do not want to negoiate. I believe that they would be better off back in Canada.
    As a teacher, I don't believe he is setting a good example and Hazel does not want to listen. Disgraceful.

    • @lesleymcshanemitchell9651
      @lesleymcshanemitchell9651 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Why should they go Just because of an disagreement with your Neighbour. I think your a teeny bit prejucdised

    • @merarimorris1030
      @merarimorris1030 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They probably left Canada because they didn’t get along with anyone there either. There’re insufferable

    • @DavidHeywood_Legend
      @DavidHeywood_Legend ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree, there is something not right with them, the soy boy husband is the one who is being abused. Move back to Canada and take your flag with you if you don't like it here. I wonder why you moved in the first place.

    • @personalcheeses8073
      @personalcheeses8073 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lesleymcshanemitchell9651. What terrible spelling and grammar you exhibit.

    • @imhere8380
      @imhere8380 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These neighbors remind me of the conflict in M.E. Like Israel they do not want to negotiate. I believe they would be better off going back to their European lands' of 1800 years. And as a new country in the M.E set a good example to Mankind.

  • @alexisjames5894
    @alexisjames5894 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    ….. he only hit me once! I remember saying that to my DV support worker. One punch is enough

  • @zerofox7347
    @zerofox7347 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Ask yourself if you had to live next door to one couple which would you choose? I wouldn’t live next to Hazel for anything!

    • @catbishop27
      @catbishop27 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same.

  • @lesleyallinson8738
    @lesleyallinson8738 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Am sorry but the couple from Canada, if I lived next door I would be complaining about the mess too. And the noise from the animals they keep sorry to say the property is a big mess.
    I am surprised the landlord isn't involved to make them tidy up the garden, etc. Even housing associations would have told them they need to clean the whole property up or they could be evicted

  • @MsSparklesNGlitter
    @MsSparklesNGlitter 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I say this as a Canadian myself, the Canadian couple especially Hazel came into the UK as foreigners and needed to be far more conciliatory. She has a very bossy and nasty attitude. If she doesn't like it she can return to Canada.

    • @haryjones6238
      @haryjones6238 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      she was told by her friend she had been hit imagine your neighbour being abused you can just ignore it or you can build a platform let the fucker know he is being watched and try hold him accountable like are you the person thats gonna ignore it she confronted that guy like a boss no i wont take the platform down because i want to have somewhere to record him if he is doing these things

  • @wildadventures4173
    @wildadventures4173 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Hazel is what we call in America "A Karen" and a Controlling Narcissists 🙄

    • @contessaanthrope5775
      @contessaanthrope5775 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Pretty sure everyone and their dog knows what the term" Karen" means. The internet exists outside the U.S.A.

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Karen is a nice name not a misogynist insult. Name calling is also narcissstic.

    • @CarolinaEmber
      @CarolinaEmber 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@contessaanthrope5775 Okay, Karen! 🙄

  • @honeybee4645
    @honeybee4645 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Hazel is a Bully, makes me wonder why she left Canada!! Would love to hear from her previous neighbours!! 😅

    • @forgetmenotjem1147
      @forgetmenotjem1147 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That was my thought, who did she mess with in Canada

    • @Mumasarah
      @Mumasarah 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought the same thing. Id do a police check on him, looks dodgy, immature..screams p!.do

  • @carolesigrist3780
    @carolesigrist3780 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Maybe hazel should spend time cleaning up her house 🤢than arguing with neighbours? Hmm 🤔 😂

    • @kaybee2930
      @kaybee2930 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I can't believe she's only 42, she looks at least 60

    • @Outnumberedbykidsandcats
      @Outnumberedbykidsandcats 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kaybee2930is that how old she is? I must have missed them saying her age. She’s the same age as me, but I thought she was around my mums age (63). She has to be lying about her age surely? Or is it just that sometimes when someone is that bitter it really does show on their face?

  • @LorBell
    @LorBell ปีที่แล้ว +152

    "He only hit me once and it was only because I wouldn't calm down." Sheeeesh. Well, just looking at her says it all. She's shell-shocked, terrified, walking on eggshells, and has no spirit.

    • @blondecat666
      @blondecat666 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      You don't even need to be a psychologist to see she is terrorized. Plus, even if it was 'just one' (which I simply don't believe), it is one more than enough.

    • @deanthornby2026
      @deanthornby2026 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That's just how he likes her ...

    • @homeless_greg_games
      @homeless_greg_games ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Sounds bad but who knows she might be being truthful. Maybe she told her neighbour about that incident and wanted to get it out first.

    • @blondecat666
      @blondecat666 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@jigglchoo8858 No 2nd chances for physical violence. And who said anything about estranging kids? Just because the parents are divorced, why would the kids be estranged from their father? (Even though who hits other paople is not deserving anything, let alone to be a dad.)

    • @Guvnor100
      @Guvnor100 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      All the galaxy brains in here working out other people's lives. Just remember, none of us knows what goes on behind closed doors. Stop making assumptions.

  • @juliee.7072
    @juliee.7072 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Hazel's a troublemaker. Look at the pinched and peevish look that has griwn on herface over the years. She likes pushing Jamie's buttons, making him lose his temper and react to her daily microaggressions, she seems to have the police on speed dial. Not someone I'd like to live next to.

    • @Grimzoid
      @Grimzoid ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That's why she looks 62 instead of the 42 she claims to be, and the garden 😮.

    • @Mumasarah
      @Mumasarah 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      100% spot on. Vile human being. Dirty too..bet she stinks

  • @melissabyrne8749
    @melissabyrne8749 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I really do have to much time on my hands😅

    • @CatherineAustin-z3s
      @CatherineAustin-z3s ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jeez me too I've spent the morning watching elderly women thinking they were speaking to Johnny Depp 😱😱

    • @Chalky29
      @Chalky29 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

  • @garbostyle1
    @garbostyle1 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    The Canadian Karen doesn't want peace, if she did she'd move that platform she built purely to spy on and annoy her neighbors. It's such a simple thing and she refuses. I'd be annoyed and pissed if I went through the bother and expense of putting up a privacy fence and my neighbor immediately built a platform so that they could stare at me . I wouldn't be very nice if everytime I was in my yard the neighbor's kids heads popped up staring at me like a bunch of prairie dogs or meerkats. Everyone is entitled to enjoy their yard and their privacy.

    • @JinSeonMiSamJang
      @JinSeonMiSamJang ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I would have just built a higher platform in the same spot hahaha

    • @kenya9540
      @kenya9540 ปีที่แล้ว

      She was a nasty woman.

    • @catbishop27
      @catbishop27 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Meerkats indeed! Great analogy 😂

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Karen is a nice name not a misogynist insult, be the change you want to see

    • @garbostyle1
      @garbostyle1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@beaulieuc8910 yea, yea, yea, puppies, kittens and rainbows but the real world isn't like that, what are you smoking? Worry about your words and stop trying to tell other people how to think, feel and speak, KAREN.

  • @hoosierladyus48
    @hoosierladyus48 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Hazel to me is like an entitled person. No one tells her what to say or do. There is no reason why she can't move that tower the kids climb on. I like this man who is mediating. I know that both sides have said and done things they shouldn't have done, but in all honesty, Hazel seems like the big problem.

  • @Kissameassa538
    @Kissameassa538 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The kid in the red tee made a slashed throat motion. Timeline 18. 16. I have lived with my next door neighbour for 21 years and we even exchange gifts at Christmas. She is wonderful. 🇬🇧❤️

    • @alisonfisher9345
      @alisonfisher9345 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have lived next door to my neighbour over 40 years never had a bad word

    • @yvonnesimpson4584
      @yvonnesimpson4584 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I noticed that child doing the cut throat sign. I wonder which parent taught him that?

    • @Kissameassa538
      @Kissameassa538 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@yvonnesimpson4584 So disgusting for a child so young. If that had been either of my sons there would have been repercussions. I don’t mean anything physical but definitely consequences. 😤😤

  • @coldc7
    @coldc7 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    As a Canadian...I can only say..... you can keep her! 🇨🇦

    • @GrandmasAshess
      @GrandmasAshess 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As a Brit, I politely decline 🤣 return to sender

    • @eurocrusader1724
      @eurocrusader1724 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Stay in your country

    • @slopernafti902
      @slopernafti902 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No. We've already got many that won't integrate. You stay away. Eat some maple syrup in the snow.

    • @simplyplaid
      @simplyplaid 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@slopernafti902 Whatever nationality, she is nasty.

    • @HenHo90
      @HenHo90 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂

  • @homeless_greg_games
    @homeless_greg_games ปีที่แล้ว +92

    The Canadian lady keeps changing the rules ! Must enjoy the whole process!

    • @imhere8380
      @imhere8380 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      deport them.

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 ปีที่แล้ว

      Canadian Lady; Why don't you take your family and move back to Canada.

    • @ophiecat
      @ophiecat ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@imhere8380~ We don’t want them back.

    • @philipjohnkaye8890
      @philipjohnkaye8890 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Narcissists move the goal posts all the time.

  • @cloo6984
    @cloo6984 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    They gave Hazel way too much control and leverage in this situation!! I dont see a happy middle ground..only Hazel controlling the entire situation.

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hazel is a control freak and a narcissist.

    • @AA-uf3bl
      @AA-uf3bl ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True, albeit she's the culprit.

    • @lynnwhitchelo
      @lynnwhitchelo ปีที่แล้ว

      Evoct bothfamilies and rehouse them

    • @lynnwhitchelo
      @lynnwhitchelo ปีที่แล้ว

      Evict both families rehoouse them maria

    • @lynnwhitchelo
      @lynnwhitchelo ปีที่แล้ว

      16:36

  • @cyberprince8272
    @cyberprince8272 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    As an Australian 🇦🇺 those Canadians need to go back to Canada and stop bullying those British citizens in their own country. Absolutely disgraceful. And to fly a Canadian flag in Britain. Why on earth are these Canadians living in Britain for.

    • @ophiecat
      @ophiecat ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Firstly, we do not want them back. And secondly, I live in Vancouver and see many different flags flying in people’s yards. They are proud of where they have come from and it really is no big deal. The Jacobsons were flying those flags to annoy their neighbours, not for a sense of pride.

    • @elizabethsmith3374
      @elizabethsmith3374 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I live in the US so does my family and when I went to visit some family on vacation I saw someone close to our independence day flying the British flag I think this was at the time of Jubliee I was okay with it but my one of my family memeber's who lived in that neighborhood was up in arms about it. Its just a simple thing as long as its not disrespectful or a flag flown in a manner that is morally wrong in that country I don't see the issue

    • @lemlematta229
      @lemlematta229 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hello we have British living in Canada too bye the way Canadian are very peaceful people
      It’s must be the British fault

    • @ungrateful-66
      @ungrateful-66 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hate that crap too with the flag. I'm a French Canadian who has lived in South Florida my entire life and love my blue Quebecois flag but wouldn't dream of flying it ANYWHERE! Thankfully, the many Canadian owned businesses where I'm from do fly the Fleur de lis or red maple but it really is rude for everyone to be flying their country of origins' flags while being guests in others' countries.

    • @ungrateful-66
      @ungrateful-66 ปีที่แล้ว

      There's a lot of cute Australian girls here in Florida too.

  • @bartardo1
    @bartardo1 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Those Canadians are brother and sister surely 😂

    • @AMNESIALEMON93
      @AMNESIALEMON93 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And heroin addicts

    • @teresabaker5113
      @teresabaker5113 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      OMG, you seem to be onto something!

    • @jessH090
      @jessH090 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s why they left Canada 😂

    • @analinares
      @analinares 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The Canadian woman is not 42, more like 62.

  • @RobMFC93
    @RobMFC93 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The colonel is bowing down to that witches demand. Poor old Jamie getting rinsed by Hazel. She's generally everyone's worst nightmare.

    • @Mumasarah
      @Mumasarah 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah colonel is a bit cr@py..1st time i have seen this show.. he doesnt seem diplomatic or good at negotiations

  • @thescottishbawbag
    @thescottishbawbag ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She's only 42...nah never...and how did I get from boxing to this mad patter??

  • @AuntBee59
    @AuntBee59 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The one neighbors yard is so messy. That would be Hazels house. I would be upset about that. That house is messy inside and out.
    The person who rents that house to that family needs to kick them out.

  • @Artemis_jay
    @Artemis_jay 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Think I’ve seen my neighbor in the apt directly across from me like 5-6 times in 4 years and it’s always just a “hello” and move on… that’s how i like it personally. No strings no drama lol

  • @woodwage7988
    @woodwage7988 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Really came out of this one that Hazel thinks holyier than thou..
    Maybe if she'd spend alittle more time housecleaning, she'd hear less, see less and spend more quality time with her family..But..it does take 2 to Tango...

    • @cloo6984
      @cloo6984 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh yes, Hazel is something else. Almost as if she is projecting onto Jamie. Not giving an inch..only wanting to control everyone and everything. "Her way, or the highway"..

    • @timothywait9457
      @timothywait9457 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @lindamiscandlon6746 correct Americans are better we have American 's next door

  • @gottabesometime6632
    @gottabesometime6632 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    If ever there was another rerun of The WIZARD OF OZ, ...PLEASE PLEASE CAST HAZEL as the Wicked Witch, no stage makeup or play-acting required.

    • @loulou82-ql1ob
      @loulou82-ql1ob ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That nose is perfect for the role. Definitely no makeup needed 🤣🤣🤣

    • @olepammy5830
      @olepammy5830 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You going to ignore the DV next door then?

    • @catbishop27
      @catbishop27 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The hook nose and all! And your little dog too!!!

  • @buskingkarma2503
    @buskingkarma2503 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Seeing there house made me think it was one of those shows,where they go in and help them clean their house!

  • @Abc-li1ij
    @Abc-li1ij ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The 2 clowns making this documentary makes it seem like the whole thing is a spoof

  • @MultiPurplemist
    @MultiPurplemist ปีที่แล้ว +63

    "Oh go have a bath" that got me 😂😂😂😂

    • @staceyd7986
      @staceyd7986 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They look like they smell of rancid potato water and cat piss

    • @hoosierladyus48
      @hoosierladyus48 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🛀😂🤣

    • @allyw1364
      @allyw1364 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And a Haircut maybe and a Nose Job too? Lol
      😜

    • @toadinthehole8085
      @toadinthehole8085 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He is right going on TV without socks on with hair that hasn't seen a hair comb in quite soon time . And they are oblivious. Dirty people

  • @FielDofroses-bv1jx
    @FielDofroses-bv1jx ปีที่แล้ว +6

    At the time 2:45 in the story, the man illustrating his neighbour made me laugh. This is a work de - stresser for sure. How could I not subscribe? Laughter is the cure for so many things.

    • @asabovesobelow7981
      @asabovesobelow7981 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lolololllllllll made me lololollll out loud!!

  • @trishlong8835
    @trishlong8835 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Funny how Jamie wasn’t limping etc when his temper kicked in isn’t it.I’ve been in a DV. Relationship and can spot an abuser a mile off.He’s an abuser aright

    • @jeffsmith2144
      @jeffsmith2144 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly what they said about witches 😮.

  • @mariewolton7027
    @mariewolton7027 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    The drilling was their downfall - she tripped up and forgot the lie. Nasty people! All she did was threaten violence if she didn't get her way! The UN guy should treat both sides the same - he thanks Hazel for everything but not Jaime when he agrees to something.

    • @victoriajane9163
      @victoriajane9163 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know Jamie grey and confirm he is a bully, he and another man who is now zoeys bf beat my daughter up , because my daughter told him not to film her 7 year old son.

    • @jimm8745
      @jimm8745 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Her husband also caught himself in a lie claiming that their kids had been terrorised so badly by the neighbour that they had to "look if he was outside" before they wanted to go out. At the same time as they had constructed a freaking watch tower used by their kids to stand on to look into the neighbours yard after the neighbour built a high fence so he didn't have to see them.
      So neither his kids, nor they seemed that concerned about the alleged gestures. Instead they made literally EVERYTHING in their power to maintain a conflict.

    • @meanlean3095
      @meanlean3095 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The Canadian way is to watch you’re neighbour so what did they expect ?

    • @katryna192
      @katryna192 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hazel is a nut job

    • @katryna192
      @katryna192 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jamie has done bad things in the past but what has this to do with this , and do not say he was a bouncer so he was trouble from the start, my good friend died he was a bouncer and was hit in the head with a stilloto, look it up Redcar top deck

  • @nukeacitrus883
    @nukeacitrus883 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Bob meets Martin... in a field (?), to find out what he's discovered."
    😆😆😆

    • @skywolfx76
      @skywolfx76 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Martin is a bit of a goofy one 😂

  • @kevincourtney7312
    @kevincourtney7312 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I never liked sharing a wall in my house with the neighbors. I've lived in apartments and three town homes and I'll never do it again. I guess I had a long learning curve but I can't believe they built this kind of home out in the country. It makes no sense to have a duplex or townhome in an area where there's so much space to build. I was in a home once where family had both sides and had a doorway built between the two units and even they had a lock on the door for privacy.

  • @jeremycairns8097
    @jeremycairns8097 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    A. Why is he wearing a beret? B. Why is he wearing a beret with no cap badge????? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️😂

    • @maryearll3359
      @maryearll3359 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why not ?

    • @Mary-p4t1q
      @Mary-p4t1q ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe he is French.

    • @aussiemouth747
      @aussiemouth747 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I like wearing berets and I'm Australian. It's a hat.😊🤠

    • @AngelaGrant-uf9go
      @AngelaGrant-uf9go 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂​@@Mary-p4t1q

  • @HangOnAMinute1
    @HangOnAMinute1 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I don’t see why they move here and trash a home as well as being such a nuisance

  • @lesleymcshanemitchell9651
    @lesleymcshanemitchell9651 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    By Protocal The British Flag should be Flying 1st and the Canadian below it. Him being a Teacher should know this is the correct way to fly a flag

    • @sandrafinbar
      @sandrafinbar ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes, but they don't care and are arrogant. They are an awful couple.

    • @southparkfirefly
      @southparkfirefly ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sandrafinbar Broke the Stereotype that all Canadians are polite lol

    • @melaniewalker5226
      @melaniewalker5226 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@southparkfireflyyes, I was under that impression too.

    • @kburke9615
      @kburke9615 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As a Canadian I would never fly the Cdn flag outside if I was living in another country. I think it's so disrespectful.

    • @skywolfx76
      @skywolfx76 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@kburke9615it's not disrespectful persay, it's more obnoxious. There's not really a need to show how patriotic you are in this country

  • @tinylove1979
    @tinylove1979 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    27 minutes in... Im wondering if its cos Hazel and jamie once had a horrible drunk fumble and theyre trying to cover it up by using all the hostility! But really, they were once ATTRACTED!
    But seriously i feel for Zoe the most, she looks an absolute nervous wreck between all these agressive people. And why has Hazel got too much power? Shes loving the power!
    Also what year was this?! The hairstyles and outfits are blimmin excellent

  • @hrtdinasaurette3020
    @hrtdinasaurette3020 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Most large families I know would give a lot to live in such a beautiful and spacious environment. The helicopter shot showed who was more appreciative and respectful of their good luck. Putting up that decking/Wendy house where they did was not for the benefit of their kids, who would’ve enjoyed it anywhere in that huge, unkempt, garden. Lesson learned : always be polite to your neighbours but don’t get too involved. However, when you have school age kids this becomes tricky to say the least. You are a role model for them and “monkey see, monkey do”. Do not make the mistake of initial interaction with people like Canadian Karen, you can spot em a mile off. Avoid at all costs.

    • @nicolasmalley306
      @nicolasmalley306 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly right . Why build the platform up against the fence when you have acres of alternative space ?

  • @shayleenjoubert2008
    @shayleenjoubert2008 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I would hate to have that untidy unkept canadian garden next to my beautiful neat clean english country garden.😂lol

  • @Autonomous1969
    @Autonomous1969 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Just watched the first few minutes and I can clearly tell they are not telling the full story.

  • @sicks6six
    @sicks6six ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Don't get to close to your neighbours or they won't be your neighbours.

  • @needmoreramsay
    @needmoreramsay ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Its obvious the unemployed alleged wife beater is obviously physically threatening the children. His massive size and the fact he was a bouncer also speaks to the fact he likes to use size and intimidation to control people.

    • @melaniewalker5226
      @melaniewalker5226 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There's a burning pot of rage under that man. In my opinion.
      He has a very threatening stance.

    • @marylyn66
      @marylyn66 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree. And Hazel is not the sort to watch or listen to her neighbor be bullied by her partner.

  • @lucyfox8298
    @lucyfox8298 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hazel called the neighbor a coward, if anyone is a coward it's Hazels husband.

  • @rozbeaumont
    @rozbeaumont ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i lived in kent. a little village winchett hill. i loved it.10 houses but we lived in the lodge we had 2 acres of ground

  • @robynwilles372
    @robynwilles372 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Landlord should evict the Canadians...the state of the yards are day and night... imagine immigranting to another country and treating locals and other people's property in such a way ...disgrracful...involve council etc surely they are breaking rules re the disgusting conditions they are keeping those animals in...

    • @imhere8380
      @imhere8380 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds like the English when they colonized other countries. Yet, I see your point too.

    • @robynwilles372
      @robynwilles372 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@imhere8380 💯 agree... I'm Aussie so appreciate the English elements....just don't understand the self importance of many humans...

    • @personalcheeses8073
      @personalcheeses8073 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@imhere8380They might have English ancestry themselves

    • @imhere8380
      @imhere8380 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is what the European settlers did when they went on to Palestine, raising their fist and smashing it into a 20th c thriving society, murdering and displacing the locals forever.

    • @aprilapril2
      @aprilapril2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They’re using the garden as a garden should be used! Chickens and growing stuff…. Just having Lawns alone is utterly pointless

  • @lmstuber6044
    @lmstuber6044 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just had this with my neighbour for 4 years, neighbour 40 year old bloke playing. Load music for 10 hours a day on his own drinking all day, every day of the week, 27 emails to Croydon council thay done f### all, 3 calls to the police thay done nothing.Had to move in the end.

  • @carolesigrist3780
    @carolesigrist3780 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    How can an ex army officer compare a pathetic neighbour dispute compare it to a war zone 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

    • @albertafarmer8638
      @albertafarmer8638 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He probably never had to go to war...

    • @boo4677
      @boo4677 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s probably worse to be honest because the people who are in the war zone want something. Rather then wanting to be 100% right

    • @Jo-yp8wy
      @Jo-yp8wy ปีที่แล้ว

      He has obviously no experience of dealing with families. Why and how is he relevant?

    • @simonmockford7090
      @simonmockford7090 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It makes interesting telly...

    • @Patriot-js6jz
      @Patriot-js6jz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I see your point but the guy is actually a really distinguished officer, check out his Wikipedia page

  • @Flo1918
    @Flo1918 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a 🇨🇦.. I wouldn't want that kind of people like Hazel to live anywhere close to...and sharing a wall with any neighbor is not a good thing unless both parties are amicable and respectful

  • @rodpettet2819
    @rodpettet2819 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Seems to me that Hazel is the real problem.

  • @mark89p
    @mark89p ปีที่แล้ว +11

    i thought Canadians were supposed to be polite, this one is a poison dartfrog!

  • @ElyHayz
    @ElyHayz ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As the investigators said, both are as bad as each other! But I also agree that Zoe is cowed by her husband. IF Zoe lied to Hazel about the abuse, Hazel supported and then Zoe denied she’d said it, I’d be pretty miffed too if I were Hazel and Zoe is making her out to be a liar

  • @rebeccaandrews8834
    @rebeccaandrews8834 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The "go have a bath" is worth sticking around for lol at 29:12

  • @r1pwave
    @r1pwave ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Only in England do you need a UN military negotiator to resolve a neighbour dispute! 😂

    • @Outnumberedbykidsandcats
      @Outnumberedbykidsandcats 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not even remotely true. Americans and everywhere else have their fair share of crazy neighbours.

  • @tammyboatrite9512
    @tammyboatrite9512 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He slapped her yeah that’s a nice guy 😂

    • @GrandmasAshess
      @GrandmasAshess 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It wasn’t him, it was the Stella’s

  • @garulusglandarius6126
    @garulusglandarius6126 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I think Zoe was afraid that Hazel was going to reveal what Zoe told her about Jamie’s abuse. Jamie’s a bully for sure in my opinion, Zoe came across as terrified of him. I wouldn’t want either couple as neighbours except maybe Zoe.

    • @rachelhart3531
      @rachelhart3531 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This was my thought. It’s telling to me that Jaime is so focused on Hazel and not anyone else. A lot of abusers present themselves as very calm and reasonable in front of strangers.
      Also notice that when the military guy asked if Jaime if he loses his temper in a much more general sense and then Jaime and Zoe made it about wether or not he was violent towards her? That was a tell,military guy didn’t actually ask if Jaime hits Zoe. Zoe was terrified of the consequences of what would happen if Hazel was to ask her about it, not of Hazel herself but Jamie’s reaction. It was never Hazel that Zoe was afraid of.This is an old show and I can only hope that Zoe and hear kids got away.

  • @johnlennox-pe2nq
    @johnlennox-pe2nq ปีที่แล้ว +32

    If the car lights were kicked in surely they kept the evidence/took pictures. The bouncer's temper does indicate something more. The Canadian woman was stupid to interfere with the couples relationship - always a bad move with a next door neighbour; people are fickle and changeable, ie, the blonde woman in this case....
    that's why the bouncer hates the outspoken Canadian wife

    • @imnosuperman9935
      @imnosuperman9935 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      100% agree John!

    • @kathyhellberg
      @kathyhellberg ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I learned that years ago do not get involved in neighbours domestics or take sides especially where violence is concerned

  • @MAGAIMMUNEMOMMA-in1yy
    @MAGAIMMUNEMOMMA-in1yy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Always be kind to your neighbor because you don't know when you may need their help.

  • @olepammy5830
    @olepammy5830 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Sorry a doorman??? That peace loving, reasonable profession. The way he speaks, everything screams controlling. His wife is scared of him, DV is obvious.

    • @GrandmasAshess
      @GrandmasAshess 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you ok? Just because of his profession doesn’t mean he’s controlling and abusive…. The Canadian Karen is the problem here. He seems to be a reasonable and tolerant bloke.

  • @OliviaJones-jn7mo
    @OliviaJones-jn7mo ปีที่แล้ว +14

    One slap is one slap too many mate, NEVER put your hands on a woman (or anyone) especially in anger. Nobody calms down after being slapped unless they're scared of you. She's clearly a very nervous and emotional person. I don't know anything about their situation to speculate, but the fact he said "no,never" and she said "it was just once to calm me down' makes me fel very concerned fo her.

    • @simonmockford7090
      @simonmockford7090 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree but everyone is different and react differently. Dont sit in your ivory tower and tell everyone how it should be.

    • @dananola
      @dananola 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I don't believe either of them. I think that it was more than "one slap". They are hiding something.

  • @louisegethin9951
    @louisegethin9951 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    SUCH A BEAUTIFUL PLACE TO LIVE AND ALL THEM KIDS ,,,, HOW SAD THESE ADULTS MAKE SUCH A MESS OF IT ALL

    • @Teenywing
      @Teenywing ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why are you shouting? Or is your comment so much more important than everyone else so you need to put it in all caps?

    • @Lichtersee
      @Lichtersee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TeenywingKaren

  • @chamomiletea5424
    @chamomiletea5424 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have lived in the States, the UK, and Canada. The myth of the "friendly Canadian" is just that.. a myth. Most miserable.

    • @marystar6021
      @marystar6021 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @chamomiletea5424 -
      I think it depends on which province they're from. I've met some really nice ones, but I've run into mainly rednecked hoser Canadians that compel me to go "Eh?"
      😂😅😂

  • @andrewnolastname2337
    @andrewnolastname2337 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That's got to be the worst negotiator I've ever seen.

  • @grahamlonghurst1227
    @grahamlonghurst1227 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hazel was the problem. Her way or the Highway

  • @privatepracticepsychologis4115
    @privatepracticepsychologis4115 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Seriously? A UN commander and his mate in a helicopter? They hardly represent a threat to National security 😂 Who’s paying for all of this??? This is farcical 😅

    • @hablosinglais-ld1dx
      @hablosinglais-ld1dx ปีที่แล้ว

      hes stealing work from brian cockeril

    • @angelau1194
      @angelau1194 ปีที่แล้ว

      And who dressed him up in the faux army uniform - he looks like a bit of a dick

    • @melaniewalker5226
      @melaniewalker5226 ปีที่แล้ว

      The un are not who you think they are. You should go take a look on the site.

    • @avalondreaming1433
      @avalondreaming1433 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We have drones now you know. Lol

    • @missymarie2698
      @missymarie2698 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is pre drones.

  • @jopeskett144
    @jopeskett144 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He’s got a bad temper and plus he’s angry that he can’t do much because his back problems he seems a bully to me

  • @mirandawrights3196
    @mirandawrights3196 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Can anyone guess what Hazel's real name is?
    Hint: It begins with a K & ends with an n

    • @sandrafinbar
      @sandrafinbar ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol

    • @Adelicows
      @Adelicows ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Karen is an actual name of real people who are reading this. Karen is not an insult. You're no better than a bully. Grow up.

    • @staceyd7986
      @staceyd7986 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I thought it began with C and ended with T 😂

    • @karenglenn6707
      @karenglenn6707 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AdelicowsI’m reading this and am so sick of people assuming that they are funny and original for their “Karen” comments. Like we haven’t heard it before because everyone thinks that they are funny (they are not). I don’t care what her name is, I’m just glad that I don’t live near them. Ps I have never behaved like an entitled person in my life, my mother would still get me with the wooden spoon. Usually people,who have been brought up,to,be accountable and have consequences do not behave like entitled brats!

    • @lackerbitandersson6241
      @lackerbitandersson6241 ปีที่แล้ว

      Typical old " blame it all on a woman with balls" comment ..

  • @aprilapril2
    @aprilapril2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Zoe looks an awful lot older than her years

    • @Pussycatwhiskers
      @Pussycatwhiskers ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cataliaishere😂😂 yep I thought she was 62 not 42 😂😂😂 no wonder she is a bitter nasty woman 😂😂😂

  • @LouLou10000
    @LouLou10000 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When I first saw hazel I assumed it was a crack head 😂

    • @CarolinaEmber
      @CarolinaEmber 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Both couples have aged like milk according to the ages they’re supposed to be.

  • @sandraskellen3172
    @sandraskellen3172 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why are there no security cameras on the properties??????????

  • @lencicollier6492
    @lencicollier6492 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Sorry… NOT sorry… 🤨 That yard of that Canadian family with 5 boys… tells me EVERYTHING I need to know…
    I bet they got “ran out” of Canada for NOT behaving like respectful Canadians! 🤣

  • @xt7190
    @xt7190 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    6 of one, half dozen of another, it's a pity the adults can't think of the kids! Sounds like domestic abuse happened and the Canadian women got on the wifes side, as you would. Then it came back to haunt her! The road to Hell is paved with good intentions!!

  • @itsoccamsrazor
    @itsoccamsrazor ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wonder what the libellous claim was?!

  • @renegade-master29
    @renegade-master29 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    At war with neighbours and corrupt housing associations my life story

  • @AA-uf3bl
    @AA-uf3bl ปีที่แล้ว +4

    *Their landlord should issue them a notice of repossession of properties, and this would bring their protracted bickering to an end.*

  • @ToxicVaccines_HivHoax
    @ToxicVaccines_HivHoax ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Don't these people know that life is finite. Meaning it will end some day.
    Why waste precious time arguing with neighbours over nothing? 🤷‍♂️

  • @rasheed7934
    @rasheed7934 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Look no body is shooting at each other!

    • @prettybullet7728
      @prettybullet7728 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's very refreshing after watching episodes of Fear Thy Neighbor.

  • @laurieday9976
    @laurieday9976 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The Canadians have crazy written all over them. Especially Hazel.

  • @merseymoto9501
    @merseymoto9501 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Why did they meet in a field 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @maryearll3359
      @maryearll3359 ปีที่แล้ว

      Neutral territory of course. Why else ?

  • @heatherlennox3695
    @heatherlennox3695 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Fast-growing and able to reach over 20 feet in height, ... and fast growth rate make golden bamboo a great choice for a dramatic hedge or living privacy fence.

  • @FDCLDN
    @FDCLDN ปีที่แล้ว +27

    The Canadians and their feral kids are obviously to blame

    • @JezaJames
      @JezaJames ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lol, I don't know if they're to blame, but they were pretty feral.

    • @FDCLDN
      @FDCLDN ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JezaJames She built that platform next to his fence to be a bitch, she said her kids were scared of him but they were over his fence watching him like that kid from Deliverance

    • @ldvconvoy4063
      @ldvconvoy4063 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What your problem with feral? Should they be sat Infront of computer screens?

    • @FDCLDN
      @FDCLDN ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ldvconvoy4063 In the middle between feral and sat on a computer all day is a normal child

    • @ldvconvoy4063
      @ldvconvoy4063 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@FDCLDN normal what's normal in this f*cked up world we live in

  • @ABeautfulMess
    @ABeautfulMess ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In America we no longer talk to our neighbors. Lmao

  • @JVSwailesBoudicca
    @JVSwailesBoudicca ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can clearly see now why I would never consider buying a semi detached house !

  • @paulcooke8542
    @paulcooke8542 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The 1970s want there clothes back

  • @sirdigbyminge1639
    @sirdigbyminge1639 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You're only renting. Move. Life's too short.

  • @thepickledfish3631
    @thepickledfish3631 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Seems to me that a woman wanted help with her abusive husband to stop being abused and it all got out of hand.

  • @xt7190
    @xt7190 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Doormen/bouncers are known for their Honesty, Kindness and devotion to their wives! I say this at 14 minutes in. Also I have never met a hostile Canadian yet, you could not find a more laid back and friendly people!

    • @katecrossrhodes
      @katecrossrhodes ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Canadians are classic passive-aggressive

    • @ophiecat
      @ophiecat ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Canadian here. We are just like everyone else, all over the world. Some are horrible, awful people but most are kind and caring. And btw, I think the Canadians on this show are behaving terribly.

    • @ourcreativebeehive
      @ourcreativebeehive ปีที่แล้ว

      Canadians are not hostile😂😂😂. You need to meet my Canadian relatives. Great grandfather used to beat the shit out of my grandmother.

    • @paulzeman3945
      @paulzeman3945 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is the reason they do not live in Canada. Trailers camps were fully booked

    • @AA-uf3bl
      @AA-uf3bl ปีที่แล้ว

      But exceptions do exist. The witch looking Hazel is too arrogant for a Canadian.

  • @andystm
    @andystm ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lol is the helicopter really necessary

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That’s funny, the little boy made the same gesture the way his father makes it, not necessarily the way the neighbor makes it

  • @eileensheeran4464
    @eileensheeran4464 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    6 months later the Canadians are on crimecall lol

  • @amybaby04
    @amybaby04 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love how neither one will admit to being assholes 😂

  • @jeremycairns8097
    @jeremycairns8097 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The blonde one looks like my big toe 😂 and why is the Colonel wearing his beret - especially with no Cap Badge?????? Must be TA 😂😂

    • @francisrambers9
      @francisrambers9 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      HA HA . i WAS NOT READY FOR THIS COMMENT. yOU ALMOST KILLED ME

  • @donnaburrows9236
    @donnaburrows9236 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Scruffy house and garden 😮

  • @CannabrannaLammer
    @CannabrannaLammer ปีที่แล้ว +6

    2:48 is getting replayed more than once

    • @kittykat8177
      @kittykat8177 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol, u made me look and u made me laff, meme 4 sure 🤣😂😅