Dinner Etiquette 🍽️ ASMR • Soft Spoken • Gentle Proper Eating • Crinkly Shirt

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  • Welcome to our dinner etiquette lesson. Today we will learn how to exhibit confidence and excellence in every move you take at the table. You will learn what to expect from your surroundings, how to properly eat and converse during the meal. Thank you for your time.
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  • @SwagimirPutin
    @SwagimirPutin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6280

    Maria, this is a bit advanced for society right now.
    We only just finished learning how to wash our hands!

  • @leeraxd
    @leeraxd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6754

    I’m ready to be queen of Genovia

    • @albinocyclopse9952
      @albinocyclopse9952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Ah ha!.....I understood that reference

    • @sotxjul
      @sotxjul 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Yess!! I love Princess Diaries 💘

    • @Amyvictoria2102
      @Amyvictoria2102 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Omggggg blast from the past right there haha

    • @crispykfc454
      @crispykfc454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      nah i don't get it

    • @gabriellap.7238
      @gabriellap.7238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@crispykfc454 it's from the princess diaries

  • @literalmonkey6535
    @literalmonkey6535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1334

    Me while eating instant noodles out of an plastic bowl on my couch:
    "Finally, something cultured!"

    • @dallasdandigitalproduction393
      @dallasdandigitalproduction393 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lol

    • @garyzod8818
      @garyzod8818 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Id bet she is a harsh disciplinarian, oh my word.

    • @dallasdandigitalproduction393
      @dallasdandigitalproduction393 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@garyzod8818 in your dreams maybe.

    • @calprey
      @calprey ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dallasdandigitalproduction393 ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

    • @Lucifersfursona
      @Lucifersfursona ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@KenzieLynn666 I’m watching this like “this is very relaxing but I don’t respect the culture of baseless banal signifiers behind it at all” like if anyone got mad at me for ever breaking the imaginary dinner choreography rules irl I’d just be disappointed in them for caring about something so valueless lol

  • @elenastidham
    @elenastidham 2 ปีที่แล้ว +391

    I am still not over how spot-on she is. In my first job I was a caterer, we were taught all this when we set up plates, and she even touched on not helping us when we switch plates! We appreciate you trying to help, we really do, but so many accidents happen that way and so many people would even get burns from it. We just ask you stay still :)

    • @bozobozolol
      @bozobozolol 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      bro just give me my damn food and i'll eat it like a pig, who cares about etiquettes

  • @Blue-jo9fl
    @Blue-jo9fl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5761

    I love how she's doing her own thing and not following a trend like some other asmrtists.

    • @kath.andrews
      @kath.andrews 4 ปีที่แล้ว +250

      What trend? I'm curious because I just watch Maria, Latte and WhispersRed.

    • @alejoey44
      @alejoey44 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Paul Harris they’re the same three I watch! (Virtual high five!)

    • @jaiden1520
      @jaiden1520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Paul Harris like popular things to do for asmr videos, stuff that’s like a popular trigger and gets a lot of views

    • @neurotoxic6407
      @neurotoxic6407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +244

      When you consider that many of these "trends" are things that Maria has already done...

    • @daily_gamer6080
      @daily_gamer6080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      Nearly every other asmrtist has followed HER lol

  • @Tfisch1010
    @Tfisch1010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4368

    As a chef in a fine dining restaurant this is bang on. Only critique is the bread plate is way smaller, but you are obviously working with your home dishes and don't have my insane plate budget. This is so well done!

    • @ROFLitzSaur
      @ROFLitzSaur 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      whats the restaurant called

    • @meghanconetta1338
      @meghanconetta1338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +244

      As a waitress in FD I can confirm that the majority of society NEEDS this video lol

    • @Tfisch1010
      @Tfisch1010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +327

      @@ROFLitzSaur why do you want to know where I work internet stranger

    • @abefrohman81
      @abefrohman81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@Tfisch1010 Yessss... tell us where you work.

    • @feelmyfreshlyshavedlegs3979
      @feelmyfreshlyshavedlegs3979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Tasha Fischer So would people be judged at the restaurant if they didn’t show the etiquette like in the video?

  • @amy-bethtaylor2656
    @amy-bethtaylor2656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +710

    If she made more of these, even if they were almost the same, I would watch every one of them. I love this.

    • @SheSaidWalkOnOver
      @SheSaidWalkOnOver 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      there’s a second one about glasses etc!

    • @amy-bethtaylor2656
      @amy-bethtaylor2656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SheSaidWalkOnOver Woah thank you, I'll check it out!

    • @garyzod8818
      @garyzod8818 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Arrgh my throbbing shaft

    • @isaacplata7361
      @isaacplata7361 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@garyzod8818dawg what

  • @itsblitzzz
    @itsblitzzz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1170

    I don’t know how I missed this video but it is absolutely the best!! Everything about it is perfectly relaxing. Thank you, Maria. This is a new favorite. 🤩😍😴😴😴😴😴

    • @georgew5038
      @georgew5038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Probably because she does 40 videos a day

  • @Lowback
    @Lowback 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4609

    This is a lot to keep in mind when I eat my McDonald's

    • @MuItiASMR
      @MuItiASMR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Or my pizza

    • @fefejewell
      @fefejewell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      These comments are giving me life! 😂

    • @nicholaskloss7198
      @nicholaskloss7198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Lowback I hear McDonalds and Wendy’s are running out of beef. So you may just need a salad fork.

    • @Amyvictoria2102
      @Amyvictoria2102 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      U.K. McDonald’s are all closed. We’re all not ok. Send fries 🍟

    • @_feniks_9809
      @_feniks_9809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Or sushi!!!!😋😋😋

  • @imtheonewhobroughtthebeans915
    @imtheonewhobroughtthebeans915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3338

    Maria: Elegantly setting a beautiful table for a sophisticated meal
    Me: Eating ramen on my bed with a green fork

    • @ashkinstherobot
      @ashkinstherobot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Girl I'm drinking wine and eating leftover pizza watching this

    • @plusultrafox5647
      @plusultrafox5647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you for this 😁

    • @SophieJackson1993
      @SophieJackson1993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I’m eating toast with cheese chive spread on my bed.

    • @PixiePrinses
      @PixiePrinses 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      i'm eating ice cream straight out the tub lol

    • @emiliana1767
      @emiliana1767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I'm eating cookies while sitting on a kids chair in the kitchen in order to procrastinate from cleaning the kitchen and reward myself for attempting to clean the kitchen 👌

  • @JosephBrown-cw9ml
    @JosephBrown-cw9ml 2 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    This lovely woman has saved me during, minimally, 6 dinner parties. I’m so grateful.

    • @milliedavis2987
      @milliedavis2987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      literally same, some of these tips are absolutely lifesaving

    • @jbfangirl8529
      @jbfangirl8529 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You guys go to dinner parties? I need more cultured friends 😂

  • @kimberlygiron6907
    @kimberlygiron6907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +748

    I’m going to be so professional when I get back to Olive Garden

    • @gingercashcat
      @gingercashcat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      🤣🤣

    • @trenchcoats4life891
      @trenchcoats4life891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      WHEN YOU'RE HERE, YOU'RE FAMILY!
      Must be Vin Diesel's restauarant.

    • @EmeraldView
      @EmeraldView 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      OMG, I'm so doing this there.
      Maybe even at Applebee's

    • @southbrazosbass244
      @southbrazosbass244 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It's funny because in some small country towns people consider olive garden to be fine dining 🤷

    • @yume.online__
      @yume.online__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@southbrazosbass244 oh no. I CONSIDER OLIVE GARDEN TO BE FINE DINING!

  • @AP-pb7br
    @AP-pb7br 4 ปีที่แล้ว +960

    The future of ASMR are soft spoken videos that actually teach you something , as simple as it may be. This was absolutely wonderful.

    • @brock500rbh
      @brock500rbh 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      like how to eat..... we all have this masted i think

    • @TheTonk44
      @TheTonk44 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      This does take ASMR to a whole new level. Educational ASMR , what a fantastic concept!

    • @monicascorpio4287
      @monicascorpio4287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The Best things in life are free,
      And ASMR is just that. Heaven on earth. Tremendous Maria. Thank you and Love you for touching souls in the most gentle way.

    • @hoffwell
      @hoffwell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed. I'm finished with 'cranial nerve examinations' and other such nonsense.

    • @EdgeOfLight
      @EdgeOfLight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@TheTonk44 a lot of other asmrtists are already doing educational asmr (let's find out, the French whisperer, phoenician sailor, etc.)

  • @zazzycatlady
    @zazzycatlady 4 ปีที่แล้ว +990

    i would love to see this evolve into a mini series. more etiquette lessons seem like such a dream! I was thinking about maria showing us how to eat the most difficult foods with proper (antiquated) grace 💓

    • @zazzycatlady
      @zazzycatlady 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      like spaghetti

    • @wHenblAZESgeticy
      @wHenblAZESgeticy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!!! More please!!

    • @hoyle9986
      @hoyle9986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I TOTALLY AGREE! Informative & relaxing!! Win win!!

    • @ahnigeogerian125
      @ahnigeogerian125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YESSSSSS this was super interesting!

    • @Kaynotnice
      @Kaynotnice 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed!!! So good!! Table manners really are a dying art

  • @BuzBuzxo
    @BuzBuzxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    *All Those Years Of Watching Titanic Has Prepared Me For This Very Moment-*

    • @jackiep2948
      @jackiep2948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂

    • @shantinellfoster4637
      @shantinellfoster4637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly what I was thinking

    • @rachels5953
      @rachels5953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      'Just start from the outside and work your way in' has stuck with me forever 😂😂

  • @af5354
    @af5354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    before asmr was really a full fledged community, i used to watch these incredible slow and meaningful etiquette videos on youtube that were peak unintentional asmr. I haven't been able to find them, this video is a supreme treat! 10/10!!!!

  • @uhohitschellie
    @uhohitschellie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    The scene from Titanic where Molly Brown tells Jack to "start from the outside and work your way in" has informed my ability to use silverware in fine dining ever since. I'm very excited to have Maria teach me more techniques.

    • @uhohitschellie
      @uhohitschellie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      It also blows my mind that these videos are intended for relaxation but they should be considered actual training guides (like the towel and clothes folding, too!) because they are just so well researched and executed.

    • @kristenf8335
      @kristenf8335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hahaha same!!! 😂

    • @Chloe299XxX
      @Chloe299XxX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Michelle Horn same! every time I get confused I think of this scene 😆

    • @Mzmissy215
      @Mzmissy215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly what I was thinking, that scene probably taught a lot of us basic table etiquette

    • @LunaLeea1
      @LunaLeea1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@uhohitschellie also Julia Roberts learning to eat with fine cultery in Pretty Woman!

  • @DadandBubs
    @DadandBubs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    More etiquette lessons please ma’am.
    Speech, writing, introductions, etc...
    I need help being a proper human being.
    Thank you.

  • @nica7747
    @nica7747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    PLEASE MARIA MAKE THIS A SERIES I BEG OF YOU ! WE LOVE LEARNING ETIQUETTE AND ESPECIALLY FROM YOU QUEEN !

    • @Finn959
      @Finn959 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Watch jamila musajeva

  • @tylerx8848
    @tylerx8848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    I never realized how barbaric I ate until watching this lol.

    • @CarlsCozyCorner
      @CarlsCozyCorner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      It's okay to not act like you're disarming a bomb every time you take a bite of salad.

  • @julianacaggiano
    @julianacaggiano 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1012

    She reminds me of Julie Andrews as Queen Clarice in the Princess Diaries teaching Mia (Anne Hathaway) how to be a princess. And I love it!

    • @Lili-sg2ok
      @Lili-sg2ok 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      OMG I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING

    • @gov.joshdoria1812
      @gov.joshdoria1812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Etaa porra

    • @mhikafigarum5970
      @mhikafigarum5970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @NEWARK BRICKS the thirst is real

    • @luthienx8007
      @luthienx8007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Juliana Marie AWWW yeees 💖😭

    • @quietmomentsasmr2771
      @quietmomentsasmr2771 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG! I thought I was the only one thinking that! 😂

  • @labonihira
    @labonihira 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2069

    This video feels like a subtle clap back to those crazy mukbangers 😂

  • @VenusTheShinyStar
    @VenusTheShinyStar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    This video called me a rude slob in every polite way possible but I love how calm and fancy she is

  • @vinodmehra188
    @vinodmehra188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    4:16
    She: Would you like some bread?
    Me : Yes please.
    She puts it back.
    Me : *(embarrassed)* or maybe not.

  • @mariaaniag2385
    @mariaaniag2385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    Maria: eating healthy wholesome foods being elegant
    Me: eating ramen noodles with a spork

    • @RedisFun2
      @RedisFun2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      More truth in this comment then many would admit to!

    • @kelseygirl2481
      @kelseygirl2481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's such a good idea!

    • @madelinetorye9967
      @madelinetorye9967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I fail to see whats wrong with a spork. I think that is a fine idea for romen noodles

    • @jacobchesser3373
      @jacobchesser3373 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Will Loehr this deserves to be top comment lmfao

    • @thebrisaeflores
      @thebrisaeflores 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      **ever so gently, with all of the grace, taps a few drops of Tapatío**

  • @lpdeese
    @lpdeese 4 ปีที่แล้ว +624

    Maria said lemme get y’all together so when quarantine is over y’all have manners 😂😂😂

  • @cayden9224
    @cayden9224 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    The amount of research that goes into these videos is insane and it just proves how dedicated she is to making good content.

  • @BryanBalak
    @BryanBalak 2 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    Maria: We break the cookie into small bite size pieces...
    Me: Watch me fit this whole cookie in my mouth in one bite... 🍪😁

    • @frankfahrenheit9537
      @frankfahrenheit9537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think breaking these cookies into 2 halves would be okay.

    • @Thiccubus
      @Thiccubus ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@frankfahrenheit9537 Two halves is acceptable, anything more and you might as well smash it with a hydralic press and snort the dust.

    • @katybug6572
      @katybug6572 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s not proper.. tsk tsk 🫵 lol

    • @ninab.4540
      @ninab.4540 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Doitdoidoit

    • @metcalfethegod
      @metcalfethegod 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This comment is hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @tabbycatcrume
    @tabbycatcrume 4 ปีที่แล้ว +711

    Is this how we eat in public? Because I can’t remember anymore...

    • @aussiecowboah8825
      @aussiecowboah8825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don’t understand how this comment almost has 300 likes and no replies?🤣

    • @danielwardwell914
      @danielwardwell914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It’s how we SHOULD eat in public! 🍽

    • @zaneshepherd5245
      @zaneshepherd5245 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 funny

    • @Hanohanohano
      @Hanohanohano 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      What is this public you speak of?

    • @-iirosie_yt8693
      @-iirosie_yt8693 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aussiecowboah8825 ikr lol

  • @harisharris5902
    @harisharris5902 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1875

    Maria is like CEO of ASMR

    • @Mzmissy215
      @Mzmissy215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Shes the queen of ASMR actually 😁

    • @Jayliah_
      @Jayliah_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Haris Harris Maria and Latte are the best!

    • @pvdmtubeasmr6095
      @pvdmtubeasmr6095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      More like the CTO: Chief Tingles Officer!

    • @ange1i
      @ange1i 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haris Harris the one and only! :))

    • @zinmomo7192
      @zinmomo7192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes she is! :D

  • @roxybeaudet6777
    @roxybeaudet6777 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I love this vid. I come back to it often. What would also be awesome is if you did etiquette videos for different countries, because many countries have unique things that they consider to be polite/impolite and that would be very interesting and relaxing to learn.

  • @kingworm7168
    @kingworm7168 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Girly I keep coming back to this video like 3 times a week. Can we pleeeeeeeeeeeeaase please get a new etiquette video 🥹 these are so so good

  • @BountyFlamor
    @BountyFlamor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    About what I would like to see on your channel: an afternoon tea role play would be much appreciated.

    • @Magirl-xq4hr
      @Magirl-xq4hr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      BountyFlamor oh yeah I love tea

    • @RedisFun2
      @RedisFun2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She has a few Tea videos. One of my fave is quite awhile ago, like 7 or 8 years ago I think.

    • @ameliedrapeau2719
      @ameliedrapeau2719 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      great idea

    • @johneden2033
      @johneden2033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tea? You mean that stuff we dumped into the harbor a while back?

    • @deanwinchester2613
      @deanwinchester2613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, like a high tea role play.

  • @hannylovely5
    @hannylovely5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    Me, sitting at an elegant table next to my dog during quarantine: So, Molly, please do tell me how your afternoon was. Did you say hello to the mailman again today?
    My dog, Molly: *does not care that Maria worked hard to teach us table manners and is devouring everything in sight*

  • @Walker.Does.Photography
    @Walker.Does.Photography 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    I can’t imagine how people are able to eat like that 😂😂😂 you need to enjoy your food comfortably without it being stressful 😆

    • @CarlsCozyCorner
      @CarlsCozyCorner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Rich people refuse to enjoy things comfortably

    • @frankfahrenheit9537
      @frankfahrenheit9537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Just do it. It is not stressful. When I see people using fork and knife
      as if they wanted to repair their car - terrible. A laugh.

    • @paolamaria399
      @paolamaria399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It's disgusting to have a meal with someone who's mannerless. It's uncomfortable for the people aroud to watch or even to listen if they make sounds when eating or drinking.

    • @janheard3826
      @janheard3826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@CarlsCozyCorner Plenty of uncouth rich people

    • @soirema
      @soirema 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Its not stresfull its beatifull

  • @hsvlove8799
    @hsvlove8799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    THIS ladies and gentleman, this is ASMR

    • @jdovgy
      @jdovgy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It precisely is (also omg, hello! a wild kanjagi found!)

  • @holasarrita
    @holasarrita 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1253

    I knew this would be wonderful as soon as she said “derrière.”

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      always the first thing I look for

    • @cedricdubs2143
      @cedricdubs2143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Timelaps pls :)

    • @Ayraaaful
      @Ayraaaful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jhin le virtuose 1:56

    • @EdgeOfLight
      @EdgeOfLight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      it's funny cause in French it sounds a bit rude lol you would say "postérieur".

    • @rainneko3
      @rainneko3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      2:02
      *"butt"*

  • @betterdaysmacrame
    @betterdaysmacrame 4 ปีที่แล้ว +420

    Thank god, because eating is all I do these days.

    • @gabbyelaine92
      @gabbyelaine92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      emilyballcreative quarantine eating is REAL 🤣

    • @mei-lingthomas1942
      @mei-lingthomas1942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      After quarantine this is what life has come to 😂👌

    • @sydneybrooks6038
      @sydneybrooks6038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here 😂😂

    • @_7f00ff
      @_7f00ff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      guys, how to stop?
      I wanted to be skinny this summer, but food is so tasty and I just NYAMNYAMNYAAAAAAAAAM
      don't do that to us, corona

    • @Psycho.Bengali
      @Psycho.Bengali 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      emilyballcreative ahhh same I’m so fat p

  • @BarrocoTarot
    @BarrocoTarot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +868

    The worst you can order is Spaghettis please don't do that if you are on a special date or try to seduce someone lol. An amazing and lovely video. It was really helpful. Thank you.

    • @leah7348
      @leah7348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      What if you twirl it up onto the fork so it's less messy?

    • @solanum6039
      @solanum6039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@leah7348 Spaghetti will always be messy. 😅

    • @francescoantoniocrisconio194
      @francescoantoniocrisconio194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      You guys just don't know the right technique. I eat spaghetti often and i'm never messy with them

    • @verom8657
      @verom8657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@francescoantoniocrisconio194 same. I'm only messy if I'm super hungry but typically dont make a mess

    • @venanciafox8765
      @venanciafox8765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Wait, I saw this in a movie called Brooklyn with Saoirse Ronan! It CAN be done! 🇮🇹♥️☘️

  • @Deeeeeeeedz
    @Deeeeeeeedz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    It shook me to the core when I learned that salad had to be ✨ cut ✨

    • @moonyshowl
      @moonyshowl ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honestly though, I usually just try -and fail horribly- to stuff it all in my mouth

    • @metcalfethegod
      @metcalfethegod 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @gardevikrath5691
    @gardevikrath5691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +783

    I’ve watched this several times now and it’s quickly become one my personal favorite videos of yours. Keep up the great work and stay safe

    • @doggooverlords3041
      @doggooverlords3041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same it taught me how to have a nice dinner with my imaginary friends😂

    • @karenl.281
      @karenl.281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same. Love ones like this. I play them while I work.

    • @zazzycatlady
      @zazzycatlady 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i came here to make this exact comment!

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree!!

    • @Amyvictoria2102
      @Amyvictoria2102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same this is my favourite ❤️

  • @RockyFloral
    @RockyFloral 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    When I took home economics in 8th grade we had to learn table etiquette and then we went on a field trip to a “fine dining” restaurant experience and my teacher actually graded us on how we acted throughout the dinner. Many people failed..

    • @assmosis4573
      @assmosis4573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Flora Papadimitriou your teach is a boss!

    • @avakay1
      @avakay1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i’m did this in 11th grade!

    • @i___270___x8
      @i___270___x8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lucky! My schools too broke and ratchet to be able to go to a restaurant Lol most of the children there including me are not lucky and low on money with our families and ya know.... But um ... Yeahhhh that's cool!!!

    • @nihilisticbarbie
      @nihilisticbarbie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@i___270___x8 there's videos on TH-cam if you're genuinely interested in learning formal table manners

    • @i___270___x8
      @i___270___x8 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nihilisticbarbie thank you 😊 ill check em out

  • @geoffwilsoncomedy
    @geoffwilsoncomedy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Not only is this helpful, but the "Always, Sometimes, Never" hand position moment gets my head tingling without fail every single time which has started to become so rare. Whatever you're doing here, keep doing it haha

  • @LizCanKnit
    @LizCanKnit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This was great! Would love to see how drinking is incorporated. Conversation etiquette is sorely needed as well.

    • @c3ka
      @c3ka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Conversation etiquette, yes!!! Especially in an age where we've forgotten all about articulation.

  • @iihxney_bear3171
    @iihxney_bear3171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1274

    This feels like something from Princess Diaries.

    • @jackieskellie
      @jackieskellie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      iihxney_bear Maria is an etiquette coach from Genovia 😍

    • @avilestiffany
      @avilestiffany 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Luv that movie. I cross my ankles b/c of that movie lol

    • @asmrstateofmind5122
      @asmrstateofmind5122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So classy 😍

    • @_7f00ff
      @_7f00ff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@avilestiffany Hah, I cross my ankles bc of the "Phineas and Ferb" episode, when their british cousin was teaching Candace, how to behave like a lady.

    • @PPMSwift
      @PPMSwift 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      GENOVIA! THE LAND I CALL MY HOME

  • @ratwurld
    @ratwurld 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1321

    saving this for when i get a rich boyfriend and meet his parents
    edit: this is clearly a joke of course i want to be a rich woman, even if i was i would still have to learn table etiquette?? y’all always bring equality into things lol

    • @Donatherose
      @Donatherose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      margot same thoughts 😂

    • @phumlilemzizi7595
      @phumlilemzizi7595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂😂That's the first thought I had in mind

    • @brooke1685
      @brooke1685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Let me know if he has a brother 😉.

    • @dnr3548
      @dnr3548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Laughed very much, because this is literally my first thought when I was watching this video

    • @neakarlsson3526
      @neakarlsson3526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      But I thought women want equal rights and be independent? My bad, only when it suits, I get it.

  • @geoffwilsoncomedy
    @geoffwilsoncomedy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Commenting again to say that this video must be in the Top 5 best ASMR videos of all time for me, and I've been listening/watching for nearly 10 years... It's not only the position of the microphone and the subtle rustling that makes it feel like actually in the room hearing clothes naturally move, but the soft, patient tutorial/lesson delivery that makes it the most relaxing (and educational!) thing to listen to over and over.

  • @ShuAum
    @ShuAum 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1598

    Thats why rich people are so slim. There are so many rules that you eat too little.

    • @mariabrant1665
      @mariabrant1665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Table etiquette is not a rich people thing. Americans have just gotten too used to eating alone and not being taught proper manners. General table manners such as eating with your mouth closed, using your fork and knife, and not talking with your mouth full are taught in households of all social and economic classes outside of the US.

    • @henry3792
      @henry3792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      @@mariabrant1665 lol whys it always Americans this Americans that. You think mexicans eat their tacos with a fork and knife and follow this bs or Italians when eating pizza? Only snobby rich people use this etiquette for all of their meals. Common sense like not talking with your mouth full or elbows on the table is all you need. Might as well eat comfortably we ain't here for long.

    • @saysHotdogs
      @saysHotdogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      It’s actually cocaine

    • @bigsmokeI408
      @bigsmokeI408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mande Gianfala shit.That actually makes a lot of sense

    • @patopurific26
      @patopurific26 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Fuert NeigtWTF Men ¡

  • @Sangonomiiya
    @Sangonomiiya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1982

    This has the energy of “im Enissa Blanche and im your freestyle dance teacher” but it’s like actually serious

    • @Sigma_Eight
      @Sigma_Eight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Comments you can hear ^

    • @roisinnigcrainn7722
      @roisinnigcrainn7722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +215

      Wasnt it "Renata Bliss"?

    • @someone8240
      @someone8240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I READ RHIS IN HER VOICE XDDDD

    • @mudzette
      @mudzette 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same energy, different output?

    • @elenarodriguez2041
      @elenarodriguez2041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      *politely chuckles*

  • @lindaspratt1152
    @lindaspratt1152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I so appreciate creative, realistic role-play! So tired of phony eye exams, haircuts, makeup sessions and the other usual suspects. I also don't like ASMR folks who are obviously trying hard to trigger by repeating words, tapping, unnatural mouth noises etc, it ruins it for me.

    • @columkenn
      @columkenn ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mukbang are the worst

  • @neonevaa7943
    @neonevaa7943 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    this is the first asmr video i ever watched and it was in 2019. i wanted to learn more about table etiquette and ended up here. every now and then i come back to this video especially when im feeling down. thank u maria

  • @starrygrl4
    @starrygrl4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +447

    Less than 3 minutes and I already can understand I’m doing everything wrong

    • @carladargent6209
      @carladargent6209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bruh same

    • @leileiX
      @leileiX 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too.. I feel bad .-. I think i'll take some notes. xD

    • @cristinarnold
      @cristinarnold 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Damn you made it to 3 minutes before realizing that! It took me .02 seconds😂💚✌

    • @user-ph1dm4hg5v
      @user-ph1dm4hg5v 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Doctor Who: Revolution only when you’re at an expensive and luxe restaurant, nobody eat’s like this at home with their family’s lol

    • @cypher2540
      @cypher2540 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It took me the hole video to understand stand I do everything wrong on the table

  • @Marybringsgoodnews
    @Marybringsgoodnews 4 ปีที่แล้ว +627

    “Do not put the whole cookie into your mouth.”
    😂😂😂

    • @dontknowyou2385
      @dontknowyou2385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mary Brings Good News :(

    • @selenabranch936
      @selenabranch936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Maria : * gently and elegantly eats cookies*
      Me : * inhales cookies like kirby*

    • @Ashlolz
      @Ashlolz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well that's not very good news Mary

    • @tlmctaggart
      @tlmctaggart 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is this based on Gloria Star’s videos?

    • @RebekahFerro
      @RebekahFerro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I felt personally attacked by that one 😂😂😂

  • @Danthonyt
    @Danthonyt ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This is still my favorite ASMR video of all time!

  • @Phoenix-zy1cx
    @Phoenix-zy1cx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just noticed the really beautiful and subtle sound mixing in the first minute and a half. All of the ambient sounds are crisp, while the soft song slowly grows more clear yet does not overpower. It's a masterpiece of sound design.
    I think each ASMRtist develops an audio style. Yours is very distinct and cannot be imitated. I hope you are proud of your artistic sound. :D

  • @thebestyoda
    @thebestyoda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1437

    When you start watching this to fall asleep but end up watching the whole thing because you realise how you dont know any of this

    • @kylietaylor7907
      @kylietaylor7907 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How do u not know any of thia i see people do it all the time and alot in movies hahha

    • @wHenblAZESgeticy
      @wHenblAZESgeticy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Accurate

    • @savagejacob6301
      @savagejacob6301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True true

    • @kylietaylor7907
      @kylietaylor7907 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@evelyng.4083 I didn't just say tv hahaha just incase of others

    • @emeralddragongaming2930
      @emeralddragongaming2930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @heleen b well not everywhere in Europe, rich countries perhaps but where I live now the main and often only tool for eating is spoon and only one for all kinds of food a and a single plate too

  • @hugznotdrugs2
    @hugznotdrugs2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +516

    Maria: How to be proper at the table
    Me: *nodding* in my pajamas drinking out of a Dixie cup

  • @dragonnymphs5882
    @dragonnymphs5882 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Black space for anyone sleeping
    Goodnight x

  • @aldausa
    @aldausa 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i will never get tired of this video, the "soup moment" lives in my head rent free
    tysm

  • @TomPMelanson
    @TomPMelanson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    As a catering event manager, I have to say thanks for the accuracy of this video! Once I learned how to eat with heightened etiquette, I never went back. It's second nature to me now. So glad others get to enjoy!

    • @cecilyerker
      @cecilyerker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tom Melanson it really is so much more pleasant for others around you, thank you for being considerate

  • @MsQuickSilver
    @MsQuickSilver 4 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    This food etiquette/table manners lesson was absolutely divine, Maria. Your uniquely relaxing voice, graceful hand movements, knowledge and self-confidence, it all felt to me as though you were the teacher from Heaven. Tingles galore! Thank you and bravo for a job well done. Keep up the great work, Maria, because in these stressful times we need you more than ever. Greetings from Montreal. 😍💖🌈👍🇨🇦

    • @jeannineasselin761
      @jeannineasselin761 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hi from Montreal !
      Bonjour de Montréal !

    • @awesomedude6249
      @awesomedude6249 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Us wrestling fans don't really like Montreal. Just search up "The Montreal Screwjob"

    • @Glooomyy
      @Glooomyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh hey I'm from Montreal too!:D And yes, I totally agree with this comment💓💓 I took a nap from this video earlier and it was wonderful.=0=💤💕 Anyways, I hope you and your family are safe and doing well!💗

    • @scity3301
      @scity3301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jeannineasselin761 bonjour de quebec

    • @tysmith5653
      @tysmith5653 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Greetings from a place near Calgary

  • @pamburt
    @pamburt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Exactly how I was taught to behave as a teenager for eating out in restaurants, or if invited for a meal at someone else’s home. No, it’s not “rich people “ who try to follow these rules, it’s everyone with basic manners. Of course I’m from the UK and I’m from an older generation, so I don’t think kids are taught this stuff anymore, more’s the pity. It looks archaic to young people now but I still think it creates a good impression if you’re eating out in public (and you’re not just slumped in front of the tv eating TV dinners)! Well done Maria👍🏻

    • @dnr2089
      @dnr2089 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m from the uk too….in my 60s. People today haven’t a clue about table manners. I often see children being allowed to eat with their hands, and it appals me!

    • @megatronskneecap
      @megatronskneecap 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@dnr2089 Luv, anglo saxons and tribes went around eating all sorts with hands - It's not a crime infact it's perfectly normal history. You say 'children' babies and such eat with hands because holding two bits of metal or plastic when eating is stressful.

  • @ara.4497
    @ara.4497 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These etiquette rules make a lot of sense and are very respectful and caring for everyone involved in the formal dining experience. Thanks for this great surprisingly relaxing ASMR presentation!

  • @LC-cj6cn
    @LC-cj6cn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    this was interesting to watch. as a French person I learned to never cut my salad : you fold it, because it avoids making that sound (you know what sound lol). And also I learned we are to never cross our fork and knife (whether it's on the plate itself or even on the side. just never cross them). Also when drinking wine, we ate given two glasses on feet : smallest is for the wine, biggest is for the water (because you should drink more water than wine).

    • @violet20205
      @violet20205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Exact ! Ne jamais couper la salade !!

    • @colbymcarthur7871
      @colbymcarthur7871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Laurys C so interesting! in the united states we never learn about drinks because it’s assumed that that information isn’t necessary until you are 21, so most people have to figure it out on their own

    • @LC-cj6cn
      @LC-cj6cn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@colbymcarthur7871 I learned via my parents when I asked why they had two "wine glasses" but just used one.
      It shouldn't be about "it's wine glass so it's alcohol so you shouldn't know because you're a minor", because it's just explaining why the table is set that way. Also as a kid I used to help set the table for family dinners (the ones you're like 7373838 at the table lol)

    • @colbymcarthur7871
      @colbymcarthur7871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Laurys C Oh that makes sense, my family normally already has our drinks from earlier (whether water, beer, wine, etc), so we don’t usually put glasses down to set the table

    • @mam2896
      @mam2896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True and crossing cutlery upon finishing indicates you were not happy with the meal 😅

  • @misskris62
    @misskris62 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Can we acknowledge that sis made a whole 4 course meal in order to make this video? 🍲🥗🍗🍪 what dedication!

    • @scandinavianjoelmiller
      @scandinavianjoelmiller 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      misskris62 what if she just wanted a good meal and then was like this could be content?

    • @user-pc7ih3cb4y
      @user-pc7ih3cb4y 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who is sis?

    • @scandinavianjoelmiller
      @scandinavianjoelmiller 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Евгений S she’s talking about gentle whispering

    • @47462vladi
      @47462vladi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-pc7ih3cb4y "сестрёнка", обращение к Марии

  • @Bellawhereyoubeenloka
    @Bellawhereyoubeenloka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    Imagine nikacado avocado trying to eat like this

    • @iiredgm
      @iiredgm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      he'd have a mental breakdown half way and start hitting the dishes with a broom while crying

    • @someone8240
      @someone8240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@iiredgm and he would yell at the wait staff

    • @laurenlesley6081
      @laurenlesley6081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Omfg don’t even get me visualising 🤣🤣🤣

    • @fha1758
      @fha1758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Not even remotely possible for him.

    • @cass956_
      @cass956_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@iiredgm LMAO 😂😂😂😂

  • @truestormi8444
    @truestormi8444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I really love this kind of asmr, where you give tingles and new knowledge to people.. thanks maria

  • @QueenofAnon
    @QueenofAnon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    this video has a similar vibe to your old towel/napkin/clothes folding tutorials, and those are my absolute favorite videos of yours to date! thank you for blessing us with knowledge, manners, and relaxation in these trying times.♥️ you are a goddess, maria! 🥰

    • @daisyblu3000
      @daisyblu3000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      cloud nine so true! the pace, voice level and overall gentleness and the “step/explanation” type really do bring me back to those vids. awesome as usual 💕🤗

    • @laineyerin5801
      @laineyerin5801 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I second this! These are the ones I still get tingles from. Thank you so much Maria!

  • @jaredkick1177
    @jaredkick1177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1912

    This would be a lot more relaxing if I weren't furiously scribbling notes...

    • @Zoodude254
      @Zoodude254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      Spongebob to patrick: "Write that down, right that down!"

    • @doggooverlords3041
      @doggooverlords3041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same

    • @ashleylamborghini
      @ashleylamborghini 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @cblacks21
      @cblacks21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jared Kick 😂😂😂 right!?

    • @ShadowQuest0101
      @ShadowQuest0101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Been re-watching this video like I'm preparing for an exam😨

  • @fingergunsflowers1182
    @fingergunsflowers1182 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is so amazing and unique! Usually etiquette classes are formed as stressful and up tight environments but you’ve shown me how it’s actually a wonderful and informative experience ♥️

  • @chuckycarbone3295
    @chuckycarbone3295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    8:40 - 9:30 where she tastes the soup gives me the most intense tingles of anything I have EVER seen. My favorite ever asmr clip of all time. I watch it every night and it never gets old. I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT THIS VIDEO

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- ปีที่แล้ว +2

      OMG SAME really this is my favourite part

    • @chuckycarbone3295
      @chuckycarbone3295 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Cerveza- She is so cute. A true artist. So tingly the eating soup. Literally never had tingles this intense

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@chuckycarbone3295 well I don't really experience tingles but just that part I feel so much warmth and wholesomeness somehow haha

    • @Cerveza-
      @Cerveza- ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well through the whole vid, but especially that part

  • @ClemiASMR
    @ClemiASMR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    One thing I love when Maria does videos like this is you can tell she has put so much time and effort into really learning about dinner etiquette, rather than just pretending for the sake of the video. She's always so committed and I love that ❤️❤️

    • @jimlee4961
      @jimlee4961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tbh she strikes me as the kind of person who already knew this.

    • @ClemiASMR
      @ClemiASMR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jim Lee that’s true!!

    • @jimlee4961
      @jimlee4961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ClemiASMR I think you might be getting a new sub :)

  • @ohokay8392
    @ohokay8392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1883

    me, fingers coated in Cheeto dust “do go on maria”

    • @someone8240
      @someone8240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Me eating takies with chopsticks" yes...how interesting "

    • @nourhanhassanzahran2385
      @nourhanhassanzahran2385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@someone8240 DUUDDEE😭😭💀💀

    • @someone8240
      @someone8240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@nourhanhassanzahran2385 well, it keeps you're fingers from getting coverd in chip dust

    • @kaylyndincler6933
      @kaylyndincler6933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes🤣

    • @ohokay8392
      @ohokay8392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@nourhanhassanzahran2385 he got a point doe

  • @carriebasler6927
    @carriebasler6927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so enjoyed this so much. I am 53 years old and learned a few new things today. Thank you Maria! Been watching for a few years now. Love your work!

  • @nemisiesaidSTARS
    @nemisiesaidSTARS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You guys ever get that feeling that you're a sleeper agent, and these recommendations aren't really "coincidental". It's almost like you're preparing for your next assignment, like I don't have the money to dine at a restaurant that follows these procedures yet here I am.

  • @atmydarkesthours2713
    @atmydarkesthours2713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    When you asked the “ person” if they wanted bread I really expected your husband to take it from you 😂😂

  • @autumnangelino
    @autumnangelino 4 ปีที่แล้ว +760

    my immediate thought was that she's eating in cursive

    • @danithefiend6167
      @danithefiend6167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ha! I adore this creative thought. Too cool.

    • @olgapopova5768
      @olgapopova5768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I'm eating in comic sans then

    • @Elven.
      @Elven. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh, I write in cursive now I have to stay on brand

    • @talscorner3696
      @talscorner3696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I find this thought to be oddly accurate...

    • @Andrea-nj3je
      @Andrea-nj3je 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Autumn Angelino the fact that somebody else thought the same makes me feel so much better

  • @tiyetiye379
    @tiyetiye379 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maria, I think this is my favorite video of yours that you’ve done all year. I’ve lost count of the number of times it’s sent me off to sleep, so thank you for all the work you put into this and so many other videos!

  • @Ineke1466
    @Ineke1466 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love this❤ This is normal for me, Table manners were part of my education and I’m happy that my mother taught me these

  • @ellalala._
    @ellalala._ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    María is the perfect, classy lady. Everything about her it's just delicate, feminine, calming. Not a single bad/fake vibe from her and I feel her genuine and loving personality is what makes her one of the best ASMRtist. She's always so patient and so polite, hats off to her classy ways, a true queen 👸

  • @aimeephillips6571
    @aimeephillips6571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    As someone who's worked in hotel restaurants for several years, I just want to say, this was so accurate and well done! Also I'm so glad you mentioned about not moving or trying to help between courses! 🙏

  • @richardtierney7885
    @richardtierney7885 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please please please teach us how to eat spaghetti properly!!!
    You are the best, Maria!
    You are the most gentle and helpful person in my entire life

    • @richardtierney7885
      @richardtierney7885 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes please! I desperately need the spaghetti lesson

  • @valerieholdman5760
    @valerieholdman5760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She never ceases to amaze me😊🥰👏🏼 This was very educational. I never knew this. Plus she makes everything so mesmerizing to watch💯

  • @madina4568
    @madina4568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    She radiates sunshine, sweetness and she is just such a *Maria* . Simply We all do love her.

    • @jerrysoriano9827
      @jerrysoriano9827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      maria being maria.

    • @kazbar7611
      @kazbar7611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I may be wrong but I thought Maria said at the start of the video, she was going to demonstrate the European and American way of eating?. But it looked to me like she ate the salad and the main course the same way. As a European I'm curious as to what the difference is?. This is not meant as a criticism, I really enjoyed the video Maria. I just wanted to know what the difference is and thought I might have missed it?.

  • @cullensmith1817
    @cullensmith1817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Maria:Total class.
    Me:Eating shredded cheese out of the bag in my bathrobe.

    • @SandraNelson063
      @SandraNelson063 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aren't we all?!?!?!?!

    • @katc6128
      @katc6128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is a mood

    • @pougaroux1709
      @pougaroux1709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Are you making fun of me?

    • @IconiqueBloomie
      @IconiqueBloomie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      WHY ARE YOU CALLING US ALL OUT? WE CANNOT DINE LIKE MARIA

    • @deborah2763
      @deborah2763 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bathrobes are fancy lol

  • @amaravirtue8833
    @amaravirtue8833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Now I'm properly prepared for Friday night reservations at Dorsia.

    • @biscatcat2409
      @biscatcat2409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very nice, lets see Paul Allen's ASMR table manners video.

  • @robertlhamilton5769
    @robertlhamilton5769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This is one of my favorite u-tubes. The table is elegant and so are you. You are a one woman show. You're as good as anyone on Broadway. Not hard to watch you over and over again. Take care!

    • @ARTDEVGRU247
      @ARTDEVGRU247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you want a date with her?

  • @aimeeisgoingtomars
    @aimeeisgoingtomars 4 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    Reminds me of the times when my dad taught us table etiquette, he always said 'never meet your food when bringing it to your mouth, you're not a chicken so dont peck at it' 😂

    • @ivania.
      @ivania. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      aimée my mom would say “food to mouth not mouth to food” 😂

    • @bluesummers5051
      @bluesummers5051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I was always taught to lean forward (like actually slouch) until my mouth was over the plate and a little beyond so that the food wouldn’t fall on the table/floor 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @krystallinum
      @krystallinum 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Maybe I am a chicken, dad.

  • @drdoloresmize5386
    @drdoloresmize5386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    She SETS the trends!! This one was SO lovely!! Crisp white crinkly shirt, with black pants. The black chargers, white plates, and there is not a single spot on that glass and stemware!! Your attention to detail is just exquisite!! I loooooove you doing tutorials!! Nobody is better at it than you are!

  • @CoffeeQueen03
    @CoffeeQueen03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was truly helpful and I feel so informed and even fancy now, thank you so much!

  • @silentdarksar4865
    @silentdarksar4865 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This looks so pretty and elegant. I have zero patience and could never eat like this. I'm like an animal and drop food down myself in a frantic enjoyment

  • @BWater-yq3jx
    @BWater-yq3jx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    correct soup technique:
    1. bring cup to mouth
    2. tilt cup
    3. slurp soup from cup
    4. plonk cup on table
    5. exhale loudly
    (wipe dribble off lapel mic, and repeat steps 1 to 5)

    • @maxwest6595
      @maxwest6595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same with the liquid in Pot Noodles.
      Preferrably done on a building site.

    • @Sparkylizzie
      @Sparkylizzie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You forgot, dip bread in soup, drop bread in soup, fish bread out of soup with your fingers.

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Sparkylizzie
      Well now that would just be poor etiquette... 😏

    • @scottandersen4798
      @scottandersen4798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BWater-yq3jx yes that is something called a joke

    • @TheCimbrianBull
      @TheCimbrianBull 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LMFAO! 😂 🤣 😅

  • @ydotbiggie
    @ydotbiggie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +538

    I’m never going to eat the same way in a restaurant again

    • @nightlizard4770
      @nightlizard4770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Nicholas Estrada 😆

    • @avo11
      @avo11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nicholas Estrada why wouldn’t we :)

    • @xglitchedoutx9964
      @xglitchedoutx9964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Coronavirus

    • @ydotbiggie
      @ydotbiggie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hopefully we can eat at restaurants very soon

    • @Ceanothes
      @Ceanothes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ne venez jamais manger au restaurant en France ! On vous montrera du doigt car on ne doit jamais couper la salade au couteau; on doit la plier. C'est très mal élevé de couper

  • @ac421
    @ac421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Many people (most) were never taught how to eat this way as I think most we’re really never exposed to it. I think this video was a very good idea. Something interesting, relaxing and informative. Thank you!

  • @jay-tr2we
    @jay-tr2we 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1246

    Me: Interesting
    *continues to eat chips in bed*

    • @kawaiimochi7830
      @kawaiimochi7830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jay me tooooo

    • @meow_bastard
      @meow_bastard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jay stfu

    • @jamesmorris4258
      @jamesmorris4258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I legit had a tomato fall out of my sandwich and stain my bed with mustard while watching.

    • @cblacks21
      @cblacks21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂

    • @alyssawinters6632
      @alyssawinters6632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣 my whole life

  • @kategamgee
    @kategamgee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Last night we went out to dinner for the first time in over a year. I ordered soup and as I was eating, this video and Maria's tips came to mind 🙏♥️

  • @raley-nj5ps
    @raley-nj5ps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this video was the first asmr to give me tingles in a long time, i can always count on you maria- thank you!

  • @callmekyle4950
    @callmekyle4950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    Me: so how’s your day
    Maria: *chewing*
    Me: same
    Thx for the likes god bless

  • @casano3
    @casano3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    me watching this as i enjoy my breakfast at 3pm in the same sweatpants and tshirt i've worn for two days in a row

    • @emlish
      @emlish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Two? Those are rookie numbers

    • @WhisperAudiosASMR
      @WhisperAudiosASMR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      casano3 pssshhhh only two? Sissy 🤣

    • @Mzmissy215
      @Mzmissy215 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emlish 😆👏👏👏👏

    • @cedarmusic
      @cedarmusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      casano3 That made me laugh excellent work