Shannen Doherty Recalls Learning of Husband's Alleged Affair Before Surgery

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  • Shannen Doherty opens up about when she learned of ex-husband Kurt Iswarienko's alleged affair on her 'Let's Be Clear' podcast. ET has reached out to Iswarienko for comment. The 'Beverly Hills, 90210' alum, who was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2015, says she felt 'betrayed' by her now ex, shortly before undergoing brain surgery earlier this year. Speaking with ET's Rachel Smith on Wednesday, Shannen says recording the podcast has been 'cathartic,' as she navigates her cancer journey. The first episode of 'Let's Be Clear With Shannen Doherty' is streaming now on all major podcast platforms.

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  • @juliejacobs2151
    @juliejacobs2151 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +171

    We are losing our civilized society. Morals and standards of how we treat others is disappearing.

    • @MarieAnne.
      @MarieAnne. หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Although that might be true, a cheating spouse is nothing new.

    • @JP-he6rq
      @JP-he6rq หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MarieAnne. my late sister when through with a cheating husband this with her marriage,, after 25 years, i feel for shannen

    • @randyhughes8450
      @randyhughes8450 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What's the biggest problem with Shannen is she went through this before she's got involved with married men post was Melissa Gilbert's husband Bo Brinkman (allegedly) when was Julian McMahon her costar on Charmed (who was still married to Brooke Burns who they share a daughter) and then with Kurt who is still married and then all these bad boys that got involved with smoking and drinking and at one time at 18...drugs. I said before I said again to everyone that was on TH-cam if I knew Shannen Doherty none of this wouldn't have happened.

    • @JP-he6rq
      @JP-he6rq หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@randyhughes8450 why would you comment things like this, about a dead woman, you are unbelievable,,

    • @randyhughes8450
      @randyhughes8450 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JP-he6rq No!!!!!!,her exes and Kurt is and you unbelievable of not learning from this Shannen should've learned not to get involved with these guys and she did it again and again and again if you take a look of Shannen's timeline since she was 18 to 36 (when she met Kurt )she could have stopped smoking because smoking leads to cancel she could stop drinking that led to her DUI in the year 2000 she had a drug issue by her first boyfriend that led to her alcohol issues and that boyfriend was 31 years old and she was 18 and she thought he was 28 we the People magazine article with her on the cover in 1993 then she had these flings with married men Melissa Gilbert's husband,Brooke Burke s husband and then she met Kurt he was still married. I really wish this didn't happen to her but she should have had real friends to stop her from doing all this. Cancer is not just about genetics it's also about your lifestyle and Shannen has been trying to look back all the regrets that she's done and try to patch things up with people. You also got to remember Kurt friends betrayed Shannen too and then some of them couldn't handle her cancer they left Shannen too. I want to see this and this is honest, if I was 10 years older and if I was in Hollywood like Shannen if I got to know her I would have married her I would love her cherish her and then the father of her children and we all lived happily ever after. But now those dreams are shattered. The alternative:would I give up my life for Shannen to be alive as well as her father and Luke Perry as well as all the suffering and death (the war in Ukraine,Israel/Palestine)

  • @awomansstory.2019
    @awomansstory.2019 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +341

    My husband cheated for 1 full year before I found out. I found out on my FAMILY VACATION. My family was trying to enjoy our Family Vacation and his mistress was literally tracking us in real time from 2700 miles away! She knew where we were and what we were doing! I have all the sympathy in the world for all the other men and women out there who have gone through infidelity discovery. Poor Shannon. Such a strong woman!

    • @Nono38-jj1tk
      @Nono38-jj1tk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Shannon slept with Melissa Gilbert's husband. Now she knows how it feels.

    • @GameChanger597
      @GameChanger597 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      What a complete psycho. That is very scary. Stalkers are terrifying

    • @catherinesvbialosh7260
      @catherinesvbialosh7260 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      It happened to me too right before and again after many breast cancer surgeries and reconstruction…The only reason my ex proposed to me was because when I had the 12 hour Surgery Double Mastectomy plus taking my stomach muscle to reconstruct to living breasts with attaching from arteries to make the blood flow…Just before the end of our relationship I found out he was buying and looking at juvenile pornography and saving all the pictures on his user on the computer…Plus he had pictures of young twelve year old girls being forced to do unnatural things to the elderly women…My ex is attached to juveniles, elderly women and men…I cried for so long and all this to say I share her pain and I am always praying for her health and wellbeing ❤❤🙏🙏

    • @olgagooddolls
      @olgagooddolls 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@catherinesvbialosh7260omg😢

    • @andreawaibel3584
      @andreawaibel3584 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@magnostadt341 are you the mistress, or the cheating husband?

  • @GameChanger597
    @GameChanger597 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +140

    What she said about her father being a great man and that Not all men were terrible like her ex-husband was very touching

  • @KarenMcgregor-rm4cz
    @KarenMcgregor-rm4cz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +766

    How could he do that? He cheated on her before the surgery! Shes dealing with a major crisis and he cheats on her!thats heartbreaking!💔

    • @Honeymoon1988
      @Honeymoon1988 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

      That’s a man for you.

    • @yourbossismyslave3409
      @yourbossismyslave3409 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      @@Honeymoon1988No. That’s ONE man for you. Misandry isn’t a good look. Bitter much?

    • @Honeymoon1988
      @Honeymoon1988 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yourbossismyslave3409 Shut up.

    • @ninajohnson8389
      @ninajohnson8389 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      Men. Ugh. Bless her 🙏

    • @mikem3789
      @mikem3789 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      It might be, (might) more complicated than that, in these types of situations. Not to justify the actions but to seek explanation of such experiences it might require an analysis of how individuals handle trauma/traumatic events/diagnosis. The man might feel afraid, may experience insecurity within himself. It is a common experience for women suffering from illness, thus there might be more of an explanation then blame or failure as cruelty/insensitivity. Might??

  • @Yahookudi
    @Yahookudi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +429

    How cruel. Shannon is honestly an inspiration for any woman. Imagine going through cancer and the insecurities, body image issues, grief, fear that comes with it and then having to deal with the excruciating pain, grief and self esteem hit that being cheated on gives you. I'm so sorry Shannon.

    • @eileenkenney
      @eileenkenney 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      I went through a betrayal that devastated me and my body was in good health. I can’t imagine going through what I experienced and also dealing with cancer. I respect and admire Shannon so much for how she has carried through this ordeal.

    • @rosemaryoneale6694
      @rosemaryoneale6694 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      This World 🌎 is one Tough cookie!
      Please don’t give up Shannon-Fight to the End.. ❤❤🙏🙏

    • @merle-wq9ir
      @merle-wq9ir 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Unbelievably hard time for her. What a weak worthless man he is. Prayers for her and a great recovery and future. ❤

    • @tiffyjade690
      @tiffyjade690 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I know, that is a lot of pain to deal with. Us women, we love and support Shannen.

  • @justylex
    @justylex 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +591

    Shannen has always been a tough girl, but nobody should have to be this tough. So heartbreaking.

    • @atlanticalilly
      @atlanticalilly 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Well put, I was thinking the same thing.

    • @nancymccool1703
      @nancymccool1703 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      The guy knows her cancer diagnosis and it’s clearly not good. And her life is already full of medical visits, treatments and rallying for the next round of whatever … and her husband goes and cheats. You said it. I hope now at least she can concentrate on herself and not spend a moment thinking about his selfish ass.

    • @Rheingold-l2z
      @Rheingold-l2z 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      He is the one who should be embarrassed not you. Shamed really. But sounds like he wasn’t up to the vows. Guess you’re the strong one.

    • @SinfulScents
      @SinfulScents 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Wow that’s very well said

    • @SinfulScents
      @SinfulScents 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@nancymccool1703wow u tell em!!! Millions of women get the shock of a lifetime loving someone they thought was theirs completely all to find out there’s someone else the whole time:( me included it’s extremely hard to go through but you can go through it I just wish she didn’t have the disease on top of everything else:( it’s not fair

  • @lisa9867
    @lisa9867 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +261

    I have a friend that had cancer and while she was going through treatment found out her husband was having an affair. She survived the cancer and ended up divorced. I have since found out this is not uncommon. A lot of men will leave their wives when the wife is faced with a serious illness. Most women will stay with their husbands when the husband is faced with a serious illness.

    • @carlf.9035
      @carlf.9035 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And why is that?

    • @Lc-sh7uk
      @Lc-sh7uk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @carlf.9035 Why is what? That men are disgusting, vile and selfish people!!! It's rare to find a good decent man 😒 🙄😠

    • @tonimt1712
      @tonimt1712 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      ​@carlf.9035 it's their mom's fault for coddling their sons instead of teaching them to be nurturers and caretakers. So they are selfishly looking for someone to take care of them instead of seeking to take care of the ones who love them.

    • @amrose4214
      @amrose4214 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Ouch, seems selfish cold
      thing he did that knowing she was ill. I been thru many relationships u give all you can but men nevet

    • @delfabrkic9432
      @delfabrkic9432 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@carlf.9035 I imagine their reasons for wanting to get married, have a serious relationship, is to have someone there for them, to care for them. When it's the other way around and your dealing with illness, long term sickness you find out if they actually care enough.

  • @slate49
    @slate49 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +238

    What a strong lady! Man, she had a heavy betrayal.

    • @Lanafox1020
      @Lanafox1020 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That confirms that men are incapable of love. It’s their nature to be predatory and animalistic and it has been scientifically confirmed. What happens is that some can control it better than others. Women don’t need men, men need women, what women need are resources to live happy and stress free. Not low caliber men that are going to strip their youth and happiness and continue with the next, they are parasitic and energetic vampires.

  • @Good-Enough24
    @Good-Enough24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +124

    OMG, I feel so sorry for Shannen, his betrayal cheating on her when she is dealing with all the cancer. What a horrible thing to do, Shame on you!

  • @Ljounieh
    @Ljounieh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +150

    This is shockingly common. Thia woman is a true warrior!

    • @awomansstory.2019
      @awomansstory.2019 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      It is too common and always devastating.

    • @jmtrs79
      @jmtrs79 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Aries usually are

    • @RosieHWeinstein-vl1nm
      @RosieHWeinstein-vl1nm 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She's an absolutely a survivor and a warrior princess at Life and love Kurt I'm very shocked and disappointed in you by betraying Shannen you are so cruel and evil mean dude

  • @Pedro-oy9cv
    @Pedro-oy9cv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +196

    Its amazing she is doing a podcast at this time of her life. What a powerful person she is!

    • @fbueller
      @fbueller 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I hope she spills some ‘90210’ tea!

    • @keshastewart8408
      @keshastewart8408 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Im happy she is doing thus podcast to get the pain out. Bc bottling it up will kill you

    • @s.p.baughman7885
      @s.p.baughman7885 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      To finally tell your truth is cleansing and healing...

    • @user-mx3tl3bh9n
      @user-mx3tl3bh9n 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's dumb

  • @amritasarkar7893
    @amritasarkar7893 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    How does a person live with himself with something like this for two years? The word narcissist gets thrown around too often, but you really have to be without a conscience or remorse to do something like this.

    • @Oystermato
      @Oystermato 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I know it sucks and those people get everything they want …. It’s super unjust.

    • @mortimerbrewster3671
      @mortimerbrewster3671 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What I find pathetic about men or women who cheat when their partner is going through a terminal illness is (this will sound crass) that til death do us part is not 30 or 40 years in the future. He's unable to remain faithful for just a few years more when they had already been together for so many years?

  • @nikkibest5010
    @nikkibest5010 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    I've learned the hard way that unfortunately there are very few people in this world that you can really truly trust.

    • @Kimnguyen969
      @Kimnguyen969 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Very true! We’re living in a selfish and self absorbed world full of its people

    • @LongIslandNY-op8su
      @LongIslandNY-op8su หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yesss, it’s hard to trust people these days omg.

  • @SandiByrd
    @SandiByrd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    She's incredible - I can't believe that it was a FRIEND of hers that he cheated on her with....sorry but you showed your true colors. I'm glad they are on amicable terms and he's supporting her now but nope. She's a better person than me. I don't think I could do it. He'd never hear from me again and neither would the friend.

    • @proserpine8857
      @proserpine8857 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Who is the friend? Is she known?

    • @ckotcher1
      @ckotcher1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yeah who is it?

    • @user-fi7vs2tm4b
      @user-fi7vs2tm4b 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      What horrible people she has around her.

    • @LittleRedMoon16
      @LittleRedMoon16 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@proserpine8857the friend was her husband’s agent

    • @ryno1509
      @ryno1509 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It was his publicist allegedly

  • @nickyb7266
    @nickyb7266 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    The other woman will get her Karma as well as him!

  • @inaj27
    @inaj27 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    My heart goes out to her , she went through a lot ! What sh her the best healing

  • @melissabaltazarf
    @melissabaltazarf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +267

    I hate cheaters and mistresses....🤮🤢

    • @cindyt8278
      @cindyt8278 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women that knowingly sleep with a married man is lower than dirt. 🤢

    • @zanelemofikoe4800
      @zanelemofikoe4800 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Complete a******** they are such horrible people and if done to them they know how bad that crushes

    • @lauraundecided
      @lauraundecided 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Is there a word for cheaters who are men? Mistresses and..?

    • @euniceegan3729
      @euniceegan3729 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mistresses & Pigs

    • @Kimnguyen969
      @Kimnguyen969 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lauraundecidedjackasses who think with the wrong head

  • @dawndemet3331
    @dawndemet3331 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    My gosh, she’s really battling in all ways.

  • @Zoubida-lt8zv
    @Zoubida-lt8zv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    A wonder woman.
    She faces her illness with such a stength.
    I admire her.

  • @holleygrise4667
    @holleygrise4667 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    This is the cruelest thing a person can do to someone they say they love, Why do this when this is when she needed you the most.. I hope karma comes knocked and knocks hard.. to slap this woman when she is down is just the lowest he could have been, what a shame.. My heart breaks for her....xoxo

  • @susandegennaro9853
    @susandegennaro9853 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Wow that awful what a jerk to cheat on her right before cancer brain surgery and stage 4 too!!!! Ug that soon to be ex husband of her’s he is a narcissist to do that to your wife when she fighting cancer stage 4 and having neurosurgery. She is a strong woman but that is a hard thing to go through alone and to deal with cheating and divorce on top of her health crisis omg I hope this guy get his karma for the crap he did to her. I hope she recovers from cancer.

  • @lpg8518
    @lpg8518 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    My heart goes out to her. Having to go through all this AND deal with a cheating husband. I really hope that she gets through this and can find someone who will always be by her side.

  • @quantumhealthandnutrition
    @quantumhealthandnutrition 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I am crying for this woman. I love her endurance, strength, and will to fight. You inspire me beyond anything imaginable. God bless you Shannen.

  • @fionasheepwash2718
    @fionasheepwash2718 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I can relate to the betrayal while having life saving surgery last year i discovered later on that the ex husband was looking online for another woman. I came out of hospital traumatised, trying to cope with his mood swings he moved out nine weeks later, 7 months later he txted me while with the girlfriend that he was divorcing me. In less than a year i nearly died, my husband left, had an affair i then had to leave our home as he was the main wage earner. I moved in with my dad and i have been this year putting my life back together and healing from the trauma. I have more surgery coming in the new year i am grateful for family, friends and work colleagues( i volunteer at a charity shop) and a councillor who have helped me this past year. I know i didn't cause the breakup thats all on the ex.

    • @Allison11111
      @Allison11111 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am sorry you had to deal with someone so disloyal, while experiencing health issues. but you have grow in this past year and he hasnt, he is still a jerk. you are fulfilling your life's purpose of eternal growth.

  • @kathykoziol9416
    @kathykoziol9416 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I love her so much I’ve been a fan since the 90’s. Always bold, strong, and unbelievably brave -especially with all she’s going through. So glad she’s doing the podcast. I pray they find a cure. Cancer sucks!

    • @helenrodriguez-hu7he
      @helenrodriguez-hu7he 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love her and her talents, she continues to be amazing, I'm her life-long fan❤

  • @AlanaByTheShore
    @AlanaByTheShore 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The little girl from The Little House on the Prairie turned into a fierce woman. Go Shannen. May she continue to be strong through her battle and keep her head held high. 💪 👏 👏 👏

  • @solegonz762
    @solegonz762 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Health is #1. May these last days of 2023 be kind & may the New Year be much kinder🦋🙏🌿

  • @salala7640
    @salala7640 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I thought it was horrible to be left at 37 weeks pregnant for another woman. This is way worse!

  • @CTBDF
    @CTBDF 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    My best friend died of breast cancer and he found someone within 3 months they were together years and 1 million dollars in life insurance some men are just scum 😢

    • @g-girlmail6652
      @g-girlmail6652 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      God what a shame he got the life insurance!

    • @anuferns
      @anuferns 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Sounds like a selfish, self centered, scheming, manipulate guy. And for the other woman to go along with his plan is pure evil. Unfortunately alot of these people
      go unpunished and lead happy lives

    • @paulan7218
      @paulan7218 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      it’s very common for happily married men to remarry fast after losing their wife.

    • @Gravy314
      @Gravy314 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@paulan7218Yes, it doesn’t make them “scum.”

    • @clairenicol6924
      @clairenicol6924 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That doesn’t make him scum ffs. 🤦🏼‍♀️ many men struggle after losing their partner and are more inclined to get into relationships. It doesn’t mean he didn’t love her. Stop with the judgement

  • @dallasjansen2226
    @dallasjansen2226 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    How does she go through all that and manage to still look so good?

  • @2TMarie
    @2TMarie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Wow!
    They were together for 14 years, and married for 11, yet her douche bag husband, decided to have a 2 year affair? Why wait to finally get married after dating for 3 years, only to cheat??

    • @naturalbeauty4734
      @naturalbeauty4734 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Because these fools don't really know what they want out of life 😔

  • @kjyoung8684
    @kjyoung8684 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This was heart wrenching! She deserves better!

  • @andreasuda3886
    @andreasuda3886 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Unreal for him to do that to her and then tell her were gonna get through this as a family??!!?? Jerk

  • @torilea8104
    @torilea8104 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Such a shame she has had such an incredibly difficult time, but what an amazing woman. So resilient and strong. I am sure she has here moments but you can see her inner beauty that radiates from her soul. I hope she can get remission and live a peaceful life filled with love. 🙏❤️🌺

  • @Ms.MD7
    @Ms.MD7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I wish her peace and health. I hope she finds happiness and love.

  • @pbwi9756
    @pbwi9756 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    What a positive attitude after going through so much heartache. She is such an inspiration. God bless you and sending prayers.

  • @hazelpearson7807
    @hazelpearson7807 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    The adultery is bad enough but when you discover it’s a friend who your husband repeatedly told you he couldn’t stand it’s a double betrayal as you struggle to deal with what did they say about you when you were confiding things to your friend, hurtful beyond anything you can imagine, a stranger would be less cruel. I found out about the cheating when the news was all about Shania Twain and her adulterous husband with her best friend and you think if it can happen to that beautiful talented singer what chance do us ordinary women have.

    • @dianep6791
      @dianep6791 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Personally, I laughed at my husband when I found out he was cheating 😂. She was fugly, I think I hurt his feelings 😂. We worked it out, but damn, you're supposed to upgrade not downgrade.

    • @queensylvanas4556
      @queensylvanas4556 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ​@dianep6791 I'm laughing that you took him back. Have some self respect lady 😅

    • @drea4195
      @drea4195 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Cheaters will cheat, a woman could be as beautiful and amazing as a goddess but at the end of the day if she married a cheater, he will cheat. I think it's more the thrill of forbidden fruit and "getting away" with it, than who their spouse is.

  • @kelleywyskiel3478
    @kelleywyskiel3478 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    We were diagnosed in the same week, same cancer, same treatments and surgeries. And I was so in awe of how loving and supportive her guy was since mine had me feeling so very alone in my cancer. Then this and I’m so angry for her because she loved him so very much.

  • @jameswallwork2493
    @jameswallwork2493 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    God I love this Woman. No matter what shit is thrown at her she just picks herself up and bloody deals with it. Shannen keep on fighting you wonderful Lady ❤️

  • @maroosk
    @maroosk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    She shines through it all❤❤❤❤

  • @gmomof1739
    @gmomof1739 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Typical. Going gets rough guys take off. Far too few men remain faithful all through out

  • @2010hotmale2010
    @2010hotmale2010 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    So sad… it really makes you think about marriage and if someone is with you because THEY REALLY LOVE YOU IN AND OUT, or if you’re the best of what’s available :-( Oncology doctors have to discuss this fact of being left/divorced to married women when they get diagnosed with cancer.
    Source:
    Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center
    Summary:
    A woman is six times more likely to be separated or divorced soon after a diagnosis of cancer or multiple sclerosis than if a man in the relationship is the patient, according to a study that examined the role gender played in so-called "partner abandonment." The study also found that the longer the marriage the more likely it would remain intact.

    • @floflo8153
      @floflo8153 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mhm

  • @Rose-kp4ow
    @Rose-kp4ow 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    There are amazing men just like the fathers we love so much. Don't ever give up 🙏

    • @coolbreeze5683
      @coolbreeze5683 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It's terrible she went through this. Hopefully she can lean on family and friends. She doesn't need any men to complicate her life at this stage and give her stress that will make her health even worse.

    • @naturalbeauty4734
      @naturalbeauty4734 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah right! 🙄🤦 Men like her father don't exist anymore!!!

  • @koolaid1982
    @koolaid1982 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    THATS DEVASTATING TO KNOW WHEN YOUR GOING THROUGH THE HARDEST TIME OF YOUR LIFE THIS SLIME BALL COULD PULL A 🤬 STUNT LIKE THAT 🙄

  • @n.sundari889
    @n.sundari889 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This just shows that you never really know someone even if you’ve been married for however long. You can’t trust blindly.🧿

  • @Persephonie22
    @Persephonie22 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Poor Shannen Doherty and all she went through with her illnesses. Now to top it off her cruel, heartless, MF ex-husband put her through. She didn't deserve that humiliation. Well give it time he will definitely get his karma.

  • @debrafrakes6479
    @debrafrakes6479 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    The millions of people that love her hopefully will carry her through.

  • @kimking5928
    @kimking5928 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I married a man after three years of dating. Three months after our wedding, I found out that he was in a five year relationship with a woman even before he and I got together. I asked him why he would do such a thing, he said that I was the one who provided financial security. That we were a power couple while the other girl was a dead end. I filed for divorce four days later. I called the girl and apologized. I told her I had no idea she even existed. I haven’t dated since.

    • @soniachambers6460
      @soniachambers6460 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What a leech and a pathological liar. I'm so sorry.

  • @atlantidaunderground
    @atlantidaunderground 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    omg I'm recovering from a benign brain tumor and have experienced similar things in my dating life... they make me feel "unloved" as she said. I thought I was the only one who can't find a good guy during this hard time I'm faced with this illness. I loved watching Shannen Doherty in "Charmed", "Heathers" and "Beverly Hills 90210", etc I was diagnosed in 2015 too.

    • @coolbreeze5683
      @coolbreeze5683 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Seeking a romantic relationship with a man will only make your life worse while you're recovering. I hope you have family and friends that you can lean on for support.

    • @atlantidaunderground
      @atlantidaunderground 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@coolbreeze5683 tbh I had a feeling that I'm better off single and I prefer to not risk it as well, I was just very hormonal from these meds they had put me on, that's why I was seeking. Yes I have a good family and they support and care for me.

    • @KrispyKrunchee
      @KrispyKrunchee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are lovable and deserving thereof… I pray he finds you! ❤

    • @atlantidaunderground
      @atlantidaunderground 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@KrispyKrunchee aw thanks :)

    • @KrispyKrunchee
      @KrispyKrunchee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@atlantidaunderground It’s true. Just saying it. ❤️🙌🏾

  • @sarahs8110
    @sarahs8110 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I think he was there waiting for her to die so he can benefit financially and he didn't have the guts to leave her while she was battling cancer. He was expecting her to die quickly and maybe she wasn't fun to be around with her sickness maybe he needed a better life, a nice healthy woman he can have a future with, without hurting Shanen but she stayed for too long I guess for him to hide his double life. Im not saying he's right or wrong, I'm just trying to analyse the situation. But it must be heartbreaking for her, especially that she expressed how worried she was for him in case she dies, she thought he will be devastated beyond repair. The guy had already a backup plan! She was dead wrong about him.

    • @somethinggood-sy1ed
      @somethinggood-sy1ed หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm saying he's wrong

    • @MindfulAshley
      @MindfulAshley หลายเดือนก่อน

      How tf is what he did NOT wrong?

    • @sarahs8110
      @sarahs8110 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MindfulAshley if you read carefully again you will understand, I was curious how can a person ends up doing something this disgusting to another human being, thus my comment speculating and depicting how he built this heaetbreaking situation for her. May she rest in peace. I'm glad she found out and lived her last months in honesty & truth surrounded by people who genuinely cared for her.

  • @josephrocha142
    @josephrocha142 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    It takes two. The woman who Shannon's husband cheated with knew Shannon was sick but still had an affair with her husband. Wicked!

    • @thecommentsection4913
      @thecommentsection4913 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      True but only Shannen's husband made a commitment to Shannen. Shannen is right to focus on him.

    • @Randysgirl
      @Randysgirl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      The other woman made no commitment. Shannon and her husband made a commitment to each other. He is the one that broke that. The other woman is not blameless, but he is the one that chose to cheat. I can't imagine what woman would want to be with him after knowing all of this.

    • @gigilamoore2656
      @gigilamoore2656 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Not as wicked as the husband who promised to be there through sickness and health. To be a mistress, a married man has to offer you the role.

    • @wendyeskelin8765
      @wendyeskelin8765 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed. They are both f'd up. The man for stepping out when the wife needs him so much, and the woman knowing full well there was a wife at home needing her husband but she only cared about her selfish needs ( whatever that may have been ) I don't understand how a "mistress" can find a slime ball man attractive in ANY way, so it's probably about narc attention, financial gain, or jealousy. No matter how you slice it, it's all a disgusting, mean, selfish, scumbag move.

  • @cecep7477
    @cecep7477 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I feel so terrible for her. Suddenly my problems mean nothing to me anymore😢

    • @clairsmiley8053
      @clairsmiley8053 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @cecep7477 Awww what a very sweet thing to say.❤

    • @cecep7477
      @cecep7477 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@clairsmiley8053 no one deserves to have and suffer cancer unless your a pedo i wouldn’t wish it on anyone.

  • @klwm6432
    @klwm6432 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Well said, Shannon! I wish her better health and love!!

  • @Fairgreentube
    @Fairgreentube 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The energy we give out comes back to us, no one is exempt.
    A secure attachment personality style wouldn’t feel comfortable having an affair.
    A fearful avoidant attachment personality style and also a dismissive avoidant attachment personality style would feel comfortable.
    A pre occupied anxious attachment personality style would entertain an affair only because they have a fear of abandonment but they would feel very uncomfortable having an affair even if they know their partner was stepping out of the relationship. This is because pre occupied anxious people act out of fear (they enter the affair going against their core values so it creates even more anxiety) so those usually fall apart very quickly.
    Here’s the thing, since a secure attachment personality style has an empathic heart with healthy boundaries they’re NOT going to be attracted to someone already in a relationship.
    The only personality types you will attract if you’re having an affair are either fearful avoidant attachment personality styles or dismissive avoidant attachment personality styles only.
    There’s your karma you attract that energy you put out and attract either a narcissist to participate in the affair with you or you attract an empath without healthy boundaries also known as pre occupied anxious. Either way the affair will be more work on your part to keep it alive and you will either be a parent to an infant or you will be the infant throwing tantrums.
    Either way it’s not a desirable relationship to enter into. Trust me people are coming clean with their experiences in affairs and it’s never as easy going and fulfilling as it seems.
    Shannon is beautiful she’s strong and she has a wonderful support system family friends fans she has more people loving her so she doesn’t need that creepy guy.
    When Chris Watts and Nicole Kessingers affair was exposed, nobody though that was sexy they thought it was creepy weird and psycho especially after he murdered his family. Let the cheaters be creepy by themselves with the mentally handicapped people that are okay with being in affairs.

  • @tamalebutt
    @tamalebutt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Being alone sucks, being with a pig is even worse. I wish her the best and happiness. Be kind to yourself.

  • @violettabicycletta331
    @violettabicycletta331 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Good luck Shannon - you are strong and happiness is waiting for you at the end of the tunnel !!!. Don' t forget ... you are not alone ... most of us have been cheated on despite the fact that many of us will never know it ! . You are so beautiful ... he does not deserve you.

  • @sharonevans1257
    @sharonevans1257 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    No fun going through sn illness by yourself! I sm facing an illness by myself
    Really don't have any friends and family close. They day they sre there for me, it really hasn't happened. Going through doctor appointments by myself...sucks.
    Facing financial things by myself. Its scary!

    • @janigirl2296
      @janigirl2296 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awe 🥺 many have no idea how deeply overwhelming it is to be alone

  • @lpgilber
    @lpgilber 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I remember when she was a young troubled actress. But now I see real growth because of her illness. I just wish her all the best now and want her to know that she is such a fighter.

    • @denisealexis4025
      @denisealexis4025 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! She really wasn't a nice person back in the day. Sorry but she wasn't. However I do see some growth and a softer side coming out now since she got ill.

  • @user-ms3jz7ub7n
    @user-ms3jz7ub7n หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    3 marriages, 3 divorces, her father's illness and death, career struggles and her own illness...she had a very difficult life but she lived it on her own terms. She fought up until the last minute...may she rest in peace for eternity.

    • @sylviac5229
      @sylviac5229 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She was a beautiful and strong woman. God Rest her Soul 🙏🏼

  • @self3459
    @self3459 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    God Bless Shannon!

  • @peggybare6043
    @peggybare6043 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So sorry you have been through so much Shannon I pray you’re resting in peace now praying for your family and friends ❤😇🥰🙏🌷🌹🌷

  • @gingerty9628
    @gingerty9628 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Happened to me but it wasn't cancer i had. I was very ill and had many difficulties. My ex left me for another woman. Come to find out he'd been seeing her for awhile, even tho he denied it.

  • @tinjadog
    @tinjadog 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes, Shannon, there really are decent men still walking this earth. My father was like yours - very faithful to my mother even through his years of alcoholism. It took me too many failed relationships, but I finally found one. Keep your heart protected, but open. ❤️

  • @tableit7667
    @tableit7667 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Love Shannen, praying for her! She's precious! A strong woman!

  • @mikem3789
    @mikem3789 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    May God’s love comfort and reinforce her self value, reaffirming that she is a beautiful woman who deserves to be loved/cared about/for by family friends and acquaintances.

  • @christiesmith00
    @christiesmith00 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Wow I really admire her, she is very strong

  • @mariaborren255
    @mariaborren255 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm so sorry I went through something similar I love someone also with my whole heart I only want to say take care of yourself and remember you're worth it don't forget. ❤

  • @SarahAndrews24
    @SarahAndrews24 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Omg, what a lowlife her husband is, he kicked her when she was at her lowest, not saying she isnt strong: Just that when she needed him the most, he hurt her the most.

  • @brendarudman8806
    @brendarudman8806 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    She has a great mindset
    Nothing gets her down

  • @gaiagiongo1614
    @gaiagiongo1614 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    For those who highlight HIS difficulties...being afraid is just an excuse. Of course, this situation is complicated and everyone could handle it differently. Cheating is not among those accectable reactions. If the gender were inverted, the woman would be insulted by almost everyone. It's bitter that women are supposed to be the natural caregivers when men have health issues, but in the contrary situations men just "might feel afraid". Is the courage hidden in ladies panties?

    • @soniachambers6460
      @soniachambers6460 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They're not afraid... Just repulsed or apathetic mostly. It's not them that's dying...

  • @zumbadiva99
    @zumbadiva99 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I admire Shannen for being a strong woman.....she has been through so much and then this affair happens...take it as a blessing, a sign of God and move on with your life. You don't need that kind of garbage in your life....stay strong!!!!

  • @packrat1210
    @packrat1210 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So sad that she was treated the way her husband treated her. She really needed someone to stand by her as she was going through her cancer treatments. She is a strong woman.

  • @louloumagoo2512
    @louloumagoo2512 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Marriage just isn't worth it. Live your own life, free.

  • @nadiachet724
    @nadiachet724 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Don't worry he will get punished for it...what a shame what a selfish ex.. poor Shannon 😞..may God give you strength 🙏

  • @jacquelinenicole4740
    @jacquelinenicole4740 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I know about this, except liver surgery. I am so sorry that you are going through that. In my prayers for healing and smooth recovery. 💙

  • @blunttalkingoffspring
    @blunttalkingoffspring 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How heartbreaking 😢her husband cheats then her marriage ends then she has surgery 😢omg she is such a strong person..an inspiration..I hope 🤞 she finds the love 💕 of her life. ❤

  • @daisysiason8973
    @daisysiason8973 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey... Mister Kurt...!!! You really had a hard heart as a rock !!! How could you ledt behind Shannen in that condition? Without giving her financial support which she has supposed to have as a wife in distress of her condition....Yes...she was right that you were a rock ...a hard hearted rock....

  • @kaseys7433
    @kaseys7433 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    My dad did the same thing to my mother. He was actively trying to replace her as she was dying and she knew it was happening. Obviously I can’t stand my father. I don’t think all men are like this at all, but there certainly are quite a few dirt bags out there.

  • @kittyhawk12
    @kittyhawk12 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Even i would divorce my husband i would take care of him,poststroke,elderly,what happened til death do us part,unbelievable she has to put up with that shithead,where r the morals any more?

  • @adiemissworld
    @adiemissworld หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How could he do that to her? She is such a wonderful woman. How dare he?? Then not want to divorce and hold out until she dies, so he doesn't have to pay anything for the settlement. I hope he didn't get her home or her precious pet. I hope he didn't get anything that was hers. He was so selfish and fake. Him just waiting for her to pass is pure evil. She was the strongest, most honest person I've ever looked up to. She gives me hope through her strength

  • @user-yn5sx6nt8h
    @user-yn5sx6nt8h 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sorry you had to deal with that... chemo and radiation are tough without that bs. You are a strong women❤

  • @tineejohnston9737
    @tineejohnston9737 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She’s so admirable on her super honest revelations ❤️❤️❤️ and 🙏🙏🙏 for your Shannon Doherty ❤️😇😎

  • @wordswordswords8203
    @wordswordswords8203 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. That absolutely sucks. I think Shannon would be glad that we are still watching her videos.

  • @MaiRaven3
    @MaiRaven3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He wasn’t good enough for her. She was so beautiful.

  • @bettygarrido7621
    @bettygarrido7621 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shannon I’m so sorry you had so much to deal with. You are one of the strongest person I’ve ever known. God bless you always.

  • @SinfulScents
    @SinfulScents 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think Shannon should run for President😮 she has ethics, she has strength, she has willpower and a beautiful heart! And judging from all these comments, we all look up to her!!! You’re a hero Shannon ❤

  • @shiwakuseven5859
    @shiwakuseven5859 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She deserved a faithful husband, who took his marriage vows seriously.

  • @jafrasar1
    @jafrasar1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Praying this brave angel has wings of steel, to remain steadfastly healthy today and always.

  • @RonitPirtle
    @RonitPirtle 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Praying for Shannon

  • @Honeymoon1988
    @Honeymoon1988 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    Typical guy. I don’t put anything past anyone. Nor do I truly trust someone.

    • @coolbreeze5683
      @coolbreeze5683 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I agree...I hope she can get support from family and friends. Most guys look at relationships and marriage as a transaction and they don't care if you get sick, etc. They only care that they aren't getting what they want any more.

    • @annabeauty7084
      @annabeauty7084 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@coolbreeze5683 rational women do the same

    • @shawnasantos228
      @shawnasantos228 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@annabeauty7084 Ah not quite.

    • @lisasamz8282
      @lisasamz8282 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love your comment

    • @Tracy-rf7ri
      @Tracy-rf7ri หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯

  • @tinalaplaca6638
    @tinalaplaca6638 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    There are good men and there are bad boys. If you are lucky to have a good one then yay for you for sure. Those not, you can cry, it's ok to cry. We all may find Mr. Good Guy somewhere, sometime in lawour lifetime. I believe there is someone for everyone. I'm so sorry that Brenda 90210 has been ill. I wish her well. We admire her a lot

  • @teffanyjohn
    @teffanyjohn หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am so sorry of her passing, and about what her husband did while going through this of course I went through something similar I did not have cancer but my children passed and my husband was having I believe to affairs among other things. But then it just doesn't even matter at the end about them. So proud how she handled it, for me he was out of here. And did not look back because I have three precious souls I have to take care of my grandchildren. Rest in peace Shannon and I'm so sorry and for her mother I'm so sorry, much love peace and light for you

  • @vh8674
    @vh8674 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are an incredible woman. God bless you. We will pray for you.

  • @dmax64
    @dmax64 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Watching this makes me very thankful for 38 years of marriage where neither one cheated. All the best Shannen

    • @mariaseidi4023
      @mariaseidi4023 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Im schock with how men can do that,when you need then most,i also been desapointed so much ,problaly because She could not have sex with him at This time.

  • @TheEmj1986
    @TheEmj1986 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Such a beautiful & incredible woman, God bless you richly Shannen!❣❣❣

  • @friend12348
    @friend12348 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Rest In Peace

  • @colleenshea2293
    @colleenshea2293 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Seek integrity in others and yourself.

  • @violetmtali4269
    @violetmtali4269 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is really unfortunate, but I have heard such stories before. My heart goes out to Shannen. ❤She is fighting for her life and needs her husband to be her ROCK. However, her husband is a human who has been in a TOUGH situation and has given into temptation. There is no justification for adultery. However, being a caregiver for a LONG time is very draining and many people sadly cave into unhealthy behaviours like drinking, drugs and affairs to cope. May GOD heal Shannen and strengthen her 🙏🏽

  • @bonnieanderson1029
    @bonnieanderson1029 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I know how you feel! Mine did it for 18 yrs with multiple women.

  • @skot-theskeptic
    @skot-theskeptic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Would NEVER cheat on her! (or anyone actually, but Shannon is awesome!)