work week in my life: wedding planning is not going well
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ม.ค. 2025
- Sooo this whole wedding planning thing isn't exactly going well....
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Not a criticism AT ALL, just a reminder: other people's opinions are useful, but it's you and Zac who are getting married, so it should be you and Zac picking the venue, no one else. Don't pick somewhere you're not happy with :)
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Clancy you deserve a wedding you want. It’s one day that people are there for you, you don’t have to cater to others 🥰
I'm sure you'll find the right venue, Clancy. Your lip color looked great about 15:00 in.
Maybe Zach should try some Cetaphil for his blackheads?
I get what you’re saying about wanting to please everyone with the wedding but it might also be good to think that you’re the only one who will even be thinking about that day for the rest of your life. Every guest that comes will talk about how awesome it was for like a week maybe and then forget about it for the most part. You will constantly be remembering your special day and looking back at pictures all the time! Of course, do what you want but I look back at my wedding and regret certain parts where I didn’t do exactly what I wanted and you can’t exactly re-do it🤷🏼♀️
Just a suggestion. Plan a cheaper wedding and use the rest of the money for a down payment on a house. I feel like some people spend way too much money on the wedding day and not enough for your future after the wedding. Plus small weddings are less stressful. Congrats again!
I completely agree!
100%
Yup!!
Honestly, I was so overwhelmed with wedding planning & the cost of everything that we decided to do a small beach wedding in St. Augustine. I bought the cheapest package $1,500, told our friends & family to show up and after we went downtown and partied. We didn't pay for food or alcohol or anything. It was great! There were about 50 of us bar hopping in our wedding attire. My hubby & I stayed the week for our honeymoon. Less than $5,000 total. It was great!
Alright Clancy, I have to disagree with you here. It IS you and Zac's wedding and that's it. The loved ones you invite get the privilege of celebrating this joyous occasion with you both. Customize it the way you want in a manner you both feel comfortable with affording.
I got married in 2014 and have been to several weddings for family and friends since. Still to this day, people tell us that our wedding was one of the best they've been to (we handed out glow sticks and had an EDM block of music during the last half of the reception 😆). But still, I'm sure not everyone thinks that way about our wedding. Even if no one said that, I am perfectly happy with how that day went and have NO regrets because we did our wedding the way we wanted to. ☺️ You guys will figure it out and it will be perfect!
I agree with you! Clancy you and Zak are getting married. It’s your special day together! Your family and friends will have a great time no matter what happens! If you’re happy then that’s All That Matters!!!!!!
Saying that the wedding guests get the PRIVILEGE of celebrating with you is so soooo true!
Love how you worded that it’s the guests privilege to witness your wedding♥️
Coming from a person whose wedding was “destroyed” by in laws, and bad vendors…please don’t put others desires and wishes before your own. You and Zac are the only ones who matter. Otherwise, resentment and hurt feelings are a given.
ONE advice I heard from all the brides (and grooms) after their wedding - that this is about their love. Sure, it is about being a great host to your family & friends as well - but all of them said NOT to compromise.
Planning your wedding is a good exercise in setting boundaries! Remember, it is a day to celebrate your marriage. You can’t meet everyone’s expectations, so don’t even try! I think it’s good that you have the comfort of your guests in mind, but beyond that, people will just be happy to celebrate with you.
As a bride who had there family member make a huge donation to our wedding I completely understand what your saying. Now almost 4 years later the biggest advice I can give is be firm in your choice. If I could do it all again I would of just got married at the court house! Lol whatever you decide it’s going to be beautiful! Try not to stress. Love you!
Elopement wedding packages. Photographers usually have them on their website and they help you plan it all out. Cheaper than a 10k wedding.
But you do want makes you happy.
It’s a memory for Zack and you to celebrate every anniversary.
Id skip the target brand (especially pore strips) and go with CeraVe cleanser and moisturizer. It’s the best quality for drug store prices!
Yes I use cera ve and I love it
Agreed 100%
Agree
agree! Love cerave
"they steel the recipes" lol Zac is such a guy. For the blackheads he needs something with salicylic acid in it. He should also put on sunscreen everyday. ( thank you Dr dray, and momma Jones).
Personally I'm like you and over the years I don't buy ally skin care at the drug store anymore.
I can promise you, not every bride feels that “this is it!” feeling. I am terrible at trying to envision what things will look like when there is nothing there to work with, but that is where the process becomes magical in turning virtually any venue into the vibe of your dreams! Wedding shows (which I’m unsure are still a thing 🤷🏼♀️) were so fun and provided me with samples and package prices from suit/dress rentals to booking our honeymoon. I am the world’s most indecisive person I know. These shows gave me so much insight to, not only figure out what I wanted, but also what I didn’t want. The possibilities are endless and sometimes that’s what makes it hard. But truly, you already know what you want and that you won’t settle just for the sake of making a decision. It will all come together in the end and then, before you know it…it’s a new beginning ♥️
As a person planning a wedding coming up in May you are 110% correct. About the budget, planning a day/weekend for EVERYONE, finding the perfect venue, budget, budget, and budget. Love how you put these things into words. Kudos to you for talking things out with not only us, but your mom, and Zac. Not that it's any of our business. And you are right. Nobody has the right to shame anyone for what they spend. It comes down to what you want and it takes a balance between what your parents want too. They want the best for you. Aim high. And the most important piece of advice friends and family have told me is that once you see the venue, you will know. And choose the elements that are most important for you and Zac for your $$ to go towards. I did not melt when I saw my wedding venue. I just knew. Plans will constantly be updated up until the big day. Have fun and enjoy the process. Good luck!!! :) :)
Don’t worry Clancy , the important part about your day is that it is with the person you love . You got this it will be amazing !enjoy the journey! 🥰
Could not agree more!! Thank you!❤️
I think you need to pick what you want. Don’t worry about what your mum wants. She has had her own wedding, now it’s your turn. Whatever you pick, it will be great. I have gone to all different types of weddings with big budgets, small budgets, outdoor, indoor, etc and I had fun at all of them with friends and family and the couple on their big day
In the end it’s about the two of you. Everyone is going to have an opinion but years from now they will be memories of how special your day was for you to look back on. That day goes by so quickly just remember to enjoy it, take everything in & don’t let any negativity cloud the day. Congratulations!
clance, if you were on one of those “say yes to the dress” clips on youtube and you were saying you wanna please your family and friends and etc everyone would be screaming at you in the comments 😂 we love you girl, do what you wanna do and what makes you happy because at the end of the day everyone here, and hopefully everyone in your personal life will be completely happy seeing YOU happy.
Haha thank you!! ❤️❤️
Good morning Clancy, I have faith everything with the wedding planning will all fall into place. Thank you 😊 for the Saturday VLOG, you made my Weekend.
I do too!! Thank you ❤️
Kudos to u Clancy for not being selfish and realizing there are other people in both your guys’ lives that have been waiting for this day as much as you have!
Clancy, its your wedding. You should pick the venue you love. Don't settle for what others want you to do
I had the SAME type of wedding planning experience. There were a lot of *animated* arguments. At the end of the day because of covid we had to keep it super small and simple.... but now we are throwing another wedding celebration for our family and friends. For the exact reason you said- in some families it is more about everyone else celebrating you than it is about the two of you getting married. About the venue- for our big celebration I was having the hardest time finding a venue. I saw two dozen until finally I found one that I absolutely loved. It's a museum and has everything we wanted- AND the $$ goes towards bringing public school kids in for field trips. Felt like a huge win- I would say keep searching till you fall in love!
Clancy! Love that you covered that story! We were feeling the same stress about not having the day be for us so we eloped on 2/22/22 in Denver. We had a perfect day. It is not a cheaper option though as we are currently planning a huge party. I guess the benefit is that we care less about the details because that party is for our family!
Ugh talking about the wedding planning brought me back. It really is so stressful to make everyone happy. And it’s so true, it really is everyone’s day! I found it so hard to say no to my parents when they were the one giving us the money.
I spent about double than what I expected too on my budget, but I honestly don’t regret it at all! I’m so glad we did it. I had two babies quickly after I got married and now life is all about them, as it should be. But I’m glad I got to have my special day 😊
My sister got married in the middle of August in Texas lol. It's definitely not unusual for it to be hot here and we did have the reception indoors, but we just dealt with it and it was fine! Maybe you could do it in between spring and summer so you can have what you want but those who don't want it to be in full on summer can be satisfied. It sucks to deal with everyone's opinions.
Clancy - the first thing I realized when I was planning my wedding is that you cannot make everyone else happy. The day is about you and Zac. I know there’s a lot of pressure from those around you because they love you and it’s well-intentioned but do what you and Zac want not what other people want. I understand wanting everybody to have a good time and I assure you that they will. ❤️
Clancy, YOU ARE A GROWN WOMAN and don’t let anyone ANYONE tell you what should be done at YOUR wedding. It’s honestly making me annoyed because people know that you are a sweet a caring person but don’t let them take advantage of that. You do YOU queen. It’s Zac and Yours day and everyone else is just there to witness that. Chin up and straighten your crown 👑
I felt the same pressures and stress. I ultimately decided the best option was to completely switch gears and go destination! It changes everyone’s expectations and honestly saves you a ton of money!
It’s YOURS and ZAC’s wedding!!!! What I learned in the process is you can’t please everyone. Do what makes you happy💗
Clancy. It is YOUR wedding. Do what you want to do to make zac and your day special because at the end of they day… your guests are there celebrating you
We apperciate your weekly videos Clancy! We know how hard working you are! Please do not feel bad about just posting one video!! I look forward to Saturdays because of you! Also I hope everything with your wedding comes together! I am also working on planning mine and totally understand the stress and wanting to please everyone else!
You are such a gracious and kind person. Weddings are tough. Honestly anyone that says it’s easy is lying to themselves. I get how you feel. My husband and I wanted to be married on Halloween. We fought a lot of people for it. But we kept our foot down because that mattered most to us. Essentially what I learned from creating my wedding was you pick your battles. Think of things you “can’t live without” and compromise on the ones that the family is influencing you on. It’s so tough. But you got this. Hang on the Zach when it hard because at the end of the day, photos of ur wedding will be looked at the most by you two. No one else will look at those as much as you too will be. I promise it’ll work out okay. ❤️
Please, please, please - don't settle for your wedding. You will always remember that and its very clear the day means a lot to you! You and your Mom seem to have such a close relationship, and being her only daughter, she is probably over the moon about it. And its so nice she is helping with a huge chunk $, but there are boundaries that need to be set and you need to make sure the money isn't conditional in wedding planning decisions/input. Just remember this is YOUR day - it will be most special to YOU, no matter how fabulous you make it for your guests. Your guests include: your friends - who are preoccupied worrying about their own wedding, life, pregnancies, jobs to actually care how spectacular your wedding is and/or your family members - who are just happy to see the girl they watched grow up get married.
You can always hire a wedding planner or if you have a maid of honor, have her help you so you’re not so stressed. Also allow your family to help you too!!! You got this Clancy! Also traditionally the bride’s family is supposed to pay for the wedding anyways. My parents did but not everyone has family like that. Good luck!
I think it will get a lot easier once you just lock in the venue. I know it’s hard because there’s pros and cons to every venue and you go back and forth. But the fact is there is no such thing as perfect and you’ll never find exactly what you’re imagining. And once you just pick a place and book it, people can’t keep giving their opinions about it or trying to sway you a certain way. At least, that’s what helped for me! All of the venues you’re considering are gorgeous and you can’t go wrong either way!! ❤️
You can always do destination wedding for close friends and family and then do a large reception for when you get back or at a later time. I have had lots of clients do that since covid hit. That might help open up venue choices for the reception that might be more affordable since you won't need dressing area or ceremony arbor and can get a way with tapas and finger foods. Also, have you thought of a brunch wedding? Omg, those are becoming my favorite. That makes it more affordable too. For food options think shrimp & grits and chicken & waffles on skewers, mimosas...no worries about people leaving early or getting drunk. Some places may also offer discounts for that time slot because it isn't as in high demand. It also gives you your whole honeymoon night to actually enjoy your honeymoon night. :)
Im going to share the best wedding advice I have ever heard: you are never going to be able to afford everything you DO want, but have the privilege of having your day and not being forced into anything you DON’T want! As a former people pleaser, I can sympathize with you Clanc. But please just remember that just because your mom is pitching in money because SHE wants to, does not give her decision making power in your special day ❤️
Clancy, I went to a wedding at Pinecroft at Crosley Estate, you can get married outside and have in indoor reception - just putting it out there and the wedding was beautiful
I used to deal with blackheads/enlarged pores. What I’d recommend is a small facial steamer or if you have a dehumidifier that will work too…let the steam hit your face for about a minute before applying skincare or trying to extract the blackheads. Steam opens the pores and helps product absorb into your skin. I love the Peter Thomas Roth sulfur mask for active breakouts or blackheads, apply that after steaming. It’s kind of pricey ($50ish) but a jar will last years, and you can both use it!
If he’s open to it, a lot of massage places offer introductory facials for about $60-70. They’ll usually extract blackheads while steaming, a nice facial will help reset his skin.
Also, as far as the venue…don’t compromise on your wedding day. It just causes resent towards the person you compromised for. Maybe you and your mom could find venues you both like, then go look together?? Just to try to explore options.
At the end of the day it’s YOUR decision and Zac’s decision. Don’t let others take that from you!
I totally get you on trying to please others. . .even when it goes against what you want. I have done this all my life. . .and I’m over 50! Try to break free of this now. Trust me. This is probably the one thing I regret most in my life. I cared too much what others think. Eek!
Thank you for this advice ❤️
I'm over 50, as well. Eventually you get to the age where you just don't give a rip about what others think. It feels good!
I agree with the others-also over 50. You do what you want to do. It’s YOUR wedding not theirs. I was a people pleaser and finally decided I was tired of that. Now I do what I want-if people like me they do, if not it’s fine. I’m finally me and don’t worry what others think.
Absolutely! I agree...we had a budget and really kept to it. My mom and I have very different taste and I finally had to say "Mama, we have different tastes...please let me be me!" and she finally got it! Whew!
Totally totally agree almost 50 and learned a lot . Care less what others think.
It’s you and Zac’s wedding and you should pick the venue you and Zac want! I got married in 2017 and it was just how my husband and I envisioned it and people still tell stories about how great it was. And the people you invite should feel honored to be at the wedding you and Zac planned! I would highly suggest a day of coordinator or a wedding planner! So many little details on the day you don’t want to be worrying about!
I admit I'm the same way when it comes to wanting to make everybody else happy, but at the end of the day , your wedding day is your wedding day. Put whatever will make your day special first bc I'm sure your family/ guests will want the same for you and Zac! Sending love from Georgia ❤🙏
You should get the feels when you walk into the venue. You haven’t found the right one yet. Have you considered having the wedding in the fall, which is a great tent weather wedding.
Have you looked into local parks and the zoo? Sometimes if you split up the locations it can be cheaper. You can rent the space for the wedding for very cheap and then you have the flexibility to book the reception wherever you want and get a restaurant to cater the food.
I struggled with being a people pleaser in my wedding planning too. We mentioned wanting to elope SOOOO many times because the planning was so stressful. Trust me when I say I felt so much better when I finally reached the point where my husband and I said "this is OUR wedding, we're doing what we want". It may seem harsh but it's the day YOU'LL remember forever. Yes everyone else will be a part of it and you don't want them to be uncomfortable, but make sure it's not something that doesn’t excite you. Plus everyone told us after our wedding was over that it was the best wedding they'd ever been to so, stay true to what you both want, peoples opinions on the day itself may surprise you! Just because they can't envision it doesn't mean they won't enjoy it when the day comes.
I know it's stressful, but just remember at the end of the day that as long as you are marrying Zach, it will be special and memorable. Just don't compromise your desires too much because you deserve what you want on your special day❤
Pick the venue you like. As a Mom who paid half of her daughters wedding it was done out of love and to help her make the wedding she wanted. Your Mom will enjoy the day wherever you choose if you are happy
Your hair looks amazing, loving the Clancy videos, your beautiful stunning and inspirational. Your one video a week is more than enough as you always produce phenomenal videos! Don’t feel pressured or experience burn out for us by releasing two weekly videos. One of the best, if not the best TH-camr ever. Hope wedding planning will improve. You will get there. Continue to ask yours and Zac’s family for advice and recommendations. Why not invite them to come wedding venue shopping with you every once in a while to get their opinion, like a fresh pair of eyes and thoughts etc. Love you so much. Lotta love. You and Zac were made for each other. Your both so cute and amazing together 😘💕❤️🥰😄
Aww! Thank you so much for this sweet comment!!! 🥺💞
I got married in the fall of '20. It was SO stressful and I did it all by myself until the last three weeks or so. By the end of it, I was so over everything that I didn't really enjoy myself or the actual day. I don't understand how people say their wedding day was the best day of their lives, personally. Mine wasn't.
Destination wedding with your closest family and friends is the way to go!
I agree!
I can relate to your feeling about “the feeling” with walking into a venue with my dress shopping experience. The first dress I tried on was exactly what I always wanted and it’s the one I got. There were no tears of joy, but I loved it. Everyone thought I was anxious because I was showing total emotion but that’s just how it was!
I totally feel you on all of this! I can attest, I was in the same boat as you, not knowing what venue, not getting that "feeling" from just one, tears, stress, sweat, the works. Once I picked one and just went with it, everything else fell into place and now I can't even imagine picking the other ones I was considering, because I'm making mine into exactly what I want and imagine it to be. It will all work out, deep breaths!
The Hagrid side by side Clancy!!!! I died! Lolll Hilarious. Another great video!
The tent/marquis for the wedding venue, is truly stunning!! 💕
Ugh ikr?! lol *sigh*
This is coming from someone who is also planning her wedding, and my mother tried to do the same thing. But remember, it's your and Zack's big day; you don't have to please everyone, and my favorite advice that my wedding planner gave me no is a complete sentence regardless if someone doesn't like it or not.
I totally understand about the wedding budget! My parents, grandparents, and I are all splitting the venue cost and then my fiancé and I are also paying for the other stuff. What I thought would be our total cost spent/budget at the beginning of planning is what the total venue cost is.
Also. I’m getting married in June 2023 and have not even used a wedding planning book yet 🤣 all of our big vendors are booked so don’t feel bad about not opening that yet.
I also found wedding planning and trying to make everyone happy stressful! My parents paid for about half so I definitely wanted to take their opinions into consideration and sometimes we didn't see eye to eye. As someone married for 5 years now - looking back our wedding was fun and I enjoyed it however what brings me so much more happiness is being married. Those things that felt so important wedding planning no longer seem so important. My advice is to pick only a couple things which are very important to you and Zach that you can't compromise on and the rest just do the best you can in your budget.
It is so kind and generous of your mom to give you money.
I know, I’m so so so grateful!!
biore strips are great for black heads, they pull them right off. If you end up going with a venue you are not excited about you will be surprised that when the day comes it won't even matter. having a wedding is so beautiful, it's a love fest because all your guests are so happy for the two of you. celebrating the beginning of this new family in the world will take center stage.
for Zac - Paula's choice 2% BHA liquid exfoliant! Minimizes pores and I definitely saw a difference with my blackheads. Also, pretty much anything with salicylic acid will help. I use the CeraVe SA Facial cleanser and it leaves my skin so smooth
My best advice is to pick the venue where the people gave you the best vibe. Most of it doesn't matter. I picked my venue in a day, my dress in 20 minutes, all the flower in an hour.
Your mom will be happy because you are happy. Keep looking and find the place you love!
I thought I had found my dream venue when I walked into the very first venue I toured. We booked it for our ideal date and thought the hard part was over! However, 5 months before our wedding, we got a call that our dream venue was limiting guest count due to covid. Long story short, I had to scramble to find a new venue. In the end, the day ended up being absolutely beautiful! All of that to say, there is no perfect venue - it’s truly about what you make of it. There are so many different things that go into making a wedding beautiful and I promise it will all come together!
I just got engaged a week ago and already stressed on making the day good for everybody and not just what me and fiancé wants. Thankfully not getting married until spring 2024. Make the day for you guys. It’s lowkey the only day for it to be all about you
In the world of TH-cam this is the queen of vlogs ✨️ 💕
I feel you on the wedding stress!! It’s hard trying to juggle what you want with everyone else’s expectations of your big day! I’m a cincy gal and navigating wedding planning so I’m right there with you on all of it. I would try to just focus on what you and Zac want and know thats what truly matters. You’ve got this girl 💕
I'm also planning a wedding in Cincinnati! I feel your pain, but it will be ok! I'm planning a multicultural multi-day wedding, and I've been standing firm on sticking with my small budget and not letting my family run over my fiance's family and what my fiance and I want. We will get through it!
Zac had me dying 😂 😂 the working from home get up. I just know everything will workout perfectly for your wedding because you both deserve nothing more than absolute picture perfect happiness ❤️
Thank you!!💞
We all love you, Clancy ♥ Wanting everyone to be happy is a valid feeling. I want you to know you and Zac are the ones to make the final decisions, and the reality you will never ever be able to make everyone happy. It's truly an impossible task and it will stress you out. If attendees complain, they don't respect you and what you want.
I know for me I realized how much I hated planning and not being able to delegate tasks and plan for a larger group of people, so I know I will not have a traditional wedding haha. And I don't want to spend all of my money for a one day thing, so I'd rather get eloped and then celebrate in a different way with loved ones. Based on what you want and what you love, do what you can to love your wedding day! ♥
I agree with you about the wedding stuff Clancy. Even though everyone in the comments says it's about the bride and groom, i understand thinking about others rather than only yourself. I'm in the same boat. I want my parents to be happy with where their donation for my wedding is going.
Clancy, please, please make decisions for yourself and Zach. Don’t try to please everyone!! It’s your day.
I’ve struggled with being a people pleaser and so I relate to what you said about wanting to make sure everyone has a good time during your special day. But I think that while of course you need to keep in mind necessary accommodations for your guests, everyone will have a wonderful time as long as you are happy! Hopefully wedding planning gets better and I’m excited to see what comes next! Love ya, Clancy! 💛
Thank you!!❤️🥰
I actually love the once a week vlogs! I work full time and often travel for work too and a once week vlog is often all I have time for.
thank you for being so honest about the wedding stuff. i've commented on your videos before that i got engaged the same day as you. i totally feel you on the stress on the cost of the wedding. i'm an extremely frugal person and i have enough money saved to spend on a wedding. but that doesn't mean that i don't feel guilty about it. it's such a conflicting feeling - wanting to have a nice wedding where everyone has fun..but then the guilt of the money. my original budget before i started planning was 10 grand. now i'm like yeah that's a joke lol. food and drink costs more than that alone..... just know that you're not alone in this - i hope that makes you feel a little better
I thought 10k sounded like a reasonable budget too and now I’m like noooope 😂😂
WE GOT THIS THOUGH!!!
This is for Zac, the Paulas Choice 2% BHA toner is a god send!! Anything with salicylic acid will help with pores and blackheads. Its a chemical exfoliant which is 10x better than the physical exfoliant from target which can actually damage your skin more!!
I burst out such an ugly laugh when you mentioned Hagrid 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
I would love to see a GRWM video to see all the makeup you use ❤️
When you look back on your wedding you want to remember it as an amazing beautiful day! No regrets! ❤️
Best part of a Saturday is spending time with you, Clancy! Thank you for sharing your life with us :)
Please keep looking if you are not completely happy. You need to pick what You love. I also thought I wasn’t the type who would find the “venue” and I did. The minute I walked in I was convinced. Like everyone says yes of course you have to think of everyone but you will be the only one remembering it for the rest of your life. Everyone else will forget after a week and will have fun no matter where you have it.
You have to try to think out if the box , I heard some friends hired an area on country side and did outdoor simple set up with flowers etc for ceremony and then had food vans hired of bbq with live band ....quite fun and out of the box....its quite nice as well If the place has a swimming pool
I can understand being a people pleaser myself and trying to make everyone happy which is why me and my boyfriend have just decided to get married by the justice of the peace and save any money we would have on a wedding towards a down payment on a house hopefully. If my parents want a party they can throw one for us but we dont expect anything. We’re at peace with our decision. Feel better Clancy and good luck! 💖
Girl its your wedding day! You should pick where you would like it. I'm sure your mom would do what makes YOU happy and YOUR day! My mom also helped so much in paying for my wedding and supported what was reasonable and made me happy
I could totally see you two getting married on a beach some where with just a few people! How romantic and WARM 😍🤪 and a big celebratory party with all the friends and family when you get back from the honeymoon!
Your wedding is going to be beautiful and I am so excited! I know first hand how stressed you are right now, but it's going to be one of the best days of your life and everything will be perfect!
That was so funny when ya’ll told the story about Zac’s bad joke and then your reaction. And he DID know what you were referring to. 😂😂😂
I love how he knew it right away 😂😂
Weddings don't need to be expensive. ITS NOT everyone's wedding it's YOUR wedding your day. You can have an amazing day that YOU want within a good price range.. I really wish you the best with it.. I hope you will have exactly what YOU want.
this is so random but I LOVE your handwriting. When you showed those little snippets from your diary I couldn't help but admire how neat your penmanship was haha!
Love your vlogs :) They make Saturday mornings so much fun! I'm wedding planning too (getting married this September) and picking the venue was also stressful, but after deciding on one the other things slowly started falling into place. If you end up doing a destination wedding, I would live vicariously through you! You wouldn't have to cut the guest list, it's actually better you invite more people because more people might not be able to come, and destination weddings are cheaper so you can have more people without it being super expensive. I could totally see you getting married on the beach. Good luck with everything though, listen to your heart, you got this!!
thank you!!
I wept into my husband's arms the day after we got engaged in 2020 because Covid was just spreading and lock downs were happening. We had no idea what we were gonna do.
We ended up having 12 people at our wedding because we caught Covid 8 days before our original 60 person wedding. Ugh...
I look back and wish we would have waited for the wedding we wanted. At the end of the day, we are so happy and the point was to get married, but trust me, have the wedding you want (without getting too stressed!)
My fiancé and I got engaged in September of 2020 and our wedding is now less than a year away and we just found our wedding venue last week because I too did not get those butterfly feelings at any of the venues we saw until the very last one.
It will come to you, keep looking exhaust all options!
Destination wedding all the way!
Happy weekend 😊thanks for the smiles😃 hope you have a great week and have fun with the wedding planning 😀
Thank you!! 💞
I understand being considerate to other people’s needs and that’s certainly a factor that you can’t ignore when planing a wedding, but make sure you are not putting other people’s needs and wishes over your budget or your own needs because it’s not fair on both of you. Try to find a balance but don’t think you have to comply to everyone because again, it’s not fair that you can’t be excited about your own wedding because of external pressures.
Good morning, Clancy! So glad you post videos on Saturday mornings! I look forward to them weekly. 🌷 I know your wedding will all come together and be fabulous! 💕 I so understand the stress, though! Hang in there, hon! 💜
Thank you! 💞💞
Clancy! I am a cincy bride getting married at triple crown country club. It seems like everything you’re looking for plus it is so much more cost effective than these venues! Check them out- call and schedule a tour because there’s not much online about it. It’s the perfect mix of outside yet comfortable
Inkey List.!!! It’s the best skincare brand I’ve used for the price.! Also a silicone face scrubber from Amazon! They are like 4$ and just so great!
Happy Saturday! 😁😁 this just made my morning better! About to watch while I get ready this morning. Hope all is well❤ much love!
Aww that makes me so happy to hear! Thank you! 💞
The Clinique men’s line is amazing!!! My husband uses it and it works wonders
I am a crater face. I feel that zac. I use Nupore clear bar soap, Curology at night, and The Ordinary's niacinamide for breakouts and scarring. Make sure you're using sunscreen during the day to prevent any future scarring and wrinkles. I've spent my whole elementary, high school and college life coming up with a plan that even just slightly helps prevent breakouts. I don't let my boyfriend's face touch mine when we kiss because i don't want him to make me breakout lol. Also, be careful using exfoliators too often or too roughly, exfoliation should help with the blackouts but it's also known to cause micro-scrapes in the skin that leads to scarring/wrinkles. Moisturize!!
Thank you Clancy for showing your diary entries during rough times, it's nice to not feel alone feeling stressed about career choices.
bruh the waiter pulling the picks out of zacs steak gave me irk
CLANCY, please do the outdoor wedding with the tent 😍 so pretty!!