Thappad | Post Mortem | Spoiler Alert | Taapsee & Anubhav Sinha | Anupama Chopra | Film Companion
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- If you've already watched Thappad, starring Taapsee Pannu, and want to dive into the thoughts behind the making of this film, watch Anupama Chopra in conversation with the actress and director Anubhav Sinha to get all your questions answered. Note that this video has SPOILERS.
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Just saw the movie ....nd what a movie it is !! I think every Indian should watch it bcoz it happens in every Indian household in one or other way . Kudos to Tapsee nd whole team 👏🏻👏🏻
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Kon hain yeah rahul desai 🤔🤔🤔
flop movie!!
Guys could you provide me a script?
The dialogue that hit me was, "woh pyar vikram ki biwi ke liye that, mere liye nahi."
Taapsee's pooja scene is one of the best monologues I've seen on film.
I am a victim of that one thappad. Though it was not the only reason for my divorce, but I know the Crux of theses emotions and I remember that one slap so distinctly, it's nightmarish. Anyhow, life moved on to a better place finally.
Please show him this movie... Atleast if he feels bad n says sorry ....the least that can happen
@@bhagyamaravind7176 he has already apologized. And he knows it was wrong. But .... It can't be undone. So it stays as a scar. It's healed, the pain maybe. But the scar remains.
@@Sos-soundsofsilence I understand
Thappad can not generalized for all situations. Creating one hypothetical situation and painting one black or white inference on the whole intersectionality of human emotions and its play in relations is a terrible disservice to the young minds. Human relations are best understood or explored in the shades of grey. Extreme objectivity in the realm of passion, love, faith and psyche of humans is very rudimentary and base. That conscious Thappad in Kabir Singh, though a culmination of extreme human emotion and unjustified violence bordering madness, was still so real and relatable in the context that even if you change the genders in the situation it would showcase the vulnerability of soulful relations. While Taapsee's thappad may not likely be a conscious decision by that partner, howsoever both are wrong but can not be compared at a deeper level. Preeti had to judge that thappad by a man who almost went insane to be with her and was ready take on whole world for her and in that process didn't even care for his self respect in front of her family. There has to be some minimum space for redemption, reparation and forgiveness for emotional security in any relation. Even she slaps Kabir twice in the movie. Even parents slap their children. The extreme sociological narrative on relations devoid of any semblance of psychological, biological and anthropological elements is damaging young hearts.
@@milan35151 itni English to nhi aati but i completely agree with you. In this movie it has only shown women being the victim of domestic violence whereas in reality men are also the victims. Planting this seed in the young generation that women are only the oppressed one and generalizing this is very misleading. In India the rate of committing suicide is high among married men than married women. And mostly because of falsely accusation of dowry. Sometimes it's the entire family of the man who commits suicide. Bollywood should make movies on such serious issues by having a thorough knowledge on that topic.
Mulk, Article 15 and now, Thappad; Anubhav Sinha is on a roll!!! It's so amazing to see filmmakers like him and we want more of movies with such amazing storytelling.
The last scene where she finally tells the family what she has been experiencing is so much more than an underlining. I think that scene is the character's catharsis. Her emotions burst out. Also, as human beings, when you move on from a certain thing in life, you run through many emotions. Which is why the concept of farewell also exists. She must have gotten reminded of all the good and bad times, she spent in that house. It's a beautiful scene.
The dialogue that hit me hard was when tapsee says "maine apne ap ko aisa bana liya jisse thappad mara ja sakta hai"
And what does it say about us as an audience that while we are reacting so strongly to that one slap, we are so non reactive towards the maid getting beaten up regularly. This class division is also subtly included.
Oshmi D for me the maid was the “heroin” of the movie! Period!
That's a really good point. I didn't even realise it. Great perspective
We are inherently classist.
Important point
Oh no. We as an audience didn't feel bad that she hit him back while the main character didn't. Our reaction if the main character hit back would have been different. We have empathy to both of them. They took their respective stands which made them happy. The film i believe shows the issue to be the same irrespective of class.
Mr.Sinha was spot on with that "Chota thodi ho jaunga" line. Most men have this ingrained mentality and they don't even consider it to be wrong
What does that line Mean ?
In English Please
@@truthseekeralways7050 10:36 It's in reference to the husband offering to do some household work for his wife replying with, "Oh, doing it doesn't belittle me" when the wife resists (perhaps out of courtesy or politeness). Mr. Sinha (IMO) is making the point that even if the husband is well-intentioned, the response reflects the society's viewing of household work as menial chores while the bread-winning activites outside the domestic realm as being more dignified.
@@prayanklalan5138 Thank You Bro❤️👍🏼
GOD Bless You 💕🕊️
Every line of the film was a thappad on the society...what a film...
It’s unbelievable that the same guy directed RaOne 😜 but I’m so glad he found his passion towards social issues. He’s brilliant in portraying any issue without making it vulnerable
Ra one was good.....but cash🤮
He never wanted to direct it. He wrote the screenplay and took it Shah Rukh. Shah Rukh went to all the top directors of the country and they all said no. That is when on Shah Rukh insisted and Anubhav obliged...
RaOne, Cash, Dus lol yuck.
Lol ra-one has many explicit scenes , why didn't he remove them while directing it. It's obvious nothing matters more than money.
Liked Raone and it's much better than 2.o.
Vfx, cinematography were decent on 130 cr budget compared to 570cr budget 2.o.
Only word for this movie : "it was required" , Thank you . Not all of us are going through it but we know there are many.
Taapsee is the hero of 2020 ❤️
-Thappad
-Haseen Dilruba
-Shabash Mithu
-Rashmi Rocket
👏🏽👏🏽🔥🔥
Heroine
He: "Yeh karti kya hai?"
She: "Mehnat"
Chaatukari karti hai
Warna itni kharaab acting pe itni achi movies nahi milti..
Itne ache roles to dhansu actresses radhika apte, radhika madan, richa chaddha, kalki koechlin ko bhi nahi milte
@Yash Patil Ameer admiyo ke pass kaha se ate hain paise? Kaam karke? Business karke? Waise hi ameer aurto ke pass bhi ata hain. Chutiya ho, par thoda dimag lagaoge sab samjhega.
Oh God... Why didn't you spoke about a scene between kumud Mishra and ratna Pathak...?
I really loved loved that scene...where it's shown how a so called good husband also takes the same path which our society has selected for us..may knowingly or unknowingly
that is my fav scene too..
I loved what he said. you are a happy house wife doing everything in your capacity to make a happy home. But "Slap" is not a part of the deal. Very true!!!
A movie that all South East Asian men should watch. No matter married or unmarried
Anubhav Sinha is such an exceptional person , can we clone him , the world needs many more of his ilk .
After the slap I was so annoyed to watch her doing her house chores with so much patience for so many days even when he didn't show any apology.She might've expected some of his apology and some support from her mother-in-law while she was taking a further step for separation. The moment he slapped her, the divorce was worth it. Such an amazing film it was.Every man and woman should watch this ❤
I'm soo glad ya'll did a post mortem! I've been searching for thappad related content on TH-cam cos I had an itch for more, didn't know this is what I needed for closure! This film has stayed with me for a while.
My favourite scene and no one seems to mention is when her father shouts at her brother for misbehaving with his girlfriend! The calm mild mannered father becomes soo angry!! Lovely scene!
Thappad can not generalized for all situations. Creating one hypothetical situation and painting one black or white inference on the whole intersectionality of human emotions and its play in relations is a terrible disservice to the young minds. Human relations are best understood or explored in the shades of grey. Extreme objectivity in the realm of passion, love, faith and psyche of humans is very rudimentary and base. That conscious Thappad in Kabir Singh, though a culmination of extreme human emotion and unjustified violence bordering madness, was still so real and relatable in the context that even if you change the genders in the situation it would showcase the vulnerability of soulful relations. While Taapsee's thappad may not likely be a conscious decision by that partner, howsoever both are wrong but can not be compared at a deeper level. Preeti had to judge that thappad by a man who almost went insane to be with her and was ready take on whole world for her and in that process didn't even care for his self respect in front of her family. There has to be some minimum space for redemption, reparation and forgiveness for emotional security in any relation. Even she slaps Kabir twice in the movie. Even parents slap their children. The extreme sociological narrative on relations devoid of any semblance of psychological, biological and anthropological elements is damaging young hearts.
I really liked it too. I rewatched Dangal a couple of days ago and then I watched Thappad yesterday and suddenly I am just bursting with love for good dads lmao. Like, genuinely good dads who try hard not those who do the bare minimum and get praise. Good parenting is so important, but it is easy to forget that sometimes.
@@milan35151 kitni baar same comment karoge jaga jaga? "anthropological elements" wtf, using big words doesn't mean your argument makes sense
@@oof-wi7hp The fact that people don't understand anthropological elements like interplay of biology and psychology in shaping up of relationships is the reason I will have to say it multiple times. Also coz there is a flood of only one aspect of life ie sociological aspect on relations which is harmful. It makes the discussion biased and one sided.
@@oof-wi7hp Anthropology also brings in the importance of tradition and family structure ! Makes it multi dimensional.
Everyone: talking about the issue and the film
Me: Anubhav Sinha looks like a lion
😂😂haha
Patriarchy is a school of thought/way of life. Doesn't afflict a certain gender, instead it attacks those who subscribe. Moms telling daughters to stay silent, husbands ignoring their wives dreams, brothers justifying family honour and friends sharing their abuse experience to make you feel better is just consequences of the SUBSCRIPTION. Just because patriarchy has been normalised, doesnt make it less evil. We've just been conditioned to see it as acceptable behaviour.
Amazing Amazing Amazing movie. A big salute to Tapsee and the director for creating such a beautiful movie.
Yes. In most public reactions it was the women who kept saying it was too much to see a divorce for "such a small thing".
Which is true
I also noticed the same.... We have normalized it so badly in our minds that actually women think it's ok ... Women need to wake up.... Think a little bit about self respect ... Atleast rethink once
They have been conditioned so much that it’s ingrained in their system
@@Nopanop you're exactly the person this interview is meant for
@@upmapoha not gonna watch lul. Fuck these ppl their life , their choice , their divorce
i saw it last night and loved it. please interview the entire cast. pavail gulati, kumud mishra and geethika vidya olan especially
I Just LOVE you FC! Watched the first day first show and loved this film. NO wonder Taapsee is my fav, she nailed it
Just watched the movie. Wow. I came back with so many emotions and teary eyed. This is an important film. Must watch.
I have so many emotions going through me right now. I watched it last night. We need more movies like this! ❤️
Amazing film. And I am totally glad that Pooja scene was there man, it made all the sense for me.
flop movie!!!
Vamshi... U might be wrong bro. Bookings are great. Review is amazing
@@amritaoxymoron1944 Reviews are great for sure.... but bookings are not great..
@Yash Patil
I see what you did there 😂👌🏼
Well the pooja scene tried its best to summarise the whole concept but perhaps it fell on to some deaf ears . It really was a waste for such audience. They paid to watch the movie they couldn’t understand 😂😂
Start watching from 15:20,see how Anubhav tries to suppress Tapsi by saying it was not that hard physically, instead of apologising to Tapsee that Thappad scene had to be reshoot causing discomfort to Tapsee .He has made such a nice movie but he also has shades of male chauvinism
1) Tapsee is the one who has spoken 65-70% in the interview.
2) if you watched his other interviews, you wouldn't have said this. He is a gem and he accepts that even though he tries his best, some things have been so normalised that we don't even notice it.
He didn’t say that it wasn’t hard to act in that scene or to bear the slap. He is saying that even if the slap didn’t look physically impactful it would be okay because conceptually it would have made the impact. He knows that it was extremely hard for the actors to bear the violence, like he mentioned that he hugged the other couple after the slapping scenes in apology. He is empathetic and thankful towards the actors for doing those scenes, being apologetic isn’t necessary because the film demands it.
Came back from the movie, mesmerized and was so thrilled to see the FC post mortem of Thappad, like icing on a cake. Thank you for this wonderful conversation Film Companion !
This was Tapsee's year of winning all the best actress awards but with no movies releasing and theatres being shut, awards should stand cancelled.
Anupama you look so so so beautiful today😍😍😍😍absolutely love your outfit and hair makeup everything. Stunning❤️🔥
I am a feminist and i more than love anubhav sinha!! What a thoughtful man. There are few people I have seen more feminist than me and he is certainly one.
Fucker is a divorces
Lol..he gets paid for it🤣🤣
What a movie this was. So pleasantly shocked to see an Indian man writing and directing such a moving and subtle film.
You guys haven't done Let's talk movie in a long time! Please do it again! Really looking forward to the next one!
The guy who played the husband should also be interviewed.
I know Right
Great movies automatically translate to great interviews! What a delight.
flop movie!
Wonderful movie.... each n every dialogue... is so apt... n bang on... all characters are so natural... wel written n directed... congratulations to the entire team🤩👍
I'm sure it'll make the cut to One of the best movies of 2020!!👏🏼
What will anubhav sinha next.
I m looking forward to seeing his next film.
Whole India is waiting. Hope this streak continues...
I watched Thappad and was speechless, choked,moved everything... WNUBHAV SIR AND TAAPSEE WHERE ARE UF FEET
Anubhav Sinha As always amazing filmmakers looking forward we want more of movies 👍
AnupamaG 👍
I haven't seen the film yet, but will definitely do so after watching this interview. (I know I wasn't supposed to but I did anyway.) From what I understand, it's about zero tolerance to abuse. I wish such movies had been made earlier in my time. The kind of #SocietalConditioning we go through is simply phenomenal, and our tolerance levels just keep rising till something ultimately breaks: either life itself or the spirit. I'm glad these issues are being made into films because they hold such power to change society. I hope the next one Anubhav Sinha takes up is on speciesism. That's the root of all evil/hatred on Earth. All "isms" are rooted in it. Teach a child to respect all beings and there would be no classism, sexism, casteism, homophobia, antisemitism, xenophobia, gender discrimination, or the accepted and legalized systemic violence against animals and the violation of their rights and liberty. Address the root and see a better world.
I'm here for my crush Anupama
Taapsee Pannu is the best actor we have right now in Bollywood
Getting a divorse is much better than staying in a toxic relationship ,even if there’s a kid!!! As they dont have to grow up watching their parents fighting all the time which only leads to having (low self-esteem, decreased emotional security & more psychological problems!!!)
Very well said, I have been victim or a narcissitic dad stupid mom and dysfunctional family
Taapse is giving bang on performance in every movie
Is it just me or the conversation from 5:26 to 6:00 brings to mind Aishwarya Rai and Salman Khan saga?
Not really. Aish was not doing anything and no one thought SK was a good man. The one who was overdoing it was Vivek
Loved mulk..aabhinav sinha is rocking✌✌
The male lead should also be in the interview....I wanted to hear his views
Superb interview. The questions of interviewer are also vwry good
I watched the movie last weekend, I would definitely have edited out the last 5 minutes of the movie. Probably ended it with the husband watering the dying plants before he left for London. Also, the actress who plays the maid deserves a lot more recognition than currently being bestowed. I was more interested in her track than in the lead’s story.
Thapad is one of the most powerful , best directed movie I have ever seen.
Why male protagonist, who is excellent in the movie, not part of promos anywhere?
Love you Anubhav sir ❤️❤️❤️
Film will stay with for a long time...
More more power to you
for directing a flop movie???/ theatres are empty in almost all the cities
This was such a brilliant film. Perfect dialogues, spectacular performances by each and everyone and such a hard hitting, real and important message.
Pink
Mulk
Manmarziyan
Badla
Gameover
Thappad ❤️❤️❤️
Judwaa 2
Chasme badoor😛
Badla
@@kiranmahato1597
Thank you
my friend is victim of domestic violence but no one belives him and people make fun of him cause he is a man.male harrasment often ignored in india.
I appreciate you warning people for spoilers.
Please do a chat session or interview with #shreyaghoshal
Mulk was far better and balanced than Thappad...because if you swap the husband and wife roles where wife hits the husband, and husband files a case, it will not be accepted at all..
That in not true at all. Misuse of domestic violence law especially in child custody matter as has been acknowledged. Such false allegations harm not only the men against whom the allegations have been made but women who file genuine complaints. There have been discussions around making domestic law of the country gender neutral by law enforcement agencies as well as the civil society.
Next movie needs to be made on a female, who has been slapped repeatedly and nobody has seen. Who is going to listen to her?Not even her parents and siblings? These so called good men are the worst ones.
I don’t know why but whenever I feel angry/ wronged/ not understood/ misunderstood for the existence of subtle misogyny or sexism in our society, or the pseudo feminism that is is especially seen in the upper middle class society, I come back to this video. I feel heard. I hear all the arguments that are a chaos in my head- put in streamlined, more articulated manner.
Article 15 Anubhav Sinha ji ka movie accha laga tha ye to aaj dekhunga
Beautiful movie
Movie was really noice.
Great movie !! Worth watching
The directors narrative of glorifying 'homemaker' is confusing. What's wrong in being a homemaker?? How is it glorified? There are men who value their family and respect their wives...There are wives who are happily donning the role of homemaker without feeling like being put on higher pedestal for greater sacrifices.
I know where the tea leaves are, my father also knows too, it's not every indian man ever
Where was this interview recorded?
I have not seen the movie today i will watch movie then i watch your interview I am big fan of flim companion .mujhe bura laga laal kaptaan movie chalne chaheye the ye to chalege.but laal kaptaan movie ka mene apka aur saif ka conversation dekha mujhe acche lagi movie but chalne chaheye the.aur asse genre ke movie aur banane chaheye. ye movie to allag hey dekhunga aaj me.
i watched the film last night and though overall its a fair film...but runs out of stream in the last 15,20 odd minutes.....the scene between tapsee's brother and his girlfriend..where the former apologizes to her looks too chessy....as anubhav sinha himself says" thoda cheese dalna padta hai"' it was that...it reminded me of moral lesson films of the 90's like damini and others.. There are certain reasons according to me where it could have been even better:
1 Right from the start of the film its very clear that its a tricky subject...not exactly on domestic violence nor exactly on A women charting her own path..post marriage...Sinha didnt want to take the former path..and neither he took the other path..which mahesh bhatt took years ago in AARTH- so that left the films and its tonality in a lurch.....She doesn't love this guy as she once used to ..she says.. but she neither shows any kind of resistance or diffidence in front of him..when you get hit by someone you develop a sort of antipathy towards them..you cant stand straight in their presence...even if you slept with them ...None of pannu's body language showed that discomfort.Her character was supposed to exhibit a sort of hopelessness towards the protagonist...on the contrary it kept showing that she is hinting at him to say a simple sorry....and if he had said it everything would have been all right..
i think pannu failed to exhibit that sort of complexity through her body language....doubts,fears,,complex emotions..confusion ...no matter how many shots sinha had of her looking outside of the window..her note expression didn't show any expression other than of being hurt... a bit of anger mixed with disgust and pride would have really helped in clearly enunciating the inner turmoil of the character.In this regards little could be done..for we Bollywood people always form our character without giving them any sort of history...in this regards i am reminded of Ram Madhvani's neerja..where the story structure established that the past of the character[her abusive husband story} set up the story of the present and the decisions where she would be taking in her present crisis situation..i found that flaw even with Raaji where the makers berefted the character of her flawed past..[former lover]
....also her accent of punjabi laced hindi which she carries in all of her films...kind of kept bringing the real tapsee into the foray and stopped short her efforts to become Ammu. also surrounded by superior actors like ratna..kumud..geetika,, the lawyer kind of undermined her effort...i think she was more effortless in pink
2 dia mirza...i still cant understand what her 8 odd minutes part added to the mix....the problem in this universe of sinha was that he inherently took all women who were good Samaritans...none of them were a funny self loathing alcholic or a kind of an imperfect women.it was a case of everyone wearing the same shade of white which tonally and emotionally blighted the power which different characters could have brought..
A different ending like the husband agreeing to the mistake but the court ruling out in favour of husband could have really been an anti-climax or may be one of them getting involved in an accident and the other one being forced to take care of them ...something like an open ended ending would have reallly dampened the box office prospect of it..but would have added to the creative quotient of the film.
3 The simplistic ending....this has been an area where sinha has been struggling off lately ..the inherent desire to end everything on a happy note ....to give a picture perfect postcard ending..the husband comes apologizes to Ammu....the brother appologizing to his g.f...i mean there isnt anything inherently wrong in it...but to me it was the simple way of chickening out
I agree with the apologizing part. Mainly because I don't think people just change, just like that. But that boyfriend guy changing was just not convincing. Also, I had a lot of issues with this movie like you mentioned which all showed signs of chickening out, but it's a decent movie and a good start .
Agree with the boyfriend apology being too cheesy.
And exactly what did Dia Mirza add? The usual trope of "single independent mom". And why would he even ask her to lie in the court? Too much
@@vijayalakshmisundar2260 I just went and saw mulk some days back (on rishi kapor's demise) usmein BHI the same thing was there..one of the minor characters says to another"maaf Kar paooge mujhe" such endings existed in the ,,70s where minor characters like Poonam dhillon and Sachin in trishul who became estranged for a while get together like ruthe huye lovers in the end.. and one by one every character starts getting. A separate set of ending..something which Sinha can do away with..with Hindi directors it's the norm that ending happy hona chaiyhe or with a perfect closure...
Loved this discussion
This movie is about true feminism yeah Truly so yeah , it’s going to bring a change to all those struggling women out there in the society and out in the world maybe yeah true feminism yes like slap is a slap though but it’s harsh though so yeah it’s been a huge impact in this movie I mean it’s been great but getting slapped in it is so harsh and rude yeah bye bye
Average man have Audi car wow 😂😂😂
Must be a great movie this.... will certainly watch it.... on a different note....turns out men not knowing where the tea leaves are is toxic/masculinity but women not knowing about it is feminism.
How is it toxic masculinity? which part of the Interview made you think they are implying that? All they said was he knows how to be a good son/man of the house but he isn't trained to be and to show that he isn't trained they used the blood sugar n tea leaves scene. (Spoiler youll understand it when you watch that particular scene.) There was nothing about toxic masculinity in this movie. It was about how people are conditioned to and about gender roles. Every character has an arc here. It's a very good movie, do watch it. I'd want to read your opinion after watching the moive.
This movie has managed to in fact humanize the abuser and portray him as a victim of poor social conditioning, as most abusers are. There is not an ounce of toxic masculinity in Sinha's character, he is not a villain and not portrayed as such.
Why do some men feel this is a man hating attempt and get so defensive 😂😂😂 calm down folks , try opening your heads and ears or else it’s Greek to you 😂
I haven’t managed to watch the movie yet, I would like to reserve my opinions on the movie once I watch it. at the look of it, it seems like an interesting watch. Coming to my above statement, I was commenting on the banter between the guests and the presenter @ 12:00 when they speak about a certain “Tea Leaves scene” - which probably happens in the movie.
Shahbaz Mulla Certainly!
But i have a question: if you KNOW that your husband is a product of this society and understandably have misogyny ingrained, then as a companion and more of a compassionate human being, would you leave someone for having flaws or would you rather show and call out the problem to him and change for as far as possible?
Ps. Check out Jaby koay's review. He explores this idea in detail.
ANANDITA PANYAM you can always ATTEMPT to change the MISOGNY opinions . But as a parent if it someone is deeply misogynistic that the person won’t pay for school fee because she is girl than I will choose a child who has done nothing wrong. I have seen it in real life .BUTTTTT
if it comes to emotional and physical abuse . How can you CALL OUT someone. I think everyone knows beating your wife for no reason is wrong and illegal. It’s does not make sense to me that someone tolerating abuse and attempting to change a criminal is “compassionate human being “ . Ifi kill a 3 year old child tomorrow will you still STAY with me irrespective of my “flaws” when I cheat on my wife and drink everyday will my wife accept my “flaws” as she is “compassionate” human being ?? Flaws are , depression! Mental disorder, moody , selfish ... but participating in a CRIME is not a FLAW. tomorrow I really don’t understand how someone who emotional abuses the wife and takes out violent aggression for NO reason , you will REASON with them ?? Your comment makes zero sense tbh.
@@moluphi6226 okay so the example i gave was purely subjective to the movie and the male in the movie. He has not killed anyone, he doesnt understand that hes abusive and this behaviour is not okay. Yes i agree intent does not justify behaviour and i 100% dont justify misogyny in any way. But only by understanding can we even think of changing na? Not by fleeing the situation. And yes calling out beating matters because, by your own arguement, in the movie, the majority of people say "it was just a slap" so like taapsee said, its so deeply ingrained that the oppressor also doesnt realise that hes oppressing someone. And you are mostly talking from an outsider's perspective. Im talking as family, as someone who loves and vowed to understand the other, would you not empathize with the situation which the other is in? How would he know any better if he's been raised in that certain way and the society has ingrained it so subtly yet deeply in every crevice of everyday activities?
Also, he has never beaten her more tha ln once, not that its any better, but if you came home drunk and cheated everyday is not even a valid arguement here. Just saying.
@@moluphi6226 also i was asking a question. You didnt even consider the premise i had given. If your idea of law and order is that a conditioned mind having a bad moment like anubhav sinha said is equal to you killing a 3 year old, then you dont understand crime at all. Or why it happens in the first place.
ANANDITA PANYAM physical violence is Beating A CRIME Which might kill you. I haven’t compared theft to killing. Killing someone isn’t far from physical violence . And it is not a “flaw”. Because my parent taught so. This is the stupidest thing I have ever heard , I have guessed you clearly haven’t actually watched the movie to say that the person hasn’t realised and LEARNED from its mistake. Their is nothing wrong and uncompassionate of someone to not reason with someone who has experienced emotional abuse . You have taken a VOW to UNDERSTAND each other. It’s a 2 way street sis. Not one . PS watch the movie. “Cheating is not a valid argument. “ The movie consists of emotional abuse. And the actress trying to reason with the husband . It was very obvious in the trailer that the women said along the lines that “that one slap opened my eyes to the things happening in past...” which is emotional abuse. Again being a emotionally and physically abusive NO normal Indian parent go out of their way to teaches that tbh. You can share and learn the values . My family is misogynistic too .With severe double standards but as a boy they havent taught me or my brother anything remotely normalisation of physical and verbal abuse. And it wasn’t the case in the movie too.
You can definitely recover from cheating husband . And reason with them and say never again . But it is 100 difficult to recover from an emotional abuser. You have a deeply ingrained problem to think that abuse is fine and cheating is not . Abuse is wayyyyyyyy worse I have seen it. Marriage is a 2 way street. Please teach your kids better things . Seeing so many women themselves saying that emotional abuse is fine it was just a slap without considering how that 1 slap and emotional abuse makes you so disturbed and hard to get over. Easier said than done. Pleases don’t teach your daughter and son this bs to be fine with 1 slap and emotional abuse .
@@moluphi6226 i agree with what you have that yes its the responsibility of both. But you still dont get my point. Yes, i havent watched the movie but that does not mean the scenario itself is limited to only the ones who have watched it. His beating is clearly the product of many years of conditioning and yes, you do have the choice of making that reason enough to leave. But i was just asking, flaw is not in him, its a societal flaw in itself. And he's not a victim but he is a product of such a society. If you didnt know, there was a point when aayushman khurana told his wife tahira "its okay you dont have to work. Im the man, I'll take care" which is quite misogynistic by his own admission and general consensus. But it takes time for a person to understand and admit his flaws amd mistakes. That is not just a momentary understanding. It takes a lot of unlearning. Beating is crime yes, but my question was simple: would you leave the situation by divorcing the person or would ammend a human in the family that you loved and bring an actual change?
It has to do with emotional strength also, if you arent capable or willing you have all the rights to leave them. It was just a moral question. And the reason i call it compassionate is it takes balls to understand a criminal. Check out Margret Atwood and the story of handmaid's tale. The protagonist is literally raped repeatedly but also recognizes the issue in the system is not just with how we treat women but also what we teach the men. And she empathizes. You seem to be missing the whole point all together. But sure, you're entitled to your own opinion.
Anubhav you have made film on physical thappad what about emotional thappad which is equally worse ...do make one too it will revolutionise the society .
Thappad is actually about both
The close lens seems to be weirdly blurry.
Regards.
Pannu saab my favorite❤️❤️
awesome video
Only one flaw. It's about the consistency in the guys character. A guy who never says sorry to his wife after slapping her, even in a fit of anger and frustration, would surely taunt her inadequate cooking abilities. Surely. Apart from that nice.
Very powerful film❣️
Why media targeting film stars only 24 hrs
We want to know media family
There problems please show it
as a cast, Anupama Ma'am, you could have included the male actor Pavail, as he is part of this conversation, an artist in his own right. It would have completed the interview, and he is playing the 'conformed' views of society! How it would impact a person, and so on. Could have been more nuanced.
Did you guys shoot this video in an abandoned basement somewhere?
Just kidding.
it was shot in a film set
@@NonaPrince how do u know?
@@lerolerolerolerolero256 I have seen indoor studio, thats how old and grim they look
बहुत ही बेहतरीन मूवी 👍🏼
Pasand aaya kya tereko
Kisi to interview me thappad marne wale ko bhi le ayo..wo bhi film ka hissa hai
anupama mams question were just too basic.could have gone way deeper with good questions
Loved this movie
Iss behenji ko Juduaa 2 main kaam karne main koi problem nehi thi jaha pe hero forcefully kiss karta hain ladki ko aur usse celebrate bhi kiya jata hain movie mein ... aur fir inha pe aake feminism ka gyan pel raha hain... hypocrite...
That director gave her first film in Hindi film industry. It's hard to say no to someone who launched you.
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Loved it!!!
Ek chup sau sukh is good for guys also. it takes both to make things work.
Fantastic movie.A+++
I want to watch this sooo badly but can't because I haven't watched the movie yet!! Urgghh!! Dammit Corona!! 😫😫😅
So as per tapsee, being a home maker and not earning money is the most submissive thing for a woman. This is how you spot a librandu, eating and talking shit.