Thanks so much Wayne! Your words are so healing. I am 1 yr and 10 since D-day. My marriage had dissolved due to my ex unable to give the AP. I am on the recovery journey alone. Now must deal with healing consequences such as my ex continuing her relationship with her AP and my daughter spending time with them on her days. I am focusing on myself and bettering myself. I have lost almost 60lbs from eating a healthier lifestyle and exercise everyday. At 56 I'm in the best physical shape of my life. Looking in the mirror and liking myself helps internally and mentally. I have been told from friends and family they see my light coming back. It's so still very difficult. I will keep praying. Thank you again! 🙂
I was one of the betrayed that made the mistake of trying to forgive too soon. I thought I had it handled and had accomplished forgiveness and then it came back on me full force and truly set me back to the hurt and betrayal I had in the very beginning. I hope everyone watches this video and the other videos on forgiveness and doesn't make the mistake I made in thinking my relationship was the exception and that I could just forgive and move on and live happily ever after. If you are the betrayed, PLEASE give yourself time to truly grieve and eventually be able to accept what has happened. I found out about my husband's affair 15 months ago, over a year, and I am just now starting to be able to accept what has happened. So it takes time, alot of time, so please give yourself that time! God bless all of you, I know your pain, your anger and your heartbreak, so just know your not alone.
My goodness, Wayne. These videos truly get to the nitty gritty.. So many consequences Some we don’t even realize until they creep up. We can do it, y’all.
Husband's affair became known 25 years ago. He said it would never happen again. We attended Retrovaille sessions through our church. The lessons were not long lasting bc he was out doing it again without remorse, gathering a child with another woman and trying to keep it secret. We're divorced now. He has not made the process easy for me. If there is a Hell, he's certainly part of it. People have described him as arrogant, selfish, a crook, and like a mob boss. And so it is.
Jesus was hurt by betrayal, He calmly confronted it & His father's justice served it. Praying for anyone going through this. It's a death match...you will win
My husband apparently missed the party about not making it worse. Continued to harm me and our marriage by his coverte actions during his fake reconciliation efforts. Constantly in touch with affair person. I even have record of him texting her while doing bootcamp with me. It's been exhausting and saddening. However, I live to see another chapter. I have to move on from this betrayal. Forgiveness is the only way thru. Though I'm still working through it. I will continue to pray for him.
Wow, so proud of you for the love you are extending your husband even while facing such incredible hurt and heartache. You are very important and you matter and you may have to protect yourself from his actions if he chooses not to stop hurting you and wronging you. My heart and prayers are with you and I support you loving, caring, and protecting yourself.
Can you do a video on authentic remorse, I’m really struggling with my husbands affair (6 years) he was not in love with her, it was friends with benefits, he broke it off with her, she was divorced, and now we are both in counseling, I honestly can say your videos are more helpful to me than my counselor
Almost 2 years for me, it has gotten a lot better but i still have visions and have bad days. I think i have forgiven but can never forget, trust will always be an issue.
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Thanks so much Wayne! Your words are so healing. I am 1 yr and 10 since D-day. My marriage had dissolved due to my ex unable to give the AP. I am on the recovery journey alone. Now must deal with healing consequences such as my ex continuing her relationship with her AP and my daughter spending time with them on her days. I am focusing on myself and bettering myself. I have lost almost 60lbs from eating a healthier lifestyle and exercise everyday. At 56 I'm in the best physical shape of my life. Looking in the mirror and liking myself helps internally and mentally. I have been told from friends and family they see my light coming back. It's so still very difficult. I will keep praying. Thank you again! 🙂
We will not be back to the previous self. We are forever changed after betrayal to present a different, scarred yet wiser version of ourselves.
I was one of the betrayed that made the mistake of trying to forgive too soon. I thought I had it handled and had accomplished forgiveness and then it came back on me full force and truly set me back to the hurt and betrayal I had in the very beginning. I hope everyone watches this video and the other videos on forgiveness and doesn't make the mistake I made in thinking my relationship was the exception and that I could just forgive and move on and live happily ever after. If you are the betrayed, PLEASE give yourself time to truly grieve and eventually be able to accept what has happened. I found out about my husband's affair 15 months ago, over a year, and I am just now starting to be able to accept what has happened. So it takes time, alot of time, so please give yourself that time! God bless all of you, I know your pain, your anger and your heartbreak, so just know your not alone.
Thank you for this
Thank you, very well said.
My goodness, Wayne.
These videos truly get to the nitty gritty..
So many consequences
Some we don’t even realize until they creep up. We can do it, y’all.
Yes we can, I think we are all stronger than we ever knew and it takes something like this to show us what we are really made of!!!
Husband's affair became known 25 years ago. He said it would never happen again. We attended Retrovaille sessions through our church. The lessons were not long lasting bc he was out doing it again without remorse, gathering a child with another woman and trying to keep it secret. We're divorced now. He has not made the process easy for me. If there is a Hell, he's certainly part of it. People have described him as arrogant, selfish, a crook, and like a mob boss. And so it is.
I had 125 index cards. It is actually an exercise that is breakthrough. Lyse Turkhurst "Forgiving what you can't forget".
Jesus was hurt by betrayal, He calmly confronted it & His father's justice served it.
Praying for anyone going through this. It's a death match...you will win
These have been so helpful in my journey ... Thank you so much
Mine as well. Yes. Thank you 🙏
My husband apparently missed the party about not making it worse. Continued to harm me and our marriage by his coverte actions during his fake reconciliation efforts. Constantly in touch with affair person. I even have record of him texting her while doing bootcamp with me. It's been exhausting and saddening. However, I live to see another chapter. I have to move on from this betrayal. Forgiveness is the only way thru. Though I'm still working through it. I will continue to pray for him.
Wow, so proud of you for the love you are extending your husband even while facing such incredible hurt and heartache. You are very important and you matter and you may have to protect yourself from his actions if he chooses not to stop hurting you and wronging you. My heart and prayers are with you and I support you loving, caring, and protecting yourself.
Can you do a video on authentic remorse, I’m really struggling with my husbands affair (6 years) he was not in love with her, it was friends with benefits, he broke it off with her, she was divorced, and now we are both in counseling, I honestly can say your videos are more helpful to me than my counselor
One year since D Day and the pain is bigger.
Almost 2 years for me, it has gotten a lot better but i still have visions and have bad days.
I think i have forgiven but can never forget, trust will always be an issue.
2 years... 💔 🙏🏻 💖
Thanks Wayne 🙏🏽
Thank you!