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@@aimieleeb hahaha it's because we tend to have 'other ways' of seeing/understanding things and explaining these things to other type/person is kinda hard.
Basically ISFP are extremely individuals persons that don't know how to verbally express themselves, don't care to try to do it, will only do whatever they want or consider to be good, don't accept to be judged for it but want to be hugged for who they are. Extremely selfish and immature. lol INTJ
Thanks for putting yourself out there! I know it is hard. As an ISFP that lives on a farm surrounded by goats and chickens and cats and dogs I AM in my happy place!! Give me the people I love and nature and animals and that is all I need! The simple life is my heaven.
Nice!!!! I admit I’m a weird introvert. I get antsy if I am not living in a busier area and I can’t people watch. BUT…being surrounded with animals would be so great too. Part of my image of Heaven in fact. ❤️ Thankfully I have my cats. The house doesn’t feel like a home without them…even cried this Saturday because I had come home from a trip too late to pick up the cats until the next day.-INFP
4:28 I broke out crying right after you answered that question. you made me realize what has been hurting me for years. we isfps really value the freedom of expression. to live in a household where I'm told to behave a certain way and my way of thinking is deemed wrong feels like torture. like you said individuality is something close to heart and I figured that's why I really appreciate self-expression. thank you for the revelation💖
As a person that has a brother that is ISFP, I think what he values most is having control over his own life, and that extends greatly to his place of rest. Just like me (INFP) he needs his alone time to recharge, and if he doesn't get that he usually gets into a sour mood, but does his best not to show it. But eventually if the situation is not resolved he can blow up. Unique expression is also important to him, and he does it mostly on the outer end (how he dresses, his hair style etc..) whereas with me it's more inner (for instance in my manner of speech and thoughts). What I've come to learn about my quiet brother is that if you shut up long enough and ask questions, and listen, he will open up if he trusts you. If you respect his space, don't pry too hard and go with the flow, his inner charm comes out. So why am I saying all of this, because maybe you have some of the same qualities, and maybe by understanding what sets your triggers you can go about changing the situation and being a heck of a lot more happy for it. That is of course if you haven't by now, cheers.
@@AB-fo3hj im an isfp (i believe) and that's true. i'm full of contradictions, but at the end i know what ground i need to stand on. i can decide, i just have a hard time to bcs i feel like i have to consider everything before deciding. and tbh, i'm really, really soft and gentle but only with a very few people i felt truly safe to show the deepest part of me. but ofc, we have flaws too
I am so lucky that my older brother is an ISFP, he's the most sweat, kind, funny, easygoing and chill man I know. ISFP are the most adorable of all the MBTI, you are my faves!
Jasi McG. My husband is an ENFJ too and my type is ISFP. Makes me so happy to know other similar coupling. I think many ISFP’s are realising there perfect match is the big friendly and gentle ENFJ. :) My husband is like a real life teddy bear. 😍
INTJ here. Just had my sister test and she is ISFP. She is wonderful. I love the live and let live attitude. I've never felt judged by her and feel accepted as I am which is not a frequent experience as an INTJ. Any advice on how to show love to an ISFP would be welcome.
V Hansen I think we are all different in this way. Most generally I think people love the way they want to be loved. So perhaps just return the favor of the "live and let live" attitude❤❤
I think all we really want is to feel like we’re accepted exactly as we are and don’t feel pressured to conform to society’s expectations of how people must think or perform... individuality is definitely the most important thing to us and like Elaine said, if u show genuine interest and pleasure in just hanging out with us, getting to know us, listening to our random odd thoughts about things without judgment, that’s pretty much happiness right there
I would say a hug would be great, if you're comfortable giving them! We also like words of affirmation/affection, and/or physical gifts which aid our hobbies and passions. I hope this helps!!
Kayaking and outdoors -my way of life! Love all the critters too! Great video! I would love to see more isfp videos. This channel does us the most justice.
As a ISFP myself I adored you cause you're cool qnd chill about what you believe and I fell The same way. Don't think it's dumb at all, or maybe It is, but It is fine in both cases, actually.
Such an Fi answer 😂. But really I think of MBTI that way too, everyone is a shade/flavor of their type and there’s a lot of variation within the things everyone has in common that make them the same type. I hope you do more with the channel! I feel like ISFPs are elusive, I’m an ISTP, but I feel like I don’t have many people of your type around me anywhere!
Taking a breath in your feelings in that scenario makes sense, actually. It's a very interesting way to put it; a way to describe a feeling I don't have, so it was very helpful. So interesting to hear you talk about how you feel about 'new people' (I guess) and... I just don't relate, but I have hoped for a long time to find someone describe this so that I could understand it a little more.
I paused and went "WHY DOES SHE LOOK SO FAMILIAR!!!" and then she said Lu is her sister and I laughed so hard haha. This is adorable! I'm an INFJ and I have always had a thing for IxFPs....although it did take me a while to figure out the moodiness and need for space.
I could tell you were her sister in a second! You look and sound so much like each other. Thank you for sharing the ISFP video, there aren't enough videos in the MBTI community.
Lu was right, you have the most awesome smile and laugh! I watched this video twice just to see you smile and hear you laugh all over again. You are adorable 😍
This attack on thought processes makes sense as being a devastating thing as Te is your inferior function. I'm an INTP dating an ISFP and while CS Joseph calls this the 4th best of the 16 pair, the danger is my Ti hero crushing the Te inferior with negative words on their intelligence similar to my vulnerable Fe inferior being morally berated by the Fi hero of the ISFP. As our aspirational functions they are the weakest in our stack, but one we love as the gateway to our subconscious.
Such a clear ISFP! :D Can see the Fi-Ni "link", and speaking of Se "experience", with a Te "aspirational". Hard to word out the utter clarity of mind/intuition about these "things".
Just met a fantastic ISFP and learned that we are not supposed to be a great match? (Me being an ENTP) 😳🤔 but we are, maybe ”opposites attract”? I try not to be my typical blunt self and I argue in a more non-combatant manner than I usually do.
Less is more indeed. True, vibing with ISFPs just mean being yourself and listen to what i have to say and we will 99% adore you. And no, you're not a dumbass for the last part. This ISFP likes that imaginary day alot, though my sensible side would be like "Dang I gotta take care of all these animals" XD
That was good you should do more,. So should I . I’m ISFP and my wife is enfj . Being ISFP makes me feel a bit selfish bc around her cause she’s a giver . But she tells me , no , just do your thing and go for it . Any way I understood every thing and where you were comb from thanx a gain , we are unique.
It was my impression, after much research, that ISFPs are not moody as in having mood swings, but, as in actually being capable of experiencing more than one mood at the same time. Maybe even several. Especially if they are engaged in multiple conversations, like women talking together. One about her man, another about her day, another about her mother and another about what she is going to make for dinner, for instance. Romantic or angry, frustrated or excited, oppressed or tickled, disgusted or delighted. All at once. Like that. Am I wrong?
3:40 as an isfp yes i really hate that, Im usually of very big temper but when people talk about such things i feel my personality and the action of individuality is jeopardized, and that im not my own individual. I dont think of myself as "Hello my name is ... Im ... and i like ..." But more of "Hello im a friend of somebody". Thats when i lose it, and as she said it, become mean.
Wow my daughter is an ISFP....she has had over 20 goats and numbers of chickens and would keep and nurture every animal she could. All that was said in this video is my daughter 100%
"I can't Adult today, thats not my mood", i've seen this from an isfp. I've also seen the inverted isfp, or one with a developed intj....they are Vamp----ires.
@@Cheri04 I took personality tests and read cognitive functions. I am not quite sure tho about it. I have been reading all other types and it is kinda hard to ger em all. What about you?
I’m an ISFP through and through I’m sure to the point it’s like knowing I’m male or female . I’m a 9w8 on the eneagram. I am soft as a babys bottom but if you get in my way or stand on my toes I’m angry . I’m married 20 years to an Enfj . I’m a Concretor and I’m a body builder and I study the bible . But I am ISFP through and through . Love you guys .
She looks like she's on the verge of crying every time she smiles, which makes my turbulent ass feel scared, as if I'm doing something wrong. Also, being an ISFP-T, it's normal to feel a crazy amount of anxiety, right? Cause as I tapped on the thumbnail, I can feel the anxiety telling me about how a certain family member will see this (have the same wifi) and confront me irl.
Thank you, Love Who, for having me and allowing me to step outside of my comfort zone💕💕
My respects
Hi. If you don't mind answering, what's your sister's type?
@@ogeo.8966 estp
@@ogeo.8966 a funny
@@rocko3622 my DISrespects
"it doesn't make any sense, but it make sense to me, and that's what matters"
Can absolutely relate this. I'm ISFP.
amtusyaafi that’s one of the most annoying things a person could tell me in an argument (or whatever) but I accept it (Intj here)
@@aimieleeb hahaha it's because we tend to have 'other ways' of seeing/understanding things and explaining these things to other type/person is kinda hard.
@@aimieleeb that's one of the most annoying things to hear also for me and I'm isfp, so I suppose there's no rule what type will use that sentence
@@randaltichy6570 same
Basically ISFP are extremely individuals persons that don't know how to verbally express themselves, don't care to try to do it, will only do whatever they want or consider to be good, don't accept to be judged for it but want to be hugged for who they are. Extremely selfish and immature. lol
INTJ
Thanks for putting yourself out there! I know it is hard. As an ISFP that lives on a farm surrounded by goats and chickens and cats and dogs I AM in my happy place!! Give me the people I love and nature and animals and that is all I need! The simple life is my heaven.
Sheila W that sounds so beautiful!💕 I am so excited to one day have that as my life!
Interesting
Copy that .surrounded by loved ones . My paradise .
Nice!!!! I admit I’m a weird introvert. I get antsy if I am not living in a busier area and I can’t people watch. BUT…being surrounded with animals would be so great too. Part of my image of Heaven in fact. ❤️ Thankfully I have my cats. The house doesn’t feel like a home without them…even cried this Saturday because I had come home from a trip too late to pick up the cats until the next day.-INFP
oh yeah/? proof it
She's absolutely adorable.
4:28 I broke out crying right after you answered that question. you made me realize what has been hurting me for years. we isfps really value the freedom of expression. to live in a household where I'm told to behave a certain way and my way of thinking is deemed wrong feels like torture. like you said individuality is something close to heart and I figured that's why I really appreciate self-expression. thank you for the revelation💖
also yess being in nature with animals sounds like a dream
As a person that has a brother that is ISFP, I think what he values most is having control over his own life, and that extends greatly to his place of rest. Just like me (INFP) he needs his alone time to recharge, and if he doesn't get that he usually gets into a sour mood, but does his best not to show it. But eventually if the situation is not resolved he can blow up. Unique expression is also important to him, and he does it mostly on the outer end (how he dresses, his hair style etc..) whereas with me it's more inner (for instance in my manner of speech and thoughts). What I've come to learn about my quiet brother is that if you shut up long enough and ask questions, and listen, he will open up if he trusts you. If you respect his space, don't pry too hard and go with the flow, his inner charm comes out. So why am I saying all of this, because maybe you have some of the same qualities, and maybe by understanding what sets your triggers you can go about changing the situation and being a heck of a lot more happy for it. That is of course if you haven't by now, cheers.
It seems like ISFPs have this "softness" about them. I don't know what it is, but I feel it. I'm INFJ btw.
not for long
aww thats cute :D
We appear soft until we’re completely comfortable around you😂
No, not in long run.
As partners, not a bit soft, they're moody and full of contradictions
@@AB-fo3hj im an isfp (i believe) and that's true. i'm full of contradictions, but at the end i know what ground i need to stand on. i can decide, i just have a hard time to bcs i feel like i have to consider everything before deciding. and tbh, i'm really, really soft and gentle but only with a very few people i felt truly safe to show the deepest part of me. but ofc, we have flaws too
I am so lucky that my older brother is an ISFP, he's the most sweat, kind, funny, easygoing and chill man I know. ISFP are the most adorable of all the MBTI, you are my faves!
Omg thanks! what type are u btw
"I think I'm in the normal range... If there's a normal range." The temporary stop then discard all social meters is definitely our move hahaha XD
It's nice to see another ISFP. I agree with all the answers
Sarah ISFP that makes me so happy!❤
I’m 43 and don’t know any but as an ISFP I’m blessed to have an enfj wife of 20 years . It’s cool cause we’re both feelers .
Jasi McG. My husband is an ENFJ too and my type is ISFP. Makes me so happy to know other similar coupling. I think many ISFP’s are realising there perfect match is the big friendly and gentle ENFJ. :) My husband is like a real life teddy bear. 😍
more like isfpoo
Lol!! What you said about being moody when someone’s in your space is so true. I act so uninterested and passive aggressive so they’ll leave me alone.
Haha! fellow ISFP here and our body languages are so similar!! the erractic hand movements!!
That’s exactly what I came here to say lol
I'm playing with my hair just like that right now 😭🤣
I know my daughter is ISFP and she does the same too
Omg it’s creepy how much she looks like my isfp friend - they both have sloth-like eyes. I love the isfp’s in my life they make me feel so calm
Que sera sera I love this comment!😂
Lmao! Another ISFP here and i have them too! what is this sorcery😂
Lol sameee
SLOTH LIKE EYES AHAHAHA 😂 I can't even deny XDXD
Haha she looks like me and im isfp
Her body language and movements are basically identical to my ISFP brother's
INTJ here. Just had my sister test and she is ISFP. She is wonderful. I love the live and let live attitude. I've never felt judged by her and feel accepted as I am which is not a frequent experience as an INTJ. Any advice on how to show love to an ISFP would be welcome.
V Hansen I think we are all different in this way. Most generally I think people love the way they want to be loved. So perhaps just return the favor of the "live and let live" attitude❤❤
Just ask one; he/she will answer you and appreciate the question. (ISFP) 🙂
I think all we really want is to feel like we’re accepted exactly as we are and don’t feel pressured to conform to society’s expectations of how people must think or perform... individuality is definitely the most important thing to us and like Elaine said, if u show genuine interest and pleasure in just hanging out with us, getting to know us, listening to our random odd thoughts about things without judgment, that’s pretty much happiness right there
I would say a hug would be great, if you're comfortable giving them! We also like words of affirmation/affection, and/or physical gifts which aid our hobbies and passions. I hope this helps!!
hey can i have your sisters social security number and a lock of her hair
Kayaking and outdoors -my way of life! Love all the critters too! Great video!
I would love to see more isfp videos. This channel does us the most justice.
agreed!
As a ISFP myself I adored you cause you're cool qnd chill about what you believe and I fell The same way. Don't think it's dumb at all, or maybe It is, but It is fine in both cases, actually.
i thought you looked similar, Lu's sister!
My Mrs is an ISFP and ISFP's are the best. I'm an ISTP.
Such an interesting combination!! I might be having a crush on an ISTP, but I'm shy and intimidated by his silent and focused demeanor ;;v;;
your mrs is now mine
Such an Fi answer 😂. But really I think of MBTI that way too, everyone is a shade/flavor of their type and there’s a lot of variation within the things everyone has in common that make them the same type.
I hope you do more with the channel! I feel like ISFPs are elusive, I’m an ISTP, but I feel like I don’t have many people of your type around me anywhere!
Jess Britvec MBTI, even on a scale, still makes me feel a little skirmy.😂😂
Istp secret agent, I'm into you
I can totally understand you. I love animals, much more than humans sometime. My life without my dog is a sad one
Taking a breath in your feelings in that scenario makes sense, actually. It's a very interesting way to put it; a way to describe a feeling I don't have, so it was very helpful. So interesting to hear you talk about how you feel about 'new people' (I guess) and... I just don't relate, but I have hoped for a long time to find someone describe this so that I could understand it a little more.
Nice video! ISFPs are so sweet and pretty and a lot like us INFPs!
You are too kind❤
Minus the crippling existential depression.
@@mickdooley8994 The existentially depressed may have more consciousness than others
mick dooley Oh, get us into our Fi-Ni loop and there’s existential depression galore! I know because I was stuck there for quite a while 😔
Thank youuuu
I paused and went "WHY DOES SHE LOOK SO FAMILIAR!!!" and then she said Lu is her sister and I laughed so hard haha. This is adorable! I'm an INFJ and I have always had a thing for IxFPs....although it did take me a while to figure out the moodiness and need for space.
I could tell you were her sister in a second! You look and sound so much like each other. Thank you for sharing the ISFP video, there aren't enough videos in the MBTI community.
We are out there
Good video. Infringement on individuality is important to being true. There's something to learn from that.
Lu was right, you have the most awesome smile and laugh! I watched this video twice just to see you smile and hear you laugh all over again. You are adorable 😍
Cherri Paxton you are so sweet 💕 Thank you!
(INFP) "Catching your breath in my, like, feelings"...
You are not alone.
Papa Romeo thanks for understanding😊
Great job, Elaine! You’re braver than me! 😅
Sammy J thank you!! Honestly, I'm shaking with nerves rn. Your encouragement is very much appreciated💕
Sammy J
I’m still waiting for your video, dear ESFP!😆 no pressure, just go for it-if you want :)
This attack on thought processes makes sense as being a devastating thing as Te is your inferior function. I'm an INTP dating an ISFP and while CS Joseph calls this the 4th best of the 16 pair, the danger is my Ti hero crushing the Te inferior with negative words on their intelligence similar to my vulnerable Fe inferior being morally berated by the Fi hero of the ISFP. As our aspirational functions they are the weakest in our stack, but one we love as the gateway to our subconscious.
you've just described my relationship with my intp brother lol.
Aww I love ISFPs 😊 Definitely seen similarities between her and Lu.
@@lovewho morning Lu! 😊
Such a clear ISFP! :D
Can see the Fi-Ni "link", and speaking of Se "experience", with a Te "aspirational".
Hard to word out the utter clarity of mind/intuition about these "things".
I’m an ISFP too!! I got into MBTI through my sister too lol.
no you are a Metal (81)
Just met a fantastic ISFP and learned that we are not supposed to be a great match? (Me being an ENTP) 😳🤔 but we are, maybe ”opposites attract”? I try not to be my typical blunt self and I argue in a more non-combatant manner than I usually do.
I am with Entp have a lot of fun with them
Nice to meet you Elaine, you did a great job on this video! ❤️
Jen the INFP Thank you❤
Holy crap! You can definitely tell youre sisters😁
Nice job, Elaine :) I’m looking forward to you future cameos ❤️
Hannah Mathilda Thank you❤
Let's ship her with Dave istp and see what happen hahah..
And what a wonderful vibe, Elaine :)
Omg yes I ship this tooo!!!!
@@nailachoudhury3795 high5 hahah
Lolz okay
@@elaineknepp8944 yay you approved my comment 🤭
Elaine seems extremely elegant.
Less is more indeed. True, vibing with ISFPs just mean being yourself and listen to what i have to say and we will 99% adore you.
And no, you're not a dumbass for the last part. This ISFP likes that imaginary day alot, though my sensible side would be like "Dang I gotta take care of all these animals" XD
Hi Elaine. Great video, you should keep making them!
First comment
Love this series sooo much!
lol totally knew that was your sister, you’re super cute. -from an intp
What a nice resemblance with Cameron Diaz.
Nelly Kuznetsova Wow, that's one of the nicest things anyone has ever said to me!! Thank you💃💃
Her smile is so contagious and adorable
ok you’re giving me vibes similar to my own sister lol (she’s also ISFP)
your sister is not real g
You are definitely Lu’s sister. I think you look more like her than any of your other siblings I’ve seen here. Nice to “meet” you.
Nathan Glass You lucky guy you.
I laughed all the way through, like you would be a comedian...
The vibe is fascinating 🤨
you talk just like me!!! my isfp gang ughh
Interesting, thank you for the video! Are there any SFJ's in their own words videos scheduled to be released?
Cool thanks! There are tons of them, they are everywhere :)
And you exude joy...
That was good you should do more,. So should I . I’m ISFP and my wife is enfj . Being ISFP makes me feel a bit selfish bc around her cause she’s a giver . But she tells me , no , just do your thing and go for it . Any way I understood every thing and where you were comb from thanx a gain , we are unique.
So cute
Nathan Glass oh but Nathan ... I do .. just once the lights turn out
Love Who haha yeah I should probably feel that in 🤣🙃
Isfp dont show their moodyness that much😊
You're too cute!! hahaha
no youre ytoo cooteu ahahahahahahahahahahahahahaqhahahah
@@mansertwo no, you! 😂
Omg I’m ISFP too and I agree with everything. The worst day and the individuality bits are so trye
It was my impression, after much research, that ISFPs are not moody as in having mood swings, but, as in actually being capable of experiencing more than one mood at the same time. Maybe even several. Especially if they are engaged in multiple conversations, like women talking together. One about her man, another about her day, another about her mother and another about what she is going to make for dinner, for instance. Romantic or angry, frustrated or excited, oppressed or tickled, disgusted or delighted. All at once. Like that. Am I wrong?
3:40 as an isfp yes i really hate that, Im usually of very big temper but when people talk about such things i feel my personality and the action of individuality is jeopardized, and that im not my own individual. I dont think of myself as "Hello my name is ... Im ... and i like ..." But more of "Hello im a friend of somebody". Thats when i lose it, and as she said it, become mean.
Wow my daughter is an ISFP....she has had over 20 goats and numbers of chickens and would keep and nurture every animal she could. All that was said in this video is my daughter 100%
As an INFP I also balk big time at being told what to do of having an invasion of my personal space or territory.
"I can't Adult today, thats not my mood", i've seen this from an isfp. I've also seen the inverted isfp, or one with a developed intj....they are Vamp----ires.
Can you please elaborate on what you mean by "Vampire?"
She looks like mini version of her sister ..🤣
ISFP best sensory type.
All isfps I have seen in tube are too soft ...And I am far from being soft. why then? why am I Isfp?
mysterious lover I’m not too sure myself. How did you find out yours?
@@Cheri04 I took personality tests and read cognitive functions. I am not quite sure tho about it. I have been reading all other types and it is kinda hard to ger em all. What about you?
I’m an ISFP through and through I’m sure to the point it’s like knowing I’m male or female . I’m a 9w8 on the eneagram. I am soft as a babys bottom but if you get in my way or stand on my toes I’m angry . I’m married 20 years to an Enfj . I’m a Concretor and I’m a body builder and I study the bible . But I am ISFP through and through . Love you guys .
@@jasimcg.6527 It must feel good to know itself that much! 🤗🌱
me too, it's just stereotype, how individualistic type can have all people in it with the same presence?
She looks like she's on the verge of crying every time she smiles, which makes my turbulent ass feel scared, as if I'm doing something wrong. Also, being an ISFP-T, it's normal to feel a crazy amount of anxiety, right? Cause as I tapped on the thumbnail, I can feel the anxiety telling me about how a certain family member will see this (have the same wifi) and confront me irl.
I need to compare with an INFP vibe!
she realy looks like her sister !!
Cute, really
is she a pisces?
Do you know your enneagram type? I would guess 9w1 sx/so
Idk if this falls into this cathegory, but when i'm "moody" its more of a character i feal and act like than a certain emotion..
Am I the only one 🤣?
That’s text book Fi-Ni communication with one another. Love that!
define moody lol
👋🏽
Jesus Christ!
Not an ISFP!
can you say why?
why
Giggle giggle giggle. …not good
hehehehehe