I'm eager to hear your thoughts on the definition of "Real love" by Osho. I personally think it's an idea that could be debated and open to many more new interpretations. Do you think "unattachment" within a relationship is realistic or healthy when applied from his perspective?
I think it’s healthy. If I’m understanding correctly, he’s saying to not lose yourself in your partner and don’t be overbearing. This is something I had to learn on my own and will be applying to all relationships going forward.
True love is unconditional. Unconditional love cannot be realized if you do not first love yourself by realizing you are already complete within yourself. Then and only then can you love the 'other' properly. I say 'other' because ultimately we are all one. So yes, detachment within a relationship is healthy because you know your worth when you know you do not need anything outside yourself. As for whether it's realistic, that depends on the individual's development.
"Serve love through the lover, this way you will never become attached to the lover" I have learnt that all emotions, including love, is self generated. And I believe this is what this lesson expresses. That it comes from us, we experience it through what we give, and it does free you from attachment to understand it in this way. I absolutely love how Osho teaches this lesson. He explains much more than I do and with real practicality in the ways we don't subscribe to unhealthy things with partners under the motivation of loving them.
Healthy and possible. But I have struggled to explain this concept to the men I have dated. So possibly this definition will help me clarify my meaning in the future. I do think if the men I date do not understand this concept, then the relationship cannot progress. Thank you for sharing this video ❤
I always have leaned toward detachment meaning detaching from fear, insecurities and undesired circumstances or preferences, and instead focusing on the outcome you do prefer and being that. Movement is always happening, even if it doesn't appear to be. Detachment is all those things and having the predominant faith in that without evidence.
@a.a.1867 fixating and focusing are two different things. Letting go, to me, is focusing on your preferable outcome without fixating on it. It's also letting go of previous fears and doubts you might have about your desire. By *choosing* your preferable outcome and focusing on it, you are back in power.
"We feel like we'll starve without their breadcrumbs" What a perfect summary of a common delusion. Love all of the lessons in this video. And you, woman, are absolutely radiant. Thank you for this video ❤
“Love will makes you start to heal yourself without being asked because you want to be a better partner while attachment makes them try to heal you without you asking them because they want a fantasy version of you that doesn’t exist”. Read that again 🙂
My aunt once said to me, "let go with love," and it stayed with me for a long time. But this and your other videos take it to a higher level. Historically I am a 'type A.' It still feels good to take action, but more recently, I have been focusing on shifting to actively loving, vs always doing/trying/making. If I love the person, thing...and myself... enough, I can let them go with love, to God. I love it all enough to let the Universe handle it. ✨️
3:45 another suggestion on what to say to breadcrumbing lover is "when you are ready for real commitment and love, let me know but I cannot guarantee that i will be single when you are because i am not waiting. I deserve someone who is 100% all in"
I was caught is a complicated "situationship" and wasn't sure what to do so i asked the universe for advice . Sure enough a day later i recieved my sign trough this video and now my path is a lot clearer so thank you , you are such a light💜
Situationships are a waste of time. I got out of one recently. Right people will put effort and we will not have to ask for anything. There are so many people in this world that will love us right.
"Ive always had a conflict. Because im shy and yet i like to take up a lot of personal space" Yessss Andy🙌. Ive always been this way but never knew how to put it in words 😩😩 Im a Leo too! ♌♌♌✨ Not all leos fit in the category of loud and flashy. Some of us just have a Bold presence but are still naturally reserved. No matter what we do, others will always percieve us as having a grand ambiance, we cant help it. Our personalities truely stand out amongst the crowd.
I'm leo rising 😊 I've only ever known one flashy Leo in my entire life. All the other Leo's I've met were incredibly reserved and observant considering the reputation you guys hold🌸
@@maleekaismyguardianangel that is so true !🌸 & Our rising is how others view us. It's our social light. So , with you having a rising in Leo, you definitely leave a mark wherever you go☺️ Keep inspiring us with your content and creativity 📸 This is the channel I never knew I needed !
So recently I’ve been learning to “Surrender” to life. It’s about enjoying the journey and the end result will come. ❤ I read the Surrender Experiment by Michael Alan Singer and it has really transformed the way that I look at things. Thank you for this video Maleeka, you truly are a guardian angel. ✨
am trying to manifest sucess in university entrance exam and having a hard time to apply these thinngs in that topic...I would be so greatfull for your advice
I'm in the process of manifesting a soulmate (who I haven't met yet, as far as I know). I often make the mistake of thinking the "detachment" stuff applies more to people manifesting an SP, but this video made me realize I may be harboring an unhealthy attachment to someone I've never met. Super helpful, thank you
Know you are whole without this person 🤲💕 You can fill your life with love and joy. The other person is just a plus one that is also a whole human being. Just never expect someone else to be a solution to your challenges and you'll be fine 🌟
This was super well-timed. I'm reading Be Here Now and it's helping me a lot too. Highly recommend. Last night I decided it didn't matter if I never got a call for a job - I'm a creator, I create things. I'll always find a way to create things no matter how much money I'm making and where I live. It really sunk in. I felt at peace. I woke up this morning to a request to schedule a job interview. There's really something to this.
Whenever I watch your videos I always feel a sense of peace and that everything is working out for me. This video in particular was exactly what I needed to hear. I was facing a lot of issues with transitioning into a new career. I would stressfully prep for interviews and be so attached to the idea of getting a new role. It wasn't until I let go of the fear, doubt, and attachment that I secured my dream role with the pay and benefits I scripted. Thank you.
you have the perfect voice for this type of content: smooth, not rushed, not overly energetic, superb enunciation. Another insightful video and a great reminder for me.
So relatable - I’ve went back to several things, people, behaviors because I feared the unknown thinking “it couldn’t get better” than what I had already experienced. Now, I’m so glad I was wrong.
I detached myself from the man I'm in love with, cause he didn't reciprocate and wanted to friendzone me. I literally told him that what I need is not platonic friendship, but that I want to be held securely and lovingly, and if he is not the one to do that, that's fine, I'll make space for the one who will. Wished him love, peace and happiness and let him go. Bringing back my energy to myself again and it feels better every day. When I think back about the man I notice the negative emotions like bitterness, longing, jealousy and rejection fading away. I think back of him with peace and benevolence and find myself desiring him less and less while still loving. I trust God to lead me to the best life and person for me and appreciate all the beauty of life, that I'm rediscovering right now.
I’ve been going in circles with this concept. It’s true and I know it. I use it, but there’s a desire I have I think I’m having a hard time fully detaching from.
Accept it ,embrace it that you are in fact attact to that desire ,when you start to accept it as the way it is, is the moment you detach from it. The act to trying detach from something is in fact another form of attachment.
@@_Mimi_711 trying to manifest sucess in university entrance exam and having a hard time to apply these thinngs in that topic...I would be so greatfull for your advice
Starting from the Deepak Chopra's quote, my tears were dropping, along with your voice, I cried and felt so much pain..I couldn't continue the video after 7:17, I guess what you put out there is so much for me to dwell on, I guess it's just too difficult for me to love myself right now.
Wonderful message. Your content never disappoints. And, the person who said “the right message can come from the wrong person…no such thing as right/wrong…” Truer words have not been spoken. Take the lessen (from wherever and whomever it emanates from) and grow from it. Detachment is a wonderful and peaceful thing. Love flows without disruption once consideration of the outcome is removed! ❤❤
I feel like this law of detachment is a bit of a misnomer. What it ought to be considered is the law of focusing on the right things, rather than on the wrong things. To completely detach is to shut the door on things entering your life, which you don't want to do for anything good in life. Better to redirect your focus on actual achievable goals you have control over and that serve your greater good, or even allow you to achieve the ultimate goal of wholeness. Such a cool example of this is what happened with the artist gymnastics World Championships that just took place with the U.S. men's team event. The U.S. men hadn't won a medal in several years, but they ended up with a bronze this year! Their team captain, Yul Muldour, was asked how they were able to achieve this bronze medal and he said they weren't focused on the medal, they were simply focused on the work they had to do. They detached from the outcome of winning a medal or beating another team and just put their focus on their present moment to moment, cheering each other on, etc. and the best medal for them became a bronze. If they hadn't won a medal, well, then they just wouldn't have won it. It wasn't as important as their team spirit and supporting one another through the events they had to go through. Doing their best and being there for one another mattered way more than a type of medal hanging around their necks.
Thank you for this❤ Yes, this did help. We are already whole and complete. Knowing what we would like added to our experience and yet not becoming a slave to it. Love how you express all of this.🤗
I know all these things and I feel them, but I needed to hear this from a girl with your mentality that I think the conversation would be credible for me, I needed to hear those feelings put in words that make sense and are very concerned for me. I understand every word you say. Thank you, Malika❤
Thanks so much for this video, it came out at the right time for me where I've been struggling detaching from my ex and our past relationship. While I've made some progress of actually moving on, there are still some feelings lingering in the process and that is so hard to remove, making me feel I'm somehow still attached. I just love your practical points on how to detach and cried a bit with that I'm ready to love affirmation
Hi I have detached from a 10year gf...I could not handle it anymore..also I detached from Nachos...and Popcorn...and now detachment is fun. It really does make life better, however once I Detach I attach to something else. It just like when people quit their vice of choice, they often times, gain another vice. Maybe the 2nd vice is better maybe not. Im a Taurus, but do not study astrology. I study Meditation, and listening and looking deep into things like tree bark and leaves, and now I also detached from my big house and it was the best thing that ever happend in my life, detached everything inside the house and walked away. It was exhilarating. I detached from Millions of dollars as well. Im not interested in money, sex, just peace and love. My Name is Christian O, I love your videos Maleeka.
I really liked your perspective on detachment, Thank you kindly. Your work touched me personally and I was struggling with detachment in general as well, I often get obsessed about things I want and don’t have control over and it never happens mainly because I am obsessed about it. From now on I will do my best to detach from it and I will have a genuine intention +detachment =success. The formula is fire too! I would love to see about self love and adoring oneself .
I'm realising that I have been manifesting you, I've been manifesting self discovery and I've found you and it is exhilarating ,this process of discovering myself and filling my own cup.
Maleeka I really admire you, could you please speak about detaching specifically from money in one of your future videos? I’ve been so attached to this potential financial freedom it’s so imprisoning to me, I always switch in and out of states no matter how hard I try to stay in the most favorable one. I feel so dumb not being able to not believe the doubts that cross through my mind. I really hope you read this, and please continue what you’re doing, you’re fantastic❤
Thank you for this video i mistakenly broke up with my ex 3 months ago made a rash impulsive decision. I did all I could to try and make it right and rekindle and I haven’t heard from her. I can’t say I’m surprised. God knows my heart I made an honest mistake. All I can do is continue to learn and grow from the experience. I’ve prayed to God many times about it and I have to let go and leave it in his hands.
I’m in a similar situation. I broke up mistakenly with my ex for a silly reason one month ago and i kinda regret it now😢 but i have been trying to let go now. How is it going for you now? Did it get any better?
I love your voice so much it's soothing. I would like to share my thoughts on this particular topic. In astrology, I am an air dominant because of my Libra and Aquarius placements. Most importantly, I think the common misconception everyone makes when mastering detachment is forgetting emotion plays a role in practicing detachment. For example, let's say you broke up with someone who isn't treating you like a queen, and instead of complaining or crying over someone you lost. I would release the feeling you don't need a man who doesn't treat you like a queen, and treat yourself like one. By doing this you're detaching your emotions from the outcome. From what I understand, emotions are big part of detaching yourself from any situation in all areas of life. Honestly, some beneficial ways to master detachment is journaling which I personally like, however my most favorite is mental health walks for my mental health and physical health. Because it let's me detach from my emotions. In manifestation, I believe feeling or emotion plays a big role in manifesting what you want not only from detaching, yet letting go of the emotions including pain, suffering, depression, etcetera.
I can appreciate witnessing you refine your craft. You share with us these messages of connecting with the spiritual realm for our empowerment and i havent been here from the beginning but I've been here at least all of 2023, maybe end of last year and the growth in your delivery is admirable
Nothing else to say but Amen and thank you. I know what I want but I also know who I am. This is extremely personal to me because of where I am now. I woke up and just was unhappy, I cannot remain as this person or I would never receive or grow. I just can’t stay this way, with the same environment and the same people and the same mindset, no. I gave myself the ick and was inconsolable for the past week. Shadow work helped so much and to see this and hear it confirms so much. I appreciate the video. Definitely aligned and is helpful. I’m gonna journal this section out. ❤❤❤❤
have you red " the game of life and how to play it" ? is there a video about it in your channel if you did ? I would love to watch something from you about this subject , i finished that book two weeks ago and i just cannot stop thinking about it ! Regardless of what i just said i love your content , please keep it up you bring much joy to my days, kisses from France xoxo
Hi Maleeka, so happy to know that you are West Indian, i am also from the West Indies, Trinidadian here🇹🇹, i love your energy, vibe , and presence, love to watch and hopefully im growing to become a better version of myself❤
Maleeka maybe you’re a real Angel. I look alot of videos about detachment but your videos always have the easiest explanations and inspire me a lot. Thanks for all you’re doing. Waiting forward to more videos like this one.
I recently found your videos. I am greatly grateful for the Universe align me to you. I truly enjoy how you personally relate to the experiences of manifesting, LoA, and living life. Thank you for sharing with us and wanting to see us achieve all the Univesre has in store for us. So be it❤
maleeka, I really have learn a lot from you, I'm so grateful. Right now I am going to audition for a company and I really don't know how to gave a great impression and at the same time to detach from the result :(
I’ve never listened to you before but I’m glad I ran across this video because that was “beautifully put”. For lack of better words of course thank you so much, I needed the reminder 10:39
I didn’t know you were Syrian that’s awesome im Lebanese so I definitely can relate regarding in cultural things. Awesome video as always, had to learn to detaching from sp rn
Would be cool if you covered how to detach from the ego. How to stop hating yourself if you've been taught by your family to do so. Or how to take care of yourself. Maybe they all go together...
Really loved this video! I was wondering if you could make a video about the concept of the self, so who we are and how we decide who we are, seems interesting to me! 💕
Well fuck… I’m a Leo… And I’ve acted like Andy before. Thank you love, for brutally putting me in the reality of how that aggressive energy comes off. 😂
thank you for sharing all of this ❤❤ i LOVE you and i LOVE your energy, your videos are always so calming and clear!!! would u be willing to make another video describing more about the process of detachment? like how to practice that or embody that? you have an amazing way of explaining!!! ❤❤❤🥰💖💖💕💖💞
Detachment connotes the aversion towards a form of experience for some, and the want to decouple from said experience. As others have mentioned, "surrender" or "acceptance" is a more positive understanding of the message, and can possibly be seen as something entirely different from detachment.
Thankyou for this gem. I wasn't feeling so well and your content always gives me so much hope. Keep doing what you do, I hope to cheer you on louder from now on
Hi Maleeka! I love your videos! I just wanted to leave a comment because you've included a very brief clip of russell brand near the start of the video, and I'm unsure if you're aware of the very serious allegations made against him very recently in the British press, but it's probably not a great idea to use him as an example of someone in high places 'alluding to this secret'. Just wanted to give you a heads up incase you weren't aware of this!
Paradox comes when you realize most of your intentions are thing you attach to. I guess we need to learn to detach from our needs so we can put the intention to respond to our needs. So there is a fine line to know how much we care about the desired thing. We care enough to go get it when we Need it. And otherwise it doesn't Matter to us. Also by it'' I don't mean a lover if that's what you're desiring. It'': the satisfactory effect it has on us.
I have a question for anyone who wants to reply : My teacher told me that positive thinking and visualization couldn’t work because there are too many thoughts in the immaterial dimension, therefore, only my actions in this space-time dimension could bring me something. I understand that we must take actions, but it still stresses me out because most of the time I have no idea if what I’m doing even has a correlation with my end goal, since my end goal is not something you can “get” as it is not a material possession. My teacher told me that contrary to what we’re thinking, the results of actions were never influenced by what was going on in our minds, our feelings, emotions, intentions etc, and that only elements like circumstances, the environment around, our surroundings etc could have an actual impact on the outcome. I find it very difficult to believe, because I observed for myself that depending on my inner state of mind, my result was different. What do y’all think ?
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I'm eager to hear your thoughts on the definition of "Real love" by Osho.
I personally think it's an idea that could be debated and open to many more new interpretations.
Do you think "unattachment" within a relationship is realistic or healthy when applied from his perspective?
I think it’s healthy. If I’m understanding correctly, he’s saying to not lose yourself in your partner and don’t be overbearing. This is something I had to learn on my own and will be applying to all relationships going forward.
True love is unconditional. Unconditional love cannot be realized if you do not first love yourself by realizing you are already complete within yourself. Then and only then can you love the 'other' properly. I say 'other' because ultimately we are all one. So yes, detachment within a relationship is healthy because you know your worth when you know you do not need anything outside yourself. As for whether it's realistic, that depends on the individual's development.
"Serve love through the lover, this way you will never become attached to the lover"
I have learnt that all emotions, including love, is self generated. And I believe this is what this lesson expresses. That it comes from us, we experience it through what we give, and it does free you from attachment to understand it in this way. I absolutely love how Osho teaches this lesson. He explains much more than I do and with real practicality in the ways we don't subscribe to unhealthy things with partners under the motivation of loving them.
Healthy and possible. But I have struggled to explain this concept to the men I have dated. So possibly this definition will help me clarify my meaning in the future. I do think if the men I date do not understand this concept, then the relationship cannot progress. Thank you for sharing this video ❤
@@visceralstrokesYES. ❤
I always have leaned toward detachment meaning detaching from fear, insecurities and undesired circumstances or preferences, and instead focusing on the outcome you do prefer and being that. Movement is always happening, even if it doesn't appear to be. Detachment is all those things and having the predominant faith in that without evidence.
wow, this is so simple yet profound.. this comment helped me so much haha (thanks for helping me release a little doubt)
This helped me as well! I’m finally detaching from disappointment and fear … not so much detaching from the desire
You're saying to focus on the outcome while she's saying not to. I'm confused on what were supposed to do
@a.a.1867 fixating and focusing are two different things. Letting go, to me, is focusing on your preferable outcome without fixating on it. It's also letting go of previous fears and doubts you might have about your desire. By *choosing* your preferable outcome and focusing on it, you are back in power.
@@tylerobrien2666 but isn't she saying in the video not to focus on any outcome?
"We feel like we'll starve without their breadcrumbs"
What a perfect summary of a common delusion.
Love all of the lessons in this video. And you, woman, are absolutely radiant. Thank you for this video ❤
I agree. We don’t need breadcrumbs. We are worthy of more..
Detachment = suffering + pain + mental health = soul-searching, reasoning, self improvement, discipline. = success. new chapter 😅
What's up! Universe 😊 🤪.
@Vee-dh2rr beyond repairable, I'm that image. 😔
“Love will makes you start to heal yourself without being asked because you want to be a better partner while attachment makes them try to heal you without you asking them because they want a fantasy version of you that doesn’t exist”.
Read that again 🙂
My aunt once said to me, "let go with love," and it stayed with me for a long time. But this and your other videos take it to a higher level.
Historically I am a 'type A.' It still feels good to take action, but more recently, I have been focusing on shifting to actively loving, vs always doing/trying/making. If I love the person, thing...and myself... enough, I can let them go with love, to God. I love it all enough to let the Universe handle it. ✨️
Yeesss I resonate with this so much, Im the same and am working on the same. You got this 💫!
❤ yes at a time of great loss "let love let it go" popped into mind and it's soothed me ever since 🙏 as in if you love something set it free 😁
3:45 another suggestion on what to say to breadcrumbing lover is "when you are ready for real commitment and love, let me know but I cannot guarantee that i will be single when you are because i am not waiting. I deserve someone who is 100% all in"
I was caught is a complicated "situationship" and wasn't sure what to do so i asked the universe for advice . Sure enough a day later i recieved my sign trough this video and now my path is a lot clearer so thank you , you are such a light💜
Situationships are a waste of time. I got out of one recently. Right people will put effort and we will not have to ask for anything. There are so many people in this world that will love us right.
"Ive always had a conflict. Because im shy and yet i like to take up a lot of personal space" Yessss Andy🙌. Ive always been this way but never knew how to put it in words 😩😩 Im a Leo too! ♌♌♌✨ Not all leos fit in the category of loud and flashy. Some of us just have a Bold presence but are still naturally reserved. No matter what we do, others will always percieve us as having a grand ambiance, we cant help it. Our personalities truely stand out amongst the crowd.
I'm leo rising 😊 I've only ever known one flashy Leo in my entire life. All the other Leo's I've met were incredibly reserved and observant considering the reputation you guys hold🌸
@@maleekaismyguardianangel that is so true !🌸 & Our rising is how others view us. It's our social light. So , with you having a rising in Leo, you definitely leave a mark wherever you go☺️ Keep inspiring us with your content and creativity 📸 This is the channel I never knew I needed !
@@maleekaismyguardianangel I'm a libra and all the Leo's I attract end up competing with me for the "spotlight" I don't even want🤔
IM A LEO TOO ❤
@prettyandrichxoxo 🤘🏼💗
So recently I’ve been learning to “Surrender” to life. It’s about enjoying the journey and the end result will come. ❤
I read the Surrender Experiment by Michael Alan Singer and it has really transformed the way that I look at things. Thank you for this video Maleeka, you truly are a guardian angel. ✨
am trying to manifest sucess in university entrance exam and having a hard time to apply these thinngs in that topic...I would be so greatfull for your advice
Does that book say you can surrender and manifest at the same time?
I'm in the process of manifesting a soulmate (who I haven't met yet, as far as I know). I often make the mistake of thinking the "detachment" stuff applies more to people manifesting an SP, but this video made me realize I may be harboring an unhealthy attachment to someone I've never met. Super helpful, thank you
Know you are whole without this person 🤲💕 You can fill your life with love and joy. The other person is just a plus one that is also a whole human being. Just never expect someone else to be a solution to your challenges and you'll be fine 🌟
This was super well-timed. I'm reading Be Here Now and it's helping me a lot too. Highly recommend. Last night I decided it didn't matter if I never got a call for a job - I'm a creator, I create things. I'll always find a way to create things no matter how much money I'm making and where I live. It really sunk in. I felt at peace.
I woke up this morning to a request to schedule a job interview. There's really something to this.
Whenever I watch your videos I always feel a sense of peace and that everything is working out for me. This video in particular was exactly what I needed to hear. I was facing a lot of issues with transitioning into a new career. I would stressfully prep for interviews and be so attached to the idea of getting a new role. It wasn't until I let go of the fear, doubt, and attachment that I secured my dream role with the pay and benefits I scripted. Thank you.
“You know what you want you just also know who you are”
you have the perfect voice for this type of content: smooth, not rushed, not overly energetic, superb enunciation. Another insightful video and a great reminder for me.
So relatable - I’ve went back to several things, people, behaviors because I feared the unknown thinking “it couldn’t get better” than what I had already experienced. Now, I’m so glad I was wrong.
I detached myself from the man I'm in love with, cause he didn't reciprocate and wanted to friendzone me. I literally told him that what I need is not platonic friendship, but that I want to be held securely and lovingly, and if he is not the one to do that, that's fine, I'll make space for the one who will. Wished him love, peace and happiness and let him go.
Bringing back my energy to myself again and it feels better every day. When I think back about the man I notice the negative emotions like bitterness, longing, jealousy and rejection fading away. I think back of him with peace and benevolence and find myself desiring him less and less while still loving.
I trust God to lead me to the best life and person for me and appreciate all the beauty of life, that I'm rediscovering right now.
When I am a horrible worker and detach I get raises, when I work hard I don’t. Detaxhment works
I’ve been going in circles with this concept. It’s true and I know it. I use it, but there’s a desire I have I think I’m having a hard time fully detaching from.
Update; nearly done with the video and I have such a fresh understanding to this concept. Thank you, Maleeka!! I love your content.
Accept it ,embrace it that you are in fact attact to that desire ,when you start to accept it as the way it is, is the moment you detach from it. The act to trying detach from something is in fact another form of attachment.
@@pentingberhasil633 I am writing your comment down in my journal and literally had everything click into place. Holy shit. Thank you.
@@_Mimi_711 trying to manifest sucess in university entrance exam and having a hard time to apply these thinngs in that topic...I would be so greatfull for your advice
@@paya111-lp8cn what you want is already done. Accept that you want it and it’s already done. That’s how you detach. Nothing else is needed.
Starting from the Deepak Chopra's quote, my tears were dropping, along with your voice, I cried and felt so much pain..I couldn't continue the video after 7:17, I guess what you put out there is so much for me to dwell on, I guess it's just too difficult for me to love myself right now.
Wonderful message. Your content never disappoints. And, the person who said “the right message can come from the wrong person…no such thing as right/wrong…” Truer words have not been spoken. Take the lessen (from wherever and whomever it emanates from) and grow from it.
Detachment is a wonderful and peaceful thing. Love flows without disruption once consideration of the outcome is removed! ❤❤
I feel like this law of detachment is a bit of a misnomer. What it ought to be considered is the law of focusing on the right things, rather than on the wrong things. To completely detach is to shut the door on things entering your life, which you don't want to do for anything good in life. Better to redirect your focus on actual achievable goals you have control over and that serve your greater good, or even allow you to achieve the ultimate goal of wholeness. Such a cool example of this is what happened with the artist gymnastics World Championships that just took place with the U.S. men's team event. The U.S. men hadn't won a medal in several years, but they ended up with a bronze this year! Their team captain, Yul Muldour, was asked how they were able to achieve this bronze medal and he said they weren't focused on the medal, they were simply focused on the work they had to do. They detached from the outcome of winning a medal or beating another team and just put their focus on their present moment to moment, cheering each other on, etc. and the best medal for them became a bronze. If they hadn't won a medal, well, then they just wouldn't have won it. It wasn't as important as their team spirit and supporting one another through the events they had to go through. Doing their best and being there for one another mattered way more than a type of medal hanging around their necks.
Well that sounds like detachment to me or at least being indifferent
that's still detachment from the outcome, which is mentioned in the video. i see what you're saying though
Thank you for this❤ Yes, this did help. We are already whole and complete. Knowing what we would like added to our experience and yet not becoming a slave to it. Love how you express all of this.🤗
I know all these things and I feel them, but I needed to hear this from a girl with your mentality that I think the conversation would be credible for me, I needed to hear those feelings put in words that make sense and are very concerned for me. I understand every word you say.
Thank you, Malika❤
Thanks so much for this video, it came out at the right time for me where I've been struggling detaching from my ex and our past relationship. While I've made some progress of actually moving on, there are still some feelings lingering in the process and that is so hard to remove, making me feel I'm somehow still attached. I just love your practical points on how to detach and cried a bit with that I'm ready to love affirmation
Hi I have detached from a 10year gf...I could not handle it anymore..also I detached from Nachos...and Popcorn...and now detachment is fun. It really does make life better, however once I Detach I attach to something else. It just like when people quit their vice of choice, they often times, gain another vice. Maybe the 2nd vice is better maybe not. Im a Taurus, but do not study astrology. I study Meditation, and listening and looking deep into things like tree bark and leaves, and now I also detached from my big house and it was the best thing that ever happend in my life, detached everything inside the house and walked away. It was exhilarating. I detached from Millions of dollars as well. Im not interested in money, sex, just peace and love. My Name is Christian O, I love your videos Maleeka.
I really liked your perspective on detachment, Thank you kindly. Your work touched me personally and I was struggling with detachment in general as well, I often get obsessed about things I want and don’t have control over and it never happens mainly because I am obsessed about it. From now on I will do my best to detach from it and I will have a genuine intention +detachment =success. The formula is fire too! I would love to see about self love and adoring oneself .
I'm realising that I have been manifesting you, I've been manifesting self discovery and I've found you and it is exhilarating ,this process of discovering myself and filling my own cup.
Maleeka I really admire you, could you please speak about detaching specifically from money in one of your future videos? I’ve been so attached to this potential financial freedom it’s so imprisoning to me, I always switch in and out of states no matter how hard I try to stay in the most favorable one. I feel so dumb not being able to not believe the doubts that cross through my mind. I really hope you read this, and please continue what you’re doing, you’re fantastic❤
I would like to know this specific detachment as I'm also struggling with it!
I’d like this as well!
i am obsessed with your energy and the way this video was edited and everything i adore it
The fact that she is mentioning Osho and explaining in awesome detail is making me want to keep following regularly, keep doing you Queen!
Thank you for the reminder. When I truly (without any notion of ever getting the thing) I get it almost instantly.
I will never be tired of saying how perfect your videos are
Thank you for this video i mistakenly broke up with my ex 3 months ago made a rash impulsive decision. I did all I could to try and make it right and rekindle and I haven’t heard from her. I can’t say I’m surprised. God knows my heart I made an honest mistake. All I can do is continue to learn and grow from the experience. I’ve prayed to God many times about it and I have to let go and leave it in his hands.
I’m in a similar situation. I broke up mistakenly with my ex for a silly reason one month ago and i kinda regret it now😢 but i have been trying to let go now. How is it going for you now? Did it get any better?
I love your voice so much it's soothing. I would like to share my thoughts on this particular topic. In astrology, I am an air dominant because of my Libra and Aquarius placements.
Most importantly, I think the common misconception everyone makes when mastering detachment is forgetting emotion plays a role in practicing detachment. For example, let's say you broke up with someone who isn't treating you like a queen, and instead of complaining or crying over someone you lost. I would release the feeling you don't need a man who doesn't treat you like a queen, and treat yourself like one. By doing this you're detaching your emotions from the outcome.
From what I understand, emotions are big part of detaching yourself from any situation in all areas of life.
Honestly, some beneficial ways to master detachment is journaling which I personally like, however my most favorite is mental health walks for my mental health and physical health. Because it let's me detach from my emotions.
In manifestation, I believe feeling or emotion plays a big role in manifesting what you want not only from detaching, yet letting go of the emotions including pain, suffering, depression, etcetera.
This was awesome. Thank you so much. You have such a genuine and calm and way to speak and present. So thanks a lot.
I can appreciate witnessing you refine your craft. You share with us these messages of connecting with the spiritual realm for our empowerment and i havent been here from the beginning but I've been here at least all of 2023, maybe end of last year and the growth in your delivery is admirable
currently struggling with a medical condition.. this was helpful. Thank you😊
great video on detachment. best i’ve ever seen! good job
Nothing else to say but Amen and thank you.
I know what I want but I also know who I am. This is extremely personal to me because of where I am now. I woke up and just was unhappy, I cannot remain as this person or I would never receive or grow. I just can’t stay this way, with the same environment and the same people and the same mindset, no. I gave myself the ick and was inconsolable for the past week. Shadow work helped so much and to see this and hear it confirms so much. I appreciate the video. Definitely aligned and is helpful. I’m gonna journal this section out. ❤❤❤❤
have you red " the game of life and how to play it" ? is there a video about it in your channel if you did ? I would love to watch something from you about this subject , i finished that book two weeks ago and i just cannot stop thinking about it !
Regardless of what i just said i love your content , please keep it up you bring much joy to my days, kisses from France xoxo
I think you perfect explained detachment of outcome. I need to become the person who deserves love. Thank you!!! Thank you!!! Thank you!!
Hi Maleeka, so happy to know that you are West Indian, i am also from the West Indies, Trinidadian here🇹🇹, i love your energy, vibe , and presence, love to watch and hopefully im growing to become a better version of myself❤
Your videos calms me down for some reason
Just listening to you helps me attract what I want. I appreciate you very much. 💕
Maleeka maybe you’re a real Angel. I look alot of videos about detachment but your videos always have the easiest explanations and inspire me a lot. Thanks for all you’re doing. Waiting forward to more videos like this one.
I recently found your videos. I am greatly grateful for the Universe align me to you. I truly enjoy how you personally relate to the experiences of manifesting, LoA, and living life. Thank you for sharing with us and wanting to see us achieve all the Univesre has in store for us. So be it❤
Loved knowing more about you ♥️ thank you for sharing part of your story and background with us 🙏💕
what a lovely relaxing video, perfect time again 🫶🏼
“He was a Leo”…the way you just read me in 4 words 😩
maleeka, I really have learn a lot from you, I'm so grateful. Right now I am going to audition for a company and I really don't know how to gave a great impression and at the same time to detach from the result :(
heyyy
I’m watching your content from Syria.
Your videos help me think more clearly ☀️
All the love 💕
Thanks for this video.
It catches me that I had downloaded it to watch again and again. Thanks much
I’ve never listened to you before but I’m glad I ran across this video because that was “beautifully put”. For lack of better words of course thank you so much, I needed the reminder 10:39
Perfect! First intend it, then release it. 🎉
(You are sooo beautiful.)
You have such a calming effect. And I always appreciate it. 💜
I just have to say maleeka, I'm on the exact same wave length as you. All of what you introduced today I completely agree with.
You are such an inspiration! Thank you for your channel and the work you do!
you are so incredibly well spoken, another fantastic video !!
Adore you 🥰 wonderful way to start the week with this insightful wisdom, thank you darlin 🙏🏽♥️
Wow this answered all my questions and your voice is sooooo relaxing 😌
I love your chill channel. ✌️
That piano is nice with your info. Thanks for sharing. 😊
Hi I love your videos, they’re so calming and easy to grasp, would love to hear you talk about inner conversation and how you’ve used it ❤❤❤
I didn’t know you were Syrian that’s awesome im Lebanese so I definitely can relate regarding in cultural things. Awesome video as always, had to learn to detaching from sp rn
Thank you, valuable information, applicable to many aspects of manifestation. I loved the Warhol story and the quotes from Osho.
I love your videos💞 manifesting everything I want in life🙏🏻💗
So happy for you darling😊
I rarely subscribe to a new channel but yours is a gold mine ❤
Your the best TH-camr ever thx u so much for the information you have given me it was like a click finally happened in my brain
This video was amazing. The content and the way it was presented was beautiful
Glad you enjoyed it :)
139K!!! My spirit mommy is taking over! x
thank you for this! can you please make a video on focusing on circumstances?your videos really help
side note: YOUR MAKEUP IS BEAUTIFUL AND YOUR FEATURES ARE SO BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL ❤❤❤
Would be cool if you covered how to detach from the ego. How to stop hating yourself if you've been taught by your family to do so. Or how to take care of yourself. Maybe they all go together...
This is a beautifully creative video! Please feature artists in future videos like this again.
I think an important aspect to add to intent and detachment is will (power).
"As soon as you stop wanting something you get it." Life was made only to invent more and more suffering.
Everytime someone likes me i do not like them, maybe i manifested but its still annoying....
Really loved this video! I was wondering if you could make a video about the concept of the self, so who we are and how we decide who we are, seems interesting to me! 💕
Great suggestion😊 I will🌸
That last part was *DEFINITELY* about your Syrian side friend …
Thanks for existing ❤❤❤
Well fuck… I’m a Leo… And I’ve acted like Andy before. Thank you love, for brutally putting me in the reality of how that aggressive energy comes off. 😂
right before you even mentioned you were half west indian I was already getting vibes lol. much love
EARLYYYY, ilysm maleeka thank u for making my day 💗💗💗
Thank you for being here sweetpea😊💗💗💗💗💗
Such a beautiful manifesting coach
Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you 🙏
thank you for sharing all of this ❤❤ i LOVE you and i LOVE your energy, your videos are always so calming and clear!!! would u be willing to make another video describing more about the process of detachment? like how to practice that or embody that? you have an amazing way of explaining!!! ❤❤❤🥰💖💖💕💖💞
Wow an uptick in videos? yayyy🎉
Detachment connotes the aversion towards a form of experience for some, and the want to decouple from said experience. As others have mentioned, "surrender" or "acceptance" is a more positive understanding of the message, and can possibly be seen as something entirely different from detachment.
Thankyou for this gem. I wasn't feeling so well and your content always gives me so much hope. Keep doing what you do, I hope to cheer you on louder from now on
I enjoyed this video. Thank you
In addition if you are in a hostile environment, are afraid, angry, remorseful, and jealous; everything goes down the drain.
I kind of get what your saying but, can you expand on this please 🙏🏾
I love these case study type videos
That last part was *DEFINITELY* about her Syrian side…
If not anything, your voice draws me in, your pretty face is a pleasure to see. Your genuine content, is soothing 😊
"who fed you a whole meal before they came along with crumbs and problems" PLEASE 🤣😭😭😭😭✋🏾
I can definetely feel that she does zen meditation in her voice , i can hear some years of practice ! , really cool ideas !.
Youve become my fave youtuber
Hi Maleeka! I love your videos! I just wanted to leave a comment because you've included a very brief clip of russell brand near the start of the video, and I'm unsure if you're aware of the very serious allegations made against him very recently in the British press, but it's probably not a great idea to use him as an example of someone in high places 'alluding to this secret'. Just wanted to give you a heads up incase you weren't aware of this!
Paradox comes when you realize most of your intentions are thing you attach to.
I guess we need to learn to detach from our needs so we can put the intention to respond to our needs. So there is a fine line to know how much we care about the desired thing.
We care enough to go get it when we Need it. And otherwise it doesn't Matter to us.
Also by it'' I don't mean a lover if that's what you're desiring.
It'': the satisfactory effect it has on us.
I have a question for anyone who wants to reply : My teacher told me that positive thinking and visualization couldn’t work because there are too many thoughts in the immaterial dimension, therefore, only my actions in this space-time dimension could bring me something. I understand that we must take actions, but it still stresses me out because most of the time I have no idea if what I’m doing even has a correlation with my end goal, since my end goal is not something you can “get” as it is not a material possession. My teacher told me that contrary to what we’re thinking, the results of actions were never influenced by what was going on in our minds, our feelings, emotions, intentions etc, and that only elements like circumstances, the environment around, our surroundings etc could have an actual impact on the outcome. I find it very difficult to believe, because I observed for myself that depending on my inner state of mind, my result was different.
What do y’all think ?
Brilliant video, thanks!