I had a Ex wife suffering from Narcissism. I am the Only Child means no bro & sis, my ex wife asked me EXPEL my parents from their home. Took property papers, charged fake case upon me. I stopped her dowry articles, after that she they all family has gobe to jail.... This was the end!!
I suggest him to rent a house nearby his parents house (If affordable). Take marriage therapy/ counseling sessions. This is the only way to peacefully maintain his relationship with his parents Which is absolutely imperative no matter what. She needs to learn boundaries and respect his relationship with his own parents just like she maintains her own with her parents. I believe she in not with a wrong person, rather she is a big part of the problem ! This needs to be sorted out for thousands of couples out there ! If it doesnt workout after this, I'm afraid to say this going to end bad.
Same here. She left eventually with 7 year 8 months old boy. 5 and a half years ago. Work is great. Just boring on holidays. Need to find a new partner now. 😐. Same stories whether in India or Pakistan. Hindu or Muslim.
Oh my Allah... 4:48 My parents separated when I was 6 year old. My mother have married to someone, but my father didn't. I've my father too when I was 16. So brother, hug your mother, sent time with your parents. I know how it's feel when you don't have mother or father. Please brother, don't make these mistakes.
Wrong advice! If he waits to see things get better, they will never be better. Along with this, the child will be traumatised for life if he/she grew up to see constant fighting between his/her parents. Moreover, if the victim is unable to even take care of his mother, he should leave her without blinking an eye. Personally, I have been traumatised in my all childhood due to constant fighting of my parents. Now, i say to my mother why did you not leave my father to save me from traumas? Your advice is absolutely wrong according to me, he should leave her immediately for the sake of his mother, himself and even the child.
Looks like she already has someone else in her life who she couldn't marry but still wants to keep in touch with and hopes to marry eventually. Bro, don't be a doormat and just let her go.
Bro after having kid you will be in more trouble like your family can't see your kid and you will face you can't imagine samjho k blackmail ka bhi baap Kya hota ha get ready for this.any way the way to get out of this.
Please talk about domestic abuse by husbands especially when they go as students but eventually get nationalisation and then change for their wives threats of leaving or deporting amd getting married to a Gori lerki or young one
Bad situation, now she'll blackmail you on the child. Torture you by torturing the child. I have relatives in such a situation, and I know that child has become a psycho sadly.
My sister and mother wants me to marry my cousin and even i have said no to them multiple times, they aren't listening. But i know what to do and how to handle all this. They will regret this
Just give divorce to that woman man , what are you waiting for 4 more children ? People move on you should too .. when your baby come to this world then take him with you or she should take him with her whatever the court scene is .. Give divorce and Move on simple as that ..
If you can't ignore other people talk then my guy u r not for this world .. be mature enough to just ignore everything till someone tries to harm you or your family
Doesn't matter cousin or random person Depends on personality Narcissism is v common and innocent people are caught because they are having masks and fake Showing themselves nice people
Bro let me give you honest advice this type of thing happens when someone childhood is not Good their parents didn’t treated them well or might be their mother or father is died in the childhood and they didn’t experienced the unconditional love from parents so it’s effect them in the future its a very bad loop you’re in right now so If you want to make your life peaceful try to limit your attention towards her and communicate her clearly I’m not take gonna tolerate any kind of disrespect if you have problem with me we need to fix it peacefully but if you don’t want to fix the things calmly then it’s your problem and you need therapy if she still did not try to improve herself please leave her as early as possible I’m telling you’ll find the better person inshallah but don’t make your life miserable and your child’s life as well. I can understand your pain you’re going through right now but no one can help you because things are happening in your brain and no one can take things out of your head I pray Allah helps you. One more thing this type of person never gonna feel happy and satisfied no matter whatever you do for her so it’s better to leave her instead dragging the things and getting yourself stuck in the constant loop.
How can women get away with all this I have no clue…if i was her husband I would leave her at her fathers house and ask her to come back only when she is stable and ready to adjust with my family, simple… Usko uske papa k ghar me chorke aajau…
Its not the problem with cousin marriage but it's the problem with people themselves. Dunya me kharab koi cheez nahi hoti log hi os ko sahi ya kharab karte hain. As you said in the last 10 seconds of this video k dramo ne khawateen ka berha ghark kia ha yi baat aapki bilkul drust ha. Na sirf dramas balki TikTokers and these fahaash vloggers jo apne ghar garhi bangle aor bathrooms dikhate hain aaj kal larhkian on se impress hain aor partners ko bhi osi tarah chahte hain. Esi waja se divorce ratio bhi gya ha qk aorten mardo ko comparisons me dalti ha taane deti ha aor is waja se frustration janam leti ha which leads to divorces nowadays. Aaj kal shadi karna is no less than a bigger risk. I think single rehne me hi sakoon ha
I had a Ex wife suffering from Narcissism. I am the Only Child means no bro & sis, my ex wife asked me EXPEL my parents from their home. Took property papers, charged fake case upon me. I stopped her dowry articles, after that she they all family has gobe to jail.... This was the end!!
Pakistan men bhi Divorce law women ko favour krten hai kya??
@@chunnibabu108Hn Bhai ye Pakistan hai Afghanistan nhi
I suggest him to rent a house nearby his parents house (If affordable). Take marriage therapy/ counseling sessions. This is the only way to peacefully maintain his relationship with his parents Which is absolutely imperative no matter what. She needs to learn boundaries and respect his relationship with his own parents just like she maintains her own with her parents. I believe she in not with a wrong person, rather she is a big part of the problem ! This needs to be sorted out for thousands of couples out there ! If it doesnt workout after this, I'm afraid to say this going to end bad.
Same here. She left eventually with 7 year 8 months old boy. 5 and a half years ago. Work is great. Just boring on holidays. Need to find a new partner now. 😐. Same stories whether in India or Pakistan. Hindu or Muslim.
Males need to be really mindful when it comes to judging a woman. Things will not go horrible like this . But, aaplog toh manoge nhi
Oh my Allah... 4:48
My parents separated when I was 6 year old. My mother have married to someone, but my father didn't. I've my father too when I was 16.
So brother, hug your mother, sent time with your parents. I know how it's feel when you don't have mother or father.
Please brother, don't make these mistakes.
What you mean the parents both married and leave you alone?
Very strange situation 😢
Junaid is amazing !
Wrong advice! If he waits to see things get better, they will never be better. Along with this, the child will be traumatised for life if he/she grew up to see constant fighting between his/her parents. Moreover, if the victim is unable to even take care of his mother, he should leave her without blinking an eye.
Personally, I have been traumatised in my all childhood due to constant fighting of my parents. Now, i say to my mother why did you not leave my father to save me from traumas?
Your advice is absolutely wrong according to me, he should leave her immediately for the sake of his mother, himself and even the child.
Looks like she already has someone else in her life who she couldn't marry but still wants to keep in touch with and hopes to marry eventually. Bro, don't be a doormat and just let her go.
Bro after having kid you will be in more trouble like your family can't see your kid and you will face you can't imagine samjho k blackmail ka bhi baap Kya hota ha get ready for this.any way the way to get out of this.
Please talk about domestic abuse by husbands especially when they go as students but eventually get nationalisation and then change for their wives threats of leaving or deporting amd getting married to a Gori lerki or young one
Bad situation, now she'll blackmail you on the child. Torture you by torturing the child. I have relatives in such a situation, and I know that child has become a psycho sadly.
My sister and mother wants me to marry my cousin and even i have said no to them multiple times, they aren't listening. But i know what to do and how to handle all this. They will regret this
Just give divorce to that woman man , what are you waiting for 4 more children ? People move on you should too .. when your baby come to this world then take him with you or she should take him with her whatever the court scene is .. Give divorce and Move on simple as that ..
If you can't ignore other people talk then my guy u r not for this world .. be mature enough to just ignore everything till someone tries to harm you or your family
It's great topic .
very sad.
Where is link?
Doesn't matter cousin or random person
Depends on personality
Narcissism is v common and innocent people are caught because they are having masks and fake
Showing themselves nice people
I thought I was the only one jiske sath aisa hoa hai 🙂
Bhaiya g aap jo b ho *TALAK DEDO* baat hj khatam itna bara decision soch samjh ke lena chaiya
Ankh bnd kr k koi bhi kam nahi kr na cha hye.
What's other side of story?
Bro let me give you honest advice this type of thing happens when someone childhood is not Good their parents didn’t treated them well or might be their mother or father is died in the childhood and they didn’t experienced the unconditional love from parents so it’s effect them in the future its a very bad loop you’re in right now so If you want to make your life peaceful try to limit your attention towards her and communicate her clearly I’m not take gonna tolerate any kind of disrespect if you have problem with me we need to fix it peacefully but if you don’t want to fix the things calmly then it’s your problem and you need therapy if she still did not try to improve herself please leave her as early as possible I’m telling you’ll find the better person inshallah but don’t make your life miserable and your child’s life as well. I can understand your pain you’re going through right now but no one can help you because things are happening in your brain and no one can take things out of your head I pray Allah helps you. One more thing this type of person never gonna feel happy and satisfied no matter whatever you do for her so it’s better to leave her instead dragging the things and getting yourself stuck in the constant loop.
How can women get away with all this I have no clue…if i was her husband I would leave her at her fathers house and ask her to come back only when she is stable and ready to adjust with my family, simple…
Usko uske papa k ghar me chorke aajau…
Jub bahir rishtay nahi milty to phir hi khandaan my karne padte hy. Dunya Boht lalchi hy. Insaan kidhr jaye
Simple solution never marry and live your life happily
@@dallumdallums7796 Sigma advice..
@@dallumdallums7796having children is the most basic purpose of your existence
He should left the girl immediately.
Leave*
@@AbdulBasit-il2bc wannabe grammar ky 14dy
My suggestion talk to her very clearly.. Smjha smjhey theek nahi to farigh krdo.. She is independent she can live by herself as well
❤
Do no procreate, zindagi barbad ho jaegi. Ise talak do and jan churao fori.
Does anyone Noticed All comments are From Men 😢😢😢
Its not the problem with cousin marriage but it's the problem with people themselves. Dunya me kharab koi cheez nahi hoti log hi os ko sahi ya kharab karte hain. As you said in the last 10 seconds of this video k dramo ne khawateen ka berha ghark kia ha yi baat aapki bilkul drust ha. Na sirf dramas balki TikTokers and these fahaash vloggers jo apne ghar garhi bangle aor bathrooms dikhate hain aaj kal larhkian on se impress hain aor partners ko bhi osi tarah chahte hain. Esi waja se divorce ratio bhi gya ha qk aorten mardo ko comparisons me dalti ha taane deti ha aor is waja se frustration janam leti ha which leads to divorces nowadays. Aaj kal shadi karna is no less than a bigger risk. I think single rehne me hi sakoon ha
Blackmailer abi to puri income nae btyi 😅