You can also smile a little :-) Be careful with the eye-contact. There is a fine line between making good eye contact and the pathological stare of a raving psychopath. ;-)
That's my life. I wish I were braver. And, I hate how I keep coming up with excuses on why I can't talk to him when all I want to do is be with him. Gwad, I'm going crazy. I hate this. I need to toughen up my ovaries and maybe say hi to him before the school year is over.
That's actually a good idea, since you seem to be introverted you must be with an extroverted type so if an extroverted person were to like you s/he would take the first step. The bad thing about this is if the extroverted never ends up liking you and you don't do anything to make him/her like you then you might never end up together.
***** I wouldn't quickly say she is (if it is a she) an introvert. Because, me for example, I'm an extrovert-and of course with introvert qualities but more of an extrovert. But, when I like someone, I change from that out going, bubbly girl to that shy tongue tied girl that just creepily stares at the person she fancies.
Skinkie22 That's just how I feel about it. Everyone is different. My confidence isn't determined by whether or not I look someone in the eyes. I just don't like it. It's awkward to me. In my opinion, it has nothing to do with being polite. I don't determine whether or not someone was polite based on if they looked me in the eyes. It's merely opinions and preferences.
+Taylor Luren I have a hard time with it as well. Almost as if I'm revealing all of my vulnerabilities to someone. It's a strange sensation. If it's business, I have no issue just looking at someone and discussing something, but anything dealing with flirting I'm terrible at and eye contact I'm the worst at. It's horrible, lol.
+Taylor Luren "my confidence isn't determined by whether or not I look at someone" you're my hero! Sounds like someone who know themselves. You're going to be a problem to date 😂😂😂 and i mean that in a nice way. I'm already Jealous of the guy that gets to secure you already
Ways that I flirt. More or less try not to embarrass myself. 1: Look at anything but them because eye contact makes me scared. 2: Try not to touch them to avoid them thinking I'm weird. 3: Sniffle a lot because who knows if there's something on my nose or not. 4: Smiling at absolutely anything he says. 5: Use the smiley emoji
Flirting is the worst thing ever. For a socially awkward guy like me I haven't the slightest idea what you want or want me to do. If people just didn't flirt and said "I'm into you, are you into me?" and the other person said "Yes" or "No" life would be a whole lot easier.
AgentWashingtub True but women in western society feel entitled to wait on men to make the first move so they can pick and choose and rarely have to deal with rejection themselves. It's sexism but it's sexism that benefit s them so they like it.
Titus Orelius That's not entirely true. It is nice that we aren't typically expected to make the first move because i think both genders can agree that its a little nerve racking. But sometimes the thought does come to mind where we wanna ask a guy out but,because we are taught that if they're interested they will come to us, we feel that if we make the first move, we will look pushy or needy or desperate. Ya feel me? So we wait, and wait, until we get over it. And plus guys are the ones that choose us first, so were are only choosing on whats available for us based off the guys who are interested, while i see in some ways men get to try and take interest in any one that is suitable. Although you do have some disadvantages where you still can get rejected while we already know that the guy is interested. So in conclusion we both have different struggles but we can recognize that we can equally want to change things for the better. "Why fight to remove our chains, when we can compare them in lengths," -ten responses to the phrase "man up" by guante
+AgentWashingtub It would be boring mate. But I get you cause I can never tell if a girl is into me or not. Especially since some moves are just friendly for some girls and flirty for others. Women are a mystery, a sexy one, but we men sometimes appreciate a direct sign like a kiss. :D
+Morgan Kaiser No. I very much so disagree with you cause as the original commenter said "Socially Awkward" its kinda hard...I mean IMO both genders should start out with small hints then it just escalates from thar. =D but guys don't always choose first.....you were very wrong when you said that. Also when some "Socially Awkward" guys already have a low self esteem/confidence(don't have the best confidence but I think ima saint) having to deal with the thoughts of rejection makes things 100x worse.
+phoenixthecookiemonster There's probably no way unless you make it obvious. Girls are generally more touchy and complimentary to one another than guys are so i'd never assume a girl was flirting unless she told me. Good luch tho! :)
I apparently am good at flirting, but I have a very bro personality. All I do is make weird/sexual/taunting jokes at that person and playfully shove/hit them. Somehow has never failed me. And talk about videogames (a little too much honestly).
I think you are my long lost twin sister Kasha lol I talk too much abt video games to guys xD its the first thing I ask after hey how are you?.................So you play video games? < Me right there lol and I love to tease xD I dont do sexual jokes cuz I am awkward with that but I joke a lot video games FTW lol XD Lol
Dear women: a lot of us guys are socially awkward and will probably not make the first move, so go ahead ;) don't feel like you have to wait for the guy or anything. Personally, I'd much rather the girl asked me out rather than the other way around. Not that anyone is interested in me anyway :c
My wife and partner of twenty-two years says that I should write a book on flirting because a do it so well. The reality is that I have no clue because I've literally never had to do it. I always say that I'd be totally screwed if I suddenly found I needed to flirt. Ultimately, I think the thing that works best is the total lack of caring about failure. The likely reason I apparently flirt so well is that I have absolutely no interest in dating. If you truly don't care about failing then you might always succeed.
It is proven that a person pays someone more attention when the other person is paying them the least attention (but do not ignore!) I'm always doing that with those loved-by-every-girl crushes. Many girls are paying them too much attention or are extremely flirty and I'm just like looking at him, giving him a 3-4 seconds long smirk sometimes. I also try to talk less/relaxed and make a strong eye contact with an expressionless face. It works pretty well ;) But I'm pretty bad at recognising when a guy is flirting with me. I do notice it when it's super obvious but I won't notice anything if someone is a little tricky T^T
i think its a good idea...its like in the movies when the jock or whatever picks the girl thts not fangirling over him....and she did say "not ignore" ...it should work as long as you show a little interest but stay aloof...basically play a little hard to get
i get tht it must b annoying but look at the bright side...guys seem to be attracted to you...which is helpful since you are too shy to make the first move ^^
But if you give us guys the same attention as the other girls that are our friends and are not interested in us we will think you aint interested either.
I usually come up to them and say "Hey I'm awkward and I don't know how to flirt so I decided to come to you and say Hi.. so.. Hi" most walk away, others just look at me weird and go. I've put in mind that's my face that's scaring them away.
oh god i hate when im only the train and you lock eyes for a couple of seconds and quickly try to look at something nearby and the rest of the trip you keep locking eyes and both try to pretend it didnt happen, WHAT DO I DO JESUS HELP ME 4 HOURS OF THIS A DAY
I feel like the flirting advantage goes to girls because they can touch without worry. but if a guy tries to touch while flirting it can be aggressive or wierd
+Lady Xerxes I'm sure you'd make scores of guys really happy just mentioning Fallout 4. Personally I've never met a single girl who's into Fallout, or the Elder Scrolls for that matter. Deviantart has proven me wrong, though.
+Lady Xerxes SAME. only with FO4 I was like "I can't believe Bethesda got this wrong and didn't do this blah blah blah " also I'm betting you also know the struggle of being a magnet for the desperate little boys :/
I have massive amounts of respect for women who make the first move on guys. We shouldn't have to always make the first move on women. Girl power and all that stuff...
I almost thought I read a girl's comment but then I read your username and then had to rewrite my comment but yay! I appreciate that you have respect for such women. Tbh the only thing that does sometimes stop people from making moves is that they may come off as desperate.. it' just so happened that I tried to make a move on a guy for the first time and year ago and TBH it feels liberating... But then people also started to say that by making moves on guys I apparently become 'easy' or 'desperate' which sucks. But power to you! You support us all and thanks for thatt
I am so awkward that I genuinely make eye contact with everyone. I mean EVERYONE. I'm just really focused. The problem is, I've had to sit two guys down and explain to them that I don't like them that way, we're just good friends. It's not like they had crushes on me at the time, they just got the wrong impression. WHY MUST I BE SO AWKWARDS??
+Turtle Flirting is a continuous process of talking, texting, and sometimes hanging out over weeks, if something is going down very fast out of nowhere, that's when you know it's a dare. ~Dude in high school
Seeing a guy that is attractive does immediately change your posture. Somehow you elongate your torso, the boobs pop out, and your hips jut out. This naturally happens it isn't planned out even though you know the reasons you are doing it. Start glancing at him over and over and as you look away you are doing it in such a way that you flip your hair. Also playing with the hair or brushing your hands through it. I would say that women are a lot more like male peacocks. We start preening.
Frank M that's not an excuse? People are actually shy. We're afraid we will get rejected. Confident people aren't gonna come up to a guy if they're not interested either..
You wanna get a girl? Act like you have no interest in them whatsoever and treat them like they're a dorky friend. Show NO signs of jealousy, infact encourage them to go on dates or something. Tell them when you find other girls attractive. Due to human nature, they'll wonder why as a guy you have no sexual feelings or intimate thoughts about them, then they'll think theres something wrong with themselves, then they'll make it their goal to get you attracted to them. Then you've basically won them over.
Lmao that worked on me , a girl kept kind of like liking me but not giving me enough attention i just started to want her to give me more attention even tho i dont really have feelings for her ...
I'm a very good flirt and that girl that said "Have your flirts have some end game, otherwise why are we here on this bleak Earth" is dead on accurate. You need intent in your flirts that only you are aware of and double entedre to pull it off successfully.
So i'm a person that is completely oblivious to flirting. Watching this has made me realize how many girls have actually flirted with me, and how pissed off they must've been when i was completely unresponsive. While i actually wouldn't have minded going out with some of them. :/
Honestly, in my opinion, just be yourself. No need to try to change whenever you see someone, as in posture, smile, or anything in that category. If you end up getting in a relationship, one of you might not enjoy it, because either you won't be yourself, which is never fun, or they will see the real you, and possibly not like it as much.
How to get someone's number (I've only done this with a guy so far): 1. Go up to victim and ask them if they can hold something. Make it look like you have something small in your hand. 2. Either they'll hold out their hand without questioning and you proceed to the next step or they'll ask "What? Your hand?" In this situation, do not back down. Just smile and nod. 3. Grab the prey's hand. Do not show any fear 4. Do no let go. I repeat. DO NOT LET GO. You may apologize for the clamminess if necessary but try your best to stay clear from that subject 5. Hold their hand for as long as you can (I held the guy's hand for almost 20 minutes but you will probably only hold hands for maybe 5 minutes at most) 6. Release them after awhile and ask them for their number. Smile and appear friendly as they are probably frightened at this point
hm maybe don't do that too often! a guy could feel very uncomfortable and trapped. maybe just "Hi, are you from ___" "I'm trying to casually meet people...."
Lol. This is why I usually crush on guys that I'm already friends or acquaintances with just because I feel that the transition from friendly to flirty is just so much easier plus, I already know a good amount about them so there's no awkward "getting to know you" small talk.
I flirt with everyone, but when I like someone, I'm extremely open about it. Within a week I either yell at them from afar, "HEY! YOU HAVE A NICE BUTT!" Or just tell them, "Hey. I like you. What's our ship name?"
The girl with the glasses & purple/blond hair says, "I am excellent at flirting". Her confidence & intensity, and the way she takes herself seriously, are actually very funny( I mean that in a good way ). For purely scientific purposes, I'd like to be on the receiving end of one of her flirts, just to see how she works it, and where she takes it.
1:26 And you trust websites where the vast majority of the users think that their flirting is being watched and analyzed by a higher power? Buzzfeed, pls.
Take-a-way for this man: I require a certified letter containing an original (not copy) document that has been signed by the women and notarized, stating: "I like you and would like to go on a date with you soon."
tell me, how do women differentiate between guys who are creepy (when they make eye contact) and guys who are cute (when they make eye contact) cus I'm irritated by women telling each they were hit on by a creepy guy when the next cute guy did the exact same actions as the previous creepy guy
Yeah um, usually when i dont find a guy attractive i try to give warning signs that it's unwanted and if the guy STILL continues then he becomes creepy. You can usually tell if a person is uncomfortable yakno' .
The guy who smiles and catches your eye mid-sip or mid-laugh=cute the guy WATCHING you from across the room alone and with a blank look on his face=creepy and let me make sure I brought my mace with me.
I like this girl and she always tries to look at me in the eyes when we are talking and I find it awkward so I just avoid eye contact and stare like at the floor or the desk or something. That's my problem. I cant look at someone in the eyes.
+Platronix3D this all depends on if the girl is perceptive or observant, but if she is, that move is something that shows that you like her (I'm getting a shy person vibe from your comment so.....correct me if I'm wrong). confidence is key (which is kind of shown with looking someone in the eyes) but the I cant look at her directly is adorable and cute, I cant lie. good luck~
I'm sick of women and their mind games. I'm sick of wondering if they like me or not. They need to all stop the silent act and make it obvious when they like a guy. If a woman sees a guy she likes the looks of, she should go up to him and say something. ANYTHING. Don't just expect the guy to do everything, or have the power to read their minds. Why is everything always left up to the man to do? That's exactly why I'm still single at 38. It's no wonder why some guys (not me, but my brother) thinks that women have a thing for him just because they smile at them. Because we men are being forced to be mind readers. It's no fair. I'm almost at the point of erasing women from my mind and just being a happy single man forever. Women are stressful!
Question for girls: Is it true that if a girl fixes/re-adjusts her hair when she sees a guy, or makes eye contact with a guy she thinks he is good looking. Idk, I heard this somewhere, for example if i'm in a cross walk or in a hallway and I make eye contact with a girl who is walking toward me and she casually re-adjusts her hair after we made eye contact is that a sign she thought i was good looking or nah?
+Geriafrican if she is fixing her hair? no. she is just fixing it to look nice in public. if she is /playing/ with her hair, twisting it around a finger or petting it etc? probably. it isn't always guaranteed. but if she is playing with her hair and you give an intense, romantic look in her eyes that makes her giggle or smile and look away, then definitely yes.
*Me flirting in class*
me: so what school do you go to?..
BAHAHAHAHA
Ngl that'd probably work on me
lol, u stole that from teenager post didnt you?
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Laura Oris Lmao teenager posts steal their shit from textposts
Gaming Amelia DON'T RUIN THE MOMENT, IT'S MY TIME TO SHINE (cause I can)
"And here is... my necklace" girl is best girl
+arsnakeheart thats Allison! XD
Lauren Wh Thanks. I will... follow her on Twitter, I guess ;-;
arsnakeheart she has a youtbe channel with the purple haired girl called just between us (they're really funny)
Lauren Wh Found it, as well as her Instagram, I'm in love already ldkASJLDAKJ
+arsnakeheart lol I know, she's awesome!
my trick is to pretend that i hate them with a burning passion
they haven't caught on so far, dunno why
oh look, a fellow army. we're everywhere lmao
Fangirling Too Hard Percy! hello PJO fandom
Every1 does that lmaooo
I’m pretty sure almost everyone does that
I'm the worst at flirting. I just stare at them and pet them like a small animal
+eatanentireass That's perfect XDDD
I wish someone were to pet me like I was a small animal...why can't everyone flirt like that?
Lol, I pet my friends and sing them lullabies when they lay their head on my lap but I'm not flirting
+LabibaVlogs Same lol
May Win You're a good friend :'D
Oh my.
I believe this means i flirt with everyone.
oh dear
same, im a little too nice sometimes
same
Same
lmao
I'm an accidental flirt lmfao
Girls flirt by stalking all of the guy's doings on social network and waits until the guy notices her...
Exactly ^~^`
Yehet ♡ lol #Exo-L
no, if the guy notices she is stalking his social networks she has failed her duties as a flirty girl :P
LEAVE NO EVIDENCE BEHIND
That's my tactic. If i favourite all your tweets, I love you.
***** thats an interesting aasumption...mainly because i dont know many black kpoppers...
eye contact is the only flirting i can do
***** thankss ^^
I can do that 0_0
T'est française ?
Pablo Hayem canadienne et française :)
You can also smile a little :-)
Be careful with the eye-contact. There is a fine line between making good eye contact and the pathological stare of a raving psychopath. ;-)
My flirting technique is making awkward eye contact and hoping the other person is braver than I am
That's my life. I wish I were braver. And, I hate how I keep coming up with excuses on why I can't talk to him when all I want to do is be with him. Gwad, I'm going crazy. I hate this. I need to toughen up my ovaries and maybe say hi to him before the school year is over.
That's actually a good idea, since you seem to be introverted you must be with an extroverted type so if an extroverted person were to like you s/he would take the first step. The bad thing about this is if the extroverted never ends up liking you and you don't do anything to make him/her like you then you might never end up together.
***** I wouldn't quickly say she is (if it is a she) an introvert. Because, me for example, I'm an extrovert-and of course with introvert qualities but more of an extrovert. But, when I like someone, I change from that out going, bubbly girl to that shy tongue tied girl that just creepily stares at the person she fancies.
rosedaline valetine rooting for you
Whitney YA Thanks but...he already has a GF. Oh well, it's not like I was ever going to do anything anyway.
Here is how I flirt.
I dont
samee
I do. Hey there cutie ;)
Jeremiah Fernandez I'm 13 buddy
And age is just a number, hunny
Jeremiah Fernandez prison is just a place
Examples of me flirting:"I like your face."
"Soo...you come here often?(at school)"
"Soo....you like air? OMG ME TOO WE HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON."
I doubt that you do that
I did this once as a joke...(to one of my guy friends, not as flirting) "Soo......ya like food?"
marry me.
i flirt by being extra sarcastic which makes no sense.
Me too. I thought I was the only one
omg me too, im glad im not the only one who does that.
That actually does work, banter and like teasing is a great way to increase attraction :)
me too but some just end up thinking im an asshole and it just becomes a big failure
That's how you become the side girl 😭😂😂
Eye contact is one of the most awkward things to engage in, imo.
***** engage in? what. it is polite to do so and it shows confidence for male and female. it is not that you keep staring and don't blink.
Skinkie22 That's just how I feel about it. Everyone is different. My confidence isn't determined by whether or not I look someone in the eyes. I just don't like it. It's awkward to me. In my opinion, it has nothing to do with being polite. I don't determine whether or not someone was polite based on if they looked me in the eyes. It's merely opinions and preferences.
+Taylor Luren I have a hard time with it as well. Almost as if I'm revealing all of my vulnerabilities to someone. It's a strange sensation. If it's business, I have no issue just looking at someone and discussing something, but anything dealing with flirting I'm terrible at and eye contact I'm the worst at. It's horrible, lol.
+Taylor Luren "my confidence isn't determined by whether or not I look at someone" you're my hero! Sounds like someone who know themselves. You're going to be a problem to date 😂😂😂 and i mean that in a nice way. I'm already Jealous of the guy that gets to secure you already
Entrepenegro1 I feel as if you're being sarcastic. 😂😂😂
I don't flirt, and I can never take flirting/tell if someone is
That's probably why I'm still single
If i liked girls, u would be one of my wcw's :D
(OMG IS THAT CREEPY I'M SORRY I'M TRYING TO BE NICE ;-;)
If anyone has ever thought I was flirting with them, don't worry, I'm too scared of girls to do something that brash.
Hey I found you xD
EpicKitten202 huh?
I know MistieCat and I was randomly watching this video and I saw that she commented
Ways that I flirt. More or less try not to embarrass myself.
1: Look at anything but them because eye contact makes me scared.
2: Try not to touch them to avoid them thinking I'm weird.
3: Sniffle a lot because who knows if there's something on my nose or not.
4: Smiling at absolutely anything he says.
5: Use the smiley emoji
Flirting is the worst thing ever. For a socially awkward guy like me I haven't the slightest idea what you want or want me to do. If people just didn't flirt and said "I'm into you, are you into me?" and the other person said "Yes" or "No" life would be a whole lot easier.
AgentWashingtub
True but women in western society feel entitled to wait on men to make the first move so they can pick and choose and rarely have to deal with rejection themselves. It's sexism but it's sexism that benefit s them so they like it.
Titus Orelius That's not entirely true. It is nice that we aren't typically expected to make the first move because i think both genders can agree that its a little nerve racking. But sometimes the thought does come to mind where we wanna ask a guy out but,because we are taught that if they're interested they will come to us, we feel that if we make the first move, we will look pushy or needy or desperate. Ya feel me? So we wait, and wait, until we get over it.
And plus guys are the ones that choose us first, so were are only choosing on whats available for us based off the guys who are interested, while i see in some ways men get to try and take interest in any one that is suitable. Although you do have some disadvantages where you still can get rejected while we already know that the guy is interested.
So in conclusion we both have different struggles but we can recognize that we can equally want to change things for the better.
"Why fight to remove our chains, when we can compare them in lengths," -ten responses to the phrase "man up" by guante
+Morgan Kaiser bro don't type a essay lmao
+AgentWashingtub It would be boring mate. But I get you cause I can never tell if a girl is into me or not. Especially since some moves are just friendly for some girls and flirty for others. Women are a mystery, a sexy one, but we men sometimes appreciate a direct sign like a kiss. :D
+Morgan Kaiser No. I very much so disagree with you cause as the original commenter said "Socially Awkward" its kinda hard...I mean IMO both genders should start out with small hints then it just escalates from thar. =D but guys don't always choose first.....you were very wrong when you said that. Also when some "Socially Awkward" guys already have a low self esteem/confidence(don't have the best confidence but I think ima saint) having to deal with the thoughts of rejection makes things 100x worse.
So any single guys watched this video because to make sure you your crush is falling for you?
Hahahaha........yes
shhhhhhhhhh.
I'm watching this so I know HOW to flirt because I don't even know. ALL I DO IS WATCH NETFLIX AND HANG AROUND THE MANGA AND COMICS AT THE BOOKSTORE.
My crush has done all these things, so I think I just need to ask her out
Every one who liked says yes
The real question is how do I, a girl, flirt with another girl in a way that makes them realise that I'm flirting
+phoenixthecookiemonster There's probably no way unless you make it obvious. Girls are generally more touchy and complimentary to one another than guys are so i'd never assume a girl was flirting unless she told me. Good luch tho! :)
And when a straight girl does all of the above.......see why I have trust issues
Just yell "NOTICE ME SENPAI" they'll get the memo
walk up to a girl and say "hey I like your face. Yes homo" and see where that lands you.
+phoenixthecookiemonster that's why i'm here
Allison and the other brunette with bangs are so bae
ItsSugar Her name is Allison too
Juliet Starling The girl in the thumbnail?
ItsSugar yep
Juliet Starling Hnnngg
ItsSugar Not to sound like a moron, but what does bae mean? I can't keep up with all the new lingo :/
Runs up to a boy " WE SHOULD BONE SOMETIME!!" Runs away
Sounds like something Danny Sexbang would say tbh-
tbh this would work on me
love gamegrumps
it'd be funny if you did it on halloween and ran up to them in a skeleton costume
That'd work extremely well
I wish I had Gaby's confidence omg
What are their names? x
+Olive Totoro I believe the girl with purple /peachy hair is gaby :)
She's giving me Sarah Jessica Parker. Smart, confident, quirky
I apparently am good at flirting, but I have a very bro personality. All I do is make weird/sexual/taunting jokes at that person and playfully shove/hit them. Somehow has never failed me. And talk about videogames (a little too much honestly).
Your gonna make someone very happy.
Wow
You basically sounds like your average guys dream girl
I think you are my long lost twin sister Kasha lol I talk too much abt video games to guys xD its the first thing I ask after hey how are you?.................So you play video games? < Me right there lol and I love to tease xD I dont do sexual jokes cuz I am awkward with that but I joke a lot video games FTW lol XD Lol
That's exactly what I do (except for the video games part) but it doesn't work...I'll just assume it's because of the video games :P
Dear women: a lot of us guys are socially awkward and will probably not make the first move, so go ahead ;) don't feel like you have to wait for the guy or anything. Personally, I'd much rather the girl asked me out rather than the other way around. Not that anyone is interested in me anyway :c
That's pretty much me.
pussy
Chris Janes thanks for describing yourself
Natasha Najam Self-expression is important.
+Twich never said it wasn't
My wife and partner of twenty-two years says that I should write a book on flirting because a do it so well. The reality is that I have no clue because I've literally never had to do it. I always say that I'd be totally screwed if I suddenly found I needed to flirt. Ultimately, I think the thing that works best is the total lack of caring about failure. The likely reason I apparently flirt so well is that I have absolutely no interest in dating. If you truly don't care about failing then you might always succeed.
2:34
"The worst that can happen is they turn you down"
No, actually. Because the women here in Canada carry pepper sprays.
Yes
+Fate Nightroad You're going to the wrong clubs m8
Shields
No, no clubs. Just random people on the streets & alleyways....
+Fate Nightroad lmfao
+Fate Nightroad What part of Canada are you living in? Jesus Christ.
Them* "you're cute."
Me* "um..happy birthday.."
My life story 🙄
It is proven that a person pays someone more attention when the other person is paying them the least attention (but do not ignore!)
I'm always doing that with those loved-by-every-girl crushes. Many girls are paying them too much attention or are extremely flirty and I'm just like looking at him, giving him a 3-4 seconds long smirk sometimes. I also try to talk less/relaxed and make a strong eye contact with an expressionless face. It works pretty well ;)
But I'm pretty bad at recognising when a guy is flirting with me. I do notice it when it's super obvious but I won't notice anything if someone is a little tricky T^T
That does not work it makes us guys think you aint interested
MindlessKing64 well it worked out for me 💁
i think its a good idea...its like in the movies when the jock or whatever picks the girl thts not fangirling over him....and she did say "not ignore" ...it should work as long as you show a little interest but stay aloof...basically play a little hard to get
i get tht it must b annoying but look at the bright side...guys seem to be attracted to you...which is helpful since you are too shy to make the first move ^^
But if you give us guys the same attention as the other girls that are our friends and are not interested in us we will think you aint interested either.
The girl with the purple hair is irritating
whyyy? I think she is funny hahahah
I think she want the D
Phantom Stalker She also wants the V.
Birdie Wolf lel
Phantom Stalker i bet you're a 9gagger :D
I usually come up to them and say "Hey I'm awkward and I don't know how to flirt so I decided to come to you and say Hi.. so.. Hi" most walk away, others just look at me weird and go. I've put in mind that's my face that's scaring them away.
Lol, i would be amused and befriend you xD
I know that feel bruh
That's really cute haha, i would just laugh and have a drink with you
Annie Chan to bad u're not a guy
tbhlukeh wait are you a women?O_O
I have a crush on the little one with the freckles and bangs
Taylor Thomas same lol
oh god i hate when im only the train and you lock eyes for a couple of seconds and quickly try to look at something nearby and the rest of the trip you keep locking eyes and both try to pretend it didnt happen, WHAT DO I DO JESUS HELP ME 4 HOURS OF THIS A DAY
Go to sit next to them, smile on your way, and when you sit down make eye contact and say, "Hey."
i see that happen a lot and its really creepy and they feel very awkward and go to the next carriage, so ill pass on that
Then get mugged
wat
Yes! Can totally relate to the staring straight into each other's eyes:3
I thought it said how girls fart! Wtf is wrong with me
that would actually be a great video idea!
LOL this comment made my day.
Been on TH-cam for too long my friend....
Thought I was the only one lol
Yeah, girls are unable to do such things UuU #GIRLPROTIPS
My usual flirt is like "so what kind of music are you into?"
anything angsty and has weird visuals
Panic! At the Black Parade harsh noise?
you like jazz?
***** you like extratone?
That girl at 2:03 is beautiful
juananz007 Honestly she is the one I find the most attractive out all of them and she has a pleasant laugh to go along with it all.
juananz007 whats her name ?
chris growl I wish I knew :P
Her name is Allison, there are two Alison's in the video
Allison bagg
I feel like the flirting advantage goes to girls because they can touch without worry. but if a guy tries to touch while flirting it can be aggressive or wierd
"and here is my necklace"
me
Laugh too long
Face gets really red
More nervous laughter
I flirt by smiling and nodding in agreement no matter how uninteresting the conversation is.
LMAO that sounds just like me, sometimes it's not even flirting, just in general to be "polite".
I do that with my grandma.
I'm too awkward...
I just wring my wrists and say "Heeeeeey, heard Fallout 4 is out...heh."
+Lady Xerxes lmaoo the struggles of being a gamer
+Lady Xerxes
I'm sure you'd make scores of guys really happy just mentioning Fallout 4. Personally I've never met a single girl who's into Fallout, or the Elder Scrolls for that matter. Deviantart has proven me wrong, though.
+Lady Xerxes
SAME.
only with FO4 I was like
"I can't believe Bethesda got this wrong and didn't do this blah blah blah "
also I'm betting you also know the struggle of being a magnet for the desperate little boys :/
+Lady Xerxes you'll never find such a girl who is into games ... so basically you should get lots of interests from guys
+Lady Xerxes
Works for me.
ASL?
... wow that dates me.
That purple hair girl thinks she's excellent at flirting, she's excellent at being way to intense.
Jack Christopher most probably its sarcasm get a grip :/
I got a very firm grip, don't you worry your pretty little socks.
+Eshita Shah It's not sarcasm.
+Jack “Does Stuff” Christopher really pretty little socks!
***** Eshita, I bet you've got the prettiest pair of little socks I'd ever see.
I have massive amounts of respect for women who make the first move on guys. We shouldn't have to always make the first move on women. Girl power and all that stuff...
I almost thought I read a girl's comment but then I read your username and then had to rewrite my comment but yay! I appreciate that you have respect for such women. Tbh the only thing that does sometimes stop people from making moves is that they may come off as desperate.. it' just so happened that I tried to make a move on a guy for the first time and year ago and TBH it feels liberating... But then people also started to say that by making moves on guys I apparently become 'easy' or 'desperate' which sucks. But power to you! You support us all and thanks for thatt
Lol fr
Mike Aruba I did that to my crush and now we are dating
Fr
I am so awkward that I genuinely make eye contact with everyone. I mean EVERYONE. I'm just really focused. The problem is, I've had to sit two guys down and explain to them that I don't like them that way, we're just good friends. It's not like they had crushes on me at the time, they just got the wrong impression.
WHY MUST I BE SO AWKWARDS??
Im so awkward i cant make eye contact, like even when im in class i cant look at a teacher while they teach.
Shadow_Heart omg me either
I'd like to know when eye contact went from a sign of respect to flirting.
Emily Antunez Glad im not the only one :D
0:38 DAYSHA STAHP BEING SO CUTE
"poop emoji, boom, thinking of you" I love her
"I'd rather regret something I did do instead of something I didn't do."
Pearl of Wisdom
you know you've watched too much of buzzfeed when you run out of videos to watch and end up watching the same thing again
see the problem with middle school is that half the time its a dare
+Turtle yep.
+Turtle Flirting is a continuous process of talking, texting, and sometimes hanging out over weeks, if something is going down very fast out of nowhere, that's when you know it's a dare.
~Dude in high school
That phase passes away... Sympathies from my side
Seeing a guy that is attractive does immediately change your posture. Somehow you elongate your torso, the boobs pop out, and your hips jut out. This naturally happens it isn't planned out even though you know the reasons you are doing it. Start glancing at him over and over and as you look away you are doing it in such a way that you flip your hair. Also playing with the hair or brushing your hands through it. I would say that women are a lot more like male peacocks. We start preening.
the black lady is SO GORGEOUS UGH
soo, do you like cheese?
OMG are you quoting the movie "she's the man"!😆
My favorite's Gouda 😂
+Briana Castro Mein mozzarela
fumunda.
Olivia Howard parmesan
Ashley's thing about being awkward and weird was touching. And totally true.
The girl with purple hair; what's her name?? She's hilarious! I love her!
Gabi
Gabby Gottfried UuU
She also has a channel called "just between us" with Allison (the girl with straight hair and bangs)
Gaby Dunn, she also has a tumblr which is just her name
Sasha
that girl with the brown hair and the fringe look sooo like your one from 50 shades of grey....
+ree Senpai Ikr? I thought it was her at first.
And she is not sexy
I find text flirting odd since 90% of communication is non-verbal.
Is it just me who thinks that it’s satisfying that the both flirting videos are exactly 3 minutes long
Isn't eye contact just a natural and polite thing to do anyway? Because in that case I flirt with everyone.
2:28 That woman is gorgeous and I like that she is a go-getter, not afraid to initiate. That's a real woman.
I don't like to initiate it and I'm a real woman. its because I'm really shy though lol
Shyness is just an excuse. You don't initiate because you are just not interested.
Frank M that's not an excuse? People are actually shy. We're afraid we will get rejected. Confident people aren't gonna come up to a guy if they're not interested either..
+Frank M I'm pretty sure if someone wasn't interested, they would just say so. What would be the point of feigning shyness?
"And here is my...necklace." Yep, I feel ya.
You wanna get a girl?
Act like you have no interest in them whatsoever and treat them like they're a dorky friend. Show NO signs of jealousy, infact encourage them to go on dates or something. Tell them when you find other girls attractive.
Due to human nature, they'll wonder why as a guy you have no sexual feelings or intimate thoughts about them, then they'll think theres something wrong with themselves, then they'll make it their goal to get you attracted to them.
Then you've basically won them over.
Dude your a genius, I did that now whores want me all the time.
Lmao that worked on me , a girl kept kind of like liking me but not giving me enough attention i just started to want her to give me more attention even tho i dont really have feelings for her ...
ya just gotta love gaby , everyone else is like "i dun rly think im good with that". then here comes gaby with "I'm absolutely good at flirting"
I'm a very good flirt and that girl that said "Have your flirts have some end game, otherwise why are we here on this bleak Earth" is dead on accurate. You need intent in your flirts that only you are aware of and double entedre to pull it off successfully.
Ashly mentioned the poop emoji. That's Andrew's favourite emoji...
WHY MUST YOU DO THIS TO US, BUZZFEED?
#Ashdrew
Well played.
"And here's my...necklace?" Hahaha, that girl is so funny.
I'm always making fun of the person I like....
same
yeah the guy I like is a year older than me and i make fun of him for alll the time lol.
So i'm a person that is completely oblivious to flirting. Watching this has made me realize how many girls have actually flirted with me, and how pissed off they must've been when i was completely unresponsive. While i actually wouldn't have minded going out with some of them. :/
These girls were obviously flirting with me. The pink haired one totally wants me.
Im absolutely in love with the girl with the purple hair like she's great, she always makes me laugh, I want to marry her, like, really.
That seems fair enough because my gaydar is going off at her
She is apparently Bisexual! YOU ARE IN LUCK!
She's still waaaay out of my league
amanda perez Why? nobody is out of league. Why do you think you don't deserve someone like her? Please, lady, head up, smile, and conquer the world!
Thank you.
and here is my necklace hahaha
Honestly, in my opinion, just be yourself. No need to try to change whenever you see someone, as in posture, smile, or anything in that category. If you end up getting in a relationship, one of you might not enjoy it, because either you won't be yourself, which is never fun, or they will see the real you, and possibly not like it as much.
If a girl gives me the hairy eyeball death stare without blinking as she walks by, is that her sad attempt at flirting?
"I'd rather regret something I did do than something I didn't do."
Damn.
"And here is... My necklace."
How to get someone's number (I've only done this with a guy so far):
1. Go up to victim and ask them if they can hold something. Make it look like you have something small in your hand.
2. Either they'll hold out their hand without questioning and you proceed to the next step or they'll ask "What? Your hand?" In this situation, do not back down. Just smile and nod.
3. Grab the prey's hand. Do not show any fear
4. Do no let go. I repeat. DO NOT LET GO. You may apologize for the clamminess if necessary but try your best to stay clear from that subject
5. Hold their hand for as long as you can (I held the guy's hand for almost 20 minutes but you will probably only hold hands for maybe 5 minutes at most)
6. Release them after awhile and ask them for their number. Smile and appear friendly as they are probably frightened at this point
Kathy S tbh if it was me I'd be scared shitless if a girl raped my hand like that lol
Jk it's kinda cute lol
I'd rather have my contact list empty..
hm maybe don't do that too often! a guy could feel very uncomfortable and trapped. maybe just "Hi, are you from ___" "I'm trying to casually meet people...."
The girl with the freckles is so gorgeous.
+AmbitionlessFool that's what I thought when I saw het
Lol. This is why I usually crush on guys that I'm already friends or acquaintances with just because I feel that the transition from friendly to flirty is just so much easier plus, I already know a good amount about them so there's no awkward "getting to know you" small talk.
I'm amazing at flirting but it's kind of a bad thing because I don't even no I'm doing it sometimes
eh?
Same omg
SAMEEE. I guess I'm a bit too nice
when I want to flirt I'm useless but when I don't want to I do it absent mindedly
the hair flip does alot to me tbh
+xtfragnarox
"alot"
+Cattliant a lot*
Kaylin Brick
I know. I was trying to point out their mistake.
I flirt with everyone, but when I like someone, I'm extremely open about it. Within a week I either yell at them from afar, "HEY! YOU HAVE A NICE BUTT!" Or just tell them, "Hey. I like you. What's our ship name?"
The girl with the glasses & purple/blond hair says, "I am excellent at flirting". Her confidence & intensity, and the way she takes herself seriously, are actually very funny( I mean that in a good way ). For purely scientific purposes, I'd like to be on the receiving end of one of her flirts, just to see how she works it, and where she takes it.
When she does that head movement at 1:00, attractiveness level soars through the roof! Seriously, it works.
1:26 And you trust websites where the vast majority of the users think that their flirting is being watched and analyzed by a higher power? Buzzfeed, pls.
I was about to ask why they only used religion based dating sites. I feels really weird seeing that on Yellow.
I don't consciously flirt, like if I'm flirting my friends will tell me later that I was, I don't realize it while I'm doing it lol
soooooooooooooooooo do you like ketchup?
"Oh"
**end of conversation**
+Shrumins What kind of ketchup?
let's ketchup with work
my natural way to flirt is not talk too much and focusing on body language and being playful
its what works for me...
Take-a-way for this man:
I require a certified letter containing an original (not copy) document that has been signed by the women and notarized, stating: "I like you and would like to go on a date with you soon."
My pick up line:
Sup
tell me, how do women differentiate between guys who are creepy (when they make eye contact) and guys who are cute (when they make eye contact) cus I'm irritated by women telling each they were hit on by a creepy guy when the next cute guy did the exact same actions as the previous creepy guy
It literally depends if the guy is cute or not and I fell really guilty because I have done that one time and in fact still do...
honestly it comes down to if she likes u its cute if she doesnt then ur being creepy
Yeah um, usually when i dont find a guy attractive i try to give warning signs that it's unwanted and if the guy STILL continues then he becomes creepy. You can usually tell if a person is uncomfortable yakno' .
The guy who smiles and catches your eye mid-sip or mid-laugh=cute the guy WATCHING you from across the room alone and with a blank look on his face=creepy and let me make sure I brought my mace with me.
It's all about the face mate
what is the name of the girl at 0:31 ?
Allison im pretty sure
Jonathan Dieckfoss Allison Bagg, because there's 2 Allisons in this video.
LMAO "poop emoji, boom thinking of you" ashly knows whats up
"The ghost; keeps em guessing and also, how cute!"
DYING
I like this girl and she always tries to look at me in the eyes when we are talking and I find it awkward so I just avoid eye contact and stare like at the floor or the desk or something. That's my problem. I cant look at someone in the eyes.
+Platronix3D this all depends on if the girl is perceptive or observant, but if she is, that move is something that shows that you like her (I'm getting a shy person vibe from your comment so.....correct me if I'm wrong). confidence is key (which is kind of shown with looking someone in the eyes) but the I cant look at her directly is adorable and cute, I cant lie. good luck~
💩 thinking of u 😉
😏
😘
☺️😍😘
🌚
👣
I flirt by farting and blaming the guy next to me.
the videos on this channel are so fucking interesting.. i just cant stop watching them. the fact that they're so short adds to it.
The best flirting technique is the classic high five
The background music is from the dinner scene in Shrek
I'm sick of women and their mind games. I'm sick of wondering if they like me or not. They need to all stop the silent act and make it obvious when they like a guy. If a woman sees a guy she likes the looks of, she should go up to him and say something. ANYTHING. Don't just expect the guy to do everything, or have the power to read their minds. Why is everything always left up to the man to do? That's exactly why I'm still single at 38. It's no wonder why some guys (not me, but my brother) thinks that women have a thing for him just because they smile at them. Because we men are being forced to be mind readers. It's no fair. I'm almost at the point of erasing women from my mind and just being a happy single man forever. Women are stressful!
Question for girls:
Is it true that if a girl fixes/re-adjusts her hair when she sees a guy, or makes eye contact with a guy she thinks he is good looking. Idk, I heard this somewhere, for example if i'm in a cross walk or in a hallway and I make eye contact with a girl who is walking toward me and she casually re-adjusts her hair after we made eye contact is that a sign she thought i was good looking or nah?
Geriafrican yes but it could also always be coincidence. most likley yes tho
Geriafrican I alwayss touch my hair when I see a cute boy. I don't realize it sometimes so yes it is a thing hahaha.
That is the first sign of me flirting/interested in a guy
+Geriafrican if she is fixing her hair? no. she is just fixing it to look nice in public. if she is /playing/ with her hair, twisting it around a finger or petting it etc? probably. it isn't always guaranteed. but if she is playing with her hair and you give an intense, romantic look in her eyes that makes her giggle or smile and look away, then definitely yes.
+Geriafrican For me yeah. But I can't speak on the be half of other girls.
The hardest Part in relationship is paying attention and listening to someone and being helpfull .
One girl: "I wouldn't say I'm good at flirting..."
The next girl: "I am excellent at flirting."