You’re doing such a great job with Rafael!!!! As a psychology student (I’ll graduate in 4 months, yay!!) I really enjoy watching this kind of videos. Thank you for sharing!!
I’m a (2nd year) psychology student as well. My 6yo is exhibiting symptoms so I’m trying to find effective ways to respond that avoid feeding into/validating his obsessions. Going to seek an evaluation + CBT soon.
ah i understand this...Mom trying to tell rafael that life isn't what he imagine and plans as always he wanted to... this stage when my dad tried me to teach made me cry. Im hoping for his the best and your fam.
4:30 "He told me everything about that stuff AND you not knowing everything and daddy knows more stuff." Guess who's sleeping in the doghouse tonight? Lol
You are doing such a great job with your children... When you say "Daddy is gone" I think you should say where Daddy is so they always know he is coming back.
this boy, I need him as my deckhand on the ship! he is so big on detail! this is a blessing, yet a curse at the same time...becaue his poor wife qhen he gets older LMAO! for real, embrace this kids OCD because its an ability!! not a disability. this kid is goign to do amazing stuff in life!
bro rafael is SMART. one of my friend wase insanely smart and i tried to be just like him, i wase so close to beat him in a challeng, but failled, i just wanted to feal a little better than oter people, turns out after mye failure everywon at my school for 5 years ago is as stupid as an ignorant teen, and i did not realise it, i vase to focused to beat the best one in class and thanks to him, i wase able to somewhat go over my limit.
this indeed is OCD but please be aware that not everything is bad about OCD. learning to balance is the lesson. every human being had OCD to some extent about something or the other, that's what makes us strive for perfection
Bruh... There is nothing good about OCD. What you're talking about is perfectionism. That is what has its perks. But OCD? It's pure torture. The way you said it kind of undermines the struggle of the people who actually have a diagnosed mental illness not a personality trait.
No, like 2% of the population has OCD and you either have it or you don't. OCD is an anxiety based disorder characterized by unreasonable thoughts and fears that lead to compulsive behaviors. It's NOT just being a perfectionist. It's hurtful to suggest this and invalidating. There are zero perks to it
It's hard to see a little one getting stressed over things. My little one asked me to draw a pirate. He gave me a sheet of A4 paper, so I filled the sheet. He told me it was wrong as he wanted a small pirate not a big one, although he never told me how big to draw it in the first place. He ended up crumpling the drawing up as it wasn't to hi standard.
I was diagnosed with ocd as a child- not really, i didn't go to a therapist or whatever to get the diagnosis, now i am 14 and still have it :< my parents didn't really care about it they thought i was an annoying child trying to perfect everything, i would tell my mom to say something and if she didn't say it in the way i wanted i would tell her say it again i would do that soo many times until i think it's perfect, sorry mom. 😅❤
My son had some what like this situation, my mother taught him to draw a beautiful swan 8n exchange my son taught her to draw spider man face as she didn't know who the spider man was n how he looks, she tried her best but he had tried to teach her n argued alot that if gramma can draw a beautiful swan so why can't she draw a spider man n had meltdown. I had to give him understanding that grandma is old n she doesn't know spider man, then he calm down.
@@mikeoxlong869 No I'm not psychologist but I'm interested in psychology due to my and my family mental health problems. I think I will use Rafael's videos when I will see psychiatrist as his behaviour shows perfectly what I feel inside but because I'm almost 30 years old I can't be just myself like Rafael can and through all these years I have learnt how to act like a normal person although inside I feel pretty much same as Rafael on his videos. Why are you asking?
honestly I don't blame the kid.. that cat was pretty freaky looking LOL
Psychocat🤕
Totally
True
Look like the one Pokémon with the hypno stuff but worse
Ye it was lol
“don’t you love all the little kitties?”
“YEA BUT NOT THIS ONE” 😡 i’m dying
YESSS LOL
Haha😅
😂😂
As soon as I was reading this it literally said it 😂
The kid is a good art critic.
Ikr
Fr
"I have to tell you a secret. I'm terrible at drawing"
"Why"
Had me dying 🤣 😭 Rafael is too cute 💕
Omg too hilarious
🤣🤣🤣
"Oohmygoodness"
“Why 😡😡😡😡”
his amazing ability to communicate is helping him be an overcomer and educate us. Thank you Raphael!
“I’m TERRIBLE at drawing”
“WHY 🙄😡”
yeah why is she terrible at drawing?
@@crystaitearz3212she: i was born that way..
You’re doing such a great job with Rafael!!!! As a psychology student (I’ll graduate in 4 months, yay!!) I really enjoy watching this kind of videos. Thank you for sharing!!
I'm sorry I'm soooo late but girl congratulations 🎉🥳 i hope u're doing well there ✨
CONGRATS ON GRADUATING LIKE 8 MONTHS AGO
Congrats!
I’m a (2nd year) psychology student as well. My 6yo is exhibiting symptoms so I’m trying to find effective ways to respond that avoid feeding into/validating his obsessions. Going to seek an evaluation + CBT soon.
ah i understand this...Mom trying to tell rafael that life isn't what he imagine and plans as always he wanted to... this stage when my dad tried me to teach made me cry. Im hoping for his the best and your fam.
"I'm terrible at drawing"
Why?
"I was born that way. "
You're born that way...?
Ok now draw on other side and follow her directions😎😂😂
"Oh lord have mercy, what do you expect kid?" Had me rolling. 🤣
He’s just roasting his mom the whole video lmao he’s the cutest!!!
That almost dry marker is driving me. Mom, your first cat was a tad bit scary looking, ngl. Lol
I don't know how I came across these videos but I absolutely love this kid and hope he stays the same!
This kid is so cute and very smart. I love him!
4:30 "He told me everything about that stuff AND you not knowing everything and daddy knows more stuff."
Guess who's sleeping in the doghouse tonight? Lol
5:55 "daddy is not here, he's GONE."
Didn't take too long I guess.
He sounded so egotistical..
Honestly when he said "oh my goodness,, what did u draw??" 2:53 I just couldn't stop my laugh😅🤣
Love how he’s just roasting the shit out of his mum the entire time
Look at the dark circles under the poor little fella's eyes. He seems so stressed.
I don’t think that means anything. I have them, yet I barely stress. It’s probably genetics or something he was born with. I don’t know.
I have always had dark circles under my eyes… idk why I think it could just be the way my body was made or lack of nutrients:)
Could mean that, but often times they’re born with it. I’ve always had dark circles
Thank you for being willing to make yourselves vulnerable so that we can see what OCD looks like in a small child.
He's obviously very smart; I think the OCD is a consequence of that
Adorable little kid. He’s right that is a mean looking cat!
You are doing such a great job with your children... When you say "Daddy is gone" I think you should say where Daddy is so they always know he is coming back.
“But that doesn’t look like a nice cat!”
Lol 😂
Rafael’s drawing was actually good ngl
0:37 THE WAY HE SAID no t-that doesn't look like a nice cat I was like:😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"Oh my... goodness"
"I know right!"
"Why did you draw it like that?"
Not me binge watching these videos of Rafael. I'm actually thinking that yt algorithm is getting confused about my parkour shifting of interest haha.
"are you saying she's a better drawer than I am?"
"yeah!"
pfeijfejijpojepkpewk he's definitely a child - they're brutally honest oftentimes lol!
"aww you were born that way?:/ .... SOO DRAW IT ON THE OTHER SIDE AND FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTIONS 👹👹"
Now this is fun to watch! Glorious cats all around!!
I like this kid. He's so smart.
this boy, I need him as my deckhand on the ship! he is so big on detail! this is a blessing, yet a curse at the same time...becaue his poor wife qhen he gets older LMAO! for real, embrace this kids OCD because its an ability!! not a disability. this kid is goign to do amazing stuff in life!
I love this there arguing and Abigail gets bought in to it and she just stares into space as if she is having war flashbacks lol
bro rafael is SMART.
one of my friend wase insanely smart and i tried to be just like him,
i wase so close to beat him in a challeng, but failled, i just wanted to feal a little better than oter people, turns out after mye failure everywon at my school for 5 years ago is as stupid as an ignorant teen, and i did not realise it, i vase to focused to beat the best one in class and thanks to him, i wase able to somewhat go over my limit.
"it's priteh"
i loved that it made me laugh
(0:26)
I thought he was gonna say "Don't draw sh**" at 1:07 T-T
I wheezed at this LMAO the child just says SH*T
2:29
He is so handsome and has a great personality and intelligence😍
This kid will be a famous artist soon
Thank you mama
Sweet kid....always has a stern face....I like the cat drawing!!!
He’s adorable! Love his personality! 🤗🧡✨💫
I think the mother goads him on. He's the one with the patience.
"Lilleplutt" is a swedish word😄 i have never heard an american used that word
“I’m terrible at drawing”
……………..
“Why?…”
Relatable
"I can't be arsed!" Brilliant
He is adorable.
This kid is very smart . Cute too.
I don’t like how good his english is 😳
ikr hes pretty smart for a little kid
Kid just extremely intelligent
this indeed is OCD but please be aware that not everything is bad about OCD. learning to balance is the lesson. every human being had OCD to some extent about something or the other, that's what makes us strive for perfection
i think you might be right. it's finding a way to prevent ocd from inhibiting your life
Bruh... There is nothing good about OCD. What you're talking about is perfectionism. That is what has its perks. But OCD? It's pure torture. The way you said it kind of undermines the struggle of the people who actually have a diagnosed mental illness not a personality trait.
No, like 2% of the population has OCD and you either have it or you don't. OCD is an anxiety based disorder characterized by unreasonable thoughts and fears that lead to compulsive behaviors. It's NOT just being a perfectionist. It's hurtful to suggest this and invalidating. There are zero perks to it
@@e.etrama3026 Thank you
11 years old now, hope he’s doing good
Your kids are soo soo soo cute!!!! 😍
Im crying looking at her moms drawing 😭
Your kitty was funny! I have had a good laugh thank you!
The moms cat was amazing,not bullying,but the cat looked like it had a pretty scary life
“I can’t …………..I can’t be arsed”!! 😂🤣😂
"look mommy maybe i'm an expert of doing cats😇and you're not😐" hahaha rafael will always tell it to you straight
I'm on Rafael's side 100%!
Oh you such a great mother with a huge patient.. hope your familly always healty
“T-THEY EXIST TOO DoNt Be So QuIcK tOo JuDgE!” >: < ..(yeah I literally got attacked by my cousins cat) ;-;
The best mom ❤️
the way how you said “I CANT BE A##ED”
Ngl your cat drawing wasn't actually that child friendly or positive 😂 .. he had a point .
".....doesn't look like a nice cat.... " 🤣😂😂😂 he's so adorable
This is a smart kid!!
When she said “it’s prettuh😩…” I died 💀
It's hard to see a little one getting stressed over things. My little one asked me to draw a pirate. He gave me a sheet of A4 paper, so I filled the sheet. He told me it was wrong as he wanted a small pirate not a big one, although he never told me how big to draw it in the first place. He ended up crumpling the drawing up as it wasn't to hi standard.
I mean he has a point and he was more than patient.
Raphael is like all the kids on Twitter.
"well that doesnt look like a nice cat"
had me dying 💀
That's good parenting. Your family is adorable 😊😍 Raphael and Abigail are going to grow up to be such fine persons. Abigail is a sweetheart. 🤓😋👶
I'm sorry but the cat had my dying of laughter 😂😂
he was just being honest
“The better to eat you with!”
*kid: bewildered*
this was uploaded on my 6th birthday kinda cool
I was diagnosed with ocd as a child- not really, i didn't go to a therapist or whatever to get the diagnosis, now i am 14 and still have it :< my parents didn't really care about it they thought i was an annoying child trying to perfect everything, i would tell my mom to say something and if she didn't say it in the way i wanted i would tell her say it again i would do that soo many times until i think it's perfect, sorry mom. 😅❤
“Right, Abigail?!”
Abigail-*turns head* “nom nom nom”
Lol you’re a great mom !!
man really said "why"😂😂
Yeah mummy it needs to be sitting and happy ughhhhh. I have OCD to so I get it!
My son had some what like this situation, my mother taught him to draw a beautiful swan 8n exchange my son taught her to draw spider man face as she didn't know who the spider man was n how he looks, she tried her best but he had tried to teach her n argued alot that if gramma can draw a beautiful swan so why can't she draw a spider man n had meltdown. I had to give him understanding that grandma is old n she doesn't know spider man, then he calm down.
THIS IS HILARIOUS 😭😭😭😭😭
That first cat is creepy 😅 but I see your point :)
Lmfaoo
The cat discussion has me in tears
Please don’t cuss
he is true though.. that cat looked bad
Bruh she is not a artist stop being rude
honestly i dont blame the ocd this time that cat was something...
Lmao I'm with the kid. "That doesn't look like a nice cat" 🤣
I love the moms drawing
He’s a beautiful boy and is your double xx
Ngl the cat looks like a vampire cat lol
wait im confused? 1.3 mil views and 1 comment??
“Last night when we went to the store, he told me everything about bad stuff. And he told me he knows more stuff than you.”
😶😶😬😬😬..
"E s p r e t t e h"
💁♀️😼
This vid is surprisingly funny and wholesome at the same time❤ im obssessed.
That cat looked like spawned out of hell so I'm with him on this one lmao
Is anybody surprised that the kid thinks the cat with sharp teeth will eat him when she says, "The better to eat you with?"
More I watch Rafael I see OCPD then OCD. I hope his diagnosis is not misdiagnosis 🤞
Are you a psychologist?
@@mikeoxlong869 No I'm not psychologist but I'm interested in psychology due to my and my family mental health problems. I think I will use Rafael's videos when I will see psychiatrist as his behaviour shows perfectly what I feel inside but because I'm almost 30 years old I can't be just myself like Rafael can and through all these years I have learnt how to act like a normal person although inside I feel pretty much same as Rafael on his videos. Why are you asking?
whats ocpd
He speaking mad facts lol that cat is fine
The cat on the back is nightmare fuel
They’re so cute.
Raphael judging mum but Abigail judges him. God restored balance lol
I was burn that way toooo! Omg hiiiiii ian! Twins!❤❤😂😂