You’re a great story teller. A highly underrated skill. But, I’m curious how you think the story about the house party goes for the woman who’s overweight and unattractive.
@@awolf81 The man's a genius: like I said; we need him in the State Department. His anlaytical skills would be better spent in Statecraft vs Womencraft.
Yep had it happen back to back then at the wake of a friend met a guy she banged in the very early days at the baseball dugout out all these years later made me sick
@Phil-j7t I've had several pretty girlfriends, and every single one has cheated, most in a monkey branch kinda way, like when they were already thinking about leaving, not in a just for pleasure kinda way like a guy would
@@MX-COI've dated over 300 women romantically and only one of them I found out was seeing another guy 3 months in, she didn't even cheat. Not a single other one has cheated on me and many of them were loyal for over 10 years despite my womanizing. BE the cheater and problem solved.
@@Re3iRtHHell yeah im kinda in the same boat because if a woman knows you’re the prize, you’re too good to mess things up with, she will hold more value in being loyal towards you but cheating on them doesn’t solve this except pushing your ego
Honestly dating is something men should do leisurely. If it happens, great, but your life should be fulfilling enough that you don’t worry about it. 💪🏼
Yep when you're 35 and you have been doing the right thing for a few years you can find a 29-year-old chick ready to settle down but she's been with 100 different guys already and will either cheat on you or divorce you a few years down the road because she's completely unable to pair bond.
@@simontist Probably true, while a 35 year old female virgin would pair bond like a mofo. But wait, so you're saying that men and women are wired the opposite way? No way, I thought that gender was just a preference or a choice LOL.
31 years old. Never had a relationship. Only ever been on first dates. Because shortly after each first date, I'd either get soundly rejected or the texts would slowly stop coming in about planning the next date, then get completely ghosted. At this point, flat out done trying anymore.
Same here man, I’m done trying all I get is rejected, led on and ghosted.. Definitely hurts so I just take care of me and ignore women not worth the headache and heart ache
I feel you man, Im 44yrs old and have been single all my life by choice after seeing how horrible women were since high school so never got serious with anyone nor trusted anyone. It's like why since then have other men gotten into relationships? Did they not see how horrible women were since high school also or something??
Same here. I'm 35 and have never been in a relationship but have been on a few dates. Lost my virginity this year to an escort however and I plan on doing that in the future.
I am married with children now but I have been on both paths. I am here to tell you it doesn't get easier regardless of path you choose. My advice is to learn and master being ok with feeling uncomfortable.
Yes, having a family is difficult, but I still think you're in a much better spot than us single guys who might never be able to get married and have kids. In your elder years, you'll have your kids to comfort you. Whereas us single guys, we might just die alone, un-mourned, and with no one to say a prayer for us as we cross over. Be good to your kids, bro, you'll need them in your twilight years.
@@andrewpizzino2514😅 you say that because you known what its like to be married, current situation in my life, its very difficult, for someone that never been married unfortunately thats all they think about indirectly
I’m sorry but the other predicament is that’s false…. People need each other especially the opposite sexes. You gotta traverse the loneliness with hope like a Friends” episode for real. You might think you’re being wise, however you’re not realizing there are actually breathing living women looking for someone like you to come meet them🤔
@@teddyinbedin todays world most women are open to cheat and the ideology of social media just promote narcissism and selfish behaviour. By being alone I mean to not need no women in your life. I think men these days act like women. They are clingy and have a romantic vision of relationships. Being alone teach you that the world does not care about you and the only person you can rely is yourself. Then you can meet women but we a better mindset so you will avoid being used and abused.
I find it perplexing…everywhere you go, the mall, the store, a concert, school, work, sporting event, all the people passing you in traffic…how did we all eventually get here? How is it that everyone is supposedly invisible now
makes sense. people live their life online, dating, friendships, validation, excitement and so on. BUT there are always people who enjoy real life conversations just smile at people and be the one whos different. There are a lot of people who still live in the real world but you just have to see it
I’m 29 and almost every girl you date now 21+ all party and sleep around like your lucky to even get a modest woman with less then 10 bodies …… the risk isn’t worth the reward and no matter what they can leave and take your stuff ….. I’ve lived with a woman and lost everything just “living” together almost cost me everything false allegations to whatever they want to say …… and woman over 30 are just settling at that age cause they have too cause they have a “clock” and I have a sister that’s 33 and she settled and talked about how she has to hurry and find a husband and have another kid if she wants one more ….. so you have not many options as a man …… all woman are partying and sleeping around it’s normal now they start at 12-15 years old so by the time they are 21+ they already have 10 years experience already with Chad and Tyrone
@@Cornhole360 worse? How so? You didn’t have dating apps …. You didn’t have social media …… easy there stating things you know nothing about I talk to people all ages doing eye exams and I talk dating and if was much different 20-30 years ago even 15 years ago was different
tons of women in my 20s.. broke. 35 now and don't leave the house, finally got a good career 6 figs. Zero women. hopefully i can get out and eventually find one
Much worse for men. A lot of women choose to be alone and hold out hope that chad will give them attention. Or they chase the dream of becoming a girl boss only to find out how tiring/stressful well paying jobs can be. Mind you not every woman should have kids but we need way more children being born if soceity is to function properly. There are many desperate guys out there who would love to have a devoted and loving woman in their life who will give them kids. Problem is these guys are invisible to women until they reach their late 20s/early 30s and their body is screaming at them to have kids. I know guys who make 300k USD a year, have been hitting the gym for 10 years consistently and even they can't find women who want to be wives. It is not a economy problem. Women just refuse to retain traditional values. Take a look at videos for "ai girlfriend" and and it's a relentless barrage of criticism towards men. Very few youtubers/channels actually have the balls to hold women accountable. Feminism has brought global mass destruction to society but very few channels acknowledge it. Every society that has embraced feminism is seeing a nose dive into unsustainable birth rates. South Korea is already below replacement levels and feminism is the worst there. Ever since being given the freedom to choose their partner single mother households have spiked in the US. The problem is plain as day. If positive change is to take place we need strong men in charge of these nations.
@@rebrandftw exactly, I always say the entire core of such problems is too many male simps giving them attention for free... then even less than average women think they can get some top guys.. female hypergamy might been good before internet but now it ruins the dating marker with male simping
@@rebrandftwDating apps, hook up culture, social media were invented to destroy relationships, marriages and dating. It is to keep us single and selfish. By the time we get to 60s we look in the mirror old and alone and realize we will likely die off alone in our homes (maybe someone will find the body after a few weeks or months)?? No kids, no partner, it is scary... All this garbage culture is to keep us alone and easily controlled and in financial hardship as one single income is no longer enough. This was all by design... few families, children and a poorer and degraded citizen base.
My advice is get married to someone who makes your life miserable and stay in that relationship for 15 years and then get out. That is the best cure for loneliness, believe me! Nothing hardens a man like a wife who spends $100k in credit card debt she takes out over a period of 18 months. Yes this actually happened. I went into the relationship a simp, now I'm built of titanium. 0 fks given when I consider dating now, whether it would work out or not.
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@karlhans6678 try cold approaching. One thing I learned how to get over the fear is pretend they are your guy friend or that you know it's not ever going to happen so get over the feeling of finding love ..at this point you honestly have to let them come to you .
I agree with this. This happened to me a much smaller scale but after a while years and zeros start to rack up out of sight and it all feels the same. Fresh start , clean slate, content, happier
One thing worth pointing out is that, for a period of a few to several years, you'll be in the "in between" phase. You'll have forgone the party phase and access to women, but you'll have yet to achieve financial success. You'll be neither the cool bad boy, nor the rich gentleman. Most of your Saturday nights will be spent alone at home. It is during this time where you should be hitting the gym, getting your finances managed to a T, and improving yourself spiritually and mentally to prepare for success and all it brings.
I never cared for clubbing or partying. Tried it for a bit in college, but it kinda sucked. I was the sucker who fell for a girl and thought it was the one I would spend my life with. It lasted a long time, but it eventually ended, and the pain sucked. I tried dating after, but it was like I was only ever going through motions and never fell for another girl I dated again. Dating just became a chore, and now I just do what I want since I achieved where I want to be financially and career wise. If a really cool gal comes around, I may date her if she makes life better. Hasnt happened yet though. They've all made life more stressful and didn't offer enough in return to make that stress worth it. It's true that once you've been alone for a long time,it's hard to ever go back to wanting a life partner or marriage.
@thedude8526 I had a close friend who had the Hottest Girl friend ever in high school. Seriously, she was a 10. She broke up with him after a couple years, and he mourned the loss for years, but still dated other girls, some pretty but none as pretty as her, he ended up settling and married about a 6, if that , nice body buy just not that pretty, anyway he had 3 kids with the girl he married, had it together financially, great Job in IT, had several rental properties etc, and the Girl he married cheated on him, and he killed himself after he found out, I never understood that and still don't, but even after married, I knew he still mourned the loss of the first girl, he never got over her..
Imagine having a job. It’s hard work and stressful sometimes, but at the end of the week you get a paycheck and it seems worth it. Now imagine leaving work and going home to an even harder, more stressful job and at the end of the week she tells you “We’re taking my friends out clubbing and you’re paying. Oh and you’ll need to be the designated driver.”
Usually for most it's not clubbing, it's actually hanging out with her family/your inlaws and being poked, prodded and judged the entire time. If your lucky they might get you to fix some stuff, maybe even get you to go to the hardware store and pay for said repair.
I've honestly stopped trying altogether. Women have treated me poorly my entire life i.e. zero choosing signals, no crushes on me growing up, no matches on dating apps aside from fat girls or desperate single moms, never approached, and anytime I have approached they look super uncomfortable. I'm not a select guy and I've accepted that. Not everyone is meant to reproduce, tons of men even a hundred years ago didn't because they weren't born selected. I even consider myself above average in general too I'm fit, have hobbies, dress well, make 80K etc but that doesn't compensate general attractiveness by women. Sometimes you just have to know when to accept it and call it quits on something that isn't meant to be.
My story is pretty similar.. except you're doing better than me as I only make 30k a year. You aren't a virgin I assume ? Anyways for guys like us I feel like there is a chasm to break through to find success on the other end , but is it worth the effort ? Also in my case my city is pretty small , 60k people, so getting the reps in to build the skill of socialising with hot girls will result in a bad reputation for me. Also as LFA said, drinking a lot is a key aspect to all this, which I hate doing.
My story is that I kept doing game regularly to get good with them. At the beginning I was very bad, but you learn without realising how to talk to the other sex. You can't even know what you do right that they get hooked. But is a sum of manly habbits: intent, confidence, relaxed, eye contact, good articulated tonality, opennes, play to win, good energy(this comes from being successful in your finances I guess and accomplishments) and personality too. And then knowing to move things forwards. Is a long journey, but normal people find gitlfriends through social circles or local communities, no need lf much game, but to invite them out and take it slow from there. We all have our own journey, but yeah, it's definitely harder for men nowadays
Then you are unatractive and need to accept it is time to change up your appearance to get more choosing signals. If you just give up you are signaling to all guys and women you are not worth it to try with.
@@bobbybilly-xn4ch Nah I'm not a virgin I've had a few hookups and a couple short term relationships but they were always with low quality women like 304s, slightly overweight, or single moms. The women I'm actually attracted to like gym fit girls ain't into me because there are plenty of way better looking jacked dudes on my gym. I'm in my late 20s so it's pretty much luck at this point to meet someone. I find getting "reps" in a waste of time because there are plenty of good looking dudes with minimal social skills that have women flock to them.
Men feeling lucky that they get to sleep with easy low quality women is a sign of the fallen times. Sorry to tell this to any man but getting with a bunch of broken women is not a win. You are also losing. The man that can’t date is losing, and the man that can only get used women is also losing. Having the ability to be a hedonist is not the win many of you think it is. At the end of the day, you’re just putting all your worth in women. A man’s worth is not in how many women he can get. Seek God and not women. This is all temporary and it is destructive. The men that sleep around are not happy in the end. They are broken too. Stop pedestalizing broken women and broken men.
It is all one big broken.society, with powerful Satanists with very dark agendas, leading people away from God aka religion, and therefore morality. What does all this hate and degeneration of America lead to? The very obvious signs to me, like in ancient Rome, that our Empire here is starting to falter and crumble. I predict by 2050. 😮😢
@@kubilaybalci5724 Nah, I’ve been here for a while now. LFA believes that women that sleep around can be good wives. I don’t know if he considers himself a part of the RP anymore based on the stuff he says now.
@@kubilaybalci5724 He told a story of some easy girl he was sleeping with frequently from church (yeah I know), and that a week after the last time they slept together she married a guy. He said that the guy found a good woman and that he’s not a simp like many would say.
Can’t blame people for not wanting to date, the internet has psyoped men and women into really stupid expectations and mindsets. There’s good people but it’s increasingly difficult to find them. There’s no shame in just building yourself up for a while.
I’m 22 and never been in a relationship, in my last job some coworker told me about a girl that was interested in me but I never put any interest in that thing,in fact I never talked to her or even try to do some approach or anything like that, I’m alone, don’t have any friend or gf because I choose that. I like to live my life relaxed and all the money earn to me, also I don’t like to be giving explanations about nothing I do.
I have had a couple of women in my life and was married too. This is the first time i try to stay alone and spend time with myself. I am still in pain from the divorce but i realise that there is a peace when being alone. That peace for me is worth going this path. I never felt like this in any realtionship. Once you conquer the fear of loneliness there can be a great transformation i think. Being self content brings freedom. I hope the peaceful days will come more often. Its still very painful
As a top tier guy, my selection is basically zero. It was was already basically zero because even with bare bone standards most can't even meet those. Now add into the fact, i don't want someone who took the jab, its basically 0, so im just living my life stress free now i guess
Honestly, I think we should just leave dating to the rich guys and the chads and alphas at this point. I'm not gonna risk my life tryna mess my mind up tryna get women to like me and all that nonsense. Just let them choose who they want and live your life is how I see it. If it comes along great but let's not ruin ourselves just for the sake of a relationship/poompoom.
They're all quite the same. But at least you claim to have the same morals & values. Tho they generally have less mileage. Just hope you're not in a University town with your Church where the majority of dudes are Dr 's Lawyers & Engineers...gotta maintain frame.
1. Don't Set Yourself On Fire To Keep Others Warm. 2. Don't Be Afraid To Upset Any Woman; - - - Polarize Her Emotions For You. And Then - - - Also Spike Her Attraction For You.
There is no con to chasing your purpose and self development and leaving people behind that don’t align with your path if your doing those aforementioned things for women or friends you are lost
For me to date again she would need to be pretty darn special. Down to earth. Doesn’t care about status or material things. I’m 51 and I smartened up about 8 years ago. Been single since I was 43. I refuse to take the bait and I am essentially on strike! Standing with my brothers. The pendulum has swung so far in favor of woman that we are past the breaking point. It’s been past the breaking point for 25 plus years. A woman will take everything that you worked hard for and not even think twice about it. I lost everything in my early thirties. Not gonna let it happen again.
You are spot on brother on everything. I’m 58 and I’ve been through everything but long-term marriage and kids. You can have one to 10 things missing that they want. And if you have those 10 things, they will find another 10 things they wish you had.
Hey man. Thanks for taking the time to post videos like this. Commenting because I'm 38 too and I remember watching that episode of Tales From The Crypt!! I was probably 12. Insane! 😂💀 Keep up the diplomatic work man 👍🏻
@lent2005 The thing about those tales from the crypt episode is that now that the guy was young, he would be able to date other young girls, I think any older millionaire would still take that deal
PUAs and dating gurus, especially those who advocate cold approaching, are completely disconnected from the reality of (the bottom) 90% of men. The ignore the legal and social risks most men take just for saying hello to a woman in modern times. They don't face those risks, because they all above average in looks, height, income/wealth, and/or status. But they don’t acknowledge this reality; because they need normies to believe it’s their “system” that gets them success, and not their looks or status. So they can sell their system, courses, etc. to those same normies.
I'm 56, but good-looking, tall, decent income, not in bad shape and continuing to get more so (great diet and the gym at work for past 2 months). A year from now I'll have the 6 pack abs and I have a bunch of other 6's in my stats. But I really do think that love and marriage is not for me again. I went through that ringer already. I don't believe romantic love is real. I'd prefer keeping my money and using a toy, and then enjoying the peace and quiet. I have a house and I enjoy it. I have art, music, livestock, fruit & nut trees, asparagus, berry bushes, etc. I write in my spare time. Why would I want to introduce that sweaty-stick of dynamite known as "modern woman" into my peaceful abode?
I hate that young people ask what your bodycount is. Bodycount is a fucking cool metal band, with Ice-T. Not the amount of women you slept with. And goodlooking women will age too, if they don't find a rich man before 30, most of them end up miserable as well.
> I hate that young people ask what your bodycount is As Joker put it, thats 💊trickling into the mainstream without an understanding of the origin. View it from PoV of a culture -ar.
And here is me, in total DPDR in my 20s, trying to do something with myself in mid 30s. As they say, you are losing in game you don't even know you are playing
How many young men 18 - 30 in America today that -Have a career, not a "job" -Their own place/moved out of parents house -6 feet tall, fit, full head of hair -not socially awkward and can go out and talk to chicks/flirt -aren't homosexual That's pretty much the bare minimum and i'd say its about 10% of men at best
That sounds like the ideal, not the minimum requirement. If it was the minimum, no one would be dating or having kids. Maybe that's the delusion of woman these days.
Even if you are one of those men you are seen as average, You not making 6 figures, You not fat but you not built and you don’t have any status. Women want the top 10% and what you said is not.
It's hard to find a truly good woman. They are out there, but hard to find. Don't settle with someone just because she's good looking, a good relationship has nothing to do about looks. Good luck to all. ✌
I really don't think it is so simple to describe... It just depends on what kind of person you want to be. Personally, I think being a pickup artist is pretty scumbag shit and it is exactly the root cause of why this era is impossible to meet genuine people from both sides (men & women). Everything has developed into wearing a mask and deceiving the other side for selfish purposes. Dating and relationships are so toxic and nearly impossible to find authenticity anymore thanks to this garbage. Everyone is bitter and on guard and trying to get the advantage instead of trying to build something real. On a side note, about being a high-value man: I think there are absolutely no downsides to this side because 1.) Life isn't just about your dick and about having sex with as many women as possible 2.) Having sex with a ton of women is disgusting (unpopular opinion) 3.) Why would you even want to have sex with women you find at clubs and bars? They are mostly low-quality women. 4.) By being a high-quality man, you will put yourself in more high-quality environments where more high-quality people converge and you can meet an actual high-quality woman.
The most truthful video you have delivered. I succeeded in experiencing having a 25 year old girlfriend happen when I was 40(47 today)years old. We were together for five years.
It's been a long time since I actually heard anything resembling a unique insight into the current situation men are in, and you're the first one who's put into words the double-bind I've realized I'm in as a 24 year old man, I can find pretty girls I feel no connection to everywhere but what I want out of life is to start a family but they're all too busy playing around to do anything meaningful, so I guess what's most likely to happen for me is I'll have to focus on work and hope my little man down there still works by the time women my age want to settle down.
Some of my friends have had sex with nearly 100 women and I don’t think it has made them any happier. Really just focus on your physical and mental health and saving money for a better future. Just my opinion.
That part at the end was exactly what happened to me with my first ever gf. She was a bit younger than me, and I used to work in a supermarket at the time and she knew other girls used to hit on me from work and it drove her crazy. She felt very insecure even though I didn't reciprocate as I was happy in a relationship with her. A couple of years later, she ended up leaving me for a guy from her uni class, it absolutely ripped me to shreds for a while.
@temmison1171 because she was waiting for someone to be her 'rebound', typical opportunist women behaviour. She told me she was just friends with this guy and i believed her but she was banging him all along. I stayed in contact with her and tried to win her back which was a mistake. And guess what? She did the exact same thing to that guy a few years later!
Haven't ask a girl out in over 8 years recently. I met a girl i fell for, and i asked her if she wanted to get some tea with me, and i got hit with the, maybe next week answer. I stood my ground, and the rejection hurt really hard.
Work on being more attractive and focus on your bank account. Go out and meet people. Anywhere and everywhere. I feel like a lot of men have this EITHER OR personality that really destroys them. You don’t have to pick between being a “bad boy” or “fat rich slob”. Take the good from everything just don’t lose yourself in only one mindset. I’m 29 and go out regularly. There’s no shortage of married/single/partnered women from the ages of 18 - 50 at bars and clubs. You’d be surprised how many of them are similar to us. Work/Gym by day - party by night.
Bro literally every dude goes out. Every dude, lifts, every dude see's people.... The point was, most outgrow the "going out to party" phase. And most of the single people are going out to the party. Therefore, we would have to dumb ourselves down to make it happen.
Women ain't happy being single. Women also can't go and date anyone out of the blue either. Women stay single if they can't find a guy who they are attracted to and who see a future with them with good qualities. A lot of divorces are enishiated by women as most women in marriage are settling down with a guy who they are not attracted to at the beginning or have lost attraction during the relationship before marriage and chose not to cancel the wedding.
LFA we had a chat live over 3 years ago when I was 18. Told you I was single and stuff. Well I’m even still single today at 21, never dated. I guess things never change huh
hey brother, just know that is not your fault. I will be 26 in some months. I had my first sexual experience at 17 with a hooker and a second one with a girl I felt in love at 21 and she fucked my best friend. I had bad depression back then and the fact that she cheated on me with my best friend blackpilled me for good. I then started my research on women behavior and the results wasn't pleasant.
Just focus on improving your overall attraction and go to parties and the bars in college. Make a bunch of friends and you will stumble into a woman to date.
Please, let me add, that at the end of the week, I'm exhausted and don't have energy left for clubing and must stop to avoid a burn-out on next monday. Please tell all of you feel the same at the end of the week or not. Thanks
Men have always been the players with women getting hurt but in this day and age, women become the players And now both can't find anyone for a long-term relationship! Unfortunately you're unable to turn back time to the women of the past...😮
It seems women of the past are a complete fantasy. But maybe women see the man of the past as a dream also, you know the rugged, insanely strong individual, willing to take on the world for her, the cowboy Rip Wheeler type of guy from the fantasy violence BS world.
Guys, Always Remember These Phrases: 1. You Are The King Of The Castle, 2. You Are The Catch Of The Cattle, 3. You Are The Lion Of The Pride, 4. You Are The Builder Of The Palace, 5. You Are The Pulitzer Of The Bride, 6. You Are The Provider Of The Princess, 7. You Are The Protector Of The Queen.
I Im 44yrs old and have been single all my life by choice after seeing how horrible women were since high school so never got serious with anyone nor trusted anyone. It's like why since then have other men gotten into relationships? Did they not see how horrible women were since high school also or something??
*It’s true that dating feels tougher today, but a big part of the challenge is mindset. Instead of chasing validation, focus on leveling up in areas like fitness, career, and social skills. When you become the best version of yourself, you’ll attract people who genuinely value you.*
I'm 6'0, weigh 215, lift most days (on TRT), I do cardio 4-5 days a week and I definitely don't look bad, I make far above average salary just under 100K, 39, single, no kids, never married and I am completely invisible to women.
@@Aplacewhereanythinggoes Bro you don't think I've tried lol. Like I said I'm invisible to them. Now I'm not walking around telling women how much I make lol, but I'm like a 6.5-7 on a really good day, but apparently you just need to be a 9 or a 10 for a woman to speak to you.............even if she's a 4.
I’m in great shape, I make $120K with a nice bonus, dual Spain US citizenship, travel all throughout the year and have paid for my ex’s travel expenses when we were together. My problem is I’m 5’7 haha. I feel invisible as well but I assumed it’s my height. My ex left me for a 60 year old flabby married man! Women make no sense. I really don’t get it. I’m guessing when I hit my 50’s and 60’s I’ll be wanted??
You only realize this after getting totally sober. Years going out actually thinking it's like it was in the 90's. Be a chad or have a porsche or get no play. On top of that if you are a man working toward something women see it & they'd rather get with a winner or total loser. I think any man in between being a nobody and celebrity has to tank these dating and social media apps. The women are just laughing at this point. Look at you with your small local ego while she's texting a dude from the G league.
the two paths would most accurately be named as such: misleading/fraudulent marketing and practices (pick-up artist), and inherent value, where the product is genuinely valuable and desirable
I’m not red pill or blue pill I continue to work hard on myself if a girl comes my way that’s great if not that’s ok as well I always stop and talk to women from time to time but you know as well as I do brother the dating game is broken for sure I’ve had a lot of women and a lot of relationships I’m at the point in my life to just be in the moment and enjoy your life hope you have a great thanksgiving Lfa
There are women out there who had enough of that life & partying. She focuses on self development & following god’s purpose. We still hope to meet a man of god who is following his purpose & live a healthy life & is a service to the world. ❤
@Notthatkevguy Women can be absolutely brutal in the way they "filter out" men. But it's not their fault; from their viewpoint they are acting rationally. You do have options, but at every step you have to be honest with yourself.
@Tinadajo I know of ONE girl in my life who ever liked me and that never really went anywhere. Other than that I've been ignored by every girl. The dirty hateful looks on them...though some of them at least fake politeness, which is nice. I know my place with women. My face is simply too ugly. Not even being lean saved me.
I kind of lucked out in this regard I guess. I was always extremely focused on my career path, and my healthy routines.. From fitness, to meal preps, all that. But I was also a bartender in college and continued in that career path while I was getting my own thing going. It paid really well and by the time I found my “perfect gig” I only needed to work 2x a week to be able to make enough money for myself at this time (I stopped entirely when I was 29) During this time it was pretty much my dating scene. Meeting girls, chatting them up (it was my job) them leaving their numbers (I never gave mine) and “hanging out” after work, or when I had a free night. Everything was always pretty casual, and I was always focused on my end goal. I knew I would never “end up” with the type of person that would want to give their number to the bartender (even IF it was me) , if that makes sense. I Dont feel I missed out on anything because I was there IN a high end popular club style bar a few nights a week anyway, and believe it or not there are a ton of high quality women that go to those types ofnolaces (although the amount of volume I would see/interact with is hard to compare to just an ordinary patron coming in on a random night)So again, I feel like I was lucky in that regard. No doubt. I still am in contact with a couple people from that time period now (although I wouldn't say we are close).. But they always knew my drive/ambition and once they could see that in me you best believe they wanted ALL of me. The key is to just stay focused on your long term goals, and weighing the pro’s and con’s to where you want to prioritize your energy. All that being said, it was nice at one point to kind of have a Rolodex of willing people that would want to see you at any point. The key is to stay transparent, don’t deceive/lead on, because that will make you all that more attractive to the good ones
They’ve essentially condemned themselves to be alone forever though. There’s only so many male model looking millionaire Chads on earth and those guys definitely aren’t looking to settle down. These gals will get pumped and dumped until they hit the wall and their looks fade and then it’s gonna be a lonely miserable existence for them 😂
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d Lol what? Women are never happy dude haha that’s life 101 Jr. Men can be very happy with very little. Sure being in your 20s and not having anyone to bang sucks, but life and priorities really change as you get older
You said you’re a free bird in the last video, that you talk to female “friends”, then you say you’re in a relationship in other videos. That sounds like a situationship or some sort of open relationship. That can’t end well.
In your opinion, can a guy with a free-bird personality, have a relationship, and still be considerate to old friends who are going through rough times?
If you slept with those “old friends” and your woman is ok with it or doesn’t know you’re doing that, then it does sound like a situationship to me. Idk what kind of woman would be alright with this kind of stuff. But I guess you do you and hope for the best. This modern stuff never works out so I’m not sure why you keep repeating the same behaviors. I think you should know better by this point. But hey, I’m just a random girl from the internet 🤷♀️
Thank you for important information I myself 35 can’t find person that is similar to what I like and so on I say Put God first and see where it goes from there .
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You’re a great story teller. A highly underrated skill.
But, I’m curious how you think the story about the house party goes for the woman who’s overweight and unattractive.
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This is the truest thing you have ever said. I honestly think more guys are invisible to women these days than ever before
not true. most men say they want a good woman but they overlook these kind of women. men want access to hot women. they desire the hot woman
Yes Most men are invisible to very attractive women and most overweight women are invisible to high status men
I saw once that the top 20% of males on dating apps date 83% of the women on those dating apps
@@sdegroote1995 It's a lot less than "top 20%".
invisible only in real life, because those broads just stare at their screens.
Once you get cheated on your views on relationships really change and it’s very hard to have any trust in the next woman you meet or end up dating.
Yep had it happen back to back then at the wake of a friend met a guy she banged in the very early days at the baseball dugout out all these years later made me sick
then you gotta cheat more than them
always have the upper hand
@Phil-j7t I've had several pretty girlfriends, and every single one has cheated, most in a monkey branch kinda way, like when they were already thinking about leaving, not in a just for pleasure kinda way like a guy would
@@MX-COI've dated over 300 women romantically and only one of them I found out was seeing another guy 3 months in, she didn't even cheat. Not a single other one has cheated on me and many of them were loyal for over 10 years despite my womanizing. BE the cheater and problem solved.
@@Re3iRtHHell yeah im kinda in the same boat because if a woman knows you’re the prize, you’re too good to mess things up with, she will hold more value in being loyal towards you but cheating on them doesn’t solve this except pushing your ego
Honestly dating is something men should do leisurely. If it happens, great, but your life should be fulfilling enough that you don’t worry about it. 💪🏼
I agree
This, basically.
Excellent
I TOTALLY AGREE!!!
That is how I have been living life!
Yep when you're 35 and you have been doing the right thing for a few years you can find a 29-year-old chick ready to settle down but she's been with 100 different guys already and will either cheat on you or divorce you a few years down the road because she's completely unable to pair bond.
To be fair a guy who's 35 and always been single can't pair bond either.
@@simontist Probably true, while a 35 year old female virgin would pair bond like a mofo. But wait, so you're saying that men and women are wired the opposite way? No way, I thought that gender was just a preference or a choice LOL.
This is why vetting is important. There are actually a good amount of women with a very low body count, this is why prospecting is so important.
What makes you think that a man who's slept around a lot has the ability to pair bond?
@tinycatfromhell Obviously spoken by a woman. Honey we are wired different, and in this case the exact opposite! It is a survival adaptation.
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31 years old. Never had a relationship. Only ever been on first dates. Because shortly after each first date, I'd either get soundly rejected or the texts would slowly stop coming in about planning the next date, then get completely ghosted. At this point, flat out done trying anymore.
Same here man, I’m done trying all I get is rejected, led on and ghosted.. Definitely hurts so I just take care of me and ignore women not worth the headache and heart ache
I feel you man, Im 44yrs old and have been single all my life by choice after seeing how horrible women were since high school so never got serious with anyone nor trusted anyone. It's like why since then have other men gotten into relationships? Did they not see how horrible women were since high school also or something??
At 26 years old, I’ve learned it’s just a big a$$ waste of time. I’m done being the guy that gets left hangin or being played with.
I'm in the exact same boat. I'll be 33 in a little over a month from now.
Same here. I'm 35 and have never been in a relationship but have been on a few dates. Lost my virginity this year to an escort however and I plan on doing that in the future.
I am married with children now but I have been on both paths. I am here to tell you it doesn't get easier regardless of path you choose. My advice is to learn and master being ok with feeling uncomfortable.
Yes, having a family is difficult, but I still think you're in a much better spot than us single guys who might never be able to get married and have kids. In your elder years, you'll have your kids to comfort you. Whereas us single guys, we might just die alone, un-mourned, and with no one to say a prayer for us as we cross over. Be good to your kids, bro, you'll need them in your twilight years.
@@samweirich5973- Everyone dies alone, brother.
Everyone.
Maybe because I am older but been married and now single. Oh boy is single easier and happier.
@@andrewpizzino2514😅 you say that because you known what its like to be married, current situation in my life, its very difficult, for someone that never been married unfortunately thats all they think about indirectly
I agree, married life with kids is extremely difficult, single/married both sides have their pros and cons.
Being alone is the best thing for your mental peace.
I’m sorry but the other predicament is that’s false…. People need each other especially the opposite sexes. You gotta traverse the loneliness with hope like a Friends” episode for real. You might think you’re being wise, however you’re not realizing there are actually breathing living women looking for someone like you to come meet them🤔
@@warriora7245the only person you NEED in this life is yourself.
@@teddyinbedin todays world most women are open to cheat and the ideology of social media just promote narcissism and selfish behaviour. By being alone I mean to not need no women in your life. I think men these days act like women. They are clingy and have a romantic vision of relationships. Being alone teach you that the world does not care about you and the only person you can rely is yourself. Then you can meet women but we a better mindset so you will avoid being used and abused.
Being alone is great for your mental peace only up to a point, past that point it's actually extremely shit for you.
No it's not normal people enjoy social connection.
When a woman settles for you once their attention dries up they are always going to resent you.
Even if you find one you like they eventually leave lmao
As an average-looking guy, I have been invisible to women my entire 37 year life
Good looking men too
put yourself out there...talk to everyone...be fun to hang out with....and you will catch a few.
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Life is too short. Instead of focusing on sex, getting a date, i concentrate on god. Cause when we die, we are ALL alone.
When your body die you is free.
Eh god... i tried but even this is hopeless in the end.
We alone, we die, there's nothing. No mercy. The End.
Best comment.
Preach
Unless I'm the one driving the bus.
I find it perplexing…everywhere you go, the mall, the store, a concert, school, work, sporting event, all the people passing you in traffic…how did we all eventually get here? How is it that everyone is supposedly invisible now
Technology
makes sense. people live their life online, dating, friendships, validation, excitement and so on. BUT there are always people who enjoy real life conversations just smile at people and be the one whos different. There are a lot of people who still live in the real world but you just have to see it
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capitalism breeds alienation
I’m 29 and almost every girl you date now 21+ all party and sleep around like your lucky to even get a modest woman with less then 10 bodies …… the risk isn’t worth the reward and no matter what they can leave and take your stuff ….. I’ve lived with a woman and lost everything just “living” together almost cost me everything false allegations to whatever they want to say …… and woman over 30 are just settling at that age cause they have too cause they have a “clock” and I have a sister that’s 33 and she settled and talked about how she has to hurry and find a husband and have another kid if she wants one more ….. so you have not many options as a man …… all woman are partying and sleeping around it’s normal now they start at 12-15 years old so by the time they are 21+ they already have 10 years experience already with Chad and Tyrone
You have infinitely more options than a woman
This is nothing new, it was way worse 20-30 years ago. You need to be a little tougher.
@@Cornhole360How was it worse and why?
@@Cornhole360I doubt times are different now especially with social media active
@@Cornhole360 worse? How so? You didn’t have dating apps …. You didn’t have social media …… easy there stating things you know nothing about I talk to people all ages doing eye exams and I talk dating and if was much different 20-30 years ago even 15 years ago was different
tons of women in my 20s.. broke. 35 now and don't leave the house, finally got a good career 6 figs. Zero women. hopefully i can get out and eventually find one
Careful, they're everywhere... fortunately you seem to have stealth LoL
If you're not her first choice you are absolutely wasting your time.
Everybody's burned out, lonely and severely depressed men and women you just don't hear about how bad it really is
Much worse for men. A lot of women choose to be alone and hold out hope that chad will give them attention. Or they chase the dream of becoming a girl boss only to find out how tiring/stressful well paying jobs can be. Mind you not every woman should have kids but we need way more children being born if soceity is to function properly. There are many desperate guys out there who would love to have a devoted and loving woman in their life who will give them kids. Problem is these guys are invisible to women until they reach their late 20s/early 30s and their body is screaming at them to have kids.
I know guys who make 300k USD a year, have been hitting the gym for 10 years consistently and even they can't find women who want to be wives. It is not a economy problem. Women just refuse to retain traditional values.
Take a look at videos for "ai girlfriend" and and it's a relentless barrage of criticism towards men. Very few youtubers/channels actually have the balls to hold women accountable. Feminism has brought global mass destruction to society but very few channels acknowledge it. Every society that has embraced feminism is seeing a nose dive into unsustainable birth rates. South Korea is already below replacement levels and feminism is the worst there. Ever since being given the freedom to choose their partner single mother households have spiked in the US. The problem is plain as day.
If positive change is to take place we need strong men in charge of these nations.
A lot of problems in the dating market could be fixed if men stopped simping and women learnt self respect and didn't sleep around! 👍
@@rebrandftw an absolute truth that sadly will never come true..
@@rebrandftw exactly, I always say the entire core of such problems is too many male simps giving them attention for free... then even less than average women think they can get some top guys.. female hypergamy might been good before internet but now it ruins the dating marker with male simping
@@rebrandftwDating apps, hook up culture, social media were invented to destroy relationships, marriages and dating. It is to keep us single and selfish. By the time we get to 60s we look in the mirror old and alone and realize we will likely die off alone in our homes (maybe someone will find the body after a few weeks or months)?? No kids, no partner, it is scary... All this garbage culture is to keep us alone and easily controlled and in financial hardship as one single income is no longer enough. This was all by design... few families, children and a poorer and degraded citizen base.
My advice is get married to someone who makes your life miserable and stay in that relationship for 15 years and then get out. That is the best cure for loneliness, believe me! Nothing hardens a man like a wife who spends $100k in credit card debt she takes out over a period of 18 months. Yes this actually happened. I went into the relationship a simp, now I'm built of titanium. 0 fks given when I consider dating now, whether it would work out or not.
Damn 15 years of time lost and taken to the cleaners.
I never had a gf.
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@karlhans6678 try cold approaching. One thing I learned how to get over the fear is pretend they are your guy friend or that you know it's not ever going to happen so get over the feeling of finding love ..at this point you honestly have to let them come to you .
Umm id rather just take your advice and be grateful for it , then go thru what u did , respect
I agree with this.
This happened to me a much smaller scale but after a while years and zeros start to rack up out of sight and it all feels the same.
Fresh start , clean slate, content, happier
One thing worth pointing out is that, for a period of a few to several years, you'll be in the "in between" phase. You'll have forgone the party phase and access to women, but you'll have yet to achieve financial success. You'll be neither the cool bad boy, nor the rich gentleman. Most of your Saturday nights will be spent alone at home. It is during this time where you should be hitting the gym, getting your finances managed to a T, and improving yourself spiritually and mentally to prepare for success and all it brings.
Start learning a music instrument. It makes you a better person, and is a productive use of your time.
She's not yours, it's just your turn.
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It's hard to find virtuous people nowadays that are worth to commit with. I pray for all of us
I never cared for clubbing or partying. Tried it for a bit in college, but it kinda sucked. I was the sucker who fell for a girl and thought it was the one I would spend my life with. It lasted a long time, but it eventually ended, and the pain sucked.
I tried dating after, but it was like I was only ever going through motions and never fell for another girl I dated again. Dating just became a chore, and now I just do what I want since I achieved where I want to be financially and career wise. If a really cool gal comes around, I may date her if she makes life better. Hasnt happened yet though. They've all made life more stressful and didn't offer enough in return to make that stress worth it. It's true that once you've been alone for a long time,it's hard to ever go back to wanting a life partner or marriage.
I couldn’t agree more. My thoughts as well. You said it. 👍
@thedude8526 I had a close friend who had the Hottest Girl friend ever in high school. Seriously, she was a 10. She broke up with him after a couple years, and he mourned the loss for years, but still dated other girls, some pretty but none as pretty as her, he ended up settling and married about a 6, if that , nice body buy just not that pretty, anyway he had 3 kids with the girl he married, had it together financially, great Job in IT, had several rental properties etc, and the Girl he married cheated on him, and he killed himself after he found out, I never understood that and still don't, but even after married, I knew he still mourned the loss of the first girl, he never got over her..
Can you give a short story of the girl you fell in love with?
Why didn't it work out?
Its called introvert bro nothing wrong with that. I hate clubs and busy places to. Sucks for dating though
Imagine having a job. It’s hard work and stressful sometimes, but at the end of the week you get a paycheck and it seems worth it.
Now imagine leaving work and going home to an even harder, more stressful job and at the end of the week she tells you “We’re taking my friends out clubbing and you’re paying. Oh and you’ll need to be the designated driver.”
No thank you
Youre a simp beta cuck if you live a life like that time to leave and take your power back
Usually for most it's not clubbing, it's actually hanging out with her family/your inlaws and being poked, prodded and judged the entire time.
If your lucky they might get you to fix some stuff, maybe even get you to go to the hardware store and pay for said repair.
@ mine was a general inclination that dating a woman is like having a job that you have to pay for.
I've honestly stopped trying altogether. Women have treated me poorly my entire life i.e. zero choosing signals, no crushes on me growing up, no matches on dating apps aside from fat girls or desperate single moms, never approached, and anytime I have approached they look super uncomfortable. I'm not a select guy and I've accepted that. Not everyone is meant to reproduce, tons of men even a hundred years ago didn't because they weren't born selected.
I even consider myself above average in general too I'm fit, have hobbies, dress well, make 80K etc but that doesn't compensate general attractiveness by women.
Sometimes you just have to know when to accept it and call it quits on something that isn't meant to be.
My story is pretty similar.. except you're doing better than me as I only make 30k a year. You aren't a virgin I assume ?
Anyways for guys like us I feel like there is a chasm to break through to find success on the other end , but is it worth the effort ? Also in my case my city is pretty small , 60k people, so getting the reps in to build the skill of socialising with hot girls will result in a bad reputation for me. Also as LFA said, drinking a lot is a key aspect to all this, which I hate doing.
My story is that I kept doing game regularly to get good with them. At the beginning I was very bad, but you learn without realising how to talk to the other sex. You can't even know what you do right that they get hooked. But is a sum of manly habbits: intent, confidence, relaxed, eye contact, good articulated tonality, opennes, play to win, good energy(this comes from being successful in your finances I guess and accomplishments) and personality too.
And then knowing to move things forwards. Is a long journey, but normal people find gitlfriends through social circles or local communities, no need lf much game, but to invite them out and take it slow from there.
We all have our own journey, but yeah, it's definitely harder for men nowadays
Then you are unatractive and need to accept it is time to change up your appearance to get more choosing signals. If you just give up you are signaling to all guys and women you are not worth it to try with.
@BigG6179
Yeah. You think you're attractive but not to the point where females would give choosing signals.
@@bobbybilly-xn4ch Nah I'm not a virgin I've had a few hookups and a couple short term relationships but they were always with low quality women like 304s, slightly overweight, or single moms. The women I'm actually attracted to like gym fit girls ain't into me because there are plenty of way better looking jacked dudes on my gym. I'm in my late 20s so it's pretty much luck at this point to meet someone.
I find getting "reps" in a waste of time because there are plenty of good looking dudes with minimal social skills that have women flock to them.
Tales From the Crypt reference was great. So many life lessons in that series.
we're so cooked
Cooked? I guess if you put that much weight on it.
its going to be good
Nah man I'm over here cookin' 😂
Lmao
This is a sad reality for a lot of guys. Hang in there fellas 🎉
Men feeling lucky that they get to sleep with easy low quality women is a sign of the fallen times.
Sorry to tell this to any man but getting with a bunch of broken women is not a win. You are also losing. The man that can’t date is losing, and the man that can only get used women is also losing.
Having the ability to be a hedonist is not the win many of you think it is. At the end of the day, you’re just putting all your worth in women. A man’s worth is not in how many women he can get. Seek God and not women. This is all temporary and it is destructive. The men that sleep around are not happy in the end. They are broken too. Stop pedestalizing broken women and broken men.
It is all one big broken.society, with powerful Satanists with very dark agendas, leading people away from God aka religion, and therefore morality. What does all this hate and degeneration of America lead to? The very obvious signs to me, like in ancient Rome, that our Empire here is starting to falter and crumble. I predict by 2050. 😮😢
Are you new here? Who is pededastilizing hedonistic women? Especially on this part of the internet.
@@kubilaybalci5724 Nah, I’ve been here for a while now. LFA believes that women that sleep around can be good wives. I don’t know if he considers himself a part of the RP anymore based on the stuff he says now.
@adriana12995 doubt he believes that, maybe that he can rendeem themselves (from a religious pov) but that's different.
@@kubilaybalci5724 He told a story of some easy girl he was sleeping with frequently from church (yeah I know), and that a week after the last time they slept together she married a guy.
He said that the guy found a good woman and that he’s not a simp like many would say.
Can’t blame people for not wanting to date, the internet has psyoped men and women into really stupid expectations and mindsets. There’s good people but it’s increasingly difficult to find them. There’s no shame in just building yourself up for a while.
Can't put both men and women into this.
@@LeftHimDead nah it’s both.
@@iridescent880 cope
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d room temp IQ response.
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d sounds like the response of a 15 year old broccoli head.
I’m 22 and never been in a relationship, in my last job some coworker told me about a girl that was interested in me but I never put any interest in that thing,in fact I never talked to her or even try to do some approach or anything like that, I’m alone, don’t have any friend or gf because I choose that. I like to live my life relaxed and all the money earn to me, also I don’t like to be giving explanations about nothing I do.
Good for you ! Stay single unless you find that rare gem. Falling in love is over rated.
I can relate brother your not alone 🫡
Never explain never complain.
Never dip your pen in company ink.
That's gotta be boring af
I have had a couple of women in my life and was married too. This is the first time i try to stay alone and spend time with myself. I am still in pain from the divorce but i realise that there is a peace when being alone. That peace for me is worth going this path. I never felt like this in any realtionship. Once you conquer the fear of loneliness there can be a great transformation i think. Being self content brings freedom. I hope the peaceful days will come more often. Its still very painful
Those peaceful days will come as you grow older, I assure you. Keep a small diary - you will be surprised when you look back on yourself.
@@Tinadajo Thank you! I am 43. Looking forward :)
Dating pool also smaller because you can’t just let any random girl in once you hit a certain level. A lot to lose and little to gain.
That's very true indeed.
They are all the same though.
Let them in but don’t marry
As a top tier guy, my selection is basically zero. It was was already basically zero because even with bare bone standards most can't even meet those. Now add into the fact, i don't want someone who took the jab, its basically 0, so im just living my life stress free now i guess
Well said
Honestly, I think we should just leave dating to the rich guys and the chads and alphas at this point. I'm not gonna risk my life tryna mess my mind up tryna get women to like me and all that nonsense. Just let them choose who they want and live your life is how I see it. If it comes along great but let's not ruin ourselves just for the sake of a relationship/poompoom.
I meet women at my church group. Most of the ones partying are not worth it, doesn’t matter how hot they are.
You need to meet a kinky nun.
That's nice, have to wait till marriage to get anything more than a kiss though.
They're all quite the same. But at least you claim to have the same morals & values. Tho they generally have less mileage. Just hope you're not in a University town with your Church where the majority of dudes are Dr 's Lawyers & Engineers...gotta maintain frame.
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Great Tales From the Crypt reference. I'm 41 and it's right in my wheelhouse
There is no con to chasing your purpose and self development and leaving people behind that don’t align with your path if your doing those aforementioned things for women or friends you are lost
I agree. But most don't see it that way.
Ok LFA I see lol
For me to date again she would need to be pretty darn special. Down to earth. Doesn’t care about status or material things. I’m 51 and I smartened up about 8 years ago. Been single since I was 43. I refuse to take the bait and I am essentially on strike! Standing with my brothers. The pendulum has swung so far in favor of woman that we are past the breaking point. It’s been past the breaking point for 25 plus years. A woman will take everything that you worked hard for and not even think twice about it. I lost everything in my early thirties. Not gonna let it happen again.
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You are spot on brother on everything. I’m 58 and I’ve been through everything but long-term marriage and kids. You can have one to 10 things missing that they want. And if you have those 10 things, they will find another 10 things they wish you had.
Hey man. Thanks for taking the time to post videos like this. Commenting because I'm 38 too and I remember watching that episode of Tales From The Crypt!! I was probably 12. Insane! 😂💀
Keep up the diplomatic work man 👍🏻
@lent2005 The thing about those tales from the crypt episode is that now that the guy was young, he would be able to date other young girls, I think any older millionaire would still take that deal
Dating coaches often use Jabba the Hutt as an example of a guy to emulate as he's surrounded by multiple vvomen despite being physically unattractive.
and it's a lie. the reality is the exact opposite
PUAs and dating gurus, especially those who advocate cold approaching, are completely disconnected from the reality of (the bottom) 90% of men. The ignore the legal and social risks most men take just for saying hello to a woman in modern times. They don't face those risks, because they all above average in looks, height, income/wealth, and/or status. But they don’t acknowledge this reality; because they need normies to believe it’s their “system” that gets them success, and not their looks or status. So they can sell their system, courses, etc. to those same normies.
@@SerenityNow91
You raise a very valid and interesting point
@@SerenityNow91 yup. Women want Chad (top 3% of men in terms of Looks). Chad can do whatever, and he gets them all. Women don't wanna settle anymore
@@SerenityNow91looks aren’t that important unless you’re grotesque
Play the hand you’re dealt
I'm 56, but good-looking, tall, decent income, not in bad shape and continuing to get more so (great diet and the gym at work for past 2 months). A year from now I'll have the 6 pack abs and I have a bunch of other 6's in my stats. But I really do think that love and marriage is not for me again. I went through that ringer already. I don't believe romantic love is real. I'd prefer keeping my money and using a toy, and then enjoying the peace and quiet. I have a house and I enjoy it. I have art, music, livestock, fruit & nut trees, asparagus, berry bushes, etc. I write in my spare time. Why would I want to introduce that sweaty-stick of dynamite known as "modern woman" into my peaceful abode?
WHO GIVES A FUXX IF UR TALL GOOBER..WHY MENTION SO
What kind of toy???
@@prsgrind8794 Fleshlight.
@@prsgrind8794 fleshlight
@@prsgrind8794The kind that does not talk.
rather be alone than deal with trash
Man, this truth hits HARD, thnx for wise words. Keep up the good work.
I hate that young people ask what your bodycount is. Bodycount is a fucking cool metal band, with Ice-T. Not the amount of women you slept with. And goodlooking women will age too, if they don't find a rich man before 30, most of them end up miserable as well.
> I hate that young people ask what your bodycount is
As Joker put it, thats 💊trickling into the mainstream without an understanding of the origin. View it from PoV of a culture -ar.
cope af. women would rather be single into old age, than date below a 10 or 9 guy in looks.
And grandmas can even get Chads now. wake up
THERE GOES THE NEIGHBORHOOD!!
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d I think you underestimate what loneliness in 35+ women means
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d Damn, you give off crazy virgin vibes.
And here is me, in total DPDR in my 20s, trying to do something with myself in mid 30s. As they say, you are losing in game you don't even know you are playing
How many young men 18 - 30 in America today that
-Have a career, not a "job"
-Their own place/moved out of parents house
-6 feet tall, fit, full head of hair
-not socially awkward and can go out and talk to chicks/flirt
-aren't homosexual
That's pretty much the bare minimum and i'd say its about 10% of men at best
That sounds like the ideal, not the minimum requirement. If it was the minimum, no one would be dating or having kids. Maybe that's the delusion of woman these days.
Even if you are one of those men you are seen as average, You not making 6 figures, You not fat but you not built and you don’t have any status. Women want the top 10% and what you said is not.
good point. Very few guys measure up to all these points, and I bet if you were to ask most women these points would be the bare minimum.
I mean 6ft men just by itself is only ~15% of american men
women go for top 3% of men in terms of Looks. the rest of the stuff mentioned does not matter to them anymore
It's hard to find a truly good woman. They are out there, but hard to find. Don't settle with someone just because she's good looking, a good relationship has nothing to do about looks. Good luck to all. ✌
I really don't think it is so simple to describe... It just depends on what kind of person you want to be. Personally, I think being a pickup artist is pretty scumbag shit and it is exactly the root cause of why this era is impossible to meet genuine people from both sides (men & women). Everything has developed into wearing a mask and deceiving the other side for selfish purposes. Dating and relationships are so toxic and nearly impossible to find authenticity anymore thanks to this garbage. Everyone is bitter and on guard and trying to get the advantage instead of trying to build something real.
On a side note, about being a high-value man: I think there are absolutely no downsides to this side because 1.) Life isn't just about your dick and about having sex with as many women as possible 2.) Having sex with a ton of women is disgusting (unpopular opinion) 3.) Why would you even want to have sex with women you find at clubs and bars? They are mostly low-quality women. 4.) By being a high-quality man, you will put yourself in more high-quality environments where more high-quality people converge and you can meet an actual high-quality woman.
The most truthful video you have delivered. I succeeded in experiencing having a 25 year old girlfriend happen when I was 40(47 today)years old. We were together for five years.
It's been a long time since I actually heard anything resembling a unique insight into the current situation men are in, and you're the first one who's put into words the double-bind I've realized I'm in as a 24 year old man, I can find pretty girls I feel no connection to everywhere but what I want out of life is to start a family but they're all too busy playing around to do anything meaningful, so I guess what's most likely to happen for me is I'll have to focus on work and hope my little man down there still works by the time women my age want to settle down.
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@@temmison1171 Not wrong, but people are also responsible for their own behavior.
Some of my friends have had sex with nearly 100 women and I don’t think it has made them any happier.
Really just focus on your physical and mental health and saving money for a better future.
Just my opinion.
Almost guarantee they are happier than men who had s3x with 0 women.
That part at the end was exactly what happened to me with my first ever gf. She was a bit younger than me, and I used to work in a supermarket at the time and she knew other girls used to hit on me from work and it drove her crazy. She felt very insecure even though I didn't reciprocate as I was happy in a relationship with her. A couple of years later, she ended up leaving me for a guy from her uni class, it absolutely ripped me to shreds for a while.
Why did she leave you for a guy at her uni?
@temmison1171 because she was waiting for someone to be her 'rebound', typical opportunist women behaviour. She told me she was just friends with this guy and i believed her but she was banging him all along. I stayed in contact with her and tried to win her back which was a mistake. And guess what? She did the exact same thing to that guy a few years later!
Did not know you men had it bad too.
What a treat so many Professor Chad lectures!! Going to listen to this cleaning & the other for dinner later :D*
wut
Very insightful. I never realized this but you are completely accurate
Haven't ask a girl out in over 8 years recently. I met a girl i fell for, and i asked her if she wanted to get some tea with me, and i got hit with the, maybe next week answer. I stood my ground, and the rejection hurt really hard.
Unfortunately she was expecting steak and lobster😂😂😂
@ZenPepperClub probably or drinks lol 😆
Work on being more attractive and focus on your bank account. Go out and meet people. Anywhere and everywhere. I feel like a lot of men have this EITHER OR personality that really destroys them. You don’t have to pick between being a “bad boy” or “fat rich slob”. Take the good from everything just don’t lose yourself in only one mindset.
I’m 29 and go out regularly. There’s no shortage of married/single/partnered women from the ages of 18 - 50 at bars and clubs. You’d be surprised how many of them are similar to us. Work/Gym by day - party by night.
Bro literally every dude goes out. Every dude, lifts, every dude see's people....
The point was, most outgrow the "going out to party" phase. And most of the single people are going out to the party. Therefore, we would have to dumb ourselves down to make it happen.
I agree on almost every count. Good perspectives man.
Men need to learn to be happy single. Women did it.
Women ain't happy being single. Women also can't go and date anyone out of the blue either. Women stay single if they can't find a guy who they are attracted to and who see a future with them with good qualities. A lot of divorces are enishiated by women as most women in marriage are settling down with a guy who they are not attracted to at the beginning or have lost attraction during the relationship before marriage and chose not to cancel the wedding.
@@miinyv Women are the ones who poll happier single than married.
@@miinyv Women are happy being single. You can't say the same because men are definitely not happy when they're not with a woman. We are not the same.
LFA we had a chat live over 3 years ago when I was 18. Told you I was single and stuff. Well I’m even still single today at 21, never dated. I guess things never change huh
You still a baby bro, Why you even concerned about that.
@sigmasithlord5828 hit the gym hard, that's the only separation these days, that and money
hey brother, just know that is not your fault. I will be 26 in some months. I had my first sexual experience at 17 with a hooker and a second one with a girl I felt in love at 21 and she fucked my best friend. I had bad depression back then and the fact that she cheated on me with my best friend blackpilled me for good. I then started my research on women behavior and the results wasn't pleasant.
Just focus on improving your overall attraction and go to parties and the bars in college. Make a bunch of friends and you will stumble into a woman to date.
@@BigG6179 I go to unemployed college is where I go
Please, let me add, that at the end of the week, I'm exhausted and don't have energy left for clubing and must stop to avoid a burn-out on next monday.
Please tell all of you feel the same at the end of the week or not.
Thanks
Thank you for the LFA ❤ You're awesome! 👍🏿
Love tales from the Crypt! Excellent lesson..
Fighting over a woman that's not your wife is quite insane if you think about it. Never go for that.
Men have always been the players with women getting hurt but in this day and age, women become the players And now both can't find anyone for a long-term relationship! Unfortunately you're unable to turn back time to the women of the past...😮
Not true. Youve seen too many romantic movies. Women have always used sex to seduce and obtain.
It seems women of the past are a complete fantasy. But maybe women see the man of the past as a dream also, you know the rugged, insanely strong individual, willing to take on the world for her, the cowboy Rip Wheeler type of guy from the fantasy violence BS world.
“All they have to do is smile at a man and they’re in love”. So true, I’ve experienced this firsthand. Seems pathetic that I’m so easily manipulated.
Guys, Always Remember These Phrases:
1. You Are The King Of The Castle,
2. You Are The Catch Of The Cattle,
3. You Are The Lion Of The Pride,
4. You Are The Builder Of The Palace,
5. You Are The Pulitzer Of The Bride,
6. You Are The Provider Of The Princess,
7. You Are The Protector Of The Queen.
I Im 44yrs old and have been single all my life by choice after seeing how horrible women were since high school so never got serious with anyone nor trusted anyone. It's like why since then have other men gotten into relationships? Did they not see how horrible women were since high school also or something??
You can be.....Invisible! ~ Dio (1983)
Ronnie James!! Awesome reference man
*It’s true that dating feels tougher today, but a big part of the challenge is mindset. Instead of chasing validation, focus on leveling up in areas like fitness, career, and social skills. When you become the best version of yourself, you’ll attract people who genuinely value you.*
If you attract with your wallet then they dont genuinely like you.
You want just to sell some stupid courses?
We need food, water, air, money, houses and resources in order to live. Everything else is expendable.
U also need people to have children, in decently stable family homes. A single mother is not a family
@@herethere5637💀
Love the consistency bro. Always solid content
I'm 6'0, weigh 215, lift most days (on TRT), I do cardio 4-5 days a week and I definitely don't look bad, I make far above average salary just under 100K, 39, single, no kids, never married and I am completely invisible to women.
Why? Chat some up Chad 😅😂
@@Aplacewhereanythinggoes Bro you don't think I've tried lol. Like I said I'm invisible to them. Now I'm not walking around telling women how much I make lol, but I'm like a 6.5-7 on a really good day, but apparently you just need to be a 9 or a 10 for a woman to speak to you.............even if she's a 4.
I’m in great shape, I make $120K with a nice bonus, dual Spain US citizenship, travel all throughout the year and have paid for my ex’s travel expenses when we were together. My problem is I’m 5’7 haha. I feel invisible as well but I assumed it’s my height.
My ex left me for a 60 year old flabby married man! Women make no sense. I really don’t get it. I’m guessing when I hit my 50’s and 60’s I’ll be wanted??
@@Green89_no, at that point, you will be needed. You will be an insurance policy for a women that now needs you but will never love you
You're probably not self aware of how you dress or personal grooming.
Most of the guys that repeat RP/blackpill shit ad nauseam aren't even trying to get on the playing field
Thanks for keeping it real brother. That's all we need
You only realize this after getting totally sober. Years going out actually thinking it's like it was in the 90's. Be a chad or have a porsche or get no play. On top of that if you are a man working toward something women see it & they'd rather get with a winner or total loser. I think any man in between being a nobody and celebrity has to tank these dating and social media apps. The women are just laughing at this point. Look at you with your small local ego while she's texting a dude from the G league.
Well said!
Hope you have a great thanksgiving brother.
the two paths would most accurately be named as such: misleading/fraudulent marketing and practices (pick-up artist), and inherent value, where the product is genuinely valuable and desirable
Yo those are some real nice shades
You make a lot of sense, gentleman! I agree with you on this! Good job! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I’m not red pill or blue pill I continue to work hard on myself if a girl comes my way that’s great if not that’s ok as well I always stop and talk to women from time to time but you know as well as I do brother the dating game is broken for sure I’ve had a lot of women and a lot of relationships I’m at the point in my life to just be in the moment and enjoy your life hope you have a great thanksgiving Lfa
Thanks. Safe travels.
There are women out there who had enough of that life & partying. She focuses on self development & following god’s purpose. We still hope to meet a man of god who is following his purpose & live a healthy life & is a service to the world. ❤
Dude how did you know this was the video to put out today… this is the exact crossroads I find myself in RIGHT NOW…
All right, yesterday and today you were on the suggested main page. Must be something to it let's check it out.
Well said
just found this channel, on the second video. Already subscribed, this is good $hit
LFA doesn’t miss.
I've always been ugly in the eyes of women. Never really had a chance. I'm tired. I'm giving up at 21. Just money and hobbies.
@Notthatkevguy Women can be absolutely brutal in the way they "filter out" men. But it's not their fault; from their viewpoint they are acting rationally. You do have options, but at every step you have to be honest with yourself.
@Tinadajo I know of ONE girl in my life who ever liked me and that never really went anywhere. Other than that I've been ignored by every girl. The dirty hateful looks on them...though some of them at least fake politeness, which is nice. I know my place with women. My face is simply too ugly. Not even being lean saved me.
I kind of lucked out in this regard I guess. I was always extremely focused on my career path, and my healthy routines.. From fitness, to meal preps, all that. But I was also a bartender in college and continued in that career path while I was getting my own thing going. It paid really well and by the time I found my “perfect gig” I only needed to work 2x a week to be able to make enough money for myself at this time (I stopped entirely when I was 29)
During this time it was pretty much my dating scene. Meeting girls, chatting them up (it was my job) them leaving their numbers (I never gave mine) and “hanging out” after work, or when I had a free night. Everything was always pretty casual, and I was always focused on my end goal. I knew I would never “end up” with the type of person that would want to give their number to the bartender (even IF it was me) , if that makes sense.
I Dont feel I missed out on anything because I was there IN a high end popular club style bar a few nights a week anyway, and believe it or not there are a ton of high quality women that go to those types ofnolaces (although the amount of volume I would see/interact with is hard to compare to just an ordinary patron coming in on a random night)So again, I feel like I was lucky in that regard. No doubt. I still am in contact with a couple people from that time period now (although I wouldn't say we are close).. But they always knew my drive/ambition and once they could see that in me you best believe they wanted ALL of me. The key is to just stay focused on your long term goals, and weighing the pro’s and con’s to where you want to prioritize your energy.
All that being said, it was nice at one point to kind of have a Rolodex of willing people that would want to see you at any point. The key is to stay transparent, don’t deceive/lead on, because that will make you all that more attractive to the good ones
They’ve essentially condemned themselves to be alone forever though. There’s only so many male model looking millionaire Chads on earth and those guys definitely aren’t looking to settle down. These gals will get pumped and dumped until they hit the wall and their looks fade and then it’s gonna be a lonely miserable existence for them 😂
In some respects, but ironically I think lonelier for most men because women make and keep friends more consistently than men do
men are coping so hard. women are happy with their friends and pets.
they will never settle for a non-Chad. They aren't lonely at all
@user-ju6zx3rm8d They won't have a house and thats gonna suck buddy
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d Lol what? Women are never happy dude haha that’s life 101 Jr. Men can be very happy with very little. Sure being in your 20s and not having anyone to bang sucks, but life and priorities really change as you get older
@@Genevasplaytime they can buy it themselves, inherit it, or rent from govt. Again, you are coping
You said you’re a free bird in the last video, that you talk to female “friends”, then you say you’re in a relationship in other videos. That sounds like a situationship or some sort of open relationship. That can’t end well.
In your opinion, can a guy with a free-bird personality, have a relationship, and still be considerate to old friends who are going through rough times?
If you slept with those “old friends” and your woman is ok with it or doesn’t know you’re doing that, then it does sound like a situationship to me. Idk what kind of woman would be alright with this kind of stuff. But I guess you do you and hope for the best. This modern stuff never works out so I’m not sure why you keep repeating the same behaviors. I think you should know better by this point.
But hey, I’m just a random girl from the internet 🤷♀️
Not sure where you're getting that from.
Help a fellow by introducing him to one of your old friends.
Happy Thanksgiving 🍁🦃 Enjoy Enjoy 🙏🏻
Thank you for important information I myself 35 can’t find person that is similar to what I like and so on I say Put God first and see where it goes from there .
I broke your 1 k liked video.
I needed this video, thanks.
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This is why I rock with you, you keep it 1000, salute 🫡
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I'm 59 now retired been invisible to women for my entire existence. I own everything including my home and car with zero debt.