I would say, be very cautious while looking for a good match!! I would say go through someone who you know really well, also a well settled middle aged guy who is not dreaming to go to USA. Possibly a divorced and a widowed man with kids and definitely well settled over there. Or a new American muslim who wants to settle down in an Islamic country. You can also go for a halal date even along with your kids❤❤
I advise you to reconsider if you are thinking about a Moroccan husband who is abroad and has seen a misleading image of America or europe or elsewhere. Additionally, for someone who is considering returning to Morocco, which I believe is the best country in the world. ✌️
Just wait. Age will speak for itself. Morocco is the best country in the world, hands down. The beauty of Morocco lies in its people and their incredible generosity-something you'll struggle to find anywhere else. Even water won't offer you that.
أولا الزواج ليس عيب او شيء عفى عنه الزمن ! الزواج هو الصواب و العزوف عنه الشذوذ ، هذا الشذوذ الذي اصبح اليوم يصطلح عليه اليوم التقدم و التحرر!! أن ينصحك احدهم بالزواج و يشجعك عليه فهو أمر ايجابي و ليس سلبي . و هذه التقاليد المحافظة التي تتنكر انت لها هي التي تجلب الناس لهذا البلد و تعطيه طابعه الخاص ، لأن بلد بثقافة و حضارة متجدرة يصعب التلاعب به مقارنة بدول أخرى ثقافتها ضعيفة لا تعرف الأصح من الغلط ، و حينما اقول الثقافة فلا اعني بها ما تشاهده في ناشيونال جيوغرافيك أو تقرأه في كتب النظريات و وجهات النظر! بل اعني به ما هو متوارث من الجيال السابقة دات التجربة الفعلية الذين إذا قالوا لك لا تفعل كذا ! فلا تفعل ذالك دون نقاش لانهم سبقوك في التجربة !
You are a beautiful woman and you have a good character……you deserve a good husband…..also it’s very touching when you said you had a rough childhood…..you’re a real woman! I wish you all the best
I do agree with you. They should stop messaging you and trying to have a date with you, it's that simple ! some ppl here look for the green card, they might be gigolo (looking for rich women to feed them up), it is not always about love... so you are right, take your time and be careful. again. I wish you to meet the good one, of course, when you are ready. it's your decision/life after all.
Listen, Moroccans are honorable ppl. For you to even mention Gigoloo in the equation shows me you know nothing about Moroccans. Yes, of course,there are those who dream to immigrate and they have plans for that, but you can't paint everyone with the same brush. This woman loves Morocco. Don't try to change her mind using something that is far from reality. And yes , I am a Moroccan and I felt offended by your comment
Dont understimate the value of the Green Card, im Italian within moroccan origin , i know that some people want to go to another country but you as a person , you need to protect yourself and dont be joked by some person because that will affect even your kids , sorry for this message i just want that you can live at the top :).
@@daredaremotus let's not get carried away. Maybe the middle class, but definitely not the upper class. In Casablanca, in the Gautier neighborhood, an 80-square-meter studio rents for 850 USD per month, not including electricity, food, and water, which brings the total to 1200 USD per month. People in the upper class don't rent at this rate; they're usually property owners. If a villa were rented out, it would cost much more than 1200 USD per month.😔
I think people should stop having strong opinions about other's personal life and marriage. that's a bad thing in Morocco, many people still think that everyone must be married, which is really insane
ey @hicham1maroc, I’m curious-why the fuss about people having strong opinions on others' personal lives and marriages? 🤔 I mean, shouldn't everyone get to call their own shots and decide what's best for them? 🚀 Let’s dive into this-what's your take on it? 🌟
@@jamalmoez5886even if it's a Muslim country u don't have the right to get in someone's business, mind your own business this is what i don't like about my country.
Hello Erin, you are a brave woman. Your story is that of many other women who are struggling alone in life. Each one with a different story...at times, being alone is far better than being miserable in a relationship....you have 4 kids, the 2 we know are adorable...and that's a great achievement....loads of love from a single woman....
Tu as bon cœur , tu ne penses pas du mal des autres, sur que Dieu te protégera. Sois toi même... naturelle et vie en paix avec tes enfants ici avec nous au Maroc. On est tous tes frères.
I'm sure you are going to meet the perfect Moroccan don't rush it, take your time. There are so many wonderful men in Morocco and also there are some not so good like everywhere else all over the world. You will find your perfect mach.
Your marriage concerns are very understandable and logical, and it’s a great thing that you’re taking it out with caution… my recommendation will be consider finding americans friends here or any mixed couples, it’s easy for you to trust a foreigner and the more friends you’ll have the better your perspective about an ideal partner will become. Stay safe and early happy birthday 🎈
@@momof4vlogsWhen that verse of the Qur'an descended the Christians followed the Torah, the evangelical, the word of Allah, now it can't be done, the Christians now have another book and they do shirk, they associate god with a man, Jesus, peace be with him or they say that he is his son
Good men for good women. You can not be a Muslim women and put yourself on display on TH-cam. You must adopt hijab. Otherwise as you are now the only Dayooth would marry you. That’s not ideal. Muslim woman when she comes out of her home she must be dressed as she dresses for the prayer. By the way there’s a dua called istihara which you supplicate after offering2 rakat. This is basically seeking council with Allah about taking decision. May Allah help you and bless you in this life and the next.
yes your reason, the religion of Islam allows a Muslim man to marry a Christian or Jewish woman, and there are thousands of marriages of this kind in the world and known great success, the important thing is understanding and respect and true love...@@momof4vlogs
الحكمة تقتضي عدم البحث عن الشخص أو الدفع بالاسباب من أجل ذالك. وحده القدر كفيل بأن يدفع بكي باللقاء بالشخص المناسب في الوقت المناسب في المكان المناسب فيكون الأمر خاضعا للعفوية التامة و هنا يكمن سر النجاح. على العموم حظ جيد و مرحبا بكي في المغرب الذي يمكن أن تعتبرينه بلدك.
Hi Erin, I'm in the same situation as you, I agree with every word you say 1000%! I'm also a foreigner (EU), it's very difficult to make friends with the locals. A warm greeting😊
Being married to a North African Arab, I can definitely say to be cautious! Not just because of the green card issue, but mainly because of the cultural differences. I love my husband, but he can drive me crazy--and not always in a good way!!! The stubbornness, the machismo, the privilege, OMG!!! We've lived in the U.S., we've lived in Egypt...and no matter where we are, he will always be Egyptian at heart! I advise you to find a European living in Morocco...at least the cultures are closer to American culture, and you may have fewer face-palming moments during your daily life together. Cheers!
@@Doukalastar710 I think she's referring to Moroccan men being from the "old society" where men think they are in charge and women do what they are told. More so than American men, which she is used to. Erin is used to doing what she wants, when she wants, having an equal say, etc. Yes, I think she would be happier with a man who speaks English (ex-pat or similar) and would have a similar culture to her American one, like you said.
I wish you could find a good, supportive friend. If this friendship works on all levels, you can find out if it is really more valuable to get married.
Am so glad you've addressed this am a divorced woman looking to move to Morocco but have a huge concern over being single in the country I read loads on Reddit/Morocco recently about the views of women who aren't married who live alone. That women are terrible if they don't want relationship and even worse if they would want an intimate relationship without a serious relationship. And the danger of living in an apt alone as a woman. Its very different for me as a single woman used to living in NYC. So no doubt you're causing some gossip!!😅
I've been going there for years. And always feel safe but if you read Reddit/Morocco there's lots of locals who say being alone you can be victim to men breaking in or being inappropriate you certainly can't invite them to you home. Which is very different don't know how anyone can date over there! Plus there's a perception not everyone but a perception of foreigners wealth/visa etc
Don't trust the media. Come and see with your naked eyes lol welcome to Morocco. Now I'm in China but I'll go to Morocco this summer. Welcome to Casanlanca
Most people love to get engaged by marriage as an everlasting life until death. It depends on morals and values of each person,. If there are things in common, it will be an excellent start of life.
Dear friend take care of yourself and your kids love and respect to you . Don’t trust anyone there is good and bad all over the world be vigilant on choosing your friends.respect from Dallas see you soon in 🇲🇦
you are fine like that with your children, enjoy do not pay attention to the opinions of others here in Morocco even the young girls have not found a husband hhhhhh
Good men and good women became rare here in Morocco...20 years ago it was about status and wealth but now it became more about money, only money and it doesn't matter how much. Sad reality but we have to deal with it and take our time to select people who are worthy to be in our circle. Trade with people here and they will show you their real face from day one. Drop money in purpose and watch. Ask help and pay for it and watch. Still good people around here for sure but they are like golden nuggets that we keep around no matter what.
Hi Erin, im concerned about your announce im glad you feel comfort to live in morocco and you have a problem living in morocco it's an important point, so im Yassir From Khouribga city i work as a normal commercial and im 31 years old
You are hilarious 😂 I love you for that 🤗 word of advise: stay single !!! You have peace and happy. You don’t need a headache from a man. Just saying 😉
All products you see clothing is coming from china Cucumber it’s little too much my be 3 dirham half kilo Also when you go to places like that you need to bargain before you buy on the first one go look around and ask two or 3 before you buy Ok next time I teach you how to say 10 , 20, 30 , 40 50,60 etc in darija Good luck Karen I am American Moroccan bye 🇺🇸🇲🇦🌹♥️
You want to marry go for it. Not everyone has the same experiance and most of morrocans talks about negative thing about mariage and keep beautiful thing to themself so go for mariage is great than being alone it’s unhealthy to be alone. Good luck sweetheart ❤😊
Hey there! Your vlogs are a breath of fresh air-seriously, they make my day. 🌞 Your storytelling is like having a chat over coffee. ☕ Incorporating new greetings and words in each video? Genius move! 💡 Your take on dating, trust, and life as an American in Morocco is spot-on and full of real talk. 🎤 Keep those stories coming; they're like little treasures of wisdom wrapped in humor! 😂💎
We moroccans are very open but when comes to our family life we prefer to agree with our culture, our culture is very strong in our mind set. Just keep enjoy your life and God Inchallah will send you a true love for you and for your kids, Amin
You, my dear, are an absolute delight. Listening to you from start to finish was like eavesdropping on a lady explaining to her therapist, during their last Friday session, why she simultaneously wants everything and nothing at all. But as you so convincingly put it: I'm a girl, it's perfectly normal. Best of luck in whatever it is you want-or don’t want! Jolly good show :)
The whole point about the video is to say “ Leave me alone“. I hope that those who message her would hear the message loud and clear for her peace to be complete. Wishing you the best of luck 😊
I prefer living in Morocco at 33 because I'm convinced I can live longer and more peacefully there, unlike an American walking down the street, where life is often threatened by stray bullets. In the United States, life expectancy for some people is 40 years due to gun violence, while in Morocco, it's 90 years, as criminals don't have guns, eliminating any risk of stray bullets. '''And if you're interested, I like chill women around your age. I'm not looking for marriage or money, just to have fun and get to know each other. Think of it as a friendship with a side of laughter-no strings attached, just good vibes!😉😉😉😉🍀🍀🍀
It's difficult to live alone even with children, but life is meant to be lived with its uncertainties which make it charming. Unfortunately prejudices push us to be too cautious sometimes but the man you are looking for may say that it is difficult to trust you too. In short, you must also let your heart and your experience judge the person and everything will go well for you. Good luck
You are a wonderful woman, and you should not care about any comment here, because you are respectable and you are looking for a man who cares about you. This is your right if you want him at any time and any place. Here they want something. Take advantage of an opportunity to go to America. I know that you know everything.
😊it was a marvellous love story between Morocco and USA. Morocco was the first nation who recognised the US independence,the magical story continues. ❤Lot of respects to you in your second country, Morocco. ❤
I’m a Moroccan woman living in America 🇺🇸 I like your videos but the only thing to tell you take care of yourself and your kids don’t think about marriage until your kids go to college allah bless you you’re great mom enjoy Morocco 🇲🇦 it beautiful country and good people
اويلي السيدة خصها تعيش ديها فكرك، بغيتيها تبقا بايرة You exercise guardianship over a free woman, when will she live? When you turn sixty, and the kids graduate from college, damn your intellectual poverty.😁
“ call me crazy, but I’m a girl “ 😂😂😂😂 girl you’re fine just the way you are. Enjoy the journey of your life. I wish you the best. From a Moroccan woman living in the US ❤
Hey hey hey ! You are definitely a free spirited lady ! Definitely not immature and I believe you absolutely know where you stand in life . I think that you are good and at the moment it might be beneficial to focus on learning the language and develop friendships with the parents of your future school friends or others … Love what you do and the spontaneous way that you present yourself. What will be, it will be .. Traveling people usually end up with the right person when they except it the least . Thallay fi rassek Take good care of
The must important in our life to know , we can’t control others, but to be happy control your self and ignore what you don’t like and don’t talk about it ;)
I would suggest you to go for a moroccan husband who has already lived abroad and has the American nationality or a European one (Schengen). It would also make it easier for you if you want to travel abroad since they wouldn't have to ask and wait for a visa which may take a long time to get depending on the destination and costs money. In any case be careful who you talk to for marriage no matter their nationality. I wish you all the best Insha Allah
I am very happy to see this video from you . Go for it , marriage is something good for you, especially with a moroccan man he will take care of you, but just be careful with who you are with and make sure your kids are fine with the person plus find someone who understand and speak English so he can teach you arabic and good luck be positive don't listen to negative people
You look amazing for having 4 children and being in your 40s. I always looked at least 10+ years younger...much like you. Your youthful attitude is enjoyable. A plus is the improvement through time of the channel is your change in demeanor with Jack. Now, I look forward to looking for you daily.
I stopped for the title thinking here’s someone who doesn’t know what marriage or Love is , choosing a country before a person , since normally we look for a special person, with a heart of gold , to spend the rest of life with , but listening to U , i find out U are a wonderful person who has good reasons & i wish U all the best , my advice to U is to make the make the first step of trust to move forward… U picked the rite country and the rite people good luck in your endeavors…
the itch! lol!!! I met loads of Moroccan women during my travels not so long ago, these were women working out at GITS, lodges, restaurants etc doing cooking, cleaning and stuff like that, they all had the same sad story...............husband left me, husband was nasty, did not give any money, treated badly, left me with 7 kids and married a younger women. So, if he seems too good, then he is after something else and not you.....
OK on this subject Erin, and sorry for being honest with you, and accept this advice from your brother. Marriage is about give and take, you, being mother of 4 already and you can't have anymore kids, the chances of finding a man who is willing to provide for youz all is very little, unless you help someone with USA green card in return.
With all due respect, maybe you're right. BUT keep in mind that her two oldest kids are in the U.S.A. only and are 17-18 (?) and in their 20's (?), so they are almost, if not now, on their own and only live with her 1st husband, so they wouldn't be at her Moroccan home. So, even if she says she has 4 kids, she does but she really only lives with 2 of them who are much younger. So the man would only have to provide for her and the 2 kids living with her...also, if she should remarry, her 2 kids would still get their monthly payments of U.S. Social Security Survivor's Benefits up until they are age 18, which you might not know about. As far as not wanting to have any more kids...that's what she says NOW that she isn't in love with anyone. That has changed in the past with women, and they can be persuaded to have an additional 1 or 2 if in love and young enough to do so. Remember, she's not saying she's too old to have any more kids...she's just saying she doesn't want them...now. LOL I understand what you are saying, but if men knew her kids get monthly payments from the U.S. gov't that help considerably in paying for their needs...it would be just supporting her and maybe a little bit of her 2 kids she has still at home. And they would be able to see what a good mother she is too, as well as a nice person.
Wishing Erin the best of luck anyways, one day she might find the perfect match, maybe same situation as her. As they say each pot has its lid 😂 But hey only God knows. When it comes to USA green card I am always against people who says because of me you live in USA and that's on it's own could cause a divorce. USA at the end of the day is only land of God and every human has the right to move and live wherever they want, and don't forget even in USA there is poverty and homeless people @@bettywith2girls
I hope she finds her match anyways, be it Moroccan or different nationality. As they say every pot has its lid. But when it comes to anyone saying they want to marry me to get USA green card this on its own can cause a divorce before even getting married. USA at the end of the day is like any other country, and anyone can move and live there if they want to, without getting married, just like Morocco. And Erin is more than welcome in Morocco. Don't also forget that there is poverty and homeless people in USA. When it comes to divorce people separate even if they belong to the same country and have same culture or values.
I am happy to know you 😊❤ I am delighted to learn from you that you love Morocco. I hope to get an opportunity to know you more... I am married and have a son who has just turned 12 y.old...
I don't know why people tell him, be careful about married Moroccan man, the lady is smart, and she knows what she does. She is not a young woman. Please respect your culture and your country, and don't say bad things about man or woman Moroccan. not all Moroccan interests to go American or take green cards. and from she is lucky to find someone married her, we know there's young women who still single. don't be smart. she's known how to live more than you. be careful about yourself.
You're attractive and look young so my suggestion is to take your time to find the right partner that will accept your conditions. For now, live your best life you deserve it. Have lots of fun cutie!!
Erin,,when the right one comes along and you got that click in the HEART you won't resist..for TRUST issue. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.. Hope you got the meaning.
Girlie it's totally normal to date in Morocco even if most people aren't open about it but they have definitely dated at some point in their lives. as a society we're just not that open when it comes to public affection and love, that's why I would tell you to be really careful with Moroccan men also you may end up being told to put aside your religious beliefs if you're thinking about marrying someone Muslim specially if they're religious cause it's not really accepted in general and that's why you should be mindful of their lifestyle and mentality cause the cultural differences are huge and they may not match you and your wants and needs so good luck with that , you really deserve the best of the best that's why I'm a bit worried about you
All than i wish is the best🙌🏽 I didn’t know you but I like your content ecause you talking about everything. you will find someone on your path inshallah 🙌🏽. God’s have a plan for everyone so don’t anything to have someone in your life.
Hi momof4, there is nothing wrong about wanting be loved and have compagnaship in life. I would recommend you meet up with americans in morocco and find someone who understand samerican culture. If you do however meet à moroccan man and consider marrying him. I highly advise to discuss religion and cultural différences before marriage and make sure you are both on the same page. :)
wake up a prayer at 4am ask god for a happy life with a Moroccan who will never leave you who is very kind to children wants to stay in Morocco does not want children of his own and is the same age as you or almost
In Morocco some people still think that’s a husband is a shade for a woman, to be honest he is sometimes 😂, but in your situation, a woman with young children in a foreign country, probably people think a companion might be better for you, there is a lot of women who are single mums and it is not something that’s unusual
First, You don’t have to explain to anybody, don’t listen to what they say in the comments, just listen to your heart. Second: women freedom doesn’t mean they don’t need a man, women needs men, and men needs women. If the woman is financially independent doesn’t mean she doesn’t need a man in her life. Of course I’m talking about the idea not about you. Good luck for your new life
Morocco 4 - 0 USA ♥♥♥♥
Fantastic women and children 👌
Fantastic Contry 🇺🇲🇲🇦 احتراماتي لك وللشعب الامريكي الرائع
❤💙🤍
It's a win win for Jack
You said "gullible": the word in darija is "Niiyya".
eg: I am gullible: "Ana Niiyya" in Darija
Yep
I would say, be very cautious while looking for a good match!! I would say go through someone who you know really well, also a well settled middle aged guy who is not dreaming to go to USA. Possibly a divorced and a widowed man with kids and definitely well settled over there. Or a new American muslim who wants to settle down in an Islamic country. You can also go for a halal date even along with your kids❤❤
I advise you to reconsider if you are thinking about a Moroccan husband who is abroad and has seen a misleading image of America or europe or elsewhere. Additionally, for someone who is considering returning to Morocco, which I believe is the best country in the world. ✌️
I'm traveling in europe right now. Its. Not the best country in the world stop it 😂
@yamaniyoussef I've been born and raised in netherland but i live in morocco i don't get it why people dying to go to Europe 🤣
slow your horses! come on! we love this particular land, but don't exaggerate in your believe .
I am from Europe I live in Spain and I don't like it at all, I love Morocco but everything is Allah's plan
Just wait. Age will speak for itself. Morocco is the best country in the world, hands down. The beauty of Morocco lies in its people and their incredible generosity-something you'll struggle to find anywhere else. Even water won't offer you that.
Beautiful Darijja! Well done !
Moroccan society is a bit traditional society but it s changing. Live your life and ignore the rest !❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much!!
أولا الزواج ليس عيب او شيء عفى عنه الزمن ! الزواج هو الصواب و العزوف عنه الشذوذ ، هذا الشذوذ الذي اصبح اليوم يصطلح عليه اليوم التقدم و التحرر!!
أن ينصحك احدهم بالزواج و يشجعك عليه فهو أمر ايجابي و ليس سلبي .
و هذه التقاليد المحافظة التي تتنكر انت لها هي التي تجلب الناس لهذا البلد و تعطيه طابعه الخاص ، لأن بلد بثقافة و حضارة متجدرة يصعب التلاعب به مقارنة بدول أخرى ثقافتها ضعيفة لا تعرف الأصح من الغلط ، و حينما اقول الثقافة فلا اعني بها ما تشاهده في ناشيونال جيوغرافيك أو تقرأه في كتب النظريات و وجهات النظر! بل اعني به ما هو متوارث من الجيال السابقة دات التجربة الفعلية الذين إذا قالوا لك لا تفعل كذا ! فلا تفعل ذالك دون نقاش لانهم سبقوك في التجربة !
@@Laassili- siri tfllssfi aala she hde Akhore!
@@mola4536
قول سير تفلسف !!
وهاد الشي اللي قولت ماشي فلسفة ، ماشي راحنا كانصنعوا الصوارخ هنا ، ويلا بغيتي تبقاي بايرا بعدي من بنات الناس و داك الفكر الخاوي .
@@Laassili- oikha, Ana bayra a Sidi, magoltdhe like, tjoujni !
Had lmarikaniya rahe kaydssrou aaliha Rjales
You are a beautiful woman and you have a good character……you deserve a good husband…..also it’s very touching when you said you had a rough childhood…..you’re a real woman!
I wish you all the best
Thank you so much! 😊
I am Muslim we pray everyday. Don’t know your religion pray for the kind of husband you want.
I do agree with you. They should stop messaging you and trying to have a date with you, it's that simple !
some ppl here look for the green card, they might be gigolo (looking for rich women to feed them up), it is not always about love... so you are right, take your time and be careful.
again. I wish you to meet the good one, of course, when you are ready. it's your decision/life after all.
lol well I’m def not rich. 🤣
@@momof4vlogs For Moroccans, with a rent of $1200, you are part of the upper bourgeoisie
Listen, Moroccans are honorable ppl. For you to even mention Gigoloo in the equation shows me you know nothing about Moroccans.
Yes, of course,there are those who dream to immigrate and they have plans for that, but you can't paint everyone with the same brush.
This woman loves Morocco. Don't try to change her mind using something that is far from reality.
And yes , I am a Moroccan and I felt offended by your comment
Dont understimate the value of the Green Card, im Italian within moroccan origin , i know that some people want to go to another country but you as a person , you need to protect yourself and dont be joked by some person because that will affect even your kids , sorry for this message i just want that you can live at the top :).
@@daredaremotus let's not get carried away. Maybe the middle class, but definitely not the upper class. In Casablanca, in the Gautier neighborhood, an 80-square-meter studio rents for 850 USD per month, not including electricity, food, and water, which brings the total to 1200 USD per month. People in the upper class don't rent at this rate; they're usually property owners. If a villa were rented out, it would cost much more than 1200 USD per month.😔
I love Morocco 🇲🇦 as well
🇺🇲❤ from Morocco
Welcome to Morocco.
I think people should stop having strong opinions about other's personal life and marriage. that's a bad thing in Morocco, many people still think that everyone must be married, which is really insane
I totally agree.
ey @hicham1maroc, I’m curious-why the fuss about people having strong opinions on others' personal lives and marriages? 🤔 I mean, shouldn't everyone get to call their own shots and decide what's best for them? 🚀 Let’s dive into this-what's your take on it? 🌟
It's a Muslim country were Muslim what you talking about
@@jamalmoez5886even if it's a Muslim country u don't have the right to get in someone's business, mind your own business this is what i don't like about my country.
@@animeworldamv5052ignore them, easy
Hello Erin, you are a brave woman. Your story is that of many other women who are struggling alone in life. Each one with a different story...at times, being alone is far better than being miserable in a relationship....you have 4 kids, the 2 we know are adorable...and that's a great achievement....loads of love from a single woman....
You are frank and tell the truth. I hope people will care about their own affairs and not interfere in what is not their concern.
people can comment she is putting out her life to the public...
Tu as bon cœur , tu ne penses pas du mal des autres, sur que Dieu te protégera.
Sois toi même... naturelle et vie en paix avec tes enfants ici avec nous au Maroc. On est tous tes frères.
ماخداماش الفرنسية😂😂😂😂
@@maroccasablanca7474وياه ههه ولكن حسن من بلاش
I'm sure you are going to meet the perfect Moroccan don't rush it, take your time. There are so many wonderful men in Morocco and also there are some not so good like everywhere else all over the world. You will find your perfect mach.
I do not advise Moroccan men to marry American women or Europeans!
Your marriage concerns are very understandable and logical, and it’s a great thing that you’re taking it out with caution… my recommendation will be consider finding americans friends here or any mixed couples, it’s easy for you to trust a foreigner and the more friends you’ll have the better your perspective about an ideal partner will become.
Stay safe and early happy birthday 🎈
Yeah that's the safest approach... dealing with people over years will show you the real face of each one of them
نتمنى لك حياتا طيبة في المغرب ,فالمغاربة يحبون جميع الشعوب. بالنسبة لزواجك بمغربي فيجب أن تكوني مسلمة
I am..but a Muslim man Can marry a woman that is Jewish or Christian as well
@@momof4vlogsWhen that verse of the Qur'an descended the Christians followed the Torah, the evangelical, the word of Allah, now it can't be done, the Christians now have another book and they do shirk, they associate god with a man, Jesus, peace be with him or they say that he is his son
Good men for good women.
You can not be a Muslim women and put yourself on display on TH-cam.
You must adopt hijab. Otherwise as you are now the only Dayooth would marry you. That’s not ideal.
Muslim woman when she comes out of her home she must be dressed as she dresses for the prayer. By the way there’s a dua called istihara which you supplicate after offering2 rakat. This is basically seeking council with Allah about taking decision.
May Allah help you and bless you in this life and the next.
yes your reason, the religion of Islam allows a Muslim man to marry a Christian or Jewish woman, and there are thousands of marriages of this kind in the world and known great success, the important thing is understanding and respect and true love...@@momof4vlogs
الحكمة تقتضي عدم البحث عن الشخص أو الدفع بالاسباب من أجل ذالك. وحده القدر كفيل بأن يدفع بكي باللقاء بالشخص المناسب في الوقت المناسب في المكان المناسب فيكون الأمر خاضعا للعفوية التامة و هنا يكمن سر النجاح. على العموم حظ جيد و مرحبا بكي في المغرب الذي يمكن أن تعتبرينه بلدك.
Hi Erin, I'm in the same situation as you, I agree with every word you say 1000%! I'm also a foreigner (EU), it's very difficult to make friends with the locals. A warm greeting😊
Being married to a North African Arab, I can definitely say to be cautious! Not just because of the green card issue, but mainly because of the cultural differences. I love my husband, but he can drive me crazy--and not always in a good way!!! The stubbornness, the machismo, the privilege, OMG!!! We've lived in the U.S., we've lived in Egypt...and no matter where we are, he will always be Egyptian at heart! I advise you to find a European living in Morocco...at least the cultures are closer to American culture, and you may have fewer face-palming moments during your daily life together. Cheers!
Morocan man. Is a privilege. To be
@@Doukalastar710 I think she's referring to Moroccan men being from the "old society" where men think they are in charge and women do what they are told. More so than American men, which she is used to. Erin is used to doing what she wants, when she wants, having an equal say, etc. Yes, I think she would be happier with a man who speaks English (ex-pat or similar) and would have a similar culture to her American one, like you said.
@@bettywith2girls ils not True ans you know. We are in 2024. We live in morocco.
Ils a wonderful contry With culture and we respect à lot womans
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I wish you could find a good, supportive friend. If this friendship works on all levels, you can find out if it is really more valuable to get married.
You are not lonely you have kids so enjoy you time just choose you friends 🤔🌹
Or just keep enjoying your life with your kids, without any stress. If anyone comes along the way, welcome him
Am so glad you've addressed this am a divorced woman looking to move to Morocco but have a huge concern over being single in the country I read loads on Reddit/Morocco recently about the views of women who aren't married who live alone. That women are terrible if they don't want relationship and even worse if they would want an intimate relationship without a serious relationship. And the danger of living in an apt alone as a woman. Its very different for me as a single woman used to living in NYC. So no doubt you're causing some gossip!!😅
lol no gossip I’m not with anyone. But please be assured there is no danger living alone. Morocco in comparison to the US IS VERY SAFE
I've been going there for years. And always feel safe but if you read Reddit/Morocco there's lots of locals who say being alone you can be victim to men breaking in or being inappropriate you certainly can't invite them to you home. Which is very different don't know how anyone can date over there! Plus there's a perception not everyone but a perception of foreigners wealth/visa etc
Yes I understand 😊
Don't trust the media. Come and see with your naked eyes lol welcome to Morocco. Now I'm in China but I'll go to Morocco this summer. Welcome to Casanlanca
@@anouarscience8387تسالا الصيف
May Allah bless you sister you brother from Morocco 👍
i respect you. You are unique. I hope you to find à good man in morocco
Most people love to get engaged by marriage as an everlasting life until death. It depends on morals and values of each person,. If there are things in common, it will be an excellent start of life.
Dear friend take care of yourself and your kids love and respect to you . Don’t trust anyone there is good and bad all over the world be vigilant on choosing your friends.respect from Dallas see you soon in 🇲🇦
Thank you
You're funny 😂😂 I like your vibes !!! Be happy , always!@
Thank you so much 😁
I'm a single 54 yr old American woman in Tangier. We should connect. I appreciate your videos and your shares.
Trust your heart and your feelings...
You're a smart lady ❤
lol in love not so smart 🤣
I live in New York I’m Moroccan I’ll be your husband I’m American citizenship I’m originally from rabat
Thx but not looking now 😌
You’re an amazing beautiful kind woman, incredibly strong woman! ❤😊 God bless you and your family.
Thank you so much!
you are fine like that with your children, enjoy do not pay attention to the opinions of others here in Morocco even the young girls have not found a husband hhhhhh
Good men and good women became rare here in Morocco...20 years ago it was about status and wealth but now it became more about money, only money and it doesn't matter how much. Sad reality but we have to deal with it and take our time to select people who are worthy to be in our circle. Trade with people here and they will show you their real face from day one. Drop money in purpose and watch. Ask help and pay for it and watch. Still good people around here for sure but they are like golden nuggets that we keep around no matter what.
Lots of love to this beautiful lady. ❤
🤗
I'm moroccan and met my husband on Tinder, it was the perfect match! You can meet amazing people there
Good neight, Im Morrocan I live in french I hop to came back to morroco for live , I love you so match.
Hi Erin, im concerned about your announce im glad you feel comfort to live in morocco and you have a problem living in morocco it's an important point, so im Yassir From Khouribga city i work as a normal commercial and im 31 years old
You are hilarious 😂 I love you for that 🤗 word of advise: stay single !!! You have peace and happy. You don’t need a headache from a man. Just saying 😉
Facts
The title got me, especially with the missing quotation marks...🙃🙃
🤣🤣
All products you see clothing is coming from china
Cucumber it’s little too much my be 3 dirham half kilo
Also when you go to places like that you need to bargain before you buy on the first one go look around and ask two or 3 before you buy
Ok next time I teach you how to say 10 , 20, 30 , 40 50,60 etc in darija
Good luck Karen I am American Moroccan bye 🇺🇸🇲🇦🌹♥️
You want to marry go for it. Not everyone has the same experiance and most of morrocans talks about negative thing about mariage and keep beautiful thing to themself so go for mariage is great than being alone it’s unhealthy to be alone. Good luck sweetheart ❤😊
True! Thank you!♥️
You have already said multiple times that you are not looking for relationships
People should understand it
Now it’s a video it’s official 🤣🤣
Hey there! Your vlogs are a breath of fresh air-seriously, they make my day. 🌞 Your storytelling is like having a chat over coffee. ☕ Incorporating new greetings and words in each video? Genius move! 💡 Your take on dating, trust, and life as an American in Morocco is spot-on and full of real talk. 🎤 Keep those stories coming; they're like little treasures of wisdom wrapped in humor! 😂💎
We moroccans are very open but when comes to our family life we prefer to agree with our culture, our culture is very strong in our mind set. Just keep enjoy your life and God Inchallah will send you a true love for you and for your kids, Amin
You, my dear, are an absolute delight. Listening to you from start to finish was like eavesdropping on a lady explaining to her therapist, during their last Friday session, why she simultaneously wants everything and nothing at all. But as you so convincingly put it: I'm a girl, it's perfectly normal. Best of luck in whatever it is you want-or don’t want! Jolly good show :)
The whole point about the video is to say “ Leave me alone“.
I hope that those who message her would hear the message loud and clear for her peace to be complete.
Wishing you the best of luck 😊
I prefer living in Morocco at 33 because I'm convinced I can live longer and more peacefully there, unlike an American walking down the street, where life is often threatened by stray bullets. In the United States, life expectancy for some people is 40 years due to gun violence, while in Morocco, it's 90 years, as criminals don't have guns, eliminating any risk of stray bullets. '''And if you're interested, I like chill women around your age. I'm not looking for marriage or money, just to have fun and get to know each other. Think of it as a friendship with a side of laughter-no strings attached, just good vibes!😉😉😉😉🍀🍀🍀
It's difficult to live alone even with children, but life is meant to be lived with its uncertainties which make it charming. Unfortunately prejudices push us to be too cautious sometimes but the man you are looking for may say that it is difficult to trust you too. In short, you must also let your heart and your experience judge the person and everything will go well for you. Good luck
You are a wonderful woman, and you should not care about any comment here, because you are respectable and you are looking for a man who cares about you. This is your right if you want him at any time and any place. Here they want something. Take advantage of an opportunity to go to America. I know that you know everything.
😊it was a marvellous love story between Morocco and USA. Morocco was the first nation who recognised the US independence,the magical story continues. ❤Lot of respects to you in your second country, Morocco. ❤
I’m a Moroccan woman living in America 🇺🇸 I like your videos but the only thing to tell you take care of yourself and your kids don’t think about marriage until your kids go to college allah bless you you’re great mom enjoy Morocco 🇲🇦 it beautiful country and good people
اويلي السيدة خصها تعيش ديها فكرك، بغيتيها تبقا بايرة
You exercise guardianship over a free woman, when will she live?
When you turn sixty, and the kids graduate from college, damn your intellectual poverty.😁
“ call me crazy, but I’m a girl “ 😂😂😂😂 girl you’re fine just the way you are. Enjoy the journey of your life. I wish you the best. From a Moroccan woman living in the US ❤
Actually you are beautiful and still young live your life first until your children grow up a bit and then you can find the right man ❤
Hey hey hey !
You are definitely a free spirited lady !
Definitely not immature and I believe you absolutely know where you stand in life .
I think that you are good
and at the moment it might be beneficial to focus on learning the language and develop friendships with the parents of your future school friends or others …
Love what you do and the spontaneous way that you present yourself.
What will be, it will be ..
Traveling people usually end up with the right person when they except it the least .
Thallay fi rassek
Take good care of
The must important in our life to know , we can’t control others, but to be happy control your self and ignore what you don’t like and don’t talk about it ;)
I would suggest you to go for a moroccan husband who has already lived abroad and has the American nationality or a European one (Schengen). It would also make it easier for you if you want to travel abroad since they wouldn't have to ask and wait for a visa which may take a long time to get depending on the destination and costs money. In any case be careful who you talk to for marriage no matter their nationality. I wish you all the best Insha Allah
Your kids are OK, I hope you a good husband who can respect you and keep of your children. We love you.
Yes, thank you
We All Love USA we All Love you Erin ❤️💕❤️
I am very happy to see this video from you . Go for it , marriage is something good for you, especially with a moroccan man he will take care of you, but just be careful with who you are with and make sure your kids are fine with the person plus find someone who understand and speak English so he can teach you arabic and good luck be positive don't listen to negative people
You look amazing for having 4 children and being in your 40s. I always looked at least 10+ years younger...much like you. Your youthful attitude is enjoyable. A plus is the improvement through time of the channel is your change in demeanor with Jack. Now, I look forward to looking for you daily.
Aww thank you for the kind words and support
First time seeing ur videos and i absolutely love it
Welcome!!
Take your time choosing the right person for you ❤️
Very nive hope you enjoye your stay in morocco, am american moroccan and i left america after 33 years
Welcome to morocco. I love you way of explaining
Thank you 😊
Let it be. Enjoy life. What’s yours, will find its way to you.
I stopped for the title thinking here’s someone who doesn’t know what marriage or Love is , choosing a country before a person , since normally we look for a special person, with a heart of gold , to spend the rest of life with , but listening to U , i find out U are a wonderful person who has good reasons & i wish U all the best , my advice to U is to make the make the first step of trust to move forward… U picked the rite country and the rite people good luck in your endeavors…
Chokran 😊❤️
the itch! lol!!! I met loads of Moroccan women during my travels not so long ago, these were women working out at GITS, lodges, restaurants etc doing cooking, cleaning and stuff like that, they all had the same sad story...............husband left me, husband was nasty, did not give any money, treated badly, left me with 7 kids and married a younger women. So, if he seems too good, then he is after something else and not you.....
Liar liar
Omg i‘m a moroccan woman and i never hear about this stuff. Stop spreading false information about our Men anf us Women Omg..
😊❤ wow Erin you’re really learning Arabic/ Darija.
Thank you! 😃
It is very normal to live without a husband. This is your personal life and we love you...your little sister❤
تستاهلين كل خير إنسانة طيبة يشوشة جميلة أنيقة الله يرعاك أنتي وأطفالك ❤❤❤❤❤❤
You're new here. Good to hear you're being cautious.
First enjoy Morocco, get to know the country better and if it is meant to be... Real Love, will find its own way. 😊
I wish you the best and hope you can find a cool Moroccan Spouse. If I was young I will marry you and I will move back to Morocco from USA.
A very Courageous woman. Good luck to you and be cautious. I am a moroccan man But i live in germany.. ؛)
Welcome to Morocco and that OK to start to speak language arabique ❤️🇲🇦👍
OK on this subject Erin, and sorry for being honest with you, and accept this advice from your brother. Marriage is about give and take, you, being mother of 4 already and you can't have anymore kids, the chances of finding a man who is willing to provide for youz all is very little, unless you help someone with USA green card in return.
With all due respect, maybe you're right. BUT keep in mind that her two oldest kids are in the U.S.A. only and are 17-18 (?) and in their 20's (?), so they are almost, if not now, on their own and only live with her 1st husband, so they wouldn't be at her Moroccan home. So, even if she says she has 4 kids, she does but she really only lives with 2 of them who are much younger. So the man would only have to provide for her and the 2 kids living with her...also, if she should remarry, her 2 kids would still get their monthly payments of U.S. Social Security Survivor's Benefits up until they are age 18, which you might not know about. As far as not wanting to have any more kids...that's what she says NOW that she isn't in love with anyone. That has changed in the past with women, and they can be persuaded to have an additional 1 or 2 if in love and young enough to do so. Remember, she's not saying she's too old to have any more kids...she's just saying she doesn't want them...now. LOL I understand what you are saying, but if men knew her kids get monthly payments from the U.S. gov't that help considerably in paying for their needs...it would be just supporting her and maybe a little bit of her 2 kids she has still at home. And they would be able to see what a good mother she is too, as well as a nice person.
Wishing Erin the best of luck anyways, one day she might find the perfect match, maybe same situation as her. As they say each pot has its lid 😂 But hey only God knows. When it comes to USA green card I am always against people who says because of me you live in USA and that's on it's own could cause a divorce. USA at the end of the day is only land of God and every human has the right to move and live wherever they want, and don't forget even in USA there is poverty and homeless people @@bettywith2girls
I hope she finds her match anyways, be it Moroccan or different nationality. As they say every pot has its lid. But when it comes to anyone saying they want to marry me to get USA green card this on its own can cause a divorce before even getting married. USA at the end of the day is like any other country, and anyone can move and live there if they want to, without getting married, just like Morocco. And Erin is more than welcome in Morocco. Don't also forget that there is poverty and homeless people in USA. When it comes to divorce people separate even if they belong to the same country and have same culture or values.
Guys leave her alone she is having a good time
I am happy to know you 😊❤
I am delighted to learn from you that you love Morocco. I hope to get an opportunity to know you more...
I am married and have a son who has just turned 12 y.old...
Ahh welcome ❤️🇲🇦
I don't know why people tell him, be careful about married Moroccan man, the lady is smart, and she knows what she does. She is not a young woman. Please respect your culture and your country, and don't say bad things about man or woman Moroccan. not all Moroccan interests to go American or take green cards. and from she is lucky to find someone married her, we know there's young women who still single. don't be smart. she's known how to live more than you. be careful about yourself.
Live your time and enjoy your life, have friends that respect you
I’m morrocan and single mom and I understand you.
Mut3a is an option...
Noooo haram @@hanazuki333
@@hanazuki333 you need help
I'm in the same position as you,minus the kids. but I picked Marrakech. I'm planning to find a class to learn Moroccan. good luck girl
Best of luck to you too. 🇲🇦
You're attractive and look young so my suggestion is to take your time to find the right partner that will accept your conditions. For now, live your best life you deserve it. Have lots of fun cutie!!
هنا موجود ذباب جزائري يتكلم بلسان مغربي فحذاري اختي من تحريض ذباب جزائري ضد مغرب ومغاربة
hhhh khritni bdehk doubab galha 😂 hadi ghi hdra zayda ghi khliha 3ndek rak dir ghi l ftna
A woman in her fifties can live like one in her thirties if she takes care about her health.
The best thing you can do is to marry a moroccan, try to choose someone wisely
Erin,,when the right one comes along and you got that click in the HEART you won't resist..for TRUST issue. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.. Hope you got the meaning.
People don't love you for who you are but for what you have
الخير في ما اختاره الله، والخير في الواقع
All the best
Strong woman ❤❤❤
Girlie it's totally normal to date in Morocco even if most people aren't open about it but they have definitely dated at some point in their lives. as a society we're just not that open when it comes to public affection and love, that's why I would tell you to be really careful with Moroccan men also you may end up being told to put aside your religious beliefs if you're thinking about marrying someone Muslim specially if they're religious cause it's not really accepted in general and that's why you should be mindful of their lifestyle and mentality cause the cultural differences are huge and they may not match you and your wants and needs so good luck with that , you really deserve the best of the best that's why I'm a bit worried about you
chokran i understand
All than i wish is the best🙌🏽 I didn’t know you but I like your content ecause you talking about everything. you will find someone on your path inshallah 🙌🏽.
God’s have a plan for everyone so don’t anything to have someone in your life.
Sory for USA 😅😅Maroc 4USA 0 foot ball 😊😊
واش مغرب ربح عفاك جوبيني
Hi momof4, there is nothing wrong about wanting be loved and have compagnaship in life. I would recommend you meet up with americans in morocco and find someone who understand samerican culture. If you do however meet à moroccan man and consider marrying him. I highly advise to discuss religion and cultural différences before marriage and make sure you are both on the same page. :)
Not interested in Americans 😊 completely agree
wake up a prayer at 4am ask god for a happy life with a Moroccan who will never leave you
who is very kind to children
wants to stay in Morocco
does not want children of his own
and is the same age as you or almost
…..and well off🤞
Keep up your life style and cherise the quest for wellness and peace of mind.
In Morocco some people still think that’s a husband is a shade for a woman, to be honest he is sometimes 😂, but in your situation, a woman with young children in a foreign country, probably people think a companion might be better for you, there is a lot of women who are single mums and it is not something that’s unusual
Welcome to Morocco
Married with wife from usa .. Very bad idea because I have ex American.. Morocco and usa no same culture no same food no same religion.
I’m Muslim fyi but it’s okay I’m not wanting to get married
@@momof4vlogs I no know you Muslim but you still young I think you will find one husband good and active.. Allah bless you
I'm interested, but I have a question first. How can I be sure you won't leave me heartbroken and go back to the US?
😂😂 smart move 😂😂
First, You don’t have to explain to anybody, don’t listen to what they say in the comments, just listen to your heart. Second: women freedom doesn’t mean they don’t need a man, women needs men, and men needs women. If the woman is financially independent doesn’t mean she doesn’t need a man in her life. Of course I’m talking about the idea not about you. Good luck for your new life