Two things that I wish you had covered: 1. Is it fine to get into a relationship that doesn't start with the feelings of chemistry? If you've never ever had chemistry with a person (but know you are capable of it / have had it before in life), does that mean the relationship is doomed to fail or that you and the other person have some primal incompatibility? 2. Is there ever a situation in which chemistry disappearing CAN be a signal that the relationship is flawed and won't work out? Otherwise the main message from this podcast just boils down to "It's normal that chemistry disappears. Don't worry about it, ignore it!" 😅 Other than that, I really enjoyed listening to your experience, thoughts, and knowledge about the topic. Thank you! :)
@rusinsr this is SUCH a good question! Questions! These are thoughtful, and deserve a thoughtful response - like I think they deserve to be explored on their own podcast/video. Would you be willing to do me the great honor of recording your questions and allowing me to play them on an upcoming video? I wouldn't mention your name. If you'd rather not that's okay, I will just read your question. But here's the link if you're open to leaving me a voice memo: sayhi.chat/drlisa Thank you for listening and I look forward to hearing from you! xoxo, Lisa
Both of us have anxiety! Sometimes, it seems like words get in the way. I think we like each other (I am actually quite quite smitten and hopeful!). But "chemistry" seems to be lacking. We are both somewhat reserved, other than talking. I have an idea for a 3rd date: doing something where we do not talk! We can communicate in other ways; looking at each other and expressing, touching, laughing. This is experimental. I have not been able to find any info on this idea anywhere on the internet. I think it could be fun and maybe cause a breakthrough, with low expectations of course. What do you think about this idea?
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Two things that I wish you had covered:
1. Is it fine to get into a relationship that doesn't start with the feelings of chemistry? If you've never ever had chemistry with a person (but know you are capable of it / have had it before in life), does that mean the relationship is doomed to fail or that you and the other person have some primal incompatibility?
2. Is there ever a situation in which chemistry disappearing CAN be a signal that the relationship is flawed and won't work out? Otherwise the main message from this podcast just boils down to "It's normal that chemistry disappears. Don't worry about it, ignore it!" 😅
Other than that, I really enjoyed listening to your experience, thoughts, and knowledge about the topic. Thank you! :)
@rusinsr this is SUCH a good question! Questions! These are thoughtful, and deserve a thoughtful response - like I think they deserve to be explored on their own podcast/video. Would you be willing to do me the great honor of recording your questions and allowing me to play them on an upcoming video? I wouldn't mention your name. If you'd rather not that's okay, I will just read your question. But here's the link if you're open to leaving me a voice memo: sayhi.chat/drlisa
Thank you for listening and I look forward to hearing from you! xoxo, Lisa
Wow! I advise for anybody to keep replaying @ 20+min time. This is so true. Let it soak in. Thank you so much.
I'm so glad you found this episode helpful!
xoxo, Lisa
Both of us have anxiety! Sometimes, it seems like words get in the way. I think we like each other (I am actually quite quite smitten and hopeful!). But "chemistry" seems to be lacking. We are both somewhat reserved, other than talking. I have an idea for a 3rd date: doing something where we do not talk! We can communicate in other ways; looking at each other and expressing, touching, laughing. This is experimental. I have not been able to find any info on this idea anywhere on the internet. I think it could be fun and maybe cause a breakthrough, with low expectations of course. What do you think about this idea?
I think this is an interesting idea and if you are both comfortable with trying it out, I'd love to hear how it goes for you!