My parents did not understand why I attempted suicide thrice, ran away from school & got pregnant!

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  • @getnakedwithlydia
    @getnakedwithlydia  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Teen pregnancy in form three, running away from school/home and three suicid3 attempts, what happened and how did the parents react to all this?
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  • @missblessedbellablessed
    @missblessedbellablessed 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    It was a blessing sharing my story.Hope it helps someone.Thank you and God bless you lydia❤

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You are so welcome and take care of yourself 🙏

    • @amandal1450
      @amandal1450 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Very glad you were safe in it all especially hizo maroad trips zako at the tender age😂thanks for sharing, you are amazing ❤ really sad venye watoto huwa hawaskizwi kenya

    • @BeatriceOdongo312
      @BeatriceOdongo312 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      lakini wewe ulionyesha wazazi wako kivumbi ya 2007,heeeeh,nimecheka kidogo while feeling sad ju ya vile unapeana story,aii,you were something aki,akili yenye ulikua nayo ukienda road trip in the name of going outside the country ndio bado najiuliza ulitoa wapi,hahaha.Halafu all through unacheka about it,it is sad how our parents raised us bila kutaka kutuskiza at all.

  • @EstherGitonga-b8n
    @EstherGitonga-b8n 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Accumulated trauma can lead to bipolar and social deviance behavior. Thanks for shedding light to many parents who brand their children before listening to their side of the story. Better days ahead for Perpetual in raising her kid, career and healing

  • @lindamadegwa1530
    @lindamadegwa1530 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Lydia, you gave very good advice about not introducing the child to boyfriends. It can mess with the child's brain.

  • @mwihakimuthoni8922
    @mwihakimuthoni8922 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ooh she has passed through a lot at so young age it's so heartbreaking may she recover from all the trauma🙏🏽🙏🏽.Thanks Lydia for advising her to protect her daughter from the people she is dating until it's official

  • @mercymalingu4442
    @mercymalingu4442 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the best interviews ❤ thank you ❤

  • @marywayne6571
    @marywayne6571 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Aki si uko na wazazi wapoa😊

  • @adhiambowambura4278
    @adhiambowambura4278 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    That part of returning to the boyfriend that advice was crazy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Ravvy871.
    @Ravvy871. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Woiye amekapitia🫂lakini hapo pa slap from cu chairman got me🤣🤣

  • @lillianwangui
    @lillianwangui 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I believe that you went through all that because God wil use you to start a very good school. To offer solutions to the problems that you went through. May the Lord make you a successful educator.

  • @monicalewisky4925
    @monicalewisky4925 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm curios ,how was the first encounter/ contact with him after he was released from prison?
    I've heard horrible prison stories ,I wonder if that experience made him malicious /angry towards someone or he simply accepted his fate.

  • @sellllinee
    @sellllinee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I know which boardin u r talking about na mimi niliamua nitatoka.I stayed thea in class 5 but in class 6 openin day I shocked my dad nikimwambia sirudi.We went to pick my things my class teacher akipretend to my dad nikae mimi nikibeba mattres.You forgot food ilikuwa kidogo kila mtu alikuwa skinny😂.Huko ni Trauma

  • @adhiambowambura4278
    @adhiambowambura4278 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Aki those are real issues at homes and schools....but zile ujinga huendelea Kenyan high schools nkt!

  • @wanjiruolive
    @wanjiruolive 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Izo vitu zote the lady amepitia ni trauma responses sio kitu ingine.....na ni telling vile parents can read their kids, some teachers are even worse with creating trauma....Africa tukona shida we don't know how to deal with mental health...running away from home it should tell people kuna shida mahali....pole dear....I am someone that hates boarding school so much nikona trauma mpaka wa leo....

  • @monicalewisky4925
    @monicalewisky4925 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Baba ya mtu ni baba ya mtu Lydia ,ata kama ni mlevi or whatever .The guy recently got out of prison I'm sure he's struggling by his own in his own way.Let the child and the dad have a relationship of their own.I'm sure he will come around ,right now its not about how you feel about him,uts about the child and what's best for her .She's seeing what's happening, she will decide whether or not she wants the father I her life later or not.
    Single mum here too,with an absent dad

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don’t dispute that! My comment is on the on and off appearances! From the story it’s evident that it’s taking a toll on the child

    • @monicalewisky4925
      @monicalewisky4925 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @getnakedwithlydia i understand dear,but telling him to stop appearing completely because he's been inconsistent would still be damaging to the child.Mtoi atafeel nikama you didn't them a chance you know.
      Whichever way,its still trauma to the child .

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@monicalewisky4925 she gives misadvices based on her hurts and flawed perspectives

  • @wahukamunyu7558
    @wahukamunyu7558 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nilikwamia....maombi ilisimamishwa😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sunshine-jh6we
    @sunshine-jh6we 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pole sana girl
    Concetrate on your baby for NOW.
    Give her maximum attention❤.
    Lydia is correct, dont introduce men to your child.
    Lydiah nice show and very engaging.

  • @sallymuhadia
    @sallymuhadia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nikefika hapo kwa mwalimu mshenzi ikabidi nipause ni comment kwanza .....uko sure hukumbuki jina ..naeza tamani kumjua 😤

  • @christineogeto9187
    @christineogeto9187 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wueeh hiyo part ya diary, I'm still traumatized from a similar incident. I also ended up being sent home to go see a therapist . I really relate with most part of your life. Thank you for sharing your story, it might be help to so many youngsters

  • @mercyngala3773
    @mercyngala3773 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think she went to misyani girls 😂

  • @phillipsidhojapap1461
    @phillipsidhojapap1461 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are not asking the right questions. Where had the mom go to.. for one year. Isn't that neglect? Ask the right questions so people can learn from them. I know it needs a sharp mind, but try

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And it needs sharp mind to listen and understand that the mum had joined the dad in China for business but you’re too focused on finding the mistakes!

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@getnakedwithlydia this is mansplaining mama.. do you know what child neglect is? Ama you are waiting until you get kids to familiarize yourself with the concept? Badala ya the many unnecessary interruptions, ask the right questions

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@getnakedwithlydia plus I know I'm sharp.. beyond you by miles. Just focus on your strengths mami. Just to give u a snippet - I could've set you up so that you respond the way you did and so taint your image to your audience. Seee - you aren't smart anyway to realize. Next time read beyond what is written

    • @maichmaich9738
      @maichmaich9738 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@getnakedwithlydiaLydia i know watu walikuwa wana complain unaingilia stori but ya leo uli direct guest wako poa ju alikuwa everywhere...na huyu boyz hapa kwa comments ignore such coz kuna watu hawajawai realize stori ilisha fanyika hi stori si live...my two cents 😅

    • @MishenOnMission
      @MishenOnMission 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@getnakedwithlydia❤ congratulations girl. People will always find faults just let them start there own Chanel