2years of constant infections, cheating and physical abuse. How I endured and eventually left!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
- Thank you Emmy for sharing this stiry with us. We hope it inspires someone to show that you can leave a live from an abusive relationship.
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Atleast i learnt so many things ,beside being so hurt and am glad am okay thank you lydia for this i hope people who are in the same situtuation out there learn alot.
You’re welcome 😊
Keep healing Emmy
@@michellegrace3366thank you
Very true 💯💯
Lydia unaongea sana, I know usemema the guest is your friend, but this is an interview and her ask small small questions na utulie, pretend you know nothing, Ata Kama unajua story yote, Sasa wewe kumcorrect Kila time, story ni yake ama ni yako? But good job am sure next time you will do better
Eeeh bana😂 introduction is tooooooooo long
When someone is cheating on you, they suspect you're cheating too. Strangely enough, people cheat out of insecurity, not because they don't like the person they're with. A lot of times they feel inadequate or undeserving of the person they're with and will even cheat with someone of a lower class or less attractive than their mate.
You don't tell a man you are leaving,you just leave
Na mtu u-walk out of a 15years toxic relationship vipi?
Kama unapenda lydia give a like to this video & to this comment❤.mko wapi wadau?😊
Thank you 🙏
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I enjoy watching you lakini you talk too much...whenever you have a guest..you outshine them by talking too much...keep.allow your guests to talk
Thanks for the view
I understand you two are best friends,and Lydia is more outspoken and understand her friend completely.. however,,avoid interrupting your geust and let them tell their story however bad of a storyteller they are...active listening is good..so far loving the growth
Thanks for the feedback 🙏
This what am going thru GOD have mercy on me I need prayer
Hugs 🫂
You don't need prayer, you need to leave for your peace of mind
The infection part hit, if you've never had a partner that has brought infections to you Thank you God. And when you try to explain to thw abuser that ni yy anazileta anapiga kelele na hataki kuelewa....
They are always defensive
Me aki i suffered with i used to be so sick ile ur smelling like rotten fish 🤮🤮 kujikuna n constantly feeling pain during seggs juu ya ma STI uuuiii thank god i left
Happy for you.... But now the problem is you are discussing someone's family. So sad ,it was supposed to be her and the ex... Then some points are not making sense at all
But the story involves them in some parts
What kind of sense can justify beating up someone ?? You really don’t understand the kind of traumas that comes with this kind of relationships .But one day you will
@getnakedwithlydia Patterns! That's the reason why the mother told her if he tries to beat him amuambie, the mother knows a lot that Emmy doesn't, huh! It is inheritance.
😔that's so sad,I can relate🤦it was a toxic relationship and am happy @emmy dancer that now you are happy and succeeding.
We thank God ❤
Take a course on interviewing kunakuanga na styles 😅 don't interrupt your guest as she speaks 😂it's called Active listening otherwise I do love the authenticity in this stories
She can learn from Kawira Yvonne Tuko excellent interviewer. 💯 💯
@@maggierattz8552she is worst kawira is not my cup of tea heri hata nyako
I commend you Emmy 😊 but you haven't given us your healing journey like you were not tempted to go back ,replasing on it etc
Never went back
There was nothing good to go back to i made my mind and moved on without looking back .
@@Emmydancer0 wow! That's something many should emulate
Lots of love emmy 😍
In Germany since the rent is so expensive people take 3 or 4 rooms hause and share among 4 different people , kitchen and bathroom/toilet you share kila mtu anafunga mlango akitoka
Ooh wow, I didn’t know that!
Next time give the guest time to explain her story.
Noted
Wenye mnasema host is talking too much, please watch their previous video of how they became best friends 😢😢. Lydia can give Emmy's story yote n viceversa.
Also they already gave the disclaimer "Emmy is not a good story teller"!
Thank you 🙏
Emmy I commend you haki leaving those trauma bonded relationships sio rahisi, I know this well. but look at you now!
God is great ❤
I used to cry like a baby untill i stoped crying 😢
Men ooooooooooh 😭😭😭😭 you were shown red flags earlier but you never took it serious,,,mapenziii,,hope you learnt from that relationship,,big up gurl 💪💪
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Why would you stay in a toxic relationship for that long. Once it starts it never stops. No amount of love is worth such abuse
Unfortunately when abused it’s not easy to tell!
Mimi nataka friend kama Emmy, juu l have been a loner for so long
Me too..uko wapi
Can just say , the interviewer is too much
This is a conversation. And am still learning. Noted!
Pole emmy 😊i know how it feels dating a violent boyfriend 😂 unapigwa na unarudi tu ..the good thing is ufunguke mscho na utoke kabisa 🙏more grace mum
Leaving is the only solution ❤
@@getnakedwithlydia yes yes
Lydia I am in Australia abd that's what happened.
With housing has its very expensive to manage by yourself
Ooh ok
I can tell you are both close friends ❤
Very close ❤
My first time here...Lydia you are asking all the right questions..I love it
Thanks for watching!
Eeeeeiii kwani we were married to the same man 😮😮😮😢😢😢
Too much noise though the interviewer is not a good friend 😂😂😂😂najua mtanirusha mawe but that's the truth
Thank you for speaking your mind 😂😂😂
Please allow the guest to talk wueh wueh
they are having a conversation. They are friends
Conversation also need active listening @@kinara5365
I loved the conversation
Thank you 🙏
Lydia kwani story ni yako😂😂😂
Alafu after all these, they get back together and Lydia is considered the toxic feminist friend 😅😂
And I have never minded being labeled 🤣🤣🤣
The guy was too much tho,mwanaume ako tiktok hio relationship ingelast aki ,,you entertained his character thats y alitake advantage ya kukukalia juu first slap huku toka .akaona huwezi mwacha ..pole saana
Unfortunately we always think it’s a phase and stay more than we should!
Lydia fika highrise utaona hizo nyumba unaulizia
Heh 😂😂
Eeeh, I was once there na nikashangaa 😅😅
Hi dear can you give me the phone ' I went to spend like 9 to 1o days in Nairobi? With a family of 3 m people how close is it to the centre n safe?
Emmy huyo ni narcissist
New subscriber here got this from instagram❤
Thanks for subbing!
You are glowing❤
Sharing accommodation is normal majuu
So many red flags in my marriage..
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You can decide to re write the story!
@@getnakedwithlydia tell me more
Hi Lydia 🎉
Good morning!
Zima tv next time
Wacha ushamba wewe
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@@kinara5365shusha yeye hapo
@@kinara5365 😂😂😂😂
@@kinara5365 mbwa wewe...
Aki therapist 😂😂😂😂jamanii
Pole Emmy...thanks for opening up...itafunza wengi
Thanks for watching
Thank you
Let me tell you Lydia such kind of a story has happened to many story for another day unfortunately that was a narcisst and the sad thing is they know how to tune you after knowing they're in the wrong the best thing is always to leave silently more healing Emmy
mbona kama madem hamtakiwi na boy munamwita narcissist? jiulize mbona unajitoa na unarudi wewe mwenyewe? you are the one being toxic to yourself.
@kinara5365 obviously there is always the other side of the story I spoke as per story
@@michellegrace3366 umeona hizi stories mademu wote Wana narrate hizi vitu they always blame the boy. Like if hakutaki mbona ujitoe na urudi?
@@kinara5365 this gender will never accept the reality bro😅 kila dem ukipata social media anaongelea ex boyfriend it's always the man ndio mbaya yeye alikua perfect 😅
@kinara5365 seriously 😅😅hapana one thing I always say is that both of you must have wronged each other in one way or another.Though when it comes to being violent its another thing
You dealt with a narcissist sorry mama
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Thank you lydiah
.this is now the authentic you.I mean you sound you.keep up ❤
You're welcome 😊
Men are fox mapenzi achea wazungu but pole sana team strong woyie
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