It's also in the way a man shares. The masculine man doesn't share problems or more difficult issues with a lot of feelings. It's more an overview of the situation for sharing information and they aren't looking for solutions from the feminine. They are just being open about what is going on and the feminine is support for them. It's not a therapy session all about their thoughts and feelings like we do.
Wow. He specifically told me “I don’t want to burden you with my problems” and I was a little offended because I wanted to feel like his safe space. Now I understand why he wouldn’t share his problems with me. He’d share info here & there but not too much.
He should be your safe space not the other way around. You might like it but long term you will feel exhausted and unhappy and belittled in his eyes as a woman.
@@fareenashofficial There is a documentary about social media. The exaperts and teenagers had conversations about sexual stuffa nd the school. The ladies said that You can never win. Boys are brainwashed by the culture. The teenagersthe ladies who refused sex were blamed for refusing sex. The ladies who didnt want to be blammed, accepted having sex....the thye were blamed for it, by the clôassmates. The expert said: There is not chance to win....if you dont give naked pictures , or give sex to boy, they say you are bad etc" When you giv ethe sex to boy, thye blkame the girl too.
I used to pride myself on being so trustworthy and understanding that all men would come to me with their problems. 😅 I thought we had a real connection if they weren't afraid to show their vulnerable side. Then these men would start talking about other girls, and I'd still help them, wondering why they preferred someone else. Someone who made their life so burdensome and always kept them guessing when I'm super nice, calm and understanding (plus they found me physically attractive). Even my boyfriend of four years used to talk to me about his fear of commitment and his attraction to other girls for hours. And I just sat there, nodding and asking questions like a shrink while being absolutely heartbroken inside. :( Thank God, later I learned to respect myself and finally became a therapist (where my empathy is truly appreciated). Now my boyfriend has no doubts and treats me like a princess. 😮 Thanks for the video! Greetings from Russia.
Love love love your content Fareen. You keep it real. And with feminine women, your message resonates. I remember having a man initially tell me about the issues he had with vulnerability since his divorce and I remember just getting this sick feeling in my stomach and I told him he needed to speak to a therapist about that. It’s very unattractive when a man is a whiney baby or wants emotional support. And just as you said he is either a feminine man or just not attracted when demonstrating that behavior. It’s such a turn off and a big sign of how he sees you.
I can see how the push towards men being more "vulnerable" might confuse some people. Am I right in that the vulnerability we want and need for a healthy connection refers to vulnerability regarding the relationship itself and their feelings about the woman, as opposed to their dumping their personal struggles onto a partner?
I just recently had a guy tell me his problems on the first date. It was complete turn off. I felt like well what do I need you for you're the man and his body language was feminine.
This is so interesting. My ex who always was an alpha male when we were a couple, recently broke down in tears and I was so unsettled by that. I basically made him stop. He had gotten so used to being vulnerable since the many years that we were apart that it triggered me to see him in that state. I even said to him, "remember who you are" which I'm now realizing this was more of the reassurance i needed beca6se I was so uncomfortable. 😊
This *might have been true at one time but today’s dating dynamics have CHANGEDddddd😞. And not for the better. Now *WOMEN are in the “fixer” role and not only do men come to women with their problems but women LIKE it. This shift helps WOMEN feel “needed” and “wanted” as women fix and solve men’s problems. This is now a VERY common occurrence early on 😑and is the way people are now “bonding.” It doesn’t mean he’s not attracted to you... at all. He could be very attracted to you. It means this is what’s changed in the dating culture, in what’s changed in how we communicate and get to know people and what’s socially acceptable in gender roles.
Given that we’re ALL coming out of a global pandemic that affected everybody /collective experience, there are possibly still real life repercussions for us all and a man might have problems affecting his life ... job, layoffs, housing, buying a home, moving, family issues, etc etc etc. These are not “normal” times that we’re living in and they haven’t been for quite awhile. To say a man you meet isn’t “attracted to you” if he tells you his problems, that isn’t really in line with how the world is working right now ...... on so many levels.😞It’s putting a lot of pressure on men and, as I said, there’s much going on on top of it with shifting gender roles, with how/how much we communicate with each other in general, in what we share in establishing new social patterns, with how we present ourselves in dating now etc. The idea that “things are set in stone” doesn’t apply in these changing times where we’re all just trying to figure it out as we go. We’re ALL dealing with a lot in this culture and people often don’t have the luxury to present (or hide) themselves in ways that might benefit them and that has little to do with any attraction to you. Lots of winging it going on, in context of and response to the times.
@@noble604 lol. He is a man. If he can’t handle the world how the hell is he going to handle you?! Stop making excuses for men they will just never grow up. Just focus on your goals, your womanhood and general health. Times have always been changing and will always change. Human NATURE is forever the same. And it’s a fact. So chill and play your role. If you want to be happy. 🤗
I have observed this dynamic as well. And it isn't surprising since culture & social media is pushing men into their "vulnerability" and is telling them that woman want a soft, watery man. Personally I think it is disasterous, but it IS absolutely happening and it could indeed mean that he is trying to impress you because he has been told that woman love nothing more than holding space for a man (which most actually do not enjoy at all, but that's another topic).
Wow right on time! We are 6months in and he will just tell me he’s dealing with some complicated issues work wise but doesn’t emotionally complain too much…he’ll sometime open up about problems but keeps it short says he has a lot to deal with or figure things out…hopefully this is a good sign that we are on the right track 😅 Love your videos ❤
Oh I love this!!!! Thanks for sharing what a feminine-masculine dynamic looks like. I know I mentioned this to you before, but I love when you share examples btwn you and your partner. It really helps us see how the dynamics could be! Also you are the best relationship expert ever!!!! Thanks again for sharing this video ❤
This is valuable information!!! A man child will though 😂sadly…. A man in his little boy energy will A guy I dated, really had what I call whiney baby syndrome coming to me with issues problems hoping I would help him and then shaming me when I didn’t say the thing he wanted me to say…
This is exactly why I stopped letting people, especially men, vent to me. I will literally look at my watch and go "oh look at the time, I have a ___o'clock appointment with a client" lol *hint hint* my attention is where the ROI is 💅
Fareen would you be open to make a video on how to effectively communicate with very logical man (earth sign)? There is a natural gap between earth and air signs and it became a constant loop of misunderstanding each other. As an Aquarius woman I tend to see things from a different, unique perspective but he receives it as if I don't listen or I'm missing his point constantly. It really feels like there is a gap that needs to be bridged.
Women are constantly being told to be his peace and safe place. Which is true but not early on will he open. Get him to open talk is seen as important to bond.This is outstanding to understand.
This is a fascinating post, Fareen. I’m wondering, though, about one concept of the woman speaking more and the man in the listener role. Is there an imbalance if the man and woman are really engaged and sharing the conversation equally in the early heady stages of relationship building. I always thought this was a good sign of interests and compatibility. Also wondering if a man with an adhd learner profile, and more chatty and verbal can still be a strong balanced male energy. Maybe I need to listen through again. Wonderful thought provoking topic. ❤
I was always scared if i came off too strong in my emotions. I didn’t know that healthy men actually love to listen. 🫢 This is why i feel safe and comfortable with some and some of them i just want to run for my life!
How is mothering being in your masculine? The mother is still a feminine archetype perhaps not one that creates romantic attraction. Listening is passive which is also associated with feminine energy.
Because that’s not mothering. It’s fathering. Mothering is listening to the child’s problems to soothe the child. Fathering is listening to the child to fix the child’s problems/problem solve. The guy is coming to her for her not to just listen but to brainstorm Men typically don’t sit around and simply talk about their problems in order to “feel better.” That’s what women do. Men want solutions and problems fixed so if he’s coming to her, he’s generally wanting a fix and she’s the fixer so now she’s “masculine” as the solution finder and he’s “feminine” with the problem/ one in distrsss.
It’s because it’s an active role to be fully involved and responsible for them. Being a woman is being laid back and focused on yourself and your own pleasure you don’t expect him to do anything and respect his freedom. If he is sexually attracted to you He naturally raises himself into his masculine to please you and feel good in his manhood. That is if he is normal and healthy.
Be a nurturer .....on the sideline. Act like a cheerleader. Let him go get his nose broken in the game. You can cheer him on in his game from the side, letting him know he can do it, he’s got this but don’t you get your hands dirty. You have your own stuff going on to be an overinvolved helicopter 🚁mom. He’s a big boy. How’d he do it before he met you? Let him fight it out and he can bring the championship over to you as the result. Yay. He did it. Yay.🏅🏆
It means that he could like you, love you, value you, respect you, be attracted to you, hold your opinion in high regard, know you went through it too, value the comfort you bring to him, all the things. 😞 Please don’t take these things you see on the internet as gospel for your life. They’re not.🥴
@fareenashofficial Yes, he asked about how to deal with conflict with he sister. The grieving part was at the beginning of dating he longer speaks about it. He bought books to help himself
I work with my Twin Flame (everything is still platonic) and at the beginnig he sometimes complained and was in his feminine energy. But after 7 months I noticed that he started to treat me diffrently. He never share his problems, when I come to his office and he's in the middle of 'weak' conversation with his coleague he immediately changes the topic. Even if I see that he's tired and I ask about it, he just answer that he need to solve something and that's all. I feel like he's coming back to his musculine power.
This is so helpful. My BF usually doesn’t like to complain about his work day and would rather hear about my day. At first I took this as him not wanting to ” share” things with me and took it personally but now I have realized that he’s just wanting to maintain his masculine energy around me. This is very insightful. Thank you.
Can he still ask for your advice, but not with situations that'll show he's weak? For example, he's pretty closed off about his problems but from time to time might share stuff he's reflecting on to gain a different perspective (not sad or overly emotional about). I'm definitely the one that's more emotional and talks more btw hahaha.
Hi fareen, I remember having a gym crush a few months ago, i showed interest but never chased him, foumd out he had a fiance (cohabiting and relationship 5 years, not married yet) i moved on, we go to the same gym but he looks at me in the presence of his gf, I dont greet him anymore because the gf noticed and she gives me that ugly look ( dont have time for that) when he is not with his gf he alwas wants to be seen , walking in front of me while i work out and it is so annoying to me..how do I navigate this ego driven man in such a close setting, i even changed my gym schedule but that ridiculous.
Wow! How about if the two are like 'buddies'? But they both know they have feelings or attracted to each other. The man has difficulty expressing his emotions or feelings. The girl was also surprised that the guy opened up problems to her considering he hasn't yet opened up his feelings. So are you saying he is in his feminine energy?
@@fareenashofficial Thank you Fareen. Of all your videos, this is the one that really got me. You got me here honestly. Actually, this has been a puzzled to me before, why the guy is opening up to the girl about his problem. This only happened twice. The first one was because she saw him seating in a corner so she asked him if he is okay. And he opened up about the money that he lost giving it to a needy person. By the way, they are not what you considered as formally dating or in a relationship but as 'friends' but they both knew the attraction between them.The second time he opened, was he voluntarily approached the girl about money matters because he cannot produced his house rental and delayed. As if he is getting the opinion of the girl what to do as if he is lost. and the girl listened to the guy and helping him how he can solved his problem. Again, this happened during the early stage of their 'friendship' and the girl knows the guy has feelings by means of his behavior and body language only. The girl at that time felt good because the guy is so quiet and rarely talk so she it feels good to her that the guy is opening up indicating that he trusts her. Now from your video, I realized that the guy is on his feminine energy and the girl is in his masculine energy. Aside from the fact, that the guy is having a hard time opening up about his feelings to the girl so as if he is waiting for the girl to ask him about his intention. So are you saying that the man is really in his feminine energy more?
@@fareenashofficial Where is my reply to you? Have you read it? It's too long. Can't believe you deleted it. I'm not going to watch your videos anymore.
@fareenashofficial But, he likes me worrying about him. Like telling me that he was in a car crash and other health problems. But I am a bit weird to. I have been single for over 15yrs. I enjoy my own company. I want him but I don't think that I can handle a 24/7 relationship, that's why I don't ask what do I mean to you or where is this going. Because I would rather go with the flow and see what happens. Becareful what I wish for. Best of both worlds really. Him and my independence. I'm a Sagittarius ♐️ 🤪
This seems actually more realistic for a healthy man who wants to appear masculine than you and actually wants to keep you in his life. But why do we always see the relationship depicted on social media and general shows and movies. Where the woman takes a more personal approach of her being like his trusted confidant and therapist!
@@fareenashofficial it’s so sad how younger women think that this is it. They are missing on so much bless and liberation it’s not worth it long term. 😩
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It's also in the way a man shares. The masculine man doesn't share problems or more difficult issues with a lot of feelings. It's more an overview of the situation for sharing information and they aren't looking for solutions from the feminine. They are just being open about what is going on and the feminine is support for them. It's not a therapy session all about their thoughts and feelings like we do.
It’s a very fine line between it being a casual spur of emotion and a heavy therapy session.
Sounds like me lol.
Wow. He specifically told me “I don’t want to burden you with my problems” and I was a little offended because I wanted to feel like his safe space.
Now I understand why he wouldn’t share his problems with me. He’d share info here & there but not too much.
He’s a man! Good for him!
He should be your safe space not the other way around. You might like it but long term you will feel exhausted and unhappy and belittled in his eyes as a woman.
Yes my man does this too and I hate it so much. Like let me help and love you 😭😭😭
@@fareenashofficial There is a documentary about social media.
The exaperts and teenagers had conversations about sexual stuffa nd the school.
The ladies said that You can never win. Boys are brainwashed by the culture.
The teenagersthe ladies who refused sex were blamed for refusing sex.
The ladies who didnt want to be blammed, accepted having sex....the thye were blamed for it, by the clôassmates.
The expert said: There is not chance to win....if you dont give naked pictures , or give sex to boy, they say you are bad etc" When you giv ethe sex to boy, thye blkame the girl too.
I used to pride myself on being so trustworthy and understanding that all men would come to me with their problems. 😅
I thought we had a real connection if they weren't afraid to show their vulnerable side.
Then these men would start talking about other girls, and I'd still help them, wondering why they preferred someone else. Someone who made their life so burdensome and always kept them guessing when I'm super nice, calm and understanding (plus they found me physically attractive).
Even my boyfriend of four years used to talk to me about his fear of commitment and his attraction to other girls for hours. And I just sat there, nodding and asking questions like a shrink while being absolutely heartbroken inside. :(
Thank God, later I learned to respect myself and finally became a therapist (where my empathy is truly appreciated).
Now my boyfriend has no doubts and treats me like a princess. 😮
Thanks for the video!
Greetings from Russia.
I’m loving all of your shares! And I’m so happy you’re here :)
Love love love your content Fareen. You keep it real. And with feminine women, your message resonates. I remember having a man initially tell me about the issues he had with vulnerability since his divorce and I remember just getting this sick feeling in my stomach and I told him he needed to speak to a therapist about that. It’s very unattractive when a man is a whiney baby or wants emotional support. And just as you said he is either a feminine man or just not attracted when demonstrating that behavior. It’s such a turn off and a big sign of how he sees you.
I love that you’re here and great observations!
@@fareenashofficial This is the best place to be.❤
This happened to me as well recently. My interest just dropped. So interesting.
This makes so much sense! Like everything is finally clicking, I thought I had a problem but this is exactly how we should be 💕
I loveee that it’s clicking! Yay!
This is true, the last person I'm going to whine to is my GF.
Still strong men out there :)
@@fareenashofficial Ha! I save my whining for my friends. I'm sure they've heard quite enough. ;)
I can see how the push towards men being more "vulnerable" might confuse some people. Am I right in that the vulnerability we want and need for a healthy connection refers to vulnerability regarding the relationship itself and their feelings about the woman, as opposed to their dumping their personal struggles onto a partner?
Yes! Bingo!!
This is 1000% true. Never had someone articulate this and I’m just here to confirm it’s true
Thank you for doing that :)
I just recently had a guy tell me his problems on the first date. It was complete turn off. I felt like well what do I need you for you're the man and his body language was feminine.
Yuck!!!
I would say: ‘if he's coming to you with his problems - he’s more of a feminine man.’ There is nothing wrong with you, as a woman.
This is so interesting. My ex who always was an alpha male when we were a couple, recently broke down in tears and I was so unsettled by that. I basically made him stop. He had gotten so used to being vulnerable since the many years that we were apart that it triggered me to see him in that state. I even said to him, "remember who you are" which I'm now realizing this was more of the reassurance i needed beca6se I was so uncomfortable. 😊
I love this share! It’s so normal for you to feel uncomfortable and what you said was totally fine!
This *might have been true at one time but today’s dating dynamics have CHANGEDddddd😞. And not for the better.
Now *WOMEN are in the “fixer” role and not only do men come to women with their problems but women LIKE it. This shift helps WOMEN feel “needed” and “wanted” as women fix and solve men’s problems. This is now a VERY common occurrence early on 😑and is the way people are now “bonding.” It doesn’t mean he’s not attracted to you... at all. He could be very attracted to you. It means this is what’s changed in the dating culture, in what’s changed in how we communicate and get to know people and what’s socially acceptable in gender roles.
Yes everything is backwards now. Agreed!
It’s your responsibility to know your role and limits.
Don’t accept what you aren’t willing to handle long term.
He can find these “cool” women.
Given that we’re ALL coming out of a global pandemic that affected everybody /collective experience, there are possibly still real life repercussions for us all and a man might have problems affecting his life ... job, layoffs, housing, buying a home, moving, family issues, etc etc etc. These are not “normal” times that we’re living in and they haven’t been for quite awhile. To say a man you meet isn’t “attracted to you” if he tells you his problems, that isn’t really in line with how the world is working right now ...... on so many levels.😞It’s putting a lot of pressure on men and, as I said, there’s much going on on top of it with shifting gender roles, with how/how much we communicate with each other in general, in what we share in establishing new social patterns, with how we present ourselves in dating now etc. The idea that “things are set in stone” doesn’t apply in these changing times where we’re all just trying to figure it out as we go. We’re ALL dealing with a lot in this culture and people often don’t have the luxury to present (or hide) themselves in ways that might benefit them and that has little to do with any attraction to you. Lots of winging it going on, in context of and response to the times.
@@noble604 lol. He is a man. If he can’t handle the world how the hell is he going to handle you?!
Stop making excuses for men they will just never grow up.
Just focus on your goals, your womanhood and general health.
Times have always been changing and will always change. Human NATURE is forever the same. And it’s a fact. So chill and play your role. If you want to be happy. 🤗
I have observed this dynamic as well. And it isn't surprising since culture & social media is pushing men into their "vulnerability" and is telling them that woman want a soft, watery man. Personally I think it is disasterous, but it IS absolutely happening and it could indeed mean that he is trying to impress you because he has been told that woman love nothing more than holding space for a man (which most actually do not enjoy at all, but that's another topic).
Wow right on time!
We are 6months in and he will just tell me he’s dealing with some complicated issues work wise but doesn’t emotionally complain too much…he’ll sometime open up about problems but keeps it short says he has a lot to deal with or figure things out…hopefully this is a good sign that we are on the right track 😅
Love your videos ❤
Yesssssss!!!! Love it!
@@fareenashofficial thank you ☺️
Oh I love this!!!! Thanks for sharing what a feminine-masculine dynamic looks like.
I know I mentioned this to you before, but I love when you share examples btwn you and your partner. It really helps us see how the dynamics could be!
Also you are the best relationship expert ever!!!! Thanks again for sharing this video ❤
Awwwwwwwww! 😍😍😍😍😍😍
This is valuable information!!!
A man child will though 😂sadly…. A man in his little boy energy will
A guy I dated, really had what I call whiney baby syndrome coming to me with issues problems hoping I would help him and then shaming me when I didn’t say the thing he wanted me to say…
Lol yup! And that is not a man we want
Whiney baby syndrome 🤣
Congrats on your engagement ! September is a great month to get married !
@@muma6559 it really is a great month :)
This is exactly why I stopped letting people, especially men, vent to me. I will literally look at my watch and go "oh look at the time, I have a ___o'clock appointment with a client" lol *hint hint* my attention is where the ROI is 💅
😆
Thanks, I needed this today! 😊
Love when that happens!
Fareen would you be open to make a video on how to effectively communicate with very logical man (earth sign)? There is a natural gap between earth and air signs and it became a constant loop of misunderstanding each other. As an Aquarius woman I tend to see things from a different, unique perspective but he receives it as if I don't listen or I'm missing his point constantly. It really feels like there is a gap that needs to be bridged.
Your voice is so soothing in this video!
Your books are such good reads and sooo light and easy to go through ❤ everyone should read them
Thank you Sarah!
Concrete excellent information thats practical. This is useful amongst sea of gunk. Thanks for this! ❤❤❤
Women are constantly being told to be his peace and safe place. Which is true but not early on will he open. Get him to open talk is seen as important to bond.This is outstanding to understand.
You are very welcome
How about the man always shares his problems in the work and always try to discuss with you?
This is a fascinating post, Fareen. I’m wondering, though, about one concept of the woman speaking more and the man in the listener role. Is there an imbalance if the man and woman are really engaged and sharing the conversation equally in the early heady stages of relationship building. I always thought this was a good sign of interests and compatibility. Also wondering if a man with an adhd learner profile, and more chatty and verbal can still be a strong balanced male energy. Maybe I need to listen through again. Wonderful thought provoking topic. ❤
Listen through again and tell me know what comes up!
I was always scared if i came off too strong in my emotions. I didn’t know that healthy men actually love to listen. 🫢
This is why i feel safe and comfortable with some and some of them i just want to run for my life!
How is mothering being in your masculine? The mother is still a feminine archetype perhaps not one that creates romantic attraction. Listening is passive which is also associated with feminine energy.
Because that’s not mothering. It’s fathering. Mothering is listening to the child’s problems to soothe the child. Fathering is listening to the child to fix the child’s problems/problem solve.
The guy is coming to her for her not to just listen but to brainstorm Men typically don’t sit around and simply talk about their problems in order to “feel better.” That’s what women do. Men want solutions and problems fixed so if he’s coming to her, he’s generally wanting a fix and she’s the fixer so now she’s “masculine” as the solution finder and he’s “feminine” with the problem/ one in distrsss.
@@noble604men take time to know that a woman is not one of his bros.
If he doesn’t understand this fast enough he is doomed.
It’s because it’s an active role to be fully involved and responsible for them.
Being a woman is being laid back and focused on yourself and your own pleasure you don’t expect him to do anything and respect his freedom. If he is sexually attracted to you He naturally raises himself into his masculine to please you and feel good in his manhood. That is if he is normal and healthy.
What if I’m a nurturer? Which I thought was a feminine trait? Is that not correct?
Be a nurturer .....on the sideline. Act like a cheerleader. Let him go get his nose broken in the game. You can cheer him on in his game from the side, letting him know he can do it, he’s got this but don’t you get your hands dirty. You have your own stuff going on to be an overinvolved helicopter 🚁mom. He’s a big boy. How’d he do it before he met you? Let him fight it out and he can bring the championship over to you as the result.
Yay. He did it. Yay.🏅🏆
It’s ok to be a nurturer, I would just focus that energy toward yourself, pets and children 🤍
@@fareenashofficial I think I may have mixed up affectionate with nurture. I am very affectionate. Would your response be the same?
@angas6002 affection is perfect! So am I :)
@angas6002 we touch all the time 😆
Omg Fareen! I wish I had seen this 6 months ago. Ugh just got out of a relationship with this type of man. Live and learn. Now I know! Thank you. 🙏
Now you know! 🤍🤍🤍
@@fareenashofficialyour videos and program and really helping me so much 🤍
Would you know a little on vasopressin the male hormone that bonds him when problems are solved as a team.. how is it different?
Those problems should benefit you both - or the relationship.
She is talking about venting about his personal problems and weakness.
Solving problems for the dynamic make men feel like men :)
My man NEVER shares his problems. He’d rather shut down than share with me -___-
I hate it so much bit he says he doesn’t wanna look weak to me
Exactly!
Yay!❤ cant wait to watch it!!
Me too!
What if it's advice about a family situation or dealing with grief ?
It means that he could like you, love you, value you, respect you, be attracted to you, hold your opinion in high regard, know you went through it too, value the comfort you bring to him, all the things. 😞
Please don’t take these things you see on the internet as gospel for your life. They’re not.🥴
Did he ask ?
@fareenashofficial Yes, he asked about how to deal with conflict with he sister. The grieving part was at the beginning of dating he longer speaks about it. He bought books to help himself
I work with my Twin Flame (everything is still platonic) and at the beginnig he sometimes complained and was in his feminine energy. But after 7 months I noticed that he started to treat me diffrently. He never share his problems, when I come to his office and he's in the middle of 'weak' conversation with his coleague he immediately changes the topic. Even if I see that he's tired and I ask about it, he just answer that he need to solve something and that's all. I feel like he's coming back to his musculine power.
That’s great news!
This is so helpful. My BF usually doesn’t like to complain about his work day and would rather hear about my day. At first I took this as him not wanting to ” share” things with me and took it personally but now I have realized that he’s just wanting to maintain his masculine energy around me. This is very insightful. Thank you.
@kristinej.4182 I’m so glad it’s helped!!
Can he still ask for your advice, but not with situations that'll show he's weak? For example, he's pretty closed off about his problems but from time to time might share stuff he's reflecting on to gain a different perspective (not sad or overly emotional about). I'm definitely the one that's more emotional and talks more btw hahaha.
(This feels completely different to when a man dumps his issues on me etc)
Men don’t usually ask for advice and when they do it’s much later on and even then they still want to figure it out first
This is so true, i have witnessed this.
Tell me more! You’ve experienced this?
Hi fareen, I remember having a gym crush a few months ago, i showed interest but never chased him, foumd out he had a fiance (cohabiting and relationship 5 years, not married yet) i moved on, we go to the same gym but he looks at me in the presence of his gf, I dont greet him anymore because the gf noticed and she gives me that ugly look ( dont have time for that) when he is not with his gf he alwas wants to be seen , walking in front of me while i work out and it is so annoying to me..how do I navigate this ego driven man in such a close setting, i even changed my gym schedule but that ridiculous.
Yuck! Just fully ignore him. You don’t need to do anything. I feel bad for his gf!
@@fareenashofficialme too ❤
Wow! How about if the two are like 'buddies'? But they both know they have feelings or attracted to each other. The man has difficulty expressing his emotions or feelings. The girl was also surprised that the guy opened up problems to her considering he hasn't yet opened up his feelings. So are you saying he is in his feminine energy?
I’m confused by this… I’d need more specifics:)
@@fareenashofficial Thank you Fareen. Of all your videos, this is the one that really got me. You got me here honestly. Actually, this has been a puzzled to me before, why the guy is opening up to the girl about his problem. This only happened twice. The first one was because she saw him seating in a corner so she asked him if he is okay. And he opened up about the money that he lost giving it to a needy person. By the way, they are not what you considered as formally dating or in a relationship but as 'friends' but they both knew the attraction between them.The second time he opened, was he voluntarily approached the girl about money matters because he cannot produced his house rental and delayed. As if he is getting the opinion of the girl what to do as if he is lost. and the girl listened to the guy and helping him how he can solved his problem. Again, this happened during the early stage of their 'friendship' and the girl knows the guy has feelings by means of his behavior and body language only. The girl at that time felt good because the guy is so quiet and rarely talk so she it feels good to her that the guy is opening up indicating that he trusts her. Now from your video, I realized that the guy is on his feminine energy and the girl is in his masculine energy. Aside from the fact, that the guy is having a hard time opening up about his feelings to the girl so as if he is waiting for the girl to ask him about his intention. So are you saying that the man is really in his feminine energy more?
@@fareenashofficial Where is my reply to you? Have you read it? It's too long. Can't believe you deleted it. I'm not going to watch your videos anymore.
I didn’t see a reply to my response my love 🤍. I don’t delete comments unless they are rude and disrespectful.
Thank you for your nice words.
So, he keeps his distance because he has a lot going on, that's how he deals with stuff with everyone.
Yup! Men!
@fareenashofficial But, he likes me worrying about him. Like telling me that he was in a car crash and other health problems. But I am a bit weird to. I have been single for over 15yrs. I enjoy my own company. I want him but I don't think that I can handle a 24/7 relationship, that's why I don't ask what do I mean to you or where is this going. Because I would rather go with the flow and see what happens. Becareful what I wish for. Best of both worlds really. Him and my independence. I'm a Sagittarius ♐️ 🤪
This seems actually more realistic for a healthy man who wants to appear masculine than you and actually wants to keep you in his life.
But why do we always see the relationship depicted on social media and general shows and movies. Where the woman takes a more personal approach of her being like his trusted confidant and therapist!
Traditional roles are harder to see now…
@@fareenashofficial it’s so sad how younger women think that this is it. They are missing on so much bless and liberation it’s not worth it long term. 😩
Congratulations on coming wedding 🎉🎉
Thank you 😊
@@fareenashofficial Your Welcome,I am Happy for You 😊, Wish You Guys lovely ceremony and wonderful life together 💕 I hope You will share some picures 😊
What about women that don’t talk a lot haha we should force it? 😂
Every men just crying over on my shoulder about their problems…😣🤔
Oh no 😬
🚬 It's my way. 🍺
Yay!
❤❤❤❤❤So True ❤❤❤❤❤
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True
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Who taught you that? What TH-cam video? lol
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“Weak” like what? Sharing to me that work is stressful since he’s the GM?? Or something else? @fareenashofficial
Well how does it feel in your body? Complaining won’t feel good… sharing will :)