Hey, sis! Today’s question is all about flipping the script on comparison and stepping into FREEDOM! The question is: what is one characteristic or quality of someone close to you that you are grateful you’re able to experience or witness? This might be sometime that before video you felt a little “less than” in comparison - but let’s flip it and use comparison to fuel our joy and inspire us instead of steal from us. *BONUS* message this person and tell them the characteristic you admire about them! 🤍🤍 For me: i truly appreciate the way my cousin authentically radiates joy and positivity. She’s sooo great with people and it’s something in the past I’ve compared myself against but no longer. I’ve asked God to highlight and develop within me MY VERSION of these same characteristics! & I’m going to text her this now ❤
One characteristic or quality I am able to experience from my daughter is her ability to decorate a room and her anointing to find a good deal when shopping the retail stores 😊
I admire my daughter's boldness n conviction to stand in what she believes in, although sometimes to her detriment. I'm grateful that God is showing me how to open myself also to this quality.
Hey, Melody! Hi from Georgia :D. I'm Chloe, and as of now, I'm 16. I'm really struggling in my walk of faith and have been for a while due to bad habits and things I need to break off in my life. Finding your channel has really encouraged me and through God, you have inspired me! I really appreciate you!
This is so amazing Chloe! It’s great to see someone so young doing her best to live for God! We are rooting you on girlie, but most importantly I’m sure God is rooting even louder! 💙 Being a light at 16 probably is not the easiest, but keep the faith and keep pursing Jesus…..know you will make mistakes and experience trying times…but God will truly always be with you! (This is coming from someone who became Christian at 18….I’m 28 now) so I know a thing or two lol…. But anywho, keep the faith 💕
Amen!!! Thanks for sharing! It’s important to be authentic and not try to be someone else (in the body of Christ)! I admire a couple of people of faith (and I tell them). I appreciate how they handle the gifts that God has given them and I ask God to use me for His Purpose based on who I’am. God bless His children🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
hey Chloe, I'm 17 and having been with God going on 2 years. I understand what you're going through! I'm praying for you and here if you need anything❤️
Yesss!! It’s necessary in the body of Christ but when we don’t compare properly that’s we’re the slippery slope to jealousy, envy and frustration come into play!
My friend is so confident and I have always compared myself to her. I am thankful to have her as a good friend and to show me and help me to love myself.
I'm often reminded of my almost 4 year old daughter's forgiveness. I am not a perfect mom. I pray to be abundant in the fruits of the spirit. Until then, I've been reminded of my daughter's forgiveness. And admire that in her.
Needed this video! I’ve been comparing myself so much to what i see on on social media, when i know the majority of it is fake. But, I’ve just had a baby abs my body has completely changed and I’m having a hard time adjusting to it. I’ve also been comparing my accomplishments. I am not where i want to be in life and I’m a single mother so i really have been beating myself up about life right now. Thanks for this!
i am right there with you sis when it comes to the post-baby body. II've had to remind myself sooo often that this is the skin I'm in & not hers. I'm so glad this can leave you feeling encouraged because you are RIGHT where you're supposed to be
I appreciate my mom's patience and her faith to allow God to take control. Not once, have I seen her force her will in a situation but always approached it in prayer and in submission. I know patience is something I struggle with, I'm really grateful that God has allowed me to be a witness to it.
My husband is really good at talking to cashiers, workmen, etc. and making connections with them. I'm friendly, but I'm still on a mission to complete the transaction, lol. I admire that he can break through that wall and end up on a first name basis with people.
My older sister has always been someone I deeply admire for her bubbly personality, upbeat spirit and genuine friendliness. The way she shines God’s light through every interaction she has with others leaves them feeling refreshed and inspired, which also inspires me to shine His light in my own life. I sometimes fall into negative thoughts of comparing my personality and gifts to hers, but this video was the gentle reminder I needed to restructure my comparison and see her and myself as the unique daughters we are. Thank you for this tool, I already know how much freedom and encouragement it’s going to bring to my life and so many others’ lives!❤
I appreciate my mom’s wisdom. I feel like she always knows what to do in every situation whereas I am always doubting myself. And even when she does not know what to do, she is able to consult with God & get the answer she needs. It’s my favourite thing about her 🥰
My friend is very generous and I admire that about her. One time I was sick and she made me soup from scratch and traveled 50 mins to deliver it to me 🥲 I’ll never forget that!
My brother is super kind and caring. He's highly favored too, I see different ways God uses people and situations to bless him. People also seem to like him more than they do me, but that honestly because of his kind personality. I'm more quiet and closed off. Thank you for this video Melody, from watching this, I pray God will highlight versions of me that are in line with the parts of my brother I love.
My mother’s great ambition towards life, despite things not going the direction she wants it to be, she doesn’t let it stop her from seeking to achieve more and do more
With one of my best friends: I appreciate her spirituality and strong faith she exudes. She’s had a lot of trials but her faith in God is so encouraging and just makes me continue to want every blessing to flow to her. She truly is a pillar of strength even when she may not feel like it. Another bestie of mine: I admire the follow through in her plans to own her on health clinic. To see her elevate and educate herself to be able to go into business for herself and have her on health clinic is truly admirable. I struggle with follow through so being able to have someone in my life that I can continue to look up to is truly a blessing!
My mother's gentleness and kindness toward others. No matter the situation she is kind with her words and loving! I desire to be that way at all times even in the midst of disappointment.
I have so many people I think I need to message. Comparison is something God made me conscious of last month. It's been a life long habit. On this page: I appreciate my close friend Lilian's beautiful long hair, and her ability to accept and be friendly to everyone she comes across, myself included.
I've fallen into the not so good side of comparison, and its lead to jealousy and alot of other negative things. Thank you so much for thie video Melody! Its helping me break out of this rut.
I personally admire not just one person, but the circle of people that I have in my life. Whether it may be my friends or family honestly are all of them are self-driven. I admire that they are able to go after what they want and use discouragement or disappointment as motivation💕. I'm also grateful that we are able to encourage each other in pushing more whether in our careers or studying etc. I would say that it is more than enough motivation for me to keep going and to strive even more.
My older sister has always been recognized for her beauty while everyone used to judge. So I started to compare myself to her and envy her because everyone treats her so well because of her beauty while everyone treats me so bad. But now started I started my relationship with God I’m thankful for her beauty and confidence that God gave her and I’m trying to love myself even if I got a long way to go and I try to only seek God approbation not the world ❤🙏🏾
Melody when I tell you this video couldn’t have come at a more perfect time I mean that. I’ve been comparing myself to others a lot more lately and I have to be reminded that everyone’s journey is special to them.
There is comparison and there is when you are genuinely minding your business and someone who knows your situation and your lack but chooses to complain or brag about how they have the exact thing you are desiring.
I find myself comparing my content to other people who are in a similar subject group as me. I am choosing to be grateful that God provided gifts to other people to share the Good News to their realm of people. Luke 10:2 says "the harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few." I am grateful for the people who chose to walk into what God called them to. I am also comforted by the fact that "the harvest is plentiful". There is enough work out here for ALL of us to do with the gifts that God gave us to do it. Thank you for this video.
The one thing that my mother hounded me about was: having enthusiasm. Now, when I asked Google what was the definition of it, as an adult; I was like: uh-huh, coo but then I was like I'm enthused about medicine and helping people. I was enthused about going to high school because I knew what school I wanted to go to, to help me achieve fuel the kind of enthusiasm I had for medicine. Never happened. I was miserable at the school that I was forced to attend. However, the Biology and Chemistry teacher I had were dope! Years later, I went for an open house at a nursing school and I felt I was so joyful, that I felt like my voice was crying but tears of joy. Now I have to study for the entrance exam because I love how joyful I am when I talk to my patients. My daily prayer is to be more like Jesus Christ: loving, but firm.
Hello Melody, I am from Belgium. Just a word: thank you ! Thank you for this sharing, this very edifying and blessed advice. Recently I had let a lot of comparison invade me, whether it was with my work colleagues, friends or other people on the networks. I understand that I need to work on my uniqueness, put to work what God has put in me, be proud of who I am and know how to appreciate and learn from the qualities of others and not feel inferior to them. We are all useful in this world. Diversity comes from God. Que Dieu te bénisse ma soeur 🙏 Bisous de la Belgique 😘
I love this, but I also think it’s important to recognize your own gifts in the process. I absolutely love this advice and will apply it to my life, but I think a lot of people are genuinely struggling with not thinking God has a purpose for them. This is something that I’m working on daily and as a black women who’s experienced hardships, trauma, etc, it’s necessary to tap into this. Appreciate others but also know that you are also gifted, beautiful, etc. i saw some comments about people feeling insecure about their looks compared to someone else. Work on your uniqueness and ask God to reveal your true beauty to you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
My sister and literally all of my best friends are incredibly organized and great planners. I am grateful I have a variety of people that I can learn how to organize my goals, wants and needs from.
Filled with so much gratitude for this video because I am on a social media break because of so much comparison I’ve been doing. I’ve been saying like I’m not a hater God what’s going on lol love this thanks sis…. & God also showed me not to idolize those who do not seek him! So that made it easier to begin to shift my focus
One of my close friends she has such a way with words especially when dealing with conflict and communicating gracefully and kindly. She has inspired me to be better at handling conflict and working to do it in a way that reflects Gods heart. I personally have always avoided tough conversations but she encourages me to speak up and not be fearful but to trust God in the outcome.
I’m really glad I can witness my mom’s hospitality. She is very willing to help others in need even if she is tired or doesn’t feel like it. I’ll take your dare lol and I’ll try telling her
Hi Melody! I'm so glad I stumbled upon your channel. I love this! I have a co-worker that I tell all the time that I admire her ability to give to others even when she knows they won't use it well....whatever she's giving. I strive to be that type of giver in my faith walk. I find that I can give like that with certain people, but not all. My prayer daily is that God will renew a right spirit in me because I want to be in his likeness.
Thank you for the video❣ Both my brothers have always been so confident in themselves, or at least it appears that way. They are also driven and have an optimistic mindset about life. I admire these qualities so much because I'm trying to step out of this insecurity that I've had for most of my life or fear of things going wrong.
Q: What is one characteristic of someone close in my life that I am grateful to experience or witness? A: So there are actually two close sisters in Christ that I believe God put into my life for a special reason! My first sister would be my dear friend Janet, I honestly just admire how much self discipline she has! It is something that I am grateful that God has allowed me to witness, she is able to balance out things like her job, school work, work, time for her passions, but most importantly she puts God first above it all. Every time I see her I wonder how and this video really brought to mind that it is because of Jesus Christ and how he is our first example of what it means to live by the fruits of the Spirit. I am very encouraged every time I see my sister and I love her genuine pursuit for Christ 💕💕 My other sister is Ty and when I tell you she knows how TO WAR !! My goodness!!! I am always encouraged by her determination to fight and never give up, when the enemy tries to mess with her she comes back 10 times stronger. She pushes through and has such a true genuine worship, even when she’s having a tough week or going through. She never lets her circumstances distract her from God’s truth, instead she leans and presses more into God. You can feel the fire she has when she prays and it is such an encouragement as well. And she is like a big sister we all need, she never leaves and War on your behalf, when you don’t have the words to utter she does. And she’s such a true friend, her loyalty runs deep and so does her love 💕 I know they probably won’t ever see this, but I hope they know that I am so grateful each and everyday that God has placed them in my life and I can’t wait for what God has in store for them!! It will be well worth it and just seeing their daily genuine pursuit for Jesus has really pushed me to seek him more with my whole entire heart and I Thank the Lord for their lives 💕💕
Hey everyone! So I have a very close friend of mine and one characteristic that I admire about them is their determination and discipline! No matter what is happening in their life they don't give up and they have the discipline to do the things that are right no matter how hard it may be! I am thankful to God for placing them in my life so that they can help me grow and develop in that area of my life. I use to question God and ask why can't I be like so and so but now God has changed my mindset and I am just grateful for the opportunity for them to share their gifts and talents with me and I with them so that we can both spiritually grow.
I love my mom! She encourages me so much and sometimes it's hard not to compare myself to her in a way that is making me feel lesser than when she is able to live life without being super hard on herself.
Thank you, Melody, I needed this 🙏🏼 survived an accident and I'm grateful to God so very much today I started thinking why do people have to enjoy their life and I have to go through this suffering? I will not compare but be grateful and learn
Ironically enough today is my bestie's birthday. Not even 5 minutes into this video I messaged her and told her what I was grateful for that I get to see and experience coming from her and her lifestyle. I used to struggle with comparison but I learned to admire those traits and gifting where compassion wants to be riddled up and to give people their flowers. You've done a great job at reminding me to keep doing this when the struggle can be real at some moments.
Hello Melody! I definitely needed to listen/watch this. I am so blessed to find your channel. 🙏🏼 I compare myself to people my age. My family call me a miracle, I had a brain surgery 3 yrs ago bc I had epilepsy and after that surgery I stopped having seizures. I am now 19. When I was a teen I had to focus on my health compared to people my age that went to parties, making friends etc. I had to get mature fast. It was my own decision to have the surgery. Also I was homeschooled. I was always watched by my family To this day I compare myself to young adults that moved out and went to college and people that are getting engaged. This my start to be independent. This is my start to even learn how to drive . I pray I will stop having depression and doing comparison. I pray I am following God's plans for me.. I have to remind myself God gots me. 🙏🏼❤️
Thank you so much for this 💕 To start off with, my best friends ability to work hard. He's so driven and devoted its amazing. And now the deep stuff, I'm currently struggling with comparison and envy all tied up with regret. I missed a great opportunity because I didn't care as much and now I do. It's a lot to currently stomach but this has helped in a way. Thank you once more.
Not Melody coming for my neck. Thanks for this,MELODY. Only yesterday I broke down thinking about how stuck I feel in life. Its as if things not moving. And Sis don't get me started on the emotional growing pain... in a season where friends seems to be leaving...etc
I know I’ve been comparing myself a lot of people who are ahead of me in their relationships with God. And it kind of discourages me sometimes. It’s also hard to see so many kids my age or younger doing better than me.
Hi Melody! I just found your channel yesterday and I want to thank you for making this video - I needed the encouragement. The video made me think about my parents and how God's love shows through them. My dad is very patient and invested in others, always wanting to cater to their needs in a practical sense, so he is loved by many people that interact with him. My mum is the 'take charge' lady who is strong willed and has great faith and discipline. She may sound blunt at times, but she is a hard worker who never gives up on people and their wellbeing. So yes, differences are great and show God's unique design for everyone's life.
Thank you so much for this video sis ❤ I have been comparing myself alot to people’s achievements and I ask myself everyday “when will I get there”? I feel so hurt at times, giving me a low self esteem.
This video is so relevant and your points are exactly what I’ve been feeling and reminding myself about comparison. It’s SO easy to do it in a way that’s not best for us spiritually or mentally. I recently told a friend how admire that she has strong relationships with her young church members and how I want that whenever I go to physical church. You hit a very good point into flipping that into inspiration.
i'm so glad this resonated with you Giania! By you sharing that with your friend it sounds like you're already well on your way to letting comparison ADD to your joy
I can’t believe how much you are in the vain for the past few weeks! Every week I see your caption and I am blown how you are truly allowing the Lord to use you!! Stay in him!! Stay consistent sis!!🫶🏽
Hey Melody, thank you for this video. If you’re willing to give me some advice for tip 2. sometimes it’s hard for me to openly share where I feel to help my friends with them without feeling like I’m judging them or even after feeling that I could’ve expressed it better . Let me know if anybody else struggles with this as well & how do you go about it. Thank you in advance 💕
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Hey, sis! Today’s question is all about flipping the script on comparison and stepping into FREEDOM! The question is: what is one characteristic or quality of someone close to you that you are grateful you’re able to experience or witness? This might be sometime that before video you felt a little “less than” in comparison - but let’s flip it and use comparison to fuel our joy and inspire us instead of steal from us. *BONUS* message this person and tell them the characteristic you admire about them! 🤍🤍
For me: i truly appreciate the way my cousin authentically radiates joy and positivity. She’s sooo great with people and it’s something in the past I’ve compared myself against but no longer. I’ve asked God to highlight and develop within me MY VERSION of these same characteristics! & I’m going to text her this now ❤
One characteristic or quality I am able to experience from my daughter is her ability to decorate a room and her anointing to find a good deal when shopping the retail stores 😊
I am grateful for an acquaintance of mine that has a servant’s heart. They enjoy giving their time and energy to those in need.
Mine would be my mom faith... the way she just trust, give hope. One day I hope to be so strong in trusting God.
I admire my daughter's boldness n conviction to stand in what she believes in, although sometimes to her detriment. I'm grateful that God is showing me how to open myself also to this quality.
Hey, Melody! Hi from Georgia :D. I'm Chloe, and as of now, I'm 16. I'm really struggling in my walk of faith and have been for a while due to bad habits and things I need to break off in my life. Finding your channel has really encouraged me and through God, you have inspired me! I really appreciate you!
This is so amazing Chloe! It’s great to see someone so young doing her best to live for God! We are rooting you on girlie, but most importantly I’m sure God is rooting even louder! 💙
Being a light at 16 probably is not the easiest, but keep the faith and keep pursing Jesus…..know you will make mistakes and experience trying times…but God will truly always be with you! (This is coming from someone who became Christian at 18….I’m 28 now) so I know a thing or two lol…. But anywho, keep the faith 💕
Wow hi!!! I'm 15. it's awesome to see other teenagers interested in pursuing God!
Amen!!! Thanks for sharing! It’s important to be authentic and not try to be someone else (in the body of Christ)! I admire a couple of people of faith (and I tell them). I appreciate how they handle the gifts that God has given them and I ask God to use me for His Purpose based on who I’am. God bless His children🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
hey Chloe, I'm 17 and having been with God going on 2 years. I understand what you're going through! I'm praying for you and here if you need anything❤️
My mom’s selflessness, no matter how many times people disappoint her, she’ll still be there for them. I love that about her
Indeed not all comparison is bad if we are inspired to be better. Much needed topic!
Yesss!! It’s necessary in the body of Christ but when we don’t compare properly that’s we’re the slippery slope to jealousy, envy and frustration come into play!
I definitely agree 👌👌💯
My friend is so confident and I have always compared myself to her. I am thankful to have her as a good friend and to show me and help me to love myself.
what a blessing!!
I'm often reminded of my almost 4 year old daughter's forgiveness. I am not a perfect mom. I pray to be abundant in the fruits of the spirit. Until then, I've been reminded of my daughter's forgiveness. And admire that in her.
Needed this video! I’ve been comparing myself so much to what i see on on social media, when i know the majority of it is fake. But, I’ve just had a baby abs my body has completely changed and I’m having a hard time adjusting to it. I’ve also been comparing my accomplishments. I am not where i want to be in life and I’m a single mother so i really have been beating myself up about life right now. Thanks for this!
i am right there with you sis when it comes to the post-baby body. II've had to remind myself sooo often that this is the skin I'm in & not hers. I'm so glad this can leave you feeling encouraged because you are RIGHT where you're supposed to be
@@MelodyAlisa thank you so much!!! Continue being awesome ❤️ God bless!
i understand that social media comparison
Please don’t even get caught up in that especially given you’ve given life! And take social breaks when needed
I appreciate my mom's patience and her faith to allow God to take control. Not once, have I seen her force her will in a situation but always approached it in prayer and in submission. I know patience is something I struggle with, I'm really grateful that God has allowed me to be a witness to it.
When i get tempted like Jesus did, I was taught to fight back with the word of GOD. Thank God for being God 💕🥰. Thanks for this wonderful video
My husband is really good at talking to cashiers, workmen, etc. and making connections with them. I'm friendly, but I'm still on a mission to complete the transaction, lol. I admire that he can break through that wall and end up on a first name basis with people.
i love this!! i can relate - my husband is similar!! it truly is a gift.
My older sister has always been someone I deeply admire for her bubbly personality, upbeat spirit and genuine friendliness. The way she shines God’s light through every interaction she has with others leaves them feeling refreshed and inspired, which also inspires me to shine His light in my own life. I sometimes fall into negative thoughts of comparing my personality and gifts to hers, but this video was the gentle reminder I needed to restructure my comparison and see her and myself as the unique daughters we are. Thank you for this tool, I already know how much freedom and encouragement it’s going to bring to my life and so many others’ lives!❤
One characteristic about my friend that I admire is the way she loves her enemies. She prays for them and forgives without thinking twice about it! 😇🤗
I appreciate my mom’s wisdom. I feel like she always knows what to do in every situation whereas I am always doubting myself. And even when she does not know what to do, she is able to consult with God & get the answer she needs. It’s my favourite thing about her 🥰
Love this!
My friend is very generous and I admire that about her. One time I was sick and she made me soup from scratch and traveled 50 mins to deliver it to me 🥲 I’ll never forget that!
OMG she is an angel!! how beautiful to be able to experience this type of generosity
@@MelodyAlisa Yes, I am so grateful for her!
My brother is super kind and caring. He's highly favored too, I see different ways God uses people and situations to bless him. People also seem to like him more than they do me, but that honestly because of his kind personality. I'm more quiet and closed off. Thank you for this video Melody, from watching this, I pray God will highlight versions of me that are in line with the parts of my brother I love.
My mother’s great ambition towards life, despite things not going the direction she wants it to be, she doesn’t let it stop her from seeking to achieve more and do more
With one of my best friends: I appreciate her spirituality and strong faith she exudes. She’s had a lot of trials but her faith in God is so encouraging and just makes me continue to want every blessing to flow to her. She truly is a pillar of strength even when she may not feel like it.
Another bestie of mine: I admire the follow through in her plans to own her on health clinic. To see her elevate and educate herself to be able to go into business for herself and have her on health clinic is truly admirable. I struggle with follow through so being able to have someone in my life that I can continue to look up to is truly a blessing!
I admire the absolute trust in God that a close friend of mine has. It's inspirational for me when my faith waivers.
Nice one sis, could you build further on this with maybe topics on insecurity and jealousy?
love this idea, I definitely can!
@@MelodyAlisa Yes please, would love to hear more on the topic of jealousy & insecurity ;)
This is good because insecurity is usually the root of comparison
My mother's gentleness and kindness toward others. No matter the situation she is kind with her words and loving! I desire to be that way at all times even in the midst of disappointment.
I have so many people I think I need to message. Comparison is something God made me conscious of last month. It's been a life long habit. On this page: I appreciate my close friend Lilian's beautiful long hair, and her ability to accept and be friendly to everyone she comes across, myself included.
I've fallen into the not so good side of comparison, and its lead to jealousy and alot of other negative things. Thank you so much for thie video Melody! Its helping me break out of this rut.
I personally admire not just one person, but the circle of people that I have in my life. Whether it may be my friends or family honestly are all of them are self-driven. I admire that they are able to go after what they want and use discouragement or disappointment as motivation💕. I'm also grateful that we are able to encourage each other in pushing more whether in our careers or studying etc. I would say that it is more than enough motivation for me to keep going and to strive even more.
My older sister has always been recognized for her beauty while everyone used to judge. So I started to compare myself to her and envy her because everyone treats her so well because of her beauty while everyone treats me so bad. But now started I started my relationship with God I’m thankful for her beauty and confidence that God gave her and I’m trying to love myself even if I got a long way to go and I try to only seek God approbation not the world ❤🙏🏾
Melody when I tell you this video couldn’t have come at a more perfect time I mean that. I’ve been comparing myself to others a lot more lately and I have to be reminded that everyone’s journey is special to them.
I feel the same, her video topics are always on point
so glad this is meeting you where you are, sis!!
I feel as though sometimes as humans we do compare but we can also acknowledge that sometimes others can inspire us!
We can also inspire others as well🌸
I just love watching your vids. They’re so calming and peaceful. I love having people who point me to God. Thankyou 🧡
Wow. I definitely needed this. My faith was so low bc I feel like things are moving so slow for me.
I admire my parents' relationship with God and their wisdom about the Bible. It's one of the reasons I'm walking with Christ now!
There is comparison and there is when you are genuinely minding your business and someone who knows your situation and your lack but chooses to complain or brag about how they have the exact thing you are desiring.
I find myself comparing my content to other people who are in a similar subject group as me. I am choosing to be grateful that God provided gifts to other people to share the Good News to their realm of people. Luke 10:2 says "the harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few." I am grateful for the people who chose to walk into what God called them to. I am also comforted by the fact that "the harvest is plentiful". There is enough work out here for ALL of us to do with the gifts that God gave us to do it. Thank you for this video.
Amen
The one thing that my mother hounded me about was: having enthusiasm.
Now, when I asked Google what was the definition of it, as an adult; I was like: uh-huh, coo but then I was like I'm enthused about medicine and helping people. I was enthused about going to high school because I knew what school I wanted to go to, to help me achieve fuel the kind of enthusiasm I had for medicine. Never happened. I was miserable at the school that I was forced to attend. However, the Biology and Chemistry teacher I had were dope!
Years later, I went for an open house at a nursing school and I felt I was so joyful, that I felt like my voice was crying but tears of joy. Now I have to study for the entrance exam because I love how joyful I am when I talk to my patients. My daily prayer is to be more like Jesus Christ: loving, but firm.
Hello Melody, I am from Belgium.
Just a word: thank you ! Thank you for this sharing, this very edifying and blessed advice. Recently I had let a lot of comparison invade me, whether it was with my work colleagues, friends or other people on the networks. I understand that I need to work on my uniqueness, put to work what God has put in me, be proud of who I am and know how to appreciate and learn from the qualities of others and not feel inferior to them. We are all useful in this world. Diversity comes from God.
Que Dieu te bénisse ma soeur 🙏 Bisous de la Belgique 😘
I love this, but I also think it’s important to recognize your own gifts in the process. I absolutely love this advice and will apply it to my life, but I think a lot of people are genuinely struggling with not thinking God has a purpose for them. This is something that I’m working on daily and as a black women who’s experienced hardships, trauma, etc, it’s necessary to tap into this. Appreciate others but also know that you are also gifted, beautiful, etc. i saw some comments about people feeling insecure about their looks compared to someone else. Work on your uniqueness and ask God to reveal your true beauty to you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
My sister and literally all of my best friends are incredibly organized and great planners. I am grateful I have a variety of people that I can learn how to organize my goals, wants and needs from.
One of my sister’s in Christ is soooo sweet, like sweet in the way of being humble and patient and optimistic. I thank God for her liiiife!
Filled with so much gratitude for this video because I am on a social media break because of so much comparison I’ve been doing. I’ve been saying like I’m not a hater God what’s going on lol love this thanks sis…. & God also showed me not to idolize those who do not seek him! So that made it easier to begin to shift my focus
One of my close friends she has such a way with words especially when dealing with conflict and communicating gracefully and kindly. She has inspired me to be better at handling conflict and working to do it in a way that reflects Gods heart. I personally have always avoided tough conversations but she encourages me to speak up and not be fearful but to trust God in the outcome.
Glad you're feeling better!! Love this video!! Thank you ❤️
thank you!! i am to!
I’m really glad I can witness my mom’s hospitality. She is very willing to help others in need even if she is tired or doesn’t feel like it. I’ll take your dare lol and I’ll try telling her
I appreciate how beautiful those around me sing because I get to experience their praise to God and talents and they are willing to teach me more :)
You are truly led by the Holy Spirit, your video topics are always on point
I admire my little sisters determination. She is such a hard worker and doesnt give up when she's challenged ❤️
Hi Melody! I'm so glad I stumbled upon your channel. I love this! I have a co-worker that I tell all the time that I admire her ability to give to others even when she knows they won't use it well....whatever she's giving. I strive to be that type of giver in my faith walk. I find that I can give like that with certain people, but not all. My prayer daily is that God will renew a right spirit in me because I want to be in his likeness.
I absolutely love these videos, thank you so much Melody for this word of encouragement . May God continue to bless you and use you 🤍
Thank you for the video❣
Both my brothers have always been so confident in themselves, or at least it appears that way. They are also driven and have an optimistic mindset about life. I admire these qualities so much because I'm trying to step out of this insecurity that I've had for most of my life or fear of things going wrong.
Q: What is one characteristic of someone close in my life that I am grateful to experience or witness?
A: So there are actually two close sisters in Christ that I believe God put into my life for a special reason! My first sister would be my dear friend Janet, I honestly just admire how much self discipline she has! It is something that I am grateful that God has allowed me to witness, she is able to balance out things like her job, school work, work, time for her passions, but most importantly she puts God first above it all. Every time I see her I wonder how and this video really brought to mind that it is because of Jesus Christ and how he is our first example of what it means to live by the fruits of the Spirit. I am very encouraged every time I see my sister and I love her genuine pursuit for Christ 💕💕
My other sister is Ty and when I tell you she knows how TO WAR !! My goodness!!! I am always encouraged by her determination to fight and never give up, when the enemy tries to mess with her she comes back 10 times stronger. She pushes through and has such a true genuine worship, even when she’s having a tough week or going through. She never lets her circumstances distract her from God’s truth, instead she leans and presses more into God. You can feel the fire she has when she prays and it is such an encouragement as well. And she is like a big sister we all need, she never leaves and War on your behalf, when you don’t have the words to utter she does. And she’s such a true friend, her loyalty runs deep and so does her love 💕
I know they probably won’t ever see this, but I hope they know that I am so grateful each and everyday that God has placed them in my life and I can’t wait for what God has in store for them!! It will be well worth it and just seeing their daily genuine pursuit for Jesus has really pushed me to seek him more with my whole entire heart and I Thank the Lord for their lives 💕💕
They can see it, all you have to do is Text them this exact message!
@@shemyrabaptiste3911 you’re right !! I was hesitant at first but I ended up sending it too them! I hope you have a great rest of your day :)
Hey everyone! So I have a very close friend of mine and one characteristic that I admire about them is their determination and discipline! No matter what is happening in their life they don't give up and they have the discipline to do the things that are right no matter how hard it may be! I am thankful to God for placing them in my life so that they can help me grow and develop in that area of my life. I use to question God and ask why can't I be like so and so but now God has changed my mindset and I am just grateful for the opportunity for them to share their gifts and talents with me and I with them so that we can both spiritually grow.
I love my mom! She encourages me so much and sometimes it's hard not to compare myself to her in a way that is making me feel lesser than when she is able to live life without being super hard on herself.
Thank you, Melody, I needed this 🙏🏼 survived an accident and I'm grateful to God so very much today I started thinking why do people have to enjoy their life and I have to go through this suffering? I will not compare but be grateful and learn
Ironically enough today is my bestie's birthday.
Not even 5 minutes into this video I messaged her and told her what I was grateful for that I get to see and experience coming from her and her lifestyle. I used to struggle with comparison but I learned to admire those traits and gifting where compassion wants to be riddled up and to give people their flowers.
You've done a great job at reminding me to keep doing this when the struggle can be real at some moments.
I love your perspective! Thank you for sharing !
My mom’s diligence…I need that 😅
Hi Melody, thank you for sharing-you share soooooooo well resonates with me!!!!!!!! Hope you r much better
These are great perspectives 🙌🏾❤️
Thank you melody❤️
Hello Melody! I definitely needed to listen/watch this. I am so blessed to find your channel. 🙏🏼 I compare myself to people my age. My family call me a miracle, I had a brain surgery 3 yrs ago bc I had epilepsy and after that surgery I stopped having seizures. I am now 19. When I was a teen I had to focus on my health compared to people my age that went to parties, making friends etc. I had to get mature fast. It was my own decision to have the surgery. Also I was homeschooled. I was always watched by my family To this day I compare myself to young adults that moved out and went to college and people that are getting engaged. This my start to be independent. This is my start to even learn how to drive . I pray I will stop having depression and doing comparison. I pray I am following God's plans for me.. I have to remind myself God gots me. 🙏🏼❤️
I love it. If we aren't going to get away from comparison (realistically - yeah, we aren't), then at least use it wisely.
I appreciate the meekness of one of my colleagues. I sometimes get impatient when people are rude, but she doesn't.
such a beautiful thing to admire!
Thank you so much for this 💕
To start off with, my best friends ability to work hard. He's so driven and devoted its amazing.
And now the deep stuff, I'm currently struggling with comparison and envy all tied up with regret. I missed a great opportunity because I didn't care as much and now I do. It's a lot to currently stomach but this has helped in a way. Thank you once more.
Not Melody coming for my neck. Thanks for this,MELODY.
Only yesterday I broke down thinking about how stuck I feel in life. Its as if things not moving.
And Sis don't get me started on the emotional growing pain... in a season where friends seems to be leaving...etc
Exactly what I needed today
My sister can make any space super clean. I learn from her how to be consistently ordered to maintain a clean home
love this! go, sis! what an awesome thing to witness up close.
*Comparison is a thief of joy.*
I know I’ve been comparing myself a lot of people who are ahead of me in their relationships with God. And it kind of discourages me sometimes. It’s also hard to see so many kids my age or younger doing better than me.
I also compare myself to other people and question god why I’m in the same place etc
This was a great topic to speak on because a lot of us struggle with this , me included! thank you for sharing 👏🏽♥️
Thank you for this approach to handle comparison, so lovely to learn.❤️
Literally going through this right now . I compare myself TOO MUCH
Hi Melody! I just found your channel yesterday and I want to thank you for making this video - I needed the encouragement.
The video made me think about my parents and how God's love shows through them. My dad is very patient and invested in others, always wanting to cater to their needs in a practical sense, so he is loved by many people that interact with him. My mum is the 'take charge' lady who is strong willed and has great faith and discipline. She may sound blunt at times, but she is a hard worker who never gives up on people and their wellbeing.
So yes, differences are great and show God's unique design for everyone's life.
This is so good! 💛
thank you, sis!
Great video
Thank you so much for this video sis ❤
I have been comparing myself alot to people’s achievements and I ask myself everyday “when will I get there”? I feel so hurt at times, giving me a low self esteem.
This video is so relevant and your points are exactly what I’ve been feeling and reminding myself about comparison. It’s SO easy to do it in a way that’s not best for us spiritually or mentally. I recently told a friend how admire that she has strong relationships with her young church members and how I want that whenever I go to physical church. You hit a very good point into flipping that into inspiration.
i'm so glad this resonated with you Giania! By you sharing that with your friend it sounds like you're already well on your way to letting comparison ADD to your joy
It’s very easy for it to become negative. It’s something I’m constantly working on.
Hey melody idk if you will see this or not, but could you do a video on the gifts of the spirit? And what they look like
I can’t believe how much you are in the vain for the past few weeks! Every week I see your caption and I am blown how you are truly allowing the Lord to use you!! Stay in him!! Stay consistent sis!!🫶🏽
Excellent video! 🤍 Such words of wisdom!
Do you edit your own videos? They look so good! 🤩
I agree! But I remember in one of her comments she said she has an editor and they use Adobe premiere I think!
You are GOOD @Tamar!! That is correct! My editor's name is Marcos (check him out here! www.behance.net/markberumen) and he edits out of Abode!
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You look so beautiful the outfit and hair is so perfect 😍
aww you're so sweet, thank you so much!
Hey Melody, thank you for this video. If you’re willing to give me some advice for tip 2. sometimes it’s hard for me to openly share where I feel to help my friends with them without feeling like I’m judging them or even after feeling that I could’ve expressed it better . Let me know if anybody else struggles with this as well & how do you go about it. Thank you in advance 💕
It definitely is. :(
Melody where do you shop for shirts? They are always so dainty and cute 😍
aww thank you so much! This on is actually a dress from PinkBlush! I wore it for my maternity photos last year and its still cute now even PP!
Hey Melody 💙
Hey sis!
Hello
Hey hey!
Thank you so much for today's video 🤍
of course!! so happy to be back. thank you for being here!
@@MelodyAlisa I’m glad to be here