Reclaim Your Self Worth
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 พ.ย. 2024
- Most of us will experience some degree of insecurity or inadequacy in life.. the feeling of not being enough.. feelings as if we may have little or no value. What does it mean to have self worth, and how might we reclaim it?
"Self Worth comes from one thing; thinking that you are worthy."
Wayne W. Dyer
"Owning our worthiness is the act of acknowledging that we are sacred."
Brene Brown
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Others perception of you is not a reflection of you, it is a reflection of them.
So true! ❣️
@@gioovannabp yeah, that's pretty much it🌠🌞
So much this!💗
So im starving, not him
Nice😘
It seems that people have this inherent desire to be likeable and appreciated by everyone. The need for validation is strong among humans and we tend to think that if we're not validated by everyone, then it means that there's something we need to fix about ourselves. But it's important to realize that our mere existence makes it so that not everyone will like us and honestly, that's fine. It really doesn't matter.
This is just not true, Future. Neither validation nor being liked forces anyone to fix stuff unless we think it needs fixing.
Today, I was waiting in the doctor's office looking out the window and watching the traffic. Do you know that nothing that happened in the five minutes I was watching was predictable. None of the movements or length of time of the stopping, or idiosyncrasies of the pedestrians. How traffic turned left was infinitely different. Starting after the light turned green, slowing down and stopping at the red light etc. this was all different. Did you know that the blown bubbles all move at different speeds, directions and trajectories? When we average all out we say that wind is moving at x mph in a certain direction. But really each molecule of air has its own energy level, heat level and direction. It's next to impossible to validate what you can't predict. You CAN marvel at this, though.
@@howardcohen6817 Future is saying the exact opposite of this.
@@sandycarter5300 Well, Future's speech was ambivalent saying first that some desires are inherent and strong and that reality shows us that this isn't especially important. But I don't agree that I'm particularly looking for validation - I'm just looking to hear you and to be heard. Sandy, don't you feel that I heard you in your taking exception to what I wrote? Do you feel that I took your comment as an attack? on me?
Thanks, though, for wanting to set me straight on what Future wrote. I'm grateful. Love.
@@howardcohen6817 sooo you’re not looking for validation but you’d like to be heard… seems like splitting hairs here; wanting to be heard means you’d like to feel a sense of validation… and there’s nothing wrong with that… we all need to feel loved, appreciated and important to the people in our lives… anyhoo, much love ..
@@stephaniecallahan5356 I don't agree with your assessment, Stephanie. Hearing and being heard is necessary to take proper action and is the basis for common understanding. It is neither proving that I am a good person, nor even that I exist (which is what I think of when using the term "validation"). It's quite the opposite. I validate reality and don't misuse reality - yours or anyone else's - to validate me. I am already convinced that I exist. Thanks for your love. Love.
I'm such an introvert that I don't want to be on anyone's radar, then I get sad because no one thinks of me or invites me to stuff. I self sabotage myself. Its annoying. Thanks for the video.
What are the advantages of being an introvert?
I'm like that too. Many hugs
@@howardcohen6817 I like that I don't need a lot of attention and I'm not addicted to drama. 🤷♀️
@@erinsuzy613 Thank you for the answer, erinsuzy.
Awareness is the first step towards change ✌
There will always be somebody who can’t see your worth, don’t let that somebody be you.
- peace and love from a growing youtuber ✌🏽💚
we must follow a lot of the same people 🤗
Maybe the herd mentality. It works for some species
...safety in numbers prhaps
Right On Cuzinz 🌠🌞
Endlessoul - I've been noticing your comments everywhere. :) Can you tell me your top 3-5 favourite TH-camrs?
Never rely on someone else's perception of our worth.....it will always be less than what you're actually worth.
Needed to hear this today after being suddenly discarded for no apparent reason, thank you.
Hope you’re feeling better… sending love ❤️
Hope u are better.
What u need can't be discarded, only whats bad for u.
Sending 🥰🥰🙏
The same thing happened to me recently,but you know what,I now dont let it bother me
sometimes rejection is protection ❤️
You can be the juiciest, most plump peach in the bunch, and there will always be someone who doesn't like peaches.
The most difficult aspect of self worth for me is as a parent. I did my best to raise kind, ethical people. I routinely go out of my way to help while not interfering and get treated as though I'm invisible...until they need a favor . It saddens me that my adult children are self centered, materialistic, but I keep my thoughts to myself, but it weighs heavily on me.
Just my opinion .... Life will teach them what they came to Earth to learn. There is no escape route.
Listening to this for the second time today. It was so important for me, I'm definitely going to write this whole video down and listen again and again. Everyone should. ❤️
I miss your calming videos. Come back soon :)
Your wisdom and shared thughts are always welcome like a soothening medicine! Thank you Nada!
You you held my hand during my depression, thankyou for helping me getting better 💫❤️🌍
Yes!!!
We have the Power to live Authentic, Inspired, and fulfilling!!
It's easy to limit the perception of our self worth when we encounter people that don't see it in us... We have to see it in ourselves first 💕 this came in the best moment
we have to see it in ourselves and be okay with letting that be enough ❤️🙏
This is one of the best messages I’ve ever heard’ thank you 🙏
What a relief to read such interesting comments. Beautiful minds. Beautiful souls 💕
He's a very genuine person.
He's not just throwing out some daily psychobabble.
He's giving this careful consideration.
Few mins in and this is definitely needed.
Will watch fully later.
Its not me...its them...and thats ok.
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Thank you!
So true and well put.🥰👌
Whenever i see your video pop up...just by seeing thumbnail..i feel so soothing...❤️
1. Not everyone is meant/going to be your friend.
2. How someone makes you feel isn't your responsibility to manage, it is their karma that you are experiencing.
3. The mind is always fertile. Be aware of the seeds and the weeds.
4. There is no positive or negative person, only positive or negative momentum.
“You’re not for everyone & everyone is not for you”
~ Awaken Insight ~
Thank you! I’m still shocked at the people who immediately become quite horrible to me, when I simply say something that doesn’t align with their own thoughts and beliefs. I have actually had them become quite nasty to me. I would love to go to the place where people’s love is unconditional and who have open hearts and minds. It’s rough being in the area I live. I do believe in God, so I feel I have everything I need and more. God please bless everyone here!!🙏🏼❤️
Where are you?.. lease come out and share guidance when you're ready!!.. I truly miss you!!.. Sending peace and strength!!..Love!!..
this man has not posted a video in two months, I hope he's okay
Really enjoy the mood and atmosphere of your videos. :) Keep it up!
One of the most important channels on this site ❤🙏 so many blessings to you and all
Awaken insight, this is an extraordinary message that deeply touches me. I was curious about why I had chosen to receive notifications from you, and now I remember why. Your clarity, and Gentleness in sharing this wisdom Opened me right up to hearing the message. It allowed me to receive what you were saying without any resistance. I am feeling such gratitude for your generosity, and a little more empowered than I was half an hour ago before listening. Thank you
@@mickrozycki451 As we speak, I am.
Thank you for the compliment
To prove your point, this excellent video has 3 dislikes so far. You can't please everyone!
Thanks, Nada. This is actually one of my favorite channel in yt.
Your soul reminds me of how Jesus taught his disciples and treated everyone with forgiveness, loving kindness and understanding with compassion. You're so sweet⚘🌻⚘
I also like your thoughtfulness of placing your body where you are and leaving the open space of leaves 🍃 of the trees for us to see the gentle movement as we listen you, it’s pure marination soft voice and gentle leaves moving ..
Amen to that brother. Misinterpretations, unkind words, meanness, from others, is not our short comings (which I thought was in the past), but it's their shortcomings. Reclaiming self worth is so important and we must tend to it daily.
Yes, some people value the tree for the shade, others for the lumber. Value is truly subjective
While we live unconsciously with ego steering the wheel, it seems in my experience, self worth is not very high so others opinions of ourselves is more important. As we live consciously, we (I) realise that our own self worth is much more important than what others think of us. If you are living mindfully we hopefully accept things about ourselves and others. Ego still exists but not the driver, now only a passenger.
i really appreciate your talk on self worth and value. I listen to it frequently to remind myself not to look for my value and worth from other people. It is a too easy trap to fall into so thank you so much! I do not have to do anything to have worth, it is already within me.
This inability to love oneself or anyone else applies to women too. . So many times we think this is about men. Let me tell you, women everywhere are suffering from huge deficiencies in self love and i mean the good kind... Men, be sure that she really does love and care for herself b4 you give it heart... Women, can we reach out to the sisters that we see suffering in this way and build each other up? This to me is as important as the priority that we place on our romantic relations... Bc we can't keep what we have (good romantic relationships rooted in self worth) unless we are also giving it away! Love and peace to all❤️😘🌈
The one who are reading this. We all came here for a purpose. Facing a pain, struggle. We all seek mental peace and a new headstart. Wherever you guys are, may all your pain fade away. Ameen. may all of you and us will succeed one day
Thank you.
Thank you so much for your sensitive and clear talk. It has helped me understand much of my problem. I'm listening to a lot of your posts from France (I'm French). English is a second language but you speak so clearly with such a good articulation that I understand 100% . Thank you again.
You got it right. Sensitive and clear talk. So thankful for him for sharing his thoughts on self worth.
I have struggled with the knowledge that I thrive on validation. I am trying to do acts of kindness for myself and try to remember not everyone is going to like me. Being an introverted empath, I have found, can be a huge help or a huge issue. I appreciate your words and hearing them helps. Thank you for your honesty and authenticity.
Your worth is no matter what anybody says and no matter how much somebody tries to put you down. Love and light to all!
Thanks. Your examples really help understand the concepts.
I always return to you every now and again over the years. I remember when you just started your channel. You’ve helped me so much and continue to do so. Bless you!
So true! We are equally valuable and it has nothing to do with one’s status in life or other’s opinion of us. Simply because we exist; are consciously aware at some level; and possess the ability to raise higher in awareness supports our innate value. Though we are part of a collective consciousness, true awareness begins with self-self worth, self acceptance. For those who desire it, it is a life-long process to better know who and what we are while simultaneously enhancing our unique, individual and collective awareness.
Clear inspiring presentation.
The value placed on us is usually "monetary value", so yes we need to get away from that and cultivate our own sense of self worth
You are so incredibly underrated I can’t even believe it. I just found you this morning and I have almost every single one of your videos in your personal growth playlist saved to my watch later
this video resonated with me deeply. I was meant to hear your message. Thank you
I've noticed you haven't posted anything on here for some time now. I sincerely hope all is well with you and yours..and that you will be able to share your thoughts and spiritual insights with us all again soon.
Peace and love. 🌹
So great! Thank you for this reminder.
Awaken Insight🙏🏽🙋🏽♀️, bless up & ty 4 the reflective uploadz, they have helped me immensely! ❤💛💚 sending luv & light 2 U🦋💙🦋
Nice to see you again. what you have to offer has value to me
I was so excited to see this that i got a bit shaky!! Such an important and crucial topic. I remember a time when i did not feel so important. I wasn't really taught about really knowing and loving yourself. I mean, i would hear some say the words : You should love yourself," but that was the end of it. You explained it here so beautifully. I have felt quite misunderstood for most of my life. Because of my unique {from the heart} style, it seems that there have been so many that think that's all i'm about, all i talk about. I have had quite a few come up to me and say: "you look so cool!" "I wish i had the guts to do that!" And although that is fine and good, i would start feeling so alone when i would proceed to let them know that i truly dress from my heart, and go on to more meaningful conversation, and i see the wall they just put up! Everything i do comes from my heart, and that's what i want to convey with others. There have even been people that i really thought i would have a deep connection with, but all they wanted to talk about is where i got my dress, or how i did my hair the way i did. It was actually quite disturbing to me. I knew that i had so much more to offer, to put on the table. It is a very lonely feeling. But i am learning that there is a beauty within that. I had only heard about you a couple of months ago, and have already watched most of your videos. There have been some that i have watched 2 or 3 times! I have really been benefiting from them. Your kind words, your gentle voice, and your ever reaching and compassionate eyes, calm my nerves more than anything else ever has. On my journey, i am realizing more and more, that i don't need everyone to understand me, to "get me." As you said, some are just incapable. I do believe at this time in my life, i feel more "alright" with me then i ever have, and i bid thee thanks!
Very powerful and wise! Thanks
Your humility is unmatched but you can let go of the "maybe" 😅 Love you brother, Appreciate your insight and your expression of it.
What a good and powerful speech. We should never interpret other peoples’ behaviour as a critique on ourselves. Don’t bother what other people are saying. Live your own life and be happy!
Wow, feel like I've just had 10 years of therapy, thank you immensely for your work 👍❤
Where are you we are waiting for your video
Low self esteem makes many treat you even lower
I value you because I love how you explain things giving simple example and wish you keep doing this.
So many people need to hear this.
I'm glad I don't need anymore, but still glad that you are offering those words for whoever needs it.
how did you go from needing it to not needing it?
@@lindsaygonzales3598 10h/day job + workouts can do wonders to someones mind/personal world. But hey, that's my case. I've been taking care of others for long years before I got time for myself.
I love your videos!! ❤️
I feel I live in a big shadow...the best way to work with these inadequate feelings is to understand that embracing differences is what will liberate me from caring about them. I'm not just a drop of the ocean's water...I'm the whole ocean :))
I choose to be okay with me and accept others without taking the differences and/or opinions personal... sometimes some things are just a them thing and I'm alright with that.... 🙏
The journey of acceptance is a toxic environment from social media, to a job hire, to family and friends. I hate the fact that we all need some level of it in order to get somewhere in life, but some relationships/industries/popularities just require a bit much more than others. I am learning, after facing rejection ever since I was an adolescent in a much more abundance than my peers, that even if it means being alone for most of it, I have to be the best me' for my soul. Us underdogs are pushed aside for now (for now'), but in due time, the pushers and gatekeepers will have their time when they need us, .....it always comes FULL'! circle. Let's preserve ourselves for now. The outside society wants to kill the ones that are the hardest at shell. When everyone else cracks and breaks, we will be the last ones standing. Trust and Believe!
This is so timely. I really need this! Being in a sales job makes me doubt my own value. Thank you for making it so easy to understand! 🙏
i am so glad i found this Channel !!
Thank you for this most kind, and inspiring video. I have found that of all the duties we have, loving people is the only one that matters. And when you are busy loving, and trying to connect to other people, you have no choice but to see the inherent beauty in you, as is there in everything. And that makes one light. Able to float and give to the world, what they'd like to see around them. I think it so profoundly simple. All we do is love. Why go beyond that? Let us do our duty and enjoy our time on this beautiful planet.
This is an incredible post. Thank you
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The free food table analogy was so accurate!! 💓💓💓
I recently had a fallout with someone I'd been chatting to online, due to my having expressed myself in a way which was disfavorable to them. However, instead of telling me this, they choose to let it slide... and then later got mad and broke off communication. Ultimately, as I see it, there is nothing I could have done to prevent this -- I cannot read anyone's mind, especially not through text! So, I'm simply moving on with my life. It's a shame that they cannot communicate their needs, but it is completely independent of me.
Good for you for moving on shorty care face - you’d be walking on eggshells in no time if you stay 💪
I’ve experienced similar to this but it was a friend. We were very okay and while we were chatting I said that pls. do not send pictures of this particular person bec. I am not interested and suddenly she got offended she swore that she will never mentioned her and that’s it she never talk to me again.
It was not the first time that she did this. A lot of times but we will talk again because we were colleagues at work. I always feel crushed after she will stop talking to me. I wallow in sadness, blame myself for saying something that upset her. But really there is nothing bad that I did to her she just easily get offended without giving me a chance to explain or apologize whether needed or not. I am still very affected. Glad that I saw this video.
I miss you Nada. Please come back. Me and the world are waiting. Peace.
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This is all so true. Thank you! I wonder if you have been going through things like that - people not appreciating you... There's something very authentic, very heartfelt in your voice. From the heart I want to say to you: I appreciate deeply what you have to offer and the wisdom you share. Maybe you could do something about the theme of longing for a real love story dealing with the disappointment of appearing to retro for it because the environment in these days is kind of cold and casual and fifty shades of grey more than hippie...
You are a wise man. Thank you for sharing the truth.
Thank you Nada. Wonderful videos always. Many blessings to you
I had covid in feb and now have auto immune disease pots when standing it’s lead me to a spiritual path and awakening. I let go of guilt, shame, fear…. Just wanna be healthy and free
Blessings my friend
Thank you so much for sharing.
Thank you! I have been dealing with this for so long, this helps tremendously in finding my self esteem and not feeling unworthy based on someone else's opinion or emotions.
I value this youtube channel :)
Thank you for your loving insights . One love 💚
A simple yet profound message. I needed to hear this.
I kinda binge watching almost every video's. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, your truly amazing 👏
I feel more love from you on a daily basis than from anyone else in my life. Thank you, sir
I needed 2 hear this 2Day.
Thanks for sharing
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I've come to call this dude "the guy that tells me everything is going to be ok".
Always coming in just when I need you
Best video ☺️
WoW! ... tears ... Nada I really needed that conversation now. Thank You. I grew up last of the baby boomer 1964, looking up to flower children, hippies, commune culture, folk & classic rock. I've always embarrassed the peace culture. Not that it makes any difference ... Well ... It was like sitting down with John Lennon a person I really looked up to growing up, and him talking in a gentle tender calm peaceful way on an issue I've had for years. Really moving infact all your videos are moving. Perhaps, I should of said something years ago. Thank You for the lesson & the food for thought. Not that it makes any difference, I think your a really cool person! We all shine on like the moon the stars and the sun! Peace Love & Happiness! Have an Awesome Day! Thank You for the clarity & good vibes. ,' )
Thank you Nada..this was just on time...❤️
Thank u my light brother!!
You have changed my way of thinking in so many ways. Thank you 🌻
That's the whole problem, isnt it? 🔥
love it
As always, thank you for your message
Thought, even though someone might not have a car, their friend who is into fixing cars may have some other value to add to the friendship. In addition, the person without a car knows others with cars, and if their friend is great with fixing cars, the friend without a car could tell their friends if they're looking for a mechanic. Word of mouth. ❤️
You are incredible and a blessing ! God bless you profoundly ! Thank you so much as always
I've been going through my own personal patch of hell this last year , but nadas wise words are always a comfort and inspiration to help others as and when I do recover , much love !!
I'm happy that I found your videos.
So grateful to have found you completely by accident. So absolutely necessary at this time in my life when I'm trying to gain self-worth from another who devalues everything in me. You make this subject so much clearer in my confused mind, thank you 🙏
Thank you for your wisdom!
You’re such a light , thanks 🙏🏼
Thank you dear Nada for sharing your wisdom with us 💗
Your videos, especially this one, contribute to open my mind more & more, i see step by step shifts in my mind. Thank you from my heart 🌷
Thank you very much. You are so calming to listen to, very centering. Everything you say is so true. You explain things simply and thoughtfully. 🌹
Thank you, Nada.
thank you so much for the clar and concise talk. i have always had trouble finding my worth, but now i know that it is up to me to find my own worth. thanks