Leonardo DiCaprio Won’t Date Women Over 25
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- Chris and William Costello discuss Leonardo DiCaprio’s dating preferences. Why does Leo not date anyone older than 25. Is Leonardo DiCaprio taking advantage of people or a living legend? What does Evolutionary Psychology have to say about this?
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Intrasexual competition as he said it. Older women can't beat young models with their looks, so they can just shame and gaslight men for their choices until they succumb to their will. It's a hack in the system. Trying to circumvent and re-engineer, male "hypergamy".
C'mon. . . everyone knows Leo is gay and is dating his 'friend' Lukas. . .
@@rebecca.smith. wow the granny envious vile dripping out of you is insane 🤣
what is soon?
Leo knows that around the age of 27-30, women start wanting marraige and children. He obviously dosen't, so he lets the women go.
we all know most women have peaked aesthetically before 24.
He also is doing what every other man in the world would do IF HE COULD. It's like saying "Wow women who have infinite money keep buying new shoes even when they have shoes."
What a kind soul Leo is. 😂
@@zacharyiler136 you said it so clearly how men objectify women. Thank you for your honesty. 😂
@@9ramthebuffs9 and men peaked sexually at 18. They also die younger than women . So what’s your point? 😂
Even when Leo is 85, there will always be a 25 year old who will be happy to date him. He knows this. It’s just a game of perception.
apart from the luxurious lifestyle what does a 25 yr old woman find attractive about a 85 yr old ? lol no way the sex will be better than with a younger fit male unit
as they say, "knowledge is power"
Exactly. Same thing with when Hugh Hefner would be in his sixties and seventies and would be dating women in their twenties( Hefner would even date teenagers, too but that's something I draw a line at and I thought that that was really creepy).
@@JR-ju3kj yeah, I’m totally at ease with large age gaps, 20 years is totally fine. For me, 25 years of difference is pushing it at pretty much any age.
Leo will be settling down by then. I'm betting he's following the George Clooney lifestyle, so he has maybe 15-20 more years to screw around.
women: 80% of the males are not worth considering.
als women: gets pissed off when Leo does the same.
too shay 😄
but in all seriousness, what disqualifies most men for me is their mental and emotional maturity which can always be improved on. all hope is not lost :)
@@londontipton6260 generally to get to the "mental and emotional maturity" filter they have to cross many other first. Like looks and status.
@@londontipton6260 women delude themselves when they think they’re emotionally more mature than men.
@@londontipton6260 Well, that backfired! 😆
@@d3r4g45 hmm looks no. status maybe cuz that comes hand in hand usually with education. but nowadays the internet is there for everyone to work on themselves. I for one always advocated the power of reading books
"He cant attract women of his own age" Why would he care??
When you got twenty year old women chasing you, you got twice as many forty year old ones chasing you. They will invade the schools to sleep with you if you are young and demand that attention.
You can always get women your own age much easier than ones half your own age. The younger ones are more sought after and harder to get, but worth it.
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Does have to be able to do that? Wouldn't it be better for him to still attract younger women despite being much older?
Women his age have been ran down by dozens of guys and are emotionally and mentally broken. Most have kids and bunch of baggage from previous relationships.
@@xFlared It's a trap
Let's be honest here. If a 47 year old man can easily attract models between 20-25, he can blink twice and a horde of 47 year old women will form a queue waiting to date him.
Honestly I don’t blame Leo. He has the status to pick and choose whoever he wants and also these women who get with him know that as well. These are grown ass women making the choice to get with him too
They need to update the graph cos he's just dumped the last one on the list. She turned 25 two months ago😎
@Jojo Moa it's a relative statement based on the context of quantity potential within the dating pool. He didn't mean literally everyone and anyone you dummy..
Leo seems to be doing pretty ok! 😎
A woman of 25 is not a "grown ass woman." We've known for decades that the human brain is just arriving at adult maturity at age 24-25.
@Jojo Moa you can’t deny he has access to the top 5 percent of women on earth. Average men don’t have that option
I won’t date women above 25 either.
Problem is that women 25 and below won’t date me.
@WHATS-GOING-ON lolol
never date a woman who does not respect your wife - Marcus Aurelius 2022
I've generally dated younger women for most of my adult life. At 56 I'm finding women who are technically too young for me are still to old to be appealing. So I'm really just enjoying all the benefits of single life!!
Why is that the case? Lol
That’s how all the married men speak lmao
I remember in my 20s walking through the city centre and having no one giving me a second look. One day I bumped into a female friend from school and walked around with her for around an hour just catching up and I noticed how many women seemed to be checking me out.
As a girl, this never made any sense to me (esp. evolutionarily). Like why would I go after a guy who's already taken vs. one who's freely available?? Seems like a waste of time in terms of my "ticking biological clock"
true. a perverted way to value men by peer review. even more so that it becomes really hard to interact and date someone if you are already in a relationship. that is, it is, this "checking out" is mostly a waste of time for their part.
@@londontipton6260 "Mate-choice copying," when an individual finds potential partners more attractive when they have already been chosen by someone else, happens across the animal kingdom. In birds and fish species, it helps females select high-quality males, and provides an evolutionary advantage. (Basically seeing women with a man makes you attracted to that man more because subliminally you think well if she is with him then he must be a good man...) where as if you see a single dude alone you think something maybe wrong with him. That is ONE theory anyway.
@@londontipton6260 it's subconscious for the majority of women. It's a signal that this guy is around a pretty girl which indicates that his offspring will also have the ability to attract/associate with pretty girls. Every single attraction cue is a signal. Men only care if the woman is attractive, women take into account many different factors when choosing a mate.
@@d3r4g45 It just sucks that, despite being a pretty good looking guy, I'm still viewed as inherently less attractive by default by women because I've been single my whole life. It doesn't make much sense but then again the woman's perspective never made much sense to me to begin with since after high school I never really interacted with women my own age.
I’ve known my husband for 25 years. I asked him one day, would most men prefer an okay looking 25 yr old or a very attractive 40 year old. Took him half a second to respond. “The 25 yr old”.
what if its the 40 year old angelina jolie
@@armin3057 AJ is 47 so still the 25yo i would presume.
Sounds like that's simply his opinion and not fact.
@@jkinder1982 it is I prefer women who are older, less moronic games and frankly better in bed
@@armin3057 Angelina Jolie has had plastic surgery, she is an old hag now.
Realizing the seriousness of the discussion...that's a HELL of a list!
more like a HEAVEN of a list...
That’s what happens when you’re a Terachad
Lol, full of rank 1 supermodels actually.
@@rudy1999 And every actress I've ever had on my "hall pass" list.
Leo is one of those good luck guys that have good looks, famous, celebrity, money and works in Hollywood. Women that seeks the same (top models for example) no wonder love to hook up with such men.
Nobody asks why are all his ex girlfriends dating a man 20 years older than them!
Really good point! I feel like it might have been brought up in interviews individually with the women. But yeah the media never focuses on that. I think it's because it's usually a one time thing for them vs. for Leo there is a clear pattern as the graph astutely shows
@@londontipton6260 A one time thing, but for MANY of them. While is a pattern but for ONE Leo. It's really interesting why would many women choose this. For me even more interesting than the one individual choices.
Best Coment Stefanie...they are both getting what they want...
@@d3r4g45 I think what it is is that women see the previous women that Leo dated and the general pattern of them being able to rise up in Holly and get more opps due to greater media attention. And I would hold your horses with this being ONLY a pattern for Leo cause many men in this comments section are saying that they would do the same if they only were as rich and famous.
@@londontipton6260 Why are women cross culturally more attracted to taller guys than short? And expect a future partner to earn more than them? How long would a gene have lasted for males to be sexually attracted to women who can't reproduce? That doesn't mean it's impossible either way, my sister is married to a short guy and I've met men who prefer older women but these are outliers.
I hear Patrice O'Neal's voice in the back of my mind. Everything men are is terrible. Anything a woman is or does it wonderful.
Patrice left this earth too soon.
I wish Patrice was still with us today…
I ain’t going to watch this video, but I hope he mentioned Madonna
So true. We still need him so much...
Patrice 😩😩😩
If we were in his place, rich, famous, good-looking, etc, we would do the same thing? He's 47, if I was 47 and I had a choice between a 20-year-old or a 50-year-old, I would rather have a 20-year-old.
agreed
You don’t have to be rich and famous. I’m 49 and my gf is 24…I heard all the comments about the age gap! Who cares!?
Nah.... I'm more the woman 5 - 10 years age gap n either direction. Me at 44 doesn't want a serious relationship with a girl 20 years my junior. I have nothing to talk about.
And for the uninitiated, sex usually gets better with older women.
You can only phuqq the young birds. You can entertain and be entertained by the 50y/o.
Most honest men would
I totally get that but she'll be gone after you suffer your first stroke or your dad bod turns into old man wrinkles and loose skin. This works both ways. It's better to look for a person you can grow old with than play this stupid game of the young.
This is my take. I think he stops dating them at 25 because he knows he will not marry them or give them kids. He leaves them at a age where they still have time to find a partner and produce kids. He knows women have a biological clock so he doesn't want to waste anymore of their time. Idk just an idea 🤷♀️
I'd love to know if this is true
If so GOD these women need to wake up
I think you're right, plus they're much prettier lol.. just saying
Good luck to them finding a replacement for him! Lol Not many guys are going to match up to his attributes
Lol...yes, it's purely altruistic and Leo is really considering the biological needs and wants of his patner when deciding to date women in their early 20s. He's just a really good guy and it's not an aesthetic choice based wholly on beauty.
How thoughtful and kind of him! What a gentleman!
Any negative comments are jealousy, end of discussion
But I think if he was a black man they will put him in jail
Like they did to R kelly isn't it ?
Leo is avenging the incels. If women only date the top guys, they obviously wont commit. Its a hard job but somebody has to do it. Go for it, Leo!
Yep, those models he dated think most men are subhumans anyway. Don't feel bad for them.
@@rudy1999 The problem is that modern womens dating strategy is exploitive. But every exploitive strategy is prone to be exploited itself, as any game theorist will know. And that's what Leo is doing.
Modern women don't want to bet on a promising young guy, they rather take the finished product. They want all the benefits with none of the risk.
A promising good guy and a beautiful 20 year old might fit together. But what makes you think a 22 year old beauty is good enough to lock down a hollywood star worth 300+ million? She'll age out of her beauty pretty fast but Leos pot of gold will only grow bigger. So maybe at that point one girl is not good enough anymore. And why should it? What can a 22 year old woman have accomplished to deserve a guy like DiCaprio? He worked his ass off for 30 years to become what he is today. What did she do? She managed to not get fat by the time she's 22. That's it. Hardly comparable.
Umm women aren’t just dating the ‘top’ guys (whatever that may be). Incels are mostly people who have already given up trying. It’s a self defeating prophecy. Most men are average looking and find someone eventually. It’s not as if there are a ton of single men and all the women are in polygamous relationships with the hottest guys. You can give up and be bitter and shallow but it won’t get you anywhere.
@@hanswurscht6625 Well most men are looking for more than just a young thin woman. Men aren’t the only ones who accomplish anything or who grow and evolve over time. Leo is just shallow. I’m sure a lot of the more successful women in Hollywood would steer clear of a man like Leo.
@@mercurialshift5793 No they dont. Young and slim is all thats required. You can grow and evolve all you want but that makes no difference.
Just exercising his options as a high value man. When you look past the cope and at the dating site preferences, you see that many guys in his position would do the same.
Even George Clooney got married and had kids!! Doubt he was ever at a loss for a date.
Why would they? Is our society this hedonistic? I’ve fucked hot woman, young woman, older woman.
It’s not that different to put up with a gold digging 25 year old with zero intelligence for slightly better sex.
Speak for yourself. It’s always incels who haven’t had proper relationships who think Fucken young women is nirvana lmao
Once you have regular sex with hot woman for a while, it loses its lustre
It is, always fun to hear what a woman of 53's perspective is from someone who will never know😂 If I were 25 again and had a man be honest enough to stick an expiration date on my forehead I would have thanked him and been his best friend. It would be refreshing if people were more honest about their relationship goals. Some men want a family and children and some woman want to be arm candy, wear Gucci and be famous by association.
Oh no darling you wouldn’t. Leo is exposing female nature. Every single girl thinks that she will be the exception or is after the goods despite Leo’s proved behavior
"hey honey, look, I'll throw you out like a piece of sh*t when you're 25 and the only reason I want you is for s*x and having fun, now , you're probably Totally ok with that , I just wanted you to know that I'm an honest man 🥰"
Exactly. Best freind. Guys don't want female best friends. They want what Leo gets from women.
@Jojo Moa There are a few of us around
@Jojo Moa I am that woman, I am interested in everything and it was a joke.
I think there may be another reason for women's disgust at Leonardo Dicaprio's dating habits in evolutionary terms, beyond "intersexual competition". Particularly, I think we often forget that women did not have reliable means of birth control throughout virtually all history. Sex generally meant pregnancy. If we lived a long time ago (or really not very long ago at all) Leo would be impregnating young women, staying with her for maybe 2 years, and then leaving her and her children to impregnate someone else. Maybe he would have resources, but that doesn't change the fact that his sense of priorities lie elsewhere, and he would not benefit his former partner and child as much as a man who stays. It then makes sense that women have evolved to think highly of a man who stays, and disgusted by men who don't.
😂 it’s 2022, deal with it.
I think you're right. But let me add something: Women hate what Leo is doing because its exploiting their mating strategy to the core. Lots of women would prefer to kick 90% of men to the curb to only marry the very succesful top 10% of guys. Ofc that cant work because there's not enough men to marry, but it's also not going to work because the top guys can now pick from a huge pool of women. So they wont settle down. No one is going to marry them. Most guys are not good enough and the good guys rather enjoy variety than settling for ONE chick. It makes sense if think about it. Male reproductive strategy is quality or quantity. If only the top guys 'reproduce' they wont invest in offsprings. This is the case in every single mammal.
Majority of divorces are initiated by women, if "men who stays" was so important, this would not have been the case.
Also the "good humble man" that would be the one to stay, would be the most sought after in the dating market. The opposite is true. The hot, rich, alpha, that can be with anyone and has highest competition with (therefore less chance of "staying") is the most sought after in the dating market.
In essence women want to mate with the genes of the winner, that is the top priority. And that is a good thing, we want to have future generations of humans have as much as i.e. Schwarzenegger, Musk etc genes possible. Therefore it is in our interest as a society that this winners mate as much as possible.
That means many women get to mate with one top male. Therefore this "winner genes" have a chance of spreading the most. With animals is like that too. And male biology (millions of sperm in each male) support this. How to pay for that child is important, but a second priority, a more rational level of selection. That can be mitigated, unlike the bad genes. Getting pregnant with good genes and making another "good man" raise and pay for it is one strategy. This is why humans have unique "covert" fertile windows unlike other mammals.
@@hanswurscht6625 Yea women hate that other men are championing Leo’s actions because they are starting to realize their worth. Because women say will if one day i actually do lock down a high value guy that i want after ignoring 90% of guys i don’t want men to just leave me they should stay with me even if i have 300+ bodies, an onlyfans, bad habits, not compliment etc. women are extremely entitled now more than ever. They cancel guys like Andrew Tate because they don’t want men to know their worth.
@@user-gl9mf3zo7r to expect to " get over " millions of years of biological evolution is the most intellectually dishonest belief in modern culture today.
We had a similar "how dare he?" moment in France when a famous author/tv show co-host wrote in his book he wouldn't date women over 35 or so (can't remember exactly) while he's in his 50s.
The thing is, DiCaprio and this man are both surrounded with plenty of attention from all kinds of women and more, their lives are far from the common man, why are we even criticizing their choices when they live in quite the bubble? This doesn't speak to us mere mortals at all!
This is also very onesided. Why is it always successful men that get criticized for it? The casting couch phenomenon in hollywood has been well known for decades. But it's only the men who're the bad guys. It's never the young women who're trying to get an advantage by offering to sleep with them. I mean, these women are as hot as they come. You have to be quite the guy to resist that.
Lots of women are selling out on their youthful beauty. In fact the internet is full of them. Instagram is full of them. Nobody complains about that, cause it's only women who can do as they please.
So when women capitalize on what god gave them, that's totally fine. They can only capitalize on youthful beauty as much as they do because it's rare. Because it fades very fast. And when they're done capitalizing on it, when it actually faded, they can pull the victim card and complain about the men they once exploited. Paulina Porizkova is the best example for that. She was a supermodel back in her days, commanding ALL the attention wherever she went. Now she's 57 and complaining about being invisible to men. But if 57 year old women wouldn't be invisible to men, she would have never been able to capitalize on her youthful beauty. So what is? You can't have it both ways.
I think he was a director
It's the male dominated industry and the fact it only selects women of a certain age for movie roles etc. Basically if you're a white dude you're privileged
@@reeedazday4145 You got that completely wrong. In hollywood beautiful women have the chance to make millions before they turn 24. That's the one who's really privileged. Men are on average alot older before they hit their movie prime. And you know what, men can't even sleep their way up. There's no female DiCaprio offering his wealth and network to good looking 22 year old guys. If you're a man you have to make it on your own merit. Ofc that gets twisted to being a disadvantage for women, like everything. But even the oh so bad Harvey Weinstein made alot of stupid young chicks rich before they turned on him.
@@reeedazday4145 Nah most women are crap at acting and the talented ones are still acting don't make shit up women usually get roles bc of their looks which is unfair for men
One of the takes I heard about girls noticing you more when you have a girlfriend, is that, basically, girls actually compare/compete with each other.. Meaning, when guy has a girlfriend, girls have some reference of his "worth" in terms of a girl he's dating.. If that girl is hot/valuable in their social circles, they are likely to be attracted to the guy because they approve choice of the girl highly ranked in the social hierarchy, or they would even date him simply to be proven better than the highly ranked girl he's dating at the moment.. I'm not sure how accurate/scientifically proven that is, but it certainly sounds interesting, at least to me :)
Sums up my first girlfriend experience exactly
No no, that is pretty accurate and scientifically based my dude.
Incel science right here lmao
Facts
yeah, it's called 'preselection' and completely normal.
Why don’t women start blaming the women who are dating him? He’s not manipulating them and it’s completely consensual. Stoping pushing the image of oh so innocent girls falling for a star, no one is that stupid.
"Because we need to shame men into accepting women's mating strategy, so women don't have to adapt to mens mating strategy."
They are acting like these women are kids or something. They are grown adults, they know what they are getting into many just want that life style really that Leo can provide and old women envy being cut out of that.
@@Sarah-yy6hv Women are perpetual children according to you or what? You got kids who are married with kids at 16 in some parts of the world and these 23 year olds are apparently still toddlers. ok
I find it absolutely hilarious that there are women who think Leonardo DiCaprio can't attract women his own age as if there aren't women of all ages willing to just throw themselves at him, especially since most of the women complaining are women around his age who are salty they can't be with him
Yeah lol, that's the worst coping EVER. But you know, that's the female point of view, just a little exaggerated. In the end they all value warm feelings over facts.
You'd be surprised.
All women were 25 and attractive once.
They're probably salty that he is the example of all the shit men they've been with at the age of 25 who made them feel special just to get replaced and are pissed that they're seeing that happen to other girls 😂 I'm shocked by how dumb these men are super ignorant about how women experience life.
@@sherryg2510 just being 25 doesn’t mean you’re attractive it can just mean less ugly than when you’re 53😂
Actually the explanation of avoiding the last of a woman's easiest childbearing years makes the most sense. Not out of concern for the women, so much as ease for himself. Not only are younger women in peak physical condition, but they also aren't obsessed with getting married and having a baby before they hit 30. Past 25 and women start focusing on that, particularly if they're in a relationship with someone they would like to have kids with. I'm sure the very rich DiCaprio fits that bill. I doubt he's ever dated a woman for several years and then not had her start at least hinting at marriage/pregnancy desires. I think that's why he replaces them with someone still focused on just having a good time. Peter Pan, but if you have enough money and don't actually want to be a father, why ever grow up?
Bruh being all that famous, successful and handsome just to spread none of those genes 💀, and yet the lower end of population is the ones to reproduce the most. Evolutionary this makes no sense
Growing up needs to be redefined. Many people just want to enforce their standards onto other people. Leo build his life to do whatever he wants to do in a responsible manner; sounds more grown up than 99% of the population.
@@Replied_ByMeatr1der5 🤣
Why not just date women who don't want to have kids?
Yes, I know those arguments but they're sophistry at best.
Set your values and stick to them. It's not hard.
@@GeraldSmallbear Because he doesn't want to fuck old women. Simple as that.
he's handsome, he's rich, he's charismatic.. Good for him, he doesn't have to be sorry for anything. He is a high-value man.
To me, a high-value man is someone who is married, responsible, and committed. Not a player.
@@sheveka 🤡
Ok Kevin.... Whatever u say
@@sheveka Depends on what he married
@@sheveka Agreed. Men mistake what high-value actually is simply because they see women chasing after certain markers and lifestyle. These men use women as a benchmark to guage how they should be in the world. The problem is they still are putting women on the pedestal, still chasing female validation. These men don't realize women are easily led by their biological drives like magpies for shiny objects, failing to parse beyond the superficial. Women only begin to realize this when they're no longer desirable.
A man with a good family actually produces something meaningful, not just for his own life, but for society at large. Someone like DiCaprio has value only in the eyes of those men who envy his lifestyle and cling to it for some sort of model for existing, and those women who desire him. A man should be gauged by the meaningful quality of his life, rather than the fleeting attention of women and men. It seems the men who want to emulate this lifestyle put women on such a high pedestal, they forget to forge anything meaningful in their own lives.
Funny how a lot of older women complain about Leo dating only women 25 or younger when they used to be the ones running after older men at the same age.
Only the ones that manipulated older men and later got dumped for a younger model. The rest of them are still idealistically looking for a male “partner”.
You expect congruence and integrity from them?
They’ll say “we know better now” lol
Women actually tend to prefer men outsodr their race just to avoid older men
And most shadowblock older men on online dating
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To many young women, older men are repulsive
“The chains of habit are too light to be felt until they are too heavy to be broken.” -Bertrand Russell
Madonna dating much younger men = celebrated
Leo dating much young women = condemned
No-one thinks Madonna is sane or normal. Now people think the same of Dicaprio
@@steph6109 Nonsense. As I said, Madonna is CELEBRATED for dating younger men.
Main difference here though is that Madonna also dates people here same age/older. Leo seems to ONLY date women under a certain age.
@@ghost__chips Negative. She hasn't dated anyone her own age in years. But that's not even the point. When she does date younger people she is CELEBRATED.
The incredible double standard is nauseating.
I disagree… many examples of older women dating younger men that people think is “creepy” Aaron Taylor Johnson’s wife is one that comes to mind! She is 20 years his senior or so and he was 18 when they met. Also Harry Styles and his partner! I don’t think it should be celebrated or scorned or analysed as long as everyone is of legal age and consenting then what does it matter
If that's how he wishes to live his life, then so be it. Honestly, who cares? It's none of our business. I don't get why some women are so butthurt over this (speaking as a woman myself who is over 25). Good on Leo for living his life and being happy.
Because they hate the fact that he can. And that in doing so he creates an example for other guys.
I don’t think so, men have been doing this for millennia. There are far less but still a few women out there who are older and date significantly younger men too. It’s fine it’s just preference. As a female, I only feel butt hurt if someone blatantly says my best years of beauty are behind me cuz I know that not to be the case. I’m not trying to be attractive for any select group, I just finally feel happy with my appearance and I worked hard at it too!! And, if I’m not mistaken, that level of self esteem would set me apart from my younger more youthful self.
@@melissaloves2draw The entire multi trillion dollar beauty industry revolves around making women look younger and give off fake fertility cues. That is the core of male attraction whether they like it or not. There isn't a single woman in the world who is more sexually attractive to men at 45 than 25. It is literally impossible for a gene for men being attracted to women who can't reproduce to propagate itself.
@@melissaloves2draw you got good view. You cannot change nature, it is what it is. On the other side men are butthurt that women pay so much attention to the wealth. Yes, they do, and it's fine, no need to cry about because nothing is going to change, instead embrace it. People telling you that you're not as beautiful as before might be true but it's definitely rude. Don't worry about it, there are so many weird people put there, don't let them ruin your day
I disagree, and can't understand your viewpoint at all.
Anyone who finds it that easy to dump their partner has to be some kind of a psychopath.
I agree that there’s nothing wrong with having preferences and if he wants young ones, he has the right to do it. Other women or anyone coming at him with all the critiques and huffing and puffing are jealous or simply not happy with their lives. 🤷🏼♀
unfortunately these young girls are not adequately informed of the possible extent of emotional abuse and long-term trauma due to the power imbalance in the relationship (i.e. Leo has years and years of more life experience, money, power, etc.). that's why I think so many people like me have a huge problem with what he's doing. it's manipulative but cuz he's rich, famous, and good-looking he gets away with it way too much - looked up to by other men who wish to be spoiled with that many good mating options and by women who do not properly understand the repercussions of enforcing this seemingly harmless dating "preference" cuz they get lost in his ocean eyes
@@londontipton6260 The thing is with young girls nowadays: many of them don’t get to the point to actually consider the consequences and cons of a relationship with an older men. They see the money, the fame, the bling-blings and his so called handsome face. With media ruling the mind of younger generation, being his girlfriend is something that would make a girl “famous” - doesn’t matter which outcome would hit the news - and some people would do anything to be famous.
If a girl simps over him and he chooses her, that’s her own responsibility to go into the game. As the interviewed gentleman said: they are not related and he is not a father to whoever gets together with him. It’s not his role to educate a child about being responsible and think about their action but their parents’. If they have loving parents and still being stupid, that’s on them.
But I guess that’s fine if an e-girl chooses a “partner” to use out of hundreds of simps who would give their money for her then go broke, being abused, whatnot. 🤷🏼♀
@@londontipton6260 Most of the women he dates are also rich, famous, and good-looking. And also women mature faster than men. So you are really underestimating and insulting women with this.
@@londontipton6260 Oh, dear God. So if you want to protect women, how do you feel that the average Tinder date features a woman who is a 6 dating a guy who is a 9.25 who she is sharing with 7 other women on average?
@@anikojonas8380 I dated a girl who was 25 years younger (I was 45-50, she was 20-25). She is now 26 and married with a baby and thanks me for steering her life on track. She said I knew the real her before she did. I told her when she was 20 "You're the most beautiful girl and you can have any man, but that means any man who exists, not any man you can imagine. Feminists will tell you to wait until you are 30 to have kids but you won't be able to get the same quality man then, and you'll mistreat the ones who would marry you." Meanwhile, the happiest moments of my life were spent with her. I'm sure Brenda and Aniko would have been there on day 1 telling us both how productive our relationship would be.
Real talk. Older women that say that are just jealous.
And younger women like me??
@@londontipton6260 you're not young with a name like Brenda 😂
@@birdburd2280 Says the guy whose name is literally Bird Burd like what even??
P.S. This isn't my real name. It's the name of an actress I use as my fake name to remain anonymous 😂
@@londontipton6260 I shall bid you good day madam.
@@birdburd2280 Man was too stunned to speak but a gentleman nonetheless. Good day to you too sir :)
It's his business and his girlfriends', not mine. I do find the comments here interesting. I am glad I didn't get married at that age to an older man. Some people (women too!) "fetishize" an age bracket, and dump the guy / girl or start cheating after they "expire." I'm glad I waited until I was older to get married, and glad I married a guy who found women older than me attractive, too.
3:40 This is actually an episode of Seinfeld. George carries around a picture of a beautiful woman and tells other beautiful women that she’s his ex-fiancé. Suddenly, these other beautiful women want to be with him. I believe it’s the Man Hands episode.
to get into that club full of models.
@@torachan23 George would “accidentally” drop the picture out of his wallet in front of them. He repurposed the story of Susan dying to elicit sympathy.
Yup, great episode
I'm 66 as of April, currently in a relationship with a 48 year old man. We met a year ago and have been together since.
I know, it amazes me too.
It's very uncommon.
@@bperez8656 only common in the west
The whole irritation for women, surrounding this topic, revolves around the fact that their best years are behind them so soon.
They didn't use them to lock down a good husband and make families. They wasted them chasing chads who don't commit
I consider myself to be aging like fine wine thank you very much. 😝 Not all of us consider child bearing years or twenties to be the best years... and thankfully so. Would suck if you just imagined yourself as being unattractive or less attractive and less desirable after 25 or 30. More women should realize this and quit worry about it so much. Every time I see women with plastic and Botox, it’s like well, there’s another one who can’t handle it... if men can age gracefully with no worry, then so can we. 😊
I would never ever consider 25 to be during my best years. Although I was very attractive, I would NEVER want to relive those years. They might have been my best years from a male’s perspective, but certainly not mine. And yes, I am so much more picky now. I would have dated anyone who showed me attention back then. It is true, but maybe you have to be a woman to fully understand what that means?
@@melissaloves2draw It's just the dating market value. It goes down fast and soon. The longer and more active the girl is on the dating market, the sooner her value in the eyes of the potential mates falls, that's just a fact. There are other aspect of human existence for sure and you can provide value in those areas, but you can't cheat the nature. And nature just generally makes men to be attracted to young women who aren't promiscuous.
@@melissaloves2draw it’s sadly not that simple Melissa, its unfortunately true that your sexual market value usually diminishes approaching 30, if you don’t get on the ball and settle soon you will be in your 30s and bitter having to settle for a lower value man. Can’t argue with nature
I don't understand how people are so disgusted by DiCaprio because of this. It's his choice and no one else's business, good for him.
Gigachad comment
@dawn gunther His money AND his status AND his fame.
simply put - it's just not right. it's bad to attach the entire value of a woman to an arbitrary number of years they have lived on Earth. it's bad not just for older women who are constantly compared to a population that has something they no longer don't (youth) causing them to feel helpless as it's out of their control. it's also bad for the young girls who he does end up dating and getting tossed to the side once "their time" has expired. news flash: women are not milk gallons but are human beings too (just like men are). us as a society should feel the responsibility to better educate our young women to beware of these charming but manipulative personalities so that the supply may slowly but surely dwindle instead of it enforcing these bigoted lifestyles
@@londontipton6260 i see your point but at the end of the day it is his own choice. There are also men that prefer older women or even elderly women while being DiCaprio age. I am 36 and my gf is two years older and i am really happy with that. A women that is in the 20-25 year old range is just not interesting for me to be with.
@@Hunkeykung I want to respect his choice and his unflinching ability to do whatever he wants and not gaf about what ppl are saying about him. But think about it this way. It is also someone's choice to bring a gun to a public arena. Freedom of choice should stop when it infringes on putting others into harmful situations. Now did I really compare Leo's dating preferences to gun violence? I guess I did. The same communities are generally involved in both so I hope that justifies the comparison. The damage here is not as clear to the eye cause lots of it is emotional/mental and lots of times even when it becomes physical it very rarely reaches the public ear cause Hollywood keeps everything under wraps with hush money and contracts.
I am by no way saying any and every age gap is wrong. Your two year age gap is nothing to worry about! He has 20ish yr gaps with his gfs. You guys will be going to school if applicable, working, starting families at around the same time. Wishing you the best with all of that!
DiCaprio not dating women above a certain age: "creepy," exploitation
Women not dating men below a certain height or income: healthy standards, preferences
lol
i would do the same if i had options to so many women
Exactly. Most men would do the same if they could.
ur broke tho
Women don’t want men realizing their worth when they are rich.
I'm completely optionless right now in my life, unlike most women I know. Even unattractive girls that I know are in long term relationships. Multiple types of women (even genuinely unattractive women) are considered attractive. Whereas even attractive skinny fat guys don't have a single leg to stand on in media when it comes to representation. Plus every woman I know is doing light-years better than me. mAlE pRiViLeGe my ass. Going back to school is my last resort but that seems like a pipe dream unless the incredibly stubborn college I went to hires me full time, but I have a feeling I'm just gonna have to get used to being perpetually single for a while. I just wish I had as many options as women in my generation do. I wish society gave as much of a shit about men as it does about women.
I'd go for 30s so there's some hope of wisdom and good conversation
but when madonna dates young guys women go "you go,girl!"
Cause she should
@@user-lt1jd1ye3v be quiet.
No, not me.
No! it's just as ridiculous.
Imagine going into a relationship knowing your partner will cease to date you once you hit age 25 based off his track record. That's a little sad.
@@SMSBJM1981 she goes to someone that actually values her and wants to grow old with her rather than be someone’s flavor of the week.
@Strauss Bolkonsky I think you are correct when it’s specifically about Leo. Says quite a bit about their self worth.
Suckers. Fall for it everytime
They all move to other multimillionaires with the same transactional agreements lol don’t worry
Not sad. They got to hang out with Leo and then they move on and start a family
Leo does it because he can, & good on him for it. Supply & Demand wins again. All the outrage is coming from those who can't (have supply) ... or aren't (in demand). Economics 101
He can do it because he has money and social contacts. Those women are willing to trade in their time for that. All he is to them is an ATM and introductions guy.
Women in their 20's don't find significant age gaps sexually attractive. They might have daddy issues and feel emotional safety but it's unlikely seeing as they'll know his history for high arm candy turnover most likely they're turned on by money and are happy to be transactional.
But that's prostitution, any man can buy a prostitute in her 20's...so I don't see the big woop.
not all the outrage is coming from those two groups. I am 23F and am the MOST outraged
*23F and rejected multiple times
@@ArnoldSig nope bro that's where you're wrong. I've never once been rejected but have rejected many men (all for good reasons tho)
@@londontipton6260 “I’ve never once been rejected” lol ok London Tipton
This is interesting and directionally accurate. However there are exceptions. A few years ago when I was 34, I dated a 51 year old smoking hot sophisticated librarian. She was well read, cultured, adventurous, opened minded and just fkn gorgeous. No way would she date down. The age gap was a bit much for me because I felt that if I wanted to have kids I couldn't with her, so there is some truth to youthful women having an edge, but going out with her brought me significant attention from other women because I felt that it showed I'm mentally on her level. We were an attractive couple and the age gap drew positive attention to both of us.
At 48 I've only met one woman over 50 who was genuinely smoking and only a couple over 40. These were, frankly, genetic freaks who were supermodel level attractiveness in their twenties. Sorry but men have evolved over millions of years to be attracted to fertility. Just a couple of minutes thought on how evolution works should explain why, as it's literally impossible for a gene for men being attracted to infertile women to be replicated. But yeah, men are variable and outliers exist.
What? There is "some" truth to youthful women having an edge? Buddy, there is ALL the truth in the world to youthful women having the biggest edge anyone ever had. Every fucking product is advertised with a hot chick. That should tell you everything there is to know about this.
@@hanswurscht6625 not every product is advertised with a hot chick and not every one of them is old either. Young chicks do have an edge, but sorry dude, there are definitely exceptions to the rule.
@@fiveleavesleft6521 Except men and women evolved to be monogamous and form family units to take care of each other and their children. Not abandon their partner for aging which is the majority of our adult existence. Those who remain shallow and refuse to develop and appreciate traits outside of the wear and tear of a physical body over time, eventually find happiness and a life partner and maybe children and grandchildren if they so desire. It all depends on your intellect, your kindness, and your ability to genuinely love human beings and not just what they look like. Believe it or not but aging people can be attracted to one another if they are more than one dimensional characters. Otherwise you just end up a dirty old man beating off to porn of women who wouldn’t fuck you. A life in solitude can be meaningful too but that also requires a certain mindset and should be a choice. Not simply because you expect of others what you yourself do not possess.
@@hanswurscht6625 We all spend most of our existence slowy dying. From 23 onward. You can focus on the body while you wither away or you can focus on the mind and everything of substance. If you cannot appreciate that in yourself, you will never find it in another and you will never evolve past your most base instincts.
I think I might be in the small percentage that feels that Leo has lost his looks. He’s got a slight beer belly and he’s not as handsome as he used to be back in the 90s when he did Romeo & Juliet, that was the hottest he ever looked 🤷🏼♀️ let’s be real here, women go after him because he’s extremely wealthy (hypergamy) and he’s Leonardo DiCaprio, the biggest movie star in the world!
How old are you?
Finance and status. 90% of women
Exactly! Cool that you're a female and are aware of things like hypergamy
Obviously people will have differing opinions on this but objectively, let's say if you could average on womens opinion on his looks, he probably didn't decline. And he gained heavily in status and wealth. Which is why he probably never had a hard time getting laid, but you can be sure that it's been getting easier and easier for him.
I totally agree. I don't understand why people keep saying he is handsome, because he didn't age well. He is still a phenomenal actor but became sort of opaque and complacent.
Everyone’s entitled to do as they please but to me it’s a bit gross he has all this wealth and doesn’t want a family or real connections with a woman especially with how he panders on morality with climate issues.
Just something about it makes me think he’s not really a great guy or normal.
The Hugh Hefner type life has always been gross to me personally
Simp.
Well that's your opinion
@@rong8889 no shit
yeah! seems something off with him but I bet he makes these young ladies sign so much paperwork that we will never hear about it tho.
What makes you think he doesn't have a real connection? Is getting married and having family the only way to have meaningful connections , that's kinda basic and boomer type rhetoric
While women prefer men within 5 years of their age (25 when she's 20, 45 when she's 50), men ALWAYS prefer women who are 20.
I disagree, I am not interested in women under 27, they are usually too childish (not the nice kind of childish) and do not want a family.
younger guys prefer older women,but I would say that guys over 30 or 35 do prefer younger girls
Not me. I'm 30 and I bang cougars on the regular. Way better than drama-filled women in their 20s. They're also way more open minded in bed as opposed to women in their 20s who just lay there like a starfish.
as a younger guy (23) i definitely prefer 20-25 but i like older women too
@@lordhumungus1386 Nobody prefers older women. Younger guys have lower SMV which matches older women and men will do whatever they can.
Could it be that people who are dating someone are more appealing because it's an affirmation that they aren't so strange that their undatable? For example, take two 40-yr old men; one is dating and in a seemly stable relationship, while the other is single. I think it's a common assumption that the one that isn't in a relationship has something wrong in their life that makes them an undesirable companion. No one wants to shoulder another's baggage. As for the other man, it may be assumed that he has his "house" in order and under control, and that's why he's dateable. I once know someone who wore a wedding ring just to improve his options for dating. He said he was more appealing to women while he was wearing it.
That is the reason. There is a reduction in the asymmetry of information if you know the other person is already with someone. Basically they passed a sort of background check because someone was willing to date or marry them. If you are single as a man having a good white collar job can help in this regard. Women be like "he's probably not a serial killer he's the vice president of accounting."
Man wearing a ring. If you want a woman who would cheat on you. I think the walking around with a female friend and maybe striking up a conversation with someone on an elevator, escalator, waiting room, even a grocery store, or restaurant ... is a better strategy.
So it's okay for women to have standards and men can't, that doesn't make any sense.
Its a reflection of the level of his maturity
do you mean that what we choose as a partner is a reflection of our similar behavior and thinking?
I am 56 and I don't date women over 25 either. My wife would not approve.
That was a good one man 👌
@@rahulmodi8706 r/whoosh
Leo's face in the thumbnail is hilarious!!!😆😆
😂😂😂😂😂
The REALLY wrong part is the fact that he watched his most recent 25 year old ex grow up since she was only 10 years old. He was besties with her dad and looked at as an Uncle for crying out loud. There is a term in psychology for this: GROOMING. The very definition is that the pred@torrr gains the victims trust from a YOUNG age so that when they become legal, they are already well trained to trust them. Taking advantage of this trust and watching her grow up while he was 40 years old and she was 10, IS WRONG.
BIOLOGY doesn't respect your theory.
He's a Gr00mer 😬
@@claudiokabanata3325 forreal tho yikez
Yikes, I didn’t know this. That’s horrific.
It's funny when the cope and bitter comments like he can't get a 40 year old come out. Everyone knows you are in denial. He's a top 1% male. He's doing what he's meant to be doing.
He seems depressed to have to do this to be happy honestly
@Jojo Moa yes, the top percent of men in today's society and all of human history get the most women , who are typically at their most fertile and attractive in their early 20s.
Its basic biology and we've known this forever. Nothing shocking about it.
Leo is the most consistent man in the world! I'm Leo's age, just a regular fit and well sorted out gent and have been dating attractive women in their 20's for the last few year's - why shouldn't I ? :)
what do u do for work lol spill the beans
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 I work as an entrepreneur on my now six-figure business, but my success with (younger) women comes long before that. Once I turned 40 I really started working on myself getting in shape, and studying a lot (self improvement books, pick up artist books etc) and getting good at game which is ABSOLUTELY key. Simple formula actually, just takes long term commitment which few can keep up before making lame ass excuses for themselves. There are no shortcuts for success.
Same here...and I am out of shape with only a few bucks ....Imagine if we had Leo status...we will f.u.c.k. the living crap out of every girl in the planet jajaja
Dating Leo for women is like a right of passage, like being a "Bond Girl". I don't think they care if he doesn't plan on marrying them, he shows them a good life for the brief time they have and they get to brag , they were once a "Leo Girl". Crazy thing is once he dumps them he can still remain friends with them.
When my relationship ends, I stay connected to my exes for like 2-3 years tops and they get married and unfriend me. Only 2 girls I still have friendships with that were former lovers. I use to be a film publicist, so girls literally I think only dated me so I could bring them to fancy places and events.
@Jojo Moa famous women. You not famous.
Rules never change. Winning kings and generals have always the best.
Jack Nicolson did a similar thing for decades. Then he had used his last go. He could no longer find a woman who wanted to be with him until he decided to move on. Then he was just alone.
apparently it was jack who told leo to do this
Jack is Alone Alone. 😑
Jack could still smash women a few decades younger, he's probably just having a rest.
@@chelseapoet3664 have you seen Jack? 🤢
Most guys in the world would take that anyway. In fact most guys in monogamous relationships end up being victim of female initiated divorce and end up alone anyhow.
if we take dating as a transactional theory:
Leo has high value, wealth, looks, celeb.
The women he dates have to match his value themselves, but in terms what males value and that is amazing looks that is linked with youth. They lose this value with time and the relation falls.
yes an evolutionary tale as old as time
@@londontipton6260 yes, biology
But high value men also value women with intelligence and a great personality, not just model looks
@@AliceDickinsonx maybe if they want to get married, but the order of importance are looks, personality and intelligence.
its mostly his looks
there are a lot of powerful rich men
none of them can do that unless they are handsome
Good content, loved the graph, too.
Chris, your channel is excellent! 👍
It’s weird when people in their early 20s date 17/18 year olds in high school. How can you not see the difference in maturity and standards? If the age was any younger or he had a daughter that age everyone would be going on about how messed up this is. That being said if they’re two consenting adults, the younger is aware it isn’t permanent and the older doesn’t have kids, it’s not as bad as it could be by far.
Women compete aesthetically with each other; their ranking in regards to other women effects their confidence & self-esteem. The only women that complain about Mr. DiCaprio's dating habits are older and/or less attractive than the women he has available to him. The subtractors don't have access to that ranking of man - nothing more complicated than this.
23F here and can't stand what Leo's been doing. it's a lot more complicated than you think
@@londontipton6260 what is he doing? he has a preference. men are not alowed to have a preference? you accept that most women, not one Leo celeb, most women, do not consider anyone under 6ft? you can stand that?
@@londontipton6260 Care to explain why it's more complicated and why you personally don't like it? I'd argue if Henry Cavil was behaving the same, most women wouldn't have a problem.
@@d3r4g45 come on man you ain't fooling anyone here. this "preference" comes at a cost and you know that! it's at the woman's cost - their mental health.
and I actually like shorter guys tho i wouldn't completely eliminate taller ones
@@thewaywardgrape3838 there is a clear power imbalance. that's my problem. this applies to Henry too and all men and women. Why would it be different for Henry lol
I worked with Leonardo when he was like 14 - pre-fame - in 1989. He had a recurring role on Growing Pains, of the boy friend of the daughter of the principal family. We went on a Carnival Cruise ship - The Tropical - from LA to Puerto Vallarta Mexico, shooting until that first port of call. Like I said, it was pre-fame, he was really kind of non-descript, nothing that spoke of the star that was to become.
Marilyn Monroe spoke of watching Clark Gable during her childhood. And since she was a waif, without father or mother figures, she said that she identified Gable as a father figure to her. Both Monroe and Gable’s last movie - The Misfits - was Gable picking up Monroe on the rebound from a Reno divorce. At the same time she was breaking up with her husband who wrote the movie, rumored to be with some French actor, and pre-presidential JFK and RFK. So this kind of thing has been going on for quite some time, although at that time Monroe was in her late 30’s.
I think that Monroe was the type of woman what cinematographer John Alonzo would call “75 miles of bad road”. Men couldn’t help but be attracted to her, and it was probably heaven when their relationship began, but soon the pavement ended. The tendency to go back and start with a younger woman could be that there is a tendency of women picking up emotional baggage along the way, and it becomes just too heavy and kind of self-flagellation. It could be that the reason that DiCaprio did so well in Scorsese’s biopic of Howard Hughes - The Aviator - was Leonardo is much like Hughes in some aspects.
VVomen: ...won't date men under 6 ft.
VVomen: It is a preference.
Men: Okay, I respect your preference.
Men: ...won't date women over 25.
Men: It is a preference.
VVomen: You are a creep! Reeeeeeeeeeeee!
Women ☕
As a woman myself, I apologize on the behalf of women for members of my gender that have these ridiculous standards for men. But if it makes you feel any better, I know lots of women who don't such as myself.
Anyways, the point being: here you cannot compare height preferences to age preferences cuz huge age differences usually signifies power imbalances which leads to manipulative behavior more often than not
Brenda, yeah, having more power is good, fu** weaklings
@@londontipton6260 Women in their 20's are beautiful, in good shape, fertile ja open to new experiences. Nothing manipulative to be attracted on those features.
@@londontipton6260no high value man will pick you. Sit down Becky
Men with fame, power, and money can get whoever they want as long as they are of legal age. Period.
Women that accept to be just arm-candy, do it happily and willingly for a few minutes of fame and possibilities for their careers.
It's what we call in business, a win-win situation devoid of love.
And above all, this is a matter that's none of our business.
When you actually go to the trouble of making a graph just to talk about someone's sex life , this is when you know you've got nothing better to do lol
he seems intellectual with the his sentence's.
somebody hold my Notion
Hey, it gets clicks, clicks and views mean money.
Statistics is a path to many abilities some considered unnatural.
But graphs are fun
Another good one!
i love how two guys are telling a women what she's really feeling ^^
Glad you understand how men feel having women tell us men how we are psychologically, emotionally and intellectually the vast majority of the time. You can give it but you don't like taking it huh.
If one of them is working for David Buzz you should be listening.
@@LitoGeorge intresting how so?
“I keep getting older, they just keep staying the same age.”
Call it sexual marketplace politics or what have you. He’s not less creepy just because he’s rich or famous.
Lets shame men for having preferences. That'll teach em
They're all gold diggers. If he wasn't rich and famous it wouldn't happen. If you call him creepy then you gotta call a spade a spade. They're gold diggers.
@@infiad1275 Most of them were already rich before meeting him, mate.
@@okaySam More rich and famous than him?
@@infiad1275 They don't gain much monetary value from dating him. He's not even taking them to his events...
Let's be honest, if we were a famous actor and can date who we want , we would all do like Leo!
this really isn't something to be proud of
@@londontipton6260 having the option to do it, already is something tobe proud of
@@danilcrackvchenko732 having the option may be a source of status, but having restraint is a sign of strong character. I'd take character over status any day
@@londontipton6260 no, but not something to be ashamed of either.
@@aisherwasher6959 he has status and enough character to date who he wants regardless of what other women say
I think that he just knows what he wants and he understands the reasons why these young girls are with him, so, no reason to be delusional. He have life so extraordinary to ordinary people to understand.
Or put another way! "Leonardo Di Caprio does what every other man, with a healthy sex drive, on the planet would do. If they had massive wealth, success, intelligence & physical attractiveness." The only difference between Leo & other men. Is that his circumstances give him options!
How mysoginistic, I am speechless!
@@pennyd.4409 If you're hoping to gain any credibility from your posts. Rather than be dismissed as just another over emotional, near hysterical girly. I suggest you learn how to spell the word:- MISOGYNISTIC ! A word, like racism, so casually tossed around these days, that it's become meaningless. The most insidious & pernicious danger in our culture today is:- MISANDRY not misogyny!
@Jojo Moa Trust me! When a man has multiple millions in his bank account. He becomes exceedingly attractive, to 99% of females, on a variety of levels! Remember: Men want sex objects; women want success objects!
@Jojo Moa All women are gold diggers. It's just that some are better at hiding the shovel!
You should see the snl short ‘meet your second wife’. Perfect representation of how a huge gap if you analyze it is creepy haha. The idea of a Hugh Hefner guy with two young women looks on the outside like a guy that’s winning in life but as you mature you understand how shallow and sad that must be. Plus it also makes it hard to connect with friends your own age cause they are having completely different lifestyles
As a man I disagree. You're bitter because you're old and wrinkly
Its just interesting how M are always talking about the virtues and immorality of W but in the same breath if they were given the opportunity or had the status and means they would do the same immoral things they claim W do. Very telling…I guess most M are not as virtuous/moral as they claim. Money status and power just reveal the true nature of people.
Exactly what I was thinking. If I have enough money and power when I'm 40+ then I'd choose guys in 20s too.
They just look better than most 40 year old guys 🤷♀️
The only time I've found Leo attractive was when he was "Jack" from Titanic. I was a young pre-teen at the time, and swooned over his character who was as sensitive, caring, and devoted as he was clever, brave, and resourceful. He freaking sacrificed himself so Rose would be spared from the icy waters! In my young girlish mind, could a more perfect, beautiful man exist?
Fast forward a few decades. He did not get better looking. He has a weirdly wide-set face and a dad bod - definitely works for Teddy Roosevelt tho. Excited for that. And the real Leo is just a ok-looking 50-year-old who wants to shamelessly f*** as many hot, young models as possible. By reading the comments, I suppose many admire (or are envious) of that lifestyle and rationalize it with ideas from evolutionary biology.
I think deep down we all know there's something unsavory about it - probably for similar biological underpinnings (perhaps an instinct to protect young women and their potential offspring?) Would you want your young, inexperienced college-aged daughter in a relationship with a notorious 50-year-old f-boy, regardless of his fame and status? Would our ancestors want that for their daughters?
As the man gets older in years, the optics of this sort of couple get more cringey, sad, and embarrassing. We all know each party is using the other in some way. The relationship is fundamentally transactional with (most likely) little to do with love. And there's something tragic about that - even when it's glamorized by famous, beautiful people (*I still hold my opinion that Leo is not physically enticing).
But I suppose if you want to know what men are really like, first look at gay men - the amount of sex + sexual partners they have. Then I suppose you can look at high status hetero men like Leo who can do whatever (and whoever) they want.
For women (who still have some girlish dreams left deep inside them) it can be a depressing fact of life.
I'd wager that most women would be more envious of Chris Hemsworth's beautiful wife and family than the young women Leo has had short flings with. There are obvious reasons for that... And not just because Hemsworth is worlds better looking.
Family gives life a deeper meaning and with that the longterm bonding with a partner.
He really does have a weird wide-set face doesn’t he. Hahahah
Good thing Leo isn't trying to date you huh? I mean he is just gonna have to keep settling for 25yo supermodels. Poor guy
@@tyronevonchadley I sincerely hope he and the models are all very happy together. I'm clearly too old for him with my prefrontal cortex fully formed and all 😜
Sidenote: happily married to someone much younger with many more virile years ahead 😉
Agree, he as good looking as when he was Jack.
This is not just for rich celebrities. I’m 49 and my gf is 24. I’m hardly rich or famous…you do have to be fit and take care of yourself but there’s plenty of young women who prefer older men who are mature and rather spend time with them, most guys in their 20’s would still rather play video games then give their woman attention🙄
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I get the whole thing, except that Leo doesn’t want a “fertile” mate in the traditional sense, given he’s never had a child by any of them. So fertility isn’t the end game.
fertility = youth = beauty (and also less baggage/trauma)
Men who don't want children are still turned on by fertility cues.
That doesn't matter. Its biological that fertility and youth are attractive to men even if they are not trying to replicate at the time.
It occurs to me that when men become attracted to women, it's usually at a younger age, to younger women. There is the rare flyer with that, but most men are initially attracted to younger women and they stay that way. Why wouldn't it?
Because candy is not nutritious. There comes a day when...
You: I'm not sure how to handle my mother's descent into dementia. I'm the last caregiver and I just can't put her in nursing. I may need some support to get through this.
Her: I need support too! What tattoo should I get on my arm next?
@@TonyShepps that's not at all how most women act, even when they're younger they're extremely in tune with people's emotions. I don't really need a woman to do anything but be emotionally supportive and maybe spruce up the home. The rest I can and have always taken care of myself.
@@TonyShepps find better women, mate. Good luck.
@@okaySam I did, she aged with me and now we have grandchildren. The reward is meaningful, and provides me with a reason for being. Good luck to everyone.
@@TonyShepps Then why have such a bitter outlook on women?
That thumbnail sums it up.🤣🤣
The first thing i apply on discussions like this is rule number one
''Reverse the roles and restart the discussion''
Most discussions end right there
Any 50+-year-old woman who only dates men below 25 is still considered weird in society.
Women like rich, tall, successfull men. Men like young and beautiful women. Same thing.
Talking down men for this. While women themselves like rich, tall, successfull men, is just hypocritical.
You keep calling out women for having these stupid standards and us women will continue calling out your guys' weird standards as well. That way we can meet in the middle and make society a happier and better place 🥰
So true though, facts
@@londontipton6260 Yes, I think it's good that we accept the reality of these standards ❤️
Hypocrisy is what gets me, I'd have more respect for them if they just allowed men to have standards to.
One thing that didn't come up is older people in general have a lot of emotional baggage which leads to manipulation and toxic projection of personal faults into new relationships. Why date someone who brings a bunch of problems like this?
@password 12 He has been riding the wave of youthful optimism and good sex with women at their peek, plus he's a Hollywood a-lister. How much baggage does he have? Probably not much, and when his dark side comes out the relationship is done and both sides move on.
@password 12 How old are you? 13...
@password 12 Nooo sex is pretty trivial compared to the social dynamics of a long term relationship. I was remarking on psychology.
This is true...at 20 you don' t have much emotional baggage and experiences (compared to a 50 years old at least)...your brain is still developing in some areas and so is your personality, you are still like an unwritten book and Some people would see this as a pro...especially if they are not interested in connecting on a deep meaninful level
@@azakiki9649 I agree
I mean, if all men are as rich and famous as Leo? ....they also would only want Women under 25
Actually most men still want the under 25 year olds but lot can't get them. Leo is just able to that's the only difference, and even me being not famous nor rich I do not go after women in their 30s and 40s I have less success than Leo in the dating market but I just can't change my biology women in the 20s over all are just more attractive.
Cool to see an Irish lad on the podcast. 🇮🇪
I'm 31 but I love to go out and party and not much in focus for having kids not every women thinks the same.
Lol
I don’t think women these days are rushing down the aisle to be married lol! There’s a lot more serious partying going on these days than serious relationships!
@@Nah-ah and then alot more single mum homes and cat ladies later on 😆
Older vvomen know on a subconscious level that they can't compete with younger vvomen in the dating game. So their only mating strategy is to shame men for preferring to date younger vvomen.
Obviously, older single vvomen would never admit to this sort of behavior. "Why?" you might ask. Because they're simply coping. And if they admit to their mating strategy they look foolish.
^^^This, so very this
Or older women can just date younger men if the women have enough wealth.
Men or women everyone loves free money. So yeah they will come.
@@Ash-dj5ph VVomen's nature is hypergamous, which means most of them only date guys who makes more money than them.
Your example is so rare that it almost never happens. So it's pointless bringing that up. The exception doesn't make the rule.
@@gmindset79if given option and if it was more socially acceptable younger men will also date older women because of her money. Just like younger women are willing to date Leo
@@Ash-dj5ph You're talking about "if scenarios". My words are rooted in facts. I live in reality, I suggest you do to.
The conversations with them must be very enlightening. "I like totally made a Tik Tok vadeeeeooo, and it was like totally totaaaaaaallly"
My research methods and stats professor showed this graph in class second day :D
no one has told these ladies how it is, or else it was all just ignored
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“Young women are going after high caliber males”. Yes. Common sense. Cope better Yall.
Nothing is “a high caliber” here.
@@Butterflieslove2 Nothing is “high caliber” here* Fixed your grammar.
@@coreywilder1564 english is not my first language, and my grammar is not the topic.
Well everyone will have a different definition of what a "high caliber" male is. To some it might be rich and successful like Leo, to others it will be someone who is worthy being a long term partner - future husband. So those in second type will not see a man who will just want to use her for a few years and dismiss as high caliber.
I remember this girl here became upset online, a few years ago, after she posted a loving comment about Leo and folks kinda went in on her saying things like " You do know that he will be dumping you in a few yrs right??"... and then they showed a pic of him comforting her in a jacuzzi after reading the mean comments. Lol....
I wonder if he tells them ahead of time that he will be dropping them before they get too old?
Now I understand why Leonardo DiCaprio won’t date girls or women over the age of 25. This analysis seems very credible to me and possibly to a lot of other viewers who watch your channel. Seems like younger women are far more adventurous and aren’t usually eager to formally settle down just yet. Younger people in general are keen on further exploring their own tastes or preferences when it comes to their would-be partners/spouses.
But those younger chicks also get older
Then what to do about
Let’s be honest here girls … if we were Leo in female form would any of us date men over 35? I kno I wouldn’t, if I had to choose, I’d choose the young hot guys. It’s human nature 🤷🏻♀️
not the same thing
It’s crazy to assume that everyone has age-related standards. To answer your question no I would definitely not date that much younger than me. I certainly couldn’t develop a connection and I’d feel like we can’t have much in commun so I wouldn’t be interested in that at all.
@@moomoos8sweets the point is he’s clearly not interested in making a real connection otherwise he would date women with substance. It’s purely physical
Interesting the men don’t think it applies to women 🤔😂😂
@@Princesslaya90 ....men and women don't look for the same things in the opposite sex. It's completely opposite.
Free world. Living the life Leo!
Women can be smart in their 20th and stupid in their 50th, it all depends on women and it's just his preference, I don't think it has something to do with the mental ability of his girlfriends, I don't understand why some older woman get defensive, Leo is not the Universally handsome man, everyone has their own taste :D
That dude is onto something
Leonardo DiCaprio is rich enough to be everyone's Daddy.
I find it funny: the same idiots complaining about Leo going for women who are younger are the same idiots cheering Lori Harvey for dating older rich men.
Will the real HYPOCRITES, please stand up?! 💯‼️💯‼️
Did Leonardo break up with Gisele? Or did Gisele break up with him? Gisele is powerful and wealthy in her own right. And was the break up with Bar Refaeli more him or more her or more mutual? She's also a multi-millionaire. Looks like Leonardo has had 3 relationships of somewhat significant length. These seem to have ended before he could be sued for "palimony" in California. But also maybe the women were ready to move on?
Wealthy women can't move on though. There potential suitors pool is almost non existant.
Whatever floats your boat I guess.
I think immaturity and lack of experience are MAJOR turnoffs, which is why I don’t want to date women way younger than me (I’m 30)
In time you will, brother. In time you will...
That matrix programming is strong in you.
Don’t blame him one bit. Although, there are some bad cougars out there nowadays that will blow your socks off 🧦
The reasons these cougars are wild in bed is because they're desperate and they know their time is ticking. It is why I avoid them. Their desperation easily transforms into neurosis and mania later down the road.
@@xFlared That's a bad way to paint all of them. Some of them are 🔥 actually, still look like they're in they're late 20s, and will do a lot for you, without the desperation, even knowing that you two aren't gonna be in a relationship - a little quality time goes a long way if you're pleasant company. Maybe you haven't met them yet lol
@@xFlared It’s mainly because they have tons of experience which is disgusting
Wooow…. First of all I LOVE the fact there is a term for women who date younger men .. but none for men dating younger women… and with the way you’re speaking about “cougars” there is no need for you to avoid them or in fact women of any age as I’m
pretty sure they’re the ones doing the avoiding
@@mycrazylife408 what if they have tons of experience with only 1 or 2 previous ex's?