r/EntitledPeople - Psycho Karen Calls 911 On MY 10YR OLD! She "REFUSED" to PLAY!
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- r/entitledpeople OP tells a story about the time an entitled Karen calls the cops when OP's daughter wont play with her daughter! The entitled Karen neoighbor keeps trying to stir up trouble to get OP's arrested! Subscribe for more stories.
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Stories in this episode of Reddit Entitled People:
0:00 - Intro
0:34 - Story 1 (W00Ferson)
3:43 - Story 2 (Tenacitybrit9)
7:35 - Story 3 (Golden_Silver61)
12:31 - Story 4 (C1PHERSTR1KE)
14:43 - Story 5 (VIVIDrae)
19:26 - Story 6 (Dyeni909)
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1st story: any officer that does that should be written up and the mom should be fined for abuse of police resources.
Unfortunately, for any of this to happen, someone would have to file a complaint.
And the only person who could possibly do that is OP herself, who was at that time thoroughly intimidated.
The offices should also be fired. What jokes.
Officers have been disciplined / fired for abusing their power in similar cases; using it to intimidate a child would probably result in quicker and more severe disciplinary action.
Police love to abuse there power and if police actually got in trouble for when they abuse there power and police resources it would be near impossible to have police. Lately due to police abuse of power people have been making sure to learn there rights in case a police officer tries to do something. Always make sure to you know your rights in case you have a cop that tries to do something.
Story 1: My mom didn't do the cop thing she had far worse ideas but she did do the part of making certain that for the first 18 years of my life that I couldn't keep anything. I'd go to school, come home for her to smugly tell me that she cleaned my room, or organized my things for me to discover that she had thrown out most of my stuff. This had it's impact in that today decades later I still don't get attached to stuff or hold onto anything for more than a couple years. I'm not materialistic at all but of course that was never her end game.
Irony - telling someone they should be in a mental hospital for being disabled while their own older child runs around assaulting people due to “anger issues”.
Sounds like both Karen and her son were the ones who needed therapy. 🙄
Exactly!
Story 1 - Oh my… what a monster of a mother! And ANY police officer who goes along with this psychological abuse should be demoted if not fired. And the mother should be arrested for wasting police time and most of all child abuse.
It wasn't Wasting Police Time since the Officer was Off Duty when they did that favour for OP's Momster...
@@HappilyHomicidalHooligan Regardless of if in-uniform or not, a cop 24/7 represents the PD. He could be fired for violating the cause in his contract.
Demoted isn't good enough. FIRE HIM! BLACKLIST HIS ASS!
the mom saying the brother belongs in a mental institute but than her son has anger issues and lashes out the irony….the mom and the son belong in the mental institute
The part that pisses me off is that she used that excuse I have anger issues but I knew how to control it before 14 and that little sissy still had the gull to get mad and punched someone even though he was offered to get another one damn parents are failing us
It’s always the same thing. People notice „bad“ things in others, when they have themselves the real issue
Story 2 - Since when is it a crime for someone to come to a public pool to swim? I hope that ED got an embarrassing lecture from the police and staff.
People like the Entitled Dad assume they can so whatever they want and get away with it, but they oftentimes can't get away with it.
I dont get why the op even bothered to discuss it. The manager said his crimes were being there and swimming. Once that was made clear, the proper response is 'so why are you talking to me?' They literally harassed a paying customer into leaving because a random guy told them to. I'd be putting in a complaint. Doesnt matter how 'nice' the manager was, he ripped off a customer who broke no rules and didn't even border on creepy and rewarded another for abusing other customers.
I hope the cops took a good hard look at the dad, since it's pretty clear his first thought was that adults don't hang around kids without nefarious reasons.
Op forgot to mention eds pretty stupid
@@blender4464 Because unlike a Karen OP is a reasonable person
What's this? A cop getting all aggro before accurately assessing the situation? WHAT A SURPRISE, I NEVER WOULD HAVE EXPECTED THAT.
Story 1: That mother should have been arrested. Children have rights! Slavery is illegal, and if it's family, that only makes it MORE wrong! Not less! More!
Particularly in the USA, children have practically NO rights, apart from the right to live... and even that seems to often be uncertain. The USA is, I believe, the only first-world nation which refused to ratify the UN Declaration on the Rights of the Child. Not that "ratifying" the declaration did anything for any signatory nation since most, if not all, of them seem to honour the declaration far more in the breach than in the observance.
Yeah, good luck with that. There are various states busily dismantling child safety and child labor laws claiming kids are lazy.
The parents are working to provide a roof over the child's head, clothes on the child's back, and food in the child's stomach. Until the child becomes 18, he/she has the rights of a servant, and to an education. After the age of 18, then the child has the right to MOVE OUT. The PARENT owns the house, the PARENT owns the car.
Crazy Karen Story: If I were OP, the moment I heard that Voice Mail Karen left me, I'd have called the Officer from the Park Incident back and had Karen Arrested for Uttering Threats and Harassment...
That’s what I would’ve done taking the recording to the police.
Same here! She made threats on the answering machine, what a freaking idiot, and the OP should have reported it and turned in the tape as evidence!
Story 3 - Good on OP for keeping his cool while the Cop Dad screamed at him and then telling him what his son did. At least the Cop Dad realized that he messed up when he confronted OP, hopefully he learned to get ALL of the facts before confronting someone and gives his brat of a son a REALLY good lesson about FOLLOWING THE RULES WHEN THEY ARE GIVEN!
If that's his initial reaction, though, I don't imagine he's a very good cop. Even in spite of his gun safety stances.
@Arcane_Route_66 my thoughts exactly. What kind of good cop jumps to conclusions without ensuring they have all the evidence
I agree but this seemed like a pretty young kid. Dad was likely a young father as well. He really screwed up but did apologize. Let’s hope that taught him something.
He's a 🐷 so I doubt it.
The son was a Mike Teavee in the making.
Wasting police time on a child who didnt want to play with another kid...thats just sad and twisted.
I know, talk about having a whole lot time on your hand and nothing better to do, as well as wasting time all at once. Did no one tell her that people don’t owe anything to anyone? So what if a kid won’t play with another? It’s not that big of a deal.
She should've been arrested for that. Show that kid her mom is a psycho before she's ruined too
@@alexgomez594I fear it's already too late. She already has her mother's racist views.
@@kitarrah1422not at all
@@kitarrah1422People can grow and change. Hopefully this incident showed the poor little girl that her mom is unstable, and to take everything she says with a grain of salt. If not now then when she's older.
5th story: welp at least op found out why all the other kids don't want to play with the Karen's kid. Cause, both her and her kid are crazy.
Mostly Karen. She’s a racist psychopath that caused her daughter to be socially isolated. The poor kid doesn’t even understand that her mom is to blame for her not having friends.
When Karen grabbed the cop's shoulder walkie-talkie, how was she not immediately cuffed and arrested and taken to the station...?
good question.
That’s what I would like to know
That kind of thing is exactly how you can tell that the story is not merely fiction, but chatbot generated fiction. People know how the real world works. Chatbots don't.
B/c she's white based on the context of the story
@@eacalvert That's what I was thinking as well. And isn't it ironic that she's doing something like that and playing the racist card?
Once cleared, I have to wonder why pool guy didn't insist that the paranoid dad be charged for making a false police report...
OP probably only wanted the whole situation to be over as soon as possible.
That's normally a bad choice. But with OP being autistic, I can understand why he chose this.
Big buff ED probably just wanted a punching bag. Anger issues? 🤔🙄🤷
@@karinwolf3645 Quick to take side, eh? Ever think of the other side reasoning?
Consider this :
You are a parent.
OP is an adult, sitting alone, at the side of the pool, where children are playing? How is that different from an adult sitting alone at the park where children are playing? It sure can make people suspicious. Not to forget that people (children and adults) are half naked in a swimming pool.
Now, I'm not yet going to elevate it to involve the police based just on that. But I'd throw a suspicious look on that kind of adult. Because again, that kind of act is suspicious.
@@gorilladisco9108 an adult enjoying a public place like everyone else is suspicious.... no.
@@bunji4216 Next time some Reddit poster will write she saw some dude lurking in the park and being aggressive when OP "innocently" "approach" him. And you guys will defend her accusation. I bet on it, because that's what happened time and time again here in this channel, namely treat OPs as saints and their words as gospel.
Story 1: I can completely understand why OP became possessive over their stuff. No doubt that mom was constantly taking things away from OP.
Definitely understandable. My mom would also take my things (or break them in some instances) the second I did the smallest thing she didn't like, so I completely understand becoming possessive
(Granted, it was only ever things like toys or video games in my case, but I'm pretty sure I remember her threatening to take things like my clothes or my bed at least a couple times. She was always eager to jump straight to punishment rather than explain why whatever I was doing was wrong)
@ricochet0928 I feel bad all that happened to you. I was fortunate this kind of thing didn't really happen to me.
However, once I was old enough, I realized that whether it is something like this or entirely something different, it isn't really about the specific obect/s. It's about the disrespect to your things and your feelings. A lot of people don't understand that.
Even apologizing after, scout dad showed really disturbing behavior for a cop.
more so for a scout leader position
We don't know exactly what the kid told his dad. He could have embellished the story while not saying what he did.
@rcrawford42 it's very clear from the context that the kid told his dad he was kicked off without mentioning a reason.
@@brandonshelp4682 Except this was years ago, so OP could have forgotten that.
@jacthing1 no, I reject your "what if" premise. I judge the situation as presented. You are free to indulge in fan fiction.
Pool Story: When the Police showed up, OP should have told the Police they want to Press Charges against Kevin with Improper use of the Emergency System, Harassment and Uttering Threats (as witnessed by the Pool Manager)...
I would have...
Only the cops can press charge about improper use of the emergency system. That they didn't, meant that they understand what the father was concerned about, even if it's not strong enough for them to act on OP ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
And the father had his reason.
OP is an adult, sitting alone, at the side of the pool where children gathered? How is that different from an adult sitting alone at the park where children are playing? It sure can make people suspicious. Not to forget that people (children and adults) are half naked in a swimming pool.
Now, I'm not yet going to elevate it to involve the police based just on that. But I'd throw a suspicious look on that kind of adult.
@@gorilladisco9108 It's not that he was an adult, it was that he was a male adult. It boils down to the pure sexism belief that only men are predators.
@@zackkatian3436 Not every predators are men, but ... most predators are men.
Not every bear will chew your face, but will you take chance with that big one digging your trash?
@@gorilladisco9108 Depends on the fur color.
"If it's black, fight back. If it's brown, lay down. If it's white, say goodnight."
Story #4:
Total Karen logic:
The 10 year old kid with the disability that makes him scream out must be institutionalized.
But her son with anger issues that make him violently attack others can not be touched or held accountable.
I’m pretty sure her son’s future will involve going to jail
Story 2: as someone with autism, I can definitely relate to OP. I like to swim under the water too. Mainly because I like the feeling of having the water covering every part of my body. It’s a sensory thing. It’s also why I like things that are soft and why I can’t sleep with a shirt on. It’s all down to how it feels
It's not about the swimming. It's about OP sitting at the side of the pool where children were gathering. Had he kept on swimming, or sit (more like stand) at the deeper side, he wouldn't attract suspicion. That being said, I wouldn't yet to elevate it to involve police if nothing else happened, but I would make sure to watch him too, if I saw him sitting among the children.
Story 5 - Hearing this story instantly reminds me of the Karen who called the police on a young girl for selling bottled water ‘without a permit’. This EM is a racist, she’s the one using the race card not OP. I’m only mad that we didn’t hear EM get arrested for misuse of the 911 call or get a hefty fine.
Story 3 - This is why, as a parent, you ALWAYS find out the other side of the story your kids tell you before going off on someone else. There’s a fine line between being a good advocate for your child and being their enabler, and you’d better be sure you’re on the right side of that line.
The fact that the dad is a cop is deeply disturbing. Does he get the full story on duty?
@@PassiveSmoking That is both an excellent and deeply unsettling question. One hopes that professional detachment when he’s on the job makes him more likely to keep his cool than on issues where his son is involved, but… 😰
@@PassiveSmoking exactly what I was worried about but he did at least apologize so he might have learned.
Story 1: Carried a body camera and see how OP mom and cop friend getting roasted/fired for their antics.
1st story: they need to get the cops name and ID number.
That range master was a legit dude. And at least the cop did right in the end.
Story - why wasn't the mother arrested for fake report, public disturbance, etc?
Story 1: That was overkill for not putting out the garbage straight away.
Story 2: I hope that Kevin was arrested for filing a false police report. He was beyond paranoid.
Story 3: Cop Dad wasn't a total Kevin. He didn't have all the facts and apologized when he found out why his son was banned from the range.
Story 4: Some people have no consideration for other person's disabilities and it all degenarates into physical violence.
Story 5: OP wasn't playing the race card because Karen WAS being racist. Her attitude was absolutely toxic. Another one who should've been arrested for mking a false police report.
Story 6: Those toxic neighbours need to mind their own businsess. I agree with DF that a restraining order is going to be next step.
The mom in Story 1 is an abusive, narcissistic tyrant! OP needs to be removed from that household ASAP!
Final Story - Of course OP’s NTA, those neighbors have been warned time and time again to stay off their property and they refused to listen.
Story 3: I was in the Army Reserve at one point in my past and was a range officer-in-charge on several occasions, so I know exactly what was up with the rules... especially the "up and down range" rule. Violating any safety rules will also get you kicked off the range and will give you a failure to qualify with your weapon for the year. It's not a joke. Rule 1 of any rifle, hand gun, or other firearm is "Always treat the weapon as if it is loaded." There are no exceptions for "except when you feel like pretending you are reenacting an action movie scene." And as @silverflight01 said, do it with a toy gun... which should have an orange something on the muzzle to readily identify it as a fake/toy.
As a black woman, I’m very disappointed in story, five’s mother because there is no way that I would continue to let my child play with someone whose learn racism from their mother plus to not directly go to the park after finding out this lunatic was the ranting and raving you had to be called again when your daughter Had the police called on her insane to me. Then this woman has the nerve to threaten you to not walk past her house you or your young children she should’ve been dealt with very differently however I do agree with moving because I would not want my daughter around anyone that racist and that entitled!
Story 3: Some people just fail to understand how serious these rules are. If he wanted to reenact an action movie scene, do it with a toy gun.
Exactly. You do not point a gun at anything that you're not prepared to shoot at.
Good thing the Entitled Kid's father wasn't actually Entitled, but oh my gosh, what was the kid expecting by lying to his father?
There are literally hundreds of people who die every year in America because "The gun wasn't loaded" when it turns out it actually was. Gun safety should always be taken seriously, no matter what.
@@moebiusjdx7288 Alec Baldwin, anyone?
What about if you're Alec Baldwin?
The mom in story #1 will wonder why she is thrown in a nursing home and forgotten about.
Why even bother with a nursing home?
Just forget her right away.
But then you'd have to feel sorry for those who work in said nursin' home.
Shady Pines, Ma!
22:01 this is why the people sold the property in the first place.
Always check with the local government and the local police to find out if there have been any ongoing issues or disputes with the property you intend to purchase.
Before I purchased my apartment, my father suggested that I visit on a Friday or Saturday evening just to see what the noise levels were like and if there were any particularly loud neighbours.
It was good advice, at one apartment that I almost purchased I discovered that the building was directly under the airport flight path. The viewing times had been chosen when the planes were not as busy.
You might find the most perfect home, but it won’t matter if there are crazy entitled people living next door or across the street.
Story 5: OP offering a conversation was too generous. I respect her patience and openness, but I wouldn't have been able to do that.
Story 3: that was no Scout. That was a brat. That brat also disrespected two points of the Scout law: a scout is trustworthy and courteous. Clearly he was neither.
Said brat being like Mike Teavee in the aspect of his love for shootings on TV.
Story 1: I had this happen to me when I was 8. My stepfather had a cop scare me because of my anger issues. It's 100% a real thing that happens.
Story 2: I'm not surprised this happened. I hate public pools a lot, as an autistic person myself, and I can 100% believe there would be a dad like that. Dealt with entitlement like that before at a go-kart track.
Story 3: Good on OP for not letting that kid get away with being a little shit. Gun safety is not something to fuck around with, and good on dad for at least apologizing after learning the truth.
Story 4: As someone with severe social anxiety, this story explains it perfectly. People can be so stupid about mental disorders. Good on OP for being a good big sibling and taking control of the situation.
Story 5: Oh, a repeat. No big deal, great story. The mother in this story is super crazy and needs to be put into a hospital personally. No, Karen, OP's daughter does not need play with your little crapcake.
Story 6: If the property doesn't belong to you, you do not have the right to complain about it. If I want to build a greenhouse with non native plants, you can kindly screw off.
Pretty sure story 2 was a repeat as well, but still all good stories.
@@ryukaze7392 I don't recall it, and I listen to fluff almost religiously, lol. But yeah
1st story: I want to know the badge number of that cop. Get him/her fired or on personal leave REAL Quick. And I hope OP now has no contact with psycho entitled mother. And for the commenter, I feel a little bad for the father, but he made that bed and he can lie in it.
2nd Story: I've heard this before, but still I feel so bad for OP for being accused of being a Pedo
3rd Story: I don't care if the gun is loaded or not, you do not point the gun at something you don't intend to shoot. Entitled Crotch goblin was warned and told this multiple times and loved how it backfired on him. Also there's a saying of "There's no such thing as an unarmed gun" which I have a feeling OP was trying to teach as well.
4th story: Hopefully charges were filed on the Entitled Mother and Child. Kid FAFO and good on OP for standing up for their brother.
5th story: I'm facepalming so bad at this story...the mother is so unhinged and needs to go to a mental institution and I'm honestly glad that OP didn't call her back and just moved. I also feel bad for the daughter but seriously hope she doesn't turn out like her mom.
6th story: OP is NTA. They tried their best to compromise with their neighbors and each time the neighbors went above and beyond being entitled assholes. Especially when they were warned by OP, cops, etc. and I agree with Dark Fluff that a restraining order should be next.
My older brother is intellectually impaired (I’m his little sister) and we grew up in 80’s where there was not a lot of information or general knowledge about intellectual disability (not like today’s level of knowledge) he was an integral part of our BMX gang and most kids in our street and neighbouring were awesome. However we got in some residents in the next street over and rode into our street and started having a go at my brother. I was not on my bike at the time and was fixing up a ramp to jump. One of the kids, a girl called my brother some names and attempted to ride away. I chased her down easy, she wasn’t a good rider and dragged her over the handlebars. I punched her a few times and all her friends were screaming at me to stop. My brother and best mate rode over and just observed as she was with a heap of brothers and boys and I was flogging her. I pushed her away and told her to not come back to our street or ever call my brother names again. I only had to do it once and none of the kids in the street she was from come into our street again.
Listening to the second story made me so mad, although I am surprised that there wasn’t that much of a conversation between the Karen dad and OP
The Karen, who wanted OP‘s daughter to play with her daughter, should’ve gotten arrested, or at least a ticket for calling 911 for stupid reasons
I feel bad for the daughter. No one wants to be her friend because her mom is awful.
Have you consider the other party reasoning?
You are a parent, and ...
OP is an adult, sitting alone, at the side of the pool, where children are playing? How is that different from an adult sitting alone at the park where children are playing? It sure can make people, especially parents, suspect him of something.
Now, I'm not yet going to elevate it to involve the police based just on that. But I'd throw a suspicious look on that kind of adult.
The ED in the second story doesn't realize that Op has grounds to civilly sue this ED for defamation.
No judge will uphold that because the father had his valid reasons.
OP is an adult, sitting alone, at the side of the pool, where children are playing? How is that different from an adult sitting alone at the park where children are playing? It sure can make people, especially parents, justifiably suspect him of something.
Now, I'm not yet going to elevate it to involve the police based just on that. But some parents are more easily triggered than others.
@gorilladisco9108 As a cop family member told me, suspicion isn't a reason to call the police, you can be fined for that because you wasted police time which is needed for actual crimes. If OP had actually done anything to warrant others being suspicious of him, besides where he was; or had done anything to prove that your suspicious was correct, then the dad should have gone to management first and only go to the police if the manager didn't do anything if there was behavior or actions showing OP had I'll intentions towards the kids. If people were arrested for "being suspicious" because they are around kids despite not having one, then anyone without kids at a fast food place that has any kind of play area would be put in prison. You can keep an eye out, but don't act on a "suspicious" without proof or justifiable cause.
@@kendowolf1 "As a cop family member told me, suspicion isn't a reason to call the police, you can be fined for that because you wasted police time which is needed for actual crimes."
So, I can put my chair just outside your home, sit down there, staring menacingly toward your home, and you can't do anything about it? How is that make sense?
Are you sure he gave you a legitimate advice or was he just have a bad day at work because of Karens?
@@gorilladisco9108 In that situation, as long as you're not on my property or showing behavior that you are a threat to myself or anyone in my home, I can't do anything about your "suspicious behavior" because you are on public property, not private property.
Story 4 - When I was in Taekwondo (about 10 years old) I went to another dojo where there was a boy (probably 12 or 14) who had a form Tourette syndrome, he would just loudly shout at random times and he couldn’t help it. That was my first exposure to Tourette syndrome.
Story 4 - So the mom tells OP that his brother should be in a mental for his disability while her son, who apparently has a hair trigger on his short fuse of a temper, is free to punch a young kid?
Yeah good luck explaining that in court lady.
I remember when I was a kid my neighbor came over to tell me I had to play with his daughter and I told him I didn’t have to play with anyone I didn’t want too. His daughter was very entitled and she got it from him. Her mom was nice tho.
Story 1: Please say that, as an adult, you are not in contact with your mother anymore😟
Story 2: What a lousy manager. He should have had the person complaining leave the place!😠
Story 3: Maybe before chewing someone out, cop dad should get all the facts first😒
Story 2: Poor OP. That must have been scary.
Story 1: That is the worst mother of all, and that cop shouldn't even be a cop if he's gonna do that.
All cops are like that. Douches with badges
Cop Dad should have been kicked off the range too , after his apology. No self control and should not be shooting on that range. Don't care how cool he turned out to be. Abusing his authority , not knowing the full story.
Story 5: WOW Unbelievable.
My mom and dad did the same thing to me. My mom was friends with the Chief of Police, whom she went to high school with. The reason for this is I was hanging out with the wrong people. The officer basically said " either I straighten up or I'll be in these cells with my loser friends, in a day, a month or within a year. If I continue to follow the path I was on!" It pretty much straightened me to do better. Thanks Mom for looking out for me!
Please tell me that last part is sarcastic.
I get what you're trying to say. That for you, what your mom did was a good thing. And I can DEFINITELY see some circumstances where a cop might need to have a serious chat with a child about the consequences of heading down the wrong path. But there is a HUGE difference between what your mom did (a way to say, hey, this group could lead you to bad things) and what OP's mom was doing (obey my every whim immediately or you'll be in jail, even if you aren't doing anything wrong and what is delaying you is more stuff you need to do)
The thing is, OP didn't do anything wrong. He was doing his homework and was on a train of thought. The mom was an abusive tyrant with zero patience
7:19 I’m not surprised at all of this and I have had a similar experience to. I drove a small tourist train (like that in zoos or amusement parks) in a small town and happily rang its bell and wave back to people or children. One day a mother had to say that it was creepy for an adult man to wave back to small children…
Story 2: Down range or in the air?
I was always taught that when not in use, you have to point it down at the ground and keep your finger off the trigger, no matter what.
I guess OP in that story never heard of “what goes up, must come down.” I admit that I don’t know much about guns but I thought it made more sense aiming it at the ground than up in the air. Seems like there’s less of a chance of a rogue bullet hurting someone that way. I wonder if he was teaching that way so there was less of a chance of his “students” accidentally shootings themselves in the foot.
Story 1: It wouldn't surprise me if the mom was sleeping with the police friend.
Story 2: that dad probably has some issues and is projecting
2. Why do you treat OP as saint? A normal person will see that what OP doing is suspicious.
You know the feeling when in a public toilet, where there are 8 empty urinals, and you pick the farthest one to pee, then enter this guy who choose the urinal just beside you. He didn't do anything suspicious, just unzip and pee. Alongside you. Juuust peeing.
However ... (insert Bill Burr voice here)
I don't know about you, man. But I'm sure thinking I'm gonna be raped if I stay any longer.
I know someone whose mother tried that, but the kid new things a little better than she or the officer did. Officer did the whole "Rooba rooba jail time record blah blah" and the kid walked over to the squad car and opened the door, then sat down in the back seat. A LOT of back-pedaling, and a couple years later, when he was eighteen, he went into the station to 'reminisce' with the officer - did a number on the guy's career for a couple years.
As for the last story? The entitled neighbors want the property and will harass the hell out of whomever lives there until they agree to sell it to THEM at rock-bottom prices.
3rd story : the cop dad shouting before asking, that is a pretty huge red flag. I wonder where he learned that, and how does he perform in his job
about the OP in the pool, I have to wonder wheether the "buff dad" wasn't a child abuser himself, attempting to cast shade on an innocent person.
How about a normal person?
You see ..
OP is an adult, sitting alone, at the side of the pool, where children are playing? How is that different from an adult sitting alone at the park where children are playing? It sure can make people, especially parents, justifiably suspect him of something.
Now, he surely over the top to call police based on just that. But you need to understand his reasons, and not treat every OP in Reddit as saint.
The idea that an adult cannot even be in the presence of kids without it being "creepy" is, itself, even creepier.
Some guy sitting alone in a park where kids are playing... maybe he's just taking a break from a walk, or is on his lunch break. Or he's just enjoying the sun. Absent him doing something beyond sitting there YOU are the one thinking about horrible things.
@@rcrawford42 Next time some Reddit poster will write she saw some dude lurking in the park and being aggressive when OP "innocently" "approach" him. And you guys will defend her accusation. I bet on it, because that's what happened time and time again here in this channel, namely treat OPs as saints and their words as gospel, and not to try to understand the reasons of other side of the conflict.
Oh, and claiming autism help too, apparently. Victim trophy for everyone!
Story 1: I would have said...and YES even at 12...to the cop "Fine...DO IT...take me to juvie...I want to see how you explain to a judge that DOING MY HOMEWORK is a crime."
Story 2: I would never have given my details to police without demonstrable probable cause. Though I would inform them of the threat the guy made. Then stayed at the pool.
Story 5: Karen commits: 1) Harassment 2) Abusing Emergency Services 3) Assault of a Police Officer 4) Using Emergency Equipment w/o Authorization 4) Disturbing the Peace
Story 6: OP is NTA. Install security cameras. Use the constant harassment...both in person (by trespassing) and by mail...to get a No Contact Order against them. Enforce it.
2) The fact that OP as an adult, sitting alone, at the side of the pool, near where children are playing.
How is that different from an adult sitting alone at the park near where children are playing?
Those facts were reason enough for probable cause. And if OP aggravated it by refusing to give his identity, that's ground for arrest too. And police will even more likely to side with the father after that.
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You know the feeling when in public toilet, where there are 8 empty urinal, and you pick the farthest one to pee, then enter this guy who choose the urinal just beside you. I don't know about you, man. But I'm sure thinking I'm gonna be raped if I stay any longer.
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As I said...if they actually have the demonstrable probable cause then of course you would give them your information.
Story 4: When the boy punched OP's brother in the chest, makes me wonder if that wasn't the first time he's ever done something like that.
Story 1. In 20 or 30 years time, that mom will be in a nursing home wondering why her children never visit her.
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should have pressed charges for defamation
Or filed a lawsuit for slander.
Story 2: If I ran the Kevin through the database, I would guess I found something -- those who accuse are the ones guilty enough to do worse...
Don't treat every Reddit poster as saint. Try to understand the other side reasoning.
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You know the feeling when in a public toilet, where there are 8 empty urinals, and you pick the farthest one to pee, then enter this guy who choose the urinal just beside you. He didn't do anything suspicious, just unzip and pee.
However ... (insert Bill Burr voice here)
I don't know about you, man. But I'm sure thinking I'm gonna be raped if I stay any longer.
1st story- my dad was a corrections officer and my tia was/is a sheriff and they would do that all the time when we were little and the adults would just laugh, most recently my tia showed up to a family event with her lights on to scare the kids
Back in 1992, Weird Al released his album "Off the Deep End." The title of one of the songs is "Trigger Happy." There is a line in the song that reads: "There's no feeling any greater than to shoot first and ask questions later."
Love that album. You are of course referring to the second song, the first being _Smells Like Nirvana._
Mom called police story: OP, it's too bad you didn't tell your school principal and/or guidance counselor about this little incident. That would have gotten the officer involved disciplined, possibly severely enough that none of your mother's other officer friends would risk doing the same.
Pool story: It sounds like the entitled dad just needed a victim to pick on for the day and chose you, OP. Good grief!
Gun range story: You did exactly right OP. Cop dad could have initially handled it better by asking questions first, but once he did have all the info he corrected immediately and apologized. Hopefully, the scout actually learned something.
Brother vs tea story: So what actually happened when the police arrived? Don't tell just half the story.
Playing kids story: Can't force anyone to be your friend if they don't want to be, in a public space or not. No laws about that at all. Idiot! No wonder the girl didn't have any friends.
Trespassing story: The neighbors should be glad you've been calling the police instead of friends like Smith & Wesson or Winchester to take care of the trespassing problems. I would go to the trouble of getting some motion activated lights as well as cameras around the property to document their activities. Plant some very thorny bushes on the inside of your fence. If you're in a climate that will support them, maybe some cactus.
Just moved into my new home. Half of a double. My 5 year old was digging in the dirt and throwing t over the wall. Old woman next door yelled at me about it. Not long after, my doorbell rang. It was a cop. He said he was here about some....dirt....? Explained story and he said 'I have more important things to do than this' he was not happy. Had many problems with hat crabby lady.😅
21:41 ... you, OP, are NOT the a-holes. Trespassing is a serious thing. A sign of No Trespassing is the automatic warning to get off the property.
Normally, to have someone arrested for trespassing you have to give them one warning to leave the property, but in almost every state in the US, a No Trespassing sign IS the first warning.
The property is YOUR property. What you have on your property is YOURS, not anything the neighbor family has permission to access. If they trespass, have them arrested. They can read, they have been warned, so there's no other excuse for them to be on your property.
You are not the a-hole, THEY are, so don't stress. Call the police every time they cross onto your property until they understand the literal boundaries here. Don't be a pushover or doormat. Have them arrested as many times as it takes.
My dad was paranoid -- properly! -- about people trespassing. There were 3 ponds on our relatively small farm, and he could easily imagine some idiot drowning in one and suing us.
The man who accused an autistic person for beeing pedo, should be charged with harrasment !
The first story is a perfect example of how to make sure your children have an unhealthy relationship with law enforcement. The children are going to grow up resentful of the police.
While cop dad probably was used to dealing with people “roughly” to his credit he acted 100% correctly when he found out that the issue was his son’s improper handling of a firearm. He’s a cop, he’s well aware of how important gun safety is. He did right after his first big error.
His kid probably told a very distorted account of what happened.
@@rcrawford42 Very likely.
I'm dizzy from shaking my head.
I probably have whiplash tbh
@@crimsonmaelstrom573 Yeah, and the ER doc put me in concussion protocol. Said I shouldn't be listening to heavy metal and thrashing. I told him I was listening to Darkfluff and Fluffing. 🤣🤣
Story 6- You are not the Aholes. Your neighbors are preventing you from enjoying your private property. I would get a lawyer and take them to court if necessary, maybe a o contact order from a judge. Start documenting everything they do or say.
2nd story- wow, that dad was just a bully😮
How about a normal dad? Even when he's an overprotective one?
OP is an adult, sitting alone, at the side of the pool, near where children are playing?
How is that different from an adult sitting alone at the park near where children are playing?
It sure can make people, especially parents, justifiably suspect him of something.
Story 2 The Autistic guy should have sued the dad's butt off. Being falsely accused of being a pedophile could have life changing consequences.
Story 4: by Karen's logic her son also belongs in a mental institution if he has this level of anger issue
Last story; consider electrifying the fence. 😂
Why would the manager kick someone out of the pool when they weren't doing anything wrong. Also why would the manager call the police when they didn't witness a damn thing. If the guy called, then why kick op out. Have the police talk to the guy with the manger. This story makes zero sense.
The Kevin dad probably made the phone call
The police de-escalated the situation by taking OP somewhere else.
And about that father ...
You know the feeling when in a public toilet, where there are 8 empty urinals, and you pick the farthest one to pee, then enter this guy who choose the urinal just beside you. He didn't do anything suspicious, just unzip and pee. Alongside you.
However ... (insert Bill Burr voice here)
I don't know about you, man. But I'm sure thinking I'm gonna be raped if I stay any longer.
Omg how did the police even acknowledge the call at all? I mean that should have been like ma'am you're abusing this 911 operations we are going to be finding you for your misuse of the 911 services.
Also the mother touching the officers radio should have been considered assault of an officer or at the very most disruption of an officer's duties.
Story 1 Instead of praising OP for completing homework she calls the cops on him/her for not being an obedient little robot!
OP is frustrating her power trip.
Last story: since land mines are frowned on, might as well get an electric fence.
If i ever had a kid and they got kicked out of an activity, especially a potentially dangerous activity, i definitely wouldn't yell at the person in charge, i would get the full story. Because my kid must have been kicked out for a reason and i just want to know what that reason is, before i decide on what to do next.
Story 1: Think the corrupt cops are the true bad guys here.
Wow! I never thought I’d hear parents using police to intimidate their kids. Those cops should’ve been fired. That’s only 100% illegal to do that.
Story 3 is so scary!! The vast majority of accidental shooting injuries & deaths in the US happen because someone does something stupid with a gun they thought “wasn’t loaded”. I’ve had a couple of those on my ambulance over the years.
My parents were both military so we had guns in the house since I was a child, but they were always locked up in a proper gun safe. From the age of about six onwards, I was taught very very firmly that if I ever see any firearm, don’t touch and get my parents or call the police if my parents aren’t there. Once they started teaching me to shoot, the “never point a gun at something you don’t intend to kill, doesn’t matter if you just unloaded the thing yourself and triple-checked it.” Even when the gun is disassembled for cleaning, never ever point it in an unsafe direction.
Story 6 After having them arrested several times and them still trespassing it's time to inform the police that the next time they are caught you will be exercising your second amendment rights and will be calling to have the police come and remove the bodies. After many attempts to solve the same issue and several arrests i was forced to shoot a neighbor who tried to enter my home with 3 of his teenage kids and a firearm. I was on the phone with the police when he broke down my front door and attacked my wife. This all resulted from me catching his teenage sons stealing the fuel that I kept in my garage for my mowers and 4 wheeler. I asked him to keep his kids off my property half a dozen times before I called the police and had one of them arrested. It only escalated from there. Now I don't have to worry because dad is in prison for 25 years and the teenage sons were all sentenced in adult court to sentences ranging from 7 to 15 years in prison. The mother has since divorced dad and moved away with the 2 daughters after thanking me for allowing her to escape the situation she was in.
No. Never threaten to use a firearm, and only use one if you are in fear of imminent death or severe bodily harm. Making that threat could be considered premeditated in the hands of a prosecutor.
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I wasnt a scout, but my dad taught all the cousins and myself proper gun safety, including "loaded or unloaded, magazine or no magazine, you never point a gun of any kind at anything you do not want to shoot." This saved one of my cousins at least once, when there was a round chambered when he cleaned his gun. His floor got a new hole, his pants needed changing, but no harm comes from following that rule.
The. Co cop. Should have called CPS on that mother , she has issues!!!
To the trespassers problem you sue them for harassment when you get into their pockets they'll behave
Or they start getting truly vicious.
Story 3: this reminds me of my time working at a scout camp. Back in ‘15 I was working ScoutCraft (more arts and crafts merit badges taught like leatherwork, photography, and art). I was teaching the art merit badge, and the particular day we were working on the multi medium project portion. And the end of the time allotted I gather the projects. And as I go through them I saw a plethora of styles. Then I noticed a fully folded sheet. Confused I opened it. What I saw on it was a rather short yet vulgar note to me about his opinion of my class. This would have been slick if it weren’t for the fact that he had been with the first year program. So I called over his supervisor of his group and handed him the note. Later that day a boy from a local unit to the camp with his scoutmaster show up. The boy was made to apologize and the boy learned a lesson that you shouldn’t think you’re anonymous in such a big group.
Re the pool: I'd be suing the pool. I don't understand how they can make someone leave over a false allegation that they didn't even look into. Just because someone says something about someone doesn't make it true! Especially when this persin had autism and not only did not know what was going on but was scared because of everything going on
Story #2- Why/how the hell did pool management and police officers just kick out OP without corroborating the accuser’s story?
They're caving in to a large, aggressive bully!
Story 2 - the dude who called the police is just projecting.
How about OP gave that guy all the wrong vibe?
OP is an adult, sitting alone, at the side of the pool, near where children are playing?
How is that different from an adult sitting alone at the park near where children are playing?
It sure can make people, especially parents, justifiably suspect him of something.
Some people think that any adult who is near children is a pedo; especially if that person isn’t with children of their own. The pool rules do _not_ say that every adult must be accompanied by a child so OP wasn’t doing anything wrong.
If that was me I would have got a lawyer and I would have sued both of them. The place. And the man for defamation
2nd Story: that is clearly defamation.
Story 3 - The entitled kid's dad has no business being an assistant scout master with an attitude like that. He has no business being in a position to mentor other people's children.
Story 5-this Karen spells her name with three Ks.
Always the ASSAULT! scream, when it is merely a response to ACTUAL assault
The crazy neighbors are trying to run those people off the property on purpose. They most likely want that land, but don't want to pay for it. So, they are trying to run off anyone who lives there hoping it will either become abandoned or the owners will sell it cheap.
Story 2: My heart goes out to OP, since being autistic can make these things feel 10 times worse than to an allistic person. Otherwise it's not really relevant, and he didn't need to use it to defend himself. Besides, any parent there with their kids was just as likely to be a pervert, but the dad decided to just single out OP, just for doing what is perfectly normal to do at a public pool. Circumstances don't make a person guilty, actions do. And some people just like to dive under the water and prefer it doesn't get in their eyes. Get over it!
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You know the feeling when in a public toilet, where there are 8 empty urinals, and you pick the farthest one to pee, then enter this guy who choose the urinal just beside you. I don't know about you, man. But I'm sure thinking I'm gonna be raped if I stay any longer.
Cop Dad in Story 3 will never make it to Detective with Investigatory Skills like that, except in California.
Story 6: NTA. People are just so obnoxious. You will never make them happy. Keep trespassing them, or have the police throw them in jail! Ungrateful people.
1st story Karen: Why don't any of my now adult children ever come to visit me?