I have dated over 30 women and I don't think I want to marry - RealTalk with Tamima
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The problem is not making the right choices Tamima,the real problem is being committed to the right choices someone has made to his life to THE FREE WORLD.People makes right choices every hour but ......
So i have been watching this show online you've talked about sex many times but i have never heard of sex and soulties.
I wish mtu angesubscribe more than once
Wish to join the show please
I'm looking for a Kenyan handsome man to marry me. Find a cute one for m
Hawa ni watoto. This was my thinking at 19 too. Am 28 yrs old now & totally in love with one woman and very comfortable.
Mgtow bro chukuwa red pill
Thanks for that....There's time for every thing
It depends on someones past and i understand them.. i am 26 Na mapenzi is not real hizo ni vitu za Movies..you smash and pass
I love your brains 😊
The only problem with this is that most of males here are boys not men. That's the big issue
You can say that again
I like that ,,that’s powerful
Exactly, these are kids they are doing what they are supposed to do at their age which is to play. Wait until they gonga thate!
I agree totally
Hawa ni high school kids now they think they are men. Due to peer pressure wanajichocha, they will grow up. Anyway at 28 they will mature anyway
this entire conversation made my ears bleed. these boys need to grow tf up!
Elsie Nyaga women need to be women and men or boys would not grow up looking at females in a such way that they do.
Lol
This is what you used to love when you were at your prime
@@kabete8 😁 foul
Thought i was the only one feeling blues about the talk😒😒🚮
Naaa fam. Ain't no thing as good as real love with one woman. One good woman is more valuable than 50 sidechics.. even sex is better when there is real love. And communication in a relationship is key
Powerful
Preach bro!!!
Be a voice of reason.
Very nice point 💅💅
Very nice point 💅💅
Its not about these generation, its about making the right choice. And These are still small boys, who are making wrong choices but may God help us.
Dayan you always amaze me with your wise words.. I wish all men had knowledge like you do. We ladiss could not be suffering because of mens silly decisions and blame game. Dayan i love your counsel.
I hope this boys got it....its never too late to change
I believe in love, ladies be patient, find yourself, do your part in a relationship, give your best... funga duka if you have to, when the right person comes you will find perpetual happiness
That true 💯
Every time I think of dating, such kind of conversations pop up.. 😧😧..i just give up
Janet same here.... I feel you namesake
Same same this Boys are broken and have a shitty mentality...I'd rather be single forever
Date a man not a boy have been with a man and a boy and a man is showing me that there are good people and love exist.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@b.f.tschannel351 true say i like that
😂😂khai someone just told me anaweza jaza class tatu za wanawake wenye amenyadua I had to run for my life
Kimbia kabisa
Your beliefs play a major role in our life. If you believe true love no longer exists then your subconscious mind will make sure it gives you what you desire.
God is a holy God, and from the foundations of the earth to date, His standards have never changed!!
The same values He used to judge our forefathers Enoch, Abraham and all else, are the same values He will use on every other generation no matter the age and time. It's the high time tuamke!!
Let him not justify sin let's call sin sin am a faithful woman and I have been it's all about sacrifice and loyalty.my boy 19yrs still fresh this boys doesn't have fear of God they talk in flesh
They sound disgusting to me.
This is the greatest shows .very real and educative
Thanks tamima
this is so sad😖😢😢 i wish ningezaliwa kitambo when things were better off😒😬 this boys are talking like fools🚮🚮 na sijui shida ya mabrayo hua ni gani😣
Na makevo
anita odhiambo 😂😂😂 manze...
Especially makevo 🤣
@@angelaouya3767 hhehe
You are bitter
Imenibamba na imenifunza xana sante Sana I have really learn how to handle myself as a teenager. Thanks tamima
I'm impressed by the guy in striped Grey and white T-shirt. I hope he stays the same forever, he's young, knows what he wants in life, doesn't flow with the current, so smart and such a gem
I cry for this generation. God have mercy
Do these boys know that their potential employers are watching? The internet never forgets
Brian Lisaka I don’t think they need jobs..they have the sure bets on sport pesa to take care if their little responsibilities😂
Beryl C Vincent This generation is ruined
Thats true bro.
Absolutely lol. They now think that hopping over everywhere with their peanuts is an achievement 👏👏well, streets gonna prove them wrong. I'm on the bench watching 👋
My twin brother you have spoken!!!
My opinion, this are just boys not men. They're still very young in age and mind. They have a long way to go in this life, right now they should be focusing on their careers /future. Another thing is, the choices we make really matters. Its sad that most of them have been given counsel by their parents /guardians but they chose not to listen. Watch out boys, change your ways before it is too late.
Kudos Mr. Masinde, you always hit the nail on the head. Great show Tamima.
Very true.. and in most cases if they will ever marry...they end up with the wrong people....bitterness and regrets begin to set in
Sasa umekusanya kina YOBRA,,,JONTE,,,VOKE,,,,,unawapea tittle ya MEN,,,,,,haifai,,,,
Look for MEN not BOYs
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂my word to
😂😂😂😂thank you.... I am ashamed on behalf of their parents
@@angelsglorie8515 hahahaha
😂😂😂😂😂
Haaaaa thank you
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂jesoooo! Ladies, gather here let's cry for our lives 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢God have mercy on today's generation.
😂😂😂 oh, we're to cry 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭, sorry I laughed 😥
@@makhatha4723 😂😂😂😂😂😂let me faint
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯
@@henrydsouza this truth is killing me slowly 😂😂😂😂😂
I agree it's all about choices
Dont blame it on anyone or anything.
It's so sad that most of this men have the same mindset..
All am seeing I frustrated generation.... Most guys her are just speaking due to heartbreak n frustration.... Most haven't moved on.
Peter Njuguna i agree with you
Maybe true
Peter ur so correct,they are frustrated and heartbroken
I agree and also low self esteem and looking for affirmation which could be caused by lack of male mentors/fathers in their lives.
Thanx to the great females they have dated.
It's unfortunate that we are dealing with youths who their brains have been spoiled.Am not married but i believe being succeful as a man is by keeping ONE WOMAN.If you think you are successful with money yet you have multiple women,then you are not yet successful. Untill you are able to manage a family with ONE wife,you can never be successful.Young men,the devil is in target of marriage because he knows very well that if succeeds in ruining families, then he knows he will have managed to end a man's success.
Some of these guys will be in lots of trouble in the future. If you want to survive in this world you need to be different. Do not follow the crowd.
Tamima u r giving the youth a platform to talk ourselves out.we rarely hv someone to open to about our issues.as youths we hv issues and that shd not b ignored
Parents,teachers advice but they never listen to the other side of us
Thanks for the amazing feedback Monica! Always keep it Switch TV always.
Who is here with me 2020.......i trust and believe there are good men in this world.honesty,God fearing and ambitious.As a lady,know what you want,pray God and wait for His perfect time.
Like me?
Am young, single and tend to strongly differ with the reasoning of the young men, instead of wasting your soul out there why don't you just focus on something that can build what is yet to come, sex will bring you physical satisfaction but that will haunt you emotionally some time, watch out guys
Wrong bro.! That is a delusion. Sex can only bring physical exhaustion; NOT satisfaction.
Plenty of sex gives an illusion of satisfaction but in real sense it drains someone mentally and emotionally. Ejaculation is not satisfaction.
My friend,if you were a woman,what you said would be true.Men,hawana hizo issues,stop being naive and wake up or else utafunzwa na hawa madame unasupport hapa bila huruma.Hawa mabrayo wanafuck hawa madame unaona hapa wamejaa kwa comment section.Follow a woman's actions not her words,they say one thing and do the opposite
Guys, let no one lie to you. Having many girls/women = POVERTY. Especially poverty of the mind - because you are busy managing different lies and no room left to be creative/innovative in career or business. As a reformed player, I can say for sure being a Don Juan and having Casanova tendencies reduces and wastes a man potential to below zero. At 36 I have gotten my groove back and doing well, but I feel I could be very far now (top 40 under 40 globally) if it were not for chics (from different countries) whom i spent my energies and resources on, in my 20s to early 30s....just for sex. Character is key here, learning to say no, respecting oneself and fighting your way out, in the face of temptation makes the difference. It was not an easy process reforming, I had to make peace and seek forgiveness for the trail of heartbreaks under my name. Kudos Tamima for the show.
Jesus 😢😢 dunia inaisha kweli... ata hawakubuki kuna ugonjwa yawa🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️ Mungu ingilia kati woiyeee 🙏watoto wetu 😢
dating 30 girls does not make u a hero. whoever said not all boys are men hakukosea
@Mary Nancy Muthoni that's true all girls are the same
Thats true..hio sio kukua hero
Wow I never knew that being addicted to porn is problem what can I say 🤔 I must share this with my friend who is addicted to porn
Thank you Tamima and switch TV for this show
It's an eye opener for the current generation
This are boys please stop giving them credit ati men , after 10 yrs please call them again would like to know if they are still tangatanga
I'm 19 years but I can never play with a girl,s heart and I'm not a womanizer.
this is so bad 😔 that's why am keeping myself for marriage
Great! Stand out!!it is worth it!!bravo.may God see you through this and honor you for honoring him 😂👌
The only concern I have is what if that man/lady you have been saving yourself for breaks your heart eventually by cheating on you? Forgive them or move on with your life? I hope he/she is also saving themselves for you...
@@EvelynKavinya hey its all about doing your part,you have no control over someones behavior.one thing i know is that when you honor God he honors you.All the best dear
@@lindamuyoka5881 I mean definitely but man is to err. These things happen to everybody. But everyone has a right to go about life on whichever way they feel is good for them. All the best too dear.
This is painful to watch😞😞😞😞 confused Boys ,they all running away from responsibilities🙄
They don't know what is love this guy's from Doha
Akhy this guys wamelelewa wapy????? I TRULY BELIEVE IN LOVE it all depends with one self
Skia huyu......
Mostly single .........thers
These are solomon decendants
😂😂😂 true
😂😂🔥🔥🔥
🤣🤣🤣
🤣😂
Ladies, what a sad time to be alive😭 😨 messed up generation
Soul Ties are real,weeee!
True
Very true
Exactly
Evalyn Kagure Mwangi We have real men
waa wanaume wa sikuhizi jameni ,,,personal I believe in growing in love together ,,it really works and you end up loving the person unconditional
I love the way tamima is handling our young men
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge,if you choose to live on the flesh feel free to do so but remember a day is coming when you will be inquired of it,, choose to live in the spirit but not on the flesh,,good character always wins,, let God intervene in our lives.
They all need help, they are not even afraid of diseases yaani.
What a lovely show, i think am even loosing interest on my man
Please can you also have women conference @Tamima, so that we can know and also learn from experts what we should commit to men to keep them for ourselves.
Thanks @Tamima Ibrahim💪💪💪
What a pity 🤔😢 Kenyan young men are lost.. nkt, now you know why Kenyan women are searching outside the country..
It's not only Kenyan young men it's everywhere. These days all men are shagging anything shag gable even shagging themselves.
Exactly!!
Jedidah Ohene Sad 😢
She didn't say white she said outside the country.
@@misskendra3690 what I meant is that men every where are all the same.
For whatever decision you make while on earth, remember that you've got God to contend with... I wonder what we shall tell God on judgement day,which is quite here at the door!!
I believe there are good ladies out there. You haven't just found the right one, how you carry out yourself before others matters alot, it's time we change friends who add no value to our lives and look out for people who add value in our lives.
Tamima you were hosting boys not men
lol and theyy are the generation to come don't generalize people because fuckboys were and will always be there
True
I realy like this real talk with Tamima. How she engages her guest and audience. Keep up. But I have a suggestion,,would you look for like a lovely introduction slogan song with lyrics..."Real Talk,",,,just a suggestion...other than just haphazard beats here and there.....
Thanks Wacucu for your feeback. We surely must consider your recommendations.
I dont think if they know the thing there are doing has an impact spiritually! One person being tied with more than 30 souls, may you be delivered in Jesus name i pray!
2cor6:9-10
Oooh yes jesus save this generation
Aren't those 30 women seeing this guy on tv ?. These men are young and find fame in claiming to be intimate with 'over 30' women....ngoja wafike 35 n above
Kwanza wakifika 35 ndio wanatafutwa zaidi.. Atwoli is 65, and he recently acquired a 33 year old TV lady(kilobi). I haven't heard a guy rejected because he had many ladies in his life
@@barnskiugs7169 what I mean with being 35 is that they wud want to settle down. Right now they are swearing that they dont wanna get married ever in their lives!!
@@matagaro1 I got you
yaaaani!!! i have watched this episode with my mouth wide open. our youths mnaelekea wapi jameni?
You guyz need to call Andrew kibe on this show👌he got much knowledge on relationships 👍
😂😂😂, kibe is just an idiot
Kibe now😂😂😂
😂😂😂 kibe.... There are more better and wise men
lies,,,,,i think this kiherehere ni ya campus tu kujiona wamefika,,,,,,sioni kitu true hapa
Are you even male
I'am a man
very true
True
@@kevinidah5847 I'm a man
I have watched so many episodes of real talk but this has been the most saddest! I am a mother of two young men and I am truly pained by this discussion.
Tamima kindly can we have women conference and please tag me in...... As a lady am ready to settle but no serious man.......!
Am shock to hear this from men
Kiaje
These are all boys not men. Men are Dayana and a few others.
Hey has anyone noticed that most not attractive males like to run after many females to compensate for their looks? Watch the boys on show even with blonde hair and white shoes! I can’t just can’t! 🙄🙄
Girl thank you for your comment. It's always the ones who don't look that attractive ndio wanajiona.
Exactly!!
You made a really strong discovery.
This is beyond sad, i understand they are still young but they need someone to educate them about sex and the sexually transmitted diseases because if they continue this way mmhhh I don’t know, i would like to hear their opinion at late 20’s!!! It’s disturbing
Pastors in kenya u have a lot of work to bring this youth together.To repent there sins.To know more about God.wakiweka mungu mbele kila kitu wanataka itapatikana kwa roho moja.
This is end times that's why this generation live a don't care life and most of them don't know that HIV and AIDS is real. Thank you Tamima and switch tv for these shows.
Can't agree more
It's so sad....my heart bleeds for this generation.
After watching this Brayo, Kevoh, Alex ..... boys conference, i am now looking for a SPONSOR. Any sponsor watching this???
Mimi hapa😂😂
Michelle MUKBANG no we still have real men
Tamima you're so pretty and intelligent. Great hosting. Great topic.
The boys are still a kids, marriage is not easy and we have to take the task, trust your spouse and take the challenge.. They are right according to their ages.
Dayan Masinde has given them the truth pill, self discipline is a choice ,life is a decision PERIOD!
This microwave generation is just lost.smh🙄🙄🙄😔
Radiation killing brain cells 😀
Cerelac and pamper generation!
I think these young men are just there to pass time and btw they have a very healthy ego guiding them. Telling everyone about the many girls one got intimate with is nothing about commitment or dating, I just can't put up with this cuz tbh its boasting. So sad that this generation is not for people who have good hearts😩 And I like the way Ernest is talking about these things, he's portraying a mature perspective.
That old school love was the best 😭
All I can say due to this generation of ours cz we are being motivated with also songs like genge tone abt pekejeng (sex)... jst need to be born again... to be saved. Tukakuwa ivo it will be so beautiful and I don't think there will be someone who will be desperate for love... ama love lazma sex ndo iwe kuoana
Bravo Tamima! A very educating show
Good job
It's just a matter of time, hiyo mboga ya kila siku, itafika time , you will search for it utaikosa tu vibaya. Wisdom from God is the only answer you need, more so think abt what u need in and from a relationship. Abstain instead of wasting yourself and the women you sleep with. AIDS is real !!!!!!
By the time you hit 35 to 40 the reality of life will hit you hard. You will try to settle down have a family and you will remember how you wasted your youth then utasema I WISH I KNEW bt it will be too late.
Tamima washa wafikishe 35 wakuje tena watwabie kama bado hawataki kuoa, haha
Exactly.
Hapo umenena, what about a girl at 35?
Sure
Hahaha, infant ndio hao watasema wataka kuowa mabikra
Mimi sitaki kuowa
One guy said that if your partner is unfaithful, you will do the same. I don’t agree with that. Coz if I do, I’m the same as the partner who doesn’t have character.
This skinny jeans generation is doomed
😂😂😂😂
Wow..someone here bragging about having 30 female partners and counting as if that is something to be proud of....do people care about their lives or health anymore? Stds,HIV anybody...I grew up as an urban youth in Nairobi in the 80's and early 90's and while we had our issues,it was not nearly as bad as these new generation they are seriously putting their lives and health at risk...am all for having fun,but responsible fun..I love the show though, it's both entertaining,educative and informative.
These boys need serious counselling
Weeeh the mindset of this young men is wild.
May God save our children from the devil hands ,thank you Tamima, but please guys let's pray for this generation as parents they need totally deliverance....
These are boys, I can never thank God enough for meeting a Man with a different mindset from this😍😍😍😍😍
really??? I didn't know we are 30 chics 😣😣😣😣............John why why??..😣😣😣😣😣😣😣.....I'm going to break up with this dude......😣😣😣😣
Hahaaaaa Anita
Annie Anita why dont you concentrate ..better yourself n forget about men...Education n carreeeeeeeeeer first!!!!
You are going or you are out already??
Umesikia most of them ni hit and run? The reason why, we advise you mfunge duka...
😂😂😂😂pole swty
this conversations are good, this lady is going far...
That's why am single i can only date someone who have hit 35years an am 19 coz 20s alot of Child's
Sio wote me i do believe in real love don't put us all men in one basket
@ Very true! In most cases once a cheat, always a cheat...
Hahaha uongo unatudanganya na ushapanua duka mara salasini 😂😂
Salasini 😂,manze hii comment section imejaa wanaume mafala.Hao wanawake watawasupport hapa,kisha waende wamangwe na Brayo
Huyo ni kama baba yako ama grandpa 😂
this was SO GOOD and well done! cheers from the U.S.
I too I believe in love, love is very beautiful thing and it comes once in a lifetime, I miss my love shiro.
Its a conversation worth following to the end, only if it wasn't infested with Soooo many Ads though!
ikr
@@maureenmoh9137 so exhausting
I also gave up on dating aki I need prayers
Tatima, i really like these real talks.
Please make a point of hosting youths from mombasa you hear from us.
Or make a point to visit different towns to host such shows.we learn from them & they learn from us.
You can tell,those who believe in love look well groomed and mature,whilst those who don't are just vijana wa mtaa
Am the firstborn in our family and believe you me..3boys after me,I love my brothers so much cz they have matured so well yet we never had a Father figure,the one after me is now married @21 and he is 3years into marriage and 1 son turning 1 year in August, he is 24 now,our third born lives in my house and very born again and still virgin @ 20 years old,fourth born ako shule in form 3 and still virgin at 17,have never had issues with girls so I even wonder what these boys are talking about, I treasure my brothers sana cz nliwawmbia fact na ikawasaidia cz I wouldn't wish for the pain I went through cz of betrayal be transferred to other people's daughters..my step brother also is married and he has really managed to listen to my advice,though he had married a girl who wanted to party even in marriage though they part and he remarried, they are expecting a baby soon and am a happy aunt to be,..this young guys need mentors and the example of a good woman in their picture, they have no role models and in one way or the other,their mothers seem not present in their life,I can only relate the way my son is growing and I have started mentoring him as young as 7 and he knows the value of a woman,.
Kindly offer them help #Dyann masinde,#tamima@therealtalk
Wacha nikae kwa mwarabu. Kama wanaume ni hawa😢.this is the last day's
Mwarabu tena?
Stop tripping these are boys come holla at men
Please Producer when you are talking to these young people. I would suggest you empathize on sexually transmitted diseases. This is an opportunity to educate this youth on the dangers of sex
As a parent I fear for my boy in this generation,coz I would want him to find a wife and settle just like as his parents,the society needs to do a lot of positivity
I agree, but remember, the society is mainly composed of many adult confused men, what will they teach them. I pray that those few men who are sober and sound to rise up boldly (because they can) to start educating these boys.
I loved this. Thank you Tams.
Wrong will never ever be right!!!!
Never ever
Tamima I would love to inform you that the saying "behind every man there is a successful woman" is very wrong
It should be "behind every woman there is a successful man"
Women are not the foundation of a family but men are
Men are the foundation of a family, thank you
I thank God I was born before this generation Aki kaswende na kisonono ha
itawahi isha, mungu tulelee watoto wetu
this generation is just lost ... people are wondering why we have many single ladies now I know why ...i wish ningeolewa mapema Aki😂😂
Si kwa ubaya but this dude anapoteza our young generation
Alex.. Fala ww.. Aty serial cheater.. Taka taka