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    Shane Burcaw (he/him) is the author of several award-winning books about disability. He is the President of a nonprofit organization called Laughing At My Nightmare, and a renowned public speaker who has performed across the country at places such as Harvard University, The University of Florida, The University of Connecticut, Princeton University, and many more.
    Hannah Burcaw (she/her) graduated from Carleton College, where she studied Sociology and Anthropology. She films and edits the “Squirmy and Grubs” vlog, which has over 800,000 subscribers on TH-cam. Hannah has spoken at prestigious universities and Fortune 500 companies alike about the realities of ableism. On her popular Instagram account, she advocates for acceptance of all people and works to improve the way society thinks about disability.
    Shane and Hannah have been together for over four years. They got married in September of 2020 in the midst of a global pandemic in their backyard, with their officiant conducting the ceremony via Zoom. Their interabled relationship often confuses people, because much of society still cannot fathom people with disabilities being involved in loving, intimate relationships. Anyone who watches these episodes will quickly see their relationship is just as “normal” as any other. Sure, Hannah helps Shane use the bathroom and brush his teeth, but those activities do not detract from the emotional, intellectual, and physical connection they experience together.

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  • @lococrazygreenacres3830
    @lococrazygreenacres3830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I grew up with a lot of abuse and lack of affection. Lacking love. I expected to be beaten. I was in special education and had a lot of disabilities.
    Im in my 40s now & single. I've been watching your videos for years now and I can tell you that you've helped me heal a lot.
    The communication, the growing ad friends and people. I now know that I can be a better partner by listening to your videos.
    I also love the office so its a huge reason I fell in love with you two.
    Thank you so much for sharing your world with all of us. I never thought I could find someone with all my problems, but now I know its about having an open heart.
    God bless you both.

  • @JessicaKent
    @JessicaKent 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1098

    Beautiful thumbnail picture omg! 💚👑

    • @l.c.5285
      @l.c.5285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Her inner beauty radiates through the screen!

    • @callie6146
      @callie6146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Love when my favorite TH-camrs are fans of each other! 😍😍

    • @karas3101
      @karas3101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I could see you doing something similar but in a bed of black roses holding a red rose 😉

    • @natalieshaye968
      @natalieshaye968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jessica! Love your channel💗

    • @avigialgrossman6501
      @avigialgrossman6501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jess! 💓

  • @teachermichelle9632
    @teachermichelle9632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    To be loved like Shane loves Hannah...every girl dreams of this love!!!!

    • @cq1903
      @cq1903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @zabavnaya-xt8tb
      @zabavnaya-xt8tb 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Did you marry disabled person? Of course not , you are just commenting n0nsense

  • @kat6737
    @kat6737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    I love the way Hannah looks at Shane while his talking. She always has a look of pure love.

    • @woodyhill363
      @woodyhill363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed!!

    • @cq1903
      @cq1903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hmmm money money money 🤣

    • @kat6737
      @kat6737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cq1903 you are a terrible person

    • @littlemissgroove
      @littlemissgroove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kat6737 money money money

    • @littlemissgroove
      @littlemissgroove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cq1903 yep

  • @MsJanet
    @MsJanet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I’m dying laughing at the Farmer Dan bit. Hannah, you definitely need to do Farmer Dan for us. Please, please, pretty please 😊

  • @odonovan
    @odonovan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    12:39 - Yeah, we could watch more of Shane in absolute bliss. Hannah and Shane, you guys are helping me through a very rough month. September was always special to my late wife and me. We had several special things which happened in September. This year, it's torture for those same reasons plus a couple more. Seeing the two of you is restoring my spirit when I need it the most. You help me feel true romantic love has not disappeared from the world just because it disappeared from MY life. Thank you so VERY much for that.

    • @amy_janedoe2486
      @amy_janedoe2486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same!!

    • @leannepaxton5012
      @leannepaxton5012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I’m so sorry for your loss.
      I can feel your pain from here.
      Your wife was lucky to have someone who loved her this much. 💜

    • @yomama5304
      @yomama5304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Dear Sir, I am truly sorry you lost the love of your life. My dad retired at the age of 51. (30 yrs.and out)us kids were grown and that was when my parents were destined to travel and spend quality time together just loving each other up. Sadly, my mom passed away 1 yr later (stroke) at the young age of 48. My dad was a lost soul. no career, no wife no light at the end of the tunnel. He didn't want to go on anymore. 7-8 yrs ago my dad (now 71) met a wonderful woman. My dad found happiness again. He is living again. He travels and golfs and is a pure joy to be around. If it weren't for Marilyn I believe I would've lost my dad due to a broken heart. My dad will always LOVE my mom. She can't be replaced. She left us way too soon but my dad is still on this earth and deserves happiness. I am so glad he found it. I hope
      there is light at the end of your tunnel. I hope you find happiness and peace in the memories you have of your wife. I hope you are living your best life and I hope when you're ready....You find someone like Marilyn. Have a wonderful Holiday weekend.

    • @Ameliamaemay1990
      @Ameliamaemay1990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is so beautiful. I am so sorry for your loss. Love doesn’t ever end but sometimes it feels like it does and I’m hoping you are able to revel in the beautiful moments you had with your wife in September soon even though she’s not here. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @ellenled
      @ellenled 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      O Donovan, loved what you wrote. My husband passed away a year ago. It’s still rough, but I don’t want to be a bitter widow who hates seeing other peoples happiness. The world needs more happy folks..would make it a better world for all of us.

  • @gmariel2624
    @gmariel2624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    You guys are so adorable and sweet! I think I had a huge grin on my face through this whole video. I'm 67, married for 41 years, and want to encourage you to do everything possible to hold on to these feelings. I encourage you to watch this video frequently and continue to remind yourselves why you fell in love and what you love about each other. Please, don't let the years hurt your love for each other.

    • @owen9510
      @owen9510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congratulations on 41 years, that kind of love seems hard to find these days.

  • @christybirling3299
    @christybirling3299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    "I fell in love with her when she said she hates people." I can SO relate to this. I love my alone time. I'm never bored. My niece calls me a lone wolf. Yes. Yes I am. And loving every minute of it.

  • @Sdh317
    @Sdh317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    Hannah is so pretty on the outside because she's pretty on the inside. That goes for you too Shane ! Love you both !

    • @marypaino1327
      @marypaino1327 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cried and smiled simultaneously

    • @TheTruth-xe1kt
      @TheTruth-xe1kt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes a girl become pretty suddenly when she find a rich guy otherwise if the guy is poor then she say relationship is blah blah

    • @angelofmusic4484
      @angelofmusic4484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@TheTruth-xe1kt nice to know you’re so insecure and never landed a girl you have to be a negative nancy

    • @FancyTailAquatics
      @FancyTailAquatics 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      They are great together, for sure!

    • @FancyTailAquatics
      @FancyTailAquatics 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@TheTruth-xe1kt You are sad and miserable. Enjoy your troll life...

  • @jakesbel8237
    @jakesbel8237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    Hannah is who she is because of her parents. The same with Shane, instead of bitter he embraces life everything it entrails laugh, struggles, and the best gift of all, love to give it and receive it.

    • @jacquelineleubin5004
      @jacquelineleubin5004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      So very true and well spoken! A lot of self worth and such comes from the parents. They sure have great parents we all would wish for xx

    • @jakesbel8237
      @jakesbel8237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@hotcoffee8819 most of us had kiss a few frogs before finding love. It’s their laugher and love that brings me back.

    • @hilaryc3203
      @hilaryc3203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know several people with SMA and they are amazing people. They work, are busy and are very positive guys. Most parents, when raising a child with a disability, instil in them self worth and that the world is their oyster.

    • @tristanwalton2906
      @tristanwalton2906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@hotcoffee8819 how exactly would he work a “back aching job”? He is an author and that is an actual career. What the fuck is wrong with you?

    • @jakesbel8237
      @jakesbel8237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@hotcoffee8819 are you just a cruel person? As some who had to deal with bad health and became handicap 12 years ago, ending up in a wheelchair for over 2 years and fought to walk again; I can’t imagine how much pain Shane is in daily. I knew when I depended on help to do anything getting in and out of the shower; I lost my freedom. I had use of my upper body and arms. Just getting from place A to B was more mentally and pure exhaustion much more than working on my feet and using my back as an inventory manager. Mentally exhausting is so much harder than physically exhaustion.
      Imagine in a wheelchair or using a walker how you are looked over and not seen. Imagine people (another customers) fussing loud enough because the waiter had to move chairs around so you could fit you and your wheelchair at a table. Imagine all able bodied waiting inline to use handicap stall and others are empty but you can only use the handicap stall so you’re waiting inline too, and women are bad because you’re taken so long only place your wheelchair fits and you need the bars.
      I know the world has changed and I realize as handicap person you’re treated as 2nd class citizen. Your vitriol towards this couple is sickening. Do you realize you are bullying them? No one is twisting your arm to watch. Be kind

  • @sharonbrown6595
    @sharonbrown6595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    My husband was the same way he loved my back rubs so much. I had a patient as a nurse who was in the hospital a long time and he would ask me to give him a back rub at night. I had excema on my hands as a child and grown up and my skin is very badly scarred and my hubby would kiss my hands and each fingers and say how great they were., haaaaaaaaaaaaa makes me smile thinking about that. Rip honey I miss you so

    • @terrig7006
      @terrig7006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dear Sharon,
      What a gift love is when it is truly and generously shared. It sounds as though your marriage was blessed with happiness and I wish you peace and comfort in the memories of your love.

    • @paulinemcallister9855
      @paulinemcallister9855 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So lucky to find.that love love my kids to the moon and back but not any man god bless polly scotlandx

    • @sharonbrown6595
      @sharonbrown6595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@terrig7006 oh it was and he was nothing to look at. He was only five feet tall but he was 10 feet tall in my eyes. I hope everyone meets the man or woman of their dreams. I actually met a young man in his 20s in a store and we were talking and connected and he actually said god I wish you were my age bracket as u r what I am looking for a woman. I felt the same thing. We just hit it off. We still meet for coffee at times and have such a great time. He is a great kid. So I would go for a disabled person like Hannah did . No problem but again I have standards and a 20 year old is not in the running haaaaaaaa

    • @sharonbrown6595
      @sharonbrown6595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@paulinemcallister9855 thanks Polly. You r right we don’t need a man to fulfil us at all I agree. I just enjoy my girls and my granddaughter so much and that’s good enough for me. My hubby’s last name was BRAES and his dad immigrated from Scotland. My husband as a young lad was in a pipeband and he played the drums. He played for a long time into his adult life and had a kilt and whole nine yards and he was so sexy in it. . Wow wow

  • @darlouthia5153
    @darlouthia5153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    This was so sweet !! Everyone deserves to hear why people they are with love them. It’s so often little random and unique details.

    • @Lyn4817
      @Lyn4817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Especially after 50 years of marriage.

  • @zachbonney7372
    @zachbonney7372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    This is the most wholesome thing I’ve watched all week guys! You two are too freaking adorable together!

  • @jfox3507
    @jfox3507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Shane is such a classy guy and great example. Truly genuine, respectful, clever and in tune with his partner. A lot of other guys could benefit to learn from his lead.
    So happy they've found each other. Great people.

  • @lceec7012
    @lceec7012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    You two are adorable! You have so much chemistry and it’s charming. Shane is right, the years do move faster the longer you are together. But the love gets sweeter. Praying you have a lifetime of joy and love!

  • @michaeldundee8300
    @michaeldundee8300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I am completely blown away by this couple this is the most incredible thing in my 62 years I've ever witnessed I love both of them

    • @wolfguy1912
      @wolfguy1912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Got kids ever ? this is really the best thing you seen with your eyes where have you been in a dark tunnel lol jk

  • @Emily-ck9ji
    @Emily-ck9ji 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Aww. That title just makes my heart full.

  • @jeannebrown484
    @jeannebrown484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was the sweetest video. I love Hannah’s attitude and compassion to animals. It seems that no creature is insignificant to Hannah. From the stray insects and frogs to all furry things. This makes you truly beautiful Hannah.

  • @GerardoGepardo
    @GerardoGepardo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I found them by chance browsing TH-cam and I was truly impressed with your story. You are the example that pure love still exists beyond the physical in a world full of evil, appearances and deceptions. Shane's personality is top-notch, with a great sense of humor that has allowed him to overcome his condition animically. You guys have made me open my eyes because I was about to die prey to the evil of the people around me.

    • @TheTruth-xe1kt
      @TheTruth-xe1kt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes a girl become stunning suddenly when she find a rich guy otherwise if the guy is poor then she say relationship is blah blah

    • @TheTruth-xe1kt
      @TheTruth-xe1kt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes a girl become stunning suddenly when she find a rich guy otherwise if the guy is poor then she say relationship is blah blah

    • @belmum1689
      @belmum1689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheTruth-xe1kt Listen to yourself, IF Hanna wanted easy money wouldn't it be easier if she had a only fans page she would make a lot more money, than even Shane could ever imagine, so I don't think its about the money.

    • @Dislob
      @Dislob 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheTruth-xe1kt Shane was not rich when they met. They were a couple BEFORE the TH-cam channel. Such ignorance and hate....

  • @siickheartz
    @siickheartz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    I just love the way Hannah looks at Shane when he’s talking. She’s legit 😍

    • @siickheartz
      @siickheartz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@lindasullivan2780 your ignorance is legit

    • @lisas8244
      @lisas8244 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@lindasullivan2780 Your jealousy turned into ugliness for all the world to see is shameful and you're too ignorant to even know you have publicly embarrassed and humiliated yourself.

    • @dianeaishamonday9125
      @dianeaishamonday9125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@lindasullivan2780 how's it feel to be a jealous, lonely old hag?
      Can't relate, sis 😷

    • @Erika-br8xo
      @Erika-br8xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lindasullivan2780 if you have to pay för love it does not mean everyone else have to. I you were a nicer person maby you did not have to pay for it either

    • @nadinebougard
      @nadinebougard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I was just thinking the same thing! The love between them is the out of this world!!

  • @sisterbea47
    @sisterbea47 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    What a sweet video!!! The world needs more couples in love! My husband and I feel the same way about one another and he is 78 and I am 75. We have only been married for 7 years and neither of us ever dreamed of being with a partner for our golden years that we love so much!! Congratulations on your anniversary that is coming up. Ours is 9/13 and we are looking forward to more! God bless you, Sandi & Jim from Texas.

    • @tinac945
      @tinac945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @SandiMurphy please tell us how & where you met a husband when you were 68 years old. Maybe there's hope for me after all! And how long did you date before getting married? I bet it's a great story! 😉

    • @amusliminusa
      @amusliminusa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have a happy anniversary!

  • @BethHeadley
    @BethHeadley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I’ve honestly never seen such perfect soulmates. Makes me believe in love again 🥰

  • @petermartin8053
    @petermartin8053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    A great exercise for any couple! "Why I love my spouse . . . " Thanks for sharing!

  • @brock7m
    @brock7m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awww you guys! I didn’t know I could even have a favorite video, but this HAS to be it! I’ve been around since the very first vlog of Shane wearing the shirt that made him look like he was in “private kindergarten,” and Shane also attempted to convince Hannah to tell the audience she has SMA. 😂 I AM HERE for the 5 minutes, or the hourly segment, forever. Love your love. 💕

  • @stacilee7074
    @stacilee7074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You two are just the sweetest, most genuine people. Truly meant for each other!

  • @winniestuempfle3524
    @winniestuempfle3524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was so lovely! Thank you for sharing your love for each other with the world! This video made me smile on a really tough day 🥰

  • @katharinae117
    @katharinae117 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s so fun just hanging out with you two “calmly” on video. You’re so real and delightful. Love your “loving telationship”

  • @browneyez7500
    @browneyez7500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You can always feel the love happiness humor and joy you have as a couple! Love watching your lives together ❤️

  • @mshan1495
    @mshan1495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    “The wingspan of a bald eagle.” 😂😂
    Also totally relate to Shane not liking people, partying, wild things, and non-calm activities. Most relatable thing ever.
    (Loved the behind the scenes of the thumbnail on Hannah’s IG, too!)
    Really hope you guys will have a video of your wedding celebration! Loved the few pics I saw on Insta.

  • @catj1597
    @catj1597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I love the way Hannah looks at Shane!!! You can sense the love :)

    • @machellelokersonvlog1273
      @machellelokersonvlog1273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know right! 😊

    • @alisaishere
      @alisaishere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@harrypotter7291 It's as if looks only go so far and having a personality matters. His wheelchair doesn't define him, just like her looks don't define her. Try being a kinder person and maybe you will attract somebody beautiful inside and out.

    • @alisaishere
      @alisaishere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@harrypotter7291 Falling in love and finding your soulmate doesn't work that way.

    • @gracecohara9356
      @gracecohara9356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@harrypotter7291 7I

    • @joycedominguez1828
      @joycedominguez1828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@harrypotter7291 right. I don't understand this relationship. I almost think Hannah knows she's gorgeous so shes like look at me being with a dude in a wheelchair. She loves the attention.

  • @SpamMom
    @SpamMom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Don't touch me" lmao You guys are just amazing for one another and it's wonderful to see such love

  • @deborahh2556
    @deborahh2556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This was so sweet. A beautiful couple. I have to say, I love how Shane's mind works. One of the most interesting people I've ever seen, and the quickest wit of anyone I've ever seen.

  • @traceyleclair
    @traceyleclair 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Shane, you are such a wonderful husband. I just recently discovered your channel and you two truly brighten this world. I learn a lot, I laugh with you and I see two people so beautifully and completely meant for each other. Congratulations on the new house, great roommates and Happy anniversaries!

  • @moda78z
    @moda78z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m so happy the two of you found each other. You are amazing together ❤️😘

  • @kathryndamron3238
    @kathryndamron3238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like I've watched hundreds of your videos so the competition is steep but this may be my most favorite one ever. So dear.

  • @christinewickliff4179
    @christinewickliff4179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was one of the sweetest videos yet. Love is in the air, for sure. "Wingspread of a bald eagle"...good one Shane, Really loved this. Happy wedding and upcoming anniversaries.

  • @yoclark2723
    @yoclark2723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so sweet! I love how compatible you both are. Hannah is so beautiful, intelligent and caring. That thumbnail pic was gorgeous too! I'm so surprised that it was serious! 😉 My hubby needs a back scratch every day so I get the goosebumps thing. We have weird things together too. Love it! Happy Anniversary!

  • @annieandaj
    @annieandaj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The best reasons to love someone Shane!!! You guys are meant for each other for sure. I totally agree about loving calm times. So important to have that in common!!

  • @BrendaVert
    @BrendaVert 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was so nice Shane!!! I agree Hannah is awesome and so are you! Totally made for each other!!❤️❤️

  • @stacyfabiszewski4633
    @stacyfabiszewski4633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Hannah and Shane, Congratulations on finally having a party to celebrate the both of you for your wedding. I absolutely love this video. You both light up and smile just watching your videos. Shane is sooooooo sweet talking about his beautiful and wonderful wife. I feel all the love. I am so happy that you both found one another and just so happy for you both. I love you guys so much ❤️

  • @Gjustme52
    @Gjustme52 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 awkward pause, let them wonder what I'm about to say.... Shane you have such a sense of humor and good timing. Once again you make me laugh out loud and brighten my day. You two are so fun to watch, thank you. Beautiful picture!!

  • @vanessareyes9564
    @vanessareyes9564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Such a huge fan of y'all. Videos are always great, the family is wonderful and of course Chloé just makes my heart happy. Wishing y'all nothing but the best, take care ❤

  • @maggiepanning356
    @maggiepanning356 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hannah, you are so incredibly lucky to be loved the way Shane loves you. Shane, this was the absolute sweetest thing and you give Hannah a gift every time you accept her care. I am a natural caregiver as well, but my husband often doesn’t accept it (for a variety of personal reasons) and I can see how your acceptance of all of the little ways that Hannah wants to care for you brings you closer. When you said that she would offer things like tea and sweatpants when you’re grumpy I practically smiled out loud! I wish my husband would watch your videos and take notes, he could learn a thing or two from you, Shane. 🙂

  • @Kari2025
    @Kari2025 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hannah and Shane are the literal definition of soulmates. ie Right person, right time. Love at first sight. Just everything 💕

  • @SinFlavia
    @SinFlavia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I'm in love with her and I don"t ecen know her, so no wonder Shane fell head over heels on Hannah. Happy aniversary, guys!

  • @punxxi
    @punxxi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I have 2 anniversaries every year. My husband and I failed at divorce, and remarried almost 20 years to the day we got divorced. So now I have anniversaries in February and August!

    • @DreamsofStardust75
      @DreamsofStardust75 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My grandparents also remarried eachother after 20 years of divorce.

    • @yomama5304
      @yomama5304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is so sweet. I love that you say you "failed at divorce". You two were destined to be together. Wishing you many more happy years together.

    • @punxxi
      @punxxi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yomama5304 Thanks!

  • @budoneof15
    @budoneof15 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was just the sweetest. The tickles made me laugh. My children are 24 & 28 and the both loved, and still like when I would tickle their backs. Happy Anniversary. You two are great.

  • @kaitlinmeadows6273
    @kaitlinmeadows6273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are a beautiful couple, so full of love and appreciation for each other is awesome! Your sense of humor with one another is so fun to share!

  • @mackenzie-kennedy
    @mackenzie-kennedy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    You guys are so cute. And Shane, I'm 100% with you on the light scratches with the nails. I can't get enough.

  • @myrtleesther8855
    @myrtleesther8855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A woman of virtue and a man of courage and humility! Bless you both!

  • @benkoch371
    @benkoch371 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You both set so many examples on so many levels in my opinion. It’s refreshing and I thank you both for everything you’re sharing. It’s truly inspirational.

  • @JoshRazauskas
    @JoshRazauskas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so beyond sweet! 🤎 I miss being able to be on Patreon guys, glad you’re doing so well!

  • @jaxonwells604
    @jaxonwells604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The silly stuff you talk about? Thats legit the best thing about my husband! We have silly voices and ridiculous things we do together. Ugh you both are angels 😇

  • @TokiGayLord
    @TokiGayLord 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You two really brighten my day, congratulations and I wish you a lifetime of happiness!❤

  • @RSB1726
    @RSB1726 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came across this video again and had to watch it. It was one of my favorites. It is obvious that the two of you are very blessed to have each other. Love you both

  • @kaylamediati1591
    @kaylamediati1591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Shane is freakin funny I cannot watch a video without literally laughing out loud 😂. You guys are such a cute couple!

    • @mommyoftoomanywilson6745
      @mommyoftoomanywilson6745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I almost choked on my yogurt when I heard him say, “last time we ever do this.” After she said I like this video it’s nice! Lmbo!

    • @ashleyjcook
      @ashleyjcook 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shane’s humor is my favorite. So similar to my sense of humor!

    • @sarahvandenberg6581
      @sarahvandenberg6581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wingspan of a bald eagle 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @salicemccool9186
      @salicemccool9186 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sarahvandenberg6581 D’oh!! You beat me to this comment! I’m in awe of Shane’s *very* quick wit!

  • @conniedecrescenzo7782
    @conniedecrescenzo7782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That was lovely. Now let's see some pics of the wedding reception! Please?!

  • @Hummingbird25
    @Hummingbird25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love seeing her smile when Shane appreciates her 💗

  • @halliethomas3747
    @halliethomas3747 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of my favorite videos. My fiancé and I are so much like you two. We bonded over our love of food and learned how to cook together, which was scary but so much fun. We call it cooking adventures and have got to the point where we are coming up with our own recipes and are trying lots of different ingredients. We also dislike people which makes no sense cause we go to craft shows to sell our products. I think we would be friends but the kind of friends that only talk every once in awhile cause I can’t deal with the expectations of an actual friendship. Thanks for sharing this video.

  • @Cynthiab59
    @Cynthiab59 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've began my adventurous binging of your channel last month. I am an old retired teacher of primary age children and I thought between them and my blessed family through adoption...I'd seen it all...but you two have opened my eyes to couplings just not thought of. Hmmm...Hmm... it works, it's one of the most spiritual, mindful, comical presentations of love and awareness I've ever seen. Thank you for the joy you've added to my life. If Opening minds is your intent, you've hit the mark kids. Keep doing what you're doing 'cuz it works!
    Peace and prosperity,
    Cindy

    • @giannipiccioni8411
      @giannipiccioni8411 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Right_onRed you have no idea on what love is.

  • @shawntanac3172
    @shawntanac3172 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The white against your skin makes you look so tanned! 👌🏻you two are adorable, it’s good to take a day to speak kindness towards your partner . We need to do that more . ❤️

  • @victoriaratajeski6843
    @victoriaratajeski6843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You two are so cute. I love the way Hannah laughs at all of shanes stories!

  • @bevlove
    @bevlove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was the sweetest video! Hannah is the perfect woman like the title says. She's gorgeous, smart, athletic, and sweet and funny. It's so nice to know how happy you two are together!

  • @sunnymonkey2389
    @sunnymonkey2389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omgosh, loved this video! You both are awesome! We’ve been together 34 years and continue to enjoy experimenting new cuisines and different restaurants. Yes, we will travel hours just to try out a restaurant! ❤️❤️

  • @tinam2892
    @tinam2892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the farmer dan story made me LOL. you guys are the best

  • @joanneforrest1830
    @joanneforrest1830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Omg I think Hannah is my perfect person too 😂 my husband may have something to say about it though😂. Seriously, you guys are couple goals and the love between you both is undeniable. Wishing you both a very happy & healthy 1st wedding anniversary 🥰

  • @karenadams138
    @karenadams138 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely precious.... congratulations to you both on your wedding... this was beautiful, Shane...you both are so blessed to have each other.... you guys are the real deal!!.. many hugs your way!

  • @RBlackburnification
    @RBlackburnification 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of my fave videos from you guys! Thank you for all you do to combat ableism. You’ve made me a better teacher for my medically fragile students. You both are fabulous and I am so happy for you!!! I def think we need a Farmer Dan appearance in a video someday soon though!! ❤️😆

  • @bowkatiewow
    @bowkatiewow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this

  • @suzanneschuon1992
    @suzanneschuon1992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Happy almost anniversary! I love you two. Watching you can turn a crappy day into a good one. Also, I hate people too!

  • @christinethemommy6094
    @christinethemommy6094 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y'all are both just genuinely decent humans and I'm here for it. I just found this channel a few days ago and have been watching each evening. I hope ur channel continues to do well. There is so much nonsense and fake on TH-cam that it's nice to see a normal couple, doing normal things.

  • @LeeM74
    @LeeM74 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Shane's "Don't touch me" at the very end was hilarious. this guy has a seriously awesome sense of humor.

  • @valerierules12
    @valerierules12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "we're just speeding up our journey towards oblivion". I literally cackled at this! I'm 26 and starting to see birthdays with the same mindset, lol.

  • @Prairie_Gypsy
    @Prairie_Gypsy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Husbands out there .... TAKE NOTES FROM THIS MAN!!! Jeez Hannah!!! You are BLESSED!

    • @machellelokersonvlog1273
      @machellelokersonvlog1273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Awe I think they are both blessed to have one another! I am envy of their love for one another

  • @talonf.3786
    @talonf.3786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so sweet, thank you both for sharing this❤️

  • @jennifernewell2530
    @jennifernewell2530 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two are the cutest! Also, Shane, I believe the cartoon sound you were looking for was "aaayoooga" when your eyes pop out like they're on springs.

  • @carmensamone
    @carmensamone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You both look so good in this video. Love you guys! 😍🥰

  • @cherylreichardt
    @cherylreichardt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Caring and compassionate! So important. You are so sweet Shane!! Congrats! You're a great couple.

  • @cherylbritt
    @cherylbritt ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to say, you two have just made me laugh myself to tears with your "Farmer Dan" story! Priceless. I agree, one of the best parts of relationships is being able to be silly and laughing. Love this.

  • @trishwilson5890
    @trishwilson5890 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are such an inspiration and just a beautiful couple with so much positivity and acceptance and the world could use more people like you two. Thanks for sharing your life and experiences with us. I wish you both a long and happy marriage filled lots more movie nights and silliness.

  • @denisebozcuk1422
    @denisebozcuk1422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    we love seeing your unconditional compassion
    please continue setting an example for true love 💖

  • @bethavilla2585
    @bethavilla2585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That was so adorable! I love you guys. I generally hate people as well. You two are some of the few that I genuinely like. Quite an honor that is, you should be receiving your certificates soon.😁

  • @arthurcannings9191
    @arthurcannings9191 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two are the best thing ever to happen to TH-cam , if I'm ever feeling down watching one of your videos really cheers me up. Thanks .

  • @pattituron8510
    @pattituron8510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been watching your videos for a long time. You two are perfect for one another ~ love the way Hannah looks at Shane.

  • @gabrielasz94
    @gabrielasz94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I can’t help but grin from ear to ear 🙂 This makes me want to fall in love (mutually!) so bad!!

  • @cinnamoncat2731
    @cinnamoncat2731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This video made me smile so much! You guys brighten my day.

  • @amie1234ish
    @amie1234ish 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your videos so much! I found them a couple of weeks ago when we went into lockdown (nz) you guys really cheer me up, such a beautiful couple xx

  • @nicholewatson8452
    @nicholewatson8452 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nothing but true happiness showing through in your expressions during this video.

  • @terrysfunnyvideos
    @terrysfunnyvideos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I genuinely love how much Shane loves Hannah! Where this love is found (I don’t know please give me a guide map)… and it’s great to see he loves little small things about her.

    • @amusliminusa
      @amusliminusa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know, right!

    • @Ameliamaemay1990
      @Ameliamaemay1990 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I somehow found someone who loves me like this and I found it when I was becoming more focused on my own well-being and wasn’t just looking for someone to fill a hole in my life. I dunno if we will be this in love 5/6 years in like Shane and Hannah lol but I hope so!!

  • @brookebailey4330
    @brookebailey4330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I can't wait to see Hannah's video about Shane! 🥰

  • @samsimkins7597
    @samsimkins7597 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This Video is incredible! I am disabled myself and hope that I can find someone as awesome as Hannah!

  • @leebeaven9382
    @leebeaven9382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG...I don't even know where to begin. Your love makes me so happy...and Shane...your end comment was PRICELESS. (no spoiler alerts here)

  • @Yannispawn
    @Yannispawn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As if I couldn’t love Hannah more, somehow I do! 🥰. Such a lovely video!

  • @CroftyOriginal
    @CroftyOriginal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The way Hannah looks at Shane is the only thing I want in life. 🥰

    • @hotcoffee8819
      @hotcoffee8819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She doesn't look at him she looks at his ears and laughs when it's not even necessary to laugh.

    • @CroftyOriginal
      @CroftyOriginal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@hotcoffee8819 Why are you here?

    • @cq1903
      @cq1903 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hotcoffee8819 yesssssss exactly 😂

  • @kathyholmes2435
    @kathyholmes2435 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was so sweet. Thank you both for sharing your journey.

  • @thechaoticwitchnl
    @thechaoticwitchnl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your love for each other is so real, i can not understand that some people doubt it. But then again that says more about the people leaving rude comments than about your love for each other!

  • @lisas8244
    @lisas8244 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is literally the only video I've ever watched that I found myself grinning like a possum the entire video. And afterwards, in your honor Hannah, I put sprinkles on my cake!

  • @TheStonedBlockhead
    @TheStonedBlockhead 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love this video so much. It's awesome to hear stories from you guys like this. It's gets all the feels going to hear how loving and caring Hannah is. I love funny cute ones too. Love that you guys vibe so well

  • @debbiemcallister7093
    @debbiemcallister7093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was such a great video! And a nice treat for Hannah. There aren't a lot of men who feel secure enough to unabashedly share (with the world, no less!) how much and WHY they love their wives. Hannah knows she scored with Shane, just like he did with her. So she's right - they are perfect for each other!

  • @catherinewolfe1144
    @catherinewolfe1144 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God I love you guys! Have followed you several years, bought your books and watch your videos...just wonderful.