I am happy to talk about it. Gross, isn't it? The manga drags this relationship more than the movie. In the author's afterword, she expressed she would have liked to have explored their relationship much more. I am glad she didn't do as intended. Had the plot extended the uncle-niece romantic relationship preventing the girl from getting together with the very nice boy her age, this would have been outrageous and highly irritating. At least to me. Those are my two cents regarding this topic.
I think it's hard to judge what the implied relationship was actually like from a summary video. Children often have crushes on adults, especially if they have been abused, because they want to cling to people who show them kindness and love. There is not initially a concept in children that the love they feel for a parent is different from the love their parents feel towards each other. To them it is all just love (not usually at the age of the character though). What I mean is that maybe she was just mistaking love for her uncle as a parental figure for a crush of romantic nature. She could clearly tell the difference once she accepted that she has a crush on a boy.
Why does no one in these dramas ever call the police? The girl was kidnapped and tied up!! A gang of juvenile delinquents beat up her boyfriend!! Not even the uncle seems concerned. This is ridiculous.
she has a crush on her uncle who raised her like a dad,,,,is she not a pervert? every JAPANESE MOVIE personify every female lead with the weakest character over and over again,,,,,sad
Yeah, that's right. It's a cultural thing, I believe. Put simply, men like to be the leads and protectors, and women like to play the weak and be protected. I was going to give you a suggestion of a shoujo with a more satisfactory female lead, but I'm having a hard time remembering any 😅
@@cg558 she is not a kid. She is a teenager in high school, who has developed a crush on her parent like figure and a relative….. instead of being a normal teenager liking someone at school … instead she likes her uncle…. my words may be harsh, but incestuous feelings, or romantic affection towards a relative is a pervert in my book and let’s not forget Japanese history folks… they have a long history within incestuous relationships and used to encourage these incestuous relationships among relatives and cousins for hundreds and hundreds of years
You don't sound harsh. You sound ignorant and arrogant. Theres a difference. Somewhere out there is a confused kid having feelings for an inappropriate target and feeling theyre a pervert because random internet commenters love to make judgements and condemn ppl. This is a character who lost both parents. Reducing her issues to perversion is ignorant. Worry about your own problems.
ABOUT THE CRUSH ON HER UNCLE: It's actually surprisingly common in youth. Puberty is crazy. For example, some girls get their first period as young as 8! When we all learn about falling in love, it's natural to look at the people around us and consider our feelings. Every family is different: not everyone is blood related, there is adoption, friends of the family can be aunts and uncles on the same level as the blood related ones, there are distant relatives so far removed that "incest" no longer applies (blood tests are often run to verify), etc but yeah normally parents make sure their children understand who their immediate blood relatives are and what abuse and taboo is. Unfortunately, some parents are uncomfortable talking about this with their children and/or don't believe it can happen in their family. Children can become infatuated with a family member, and they can then be taken advantage of. Thankfully, as hormones change their bodies and time passes, their feelings change often, too. Or the child learns why these feelings towards family is wrong and does not foster or act on them. We're all having fun here on the internet, but please file this PSA in your brain and take care of your family. Abused children may genuinely believe they are in love with this family member and try to protect them. Be kind and listen to all the children and youths in your life. Be a safe parson they can go to whenever they are afraid or have doubts. You may be the one person who saves their life. People like stories and gossip, so if you're interested, here's a long one: My family can trace one of our branches back to the colonization and m*rder of the Aztecs. We found records of an Italian army attacking an area right outside Mexico city, and we found the Italian priest who ra*ed our ancestor. They gave her children his last name, and that branch of our family stayed in that area as slave workers... until independence, and then we lived there as free people! There were never many of us there, and we don't have records of our past family in that village because until the 1950s, none of us couldn't read or write. My grandfather and his siblings were the first to learn. Unfortunately, something terrible happened when my grandfather was young and many of his family died. My grandfather was sent to live with his father's "brother," a lifelong friend and thus family. My grandfather asked my grandmother to go with him, and she did, even against her father's disapproval. They were basically teenagers, and the first of either family to move to the city. After that, my grandfather was cut off from his remaining family, and he didn't see his brothers again in years. He doesn't talk about his blood family. All my mom told me was that the family who remained in their village was older and died before I was born. Essentially, that lineage of the family is dead. My grandfather and his brothers were the only ones left, so they each married into their wife's family. Once a brother was married, his father-in-law would take him in as a "son," and he'd be part of that family. I've never met those sides of my family, and I don't think I will. I'll never know if I have other living family from that village. I'll never know if I happen to cross by a cousin from there or any of the lines from my grandfather's brothers. They'd technically be once or twice removed from me. It would probably be good to know to avoid any "star crossed lovers" situation. My grandmother's father made up with her when she had her first baby, so we often have reunions or special get-togethers with them. I've seen them a handful of times since i live in the US and only visit Mexico some summers. It would probably be handy to know some names from that side too. My grandfather was so young when he went to the city and was taken in by his father's "brother" that after only 1 or 2 years he had unofficially adopted my grandfather and was completely accepted by that family. My grandfather called him "dad," gained even more "brothers" whom he got even closer to than his blood related brothers, and of course he called them and their wives the uncles and aunts to his childern. My grandfather stayed so close to that family that his kids were raised right next to the children of his adopted brothers. One of the sons of his "brothers" was the same age as my grandfather's son, and THEY were basically "brothers" too! They even started a business together straight out of high school! I know this family, my grandfather's unofficial adopted one, just as well as I know my grandmother's family. We have reunions together, and we all just feel like one another. I know they are my family, blood related or not, and I know what's appropriate with them. I 'll admit I was OBSESSED with my cousin for 2 years, yikes, but hey, he was only 4 years older than me, and I would follow him everywhere like a duck. I later learned that my feelings were admiration and that I wanted to be just like him. 10 years later, I've transitioned and come out, so not all weird feelings are bad! 🎉 P.s. the roughest part of this family is remembering how everyone is related, lol. My uncle, my grandfather's only son, calls my other uncle, son of one of my grandfather's "brothers", brother or "cousin-brother". My mom distinguishes aunts, uncles, and cousins on my grandmother's side, the one I'm related to by blood, as simply aunts, uncles, and cousins and the ones on my grandfather's side as anything "sister, cousin, sister- cousin, brother, brother- cousin, aunt or uncle." I have a learning disorder so my mom always uses an innovation when referring to our family on my grandfather's side to help me identify everyone. It's still confusing, though, because she and her siblings were raised to call their adopted relatives by "how they feel to you" and she wants me to do the same. Do I feel really close to someone? Boom, that's a "sister" now. Hey, this person is your cousin, but I'm really close to them so i call them "sister" so you should call them "aunt". To make matters worse, since my grandfather's and grandmother's side of the familyhave been meeting relatively often in the last few decades that now they have ALSO adopted the "call me what feels right to you " practice. People tell me how we're related, if by blood or choice, and what to call them, and I just nod along not remembering any of this. Family, it's crazy, but it really does just come down to feeling, you know? Even though we're not related by blood at all, I still consider them directly related to me and that it would be wrong to get involved with any of them.
the fact that you called it "common in youth" makes me just imagine the disgust of kids "being in love" with people much older than them. adults don't even know what it means to be in love most of the time as they blatantly cheat on each other, and now a child is in love with her uncle? i honestly don't believe its love, but this series or movie makes it turn out like that which is just creepy
😅 after few decades of living as a modern woman. If she traumatized, go see doctor, if some gfs asking help, call police not go alone, and boy please woman is a human, the long hair girl could talk it out and not wait for another boy "defend" her.. just
Well I'm guessing her character is supposed to be that way..The usual supposedly plain girl who falls for a hot guy but in this case the hot dude fell for the "plain" girl first. Well I think the opposite. I thought the actress was beautiful in that scene when the ml fell on her which proves that beauty IS in the eye of the beholder.
No one’s gonna talk about the fact that she literally has a crush on her uncle….,
Yeah, even if he's not a blood relation, the age gap alone is creepy.
Average Japanese drama be like
I am happy to talk about it.
Gross, isn't it?
The manga drags this relationship more than the movie.
In the author's afterword, she expressed she would have liked to have explored their relationship much more.
I am glad she didn't do as intended.
Had the plot extended the uncle-niece romantic relationship preventing the girl from getting together with the very nice boy her age, this would have been outrageous and highly irritating.
At least to me.
Those are my two cents regarding this topic.
Fr...like?!
I think it's hard to judge what the implied relationship was actually like from a summary video. Children often have crushes on adults, especially if they have been abused, because they want to cling to people who show them kindness and love. There is not initially a concept in children that the love they feel for a parent is different from the love their parents feel towards each other. To them it is all just love (not usually at the age of the character though). What I mean is that maybe she was just mistaking love for her uncle as a parental figure for a crush of romantic nature. She could clearly tell the difference once she accepted that she has a crush on a boy.
Why does no one in these dramas ever call the police? The girl was kidnapped and tied up!! A gang of juvenile delinquents beat up her boyfriend!! Not even the uncle seems concerned. This is ridiculous.
Would you?
she has a crush on her uncle who raised her like a dad,,,,is she not a pervert? every JAPANESE MOVIE personify every female lead with the weakest character over and over again,,,,,sad
Yeah, that's right. It's a cultural thing, I believe.
Put simply, men like to be the leads and protectors, and women like to play the weak and be protected.
I was going to give you a suggestion of a shoujo with a more satisfactory female lead, but I'm having a hard time remembering any 😅
A pervert? This is such a childish take. She's literally a kid.
@@cg558 she is not a kid. She is a teenager in high school, who has developed a crush on her parent like figure and a relative….. instead of being a normal teenager liking someone at school … instead she likes her uncle…. my words may be harsh, but incestuous feelings, or romantic affection towards a relative is a pervert in my book and let’s not forget Japanese history folks… they have a long history within incestuous relationships and used to encourage these incestuous relationships among relatives and cousins for hundreds and hundreds of years
You don't sound harsh. You sound ignorant and arrogant. Theres a difference. Somewhere out there is a confused kid having feelings for an inappropriate target and feeling theyre a pervert because random internet commenters love to make judgements and condemn ppl. This is a character who lost both parents. Reducing her issues to perversion is ignorant. Worry about your own problems.
@@cg558 harsh…. Some people cannot handle the truth.
Her uncle?? Whyyyy? Oh!! Oh!! I can understand it's not about looks
ABOUT THE CRUSH ON HER UNCLE:
It's actually surprisingly common in youth. Puberty is crazy. For example, some girls get their first period as young as 8! When we all learn about falling in love, it's natural to look at the people around us and consider our feelings.
Every family is different: not everyone is blood related, there is adoption, friends of the family can be aunts and uncles on the same level as the blood related ones, there are distant relatives so far removed that "incest" no longer applies (blood tests are often run to verify), etc but yeah normally parents make sure their children understand who their immediate blood relatives are and what abuse and taboo is.
Unfortunately, some parents are uncomfortable talking about this with their children and/or don't believe it can happen in their family. Children can become infatuated with a family member, and they can then be taken advantage of. Thankfully, as hormones change their bodies and time passes, their feelings change often, too. Or the child learns why these feelings towards family is wrong and does not foster or act on them.
We're all having fun here on the internet, but please file this PSA in your brain and take care of your family. Abused children may genuinely believe they are in love with this family member and try to protect them. Be kind and listen to all the children and youths in your life. Be a safe parson they can go to whenever they are afraid or have doubts. You may be the one person who saves their life.
People like stories and gossip, so if you're interested, here's a long one:
My family can trace one of our branches back to the colonization and m*rder of the Aztecs. We found records of an Italian army attacking an area right outside Mexico city, and we found the Italian priest who ra*ed our ancestor. They gave her children his last name, and that branch of our family stayed in that area as slave workers... until independence, and then we lived there as free people!
There were never many of us there, and we don't have records of our past family in that village because until the 1950s, none of us couldn't read or write. My grandfather and his siblings were the first to learn.
Unfortunately, something terrible happened when my grandfather was young and many of his family died. My grandfather was sent to live with his father's "brother," a lifelong friend and thus family. My grandfather asked my grandmother to go with him, and she did, even against her father's disapproval. They were basically teenagers, and the first of either family to move to the city.
After that, my grandfather was cut off from his remaining family, and he didn't see his brothers again in years. He doesn't talk about his blood family. All my mom told me was that the family who remained in their village was older and died before I was born. Essentially, that lineage of the family is dead.
My grandfather and his brothers were the only ones left, so they each married into their wife's family. Once a brother was married, his father-in-law would take him in as a "son," and he'd be part of that family. I've never met those sides of my family, and I don't think I will.
I'll never know if I have other living family from that village. I'll never know if I happen to cross by a cousin from there or any of the lines from my grandfather's brothers. They'd technically be once or twice removed from me. It would probably be good to know to avoid any "star crossed lovers" situation. My grandmother's father made up with her when she had her first baby, so we often have reunions or special get-togethers with them. I've seen them a handful of times since i live in the US and only visit Mexico some summers. It would probably be handy to know some names from that side too.
My grandfather was so young when he went to the city and was taken in by his father's "brother" that after only 1 or 2 years he had unofficially adopted my grandfather and was completely accepted by that family. My grandfather called him "dad," gained even more "brothers" whom he got even closer to than his blood related brothers, and of course he called them and their wives the uncles and aunts to his childern. My grandfather stayed so close to that family that his kids were raised right next to the children of his adopted brothers. One of the sons of his "brothers" was the same age as my grandfather's son, and THEY were basically "brothers" too! They even started a business together straight out of high school!
I know this family, my grandfather's unofficial adopted one, just as well as I know my grandmother's family. We have reunions together, and we all just feel like one another. I know they are my family, blood related or not, and I know what's appropriate with them. I
'll admit I was OBSESSED with my cousin for 2 years, yikes, but hey, he was only 4 years older than me, and I would follow him everywhere like a duck. I later learned that my feelings were admiration and that I wanted to be just like him. 10 years later, I've transitioned and come out, so not all weird feelings are bad! 🎉
P.s. the roughest part of this family is remembering how everyone is related, lol. My uncle, my grandfather's only son, calls my other uncle, son of one of my grandfather's "brothers", brother or "cousin-brother". My mom distinguishes aunts, uncles, and cousins on my grandmother's side, the one I'm related to by blood, as simply aunts, uncles, and cousins and the ones on my grandfather's side as anything "sister, cousin, sister- cousin, brother, brother- cousin, aunt or uncle." I have a learning disorder so my mom always uses an innovation when referring to our family on my grandfather's side to help me identify everyone. It's still confusing, though, because she and her siblings were raised to call their adopted relatives by "how they feel to you" and she wants me to do the same. Do I feel really close to someone? Boom, that's a "sister" now. Hey, this person is your cousin, but I'm really close to them so i call them "sister" so you should call them "aunt". To make matters worse, since my grandfather's and grandmother's side of the familyhave been meeting relatively often in the last few decades that now they have ALSO adopted the "call me what feels right to you " practice. People tell me how we're related, if by blood or choice, and what to call them, and I just nod along not remembering any of this.
Family, it's crazy, but it really does just come down to feeling, you know? Even though we're not related by blood at all, I still consider them directly related to me and that it would be wrong to get involved with any of them.
the fact that you called it "common in youth" makes me just imagine the disgust of kids "being in love" with people much older than them. adults don't even know what it means to be in love most of the time as they blatantly cheat on each other, and now a child is in love with her uncle? i honestly don't believe its love, but this series or movie makes it turn out like that which is just creepy
I’m not reading all that homie
Why is it so long bro
How much time did it take you to type this whole essay bro...?
So we gonna ignore the fact she has a crush on her own biological UNCLE?
Where i can watch this movie
I think we need the police she has a crush on her uncle.................
"Surprisingly"😂
The title is "Honey"
Thank u
Why the uncle ? Am I the only one who finds this weird
Well if you think that's weird they're some jdramas with an incest theme...Jdramas are not for the faint of heart.
😂😂@@ironiedusort
Movie name?
Honey
The main male lead in this movie is the same guy as the main lead in boys over flowers japanese 2018 version. Right? Im not sure but I think so.
Having those feelings for your uncle?! 😮🤢
Move name
😅 after few decades of living as a modern woman. If she traumatized, go see doctor, if some gfs asking help, call police not go alone, and boy please woman is a human, the long hair girl could talk it out and not wait for another boy "defend" her.. just
What’s the title
honey is the tittle of the movie
Name plzzzz
Honey
Honey so sweet!!!❤
I know right she can’t be with her uncle
Please tell me if this is based off a manga❤
Movie name
Male lead is more beautiful than lead actress😂😂😂😂
Well I'm guessing her character is supposed to be that way..The usual supposedly plain girl who falls for a hot guy but in this case the hot dude fell for the "plain" girl first. Well I think the opposite. I thought the actress was beautiful in that scene when the ml fell on her which proves that beauty IS in the eye of the beholder.
What’s the name of this movie
Honey
@@seouv thank you
Title?
Butt
It's in description "honey"
Why is there only 3 coments
No 9
No 13
No.14 and your mum
No 79
Why everyone in apan is givingg up on their life
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ITS,TEME TO FLY TO,USA
Japanese dramas and making the girls appear weak