6:50 Foreplay and flow state 11:00 Touch each other 16:00 Curiosity 23:30 Love and connection 32:00 Boundaries 39:10 Think outside the box 42:30 Orgasmic issues 52:30 Incompatibility 1:00:00 Patience is a virtue
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6 year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on , I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here .
The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
@@charlesdavid-p1y I know it’s much easier to say than do however we must never put our complete hope,dependency and reliance on another person, company, or sports team etc to satisfy all our longings desires and emotional needs! None of them can truly meet our every need ! Only a personal relationship with our Creator thru Jesus! Matthew 11:28
4:35... Been happily married for 30+ years and my wife was an executive. Having a discussion on how she owns "her being present" and asking what I could to help was life changing.
There’s many great points here especially about Men with low emotional literacy & other great points here. I’m appreciating this video. “A good butt slap” is said by many women actually, mine asks for harder ones 32:31 That opinion wasn’t true, but still love the video!
got to have a wife that even wants to be touched 1st i was married 8 yrs before we got married she was wild and tried everything after we got married she didnt want to be touch maybe hug every once in awhile she told me that sex and playtime has to be earned after 8 yrs of 0 anything except being put down and made fun of i am now single
We need more people like this telling us truth! Just finished reading 'The Skin Radiance Recipe' by Mrs. D. Its fascinating what they hide from society.
Good intimacy management lecture that cuts across all ages, and different physical and emotional challenges impacting intimacy between partners. Thumb up!
Interesting conversation with a lot of great points to think over. A lot of it is affected by constant vocal fry. Please take an objective listen and use your voices to their full power. Thank you.
I was looking forward to watching this video. My wife and I are retirement age and she has completely lost her libido, I have the libido of a 20 year old. Its tough. She really tries but she gets no pleasure from any form of stimulation whether alone or together. At 3 minutes your guest seems to be ambiguously avoiding straight answers. I can't even tell if she's referring to males or females who are very different in what they need for arousal and stimulation. And to say "get into the body" with no stimulation at all seems ridiculous to me. Some external stimulation needs to take place in order for the body to react and blood to start flowing to the genitals. I shut it off at 3.47 rather than listen to an hour of more ambiguous non-answers to your poignant questions - disappointing.
I'm going through similar situation. Wife is post menopausal and no libido. And she doesn't want to have libido. She has agreed to give me sex but it would be great to have her respond to my affection like she used to. Tough getting older.
@@douglasgraham4387then why stay with her? If you're older, kids are already out of the house, and she doesn't have Any care in the world for it, unless you're into dead fish or really want her for house cleaning or cooking and playing games or some entertainment with each other, then why hold on?
Probably best to get her hormones checked. I had several older women clients who got on a very low dose of testosterone after menopause, and their libido, sex drive, sensitivity to stimulation, and their overall mood improved. It's worth getting checked. I know my wife will be taking it the first onset of menopause because she doesn't want to go through all that crap.
"Said no woman ever" is far from true. I personally know multiple women who that does turn them on. All too often, people disregard notions that don't match with their feelings. Always avoid saying that anything applies to everyone.
3 women at once are 2 too many. If you want a 50 year marriage like ours, sex techniques are "the icing on the cake," IMO. They are not your starting point. Several videos have stressed getting out of one's mind. It took me several years to discover. I found it during a massage. I used the Yoga technique of putting my awareness where the masseuse's hands were, and moving with her.
I would rather avoid sex than try and explain to a woman that we can have sex without penitration, lol. Since passing 40, my sex drive has dropped off a cliff, but can still get it up 1 time per week. Doctors refuse to give testostirone and get people taking a pill every day of the year (clearly not sustainable), so feels like help for men is nearly impossible.
Both 71 great 46 year no children marriage, retired, TRT therapy. Routine can set in, it does take some thought and yes "sex" is not all about penetration, though that's not an issue for us thankfully. We "grab ass" throughout the day and earn what we've heard called "sexual currency". May never have sex in the traditional term/way, but we do physically connect. And yes, we have on occasion had another partner; hard to expect one person to provide all you need for a lifetime. Whatever works. Shame society and religion NEVER help with such an important life function.
"If you feel like you are one of those people who has become not a human being but a human doing" These ladys are dropping some knowledge right now. Shame all you who came here to goon and sexualize them will never use this valuable information.
While you are right. Sexualize or not, it doesn't change the fact that when you realize being a human being, there still aren't any girls waiting to talk because you "being" didn't change how dating works in this age.
@trinsit Yeah its a terrible landscape. I agree. I found one thing that helped me personally is to stop sexualizing women and essentially stop trying so hard. I eventually found someone compatible. It really seemed like the harder I tried and the more I tried to find women, they picked up on my desperation. But yes, dating sucks in this online world.
i believe there is a great danger and failure rate in a sex addict “12 step” group account there is the feeding of the addiction..and when there on those on the edge they feed others who are struggling..”sick” people around other sick people..Therapy for sure and vital i believe..
I'm having an odd problem. I dont have a problem getting erect when I'm with my girlfriend, but have a really hard time getting an erection when I'm by myself. I dont think it's a stress thing. What should I do?
After many years, it's like an old car when it's unreliable and costly and is loud and annoying like a hole in the muffler we trade it in...They haven't figured out there's more in the sea than star fish..
I am married since 2007 having two kids problem is from my first sex that i a dischrged firstly even before penetration and then i feel errection problem i am regularly using scindal tablet from sex now i am of 46 but still i do not last long in bed advise me
Dr Emily is a babe. As a teenager, I watched Nina Hartley's _'How to Eat P Like a Champ'_ DVD (she's an expert educator, as well as a performer). It detailed everything - including the entire build-up. I'm so glad I put in the time, cus it's paid off a million fold. You can never know too much.. there's always more to learn. x
That's what Sex Ed is Supposed to be like. At least one big part of it should be exploring for beginners and understanding your emotions as you go through everything, including learning what you're into and how to explore it safely.
There's less of a point to this video when it doesn't change how dating doesn't work anymore for a majority of people as well as relationships becoming even more of a trap than it's always been.
@@trinsitwell this video is how to have better sex not attract women and find partners. You havent found the right women if your experience had led you to feel that dating is a trap.
The Modern culture in America for sexual relationships is toxic! I spent most my life being extremely healthy, military man. Blue eyes, blonde hair fit. I could turn heads going in a popular night club but all that wasn’t enough! I felt lonely for decades. I’d ask a girl out occasionally but still getting cold shoulder. At age 61, I moved to the Philippines and without any effort, young women and girls were eyeing me up and down! After a month I have a petite Filipina, half my age who deeply in love with me and giving me the best sex of my life!!! It’s amazing knowing how connected I am with a woman like never before! I recommend any lonely man take a vacation from the toxic environment of the US and/or the UK and see an 18 yr old beauty for $100 just to get back in action!☺️💪✌️
I’ve been with a girl for 4 almost 5 years I met on the other side of the world never had love or dedication like hers before in my life I’m not saying it’s for everyone but if your struggling to find someone you can have a real connection with it’s worth a shot.
The secret is a healthy age difference, a 20 year woman and a 30 year old man will have a very happy and content sexual life lasting decades since they will both stay attractive for long if they take care of themselves since women mature earlier than guys since childhood till old age.That way a balance of sexual attractiveness and desire will be kept for longer between them.
To many broadest statements, too much hype, too much of your own ideas without proof, People are too much individuals, for you to be throwing blankets over them in collective statements like you're doing geez whatever
Agreed. It’s also possible to reignite that youthful desire with going to the Philippines where a 50 yr difference is not uncommon. Also, couple that with stem cell therapy focused on the penis and it’s absolute ecstasy for a heterosexual man!!🧍♂️😊
Can't take this so called therapist seriously when she makes a comment like "said no woman ever"....blanket statement like that from a therapist (assuming she has actual qualifications which I'm doubting now!) are not helpful and help foster stereo typical responses from both parties...clearly only interested in boosting her online presence that anything else....this will be the first video I've disliked on this channel. I know women who actively seek out these things. This is probably why people avoid going to thereapy, they help no one with stereotypical uneducated comments only seekint to line their pockets with your money
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6:50 Foreplay and flow state
11:00 Touch each other
16:00 Curiosity
23:30 Love and connection
32:00 Boundaries
39:10 Think outside the box
42:30 Orgasmic issues
52:30 Incompatibility
1:00:00 Patience is a virtue
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6 year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on , I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here .
The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?
Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online.
@@charlesdavid-p1y I know it’s much easier to say than do however we must never put our complete hope,dependency and reliance on another person, company, or sports team etc to satisfy all our longings desires and emotional needs! None of them can truly meet our every need ! Only a personal relationship with our Creator thru Jesus! Matthew 11:28
4:35... Been happily married for 30+ years and my wife was an executive. Having a discussion on how she owns "her being present" and asking what I could to help was life changing.
WONDERFUL episode. Ordered Dr. Jamea’s book.
There’s many great points here especially about Men with low emotional literacy & other great points here. I’m appreciating this video. “A good butt slap” is said by many women actually, mine asks for harder ones 32:31 That opinion wasn’t true, but still love the video!
this video literally came in the perfect moment in my life, love you
That’s what she said.
got to have a wife that even wants to be touched 1st i was married 8 yrs before we got married she was wild and tried everything after we got married she didnt want to be touch maybe hug every once in awhile she told me that sex and playtime has to be earned after 8 yrs of 0 anything except being put down and made fun of i am now single
Are you financially well off.cause if you are maybe that is the only reason she wanted to be married to you
@@reyesmunguia4899😂😂
There's millions more women
great video, had to leave a like!
We need more people like this telling us truth! Just finished reading 'The Skin Radiance Recipe' by Mrs. D. Its fascinating what they hide from society.
Good intimacy management lecture that cuts across all ages, and different physical and emotional challenges impacting intimacy between partners. Thumb up!
Interesting conversation with a lot of great points to think over. A lot of it is affected by constant vocal fry. Please take an objective listen and use your voices to their full power. Thank you.
Esther Perl also "Mating in Captivity" and "State of Affairs".
Thanks doc..much lov3
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Serotonin levels are linked to our mood. When they go up, it helps us feel calmer. And Normotim supposedly helps increase serotonin.
It's my pleasure to see & listen dr. Emily
the biggest game changer for me was reading 'The Skin Radiance Recipe' by Mrs. D
Thank you for the information, hopefully I get a chance to use it someday.
I was looking forward to watching this video. My wife and I are retirement age and she has completely lost her libido, I have the libido of a 20 year old. Its tough. She really tries but she gets no pleasure from any form of stimulation whether alone or together. At 3 minutes your guest seems to be ambiguously avoiding straight answers. I can't even tell if she's referring to males or females who are very different in what they need for arousal and stimulation. And to say "get into the body" with no stimulation at all seems ridiculous to me. Some external stimulation needs to take place in order for the body to react and blood to start flowing to the genitals. I shut it off at 3.47 rather than listen to an hour of more ambiguous non-answers to your poignant questions - disappointing.
I'm going through similar situation. Wife is post menopausal and no libido. And she doesn't want to have libido. She has agreed to give me sex but it would be great to have her respond to my affection like she used to. Tough getting older.
@@douglasgraham4387 The program, unfortunately, does not address the typical problems of seniors.
@@douglasgraham4387then why stay with her? If you're older, kids are already out of the house, and she doesn't have Any care in the world for it, unless you're into dead fish or really want her for house cleaning or cooking and playing games or some entertainment with each other, then why hold on?
@@trinsit Ever hear of 1) LOVE, I love my wife with or without sex. "BETTER OR FOR WORSE" which leads to 2) Till death do us part.
Probably best to get her hormones checked. I had several older women clients who got on a very low dose of testosterone after menopause, and their libido, sex drive, sensitivity to stimulation, and their overall mood improved. It's worth getting checked. I know my wife will be taking it the first onset of menopause because she doesn't want to go through all that crap.
A great educational video found this very enlightening and a great listen on my drive
"Said no woman ever" is far from true. I personally know multiple women who that does turn them on. All too often, people disregard notions that don't match with their feelings. Always avoid saying that anything applies to everyone.
Good point. In my experience most women desire some level of objectification from a person they are attracted to.
Great video!!! At age 66 I’m still learning. I will be a great partner for someone
Wow, wow, wow, wow.
Thank you for your insights! Does Normotim help with diet adherence? 🙏
3 women at once are 2 too many. If you want a 50 year marriage like ours, sex techniques are "the icing on the cake," IMO. They are not your starting point. Several videos have stressed getting out of one's mind. It took me several years to discover. I found it during a massage. I used the Yoga technique of putting my awareness where the masseuse's hands were, and moving with her.
"keep hammering away" lol
I would rather avoid sex than try and explain to a woman that we can have sex without penitration, lol. Since passing 40, my sex drive has dropped off a cliff, but can still get it up 1 time per week. Doctors refuse to give testostirone and get people taking a pill every day of the year (clearly not sustainable), so feels like help for men is nearly impossible.
Might want to go “elsewhere” to get your testosterone
You're not on Rumble? Why?
Both 71 great 46 year no children marriage, retired, TRT therapy. Routine can set in, it does take some thought and yes "sex" is not all about penetration, though that's not an issue for us thankfully. We "grab ass" throughout the day and earn what we've heard called "sexual currency". May never have sex in the traditional term/way, but we do physically connect. And yes, we have on occasion had another partner; hard to expect one person to provide all you need for a lifetime. Whatever works. Shame society and religion NEVER help with such an important life function.
Actually, finding the right partner will provide everything you need if you simply communicate what you need and your partner actually cares, get it?
@ No it won’t if the other partner will not agree to the desires expressed in the communication. Communication does not equal agreement. Get it?
"If you feel like you are one of those people who has become not a human being but a human doing" These ladys are dropping some knowledge right now. Shame all you who came here to goon and sexualize them will never use this valuable information.
While you are right. Sexualize or not, it doesn't change the fact that when you realize being a human being, there still aren't any girls waiting to talk because you "being" didn't change how dating works in this age.
@trinsit Yeah its a terrible landscape. I agree. I found one thing that helped me personally is to stop sexualizing women and essentially stop trying so hard. I eventually found someone compatible. It really seemed like the harder I tried and the more I tried to find women, they picked up on my desperation. But yes, dating sucks in this online world.
Married no sex for the last 25 years and no cheating either. Got libido of a 20 year old at 65. What to do?
Talk about Sex... 99% chance you aren't talking to your partner in a meaningful way about sex basically ever.
Whoa…y’all are both beautiful. Love your attire today, Dr. M. 😍
i believe there is a great danger and failure rate in a sex addict “12 step” group account there is the feeding of the addiction..and when there on those on the edge they feed others who are struggling..”sick” people around other sick people..Therapy for sure and vital i believe..
Good day beautiful Doctor❤🌹
I'm having an odd problem. I dont have a problem getting erect when I'm with my girlfriend, but have a really hard time getting an erection when I'm by myself. I dont think it's a stress thing. What should I do?
After many years, it's like an old car when it's unreliable and costly and is loud and annoying like a hole in the muffler we trade it in...They haven't figured out there's more in the sea than star fish..
Haven't done best waiting ....
Sweet ❤
Dr Emily … your beautiful eyes wake up all my senses.
Rena Malik - Drop Dead Gorgeous ❤
I am married since 2007 having two kids problem is from my first sex that i a dischrged firstly even before penetration and then i feel errection problem i am regularly using scindal tablet from sex now i am of 46 but still i do not last long in bed advise me
Dr Emily is a babe.
As a teenager, I watched Nina Hartley's _'How to Eat P Like a Champ'_ DVD (she's an expert educator, as well as a performer). It detailed everything - including the entire build-up. I'm so glad I put in the time, cus it's paid off a million fold. You can never know too much.. there's always more to learn. x
That's what Sex Ed is Supposed to be like. At least one big part of it should be exploring for beginners and understanding your emotions as you go through everything, including learning what you're into and how to explore it safely.
I live in Seattle and its a great place to be.
It is a great place to live if you want your government to define what freedom means to you.
I love your videos ! You are amazing ! What do you know about PEPTIDES ? Can you do a video please
Let's gooo
Translation Urdu please.....
Lmao yall cant just listen to the wisdom of this podcast without sexualizing these two women just because the topic is sex. 😂
You can if you have your actual partner in mind.
Exactly. Just a bunch losers who saw women and the words sex. As was said before me. Some of us are trying to enhance sex with our partner.
Thank you
There's less of a point to this video when it doesn't change how dating doesn't work anymore for a majority of people as well as relationships becoming even more of a trap than it's always been.
@@trinsitwell this video is how to have better sex not attract women and find partners. You havent found the right women if your experience had led you to feel that dating is a trap.
There’s Potentially Great Loving From These Two… Unlock It Men!!!!
Just watching your videos has improved my sex life. Fuckin gorgeous
You mean your sex life with yourself?
With yourself I assume?
Sex is a natural thing and you do not need anyone to show you how to enjoy it. Damn!. Even animals enjoy sex folks.
Dr I think I'll come to you so you can teach me practically
Emily has the prettiest eyes
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Secret to unlock the greatest sex of your life: stop begging your wife for it, get out and pay for it. Much better by 3 orders of magnitude.
hi i dont get the feeling any more why that
The Modern culture in America for sexual relationships is toxic! I spent most my life being extremely healthy, military man. Blue eyes, blonde hair fit. I could turn heads going in a popular night club but all that wasn’t enough! I felt lonely for decades. I’d ask a girl out occasionally but still getting cold shoulder. At age 61, I moved to the Philippines and without any effort, young women and girls were eyeing me up and down! After a month I have a petite Filipina, half my age who deeply in love with me and giving me the best sex of my life!!! It’s amazing knowing how connected I am with a woman like never before! I recommend any lonely man take a vacation from the toxic environment of the US and/or the UK and see an 18 yr old beauty for $100 just to get back in action!☺️💪✌️
I’ve been with a girl for 4 almost 5 years I met on the other side of the world never had love or dedication like hers before in my life I’m not saying it’s for everyone but if your struggling to find someone you can have a real connection with it’s worth a shot.
Hey buddy are you sure it wasn't a ladyboy?? 😆😆😆
Wow pushing feminism on male health channel
The secret is a healthy age difference, a 20 year woman and a 30 year old man will have a very happy and content sexual life lasting decades since they will both stay attractive for long if they take care of themselves since women mature earlier than guys since childhood till old age.That way a balance of sexual attractiveness and desire will be kept for longer between them.
To many broadest statements, too much hype, too much of your own ideas without proof,
People are too much individuals, for you to be throwing blankets over them in collective statements like you're doing geez whatever
Agreed. It’s also possible to reignite that youthful desire with going to the Philippines where a 50 yr difference is not uncommon.
Also, couple that with stem cell therapy focused on the penis and it’s absolute ecstasy for a heterosexual man!!🧍♂️😊
Can't take this so called therapist seriously when she makes a comment like "said no woman ever"....blanket statement like that from a therapist (assuming she has actual qualifications which I'm doubting now!) are not helpful and help foster stereo typical responses from both parties...clearly only interested in boosting her online presence that anything else....this will be the first video I've disliked on this channel.
I know women who actively seek out these things.
This is probably why people avoid going to thereapy, they help no one with stereotypical uneducated comments only seekint to line their pockets with your money
So much talking. So little substance.
❤💪👩❤️👨🙏✝ GOD BE WITH US AGAINST EVIL AND TEMPTATIONS ✝🙏⛪️💍🕊
WTF 😄😄😄
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Sex alone is a sin
Yeah? Well, you know, that’s like, your opinion, man.