We had SO much fun chatting with you ladies! Thank you for your beautiful questions and energy. CJ’s Instagram is @cjmakesphotos. Have an amazing weekend everyone! ❤
your brother gives golden retriever vibes. his wisdom and demeanor is just like the warm sun on a winter morning. we need more men like him in the world. this was so insightful
Awwlexis I know you're a woman of Christ, thus can only give advice from that perspective... In reference to your point about ensuring your man is connected to God... I've been dating an atheist for awhile now...and to be honest, he's the most emotionally intellegent and self-aware partner I've ever had... And this is in part due to the fact that he's not grounded by an inflexible/unchangeable regilious doctrine (not to disrespect any religion) but rather by his appreciation of the gift of life. As such, he's very open to learning, growth and change... Holds a very high moral standard and is very respectful of other human beings and their own experience of life. I just wanted to share that, since it seems to not be a very popular opinion or experience. Love your videos, btw! I've learnt so much.
When I was in a deep and dark place in my life, I asked god to send me someone who could see my value and protect me. a week after that, I met my man who is in his healthy muscular energy. He help me to become my best self. And in the meantime, I met you. It so surprised me the fact how beautiful healthy feminine energy and healthy muscular energy are. They complete each other. ❤
He made me realize how low value of a man my ex was. Honestly a part of me is still wondering if it's possible for a low value man to grow with a high value woman but I'm trying to not cling onto the hope that people will change. Thank you so much for this video!! This was super eye-opening seeing what a high value man is
You’re brother was so well spoken and knowledgeable! Has he ever considered a podcast for young men talking on these topics! He seems like he’d be really good at it! . . . Love Your videos Alexis huge fan of your content!! 🫶🏽💕
It would be so nice to have siblings who share similar energy and mindset 💛 AND the way u look at him shows how much u adore his thoughts and is proud to have a little one who's so mature.
It’s incredible how just watching these videos changed how i look at man! How I learn to receive and let men be men while Im being a woman!!! Feels so good!! And today I just had the most amazing date with a healthy masculine man that I would never go out with in the past. This videos are such a blessing and I can’t wait to save up for the course ❤ Thank you so much!
Developing divine masculine energy refers not only to men but also women. Now I develop my inner masculine energy so this video is truly helpful, thank you ❤
I was called insecure for having a boundary when he had a girl bestfriend that didn’t seem to like me, and routinely flirted and crossed boundaries we had up. He never took the step to reset the boundary. Cleared that up very quickly at 41:23 ❤️
It was great to see you with your brother and hear your views on on healthy masculine energy. You definitely touch on some great habits to be aware of when determining how much someone's values will align with your own. Thanks for sharing! All the best, Liz
What an amazing young man your brother is 👏👍🙏💕Alexis, thank you for having him in the video and for asking all the right questions ❤ I truly enjoy this really wholesome discussion 😊
That's awesome to hear your both Christians. I am too. I am glad your brother could join today and talk about what makes his masculine energy healthy. Thank you
Love this! Great video you two! The comment about a man joking about certain things definitely made me think, my man has not 'joked', however he did point out a few insecurities and made me feel low value by commenting that 'oh well, but is she a good cook' ? When i made food and it was not up to his standards apparently. As well as other criticising comments, and me brining them up several times made him defensive and annoyed, telling me why do i bring up things of the past. Relationships can be complicated (when not healed properly i think) and I should think about healing myself first as i figured out i apparently am anxiously attached as well. I'll look into healing, so thank you for your videos! Definitely would be nice to see more relationship videos and advice on what to accept in a relationship as a woman, deal breakers, or what not, as i am having a hard time with this and usually tend to just want to forgive a man because i realize everyone is imperfect and has their own wounds and want to be there for them to help them. But I tend to forget myself. May the heavenly Father bless all you do, your radiance is contagious :) Thank you!
Personally I think joking and banter are 43:11 actually vital for a relationship. Being able to laugh together is so important to me. The core of truth you talk about is also playing into this. If they can playfully joke about a quirk or habit I have in a funny way, that doesn't hurt my feelings. I usually find it humourous and fun to laugh about myself. Of course that requires a certain level of confidence and knowing the other person loves you despite or maybe even because of those quirks. And the other person must be able to take a joke as well and laugh about themselves too, not just dish out. Of course, there is a huge difference between mockery/picking on someone and joking. And the limit depends on each person and the relationship I have with them. My best friends for example get to joke about things which would put me off if said from a stranger. So in general I think joking and banter is not only fine, but necessary. But only if everyone involved is okay with it and given that they speak up, if feelings have indeed been hurt. Edit: This does not include body image and insecurities. Those are always off limits. ^-^
My husband and I are both on our inner work journey, watched this, and really bonded over what you two discussed! Thanks for creating content not just for my feminine energy journey but this for us to connect over as well🌸Sending lots of love and kindness your way. 🤍
Aww my girl this makes me so happy! Thank you for sharing. I am so happy to hear you both are on your inner work journey. That is beautiful. Sending you lots of love ♥️
I have run into really nice guys who are older (my age, 40s 50s) who have been hurt by women and can't let go and get beyond that. They find a great woman and push her away because he is stuck in not being able to let go of the one who hurt him. Some have not tried to grow from it and others seem to be running from growth and dive into a bottle of alcohol and become functional alcoholics. They may even be achievers. It's sad, especially when I like the sensitive men but not the sensitive men who are broken not trying to fix themselves. I want a masculine man who is always learning and working on bettering himself and also has a sensitive side.
Wow such a great video! You can tell he has a mature mindset in the way he expresses himself, even his mannerisms & the calmness in his voice. Thanks for thinking of us when making this video & showing us a great example ☺️
Watching your brother speak made me realize how attractive healthy masculine energy is. I could def feel that from him. And I’ve decided that I’m gonna attract only healthy masculine men from now. Thank you for this video Alexis❤
Wow! You two are like balls of sunshine. You radiate such beautiful energy through the screen - I can only imagine how wonderful you are in real life. 🥰
The insights from CJ are refreshing. Can you share with us a list of his recommended podcasts? I'm interested to know what he's regularly feeding his mind with 🤔
This video has to go viral👌🏽Being good to each other no matter how they hate is what my religion Islam teaches,and you will always be at peace and it’s really good to hear from you too
I am a new subsciber. I just want to say I love your relationship, and the the respect you have for each other. Thank you for your videos. Youre very inspirational
Thank you for this! As a guy who stumbled on this channel, I enjoyed this content and needed to hear some of these life tips! Tell your bro to start a channel! We need more faith filled bro content!
I am 11 minutes in and wow ! Such a beautiful video. You, your brother, and the relationship you both have cared for. Reminds me of me and my big sister ❤ yes 🙌🏻 this is just so …. Wonderful. 😊
Hi Alexis. I am in a healthy relationship now and we are the happiest we have ever been. When we first got together though he did some horrible things that are just unforgivable. I keep telling myself that he has changed because he truly has and he is a better man but I can’t help but feel resentment due to the pain he caused me. A year ago I was not the women I am today I was very insecure and did not have any back bone to leave him. But every time I remember something he did I wish I did leave because he did not deserve me. I am just not sure what to do anymore. He does everything to care for me and spoil me every day and I keep remembering this horrible side of him.
It would be nice if you together collaborate and add him into some part of your training program ❤ As well would be nice if your brother would be doing same thing, but just for man. We need more like him and more ladies like you 💜
Hi awwlexis so I've been subscribe to your channel for about a month I think I'm not sure but you really give me inspiration about life with your channel and I'll definitely sign up for you course once I can...I'm a stay at home mom and I do have dreams and goals for myself being a stay at home mom is only temporary for me and listening to you is giving me the confidence to pursue my dreams...but my relationship is kind of holding me back and I'm not someone that speak I'll about my partner but my family just don't understand so I'm a Muslim women I got married at 18 and I've never really been safe and comfortable in my body around him because after marriage he wanted me to change the way I dress and the things I did and I love fashion, make up and things to do with hair styling and I realise I'm afraid of abandonment so I put aside all the things I like and the friends I had but now I feel like I don't recognise myself I'm not the same I'm what he wants me to be even though his not a toxic person but the biggest thing is that I'm far from my feminine energy like my husband doesn't have any discipline I end up doing everything for him and myself and our kids...he never finish anything so I need advice because I'm try to do inner work on myself and I spoke to him many times he says he will help me but just does it for afew days and his back doing what he wants..... please give me any advice that you can and I love what you doing and your journey it's beautiful and you beautiful awwlexis ❤
New subscriber, Seeing ur videos and its strange how i m so much in my masculine energy, i just wanted to be wanted feel powerfull and thought only seductive women can keep men for long but its opposite, after betryals and hearing from college i became dark feminine whereas i was so light feminie as a kid.... Somewhere my dark feminie didnt go that well for my relationships bcz that always feared left off bcz it always knew light feminine is a keeper
Love both of y'all perspective! I think it is great that you are talking about this important topic. I do have a thought that I would like to suggest. I think guys have a real issue with this feminine energy, we have been raised to be the man, the protector, and the deffender. I think that some of these things like showing emotion and really the middle of the connection isn't really either energy. I conceder it just part of the human experience. This is how I feel, think about it for a little while and maybe you can do a response either chat or show. Thank you for your consideration.
Love, can you share with us your book's recommendations? Iv been trying to read more and i love your content so much i would love to be inspire from the same self help books❤
Sex, morality, justice, fairness, promises made- these are topics/subjects that involve deep philosophy and requires a strict moral code. A moral code that might come from religion or for some from his inner self.
We had SO much fun chatting with you ladies! Thank you for your beautiful questions and energy. CJ’s Instagram is @cjmakesphotos. Have an amazing weekend everyone! ❤
Omg he look so kind
CJ is really incredible with good mindset, you are really lucky awwlexis
your brother gives golden retriever vibes. his wisdom and demeanor is just like the warm sun on a winter morning. we need more men like him in the world. this was so insightful
Aww yes he totally does! ♥️
OH MY GOD YESSSSSSSS I AGREE
Awwlexis I know you're a woman of Christ, thus can only give advice from that perspective... In reference to your point about ensuring your man is connected to God... I've been dating an atheist for awhile now...and to be honest, he's the most emotionally intellegent and self-aware partner I've ever had... And this is in part due to the fact that he's not grounded by an inflexible/unchangeable regilious doctrine (not to disrespect any religion) but rather by his appreciation of the gift of life. As such, he's very open to learning, growth and change... Holds a very high moral standard and is very respectful of other human beings and their own experience of life. I just wanted to share that, since it seems to not be a very popular opinion or experience. Love your videos, btw! I've learnt so much.
Both of you guys are so beautiful and glowing!
Thank you so much beautiful ❤
Consistency and discipline 👍🏼
1. Do (show up)
2. Do the right thing
3. Do the right thing, correctly
4. Do the right thing correctly, consistently
When I was in a deep and dark place in my life, I asked god to send me someone who could see my value and protect me. a week after that, I met my man who is in his healthy muscular energy.
He help me to become my best self. And in the meantime, I met you. It so surprised me the fact how beautiful healthy feminine energy and healthy muscular energy are. They complete each other. ❤
Aww my sweet girl I am so happy to hear this! It is amazing to see how God answers our prayers better than we could ever imagine ♥️
He made me realize how low value of a man my ex was. Honestly a part of me is still wondering if it's possible for a low value man to grow with a high value woman but I'm trying to not cling onto the hope that people will change. Thank you so much for this video!! This was super eye-opening seeing what a high value man is
Why was he low value?
You’re brother was so well spoken and knowledgeable! Has he ever considered a podcast for young men talking on these topics! He seems like he’d be really good at it! . . . Love Your videos Alexis huge fan of your content!! 🫶🏽💕
I am listening to this and wondering the same thing. Does he have a podcast? His voice as a man, is very much needed on these topics.
It would be so nice to have siblings who share similar energy and mindset 💛 AND the way u look at him shows how much u adore his thoughts and is proud to have a little one who's so mature.
🥰♥️🙏🏽 I feel so blessed
It’s incredible how just watching these videos changed how i look at man! How I learn to receive and let men be men while Im being a woman!!! Feels so good!! And today I just had the most amazing date with a healthy masculine man that I would never go out with in the past. This videos are such a blessing and I can’t wait to save up for the course ❤ Thank you so much!
This is a very powerful conversation. CJ's energy is also good. I admire your deliberate efforts towards inner healing. Much love from Kenya.
Both of you are glowing!! Also was doing research on this exact topic, so perfect timing!
Aww thank you so much! 🥰
Only a few minutes in and I am loving this already. So much value! Thank you Alexis and CJ so much for your time.
Thank you so much beautiful 🥰
Your brother is really cute, he also seems to have very good energy
Oh my, look at how proud you look at him. I love that so much! Your brother is absolutely a light. Love to see this energy in a man!
Alexis i know that divine masculine men exists, this my very first time witnessing it , thankyou for this video , loved it so much.
Developing divine masculine energy refers not only to men but also women. Now I develop my inner masculine energy so this video is truly helpful, thank you ❤
I loved meeting your brother and hearing all of his amazing insight. Thank you for having him on the live!
I was called insecure for having a boundary when he had a girl bestfriend that didn’t seem to like me, and routinely flirted and crossed boundaries we had up. He never took the step to reset the boundary. Cleared that up very quickly at 41:23 ❤️
It was great to see you with your brother and hear your views on on healthy masculine energy. You definitely touch on some great habits to be aware of when determining how much someone's values will align with your own. Thanks for sharing! All the best, Liz
What an amazing young man your brother is 👏👍🙏💕Alexis, thank you for having him in the video and for asking all the right questions ❤ I truly enjoy this really wholesome discussion 😊
this was great to watch! masculinity and femininity go hand in hand. one cannot exist without the other. amazing content.
One thing i've noticed about your family so far, is that you guys have such wide big beautiful smiles!!! Brings me such bliss haha :D
I admire your relationship with your siblings! Thank u for having him 😊
Love the energies emanating from you both! Thank you so much for this video 🌷💚
That's awesome to hear your both Christians. I am too. I am glad your brother could join today and talk about what makes his masculine energy healthy. Thank you
I absolutely love this! thank you so much Alexis and CJ 💗
Sooo good ! I’m so happy to have a masculine prospective on your channel definitely a blessing and your so lucky he is your brother !! ❤😢😊
Thank you so much for bringing your brother and showing us what a Healthy conscious man looks like.
That's beautiful to see your relation with your brother❤️
Thank you Alexis and CJ!! I really needed the image of what healthy masculine man is.
Love this! Great video you two! The comment about a man joking about certain things definitely made me think, my man has not 'joked', however he did point out a few insecurities and made me feel low value by commenting that 'oh well, but is she a good cook' ? When i made food and it was not up to his standards apparently. As well as other criticising comments, and me brining them up several times made him defensive and annoyed, telling me why do i bring up things of the past. Relationships can be complicated (when not healed properly i think) and I should think about healing myself first as i figured out i apparently am anxiously attached as well. I'll look into healing, so thank you for your videos! Definitely would be nice to see more relationship videos and advice on what to accept in a relationship as a woman, deal breakers, or what not, as i am having a hard time with this and usually tend to just want to forgive a man because i realize everyone is imperfect and has their own wounds and want to be there for them to help them. But I tend to forget myself. May the heavenly Father bless all you do, your radiance is contagious :) Thank you!
You are both so mature ! U two did a very good job on your inner work, it's inspiring ❤ God bless you
Personally I think joking and banter are 43:11 actually vital for a relationship. Being able to laugh together is so important to me. The core of truth you talk about is also playing into this. If they can playfully joke about a quirk or habit I have in a funny way, that doesn't hurt my feelings. I usually find it humourous and fun to laugh about myself. Of course that requires a certain level of confidence and knowing the other person loves you despite or maybe even because of those quirks. And the other person must be able to take a joke as well and laugh about themselves too, not just dish out. Of course, there is a huge difference between mockery/picking on someone and joking. And the limit depends on each person and the relationship I have with them. My best friends for example get to joke about things which would put me off if said from a stranger.
So in general I think joking and banter is not only fine, but necessary. But only if everyone involved is okay with it and given that they speak up, if feelings have indeed been hurt.
Edit: This does not include body image and insecurities. Those are always off limits. ^-^
My husband and I are both on our inner work journey, watched this, and really bonded over what you two discussed! Thanks for creating content not just for my feminine energy journey but this for us to connect over as well🌸Sending lots of love and kindness your way. 🤍
Aww my girl this makes me so happy! Thank you for sharing. I am so happy to hear you both are on your inner work journey. That is beautiful. Sending you lots of love ♥️
I have run into really nice guys who are older (my age, 40s 50s) who have been hurt by women and can't let go and get beyond that. They find a great woman and push her away because he is stuck in not being able to let go of the one who hurt him. Some have not tried to grow from it and others seem to be running from growth and dive into a bottle of alcohol and become functional alcoholics. They may even be achievers. It's sad, especially when I like the sensitive men but not the sensitive men who are broken not trying to fix themselves. I want a masculine man who is always learning and working on bettering himself and also has a sensitive side.
Wonderful video! I hope CJ builds a platform and coaches men with their healthy masculine energy!
Wow such a great video! You can tell he has a mature mindset in the way he expresses himself, even his mannerisms & the calmness in his voice. Thanks for thinking of us when making this video & showing us a great example ☺️
This conversation put so much into perspective & I loved hearing a man's point of view! You both are glowing! Thank you so so much ❤
Watching your brother speak made me realize how attractive healthy masculine energy is. I could def feel that from him. And I’ve decided that I’m gonna attract only healthy masculine men from now.
Thank you for this video Alexis❤
Aaaaw my love I absolutely love this episode with your brother! Please create more together!😍😍😍🥰🫂♥️
He seems like a sweetheart! ❤
Yes he is 🥰
Wow! You two are like balls of sunshine. You radiate such beautiful energy through the screen - I can only imagine how wonderful you are in real life. 🥰
The insights from CJ are refreshing. Can you share with us a list of his recommended podcasts? I'm interested to know what he's regularly feeding his mind with 🤔
I really enjoyed this 💞💞 thank you alexis and cj - i got some great tips and took some great notes ✨️
🥰🙏🏽♥️
This was such an amazing video!!! Loved it ❤ Let’s have CJ back ☺️
This video has to go viral👌🏽Being good to each other no matter how they hate is what my religion Islam teaches,and you will always be at peace and it’s really good to hear from you too
I love this! it makes me happy to know that there are men doing inner work. ❤
This is so hopeful that these people like you two really exist
Wow, not only are you guys beautiful, but radiate this energy that brought me to tears within the first few minutes of the video. Bless you both!!
Aww thank you so much 🥺♥️
I am a new subsciber. I just want to say I love your relationship, and the the respect you have for each other. Thank you for your videos. Youre very inspirational
Thank you so much this video is amazing ❤thank you for teaching me how to live with love ❤
Alexis, you are radiant. CJ resembles your mom so much. I love the dynamic and bond between you two.
Aww thank you love 🥰
Thank you for this! As a guy who stumbled on this channel, I enjoyed this content and needed to hear some of these life tips! Tell your bro to start a channel! We need more faith filled bro content!
Amazing! Thank you both! 🙌🏻✨
I am 11 minutes in and wow ! Such a beautiful video. You, your brother, and the relationship you both have cared for. Reminds me of me and my big sister ❤ yes 🙌🏻 this is just so …. Wonderful. 😊
Hi Alexis. I am in a healthy relationship now and we are the happiest we have ever been. When we first got together though he did some horrible things that are just unforgivable. I keep telling myself that he has changed because he truly has and he is a better man but I can’t help but feel resentment due to the pain he caused me. A year ago I was not the women I am today I was very insecure and did not have any back bone to leave him. But every time I remember something he did I wish I did leave because he did not deserve me. I am just not sure what to do anymore. He does everything to care for me and spoil me every day and I keep remembering this horrible side of him.
Have you tried couple's therapy? That might help~
Two beautiful souls, thank you for your invaluable insights! ❤
It’s the hug in the end for me, love the sibling relationship you have. And you both radiate positive energy. 🥰🥹❤️🤗
🥰♥️🙏🏽
Your brother is as adorable as you! Have him back!
Thank youuu guys for this absolute amazing vd love uuuu
It would be nice if you together collaborate and add him into some part of your training program ❤
As well would be nice if your brother would be doing same thing, but just for man. We need more like him and more ladies like you 💜
This is a wonderful idea thank you ♥️
LOVE THIS...may God continue to bless you both. Thanks for sharing. Big Ups to your brother.
Great content and channel! Thank you for creating this!
Hi awwlexis so I've been subscribe to your channel for about a month I think I'm not sure but you really give me inspiration about life with your channel and I'll definitely sign up for you course once I can...I'm a stay at home mom and I do have dreams and goals for myself being a stay at home mom is only temporary for me and listening to you is giving me the confidence to pursue my dreams...but my relationship is kind of holding me back and I'm not someone that speak I'll about my partner but my family just don't understand so I'm a Muslim women I got married at 18 and I've never really been safe and comfortable in my body around him because after marriage he wanted me to change the way I dress and the things I did and I love fashion, make up and things to do with hair styling and I realise I'm afraid of abandonment so I put aside all the things I like and the friends I had but now I feel like I don't recognise myself I'm not the same I'm what he wants me to be even though his not a toxic person but the biggest thing is that I'm far from my feminine energy like my husband doesn't have any discipline I end up doing everything for him and myself and our kids...he never finish anything so I need advice because I'm try to do inner work on myself and I spoke to him many times he says he will help me but just does it for afew days and his back doing what he wants..... please give me any advice that you can and I love what you doing and your journey it's beautiful and you beautiful awwlexis ❤
Omg I was actually just thinking of this topic and was gonna ask if you could do a video on this! This is amazing!
Both of your smiles ❤ so beautiful!
The best episode ever ❤❤❤ (all are great but this one is my fav) bring him again
You are a true star seed and very inspiring. Thank you
you are both such a genuine and kind people😍
New subscriber, Seeing ur videos and its strange how i m so much in my masculine energy, i just wanted to be wanted feel powerfull and thought only seductive women can keep men for long but its opposite, after betryals and hearing from college i became dark feminine whereas i was so light feminie as a kid.... Somewhere my dark feminie didnt go that well for my relationships bcz that always feared left off bcz it always knew light feminine is a keeper
AHHHHH GIRLIE YOUR HEREEE❤❤❤
Hello gorgeous!!! 🥰
@@awwlexis could you do a video on how to grow your TH-cam using feminine energy? I’m desiring to grow my TH-cam!
Yeees! You guys are amazing! Thanks for the video!!❤
What inner work/limiting belief do we have to let go of to attract the ideal relationship?
You both have a really beautiful smile💕
Omg Alexis this is huge ❤ thank you!
Very good video 💖
Interesting to listen💜
Thank you very much ❤
I love this! I wish I had this information months ago :')
Does CJ have a TH-cam channel? I would seriously subscribe because both of you are so knowledgeable and intelligent
Aww you are sweet! He does not at the moment but I will share if he ever makes one ♥️
he is so assure of himself
Been waiting for this one!!! 💖 watching now 🥳
We are SO happy to bring it to you! Enjoy love! 😘
Thank you so much for this video! It’s amazing !
imagine having him as a husband and having Lexis as a sister in law 😯
Love both of y'all perspective! I think it is great that you are talking about this important topic. I do have a thought that I would like to suggest. I think guys have a real issue with this feminine energy, we have been raised to be the man, the protector, and the deffender. I think that some of these things like showing emotion and really the middle of the connection isn't really either energy. I conceder it just part of the human experience. This is how I feel, think about it for a little while and maybe you can do a response either chat or show. Thank you for your consideration.
This was a great conversation!
Thank you for this. Loved it!
Hey Alexis, could you go a video on feminine energy on dates / dating ?
Omg your brother !!!! :)
Pleasure to listen you guys❤
What a lovely man ❤
Yes!! Thank you for highlighting that!! Not T*te or B*dden podcasts!! 😂
Love, can you share with us your book's recommendations? Iv been trying to read more and i love your content so much i would love to be inspire from the same self help books❤
Im watching this video for the second time!
Aww hello Ewa! 🤗
@@awwlexis hiii
Clone him, please. 😂❤
Very informative
Sex, morality, justice, fairness, promises made- these are topics/subjects that involve deep philosophy and requires a strict moral code. A moral code that might come from religion or for some from his inner self.
VERY interesting vidéo Thank u so much!🤭🥰
soooo cuteeee! i love him
loved this!
OMG! You guys look like twins 😅