Mastering Love and Relationships

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ค. 2016
  • Who doesn’t want to have more constructive conversations in their close relationships? In this video, Fr. Mike Schmitz explains how achieving this may be simpler than you think. So many times, we just don’t give the people we love the attention they deserve. Fr. Mike shows us how to fix that and master our love relationships.
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  • @27sports90
    @27sports90 4 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    Am not catholic, am non-denominational. But I really like this Catholic girl, so I started watching father mike, and I really enjoy watching him..

    • @mikethearchangel11
      @mikethearchangel11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      that’s great, hope you continue to no matter how the relationship is going

    • @DarkAngel-cj6sx
      @DarkAngel-cj6sx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😆 that is exactly how dr Pitre Brant and his wife started

    • @number1fan262
      @number1fan262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I so wish that the guy I recently dated had had your wonderful attitude!
      How is it going in your connection with her? Have you started talking at least?

    • @froy_boyproductions8488
      @froy_boyproductions8488 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome 😊

    • @Dre-ip8np
      @Dre-ip8np 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol same...

  • @jennifersambrosia
    @jennifersambrosia 6 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    It sounds like this 7 minutes of wisdom could prevent many from having to endure years of expensive and tedious counseling.

  • @suzettefox7808
    @suzettefox7808 7 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Be kind and polite...great words to live by

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Suzette fox,you are absolutely gorgeous 💓❤🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹and I will be glad to know you

    • @cjm537
      @cjm537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@oscarwilliamson1264 As a Catholic mom, I strongly suggest you pray for healthy relationships with real people in your life rather than people online, especially based on their picture. Praying God blesses you with genuine & loving relationships 🙏✝️

  • @yakelinrodriguez6117
    @yakelinrodriguez6117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I would love to go to confession with Fr. Mike, he always has very wise words.

  • @TheCharlesagain
    @TheCharlesagain 7 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    You're a great priest, Fr Mike!

  • @adelinejacob7848
    @adelinejacob7848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    You know father.. When I am completely drained emotionally, your messages come as power back up, boosting me with more confidence and hope. Wondering at the mercy of our Lord... how he uses you as an instrument in my life. Thank you God.. and you too Father.

  • @isaiahpalmer2529
    @isaiahpalmer2529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    “God’s calling me to just do the humble thing” PRAISE THE LIVING LAMB OF GOD

  • @Seraphicmode
    @Seraphicmode 7 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Short answer: Just be kind to one another. As our lord and savior Jesus Christ says, "Love one another as I have loved you."
    Thank you Father Mike! I really needed this literally yesterday and for the future. I'm currently in my first relationship after so long and I'm having trouble because I have never had this before, but I ha prayed to God to give me an answer and boom this video! :D I also checked out "Shifting into a New Relationship."

  • @TrevorOkonuk
    @TrevorOkonuk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    0:43 "He's a...I don't know...some kind of doctor." Haha. Love these videos though!

    • @ajnasu5099
      @ajnasu5099 6 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @jamesfuller8342
      @jamesfuller8342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Trevor Okonuk FUNNY you annoying troll

    • @carolzappa1804
      @carolzappa1804 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I know😂right?
      Haha, he's so cute...down to earth wise, I mean...well...oh shoot.

  • @nuriacb7880
    @nuriacb7880 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I just realise that this is what I am doing with my children, and I feel very sad. They come from school and I am cooking or doing something, I say "um, um", I am pretending I am listening but I am not. I know now that I was hurting them :(

    • @rhiannoncollins3042
      @rhiannoncollins3042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too. I think it’s an easy trap for moms to fall into since we don’t often get to focus on one thing.

  • @alisonperez3353
    @alisonperez3353 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I actually love you! You make the biggest situations so straight forward and simple. Stumbled across you page by mistake. Best mistake I’ve ever made! God bless you padre! 😂

  • @emmadyer-woolaston9310
    @emmadyer-woolaston9310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Father Mike :
    I have wander full an ideas.
    I will playing this VIDEO over, over, over and over UNTIL my husband realize he needs to be more kind of.

  • @JohnAlbertRigali
    @JohnAlbertRigali 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Having been an "constructive active" kind of guy for much of my adult life, I've seen reciprocation decline over the years, especially from a certain handful of persons. It has "taken the wind out of my sails", but I'm struggling to maintain a minimal level of "constructive active" because it goes to fulfillment of Christ's command to love each other as He loved us.

  • @prettyridah5427
    @prettyridah5427 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm Christian not Catholic but I'm learning more about god watching your videos. Thank you father Mike x

  • @michaelomega5783
    @michaelomega5783 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    YOU ARE AWESOME FATHER

  • @emilyd.6371
    @emilyd.6371 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I saw someone suggested a video about "healing relationships". I second that suggestion!

  • @s.a.joignant8848
    @s.a.joignant8848 7 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Everytime a new video pops up I'm so excited! Love you Fr Mike!!

  • @veronicag4593
    @veronicag4593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I need to do this with my friends more, it’s hard for me to focus on my friends when they’re talking sometimes because I get easily distracted. But I didn’t realize how harmful this was. I want to be better at connecting with them.

  • @John83118
    @John83118 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't get enough of this. I recently enjoyed a similar book, and I couldn't get enough of it. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn

  • @seanschult2595
    @seanschult2595 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Father Mike, just wanted you to know how true speaking you are about your true soul mates. It's sad to think some can get lost searching, when Jesus is right there for us everyday. Love you father and continue to preach and speak the Good News.

  • @sunkissgirl818
    @sunkissgirl818 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    thank you for this I needed this , my bf is really kind to me but I need to learn to be kind to him as well , is something I'm fighting everyday, Godbless

  • @michaeldelossantos8560
    @michaeldelossantos8560 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Father mike, will you do a video on the importance of saints and martyrs ....many thanks , Michael de Los Santos

  • @lolitarazo
    @lolitarazo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Flowers in colours from my heart. I pray for you Fr Mike. God bless you!

  • @GF-zh7sv
    @GF-zh7sv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is so true and i'm guilty of this kind of behaviour. I really should have taken those 15 minutes when my ex would visit to show them that they are important and a priority. Sometimes my work mindset is just too strong to do what is the obviously right thing and stop for a bit and show the person I care enough to put the work down

  • @yourpersonaladvice7395
    @yourpersonaladvice7395 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I guess we should spread more channels like this, instead of letting several distracting videos overwhelm our daily lives, thanks

  • @OneRandomCommunity
    @OneRandomCommunity 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Doesn't St. Therese's "Little Way" resonate with this video? 🌷

    • @annamwes
      @annamwes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Spot on! I had the same thought listening to the video :)

  • @rafaelmatias6356
    @rafaelmatias6356 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think it is the third time I watch this video, an I think i am not stopping soon

  • @xennelul
    @xennelul 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We participated in Engaged Encounter, it seemed to me most couples have no clue how to communicate, so thanks for your message!

  • @thecatholicmass
    @thecatholicmass 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i learned something today! thanks padre..

  • @smlipari
    @smlipari 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fr Mike you are the best of! THANK YOU! Caring ... kindness go together like a hand in glove! Take TIME to care! ... MASTER!

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sandra Lipari,you are so beautiful and so cute 💓❤🌹🌹🌹and I will be glad to know you

  • @aaronc1500
    @aaronc1500 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Lord truly does work in mysterious ways. I became a very fervent Catholic at the age of 9, when St. Pope John Paul II visited Mexico in 2002. I was a child and my Grandmother had the TV on. I wasn't familiar with the Pope, and that in spanish he is known as El Papa. I, being childish, was mocking him and calling him a potato. My Grandmother told me "No hables asi de El Papa. A Diosito no le gusta eso," so I stayed quiet and watched on. I remember watching him trying to continue on with Mass, and the difficulties he was having because of his age. Then all of a sudden it hit me, I began to cry and then I told me Grandmother that I was going to go to Mass every Sunday and that I would dedicate my life to Jesus Christ. That very same summer I became an altar server, and I was very sure that I was being called to Priesthood. I grew up going to Mass as often as I could, and I would not miss a day for the life of me. I prayed the rosary every night by myself before I would go to sleep, and would attend Eucharistic Adoration with my Mother as well. Fastforward to senior year in high school and that's when things changed for me. I thought I was on the right path. God, however, told me no after having ended a 1 week retreat with the Legionaries of Christ. I continued my journey, and I realized God wanted me to marry, so I began to date. I was very picky, which wasn't surprising to my family and friends. I wanted a woman who had the same ideals that I did, and I prayed very hard every day so that he would send her my way. I was dating from the age of 18 to the age of 26. I couldn't find anyone who was a firm believer, came from a good Catholic Family, was chaste, pure, etc. Then before my 27th birthday, I attended a Church retreat that was for young adults. I had been putting it off for over 5 years. I didn't feel like it was the time to go. In 2019, however, I felt that it was time to go. I did, and that's where I met my wife. As beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside. God had finally asnwered my prayers and now we are happily married. Moral of the story is, you never know what God has in store for you. Just keep beleiving and God will handle the rest. Blessings!

  • @lydiaannmartinez451
    @lydiaannmartinez451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always stay humble and kind 🙌🏽😊💕

  • @karenaamundson8577
    @karenaamundson8577 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are a master so blessed by your messages.. inspired by the holy spirit!

  • @robertd9743
    @robertd9743 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Father Mike, I sure wish you were my confessor! The holy spirit is with you! God bless you!

  • @kessaann7782
    @kessaann7782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a great video. Thank you.

  • @danielwidyanto5142
    @danielwidyanto5142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Fr Mike. I'm one of those passive destructive guy, and our counselor was saying the same thing as yours, be courious about each other and be kind to each other. My problem is that I don't have any idea how to do that. My family of origin is just practically ignored each other, so I found it very difficult to be courious about my wife's day during dinner.

    • @elizabethstephens8801
      @elizabethstephens8801 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Practice makes perfect! It's really hard though and it hurts sometimes, but the best advice I can give you is to sacrifice for the other person. Just in little things. Maybe your wife needs help with the dishes and you do them for her. Just little things that require self-sacrifice! I hope this helps!

  • @aenigmatica8
    @aenigmatica8 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Simple and fascinating.

  • @nicoolioo
    @nicoolioo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    really needed to hear this today. thanks fr mike!!

  • @MartRam16
    @MartRam16 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this ❤️ Exactly true!

  • @TMan29
    @TMan29 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this, was struggling with a question but it cleared ❤️

  • @Commonchaffinch2
    @Commonchaffinch2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    THANKYOU Fr Mike

  • @jonitagonsalves9177
    @jonitagonsalves9177 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was an eye opener.Thank u Fr.Mike

  • @kesliegonzalez5816
    @kesliegonzalez5816 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Fr. Mike!

  • @grasyaaa__
    @grasyaaa__ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just discovered this channel and I can't stop watching all the videos. 😍

  • @le5314
    @le5314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, that is the best advice!
    Kindness is so underrated these days!

  • @michellemigone7739
    @michellemigone7739 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You have such an incredible understanding of the human person. #wisdom

  • @andreajeffcoat5954
    @andreajeffcoat5954 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you father Mike. Thank you.

  • @lrishDave
    @lrishDave 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much Fr. Mike. I love you like a brother.

  • @puzz88
    @puzz88 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this is wildly good advice and so gracefully delivered. thanks Fr!

  • @noreenmika7783
    @noreenmika7783 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you father mike!!

  • @nelavc21
    @nelavc21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Father Mike! This helps me a lot.

  • @AlbertDominic
    @AlbertDominic 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was awesome Father. loved it.

  • @xavierferguson9607
    @xavierferguson9607 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW! This is truly genius. Thanks, Fr. Mike!

  • @TheChio116
    @TheChio116 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's awesome news!! Thank You! Father!!

  • @garyzimmerman7889
    @garyzimmerman7889 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic. Thank you for this. Sharing with my children and their spouses.

  • @vnt4ims
    @vnt4ims 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u Father...

  • @veronicacampbell183
    @veronicacampbell183 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you father ❤️ God bless you 🙏

  • @LeoMarkP
    @LeoMarkP 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow that was powerful! Love the "Eye ball time" that'll make one's spouse bloom!

  • @jenniroman9574
    @jenniroman9574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are amazing fr mike! Thank you so much!

  • @VictoriosoAlejandrino
    @VictoriosoAlejandrino ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Father Mike

  • @rosemariepetersen4467
    @rosemariepetersen4467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was quite helpful.

  • @bluejay4620
    @bluejay4620 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Father Mike, you are so inspiring. I thank God you get to minister through these videos. :)

  • @illynkimura1015
    @illynkimura1015 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is amazing thank you Father Mike .

  • @MsCorina222
    @MsCorina222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love and BLESSINGS

  • @aiban505
    @aiban505 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thkq Fr. Mike m from India love to see ur channel

  • @maricelamaldonado1288
    @maricelamaldonado1288 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    exactly what i needed to hear right now...kinda crazy

  • @colint7399
    @colint7399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can’t thank you enough for this video. I finally prayed for help and came across this & it was as if it was made specifically for me. I was always thinking of being heroic & passive constructive & not understanding how she could not trust me as I had would never do anything to break our trust, yet the way this is explained shows it exactly how I’m sure how she has been trying to tell me. Much Love & Thanks 🙏❤️💯

  • @charityf888
    @charityf888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There is some good books like love and respect, the five love languages, the love dare. The movie called fireproof is a good movie too.

  • @Alicia-sb6pu
    @Alicia-sb6pu 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is completely true everyone!!!

  • @yoli5779
    @yoli5779 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THANK YOU Father Mike. Be kind to one another and communicate! ❤️

  • @MEXTguide_yoyo
    @MEXTguide_yoyo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is gold.

  • @abylynne
    @abylynne 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love your videos.They help me reflect on my life and my choices. Thank you.

  • @njnj8759
    @njnj8759 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just be kind... So simple I love it God bless you all!!!

  • @mong7858
    @mong7858 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great teaching, thank you 🙏🏻

  • @jody6464
    @jody6464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love happening upon these videos. I've been spending what is probably way too much time on TH-cam lately, and it can really leave you in despair to see what's going on in the world. I am always uplifted after listening to Father Mike. Thank you for helping me.

  • @sondre9056
    @sondre9056 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the Church, which Christ established. Its such a great gift, multi dimensional! Thank you!
    And thats allso a thanks to you pater :-)
    Peace!

  • @docterblack
    @docterblack 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video, the information was really helpful!

  • @jessiska2468
    @jessiska2468 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is beautiful video father Mike

  • @SevenDeMagnus
    @SevenDeMagnus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Fr.
    God bless, Proverbs 31

  • @jhedgje7905
    @jhedgje7905 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LOVE YOU FATHER!!! 😍😍😊 keep up the great work! God bless you!!!

  • @josieguillen8318
    @josieguillen8318 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Fathet Mike. Your videos are edicational and inspiring..They are good food for my soul.

  • @michaelhudecek2778
    @michaelhudecek2778 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Father Mike! This was wonderful information!! Michael Hudecek from New York

  • @deanrowell1591
    @deanrowell1591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome! Thank you very much!

  • @pilarsamala3499
    @pilarsamala3499 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it!makes life easy...

  • @sarakeith5480
    @sarakeith5480 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!!!!

  • @annmarievalenti9264
    @annmarievalenti9264 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful talk

  • @babyjesuslovesme1219
    @babyjesuslovesme1219 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome research . God bless

  • @luisanaacevedo2003
    @luisanaacevedo2003 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this thank you 🙏

  • @larrygann5053
    @larrygann5053 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is absolutely amazing. I've been with my wife for over 30 years we always try to make that time

  • @margaritacampuzano7526
    @margaritacampuzano7526 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video!! It was so helpful and now I know what to look out for!:)

  • @neysadsouza6966
    @neysadsouza6966 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good news! Valuable explanation!

  • @junekhonglam1220
    @junekhonglam1220 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks doctor priest great video

  • @aprilmindin7753
    @aprilmindin7753 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! ☺

  • @Love-Chronicles
    @Love-Chronicles 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good solid stories and advices.

  • @evelynsalinas8477
    @evelynsalinas8477 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely agree. I deal with many people from different walks of life. However, I use a sweet & concern tone of voice and I can get more cooperation from them!

  • @greyzone1974
    @greyzone1974 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Father Mike, the way you approach love is amazing.. I heard your talk previously about how all types of love belong to the church.. not accepted but belong.. it's not them but us...I really got a better idea in how to approach the topic without being condemning. thank you.

  • @luciadeloach9932
    @luciadeloach9932 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video, so helpful in today's world :)

  • @tessyijeuru6364
    @tessyijeuru6364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow..I enjoyed it

  • @RossMcDermott1259
    @RossMcDermott1259 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Fr Mike, you should consider being a voice actor as well as a priest!

    • @garriteinig3445
      @garriteinig3445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      At the Steubenville Conference in 2017, Fr. Mike told the story of nearly being cast as Robin in one of the Batman movies. Unfortunately I can't seem to find a video of it...

  • @juanolvera5471
    @juanolvera5471 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Inspirational