In my experience while working with Indians in an IT company I realised that most Indian men were brought up in a repressed way so that that could not even talk to anyone of the opposite sex. A lot of white Western women are not attracted to many Indians because many come across as creepy due to their lack of skills to converse with the opposite sex. They'll just stare at the women and women find that creepy but it's just a lack of social skills rather than actual creepiness.
@@zw6512 You're very wrong at that. Stereotyping a whole country of One Billion people, seriously ? Every country has its own fair share of handsome, average and ugly guys. I could see an overweight ugly white man, and make the same comment about all white people, no ?
100% agree here. I'm not white, I'm Armenian and I dated 3 girls at the same time before in my city in Seattle and now have a long term girlfriend. I did it through believing in myself it was a mental handicap that is real, but once you realize its the self prison that gets you there you can break free.
@Bidu Bidu I mean you can either look at you being a different race and not looking like every white guy as a weakness. OR look at it like a strength, you have something different to offer that can be good or bad depending on your own vision of yourself and the offer you think you give women. Ultimately they all want the same thing from a man: confidence, safety, passion, support and excitement.
@Bidu Bidu for me it was reading books on relationships, creating an online dating profile that I actually worked on, talked to attractive girls when I saw them even befriending some and most of all creating the life of my dreams to attract a partner that matches it
Vlad Mkrtumyan bud, Americans see you Armenians as Ivan Drago’s cousin (due to Armenia being a breakaway Soviet state). Thus they would go for you when S.Asians are stereotyped as IT lower wage green card scrubbers who have uncles that work at quickie marts with a Robby Indian accent.
@@harrisn3693 lol buddy if they did then why would some yell "sand nigga" at me? or my cousin when we're drinking coffee at starbucks in the morning? I think you speaking for all americans is like me speaking for all of youtubers impossible. www.quora.com/What-race-are-Armenians There's a link to educate you on Armenians
@@999Claymore what bro? I'm already at home, where do you want me to go from here😂 And hollywood industry has plenty of resources to do good research I felt
It's either that or Dr Singh. 😜 Let's face it, they're not going to call the character Dr Pancharatnam are they? But then, the English action hero is going to have a name like James Bond, he's never going to be called Willfred Fossington-Whittingstall either, is he? 🤣
@@Rmalikk Very true. As men we're strong enough to determine what builds us up and takes us down. Porn is porn and not an issue of destruction for any man.
That 'pretty hot for a Indian' line, I get that a lot as a black woman. It's like they have this perception that people with melanin in their skin are not supposed to be attractive.
Which is so ironic and stupid because the lighter the skin the more obvious the spider veins and sun spots and everything! We white women age like cantaloupes that are left out in the sun for too long.
You don't fully appreciate how anti-Black Indian and South Asian cultures are. They are more likely to disown their son or daughter than to have their child come home with a Black spouse.
Indian men especially high earning professionals should be very careful of gold diggers. Their desperation might put them in precarious situations with these women. As a rule of thumb, ask her if you can see her credit score before she asks you for money or starts spending your hard earned money.
Ok, I am a Sikh Indian guy (do not wear turban) from the northern part of India, I have been in US for 5 years for PhD in engineering field in one of the best US schools. However, what you said about the perception people have of Indian people is 100% true from my experience. I have been called "oh you are really cute for an Indian guy", "oh I never thought you were Indian, I thought you were from Italy or Spain", "you are very masculine and handsome for an Indian guy", "you have good genetics, I don't see Indian guys as built as you, do you have a European ancestors by any chance" actually said by a guy in a gym cause I am 6'2" and am quite muscular, not realizing how much hard work and discipline went into making that body,. In fact, I have seen the attraction towards me in women's eyes drop down significantly (not every women of course) when during chat I tell them my origins, the question of which inevitably comes due to my accent. But you know what I am proud of my country and I am super successful in my field at the end of PhD career and it is due to work ethics that was ingrained into me from living in India combine that with energy available to focus on a goal due to "Indian guy sexual frustrations" and time available due to "non-availability of women" is a perfect storm for material success in USA, which becomes way more important in your 30's and later on and you then wield the true power, so don't be discouraged my sexually frustrated Indian brothers in western countries, your time will come!!
@Jasleen look different sure (not really too much though), but at the end of the day they are still Indians. Hence, the statement "Indians look like ..." or "don't look Indian" is pretty ignorant since one is ignoring the vast diversity of looks in India and basing the judgement on very small sample of Indian men they are coming across and how western media portrays Indian men.
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Same here. I always get the are you Indian? You're to tall to be an Indian 6'3. Or your to big to be an Indian you must be mixed with something. Gets kind of annoying sometimes. It is what it is I guess. People think we're suppose to be these 5'4 130 pound timid push overs.
This white girl in college told me that Indian guys were either really good looking or really ugly, she said this as a compliment. It was weird and made me uncomfortable. People really feel comfortable saying some wild shit.
Here’s my question as an Indian, why is it important that white women accept you? I mean if people have prejudices you should let them be, why should the question about dating a white woman even come in the first place. They are who they are, if they like a man they do or let them be. I’m pretty sure we have tons of Indian or Asian women who wouldn’t have any prejudices against us.
@@alecgurney9305 fine that makes the pool smaller but still Indian implies Pakistani bangaladeshi srilankan and actual Indians. That’s still a lot of beautiful women 😂
You've gained 20k subs in the last month NOT because of the way your ethnicity is percieved (one way or the other), but because of your character and the quality of your videos.
Nope, its the Google AI. Its a hype effect on nofab and impotence which causes alot of channels to slide into and got recommended. Now think about the problem coming along
Part of maturing entails becoming your own person. This means not being bound by the ties of your race or gender. It also means not being sheltered by them. The freedom this maturity brings comes with a certain type of loneliness.
@BobbyG again nope. Can imagine that you want to believe what u here is the best. But you can find 100 of non "quality" channels which have more subs. You moght want to consider demographic effects.
American black woman here I can def relate like “you cute for a dark skin girl” like naw ho I’m cute periodt lol I’ve always found Asian men attractive especially middle eastern and Indian the first boy that ever kissed me was in kindergarten was Morrocan which I know isn’t the Middle East but he definitely had the look
But who says that so often? Of course there are horrible people in this world, but people from every race faces undeserved negativity, doesn't mean the majority of society is like that
Not the same kind of dating discrimination. You can still get a date and a significant other because you are still a cute woman. Some of these Indian guys can't even get a date.
@@akin242002 In many ways Asian men have panted themselves into a corner. In their need to prove themselves to white society and not be treated like Black men, many (South) Asian men are essentially white men with a splash of curry spices. Yes women value security above all else and Asian men are known to be hard working and financially stable but that doesn't get women's juices flowing (if you know what I mean). Speaking with many women about many topics including dating, relationships, and marriage the vibe I get from women of various races is why would women want second rate white men with less social and political power. That is question that only Asian men can answer.
@@MrZBlackneffect I strongly agree with your 2nd point, that there is more to it than simply money. Charismatic and funny Indian guys do a lot better in the USA dating scene, just like most charismatic and funny guys of any race. Being in good to great shape helps as well. The other aspect is the cultural side. I know a few from tech companies who could attract some women then, then never commit due to "family". My wife's friend went through that situation. Better believe women will gossip and spread that news around quicker than TMZ.
Indian American here. I was born in Arkansas and raised in Ohio and parents came here 33 years ago. I know a cousin of mine who is married to a white woman and I have a indian-american friend of mine dating a white american lady. It has to simply do with confidence and attractiveness. Go to the gym, groom yourself, and focus on your hygiene. You're not gonna get everyone but if you focus on yourself, you'll be fine.
I think most people are attracted to those who are attracted to them! I have found myself attracted to Indian men and think young Indian women are some of the most beautiful women in the world!
I’m Mexican and extremely proud of it. I grew up in a very Mexican neighborhood and went to a elementary and junior high that were mainly Mexican. When I got to 8th grade we moved to a more white school and heard and probably felt a lot the same way you did. Something I would hear a lot was you’re really cool for a Mexican. You’re the coolest Mexican I ever met, your not like other Mexicans you act a lot different. I felt insulted but they thought they were complimenting me. I think television gives people stereotypes. I hate to say this because I later became friends with him but my teacher in college once made a remark to a mutual friend about Hispanics being on financial aid. But anyways this is something that needs to be at the very least talked about openly. Thanks for the video. A lot of people need to wake up and see thing differently.
Love from NY to all my hispanic hermanos and hermanas G🙏🏽. Growing up as an Indian American, y'all were like my second family. Truly brothers from other mothers man. I had a couple cool and tight White and black friends but y'all held it down the most🙏🏽nocap and related to the most
@@saikiranoruganti Stereotypes, Americans think just because the US- Mexico border is desert the whole country is a desert when it's just the northern part
Yup lost the whole concept of being an Indian trying to please white people. IDC what white people think of us. I am happy with my people, they are very conservative.
I wonder why having facial hair (which Indian, South Asian men have) is considered effeminate in the west? Isn't it ironically, men are knows for facial hair. Are only white men supposed to have beards?
@@sabhrestman6644 I don't know any Afghan and Pakistani women with black or tamil boyfriends and I'm a iranian woman Please name me a single woman from any of the people you just named with boy friends or husbands in history Also Nordic? Just because somebody isn't Indian and black doesn't mean they're white skin either
@Farsi Speaker Bitch, only some Dravidian Hindus from the south India are black, but the rest of the Indians in majority are light brown & white for having Aryan genes in their DNA. I bet you've never seen an Aryan Indian before except for the Dravidian...Hahaha...😂😂
This is off topic but Nikhil, i genuinely believe that you're going to do great things in life. Wait no. Scratch that. I *know* you're going to do some incredible things in life. I've watched how much you've grown throughout your videos and it's evident that your energy is brimming with personal magnetism and authenticity, and that's honestly a rare thing to find in today's world . I don't know how i came across your channel but I'm honestly glad i did because I've learned so much from you and i hope to learn more in the future . Great vid btw! Love the shirt
I went to high school with an Indian dude in New Zealand, he had so much pressure from his family to suceed as doctor that he comitted suicide. We were just 15.years old then.
@@mickeybowmeister1944 poor parents they just don‘t realise how unnecessary schools are they are just dogmatic. And now they would rather have an unemployed son instead of a dead son. May the other parents also realise that
I think you do a great job adding social proof to Indians. Redefining the image who Indians can be compared to American stereotypes about Indians. You chasing your greatness raises the paradigm of what's possible for Indians
@@CaptainSinbad ....how bizarre that anyone could see you come into an audition....and see you as a nerdy type....even if you were able to....pull it off....so to speak with your acting skills....hmmm...anyway...you look like a Bollywood star...if you are tall enough try modeling too...LA...has a very good fashion community and it also has a great Fashion Week.......you have the looks...i think when this virus lifts...we will need a lot of art and entertainment so take care of yourself....workout...and go get those acting and modeling jobs....as for Bruce Lee...i feel very fortunate that i lived during his period of art and fame...he was a walking special effect...and an excellent symbol of diversity and charisma....a true star...a cultural icon of the 1st magnitude...and he used style and fashion to enhance the modernization of the way we all viewed Asian men all over the world...a certain generation of black people dearly love and admire him and a lot of black actors reference him constantly.....he is someone who benefited from the black civil rights movement in the 60s and he knew it....and of course he loved ...ALI....and ALI....loved him back....so you may want to study....ALI....good luck...and keep up your channel...i think you may have what it takes to rock You Tube...for the better...
I've dated two Indian men, one was a player and the other let me know that his parents had planned an arranged marriage for him. So, neither went very far. Culture is the real issue.
@Pathan Yousefzai I know that. That's not the issue here. I was talking about the behavior of most dudes, they'll date à foreigner but only an infinite minority will be serious about it (like they already know they'll marry their desi girl lol) .
Good video it’s very interesting as dark skinned black women face similar issues (I can’t tell you the amount of times men have told me I’m pretty for a black woman or they don’t normal think black women are attractive but I am as I don’t fit the stereotype). It really goes to show how media representation is extremely important.
MyNamed Name That’s not true beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And that’s not a platitude I’ve been all over the world and standards of beauty are very different.
Well as for me I'm a mixed woman Hispanic and Indian my father is from Calcutta India my mother is Hispanic chicana from Los Angeles I'm from Los Angeles and I only date Indian guys the reason is because I love everything India love everything India the culture the food the music the dressing and of course the gorgeous men
@@reignz6968 well some have seen me in a bad way I get dirty looks cuz I have tattoos and Hispanic ppl make fun of me and like in a very ignorant way call my a Daughter of a terrorist they don't even know what even know what a Muslim is an Indian person is a Hindu person a Buddhist they don't know the difference to them we are all terrorist but not everybody tho
@@chestersabajo5527 Yes, but it's a different type of Indian. I'm not talking about Native American Indians. I'm talking about Southeast Asian Indians. Not that there's anything wrong with native american they are gorgeous too
@chestersabajo5527 what!!! Really...... to think about it yeah there's alot of Similarities so yeah you might be right about that..... well both are gorgeous 😍
Bro i m muscular,good face and hair,even belong to upper middle class family but height 5.5 1/2..becoz of which I guess I can’t get any hot girl and will remain single throw out life I guess🥺🥺..only hope for me to bang some hot Indian girls and other country girls is to get fuckin rich and go for some surgery..then I can attract some hot girls...
I’m a black guy and I can relate. My sister married an Indian guy and brother married a Scottish girl. Old stereotypes are rapidly dissolving thanks partly to the democratisation of information in the 21st century due to the internet. Standards of beauty and intelligence are no longer dictated by the old school social oligarchs anywhere in the world.
Thetruth Here ..well, she has a PhD and met her fantastic husband in med school..oh and a couple of beautiful kids. What she doesn’t have is ignorance. Pretty sure you can’t say the same. 😉..I’m dating a Kashmiri so go jump in a lake and try not to splash anyone within a 10 mile radius with your ignorance. Much love
@@AITrademarket hahaha kashmiri girls never go for other races of men Also Kashmiris don't even exist in western lands as a whole The chances of you meeting a Kashmiri is slim to none
Thetruth Here I reiterate, get an education and stop embarrassing yourself with your ignorance..in fact I know a few. Try getting a passport and explore the world. It’s a long shot but you might even become intelligent and intelligible.
True, UNLESS the 🐦 is racist then your attractiveness doesn't even MATTER. Being a BLACK MAN with eurocentric facial features and actually handsome ONLY goes do far in a predominantly WHITE area...trust me 😒
I really don't like the amount of hate I'm seeing in the comments amongst Indian people. The colourism, superiority complexes, the ignorance. No region/state is better than the other or looks better than the other. Stop with this, every Indian is beautiful. These kinds of comments are ruining the video.
Indian people care about religion way too fucking much especially if you're over 35, I'm 18 but my parents generation and generation before them ruined the image of Indians in America. I love them for bringing us here to give us a better life and being amazingly hard workers but they isolated themselves from other people for the longest and a lot were/is racist and super religious. I'M INDIAN AMERICAN SO I CAN SAY THIS FROM EXPERIENCE. DON'T FUCKING @ME ON THIS IF YOU'RE NOT INDIAN
@@prince_sach50 religion isn't a big issue in india Yes right wing is on the rise but still common ppl are united Caste plays a role in income or marriage sometimes But biggest issue is cultural differences among each region Sry for my bad English
@@naveengokarla9518 You know why its on the rise ? what India is today is result of the pseudo liberal and socialist policies up until now. Atleast your so called right wing is more rational , capitalist and prefer no special treatment to anyone.
@@prince_sach50 Religion has nothing to do with your upbringing. Even many American are conservative, does that make isolated or something. TO live in a country as a child and grow up there is a very different experience from going their at age of 30 and adjust to new culture. Different dressing sense, accent, greetings, history, culture, priorities, family structuring etc. Its not like they isolated themselves, people had no other choice.
I think Indian men are very handsome. Always have. Exotic considering I'm from the east coast lol. Alpha male is a mentality, not a race or culture or color.
@Ashish Entertainments (AE) I've dated short guys, I have nothing against them. I'm only 5'1" myself so I'd be a hypocrite to hold height against someone. Even for women, being short can be a negative. Men drool over models with super long legs and big fake boobs... a lot of us ladies will never (and would never) want to look like that. It's about doing the best to take care of the body you have.
@@msrosiethegeek when I was in US many people asked me if I was spanish and when I told i was indian they were like Indians are not muscular and physically weak. And i was like😅 And told him you don't know nothing about India. In villages all people are muscular and boys have chiseled physiques. It's just because of eating natural foods rather than processed ones. And people also have some mentality that vegeterians can't be muscular and strong lol.
Concerning the online dating statistics, remember, women in general are genuinely more ‘racist’ when it comes to their dating preferences, capable of simply ignoring entire races without giving them a chance Secondly, women do genuinely tend to be very hypergamous, at the moment Indian men aren’t seen as having too much status unlike white men for instance.
Yes many are a bit racist at times but at the end of the day whites are the most beatiful and smartest. They are engendered as well. Whites stick with whites, Indians with indians, and blacks with blacks, etc. Only makes sense
@Narc 1820 actually they are responsible for the majority of advancements to humanity and have the highest IQs on average other then certain asian groups. And the rape statistics are unbelievably disproportionate to whites being raped. Intelligence isn't some arbitrary thing you personally decide you absolute fuckwit. We literally have the smartest and most beatiful people and the real life evidence shows it.
@@Android-ds9ie maybe because you aren't a smart beatiful white so the trashy ones are the only ones you are around while the top level of humanity is living life properly and to the fullest.
Anne D. From my observation, a lot of Indian men are usually single . Or they don’t marry too early. I rarely see Indian men with other races of women. Are they hoping to get a White woman 👩❓I don’t know....what do you think ❓
💜Mardi⚜️Gras💚 🖤Who⚜️Dat💛 yea tbh I’m not sure. I haven’t spent enough time around them to speak on it. I’ve been hit on by Indian guys though, and I’m black. I would say I agree that they’re single a lot of the times but idk why. And I know that colorism is a large part of their culture but I rarely see them with white girls. Idk 🤷🏾♀️
I'm black american of Haitian descent from Queens,NY . I live in a south east asian community. Bro , I never knew Indian men struggled with women. Because I always see them with girls of all races but predominantly they own . This is weird to hear .
@Rico Suave TV it's somewhat true. At least their entire life isn't a waste. They are successful in academics and slowly becoming successful in other areas. We have a population 1.3 Billion and plenty of good looking women of all shades, so have back up when the whites don't work out. Besides there is large chindian population in Malaysia.
Your experience is simple. Your beauty privilege over rides the negative stereotype that goes with your race. Being the cream of the crop in looks can definitely override stereotypes and glass ceilings that your same race peers experience. This doesn’t change anything for Indian men..... it’s just changing it for you... because of your looks individually.
Narc 1820 - black men have the most sexual and masculinity promotion of all races of men. They don’t have to be beautiful. Their promotion can push them over the top.
@Narc 1820 lol I guess Im blessed then. I grew up in schools that had people from cultures across the globe. Also where I live doesnt reflect all of Canada. Ive lived in 2 cities which are very diverse compared to small towns that are mainly white. In a way we do reflect most of humanity since we have people from every country here and they are able to keep their culture intact. Every country has their own culture. We still have racism here but its not as overt and in your face as the states.
I am gay so maybe my perspective does not matter, but I genuinely think that this whole emasculation of Asian men is deliberate, but not only that - it largely fails when you actively engage with these folks. It's ridiculous. Take my anecdotal experiences with a grain of salt, but almost every Indian man I've engaged with has left a lasting impression on me: hardworking, pretty chill, and exceptionally handsome. If not that, they just do not make a blimp in my radar. But ugly? hardly ever. Indian men are normal. Some are ugly. Some are damn good looking. They both are okay, leave them be.
If I were an Indian man, I would not seek a Western Wife. I would gladly marry a good simple Indian woman. Indian women are dedicated and loving wives. They also make really great mothers.
I'm an Indian... I agree with the thought process of not seeking a Western Life (or Wife). But the send half of the sentence isn't completely correct. While it's true that Indian women are good mothers once, now the situation just as bad as the west (or worser). I think it's because of social media
You are right man to a lot of extent, But the thing is that even Indian Women who come west for education and work go after white dudes leaving Indian men in the Dust. Some of them get coerced into engaging in hook up culture by their western peers and out of FOMO they too take part in hook up culture as well and we feel them as undesirable after engaging into Hook Up Culture as most Indian dudes do not engage in it due conservative beliefs.
What I’ve noticed, a lot of Indian guys are complaining they’re unattractive cuz they have poor genetics but if they look at themselves, they aren’t in shape. If ur body is fit you will have an attractive face period. U also need to find ur strengths and make them prominent instead of crying over your weaknesses.
Gay guy in the US here. The perception of South Asians as being lower on the attractiveness "totem pole" is a legitimate thing in not only the LGBT community but also among heterosexuals. It's challenging to figure out what has caused this though, and I think it's a combination of factors. The first is that there is very little media representation of attractive South Asian men. Second, I think the stereotype of Asian men in general being submissive and docile still is in place and impacts how Asian men are seen all around. Third, I think the rising Islamophobia in the West is tainting how folks perceive all South Asians and people from the Middle East, regardless of their actual religion. As a result, South Asians are seen as backwards, terrorists, or unacculturated. Just some observations but it'd be great if someone could do a follow-up study on this. But it's definitely a thing for sure. Keep up the good work brother!
You might be living in Canada,UK, or someother white country then cause it's pretty obv here in the US, the most attractive group of Indian American guys even with swag,charm,good personality will get less hot chicks than a lesser attractive white or black guy. I know cause of stories I've heard from my cousins
@@rehan2118 so true I've seen people say it's so much easier for Indians in the UK cuz they've been there so much longer and are more settled and integrated, just from stalking around I can see that most of the Indian guys there have confidence and they don't stick to their own kind, they hang around and mix with people from other races too
@@nikolaimaharaj2319 Indians in England don't crave for white women or representation in media like you do in America. England has a very vibrant South Asian community that's why most of us marry within our ethnicity... we don't need to crave attention or white women like you in America.
Indian men are GORGEOUS!! Two of my good friends are Indian, they are extremely intelligent, ambitious & thoughtful. I spent the evening chatting up my friends last night. There is one issue that I find a tad annoying: OVERBEARING INDIAN PARENTS!!!
@@montyi8 Actually Indian parents interfere and control too much in their children's life, even a 30, or 40 year old man has to ask permission for everything like he's a little school boy
Indian parents are amazing but also socially downgrading in western countries they barely wanna ever see their kids date outside their race. But at the end of the day it's your life and it's 2020 LET GO OF YOUR PARENTS!
Brother, a person who is born who is essentially considered "white" has not had the same issues we have had. You're fighting to get certain roles is admirable; we need to continue that fight everyday in the workplace until our world truly reflects us in equality. Never stop fighting.
So the problem is that we are defining what being an attractive man is by European standards. The fact that 1 of the comments here is supposed to be a compliment by saying he looks like an "Indian Clark Kent" is part of the problem. It should be good enough that he is simply a good looking man who happens to be Indian/Asian. If we keep trying to maintain "you're good or you're ok or now you fit in standards" by using European parameters most people who are people of color will fail and fail miserably.
@@user-ll5id2kw8g they too have been brought up to look down on their own men. make no mistake, you CAN and WILL hate yourself, and an easy way of venting is to push off of the men of your race. It's only natural for those who hate themselves.
My sister's husband is Indian. The were up against a lot obstacles because of his family. They are happily married and have been for ten years. They have two sons and a daughter. All their children have an Indian first name, and English second name. She cooks a lot of Indian and Mexican food. Her in laws love her now. Her husband didn't really celebrate his culture until he married her because she wants it as part of their lives. They are still a hot couple.
I am white latina and im dating a great indian guy! We live in miami & met here. I have not found a good connection with a Latin guy here it's very hard with them and I'm Latin but I don't really feel like there's any rules because I know I'm an exception to a rule and the other person could be too so it's mostly about the connection that you have with someone and to not judge someone too soon
That's just your opinion but if you choose self-hatred then that's what you'll find. A lot of white people that I know are very attracted to dark skin people male or female so if you want to find that you can too.
Honey it's really sad that you believe that because it's not true and that's just what you've been told so you think that that is all there is but it's not I know a beautiful Indian woman that's been with a white guy for about 4 years because she knows she is a beautiful exception to any. Type and so am I I wish you saw that for yourself maybe u will soon💛🌅💛
@Mello Grdd FACT. All the hot Indian girls we grow up with stay chasing white men and sometimes black men leaving us Indian American guys and YES even the Hot Indian guys struggling cause of the dumbass stereotypes man
Obviously u have never been to south America where women are attacked a lot. No matter their shade either. My mom is white n she was attacked there. Sometimes more often because u stand out n they think they can kidnap her for ransom. She was choked and they heir to steal her necklace n my aunts were all hitting hom with their purses. All of my young cousins have had their cell phones stolen out of their hand n my dads doctor grieve in columbia was fighting with a thief who stuck his hands in the window of her car to steal her necklace. It is very very violent for women there you have no ideas so please stop..Sometimes ur part of the world shows one hypocrisy n another part shows another.
Indian immigrants especially divorced men who have been living in America for decades don’t always want to go back to India to find a random woman and bring her to America on a whim. Situation and circumstances make people open minded. Most people stick to those from the same culture because of familiarity and similar cultural values and beliefs, that’s all. It is the same with majority of the people.
Yes for example in my university, International students from India didn’t mingle much with local and international students just sticked To their own groups.
In India, in most of schools (even in metro cities), you'll not be allowed to sit with girls in school. How can you expect not to behave like a weirdo when talking to a woman first time seriously.
Women of other races sometimes avoid Indian men because they think their parents will marry him off to another woman and she will be left heartbroken which happens a lot sadly :'(
I am surprised you didn’t mention perhaps the most well known Indian TV character in recent history who fits some of the stereotypes of Indian men, Ram from Big Bang Theory. For half the show he couldn’t talk to women, except for his mother and sister.
And they never let Raj sit on the couch. He always sat on the floor while eating. Everyone else was sitting on the couch or chair. Subtle but messed up
@@abhijay_ bro he's telling the truth tho 90% Indian guys are not good-looking as this sinbad guy he is 6ft good jawline and has good following what u got lol
As a 20 year-old dude in college, I feel like I'm ignored when it comes to relationships or any physical fun compared to other guys on campus & I don't quite understand or know why even though I have my theories behind that
Honestly brother, get in that gym and start grinding. Start watching TH-cam channels like AMS and Stephiscold. Become cold and you'll automatically get so much swag that they'll have to include you in no matter your race
I used to live in the west, speak the US accent fairly well (almost to the point where most people thought i was american) and had a few successes, but nowhere near as how I observed it was easy for the local americans. You know what the funny part is? I now live in Asia and don't find american\caucasian women attractive anymore. I've even had a bunch of them hit on me here, and it was easy to turn them down, simply because I have more options and my tastes have changed. The few white women i associate with are now just platonic friends. My past where I found them attractive seems like a long distant and absurd dream. Like wow, i used to find "them" attractive?? I guess I was under hollywood brainwashing. Turned that off for a few years and boom, my real instincts took over.
@@CaptainSinbad that's alright. I go through phases. I'm aspiring to let go of wanting anything to do with women. I'm way past my 50 count, it's just pointless.
@@KnucklesForSkull Right now Korean women are the golden standard, they are the more beautiful, nowadays not even white man want to marry white women, they are overrated and they look very masculine, their faces.. they look like trans
My experience as an Indian man is that bias against Indian men is limited only to English speaking countries. Once you enter mainland Europe, like Germany and France, our chances are as good as the local men, and sometimes even better. My world turned upside down when I visited Germany, compared to my time in America.
Same bro... I'm Indian in a western country. The local Asian women want nothing to do with Asian men, a lot of them exclusively date white guys. I have no problem dating fob Asians, they don't possess any negative stereo types about Asians(Indians). We are never featured in their media, a lot of them have never met an Indian in real life before. Ive dated, Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Vietnam girls.. I've never dated a western Asian or Indian girl though, they are full of self hate.
Yo that ending caught me off guard LOL. Yo thanks for being an inspiration man often I go out with my white friends and see the difference in how females and even other dudes react, I think I just gotta keep being me and not letting it get me down. Good luck with the acting you've got another believer and another subscriber 💪
Yeah brotha, hit the gym, make sure you're always fly, always stand up for yourself and in the Indian people, don't be too serious all the time, and you're good. These are just suggestions.
I know a ton of South Asians, way more South Asians than East Asians. I say this with all seriousness: the most confident, alpha guys I've ever met in my life are South Asian. I know not-great-looking and pretty ugly guys who have slept with tons of incredibly attractive women outside their race. It sounds weird if you haven't ever met these types of South Asian guys but the only way I can describe them is that they're descended from South Asian fathers that came from the really rough ghettos of India and Pakistan. They embody the don't-give-an-f attitude 110%.
I’m white and I work with many Indians who are colleagues of mine. The Indian men are very easy to get along and we have great relationships. What I did notice about Indian women is that if they are born in the states or arrived young they tend to be feminists and completely disregard Indian men. They actually avoid them unfortantly. The Indian women that just arrived from India tend to be much kinder and easy going. They usually come with husbands and tend to start families sooner.
You are so true man. This is speacialy in 2nd generation Hindu girls. They don't care about culture and kind of go easy with white folks try to become feminist. As the saying goes " more white than white people". Which is really disappointing.
@@laughtherapey Indian guys get more room to experiment than girls. I feel the leash is tighter on the females. The guys I know will chase every girl under the sun but same dudes will get offended when the see a girl with another race. Also the colorist thing is so true. Some of these girls are so brainwashed to the point they value white skin more than their own. And its not totally their fault. Its the society or environment which makes them.
I'm brown, but I know of many non-indian people that find Indian men attractive so its hard to think you'd have problems finding any women because you are an attractive guy.
No don't you get it, he only wants white women to find him attractive. It's nothing more than self hatred and ego complex. He's mad because white women aren't obsessing over him and lining up to be his baby factory. I've met many attractive Indian men who refuse to date non-white women and are very racist. Then they cry that no one wants them, and it's not like they'll treat white women well. They just know white women have low standards and will let them do whatever they want without the same consequences brown and Asian women put them through. He's a liar omg 🤣 this is why I avoid brown/Arab and Asian men. They're also abusive and controlling in relationships. Major fucked up mentality of woe is me going on. If you read the comments, you'll see how these men are thirsting after white women. Makes me glad to be brown cuz I automatically avoid them and they show their true colors to you. Personally for me, I've never had a problem getting any man of any race but I see the same whiteness worship going on, it's disgusting 🤮
Hey new subscriber here! And a subscriber of Yogioabs too, in fact I came over from his channel, glad to have found you! I like how Yogioabs speaks his personal truth, and even if I don’t agree with everything he says I do appreciate how he makes effort to learn and understand the world. I relate to a lot of what you said here and I’m a woman. Regarding what you said about women saying they don’t normally like or date Indian men but found you attractive is very similar to what men have said to me. I’m a fourth generation American, but ethnically I’m Mexican. Men have said to me “you’re so exotic looking” or “what are you...are you white or? and “I normally don’t like Mexican girls but you’re really hot” or “I think Mexican/ Latin girls are so beautiful”. I find these type of comments rather insulting but I don’t hold it against the person. I’ll take some of it as a compliment because they meant it that way. Most of these comments stem from the fact that people have this stereotype of what a ethnic person is and when they see one that doesn’t fit their narrative or is attractive they feel they have to tell you. Interested to watch more videos in the future on this topic.
Nikhil, regardless of the role you’d be given, i am sure your energy&aura will always speak for itself:) there are so many good looking actors for sure, but you got something else, something beyond attractiveness and potential. I am sure in a few years, we will be seeing you in so many good projects. All the best❤️
Maybe because I’m from the UK and live London but I always thought Asian men particularly south Asian men preferred their own women and met their future spouses at family or cultural events.
You missed the point here. He wants to sleep around with White/Black/Mexican women. He's not looking to have a family with them. There's a massive difference between the two.
There was an Indian guy in two of my college classes and I thought he was super hot. He wasn't a macho man and some people would maybe say he was scrawny even though he wasn't really. He was athletic, a great group leader, and a good student with respect for everyone. It was nice to have a guy that wasn't trying so hard to be like the other guys and I liked how he was a little different. I would have definitely gone out with him if he was interested in me.
@@pokemonitishere202 Its what usually happens with dating in America ( I've been living here for 10 years). Most women are shallow and casually date purely based on fun and not at all serious about marriage. They go with the mindset that "if things work, it works", this mindset doesn't give them any motivation to put the effort to make the relationship work. Relationships have hardly any depth compared to even the friendships we have in India.
@@isidoraveronica Most likely an Indian brainwashed by western notions of relationships. The ones who move to America most likely will be influenced by these ideas thinking it can find help them find a relationship
Alpha male is a marketing trap to sell penis enlargement pills porn and protein products. Humans have 3 brains alpha "theory" applies to the most basic form of animals but wr have a frontal lobe and rationality
It was Alpha energy but the delivery was sort of gay and cringem I'm not gonna lie and this is coming from an Indian lmao. All good I think Sindabad just needs more swag and he's good
I think Indian men are handsome a lot work at my job most don’t even look or speak to any of us :( I would love to become friends but it doesn’t appear they are inviting.
This really sucks. Many people think Indian/Pakistani men are only brown or dark skinned and if you are fair or tanned skin you are likely to get comments like, "You look Persian/Albanian/Egyptian/Syrian/Caucasian/ Eurpean/Mixed race"
Yo completely agreed, I am in Toronto & it's sad here !! I was in Milano for 3 years & I can literally tell you it was the opposite, in fact they considered good looking indian men exotic even. I feel it's a lot to do with immigrants in general & ofc N American TV & Hollywood. Since Europe has overall more culture, they do not see indians or other races (M Eastern,S American etc) like stereotypes here in Canada / USA. Lol bro sometimes on Tinder (other dating apps a girl literally ghosts after knowing my birthplace, it's sad & then probable she goes to "Black Lives Matter" rally JK !! Anyway great video & take care !!
Lol you nailed their hypocrisy with that last line. Majority of these women will be pro anti racism, pro diversity and what not, but when it comes to dating, they are exactly the opposite.
Here's my perspective as a black man. I think these stereotypes exist because 1. there aren't enough indians in the USA. Even in canada, there's only a handful of famous indians who break stereotypes. And the only one I can name off the top of my head is rapper "Nav". 2. Asians/indians isolate themselves from society. This is just a fact lol. They keep in their own communities to preserve their culture. Thus, they don't really assimilate as well as other races/ethnicities. Not to say they all don't. However, when you have a large chunk isolating themselves and the ones who who assimilating only being presented in stereotypical fashion, this is the outcome. I've only seen a handful of indian dudes IRL. And only one of them I can remember didn't fit the stereotype of being some nerdy guy .
I never cared about women to say the truth . But you are right about stereotypes about indian males . I am from Himachal 6'1 80 kg . Pretty muscular . Whenever I say people I am from India they think I must be mixed . It's like in their minds that indians can't be muscular or strong lmao 😂😂 I think they all stereotypes everything acc to race and don't see an individual as an individual . Like if a person is black he has to do something with drugs and is involved in crime somewhere. And a person is white he must have some sense of superiority in them and probably is a racist . An Arab dude has something to do with terrorism . A Mexican must be with some gang Things like that . And also how they show people and I have seen most things about India and indians are so off the chart that it actually doesn't have anything to do with reality . So people have a perception in their minds about others . Maybe it's just human nature idk . They don't get it that people who go outside of India they are just looking for jobs and are working hard for that . If speaking about most indians in India especially rural areas they have a very robust mentality . Theres no grey area for them . It's either right or wrong lmao .
That ending was freakin awesome! Man it is amazing the change in the way that you come across on camera compared to your old videos. You can see your clarity and confidence has increased tremendously. Whoever says that PMO has no effect on people is out of their mind. Either that or they have no grey matter left to know the difference lol.
As an Indian myself though I refer to myself as chocolate, Indian men should start working on their verbal skills and charm when it comes to interacting with women of any ethnicity. Also, on their physical aesthetics plus their body game. They have to definitely develop their confidence and be in touch with the raw masculinity instead of being surpressed by the parents, social programming and the media.
Modern Indian men are exposed to internet and can now learn the dating game from other parts of the world , I think the arranged marriage system should be brought down because you won't work for pussy if you are getting handed out to you for free
@@nayladevon1746 True but if men have an exorbitant amount of wealth and resources or at least make a decent amount a year looks go out of the window for most women. Not calling women Gold Diggers BTW
@Eeshaaputra Vasant Please, dude dont be so weak minded Arya Samaj is new Chauvanism.. Its also Anti Hindu Anti Vedic Believe me i have had lots of debates with these so called Arya Samaji morons..they are complete idiots and belong to tukde tukde gang and bharat barbadi gang too..
Sure, maybe. But let's not forget, you're not just some random asian guy, you're an incredibly handsome asian guy, who fits the american standard of beauty. Jawline, hair, speech, aura, the whole package. You're really the dream cast of any movie or tv show, because you tick the inclusivity box without sacrificing average viewer interest.
@@MH-ro3ww idk what's racist .. you expect black women to be Zendaya or Megan markle(light brown) . You expect East Asian to be non small eyes and k-pop. It's the same.
People really need to watch more foreign movies. It’s sad when people stay in their small little bubble and only see the world from that lense. I adore Indian movies. They are so romantic, and epic in mythology and heroism. And the actors and actresses are some of the most beautiful people in the world. I’m not sure what people you all are coming across, but they sound extremely shallow. Maybe they need to be educated? Or perhaps avoided?
One more thing, I once opened some tables asking for a chick, there was a girl who went"OMG you're so fucking hot. I don't usually like indian guys but you're so cool". I didn't know whether that was a compliment or an insult the way this girl said it but it looked like she was totally into me. She even asked for my number but I politely refused to meet her next day cuz I liked her friend more (she had that intelligent hip-hop vibe) and I still keep in touch with her friend.
I think that you are missing the big issue: most Westerners are hesitant to get involved with what could potentially be a challenge as far as religion, freedom FROM religion, gender stereotypes, gender equality, and so forth could be. As a North American of European descent, I have seen in my lifetime women marching for equality and burning their bras and standing up for what they deserve as human beings. We have not seen Asiatics engaging in the same social progress, either on the Indian Subcontinent or in China, et al. Instead, we see Brunei reverting to something horrid as far as Gays are concerned, Arabians/Persians beheading Gays and denying women human rights, and hear stories of Indian mothers-in-law throwing acid on their son's wives. We see a region trapped in medieval dogma and bizarre social constructs. It's hard to see you guys as progressives when movies like "Not Without My Daughter" and "Kite Runner" and the Deepa Mehta movies show us a very rigid and closed-minded society.
The big issue in your comment could also be the fact that you are relying solely on a very biased media to give you a nuanced look into a culture. I'm an Indian woman from India and I can say at least on behalf of all the wonderfully strong indian women I know and who were role models, including my mother that just because some of us don't scream feminism every 2 seconds or have never burnt our bras, doesn't mean we don't believe in equality. Just because a woman wears a saree she is a docile, submissive creature. In my interactions with people from the west i've often heard these inane generalizations that do nobody any good in an interaction. Every girl in my class was driven to succeed as much as her brother, sometimes more so by her parents who understand the value of a good education and there's a good number of "traditional" indian women in STEM professions. I've watched Deepa Mehta movies as well growing up and I didn't see them as being representative of my culture as a whole just as I didn't assume Notting Hill to be representative of the west or even London as a whole. These movies are just are human stories. If you visit India or talk to more indians wherever you are, you'll find us as similar and as unique as a human being can be in relation to each other. We're like everyone and we're like no one. I'm currently dating an American and one of my favourite things about him is that he has no pre-conceived notions about me. None at all. Which is refreshingly rare to encounter in the current world. We see each other as each other, not as representative of our respective cultures.
They aren't progressive it's land of wife beating, r/pes and trafficking young girls, denying girls education and right to work, it's full of medieval dogma
The media are also to blame. They're literally bullying Indians around. There's next to zero Indian representation here in the UK and US . There's been a huge up surge to a certain group on TV despite their low contribution to society. I have many Indian friends. You're some the most hard working honest people I know.
@@rickyhazard5766 No, statistically they are the largest visual minority, there are double as many South Asians in the UK as black peoples, so they should get a lot more media presence. Interesting that they don’t though.
LMAO! Loved the ending. I'm glad you're venturing onto these topics that no one cares to speak out about on public platform. Kudos from a fellow Indian Man sexually frustrated in a White country. Keep up the Solid work!
I am an Indian guy living in Ireland. I am 6 feet tall, pretty fair enough. What I observed in me and my fellow mates that we arent confident enough to talk very freely(other than work stuff) to white women. However, the girls i came across(european and mongoloids) are very good going and do not have any stereotypes against us indians. Its just that we have accepted the white superiority(as our ancestors did) in the same way today. But I have dated a mongolian girl and looking forward to date a Bulgarian in coming days😂. Its all about our own confidence. Wear good clothes, good perfumes and be confident.
So Why would you particularly thinking about dating a White girl ?? I suppose that one do not date someone on the basis of their race but because of their personality.
The TV show Big Bang Theory didn't do Indian men any favors either. Enjoy your freedom Lads till you get married (if). There is a reason it's called the ball and chain. In western countries, the deck is stacked against all men. It ain't called divorce-rape for nuthing.
Indian men are beautiful! The darker the better for me, my guy is dark and its awesome to learn about his culture, vedic, family, food. I will say as a white woman in Canada I assumed that Indian guys weren't allowed to date us and already have been promised to an Indian lady. My ex sis in law dated an Indocanadian and his family wouldn't accept her.
Well yea India people are conservative in a sense. And it's very rare for Indians to marry outside race. Bcoz we all first see individual then their family. And our parents approval is a must. I am a boy when i ll get married my mom amd grandma ll approve first. And for girls it's usually fathers and brothers approve for a proper husband who is a good and respectable person and caan feed his family. And yea we also chec k background before making relations.
It's not only you but indian girls and guys are not allowed to date at all. In more conservative family purity is a must for both girls and guys and more emphasis is put on studying and hardwork. But if you are dating someone it more likely in indian community that they ll marry or the guy looses respect among his friends and family and girl is shamed. And all couples are expected to stay faithful and together till death. Except if husband is very bad and beat and all that but it's rare. Even if husband cheats or women cheats it's excepted to forgive them for their mistake. So divorce are rare in indian society. It all just work out. Eg- it's my father's job to look out for family and provide and mother s is to look out for children and do household works. And most indian families are joint families. My aunts and my mother they cook and look after children and all that. While my uncle's and my father always busy in moneymaking . It's more like i have 3 mothers and 3 fathers and it all just work out. And something's alwys going in family so you never know how 40-50 years have passed.
I have to say I have dated Indian men before. I find them very attractive as well as Chinese, Koreans and Japanese men. Social skills , communication and very conservative ways are always the dealbreaker for me when it came to saying Indians. Many times I couldn’t understand them or would find them secure in themselves. Social awkwardness is not attractive and many of them were virgins. The culture doesn’t promote the idea of dating like here on the West. So you have all these guys who have little world experience because the life in India was completely surrounded in education, family and religion. Sadly, many Indian men don’t have the guts to stand up to their parents and marry any girl of any race. Parents have a huge influence. So a lot of Indian men would try to date Westerns but marry Indian girls. Is quite a complex topic. Unless these men were raised here, they don’t have a chance. But is not their fault. Great video.
Saying the culture doesnt promote dating is a massive understatement, its outright forbidden in most cases. Men and women are discouraged from interacting in general let alone dating.
Indian culture are family oriented. Mother- Father always wish for child happiness, so we indian are smart in this area, instead of wasting our time and money in dating we just give that power to mother, father. That why in india their are many happy families. I find arrenged marrige is more happy one rather than love marriage. Mostly love marriage are end up divorce, (in Western country divorce rate are higher)and often unhappy one. Because their is a reason because in arrenge marriage. If dispute being between and family take a initive to solve their problem. In love marriage you r your own. Because of arrange marriage we have a lot of family conection and members who care for us. But in Western society families are shattered. People are living alone and disconnected from each other. Depression and mental illness are rampant. People lost there will to live. I can't deny this in India it is a big problem. But mostly found in westernize society.
I know plenty of Indian-Americans that aren't virgins and that have great social skills and swag myself including. But from my cousins's stories and from my Personal experiences we STILL have it wayyyy harder than any other race
@@linajohal6487 Omg...I will hahaha. No joke. Indian men like him look really good. But mostly I think about those weird people from Idiana Jones and the Temple of Doom.
@Pathan Yousefzai sadly she does, that's why good media representation is important, right now if someone says "i have indian partner" they think of someone like aziz ansari, while saying same about black male partner, people think about someone like drake or some basketball player.
I’m South African Indian, I feel that these stereotypical roles need to be lessened and the more extroverted and extravagant roles need to be increased especially in the mainstream.
Do the negative stereotypes of Indians exist in South Africa too or are you just seen as normal people? Cuz I know you guys have been there for a long while because of indentured labour
I just think that all this shit is state of mind. Never has my ethnicity come into the equation in my dating life. I don't think about it, it more or less comes down to whether you've been in the gym and you have something going for yourself in life, with some friends, and the social skills that come with that. I really like this guy, I learn from him, but he does come across as a little nerdy, he needs some decent clothes a new haircut etc. Thats my viewpoint, anecdotal perhaps, but in every case if you aren't getting chicks, there are more significant factors that rank way above your race.
Exactly, life itself will have so many problems arising, we can't keep blaming our genetics, finances, friends for it. Got to improve everyday in a small way.
What a naive perspective dissociated from reality. It baffles me why people like you always use personal anecdotes to justify they are living in a world full of colors and rainbows. Yea the shared experience of majority of Asian Americans are "All in their head". Jfc
@@Ghostrider-ul7xn I'm sure that it is "heartening" for you to believe that I'm talking shit..but I dont really care. I've dated just as much as anyone else, I've never been single for long periods unless it was my choice (not often) and I've even cheated..so..no, turns out muscles and a slightly above average amount of money will get you laid. Sorry to hear about lengthy streaks of masturbation..get well soon.
Again, I don't care about your anecdotal experience. I'm a rationalist and draw conclusions based off observational and statistical evidence. Success stories from few outliers like you aren't going to racial gaslight the shared experiences of majority. There's literally studies on this based on nationally representative samples of all ages for both online and offline dating experiences. Unless you demonstrate statistically significant evidence for your ad hoc explanations, its very much evident race and racial biases play a significant role.
Also, I have Indian friends.. I wouldn't say they're more or less frustrated sexually than any other guy. what i observe is they just have more of the traditional and Chivalrous behavior more instilled in them opposed to Most Black and White American men.. In all honesty, I think they, for some reason haven't been either burned as much as Black And White American men, Or they just have a much higher tolerance level of putting up with the Bs of modern women. it may be the latter. I believe if you put a Black, White and Indian American guy with a rude hypergamous female. the Black and White guy would more quickly tell the female to fuck off, where as, I honestly couldn't really see the Indian guy being so blunt with a female, no matter how much she insult and verbally abuse him. and this is what i think people see, this difference and mistake it for simping or weakness for women. but in all honesty, it can really come off that way if you don't Understand Indian culture.
In my experience while working with Indians in an IT company I realised that most Indian men were brought up in a repressed way so that that could not even talk to anyone of the opposite sex. A lot of white Western women are not attracted to many Indians because many come across as creepy due to their lack of skills to converse with the opposite sex. They'll just stare at the women and women find that creepy but it's just a lack of social skills rather than actual creepiness.
Indians are not good at socializing I agree.
@@zw6512 not good looking for eurocentric standards. The western white propaganda have started to fail. And the white race will soon be history.
@@zw6512
You're very wrong at that.
Stereotyping a whole country of One Billion people, seriously ?
Every country has its own fair share of handsome, average and ugly guys.
I could see an overweight ugly white man, and make the same comment about all white people, no ?
Nah its just creepiness
Also when Indian men message western women they seem to expect too much, if it’s not marriage it’s sexual favours they feel entitled too ? 🤨
Bruce Lee never took stereotypical roles. Don’t do it bro. Don’t misrepresent your people. I’m Latino and I understand where you are coming from.
100% agree here. I'm not white, I'm Armenian and I dated 3 girls at the same time before in my city in Seattle and now have a long term girlfriend. I did it through believing in myself it was a mental handicap that is real, but once you realize its the self prison that gets you there you can break free.
@Bidu Bidu I mean you can either look at you being a different race and not looking like every white guy as a weakness. OR look at it like a strength, you have something different to offer that can be good or bad depending on your own vision of yourself and the offer you think you give women. Ultimately they all want the same thing from a man: confidence, safety, passion, support and excitement.
@Bidu Bidu for me it was reading books on relationships, creating an online dating profile that I actually worked on, talked to attractive girls when I saw them even befriending some and most of all creating the life of my dreams to attract a partner that matches it
Vlad Mkrtumyan bud, Americans see you Armenians as Ivan Drago’s cousin (due to Armenia being a breakaway Soviet state). Thus they would go for you when S.Asians are stereotyped as IT lower wage green card scrubbers who have uncles that work at quickie marts with a Robby Indian accent.
@@harrisn3693 lol buddy if they did then why would some yell "sand nigga" at me? or my cousin when we're drinking coffee at starbucks in the morning? I think you speaking for all americans is like me speaking for all of youtubers impossible. www.quora.com/What-race-are-Armenians There's a link to educate you on Armenians
"Doctor Raj"???? Seriously!!?
Hollywood, there are millions of Indian names!😤😤
We aren't obligated to learn all the names of all other cultures. If you don't like it go the fuck home or don't watch our movies. Pretty simple.
@@999Claymore what bro? I'm already at home, where do you want me to go from here😂
And hollywood industry has plenty of resources to do good research I felt
@Tunir Kilikdar This isn't an "Indian channel". It's a self-improvement/comedy channel.
Donnie Darko It's a stereotypical & "easy-to-pronounce" name that's basically what it reinforces 🤦🏽♂️🙄
It's either that or Dr Singh. 😜
Let's face it, they're not going to call the character Dr Pancharatnam are they? But then, the English action hero is going to have a name like James Bond, he's never going to be called Willfred Fossington-Whittingstall either, is he? 🤣
Why is every Indian character named Raj😂, there are many good names...
Definitely, like Ankit, Jaspreet Singh or maybe even Sai Venkatasubramanya narayana rao
Raj is an excellent name and I'm definitely not biased 😂😂
becauae it is an easy and charming name to pronounce, unlike Suckdeep or Hardick
I would blame Bollywood ans especially Srk yash chopra all those buffoons for stereotyping Indian names, cultures and identify
Because most of names you can’t speak correctly 😁
Porn has destroyed the youth
Boxing Expert And sexually provoking asmr videos
TwitchTV and its thots on camera has ruined the youth
How? Only if you let it destroy you.
@@Rmalikk Very true. As men we're strong enough to determine what builds us up and takes us down. Porn is porn and not an issue of destruction for any man.
Porn destroyed my RAM
That 'pretty hot for a Indian' line, I get that a lot as a black woman. It's like they have this perception that people with melanin in their skin are not supposed to be attractive.
Which is so ironic and stupid because the lighter the skin the more obvious the spider veins and sun spots and everything! We white women age like cantaloupes that are left out in the sun for too long.
You don't fully appreciate how anti-Black Indian and South Asian cultures are. They are more likely to disown their son or daughter than to have their child come home with a Black spouse.
@@MrZBlackneffect
Not just South Asians/Indian subcontinentals. But that is the case or is very common among other Asians, unfortunately.
FACTS DUDE.
@bye girl what makes blacks anti-indian?
Your voice sounds a lot like Keanu Reeves
It's what happens when you can see the matrix for what it really is.
Lmao 😂😂😂👍
He'll throw a pencil onto your face :3
Yes he does, now that you mention it.
breh i didnt realise until u mentioned it
Indian men especially high earning professionals should be very careful of gold diggers. Their desperation might put them in precarious situations with these women. As a rule of thumb, ask her if you can see her credit score before she asks you for money or starts spending your hard earned money.
hahahaha that's hilarious...but I like the advice
Captain Sinbad > Sounds funny, I know. It actually happened to an Indian guy. Maybe he was looking for a sugar baby but he did not know the woman.
Viji > Someone smart like that will be responsible with money and hopefully not a parasite.
Go for career women 🤷🏽♀️
@@MelaniaRose bad idea
Harold and Kumar the OG race archetype breakers
Fr I’m actually based off of kumar
Kumar accounts for 18% of my personality.
@@kirinnaicker8871 wtf yr a fictional character?
LMAO this duo is the best shit ever
New girl Schmidt 😅
Ok, I am a Sikh Indian guy (do not wear turban) from the northern part of India, I have been in US for 5 years for PhD in engineering field in one of the best US schools. However, what you said about the perception people have of Indian people is 100% true from my experience. I have been called "oh you are really cute for an Indian guy", "oh I never thought you were Indian, I thought you were from Italy or Spain", "you are very masculine and handsome for an Indian guy", "you have good genetics, I don't see Indian guys as built as you, do you have a European ancestors by any chance" actually said by a guy in a gym cause I am 6'2" and am quite muscular, not realizing how much hard work and discipline went into making that body,. In fact, I have seen the attraction towards me in women's eyes drop down significantly (not every women of course) when during chat I tell them my origins, the question of which inevitably comes due to my accent.
But you know what I am proud of my country and I am super successful in my field at the end of PhD career and it is due to work ethics that was ingrained into me from living in India combine that with energy available to focus on a goal due to "Indian guy sexual frustrations" and time available due to "non-availability of women" is a perfect storm for material success in USA, which becomes way more important in your 30's and later on and you then wield the true power, so don't be discouraged my sexually frustrated Indian brothers in western countries, your time will come!!
@Jasleen look different sure (not really too much though), but at the end of the day they are still Indians. Hence, the statement "Indians look like ..." or "don't look Indian" is pretty ignorant since one is ignoring the vast diversity of looks in India and basing the judgement on very small sample of Indian men they are coming across and how western media portrays Indian men.
@Jasleen 80% of indians are indo-aryan it's the tamils and malayalees that have different features.
@Jasleen
gujrati men are fine
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U.P biharis are also fine looking
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south indians are quite nerdy looking though
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People just say DUMB things all the time. I wish would people would think before saying the unnecessary things they say
Same here. I always get the are you Indian? You're to tall to be an Indian 6'3. Or your to big to be an Indian you must be mixed with something. Gets kind of annoying sometimes. It is what it is I guess. People think we're suppose to be these 5'4 130 pound timid push overs.
This white girl in college told me that Indian guys were either really good looking or really ugly, she said this as a compliment. It was weird and made me uncomfortable. People really feel comfortable saying some wild shit.
She’s not wrong in a sense and the funny thing is a white girl said the same shit to me in college as a compliment Imaooooo.
@@johnnybravo1836 as a very average looking Indian guy I believe I actually exist
Just say "you're racist". I'm an average indian guy, I get the handsome complement but I'm no model. Most of us are like that.
@@johnnybravo1836 you're blind I think
They say that about redheads to.
Here’s my question as an Indian, why is it important that white women accept you? I mean if people have prejudices you should let them be, why should the question about dating a white woman even come in the first place. They are who they are, if they like a man they do or let them be. I’m pretty sure we have tons of Indian or Asian women who wouldn’t have any prejudices against us.
Wrong about asian
@@alecgurney9305 fine that makes the pool smaller but still Indian implies Pakistani bangaladeshi srilankan and actual Indians. That’s still a lot of beautiful women 😂
Its because the indian women are even more fussy and make a point about not wanting indian men
So true a total inferiority complex which I imagine doesn’t help with the ladies of other ethnicities
Inferiority complex
You've gained 20k subs in the last month NOT because of the way your ethnicity is percieved (one way or the other), but because of your character and the quality of your videos.
Nope, its the Google AI. Its a hype effect on nofab and impotence which causes alot of channels to slide into and got recommended. Now think about the problem coming along
appreciate it
Part of maturing entails becoming your own person. This means not being bound by the ties of your race or gender. It also means not being sheltered by them. The freedom this maturity brings comes with a certain type of loneliness.
@BobbyG again nope. Can imagine that you want to believe what u here is the best. But you can find 100 of non "quality" channels which have more subs. You moght want to consider demographic effects.
Like Martin Luther King said...
Judged by Character and content of your vids and not the color of your skin
American black woman here I can def relate like “you cute for a dark skin girl” like naw ho I’m cute periodt lol I’ve always found Asian men attractive especially middle eastern and Indian the first boy that ever kissed me was in kindergarten was Morrocan which I know isn’t the Middle East but he definitely had the look
Most are attractive but not for me cultures is too different and I prefer Black Afro Caribbean or African.
But who says that so often? Of course there are horrible people in this world, but people from every race faces undeserved negativity, doesn't mean the majority of society is like that
Not the same kind of dating discrimination. You can still get a date and a significant other because you are still a cute woman. Some of these Indian guys can't even get a date.
@@akin242002 In many ways Asian men have panted themselves into a corner. In their need to prove themselves to white society and not be treated like Black men, many (South) Asian men are essentially white men with a splash of curry spices.
Yes women value security above all else and Asian men are known to be hard working and financially stable but that doesn't get women's juices flowing (if you know what I mean).
Speaking with many women about many topics including dating, relationships, and marriage the vibe I get from women of various races is why would women want second rate white men with less social and political power. That is question that only Asian men can answer.
@@MrZBlackneffect I strongly agree with your 2nd point, that there is more to it than simply money. Charismatic and funny Indian guys do a lot better in the USA dating scene, just like most charismatic and funny guys of any race. Being in good to great shape helps as well.
The other aspect is the cultural side. I know a few from tech companies who could attract some women then, then never commit due to "family". My wife's friend went through that situation. Better believe women will gossip and spread that news around quicker than TMZ.
Indian American here. I was born in Arkansas and raised in Ohio and parents came here 33 years ago. I know a cousin of mine who is married to a white woman and I have a indian-american friend of mine dating a white american lady. It has to simply do with confidence and attractiveness. Go to the gym, groom yourself, and focus on your hygiene. You're not gonna get everyone but if you focus on yourself, you'll be fine.
and nutrition a lot of nutrition
@@domerino-ft6sd true, you are what you eat, if you eat healthy than you'll look healthy
I don't know how this showed up in my side bar, but I'm glad it did. What a fantastic conversation, thanks.
I think most people are attracted to those who are attracted to them! I have found myself attracted to Indian men and think young Indian women are some of the most beautiful women in the world!
I'm an indian and i feel nicki minaj is the most prettiest
@@AP-lq5ho
You are not too far off in liking her...I remember Nicki Minaj as part Indian.
Kamala harris is best example .❤❤👰👸👸
She is Indo Guyanese @@AP-lq5ho
I’m Mexican and extremely proud of it. I grew up in a very Mexican neighborhood and went to a elementary and junior high that were mainly Mexican. When I got to 8th grade we moved to a more white school and heard and probably felt a lot the same way you did. Something I would hear a lot was you’re really cool for a Mexican. You’re the coolest Mexican I ever met, your not like other Mexicans you act a lot different. I felt insulted but they thought they were complimenting me.
I think television gives people stereotypes. I hate to say this because I later became friends with him but my teacher in college once made a remark to a mutual friend about Hispanics being on financial aid. But anyways this is something that needs to be at the very least talked about openly.
Thanks for the video. A lot of people need to wake up and see thing differently.
Love from NY to all my hispanic hermanos and hermanas G🙏🏽. Growing up as an Indian American, y'all were like my second family. Truly brothers from other mothers man. I had a couple cool and tight White and black friends but y'all held it down the most🙏🏽nocap and related to the most
@@prince_sach50 after southern euros I always felt closer to Iranics and South Asians. Saludos hermano.
@@prince_sach50 you arent my hermano you are black
Are Mexican not white 🤔
@@saikiranoruganti Stereotypes, Americans think just because the US- Mexico border is desert the whole country is a desert when it's just the northern part
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😈👿👿 hell yeah
MWAHAHAHAHA!!! Feels great!
Beautiful ending to the video!
Yeah
Obviously, some westerners have never watched any Bollywood movies. Jon Abraham , Hritk Roshan and several others are very handsome, masculine men.
All I have to do is go on t series and see white Indians. They have a western appearance to compliment their exotic look
Yup lost the whole concept of being an Indian trying to please white people. IDC what white people think of us. I am happy with my people, they are very conservative.
@@hikingbird42 loooool they look nothing like white people, hence my profile picture 🤣🤣
The west watches ugly men like big bang theory guy- Raj kohtrapalli, but good for him, he earned a lot of money💰
I wonder why having facial hair (which Indian, South Asian men have) is considered effeminate in the west?
Isn't it ironically, men are knows for facial hair. Are only white men supposed to have beards?
You are very attractive. Period.
@Pashtun Boy lol pashtun Boy i know pakistani and afghan women with black and Tamil boyfriends calm down Nordic boy you ain't shit.
@@sabhrestman6644 I don't know any Afghan and Pakistani women with black or tamil boyfriends and I'm a iranian woman
Please name me a single woman from any of the people you just named with boy friends or husbands in history
Also Nordic? Just because somebody isn't Indian and black doesn't mean they're white skin either
@Farsi Speaker Bitch, only some Dravidian Hindus from the south India are black, but the rest of the Indians in majority are light brown & white for having Aryan genes in their DNA.
I bet you've never seen an Aryan Indian before except for the Dravidian...Hahaha...😂😂
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Classic trying to trade on his looks. He’s a playboy with failed ambitions of an acting career.
This is off topic but Nikhil, i genuinely believe that you're going to do great things in life. Wait no. Scratch that. I *know* you're going to do some incredible things in life. I've watched how much you've grown throughout your videos and it's evident that your energy is brimming with personal magnetism and authenticity, and that's honestly a rare thing to find in today's world . I don't know how i came across your channel but I'm honestly glad i did because I've learned so much from you and i hope to learn more in the future .
Great vid btw! Love the shirt
Thank You
@Karan he is very handsome. I'm not gayyy
I’ll be honest. You being SO handsome is a major reason why I watch your videos.
he has no idea he has a Gay following ... same here.
Thats a lil gay
Lmao
Shut the fuck up guys, what if he's gay, he has right to do anything that he desire
everybody gae!
I went to high school with an Indian dude in New Zealand, he had so much pressure from his family to suceed as doctor that he comitted suicide. We were just 15.years old then.
Jesus christ. Rest in peace to him.
@@alecgurney9305 thank-you, we were good mates, very sad when so young!
im also from nz damn rip to ur friend
This happens abroad too? Ik Indians study hard anywhere but I never thought of the pressure being half as high on them as it is back in home.
@@mickeybowmeister1944 poor parents they just don‘t realise how unnecessary schools are they are just dogmatic. And now they would rather have an unemployed son instead of a dead son. May the other parents also realise that
I think you do a great job adding social proof to Indians. Redefining the image who Indians can be compared to American stereotypes about Indians. You chasing your greatness raises the paradigm of what's possible for Indians
I appreciate your words man
@Pashtun Boy sharukh, salman ans aamir are like 5'6"😂
@@CaptainSinbad ....how bizarre that anyone could see you come into an audition....and see you as a nerdy type....even if you were able to....pull it off....so to speak with your acting skills....hmmm...anyway...you look like a Bollywood star...if you are tall enough try modeling too...LA...has a very good fashion community and it also has a great Fashion Week.......you have the looks...i think when this virus lifts...we will need a lot of art and entertainment so take care of yourself....workout...and go get those acting and modeling jobs....as for Bruce Lee...i feel very fortunate that i lived during his period of art and fame...he was a walking special effect...and an excellent symbol of diversity and charisma....a true star...a cultural icon of the 1st magnitude...and he used style and fashion to enhance the modernization of the way we all viewed Asian men all over the world...a certain generation of black people dearly love and admire him and a lot of black actors reference him constantly.....he is someone who benefited from the black civil rights movement in the 60s and he knew it....and of course he loved ...ALI....and ALI....loved him back....so you may want to study....ALI....good luck...and keep up your channel...i think you may have what it takes to rock You Tube...for the better...
I always assumed Indian guys only dated other Indian women.
Neisha i thought so as well...but not true the next generation is interested in many other women.
Yup or just fuck around then... Marry indian/Pakistani girls! 🙊😂😂😂
I've dated two Indian men, one was a player and the other let me know that his parents had planned an arranged marriage for him. So, neither went very far. Culture is the real issue.
@Pathan Yousefzai I know that. That's not the issue here.
I was talking about the behavior of most dudes, they'll date à foreigner but only an infinite minority will be serious about it (like they already know they'll marry their desi girl lol) .
Nah they’re hoes on the down low trust me. They’ll fuck out of their race but end up usually marrying within their race.
Good video it’s very interesting as dark skinned black women face similar issues (I can’t tell you the amount of times men have told me I’m pretty for a black woman or they don’t normal think black women are attractive but I am as I don’t fit the stereotype). It really goes to show how media representation is extremely important.
D W even with media promotion, if a woman is ugly they are just ugly
Dark skin black women are the most beautiful women in the world.
MyNamed Name That’s not true beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And that’s not a platitude I’ve been all over the world and standards of beauty are very different.
MyNamed Name that’s true but non black women are represented more hence why they are seen to have different types of beauty
akim ishchayil thank you fo your nice comment
Well as for me I'm a mixed woman Hispanic and Indian my father is from Calcutta India my mother is Hispanic chicana from Los Angeles I'm from Los Angeles and I only date Indian guys the reason is because I love everything India love everything India the culture the food the music the dressing and of course the gorgeous men
@@reignz6968 well some have seen me in a bad way I get dirty looks cuz I have tattoos and Hispanic ppl make fun of me and like in a very ignorant way call my a Daughter of a terrorist they don't even know what even know what a Muslim is an Indian person is a Hindu person a Buddhist they don't know the difference to them we are all terrorist but not everybody tho
❤aztecs are Indios🕉
@@chestersabajo5527 Yes, but it's a different type of Indian. I'm not talking about Native American Indians. I'm talking about Southeast Asian Indians. Not that there's anything wrong with native american they are gorgeous too
@@gilanicalivanlife8056 aztecs and mayans were hindus 🕉 all their rituals are the same ,both have temples an pyramids
@chestersabajo5527 what!!! Really...... to think about it yeah there's alot of Similarities so yeah you might be right about that..... well both are gorgeous 😍
I'm sexually frustrated in my own country...
Hilale na bhai
You guys 😭
@@Kalankit5409 advice 100
Indian women aren’t meant to be used for sexual recreation. Please do that with other races of women. K bye.
Bro i m muscular,good face and hair,even belong to upper middle class family but height 5.5 1/2..becoz of which I guess I can’t get any hot girl and will remain single throw out life I guess🥺🥺..only hope for me to bang some hot Indian girls and other country girls is to get fuckin rich and go for some surgery..then I can attract some hot girls...
I’m a black guy and I can relate. My sister married an Indian guy and brother married a Scottish girl. Old stereotypes are rapidly dissolving thanks partly to the democratisation of information in the 21st century due to the internet. Standards of beauty and intelligence are no longer dictated by the old school social oligarchs anywhere in the world.
Your sister has no self respect
Thetruth Here ..well, she has a PhD and met her fantastic husband in med school..oh and a couple of beautiful kids. What she doesn’t have is ignorance. Pretty sure you can’t say the same. 😉..I’m dating a Kashmiri so go jump in a lake and try not to splash anyone within a 10 mile radius with your ignorance. Much love
@@AITrademarket hahaha kashmiri girls never go for other races of men
Also Kashmiris don't even exist in western lands as a whole
The chances of you meeting a Kashmiri is slim to none
Pathan Yousefzai nah, I’m not interested in your arse.. even if you washed it trust me
Thetruth Here I reiterate, get an education and stop embarrassing yourself with your ignorance..in fact I know a few. Try getting a passport and explore the world. It’s a long shot but you might even become intelligent and intelligible.
If you’re attractive you’re attractive doesn’t matter what race you are.
True, UNLESS the 🐦 is racist then your attractiveness doesn't even MATTER. Being a BLACK MAN with eurocentric facial features and actually handsome ONLY goes do far in a predominantly WHITE area...trust me 😒
I really don't like the amount of hate I'm seeing in the comments amongst Indian people. The colourism, superiority complexes, the ignorance. No region/state is better than the other or looks better than the other. Stop with this, every Indian is beautiful. These kinds of comments are ruining the video.
Its typical of Indians & thats one of the numerous reasons Indians arent liked
Indian people care about religion way too fucking much especially if you're over 35, I'm 18 but my parents generation and generation before them ruined the image of Indians in America. I love them for bringing us here to give us a better life and being amazingly hard workers but they isolated themselves from other people for the longest and a lot were/is racist and super religious. I'M INDIAN AMERICAN SO I CAN SAY THIS FROM EXPERIENCE.
DON'T FUCKING @ME ON THIS IF YOU'RE NOT INDIAN
@@prince_sach50 religion isn't a big issue in india
Yes right wing is on the rise but still common ppl are united
Caste plays a role in income or marriage sometimes
But biggest issue is cultural differences among each region
Sry for my bad English
@@naveengokarla9518 You know why its on the rise ? what India is today is result of the pseudo liberal and socialist policies up until now. Atleast your so called right wing is more rational , capitalist and prefer no special treatment to anyone.
@@prince_sach50 Religion has nothing to do with your upbringing. Even many American are conservative, does that make isolated or something. TO live in a country as a child and grow up there is a very different experience from going their at age of 30 and adjust to new culture. Different dressing sense, accent, greetings, history, culture, priorities, family structuring etc. Its not like they isolated themselves, people had no other choice.
I think Indian men are very handsome. Always have. Exotic considering I'm from the east coast lol. Alpha male is a mentality, not a race or culture or color.
I approve ur one point that alfa male is mentality. Btw being attractive depends on person preference and opinions.
Alpha male is a marketing trap to sell penis enlargement pills porn and protein products.
@Ashish Entertainments (AE) I've dated short guys, I have nothing against them. I'm only 5'1" myself so I'd be a hypocrite to hold height against someone. Even for women, being short can be a negative. Men drool over models with super long legs and big fake boobs... a lot of us ladies will never (and would never) want to look like that. It's about doing the best to take care of the body you have.
@@msrosiethegeek when I was in US many people asked me if I was spanish and when I told i was indian they were like Indians are not muscular and physically weak. And i was like😅
And told him you don't know nothing about India.
In villages all people are muscular and boys have chiseled physiques. It's just because of eating natural foods rather than processed ones.
And people also have some mentality that vegeterians can't be muscular and strong lol.
@@Rockzzzv That's true my brother and thanks for changing their minds 🙌🏽✌🏽🇮🇳
Sick ending 👌🏽
Le raj... lol
Concerning the online dating statistics, remember, women in general are genuinely more ‘racist’ when it comes to their dating preferences, capable of simply ignoring entire races without giving them a chance
Secondly, women do genuinely tend to be very hypergamous, at the moment Indian men aren’t seen as having too much status unlike white men for instance.
Yes many are a bit racist at times but at the end of the day whites are the most beatiful and smartest. They are engendered as well. Whites stick with whites, Indians with indians, and blacks with blacks, etc. Only makes sense
@ uh no its not. There is tons of asians
@Narc 1820 actually they are responsible for the majority of advancements to humanity and have the highest IQs on average other then certain asian groups. And the rape statistics are unbelievably disproportionate to whites being raped. Intelligence isn't some arbitrary thing you personally decide you absolute fuckwit. We literally have the smartest and most beatiful people and the real life evidence shows it.
@@g.h7657 most white people are not as attractive as you think most of them are UP East Zombies
@@Android-ds9ie maybe because you aren't a smart beatiful white so the trashy ones are the only ones you are around while the top level of humanity is living life properly and to the fullest.
I had an Indian dentist 🦷...omg he was so handsome, so professional, so sweet , so genuine to me. He was hot❗️
Clean cut Indian men are an extremely underrated segment of the population! That’s okay though. More for us 😏
Anne D. From my observation, a lot of Indian men are usually single . Or they don’t marry too early. I rarely see Indian men with other races of women. Are they hoping to get a White woman 👩❓I don’t know....what do you think ❓
💜Mardi⚜️Gras💚 🖤Who⚜️Dat💛 yea tbh I’m not sure. I haven’t spent enough time around them to speak on it. I’ve been hit on by Indian guys though, and I’m black. I would say I agree that they’re single a lot of the times but idk why. And I know that colorism is a large part of their culture but I rarely see them with white girls. Idk 🤷🏾♀️
💜Mardi⚜️Gras💚 🖤Who⚜️Dat💛 Girl...your tooth hurtin again? Lol
💜Mardi⚜️Gras💚 🖤Who⚜️Dat💛 most of them are gorgeous...
I'm black american of Haitian descent from Queens,NY .
I live in a south east asian community.
Bro , I never knew Indian men struggled with women.
Because I always see them with girls of all races but predominantly they own .
This is weird to hear .
@Rico Suave TV this mentality doesn't help at all
There is always arranged marriage for Indians
@Rico Suave TV it's somewhat true. At least their entire life isn't a waste. They are successful in academics and slowly becoming successful in other areas. We have a population 1.3 Billion and plenty of good looking women of all shades, so have back up when the whites don't work out. Besides there is large chindian population in Malaysia.
@Temujin I know! 99.9 percentage of indians marry within their own race. It's just the few that try to go interracial.
Sometimes it is NOT their looks but their behavior is trash. Coming from an Indian lady.
Your experience is simple.
Your beauty privilege over rides the negative stereotype that goes with your race.
Being the cream of the crop in looks can definitely override stereotypes and glass ceilings that your same race peers experience.
This doesn’t change anything for Indian men..... it’s just changing it for you... because of your looks individually.
Narc 1820 - black men have the most sexual and masculinity promotion of all races of men. They don’t have to be beautiful. Their promotion can push them over the top.
@Narc 1820 Im Canadian and many Indian guys attract white girls where I live.
@Narc 1820 lol I guess Im blessed then. I grew up in schools that had people from cultures across the globe. Also where I live doesnt reflect all of Canada. Ive lived in 2 cities which are very diverse compared to small towns that are mainly white. In a way we do reflect most of humanity since we have people from every country here and they are able to keep their culture intact. Every country has their own culture. We still have racism here but its not as overt and in your face as the states.
Then maybe you haven't seen a lot of Indians.
@@rsy3974 are you referring to my comment about white girls dating Indians?
I am gay so maybe my perspective does not matter, but I genuinely think that this whole emasculation of Asian men is deliberate, but not only that - it largely fails when you actively engage with these folks. It's ridiculous. Take my anecdotal experiences with a grain of salt, but almost every Indian man I've engaged with has left a lasting impression on me: hardworking, pretty chill, and exceptionally handsome. If not that, they just do not make a blimp in my radar. But ugly? hardly ever.
Indian men are normal. Some are ugly. Some are damn good looking. They both are okay, leave them be.
Thank you for your honest input. That has been my take as well.
Nah man your opinion definitely matters , thanks for sharing your experiences
Oh yes, leave them be! Just like how you would leave a down syndromer be, leave Indian men be as well! Do not approach them ever! Just leave them be.
Ive met few indian men who looked like they are wearing mascara or kohl , and have fabulous hair .
If I were an Indian man, I would not seek a Western Wife. I would gladly marry a good simple Indian woman. Indian women are dedicated and loving wives. They also make really great mothers.
I'm an Indian... I agree with the thought process of not seeking a Western Life (or Wife). But the send half of the sentence isn't completely correct. While it's true that Indian women are good mothers once, now the situation just as bad as the west (or worser). I think it's because of social media
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Holy kek, COPE
Not anymore, lol.
Western Hedonism has taken over
You are right man to a lot of extent, But the thing is that even Indian Women who come west for education and work go after white dudes leaving Indian men in the Dust. Some of them get coerced into engaging in hook up culture by their western peers and out of FOMO they too take part in hook up culture as well and we feel them as undesirable after engaging into Hook Up Culture as most Indian dudes do not engage in it due conservative beliefs.
What I’ve noticed, a lot of Indian guys are complaining they’re unattractive cuz they have poor genetics but if they look at themselves, they aren’t in shape. If ur body is fit you will have an attractive face period. U also need to find ur strengths and make them prominent instead of crying over your weaknesses.
@Ankan Sinha whatever you do don't be white! 💯👌
@Ashish Entertainments (AE) how much ation do u get?
@Ashish Entertainments (AE) YR AGE?
Its not easy for us to get in shape, atleast in terms of bulking up. I have tried alot and even at my peak its still not enough.
@@TheBakuganmaster99 nothing is impossible. U are not trying your best. Stop eating sugar
Gay guy in the US here. The perception of South Asians as being lower on the attractiveness "totem pole" is a legitimate thing in not only the LGBT community but also among heterosexuals. It's challenging to figure out what has caused this though, and I think it's a combination of factors. The first is that there is very little media representation of attractive South Asian men. Second, I think the stereotype of Asian men in general being submissive and docile still is in place and impacts how Asian men are seen all around. Third, I think the rising Islamophobia in the West is tainting how folks perceive all South Asians and people from the Middle East, regardless of their actual religion. As a result, South Asians are seen as backwards, terrorists, or unacculturated. Just some observations but it'd be great if someone could do a follow-up study on this. But it's definitely a thing for sure. Keep up the good work brother!
@bye girl better than men
Lets get to the Gays Tank 🧚♂️✨
Had no idea this occurred with Indian men, you're a handsome guy.
You might be living in Canada,UK, or someother white country then cause it's pretty obv here in the US, the most attractive group of Indian American guys even with swag,charm,good personality will get less hot chicks than a lesser attractive white or black guy. I know cause of stories I've heard from my cousins
@@prince_sach50 but why so??
@Pavan Kumar Happens only with Indians living in America. Indians living in England are light years ahead
@@rehan2118 so true I've seen people say it's so much easier for Indians in the UK cuz they've been there so much longer and are more settled and integrated, just from stalking around I can see that most of the Indian guys there have confidence and they don't stick to their own kind, they hang around and mix with people from other races too
@@nikolaimaharaj2319 Indians in England don't crave for white women or representation in media like you do in America. England has a very vibrant South Asian community that's why most of us marry within our ethnicity... we don't need to crave attention or white women like you in America.
Indian men are GORGEOUS!! Two of my good friends are Indian, they are extremely intelligent, ambitious & thoughtful. I spent the evening chatting up my friends last night. There is one issue that I find a tad annoying: OVERBEARING INDIAN PARENTS!!!
But parents are the ones who are standing behind Indian men that make them strong, you think that weak minded foreign women would do that?
@@montyi8
Actually Indian parents interfere and control too much in their children's life, even a 30, or 40 year old man has to ask permission for everything like he's a little school boy
@Pavan Kumar
Yes it does happen alot especially in the lower and middle class, conservative group of people.
Indian parents are amazing but also socially downgrading in western countries they barely wanna ever see their kids date outside their race. But at the end of the day it's your life and it's 2020 LET GO OF YOUR PARENTS!
@@andy_the_monger1795 Not every family
The way this video ended..
*Get onto the Nofap train lads..
@Karan 😂😂😂
@Karan Right on!
@Karan that brother address was uncalled for
Brother, a person who is born who is essentially considered "white" has not had the same issues we have had. You're fighting to get certain roles is admirable; we need to continue that fight everyday in the workplace until our world truly reflects us in equality. Never stop fighting.
that thumbnail was like Marvel teaming up with DC
So the problem is that we are defining what being an attractive man is by European standards. The fact that 1 of the comments here is supposed to be a compliment by saying he looks like an "Indian Clark Kent" is part of the problem. It should be good enough that he is simply a good looking man who happens to be Indian/Asian. If we keep trying to maintain "you're good or you're ok or now you fit in standards" by using European parameters most people who are people of color will fail and fail miserably.
💯 European is not the standard of beauty, I'll be damned!
Hmmmm I don’t know, even for female indian friends indian men are just not it
Geert proof?
@@user-ll5id2kw8g they too have been brought up to look down on their own men. make no mistake, you CAN and WILL hate yourself, and an easy way of venting is to push off of the men of your race. It's only natural for those who hate themselves.
My sister's husband is Indian. The were up against a lot obstacles because of his family. They are happily married and have been for ten years. They have two sons and a daughter. All their children have an Indian first name, and English second name. She cooks a lot of Indian and Mexican food. Her in laws love her now. Her husband didn't really celebrate his culture until he married her because she wants it as part of their lives. They are still a hot couple.
Handsome or not , Indians have that loyalty. They will strive for "family" as Don Corleone said
Do their kids looks white or Indian?
I am white latina and im dating a great indian guy! We live in miami & met here. I have not found a good connection with a Latin guy here it's very hard with them and I'm Latin but I don't really feel like there's any rules because I know I'm an exception to a rule and the other person could be too so it's mostly about the connection that you have with someone and to not judge someone too soon
That's just your opinion but if you choose self-hatred then that's what you'll find. A lot of white people that I know are very attracted to dark skin people male or female so if you want to find that you can too.
Honey it's really sad that you believe that because it's not true and that's just what you've been told so you think that that is all there is but it's not I know a beautiful Indian woman that's been with a white guy for about 4 years because she knows she is a beautiful exception to any. Type and so am I I wish you saw that for yourself maybe u will soon💛🌅💛
@bye girl Is the Indian guy you're dating more Alpha or Beta? just asking
@Mello Grdd FACT. All the hot Indian girls we grow up with stay chasing white men and sometimes black men leaving us Indian American guys and YES even the Hot Indian guys struggling cause of the dumbass stereotypes man
Obviously u have never been to south America where women are attacked a lot. No matter their shade either. My mom is white n she was attacked there. Sometimes more often because u stand out n they think they can kidnap her for ransom. She was choked and they heir to steal her necklace n my aunts were all hitting hom with their purses. All of my young cousins have had their cell phones stolen out of their hand n my dads doctor grieve in columbia was fighting with a thief who stuck his hands in the window of her car to steal her necklace. It is very very violent for women there you have no ideas so please stop..Sometimes ur part of the world shows one hypocrisy n another part shows another.
People think Indian culture is closed off. That's all.
Indian immigrants especially divorced men who have been living in America for decades don’t always want to go back to India to find a random woman and bring her to America on a whim. Situation and circumstances make people open minded. Most people stick to those from the same culture because of familiarity and similar cultural values and beliefs, that’s all. It is the same with majority of the people.
republiccooper Like the jewish culture , i guess ?
@@islamislam-zw3il I wouldn't know how to respond. But I have heard that many traditional Jews are also somewhat closed off.
Yes for example in my university, International students from India didn’t mingle much with local and international students just sticked
To their own groups.
@@MelaniaRose you mean stuck to their own groups
I'm a 45 year old India man, I don't why I follow you. You are really authentic, you talk straight.
I have to admit he is having very charming personality
In India, in most of schools (even in metro cities), you'll not be allowed to sit with girls in school. How can you expect not to behave like a weirdo when talking to a woman first time seriously.
No …it’s wrong data wrong jnformatikn probably 20 year old info ℹ️
@@AshishBagade-hv4el it's true
Women of other races sometimes avoid Indian men because they think their parents will marry him off to another woman and she will be left heartbroken which happens a lot sadly :'(
that’s not true. they just have a rly bad image in dating. even my female friends make fun of the stereotypical indian men that approach them
I am surprised you didn’t mention perhaps the most well known Indian TV character in recent history who fits some of the stereotypes of Indian men, Ram from Big Bang Theory. For half the show he couldn’t talk to women, except for his mother and sister.
U mean raj
Hollywood gives the American man the "Indian guy" they imagine or they want to see. Its just very ignorant imo
And they never let Raj sit on the couch. He always sat on the floor while eating. Everyone else was sitting on the couch or chair. Subtle but messed up
indians gat good jawlines and beards
Im glad to be part indian
No but their eyebrow ridge are sooo heavy and their nose most of the time points downward like an Arab nose (which isn’t attractive)
@@abhijay_ bro he's telling the truth tho 90% Indian guys are not good-looking as this sinbad guy he is 6ft good jawline and has good following what u got lol
@Bidu Bidu true with the proper nutrients and food there good bread
@@Gnomelander1400 70% of northwest indian are attractive like me telling truth or it maybe 60%
@@gigachad3861 i dont think he's 6 feet tho.
As a 20 year-old dude in college, I feel like I'm ignored when it comes to relationships or any physical fun compared to other guys on campus & I don't quite understand or know why even though I have my theories behind that
Fake profile
Honestly brother, get in that gym and start grinding. Start watching TH-cam channels like AMS and Stephiscold. Become cold and you'll automatically get so much swag that they'll have to include you in no matter your race
Dhaumya23 Height is 5'6-5'7, skin color is beige
Donnie Darko You don't even know what I look like 😂
Just find another Indian-american girl like you that's simple
I used to live in the west, speak the US accent fairly well (almost to the point where most people thought i was american) and had a few successes, but nowhere near as how I observed it was easy for the local americans. You know what the funny part is? I now live in Asia and don't find american\caucasian women attractive anymore. I've even had a bunch of them hit on me here, and it was easy to turn them down, simply because I have more options and my tastes have changed. The few white women i associate with are now just platonic friends. My past where I found them attractive seems like a long distant and absurd dream. Like wow, i used to find "them" attractive?? I guess I was under hollywood brainwashing. Turned that off for a few years and boom, my real instincts took over.
I'm attracted to both white and non-whites haha
@@CaptainSinbad Yeah, But White Women in general hate Indians.
Same. I'm Indian and I find Indian women more attractive than white women any day. Doesn't mean white women are bad or anything, just a preference
@@CaptainSinbad that's alright. I go through phases. I'm aspiring to let go of wanting anything to do with women.
I'm way past my 50 count, it's just pointless.
@@KnucklesForSkull Right now Korean women are the golden standard, they are the more beautiful, nowadays not even white man want to marry white women, they are overrated and they look very masculine, their faces.. they look like trans
My experience as an Indian man is that bias against Indian men is limited only to English speaking countries. Once you enter mainland Europe, like Germany and France, our chances are as good as the local men, and sometimes even better. My world turned upside down when I visited Germany, compared to my time in America.
Manas Surya seriously? Why do you think that is? If so, I may have to move there very quickly
@@AliKhan12345 moved there yet?
Bro I got attention from White girls here in Newfoundland, Canada
probably bullshit. there are a lot european tourists in australia. all western countries have the same standards of beauty from sweden to america.
Same bro... I'm Indian in a western country. The local Asian women want nothing to do with Asian men, a lot of them exclusively date white guys. I have no problem dating fob Asians, they don't possess any negative stereo types about Asians(Indians). We are never featured in their media, a lot of them have never met an Indian in real life before. Ive dated, Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Vietnam girls.. I've never dated a western Asian or Indian girl though, they are full of self hate.
Yo that ending caught me off guard LOL. Yo thanks for being an inspiration man often I go out with my white friends and see the difference in how females and even other dudes react, I think I just gotta keep being me and not letting it get me down. Good luck with the acting you've got another believer and another subscriber 💪
@Bidu Bidu this video man is very handsom
Yeah brotha, hit the gym, make sure you're always fly, always stand up for yourself and in the Indian people, don't be too serious all the time, and you're good. These are just suggestions.
I know a ton of South Asians, way more South Asians than East Asians. I say this with all seriousness: the most confident, alpha guys I've ever met in my life are South Asian. I know not-great-looking and pretty ugly guys who have slept with tons of incredibly attractive women outside their race. It sounds weird if you haven't ever met these types of South Asian guys but the only way I can describe them is that they're descended from South Asian fathers that came from the really rough ghettos of India and Pakistan. They embody the don't-give-an-f attitude 110%.
That's a Fucking fact coming from me. My moms side from Kerala and my dad side is Indo-Jamaican and I relate odee🔥
And also the ghetto creates beasts man just like here in the U.S. G
@@prince_sach50 did you grow up in Jamaica by chance?
I’m white and I work with many Indians who are colleagues of mine. The Indian men are very easy to get along and we have great relationships. What I did notice about Indian women is that if they are born in the states or arrived young they tend to be feminists and completely disregard Indian men. They actually avoid them unfortantly. The Indian women that just arrived from India tend to be much kinder and easy going. They usually come with husbands and tend to start families sooner.
Someone told me that Western women or bloody disaster
dog eater very bad indeed
You are so true man. This is speacialy in 2nd generation Hindu girls. They don't care about culture and kind of go easy with white folks try to become feminist. As the saying goes " more white than white people". Which is really disappointing.
it is because most indian dudes are control freaks and most indian broads are colorists!
@@laughtherapey Indian guys get more room to experiment than girls. I feel the leash is tighter on the females. The guys I know will chase every girl under the sun but same dudes will get offended when the see a girl with another race. Also the colorist thing is so true. Some of these girls are so brainwashed to the point they value white skin more than their own. And its not totally their fault. Its the society or environment which makes them.
I'm brown, but I know of many non-indian people that find Indian men attractive so its hard to think you'd have problems finding any women because you are an attractive guy.
Well do you live in the US for starters? If not it's different for Indians in a place like the UK or Canada
@@nikolaimaharaj2319 like how? Does the Canadians and British finds Indians less attractive than Americans or vice versa?
No don't you get it, he only wants white women to find him attractive. It's nothing more than self hatred and ego complex. He's mad because white women aren't obsessing over him and lining up to be his baby factory.
I've met many attractive Indian men who refuse to date non-white women and are very racist. Then they cry that no one wants them, and it's not like they'll treat white women well. They just know white women have low standards and will let them do whatever they want without the same consequences brown and Asian women put them through.
He's a liar omg 🤣 this is why I avoid brown/Arab and Asian men. They're also abusive and controlling in relationships. Major fucked up mentality of woe is me going on. If you read the comments, you'll see how these men are thirsting after white women. Makes me glad to be brown cuz I automatically avoid them and they show their true colors to you. Personally for me, I've never had a problem getting any man of any race but I see the same whiteness worship going on, it's disgusting 🤮
@@fishnchips727 vice versa
Hey new subscriber here! And a subscriber of Yogioabs too, in fact I came over from his channel, glad to have found you! I like how Yogioabs speaks his personal truth, and even if I don’t agree with everything he says I do appreciate how he makes effort to learn and understand the world.
I relate to a lot of what you said here and I’m a woman.
Regarding what you said about women saying they don’t normally like or date Indian men but found you attractive is very similar to what men have said to me. I’m a fourth generation American, but ethnically I’m Mexican. Men have said to me “you’re so exotic looking” or “what are you...are you white or? and “I normally don’t like Mexican girls but you’re really hot” or “I think Mexican/ Latin girls are so beautiful”.
I find these type of comments rather insulting but I don’t hold it against the person. I’ll take some of it as a compliment because they meant it that way. Most of these comments stem from the fact that people have this stereotype of what a ethnic person is and when they see one that doesn’t fit their narrative or is attractive they feel they have to tell you.
Interested to watch more videos in the future on this topic.
Nikhil, regardless of the role you’d be given, i am sure your energy&aura will always speak for itself:) there are so many good looking actors for sure, but you got something else, something beyond attractiveness and potential. I am sure in a few years, we will be seeing you in so many good projects. All the best❤️
So true . There is something different about this man .
He's simply following a path, very few are willing to follow!
His voice is what caught me off guard
Wats up sxy russian girl
Lol there's no such thing as energy or aura.
Maybe because I’m from the UK and live London but I always thought Asian men particularly south Asian men preferred their own women and met their future spouses at family or cultural events.
You missed the point here.
He wants to sleep around with White/Black/Mexican women. He's not looking to have a family with them.
There's a massive difference between the two.
@@AliImran-kd8mx they would never go black... that’s is the reality lmaooo stop bringing black if you already know they’re not preferred that
You are definitely right we are not into other races
There was an Indian guy in two of my college classes and I thought he was super hot. He wasn't a macho man
and some people would maybe say he was scrawny even though he wasn't really.
He was athletic, a great group leader, and a good student with respect for everyone.
It was nice to have a guy that wasn't trying so hard to be like the other guys and I liked
how he was a little different. I would have definitely gone out with him if he was interested in me.
Then break up with him after you had fun with him right?
@@pokemonitishere202 ppl arent rdy to hear this haha
@@pokemonitishere202 Its what usually happens with dating in America ( I've been living here for 10 years). Most women are shallow and casually date purely based on fun and not at all serious about marriage. They go with the mindset that "if things work, it works", this mindset doesn't give them any motivation to put the effort to make the relationship work. Relationships have hardly any depth compared to even the friendships we have in India.
@@Ghostrider-ul7xn but, I met an Indian guy that I’m interested in and he was the one who said “whatever happens, happens.” Lol
@@isidoraveronica Most likely an Indian brainwashed by western notions of relationships. The ones who move to America most likely will be influenced by these ideas thinking it can find help them find a relationship
That ending is the most alpha thing I’ve seen this week
Kinda gay actually
Aldo L
Preferred method?
kevin akyuz - sorry lmao I didn’t mean to come off so strong. I would use something like “confident” or “self-assured”
Alpha male is a marketing trap to sell penis enlargement pills porn and protein products. Humans have 3 brains alpha "theory" applies to the most basic form of animals but wr have a frontal lobe and rationality
It was Alpha energy but the delivery was sort of gay and cringem I'm not gonna lie and this is coming from an Indian lmao. All good I think Sindabad just needs more swag and he's good
I think you are gorgeous and can’t imagine you having a problem with women at all.
This video is sarcasm he says
he is trying to make a point, that because of stereotypes even good looking indian men are limited in their power.
He wants women that are sought after by everyone and those women have too many options to settle for the Indian Socrates wannabe .
@@allisonmcinnis5929 whats their options? To settle for a jimmy savile?
@@allisonmcinnis5929 Too many options can be problematic. I have seen many gorgeous single moms.
I think Indian men are handsome a lot work at my job most don’t even look or speak to any of us :( I would love to become friends but it doesn’t appear they are inviting.
They are very very afraid of being labelled as creeps.
Why dont you smile at the one you find attractive?
This really sucks. Many people think Indian/Pakistani men are only brown or dark skinned and if you are fair or tanned skin you are likely to get comments like, "You look Persian/Albanian/Egyptian/Syrian/Caucasian/ Eurpean/Mixed race"
They don't fucking understand genetics and diversity
Why are you saying Indian/Pakistani men? Indians are not the same people as Pakistanis.
Please edit your comment, just a friendly request please! :)
@@suddenstare7966 most pak mens look like an average bihari
@@usaforever_ 🤣🤣🤣🤣 next joke please
@@suddenstare7966 yes only pakhtuns and afghans look different otherwise you all look like a bihari or bengali .
“I’m usually not into Indian guys but you’re kinda cute.”
“Oh, so you were racist until just then? Welcome to humanity.”
🤣🤣😂😂
Why is that racist?
LMAO, did you catch that too? lol. i was wonder why he laughed. i don't think he realize that was an unintentional insult.
@Tunir Kilikdar ???????????
im confused
ur ugliness means there's an agenda against you?
🔥🔥
Yo completely agreed, I am in Toronto & it's sad here !! I was in Milano for 3 years & I can literally tell you it was the opposite, in fact they considered good looking indian men exotic even. I feel it's a lot to do with immigrants in general & ofc N American TV & Hollywood. Since Europe has overall more culture, they do not see indians or other races (M Eastern,S American etc) like stereotypes here in Canada / USA. Lol bro sometimes on Tinder (other dating apps a girl literally ghosts after knowing my birthplace, it's sad & then probable she goes to "Black Lives Matter" rally JK !! Anyway great video & take care !!
So true😂😂😂. Sjw in the streets kkk in the sheets.
Lol you nailed their hypocrisy with that last line. Majority of these women will be pro anti racism, pro diversity and what not, but when it comes to dating, they are exactly the opposite.
Here's my perspective as a black man. I think these stereotypes exist because 1. there aren't enough indians in the USA. Even in canada, there's only a handful of famous indians who break stereotypes. And the only one I can name off the top of my head is rapper "Nav". 2. Asians/indians isolate themselves from society. This is just a fact lol. They keep in their own communities to preserve their culture. Thus, they don't really assimilate as well as other races/ethnicities. Not to say they all don't. However, when you have a large chunk isolating themselves and the ones who who assimilating only being presented in stereotypical fashion, this is the outcome. I've only seen a handful of indian dudes IRL. And only one of them I can remember didn't fit the stereotype of being some nerdy guy .
I never cared about women to say the truth .
But you are right about stereotypes about indian males .
I am from Himachal 6'1 80 kg . Pretty muscular .
Whenever I say people I am from India they think I must be mixed .
It's like in their minds that indians can't be muscular or strong lmao 😂😂
I think they all stereotypes everything acc to race and don't see an individual as an individual .
Like if a person is black he has to do something with drugs and is involved in crime somewhere.
And a person is white he must have some sense of superiority in them and probably is a racist .
An Arab dude has something to do with terrorism .
A Mexican must be with some gang
Things like that .
And also how they show people and I have seen most things about India and indians are so off the chart that it actually doesn't have anything to do with reality .
So people have a perception in their minds about others .
Maybe it's just human nature idk .
They don't get it that people who go outside of India they are just looking for jobs and are working hard for that .
If speaking about most indians in India especially rural areas they have a very robust mentality .
Theres no grey area for them .
It's either right or wrong lmao .
That ending was freakin awesome! Man it is amazing the change in the way that you come across on camera compared to your old videos. You can see your clarity and confidence has increased tremendously. Whoever says that PMO has no effect on people is out of their mind. Either that or they have no grey matter left to know the difference lol.
@Shaved Butt Allah pornography, masturbating, and Orgasm.
As an Indian myself though I refer to myself as chocolate, Indian men should start working on their verbal skills and charm when it comes to interacting with women of any ethnicity. Also, on their physical aesthetics plus their body game. They have to definitely develop their confidence and be in touch with the raw masculinity instead of being surpressed by the parents, social programming and the media.
Blah blah🍆
Modern Indian men are exposed to internet and can now learn the dating game from other parts of the world , I think the arranged marriage system should be brought down because you won't work for pussy if you are getting handed out to you for free
You either have the looks like this guy in the video or you don’t. Most women don’t want ugly
@@nayladevon1746 True but if men have an exorbitant amount of wealth and resources or at least make a decent amount a year looks go out of the window for most women. Not calling women Gold Diggers BTW
Troy Richardson yep a nice big bank account does a lot for a woman
Great video Bro and waiting for the brahmacharya of swami dayanand Saraswati video!
Dayanand saraswati is a moron
@Eeshaaputra Vasant
Please, dude dont be so weak minded
Arya Samaj is new Chauvanism..
Its also Anti Hindu Anti Vedic
Believe me i have had lots of debates with these so called Arya Samaji morons..they are complete idiots and belong to tukde tukde gang and bharat barbadi gang too..
@@abhijay_
Arya samaj is against moorti pooja
Moorti Pooja is vedic
Why Arya samaj criticize worshipers
Sure, maybe. But let's not forget, you're not just some random asian guy, you're an incredibly handsome asian guy, who fits the american standard of beauty. Jawline, hair, speech, aura, the whole package. You're really the dream cast of any movie or tv show, because you tick the inclusivity box without sacrificing average viewer interest.
And probably a big cock a doodle I'm not gayyyyyy
Lili Sz get lost racist BITCH
Get lost lmao
@@venomspidey336 what
@@MH-ro3ww idk what's racist .. you expect black women to be Zendaya or Megan markle(light brown) . You expect East Asian to be non small eyes and k-pop. It's the same.
People really need to watch more foreign movies. It’s sad when people stay in their small little bubble and only see the world from that lense.
I adore Indian movies. They are so romantic, and epic in mythology and heroism. And the actors and actresses are some of the most beautiful people in the world.
I’m not sure what people you all are coming across, but they sound extremely shallow. Maybe they need to be educated? Or perhaps avoided?
Dumb Roach I will check it out. Thanks!
One more thing, I once opened some tables asking for a chick, there was a girl who went"OMG you're so fucking hot. I don't usually like indian guys but you're so cool". I didn't know whether that was a compliment or an insult the way this girl said it but it looked like she was totally into me. She even asked for my number but I politely refused to meet her next day cuz I liked her friend more (she had that intelligent hip-hop vibe) and I still keep in touch with her friend.
I think that you are missing the big issue: most Westerners are hesitant to get involved with what could potentially be a challenge as far as religion, freedom FROM religion, gender stereotypes, gender equality, and so forth could be. As a North American of European descent, I have seen in my lifetime women marching for equality and burning their bras and standing up for what they deserve as human beings. We have not seen Asiatics engaging in the same social progress, either on the Indian Subcontinent or in China, et al. Instead, we see Brunei reverting to something horrid as far as Gays are concerned, Arabians/Persians beheading Gays and denying women human rights, and hear stories of Indian mothers-in-law throwing acid on their son's wives. We see a region trapped in medieval dogma and bizarre social constructs. It's hard to see you guys as progressives when movies like "Not Without My Daughter" and "Kite Runner" and the Deepa Mehta movies show us a very rigid and closed-minded society.
The big issue in your comment could also be the fact that you are relying solely on a very biased media to give you a nuanced look into a culture. I'm an Indian woman from India and I can say at least on behalf of all the wonderfully strong indian women I know and who were role models, including my mother that just because some of us don't scream feminism every 2 seconds or have never burnt our bras, doesn't mean we don't believe in equality. Just because a woman wears a saree she is a docile, submissive creature. In my interactions with people from the west i've often heard these inane generalizations that do nobody any good in an interaction. Every girl in my class was driven to succeed as much as her brother, sometimes more so by her parents who understand the value of a good education and there's a good number of "traditional" indian women in STEM professions. I've watched Deepa Mehta movies as well growing up and I didn't see them as being representative of my culture as a whole just as I didn't assume Notting Hill to be representative of the west or even London as a whole. These movies are just are human stories. If you visit India or talk to more indians wherever you are, you'll find us as similar and as unique as a human being can be in relation to each other. We're like everyone and we're like no one. I'm currently dating an American and one of my favourite things about him is that he has no pre-conceived notions about me. None at all. Which is refreshingly rare to encounter in the current world. We see each other as each other, not as representative of our respective cultures.
They aren't progressive it's land of wife beating, r/pes and trafficking young girls, denying girls education and right to work, it's full of medieval dogma
you're right they expect women to be submissive and docile and marry her off as teenager
I've lived in India and it's true
People they're are utterly misogynistic homophobic and casteist with intolerance towards science and irreligion
The media are also to blame. They're literally bullying Indians around. There's next to zero Indian representation here in the UK and US . There's been a huge up surge to a certain group on TV despite their low contribution to society. I have many Indian friends. You're some the most hard working honest people I know.
Why are they not in UK media if they are literally the largest visual minority there??
@@doctorgamez2410 not really the largest visual minority. They're probably the most successful. They just stay in the background & don't say much.
@@rickyhazard5766 No, statistically they are the largest visual minority, there are double as many South Asians in the UK as black peoples, so they should get a lot more media presence. Interesting that they don’t though.
Ugh, Indian men are very handsome ef the haters
LMAO! Loved the ending. I'm glad you're venturing onto these topics that no one cares to speak out about on public platform. Kudos from a fellow Indian Man sexually frustrated in a White country. Keep up the Solid work!
I am an Indian guy living in Ireland. I am 6 feet tall, pretty fair enough. What I observed in me and my fellow mates that we arent confident enough to talk very freely(other than work stuff) to white women. However, the girls i came across(european and mongoloids) are very good going and do not have any stereotypes against us indians.
Its just that we have accepted the white superiority(as our ancestors did) in the same way today. But I have dated a mongolian girl and looking forward to date a Bulgarian in coming days😂.
Its all about our own confidence. Wear good clothes, good perfumes and be confident.
bro can i get your instagram?
So Why would you particularly thinking about dating a White girl ?? I suppose that one do not date someone on the basis of their race but because of their personality.
Have you tried dating a brown girl?
@@asharsdiary5721bro where r u living in India?
The TV show Big Bang Theory didn't do Indian men any favors either. Enjoy your freedom Lads till you get married (if). There is a reason it's called the ball and chain. In western countries, the deck is stacked against all men. It ain't called divorce-rape for nuthing.
bruh "indians are ugly" if im honest some of the most attractive people ive seen are southern asian
it needed to be said. im another sri lanka/indian case study: It feels GREAT!
It's out in the open now, at least it's not awkward now
Indian men are beautiful! The darker the better for me, my guy is dark and its awesome to learn about his culture, vedic, family, food. I will say as a white woman in Canada I assumed that Indian guys weren't allowed to date us and already have been promised to an Indian lady. My ex sis in law dated an Indocanadian and his family wouldn't accept her.
Ewww skank
Well yea India people are conservative in a sense. And it's very rare for Indians to marry outside race. Bcoz we all first see individual then their family. And our parents approval is a must.
I am a boy when i ll get married my mom amd grandma ll approve first.
And for girls it's usually fathers and brothers approve for a proper husband who is a good and respectable person and caan feed his family.
And yea we also chec k background before making relations.
It's not only you but indian girls and guys are not allowed to date at all.
In more conservative family purity is a must for both girls and guys and more emphasis is put on studying and hardwork.
But if you are dating someone it more likely in indian community that they ll marry or the guy looses respect among his friends and family and girl is shamed.
And all couples are expected to stay faithful and together till death.
Except if husband is very bad and beat and all that but it's rare.
Even if husband cheats or women cheats it's excepted to forgive them for their mistake.
So divorce are rare in indian society.
It all just work out.
Eg- it's my father's job to look out for family and provide and mother s is to look out for children and do household works. And most indian families are joint families.
My aunts and my mother they cook and look after children and all that. While my uncle's and my father always busy in moneymaking .
It's more like i have 3 mothers and 3 fathers and it all just work out. And something's alwys going in family so you never know how 40-50 years have passed.
I never faced such a problem and I am frequent traveler. Western media has destroyed image of Indian men. But don't give up ya all.
I have to say I have dated Indian men before. I find them very attractive as well as Chinese, Koreans and Japanese men.
Social skills , communication and very conservative ways are always the dealbreaker for me when it came to saying Indians.
Many times I couldn’t understand them or would find them secure in themselves. Social awkwardness is not attractive and many of them were virgins. The culture doesn’t promote the idea of dating like here on the West. So you have all these guys who have little world experience because the life in India was completely surrounded in education, family and religion. Sadly, many Indian men don’t have the guts to stand up to their parents and marry any girl of any race. Parents have a huge influence. So a lot of Indian men would try to date Westerns but marry Indian girls. Is quite a complex topic.
Unless these men were raised here, they don’t have a chance. But is not their fault.
Great video.
Saying the culture doesnt promote dating is a massive understatement, its outright forbidden in most cases. Men and women are discouraged from interacting in general let alone dating.
What's wrong with being a virgin?
Virgin guys are ideal. I find it gross when I hear a guy brag about how many women he’s slept with...ewwww @ STD’s
Indian culture are family oriented. Mother- Father always wish for child happiness, so we indian are smart in this area, instead of wasting our time and money in dating we just give that power to mother, father. That why in india their are many happy families. I find arrenged marrige is more happy one rather than love marriage. Mostly love marriage are end up divorce, (in Western country divorce rate are higher)and often unhappy one. Because their is a reason because in arrenge marriage. If dispute being between and family take a initive to solve their problem. In love marriage you r your own. Because of arrange marriage we have a lot of family conection and members who care for us. But in Western society families are shattered. People are living alone and disconnected from each other. Depression and mental illness are rampant. People lost there will to live. I can't deny this in India it is a big problem. But mostly found in westernize society.
I know plenty of Indian-Americans that aren't virgins and that have great social skills and swag myself including. But from my cousins's stories and from my Personal experiences we STILL have it wayyyy harder than any other race
I think Indian men are beautiful men inside and out. Best of luck to all Indian men, I think you are very masculine men btw.
Most indian men don't look like him lmao.
@@totallyanonymousbish9599 lmao come to NYC they do!
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Omg...I will hahaha. No joke. Indian men like him look really good. But mostly I think about those weird people from Idiana Jones and the Temple of Doom.
@@totallyanonymousbish9599 Google Hritik Roshan and Siddarth malhotra
Bollywood has good looking Indians
@Pathan Yousefzai sadly she does, that's why good media representation is important, right now if someone says "i have indian partner" they think of someone like aziz ansari, while saying same about black male partner, people think about someone like drake or some basketball player.
Bro if you’re Indian and you’re pursuing women who have access to white or black men, give up
Lol i live in uk and they still dont care about white men
Very handsome 😍😍😍
I’m South African Indian, I feel that these stereotypical roles need to be lessened and the more extroverted and extravagant roles need to be increased especially in the mainstream.
Do the negative stereotypes of Indians exist in South Africa too or are you just seen as normal people? Cuz I know you guys have been there for a long while because of indentured labour
@@nikolaimaharaj2319So frustrating that he didn't respond...
I just think that all this shit is state of mind. Never has my ethnicity come into the equation in my dating life. I don't think about it, it more or less comes down to whether you've been in the gym and you have something going for yourself in life, with some friends, and the social skills that come with that. I really like this guy, I learn from him, but he does come across as a little nerdy, he needs some decent clothes a new haircut etc. Thats my viewpoint, anecdotal perhaps, but in every case if you aren't getting chicks, there are more significant factors that rank way above your race.
Right on point.
Exactly, life itself will have so many problems arising, we can't keep blaming our genetics, finances, friends for it. Got to improve everyday in a small way.
What a naive perspective dissociated from reality. It baffles me why people like you always use personal anecdotes to justify they are living in a world full of colors and rainbows. Yea the shared experience of majority of Asian Americans are "All in their head". Jfc
@@Ghostrider-ul7xn I'm sure that it is "heartening" for you to believe that I'm talking shit..but I dont really care. I've dated just as much as anyone else, I've never been single for long periods unless it was my choice (not often) and I've even cheated..so..no, turns out muscles and a slightly above average amount of money will get you laid. Sorry to hear about lengthy streaks of masturbation..get well soon.
Again, I don't care about your anecdotal experience. I'm a rationalist and draw conclusions based off observational and statistical evidence. Success stories from few outliers like you aren't going to racial gaslight the shared experiences of majority. There's literally studies on this based on nationally representative samples of all ages for both online and offline dating experiences. Unless you demonstrate statistically significant evidence for your ad hoc explanations, its very much evident race and racial biases play a significant role.
Also, I have Indian friends.. I wouldn't say they're more or less frustrated sexually than any other guy. what i observe is they just have more of the traditional and Chivalrous behavior more instilled in them opposed to Most Black and White American men.. In all honesty, I think they, for some reason haven't been either burned as much as Black And White American men, Or they just have a much higher tolerance level of putting up with the Bs of modern women. it may be the latter. I believe if you put a Black, White and Indian American guy with a rude hypergamous female. the Black and White guy would more quickly tell the female to fuck off, where as, I honestly couldn't really see the Indian guy being so blunt with a female, no matter how much she insult and verbally abuse him. and this is what i think people see, this difference and mistake it for simping or weakness for women. but in all honesty, it can really come off that way if you don't Understand Indian culture.
Very true bro
@@spiscold50 Thanks my dude.. btw, i looked through your vids. congrats..
@@EarthAngel504 Appreciate it brodie🙏🏽
@@spiscold50 yessir
@@spiscold50 are you in the states?