Should I Contact My Ex During Covid? (All Attachment Styles!)
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Video starts at 3:25
S K yeah. She does WAY too much talking and not getting straight to the point.
That's not how you speak into a blue yeti microphone. Its a cardiod mic so the capsules are facing the sides, tilt it up until you're speaking into the side with the logo. The capsule is pointed toward your lap in this video.
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I think that if one of us broke the "no contact" rule, it would definitely trigger all those loving feelings we have for each other. We would probably fall for each other all over again and become blind with hope and optimism. Not contacting each other and just try to forget each other's existence is probably the best for both of us.
Something about this convid19 has stirred up so much anxiety. All my rounties habits gone and yes missing and contacted ex which I know is wrong
Thais, you... Read my mind. This has been on my mind all week. Thank you. Watching now. ❤️
EXCELLENT ADVICE. PLEASE ALWAYS GIVE US HOPE TOO. ITS OK TO WARN US. BUT U ARE THE ONLY CHANNEL WHO ALSO GIVE US SMART WAYS TO DO THINGS AND HOPE.
THANK U AND BLESSINGS.
Update: my ex reach out after 5 days!! And the conversation we're having is good no contact is powerful
BLESSINGS!
Dude, she's jusy look for attention and emotional validation. She doesn't actually want you. It's the isolation that get her hitting you up. If it wasn't for the lockdown, she'd be out there fucking and sucking, and might even be one of your homies. Resoect yourself. Move on. She's an ex for a reason. That chapter of your life is over.
Thanks for all you do, can you do a video on healthy communication, reactions, or a way to help curb unhealthy traumas from coming to the surface when in a disagreement? If you have not done already! I'm pretty strong minded and have changed a lot about myself already, but any tips would be greatly appreciated!
I love your videos and learn a lot from them. I have noticed the intro and promotion of the school often takes up a third to almost half of the video. Any way you could shorten it up?
None else has described this in such a way. It's golden advice.
Just so hard to hear you on my cell all the time most videos. Don't want to miss anything. You're so good ..Maybe a way to improve volume?
I am the first view, like, and comment! 10 seconds ago this was posted... wow. I already know the answer: no. I've been righting my wrongs, and some of those are with my exes (but I've done that work closer to the breakups). but out of boredom, it's never a good idea to contact your ex.
What do you mean righting your wrongs with exes?
Thank you for publishing such relevant and helpful content! Is there a video that helps us conclusively determine the attachment style of our partner or exes? That would be super helpful!
No! Don't do it!
Excellent! Perfect words..
Lol, already did! 😅
same!
I reached out to my ex four days ago to see how he and his son were doing. He did not answer my call, and I didn't leave a message. He didn't call me back...I had broken up with him after a five month relationship because he was always running hot and cold. I think he has an avoidant personality...He agreed with the breakup yet reached out to me twice (6 and 16 days after the breakup) with innocuous comments. I asked him respectfully to leave me alone so I could heal, and he has...I'm sad about this, but I guess it shows that he didn't really care for me. Maybe I needed to see that to truly move on.
You asked him to give you space to heal. He did and now you are turning around and saying that he doesn't care. Christ
You played games, so suck it up. He did nothing but respect your wishes, and now apparently he's guilty of not being able to read your mind. Grow up.
Kris Kat wow, some very sensitive male inferiority complexes here... fellas I’m sorry you’ve been hurt by women but it wasn’t the original poster was it?
i completely relate about changing your mind. I imagine when you asked for space you didn’t foresee a global pandemic and health crisis on this scale. I know I didn’t. And as many people have said, an experience like this reminds you what’s really important. For me it was just that all the pettiness between my ex and I didn’t matter as much as my sincere wish he and his family stay safe. That’s it, no games no greater plan. He also didn’t reply, which of course hurt, but he was always consumed by petty grudges tbh I was naive to think any crisis was big enough to do that
@@hannah6034 Don't care. I am entitled to comment on post as I wish. She told him to leave her alone. He did and now she is upset because he chose to respect her wishes and thinks he doesn't care because he did what she asked.
Ridiculous.
@@hannah6034 That's just brilliant Hannah, WHAT a contribution. Personal insults for pointing out unreasonable behaviour and unjustified self-pity? Keep your condescending crap to yourself.
This is so helpful. But what if it's not an ex but a friend/relationship in progress and there is both genuine care and unmet needs? I feel exactly as described, upset with my unmet needs because we can't meet. I'm a bit confused.