How Women Experience Desire Differently

In this video, I want to help you understand female desire in a whole new light. For most of history, there has been a massive misunderstanding about female desire. That is because most of the models about desire assumed women experience desire the same as men. For the majority of women that is not the case. That means up until recently our understanding of female desire has been backwards!
There is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to female desire and that is what has led to so much confusion. Many women feel like they may have low desire, low libido, or low sex drive. This might be in comparison to their male partner or what they perceive as the sex drive of other women.
It's important to understand the difference between spontaneous desire and responsive desire. The majority of women experience responsive desire meaning that arousal (or sexy context) needs to come first before they experience desire. Knowing this can be empowering for a lot of women who think they need to be constantly turned on like men and women who experience spontaneous desire.
This will help women understand their sequence for getting to desire so that they can be fully engaged mentally and physically and achieve orgasm as easily as their partner. Often it's not about needing to treat low female desire, it's about understanding your pattern to get to desire. All of us have a mental and physical pattern that brings us to orgasm. Understanding female desire in all of its beautiful manifestations will help women and their partners to experience more pleasure during intimacy.
My wife and I created a quiz for women to help you understand the mental side of getting to orgasm easier and more often. You can find that along with other tools and training for mastering your own orgasm over at elevatepassion...

[@bakhytgul4457]

Makes sense! One can't think out of the blue like 'i'd like sex' :)) first comes context, then desire. At least for me :)

[@murrayroadstrong]

I have 2 issues with my lady.
1st she has female issues and gets UTIs all the time and sex is painful for her.
2nd is she gets to the point where she’s shaking and screaming but has me stop giving oral when she’s having an orgasm.

[@JasonJulius]

1. UTIs are no joke, she definitely needs to talk to her doctor as all individuals are different. 2. It's not uncommon for a woman to stop you from stimulating her during and after orgasm as she will get incredibly sensitive to the point where more stimulation can be overwhelming or painful.