I lost 180 pounds recently and notice this. People treat people that’s overweight like they are stupid or something. Even when you lose the weight they some still think that way of you. Even though people tend to talk to you more.
People are always being treated differently for many different things. It's not up to others to make you happy and whole. It's up to you as an individual to do the work, to be happy, to be confident, to be whole and secure with yourself because people will always judge.
This is why I talk with people who don't give a dang about exercise or weight, but who do care about health and they can talk to me fat and thin. Otherwise, those skinny and chubby chasers are worth to ignore.
My computer is stalling so I can barely get a minute into this to hear what she plans on saying in regards to this. Other than it either pleased it her, or didn't please her. Because, particularly as a writer, and someone who deals with actors and actresses on a regular basis, or more so to say, works in the most "shallow" businesses on earth, who make money for her and a lot of other people just by standing there and "looking good", right or wrong, it's part and parcel with what television pushes (good looking/attractive people in very large part) I would think she would have noticed this already on a whole. I don't know why she would turn around and act shocked.
Losing weight for health and physical reasons is the best thing. Unfortunately dealing with the BS that comes with weight loss is a pain. These well-meaning types are not "friends." Just a bunch of busy-bodies who love sticking their noses wherever.
This is TRUE! Thank you for telling the truth about one of the saddest side effects of weight loss.
I lost 180 pounds recently and notice this. People treat people that’s overweight like they are stupid or something. Even when you lose the weight they some still think that way of you. Even though people tend to talk to you more.
People are always being treated differently for many different things. It's not up to others to make you happy and whole. It's up to you as an individual to do the work, to be happy, to be confident, to be whole and secure with yourself because people will always judge.
This is why I talk with people who don't give a dang about exercise or weight, but who do care about health and they can talk to me fat and thin. Otherwise, those skinny and chubby chasers are worth to ignore.
What are people supposed to say. I mean people are genuinely happy for someone who got healthier because it's not easy ,but she accomplished it.
Then say nothing at all, because commenting on weight is pointless.
My computer is stalling so I can barely get a minute into this to hear what she plans on saying in regards to this.
Other than it either pleased it her, or didn't please her. Because, particularly as a writer, and someone who deals with actors and actresses on a regular basis, or more so to say, works in the most "shallow" businesses on earth, who make money for her and a lot of other people just by standing there and "looking good", right or wrong, it's part and parcel with what television pushes (good looking/attractive people in very large part) I would think she would have noticed this already on a whole.
I don't know why she would turn around and act shocked.
Losing weight for health and physical reasons is the best thing. Unfortunately dealing with the BS that comes with weight loss is a pain. These well-meaning types are not "friends." Just a bunch of busy-bodies who love sticking their noses wherever.
Eats from the plants foods. No process foods or fast food restaurants or white sugar process foods.
Veganism makes many people extremely sick and has even killed people.