Massive respect for the lady working with the Goat lady. She was not once condescending and instead explained how delightful the end result will be for her and kids. Amazing that despite her OCD, worked in a seriously unhealthy home for the benefit of this person. amazing.
The one thing I can never get over while watching these programs are the people that are suffering with OCD and have extreme phobias to germs are happy to clean these extremely filthy homes while simultaneously touching their face or brushing their hair out the way. I freak out just watching it. I’m not OCD by any means and you wouldn’t catch me touching my face while cleaning!
I know, she was just going on about the urine on the floor then runs her hands through her hair! Hell, even I use hand sanitizer after handling bills and I'm a cashier!
Mines just around food and my face, I can touch things (for the most part) but if I need to eat or touch my face my hands have to be 100% clean cause thats when germs can actually enter
100% agree about the hair and face. I have ocd and hair in my face or hanging down generally frustrates me but when I'm cleaning I always tie my hair back and roll up my sleeves and remove or tuck away anything that might otherwise get contaminated...🙄🙄🙄😖
It's a funny thing. I knew a woman who cleaned her toilet 10 times a day and one time she told her hubby to pee in the sink so she didn't have to keep cleaning it!
Hayley is my favorite. She has pushed herself and accepted every challenge in every episode. With smile and grace, even when she is approached with her biggest fears.
You do know that this show is from around 2008 or 09, yes? It's not new at all, and at that time, Hailey was spending up to 19 hours a day---each day!---cleaning her house, as well as at least 4 hours per day on her makeup. No idea how she's doing now that her children are mostly grown up, but she definitely did spend inordinate amounts of time keeping them, their rooms, their possessions, and everything around her in her tiny world more than just clean!
To see the lady with her goats and the lady who was supposed to help her ending up helping each other somehow made me genuinely happy for them. The one has got her house back while still being able to care for her goats and the other has had a thought of what her OCD is doing to her and is willing to try and relax when it comes to cleaning her own house and do other things instead - I mean this is as good as it gets. Perfect ending!
The tall blonde lady who was dealing with the couple did not even turn around while saying goodbye, she was glad to leave. Also it was so wholesome to see the Sandwich Bag lady and Goat Mom bond.
You know what I don’t understand? You clean your whole house daily, you disinfect your floors 10x a day, but you’re walking around with your shoes on… I’m from Romania, and we do keep our place clean, but if I were to step in the living room with shoes on, my mom would reset my whole operating system with one slap 😂
We moved to Bulgaria 15 years ago, it was a joyful surprise to see that nobody wears shoes indoors, even for a party, we have decorated, knitted, 'gypsy slippers,' plus a selection of slippers for guests. When invited to a friend's house you take your slippers with you. I have started taking my slippers to the village shop and leaving my muddy winter boots outside, outdoor shoes and boots get muddy when it rains because my village has no tarmac roads, just grass and earth tracks. It has now caught on with my neighbours and the shopkeeper is very happy. Hello to beautiful Romania. :)
16 pigs snorting and squealing one summer.. one purchase became 6 that became 16 + goats n chicken... Think some one may be telling a few porky pies eh
I do however feel Tuesdays mum has created serious life long damage to her. Her reactions to things surrounding Tuesday are so drastic and makes Tuesday go into this panic / scary space. I really hope years on Tuesday is in a place of peace within her Ocd
Is her name Tuesday? Yea she's like a weird mini version of her which she encourages to be more extreme, poor girl never have a chance to be herself but saying that she seems happy, she's georgous with good direction and a happy family so who am I to judge.....
Jade and Deborah are the prime example of what the show is meant to do. It is meant for them to be able to help each other. Giving someone back their home in exchange for maybe seeing that cleaning and tidying isn't the be all and end all.
Hoarding is a mental illness. In other shows it can take months of therapy to kickstart the decluttering as they have breakthroughs. I get both sides of the issue - she has limited time and he hasn't addressed his illness.
@@sarahlyon157 okey but he is the one who proposed and married her he can’t use his illness as a excuse for everything if he can’t love his wife or communicate he should divorce her and focus on his issues cause this isn’t how a marriage is supposed to be like
@@Bibitiebabitieboo I don't think people with mental illness should be told to remove themselves from their social support network before working on their illness. We don't tell people with cancer that they should divorce their spouse while going through chemo.
OCD isn't instilled dummy! Shes ill and she's so brave sharing that with the world. You are a disgusting humanbeing to think this is something she wants. Really truly disgusting
With these kind of controlling parents there are two options: flee or subject to them. Fleeing requires self confidence as well as a lot of self reliance and the age and possibility to work/rent a house. Tuesday has clearly conformed to the way her mother wants her to be and being like that, a younger version of her mother, her mother accepts her. Very sad indeed, she needs mental help as well as temporary free housing to recover away from her mother (I assume she can’t hold a job right now and pay the bills).
Meee!! I've been having a mega clear out. If it's not binned or recycled it's outside my gate with a 'free stuff' sign & it's all being taken. I'm now decorating my bedroom.
Hi I’m Deborah on the show. What the public didn’t realise the goats didn’t live in the house. They brought the goats in to do the film. Then they put goat food all over the floor to make it look bad. Yes they did stay in the conservatory.
You are a lovely lady, thankyou for caring so much for your animals. Glad to hear you have a smallholding where there is more room for both you and them. Wishing you all the best for the future.
Lesley is a pain in the arse. How did she manage to have a child in the first place if she can't stand touching people? In another episode she talks about how her daughter won't hug her. I guess not! She probably made her daughter feel "dirty" from the get-go.
I can’t get over that grand reveal of the conservatory with the couch facing dead straight into a wooden fence, while there’s a perfectly good garden behind it, that’s hilarious.
Oh nice happy I found this been looking for this vid for ages I used to work with this lady and shes the loveliest person ever and for an update she now has 15 goats and sheep now and the goats now are adorable as they were back then
Deborah and Jade were such a pleasure to watch. They completely understood their problems and weren’t in denial about anything and just pushed through. They were a really good match and often times I feel like the cleaners and messy people are judgmental or close minded, I can almost tell once the show is over they’ll go back to their old ways, but I genuinely feel that these two ladies helped each other emotionally to fix the root of their problems.
I hope Jade and Deborah continue their friendship, but it is 300 miles between them. I think their time together was so positive for each other. I love the tile & countertop colors in Deborah's kitchen. The shoe store segment with Haley & her own shoes. Adorable reaction. It relaxes me to clean & I am happy not to have the extreme of either sides, though I am the vacuum/hoover & elaborate bedding Queen. LOL.
Debbie really has a beautiful home now. Such a nice result with the goat farm. Those men did a fantastic job! Too bad they didn't have time to talk with him.🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐 Hopefully now she can have a social life.
The fact that she uses sandwich bags instead of rubber gloves is something I just can't comprehend. I imagine it is really impractical, you don't really have a lot of grip when a bag is over you hand, do you?
I would imagine that it’s one of her ticks, instilled into her as a child. The link in her head could be as simple as “this is what keeps my food sanitary enough to eat.” That plastic barrier is her little security :) it’s not too bad, and I love how sympathetic and understanding she is to “goat mums” feelings.
I would love for one of these folks to come over once a year or two. Not because I'm lazy (well sometimes I am) but because sometimes it too hard to keep up.
Let’s be honest. Tuesdays mom probably made her into what she is today. Instead of getting her help or even both of them help, she just chooses to live with it and have daily panic attacks over a bit of dust.
Isn’t it funny how the rest of the world only cared about germs during Covid. Then even after learning about cross contamination and how they should be cleaning surfaces like card readers they immediately post Covid went right back to being absolutely disgusting and not caring 🤣
I feel so sorry for Tuesday. Its clear that her mum has been a huge role model for her - just look at the way she dresses. Same hair, same lipstick. I really believe she is a prime case study of the nature/nurture debate. Genetic inheritance of OCD possible, plus her mother teaching her to be terrified and ashamed.
Debra is such a lovely woman. I’m so glad she got help and that she can have a nice life with those beautiful animals. The other guy needs to grow up and realise his relationship is more important than his rubbish. I really admire these people who go into homes and help in such squalor, I couldn’t do it.
Lesley and Tuesday should NOT be living together, or even have a close contact. They need to separate for a while, get the help that they need (not together) and then they can reunite if, and only if, they aren't a bad influence on each other.
Favourite epsidoe of them all. Love Debbie and jade, what beautiful ladies. I really hope Debbie meets someone lovely one day who she can spend the rest of her life with. 🙏❤❤
I love hayley and her positive mindset! She wants to change. She wants to be the same with others. Therefore she wasn't panic when her shoe has that amount of germs. Lesley and her daughter on the other hand, their germaphobe got in their life so much. They need help
Once you have done the show you never hear from them again so no one helps after the show. Also they did some horrible things to Jade to get a bad reaction. It’s all about making a good show the public like.
Right! It could be very very dangerous not to answer the phone. Something might be actually happen to her daughter if she doesn’t pick up. And wasting food just because it doesn’t fit just……..is a no go for me………I just HATE wasting food, especially if it’s for a stupid reason as this.
@@NB-lk7yd they definitely lie.. I don’t believe for a mini hat they do things like 30 times a day cleaning a toilet. Or washing all the handle in the house 200 times all while doing all the other chores, being a mum and just life. I have ocd myself. Mainly with thoughts etc, and I do know for a fact they lie on this programme. Makes me mad really lol
These cleaning fanatics ironing their beds, scrubbing ovens that they don’t even cook in. The amount of bleach and chemicals would be a hard gig. I wouldn’t feel comfortable in their home. Their anxiety would be quite stressful. I liked Jade’s recognition of her dilemma.
Lindsay... she. Drives. Me. Mad. She has such a big superiority complex! She acts like she is better than everyone.... and honestly, the words that come out of her mouth dont line up with her body language when it comes to being 'understanding' however when she loses her mind at that sloth.... i loved that haha. I do also love Jade & Deborah, i would have skipped this episode if it weren't for them! Low key lost my MIIIIND when jade walked into the lounge & the goat is like 😳 oh hey hooman.... 😳😳😳😳
I find there are some positive experiences for those with OCD, such as losing the sandwich bags for cleaning, but I do think there is some professional support missing in terms of a person to talk to or someone to help you stay on track when you get away from the goals. The Hoarders/OCD people, might have their own goals but may forget them when the going gets really tough.. and that's understandable!
@@GeorgiasGarden Well, I’m not an OCD cleaner, but when I couldn’t get so much as a bottle of rubbing alcohol, I bought large bottles of Everclear and disinfected with that.
I can’t speak for OCD cleaners specifically, but for the most part we anxious people aren’t suffering any more than normal because our fears aren’t new, just confirmed, and we’re dealing like we always have. We’re actually doing pretty well compared with all of the carefree extroverts who didn’t/don’t know how to stay home and be alone.
@@bakerfritz4681 I can completely see that! I have ocd but in different ways, like organization, and things being out of place, and things having to be done a certain way but not ocd when it comes to germs! Does it feel like some validation for you? Like kinda being able to say “see I told you so”?? Hope you don’t take this as being rude, I am genuinely interested if we share the same thought process when it comes to our perceptions on our individual ocd beliefs!
Debbie and Jade are really helping each other understand the problems and fears they each face! Hayley and friends amuse me - do they really expect shoes to remain clean - they wear shoes outside their own homes where there are bacteria, fungi and viruses! Has anyone else noticed that the rooms that Lindsay helped clean have been repainted and new wallpaper has been hung? And the same for Debbie’s house!
Yes and the inner soles were checked which is so close to the body all day, and the body has so much bacteria on it, including bacteria necessary to survive.
The goats 😂 Jade and Debbie are so lovely together ❤ Glad Lynsey apologised and they got on I don’t think they would have stayed married if the house stayed the same 😊
I love the lady with the goats. 🤣 It's not exactly that bad is it. She's dedicated her life to looking after goats 🙂 saying that I wouldn't allow that in my home!!🤣
I love this show - and watch them all, but something really irks me about the ocd cleaners. Both ends of the scale are unwell from the hoarders to the cleaners but the cleaners always take this high road and almost forget like as unhealthy as the hoarders are they are. They are always very patronising and ocd is an illness!
I think it is hilarious that they shop online because as someone who has worked in shops and worked in a warehouse I cleaned my department top to bottom, polished and dusted the counters sanitized my makeup station every hour practically and in the warehouse especially like an Amazon warehouse it is dusty, moldy, touched by thousands of hands from point a to point b. It is horribly filthy by a normal standard. Trust me a shop is cleaner.
I think it's just like calming their anxiety because they don't see what is scary for them? Like here in India if you walk into some Cafe you might never eat there, but if you order delivery from the same place you will not think about all that and just enjoy the food 🤷🏻♂️🤣🤣
Lindsay is so full of herself like what the axtual hell, she went to help them not showoff how great and amazing she is.. Can't believe she even said that
Honestly it makes me really happy how Lynsey used this to kick off a whole new life for herself. Watching this again now knowing exactly what triggered the obsessive cleaning behaviour makes so much sense and I really admire her.
@@Chiller-pc1dv I think you misread what I wrote. I know what OCD stands for, I was diagnosed almost 20 years ago. To clear up a misconception (in part encouraged by this sort of show), this disorder causes obsessive behaviour and compulsions/repetition, it doesn't speak to the actions themselves, but yes obsessive cleaning does manifest in some people. So does hoarding, actually. For me, I repeat actions over and over again in a sequence. I count. I open doors with two hands instead of one because it must feel "even" on each side. And maybe 20 more things that would take a really long time to explain 😅. But I couldn't care less about keeping things tidy. I said that it was interesting knowing what triggered the obsessive cleaning behaviour. That was exactly what I meant to say.
I love the “ocd” “germaphobes” going on and on about germs and how scary they are. Yet they will be cleaning something gross with gloves on to protect their hands, and the end go on to touch their own faces with the gloves still on!!!!
After binge watching many episodes over the last few days, it has inspired a squeaky clean kitchen in my apartment. My house used to be in a state not too far from some of these hording people. Been doing much better the last few years. I know very well how it can get to that state. I think most of us have been depressed and really the clutter starts in the mind.. The cleaners also have a mind- trap to deal with, but its expressed in a different way. Really love these extreme cleaners teaming up with us horders. I hope they are all doing well. Loved this episode
To the cleaning-obsessed, have you considered installing centralized air purifier in your house, and to those who can’t do it just provide every room with the appropriate size air purifier and germ killer appliances? Even if you are still a obsessed cleaner you can keep your regimen less frequent and less tedious. You can clean in less time or every two days instead of daily and for 8 long hours. I have no OCD but I researched on how air purifiers work and all about the HEPA system and decided to put air purifier in each of my rooms. I noticed afterwards less dust settles on surfaces and I breathe really great air indoors. My family’s allergies stopped. And one more thing. No bad odor can survive.
I bought all my purifiers from Amazon. For larger rooms like the living room I measured the square footage and bought purifiers with twice the cleaning coverage. The smaller the room footage the smaller the turn over purifying performance you will need of course. I will try to find their names and post later.
Scott is a hoarder and that should've been taken into account and he should've had more help regarding that - not an OCD cleaner having a go at him! They are both psychological issues, not just a question of cleaning.
Deborah should have thought long and hard before marrying Scott. Marrying a hoarder is like marrying an alcoholic or a drug addict. It's very difficult for them to change.
He is the one that wanted the help and it seems he's not even willing to change AT ALL even his WIFE is having a go at him. If ur not ready for help or for change u shouldn't ask for it.
Yes he is and these people are a nightmare to live with because they rarely ever change, even when the hoard is got rid of they start the cycle over again. It can go on for years making the people around them frustrated and miserable.
yah, that guy is an adult and doesn't need people cleaning up after him, he needs serious therapy. His partner should run, he will continue hoarding without psychological help.
It's quite common for people who repair things to have a hoard, but it's who can keep it well organized who gets to keep the hoard, and NEVER let it encroach on your relationship, keep it to one room tops.
This was delightful to watch ; the helpers are so caring ; the goats were sweet... I know we shouldn’t laugh - but it’s hilarious ; 9,10, 9,10, 9,10...
The 1st blonde lady has severe OCD but she still manages to be kind & understanding. I love her relationship with Deborah. I like her.
You are 💯correct.. she is a kind woman
I came here to say this. She conquered so much by the end!
Agree
We got on great together. I’ve now moved to Wales to a small holding.
@@deborahchennells6019
You did! That's awesome & congratulations on the move.
Massive respect for the lady working with the Goat lady. She was not once condescending and instead explained how delightful the end result will be for her and kids. Amazing that despite her OCD, worked in a seriously unhealthy home for the benefit of this person. amazing.
Yes she is a sweetheart
Seems like they may have been counciled on how to speak to people, most of them do
The one thing I can never get over while watching these programs are the people that are suffering with OCD and have extreme phobias to germs are happy to clean these extremely filthy homes while simultaneously touching their face or brushing their hair out the way. I freak out just watching it. I’m not OCD by any means and you wouldn’t catch me touching my face while cleaning!
😂
I know, she was just going on about the urine on the floor then runs her hands through her hair! Hell, even I use hand sanitizer after handling bills and I'm a cashier!
Mines just around food and my face, I can touch things (for the most part) but if I need to eat or touch my face my hands have to be 100% clean cause thats when germs can actually enter
100% agree about the hair and face. I have ocd and hair in my face or hanging down generally frustrates me but when I'm cleaning I always tie my hair back and roll up my sleeves and remove or tuck away anything that might otherwise get contaminated...🙄🙄🙄😖
It's a funny thing. I knew a woman who cleaned her toilet 10 times a day and one time she told her hubby to pee in the sink so she didn't have to keep cleaning it!
I feel so bad for Tuesday her mum totally infected her mind with anxiety about cleanliness
Exactly what I said she should be ashamed that poor girl is consumed totally consumed by her illness.
It’s a form of mental abuse in my opinion. Do parents not realise what they are doing to their children?
Her daughter was going overseas.... Good luck...she would need therapy first.
I agree her mon has brain washed her totally! Tuesday need to run fast from her mom!
I know, what a shame
The goat lady is SO precious I love her 💙 I also love the friendship she has with the blonde girl
Thank you for that lovely comment.The whole program was made up for Tv viewers. They also get loads of help in which you don’t see. From Deborah x
You both have hearts of gold and were very brave. XOXO
I agree, they both are trying to understand each other. Not being critical. Lovely people 🥰
@@deborahchennells6019 I love these programmes and I agree, you have a lovely warm personality and your home looks amazing.
@@miriam2909 vivivi
Hayley is my favorite. She has pushed herself and accepted every challenge in every episode. With smile and grace, even when she is approached with her biggest fears.
And she is awesome hair! I'm a guy and I hate makeup and jewelry but love dark hair like hers.
@@LuckyGuu And she cleans in stilettos, how awesome is that!
Totally! She is very charming.
You do know that this show is from around 2008 or 09, yes? It's not new at all, and at that time, Hailey was spending up to 19 hours a day---each day!---cleaning her house, as well as at least 4 hours per day on her makeup. No idea how she's doing now that her children are mostly grown up, but she definitely did spend inordinate amounts of time keeping them, their rooms, their possessions, and everything around her in her tiny world more than just clean!
When did sleep and eat?
To see the lady with her goats and the lady who was supposed to help her ending up helping each other somehow made me genuinely happy for them. The one has got her house back while still being able to care for her goats and the other has had a thought of what her OCD is doing to her and is willing to try and relax when it comes to cleaning her own house and do other things instead - I mean this is as good as it gets. Perfect ending!
The tall blonde lady who was dealing with the couple did not even turn around while saying goodbye, she was glad to leave.
Also it was so wholesome to see the Sandwich Bag lady and Goat Mom bond.
Sandwich bag lady😂💀
Right?! She was like 🙋🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️😂
@@fourearwolf3315😂😂😂I wonder why she does not use gloves.
sandwich bag lady LMAOOOOO😂😂 she was so kind tho
@@Mathombisicame here for this
That blessed goat lady...so honest and quite delightful really!
You know what I don’t understand? You clean your whole house daily, you disinfect your floors 10x a day, but you’re walking around with your shoes on… I’m from Romania, and we do keep our place clean, but if I were to step in the living room with shoes on, my mom would reset my whole operating system with one slap 😂
Same here , I am Indian and we do not were shoes inside the house .
Same I'm English and I cannot stand people walking all over my clean floors with dirty shoes 😭 I've got slippers for guests!
Same in African house holds
Polish the same, no shoes in the house.
We moved to Bulgaria 15 years ago, it was a joyful surprise to see that nobody wears shoes indoors, even for a party, we have decorated, knitted, 'gypsy slippers,' plus a selection of slippers for guests. When invited to a friend's house you take your slippers with you. I have started taking my slippers to the village shop and leaving my muddy winter boots outside, outdoor shoes and boots get muddy when it rains because my village has no tarmac roads, just grass and earth tracks. It has now caught on with my neighbours and the shopkeeper is very happy. Hello to beautiful Romania. :)
“The goat opened the front door” 🤣🤣🤣 can you imagine delivering a package and a goat answers 😂
Working with customer service, I'm sure the goat was more friendly than half the people lol
Be the best day ever 🥰🥰🥰🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Had the beast in my back garden far too often
16 pigs snorting and squealing one summer.. one purchase became 6 that became 16 + goats n chicken... Think some one may be telling a few porky pies eh
I love them
I do however feel Tuesdays mum has created serious life long damage to her. Her reactions to things surrounding Tuesday are so drastic and makes Tuesday go into this panic / scary space. I really hope years on Tuesday is in a place of peace within her Ocd
Her mom also seems super codependent on her. Its wierd.
I think Tuesday has her own home and partner. 🤔
@@loopylou6841 I hope so
Is her name Tuesday?
Yea she's like a weird mini version of her which she encourages to be more extreme, poor girl never have a chance to be herself but saying that she seems happy, she's georgous with good direction and a happy family so who am I to judge.....
She's ill
Shut up
This makes me want to clean everything and i mean everything!
Jade and Deborah are the prime example of what the show is meant to do. It is meant for them to be able to help each other. Giving someone back their home in exchange for maybe seeing that cleaning and tidying isn't the be all and end all.
They were such a good duo. Loved them. And Deborah’s goats are so cute!!
Catching bunions from a pair of shoes! That cracked me up, bless Hayley 😂❤
she is hilarious lmaooo😂❤
That man is so selfish. Choose your junk, or your marriage! Easy... Throw away the dead weight, you contentious child!
RIGHT! I feel so sorry for his wife she looks overwhelmed
This is a mental illness just as OCD is. They need psychological intervention and just chucking the stuff doesn't work.
Hoarding is a mental illness. In other shows it can take months of therapy to kickstart the decluttering as they have breakthroughs. I get both sides of the issue - she has limited time and he hasn't addressed his illness.
@@sarahlyon157 okey but he is the one who proposed and married her he can’t use his illness as a excuse for everything if he can’t love his wife or communicate he should divorce her and focus on his issues cause this isn’t how a marriage is supposed to be like
@@Bibitiebabitieboo I don't think people with mental illness should be told to remove themselves from their social support network before working on their illness. We don't tell people with cancer that they should divorce their spouse while going through chemo.
Her mum is putting the fear into her daughter
She’s ruined her daughters life 😡
Hailey is doing so incredibly well, she's really getting better and she's always so fun and positive. I love her.
Ikr and I love her TH-cam channel, Hayley’s Help!
7:54 - when she sees the goat and the goat is just there staring back at her was hilarious 🤣😂
lmaooo i had not realised that earlier. now its hilarious to watch !!
I howled, and re watched, it was so hilarious 🤣🤣
I am crying of laughter 😂😂
I always rush to the comments section to laugh.
LMAOOOO that was so funny
The woman helping with the goat house was so lovely and understanding despite it being her worst nightmare. Very lovely lady.
I thought she was a really spoiled, annoying cry baby. I was hoping Skippy, the huge goat, would head butt her.
@@YZ3_580 😂😂😂
@@YZ3_580 have a bit of compassion, it's obvious those goats mean a lot to her. I'm guessing she doesn't have a lot of friends
@@YZ3_580 LOL. I thought both the Goat lady and her OCD lady were both lovely. But a headbutt on the bum would've been funny!
@@sopeszn I think he was talking about the cleaner.
Testing the shoes and touching them ... discover theres germs on them, puts hands on face in disgust lol
The goat curled up on the little chair watching with interest at 18.18 😂😂😂😂 so cute....
Lesley -the mother- is such a joyless woman. I cannot imagine the childhood poor Tuesday has endured, even apart from the OCD instilled in her.
OCD isn't instilled dummy!
Shes ill and she's so brave sharing that with the world.
You are a disgusting humanbeing to think this is something she wants.
Really truly disgusting
With these kind of controlling parents there are two options: flee or subject to them. Fleeing requires self confidence as well as a lot of self reliance and the age and possibility to work/rent a house. Tuesday has clearly conformed to the way her mother wants her to be and being like that, a younger version of her mother, her mother accepts her. Very sad indeed, she needs mental help as well as temporary free housing to recover away from her mother (I assume she can’t hold a job right now and pay the bills).
who else watches these when they’ve got no motivation to clean but need to and ends up doing a full blown deep clean of the whole house…. cos same
Meee!! I've been having a mega clear out. If it's not binned or recycled it's outside my gate with a 'free stuff' sign & it's all being taken. I'm now decorating my bedroom.
Yessss I find these so satisfying AND the biggest motivators!!
Meee
i watch these to stop myself 'over cleaning' i realise im not that bad and calm down lol
Wonder how the OCD cleaners dealt with Covid, must have been hard for them 🙈
🤣 I literally made the same comment.
Hi I’m Deborah on the show. What the public didn’t realise the goats didn’t live in the house. They brought the goats in to do the film. Then they put goat food all over the floor to make it look bad. Yes they did stay in the conservatory.
They're cute goats, indoors or outdoors :)
You're doing an amazing thing by providing a loving home for these gorgeous creatures! ❤
That's absolutely disgusting they did that and disappointing on their end, thank you for letting us know but I guess that is all part of "reality tv".
I figured they do a bit of "staging" to make it look dramatic.
You are a lovely lady, thankyou for caring so much for your animals. Glad to hear you have a smallholding where there is more room for both you and them. Wishing you all the best for the future.
Lesley is a pain in the arse. How did she manage to have a child in the first place if she can't stand touching people? In another episode she talks about how her daughter won't hug her. I guess not! She probably made her daughter feel "dirty" from the get-go.
True .....
True, she probably changes her clothes after the hug.
I can’t get over that grand reveal of the conservatory with the couch facing dead straight into a wooden fence, while there’s a perfectly good garden behind it, that’s hilarious.
Jade and Deborah are both such lovely people; the way they supported each other was fabulous. I hope they are both getting even more from life now.
Oh nice happy I found this been looking for this vid for ages I used to work with this lady and shes the loveliest person ever and for an update she now has 15 goats and sheep now and the goats now are adorable as they were back then
Deborah and Jade were such a pleasure to watch. They completely understood their problems and weren’t in denial about anything and just pushed through. They were a really good match and often times I feel like the cleaners and messy people are judgmental or close minded, I can almost tell once the show is over they’ll go back to their old ways, but I genuinely feel that these two ladies helped each other emotionally to fix the root of their problems.
I hope Jade and Deborah continue their friendship, but it is 300 miles between them. I think their time together was so positive for each other. I love the tile & countertop colors in Deborah's kitchen. The shoe store segment with Haley & her own shoes. Adorable reaction. It relaxes me to clean & I am happy not to have the extreme of either sides, though I am the vacuum/hoover & elaborate bedding Queen. LOL.
I have been thinking the same thing. They are really great for each other. Both of them building the other one up! I hope there will be updates
Poor Tuesday, her mother is more toxic than any germ.
Imagine being her neighbor… I’d come over everyday to play with the babies 🐏
Debbie really has a beautiful home now. Such a nice result with the goat farm. Those men did a fantastic job! Too bad they didn't have time to talk with him.🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐 Hopefully now she can have a social life.
The fact that she uses sandwich bags instead of rubber gloves is something I just can't comprehend. I imagine it is really impractical, you don't really have a lot of grip when a bag is over you hand, do you?
I guess, sandwich bag is her blanky, it is not an ideal option but it makes her feel good.
@@niharikagayakwad8546 That makes sense. It seems unpractical but as long as it makes her feel better it's good. (:
I would imagine that it’s one of her ticks, instilled into her as a child. The link in her head could be as simple as “this is what keeps my food sanitary enough to eat.”
That plastic barrier is her little security :) it’s not too bad, and I love how sympathetic and understanding she is to “goat mums” feelings.
Its probably cheaper though
I think it might be being able to see inside the bags. You can’t see trough the gloves so you don’t know what is going on under there
I would love for one of these folks to come over once a year or two. Not because I'm lazy (well sometimes I am) but because sometimes it too hard to keep up.
Let’s be honest. Tuesdays mom probably made her into what she is today. Instead of getting her help or even both of them help, she just chooses to live with it and have daily panic attacks over a bit of dust.
Remove "Probably". It's 1000% certain
Yeah and in episodes with them they’ve said they like never go out bc they’re so worried about dust and whatnot
Isn’t it funny how the rest of the world only cared about germs during Covid. Then even after learning about cross contamination and how they should be cleaning surfaces like card readers they immediately post Covid went right back to being absolutely disgusting and not caring 🤣
I feel so sorry for Tuesday. Its clear that her mum has been a huge role model for her - just look at the way she dresses. Same hair, same lipstick. I really believe she is a prime case study of the nature/nurture debate. Genetic inheritance of OCD possible, plus her mother teaching her to be terrified and ashamed.
Her mum is an old slapper
Debra is such a lovely woman. I’m so glad she got help and that she can have a nice life with those beautiful animals.
The other guy needs to grow up and realise his relationship is more important than his rubbish. I really admire these people who go into homes and help in such squalor, I couldn’t do it.
These shows always make me go clean. Great motivation.
Lesley and Tuesday should NOT be living together, or even have a close contact. They need to separate for a while, get the help that they need (not together) and then they can reunite if, and only if, they aren't a bad influence on each other.
that will Make the ocd worse not better,ocd is a mental bully
@@dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424yes but it's not helped by others validating their urges
Favourite epsidoe of them all. Love Debbie and jade, what beautiful ladies. I really hope Debbie meets someone lovely one day who she can spend the rest of her life with. 🙏❤❤
I love hayley and her positive mindset! She wants to change. She wants to be the same with others. Therefore she wasn't panic when her shoe has that amount of germs. Lesley and her daughter on the other hand, their germaphobe got in their life so much. They need help
Buying online doesn't rule out someone have not purchased, tried them on and returned them.
Is anyone helping the compulsive cleaner? Cleaning the toilet 30 times a day is not normal.
Once you have done the show you never hear from them again so no one helps after the show. Also they did some horrible things to Jade to get a bad reaction. It’s all about making a good show the public like.
@@deborahchennells6019 What did they do?
@@sunil_de6856 Hi Sunil they brought the goats into the whole house to mess it up. Putting food on the floor for them to eat. X
Some1 doesn't need 2 clean there toilet 🚽 30 times in 1day- maybe this has a problem
People who suffer with OCD, i can recommend to go therapy, and medicines.
Love the goat lady. Understand exactly what she means about having something to cuddle.
I adore Jade and Debbie deserves nothing but the best for her selflessness and loving these lovely goats 🐐 bless both of them.
Thank you Tanya I’m the goat lady Deborah. I didn’t keep my goats in the house the brought them in to make the program. Xx
So in order for the show to get ratings they had u lie? That’s too bad I’m sorry
@@deborahchennells7398 - they didn't come into the conservatory either?
@@deborahchennells7398.......the goats are lovely ❤😊
Is it just me or does this video make me want to clean every spot in my house
If my daughter is at school, there's no way I'm not answering the phone if it rings.
Exactly. I call BS on that! They don’t half exaggerate on this program!
Right! It could be very very dangerous not to answer the phone. Something might be actually happen to her daughter if she doesn’t pick up.
And wasting food just because it doesn’t fit just……..is a no go for me………I just HATE wasting food, especially if it’s for a stupid reason as this.
I'm sure she checks to see who's calling first
@@NB-lk7yd they definitely lie.. I don’t believe for a mini hat they do things like 30 times a day cleaning a toilet. Or washing all the handle in the house 200 times all while doing all the other chores, being a mum and just life. I have ocd myself. Mainly with thoughts etc, and I do know for a fact they lie on this programme. Makes me mad really lol
These cleaning fanatics ironing their beds, scrubbing ovens that they don’t even cook in. The amount of bleach and chemicals would be a hard gig. I wouldn’t feel comfortable in their home. Their anxiety would be quite stressful. I liked Jade’s recognition of her dilemma.
Lindsay... she. Drives. Me. Mad. She has such a big superiority complex! She acts like she is better than everyone.... and honestly, the words that come out of her mouth dont line up with her body language when it comes to being 'understanding' however when she loses her mind at that sloth.... i loved that haha. I do also love Jade & Deborah, i would have skipped this episode if it weren't for them! Low key lost my MIIIIND when jade walked into the lounge & the goat is like 😳 oh hey hooman.... 😳😳😳😳
What irritates me also about this show is how they really don't help the OCD people they kind of make it worse
I find there are some positive experiences for those with OCD, such as losing the sandwich bags for cleaning, but I do think there is some professional support missing in terms of a person to talk to or someone to help you stay on track when you get away from the goals. The Hoarders/OCD people, might have their own goals but may forget them when the going gets really tough.. and that's understandable!
the only positive thing is the ocd people get to socialize and make a positive change in the lives of the horders
Lesley is driving herself and her daughter mad
I agree that daughter probably wouldn't even be like that it's cuz she was raised in a home where mom is crazy about germs
Am I the only one who finds Lesley annoying?
@@gemmalarkin3450 No, you definitely are not.
I'm a tidy person. Its great watching these shows because I get to pick up a lot of cleaning tips.
The house is a mess but the way she loves those goats is awesome 😎
I wonder how much they freaked out during this pandemic!!
I was thinking the same thing…. I was pretty hot on hand washing before the pandemic but I go full blown bloody surgeon scrubbing now!
@@GeorgiasGarden Well, I’m not an OCD cleaner, but when I couldn’t get so much as a bottle of rubbing alcohol, I bought large bottles of Everclear and disinfected with that.
I can’t speak for OCD cleaners specifically, but for the most part we anxious people aren’t suffering any more than normal because our fears aren’t new, just confirmed, and we’re dealing like we always have.
We’re actually doing pretty well compared with all of the carefree extroverts who didn’t/don’t know how to stay home and be alone.
@@bakerfritz4681 I can completely see that! I have ocd but in different ways, like organization, and things being out of place, and things having to be done a certain way but not ocd when it comes to germs! Does it feel like some validation for you? Like kinda being able to say “see I told you so”?? Hope you don’t take this as being rude, I am genuinely interested if we share the same thought process when it comes to our perceptions on our individual ocd beliefs!
"You need a bigger sandwich bag," LOL!!!
The scrap couple: we cook in the bedroom and wash dishes in the bathroom also go to the toilet in the washing machine.
Hayley is just so wonderful ! What a darling woman making so much progress!
That mother should be ashamed passing on the terror of germs to her daughter. She should be helping her. How r these ladies not sick all the time!!
Debbie and Jade are really helping each other understand the problems and fears they each face!
Hayley and friends amuse me - do they really expect shoes to remain clean - they wear shoes outside their own homes where there are bacteria, fungi and viruses!
Has anyone else noticed that the rooms that Lindsay helped clean have been repainted and new wallpaper has been hung?
And the same for Debbie’s house!
Yes and the inner soles were checked which is so close to the body all day, and the body has so much bacteria on it, including bacteria necessary to survive.
Yes,the voiceover stated what work had been done to those rooms.
I'm not ocd, but when they touching their faces freaks me out!!!
The goat house. OMG!!! I want to die.
It was vile! 🤮🤮🤮
I'd love a houseful of goats, but a nice clean home cx
You don't just walk down the road and spot a goat
@@ilovemydressinggown9715
Same-ish, they smell so bad…..
@@ilovemydressinggown9715 I dont think those can coexist.
The goats 😂 Jade and Debbie are so lovely together ❤ Glad Lynsey apologised and they got on I don’t think they would have stayed married if the house stayed the same 😊
cleaning your food with bleach would have to be the most counterintuitive thing i have ever seen in my life.
I love the lady with the goats. 🤣 It's not exactly that bad is it. She's dedicated her life to looking after goats 🙂 saying that I wouldn't allow that in my home!!🤣
If I ever try to iron the sheets and blanket on my bed, I hope someone will put me in a nice padded room.
😂 🙌🏽I have OCD and the ironing of the blankets was even a step too far for me.
Just as I thought I have seen it all🤔 here I meet this goat‘s Lady 😅🧐 a lovely lady indeed 😍
Deborah and Jade what gentle loving souls. Lovely people.
I love this show - and watch them all, but something really irks me about the ocd cleaners. Both ends of the scale are unwell from the hoarders to the cleaners but the cleaners always take this high road and almost forget like as unhealthy as the hoarders are they are. They are always very patronising and ocd is an illness!
I lost it when the goat was there to greet them in the living room
I mean, you don’t need to be able to safely prepare food inside your shoes?
🤣🤣🤣👏
The lady who cleans her toilet 30 times a day needs to get some help.
Oh my. The look Scott and his wife share at the end of the cleaning, makes me gag more than the dirty house.
Gave me bouch to 😨😨😲
I didn't know what your comment meant until I actually reached that point in the episode and I must admit, I threw up in my mouth a little 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Timestamp please 😂
My favorite episode, I m waiting the owls and birds home... The new friendship between the 2 ladies is really precious... The goats are spoilted 😊
Goats are so cute, but living with them! 🤪 And this lady needs to think about their well-being.
Well in fairness those people did come out and check on them they're looked after but yeah it's their house now
I think it is hilarious that they shop online because as someone who has worked in shops and worked in a warehouse I cleaned my department top to bottom, polished and dusted the counters sanitized my makeup station every hour practically and in the warehouse especially like an Amazon warehouse it is dusty, moldy, touched by thousands of hands from point a to point b. It is horribly filthy by a normal standard. Trust me a shop is cleaner.
I think it's just like calming their anxiety because they don't see what is scary for them?
Like here in India if you walk into some Cafe you might never eat there, but if you order delivery from the same place you will not think about all that and just enjoy the food 🤷🏻♂️🤣🤣
Lindsay is so full of herself like what the axtual hell, she went to help them not showoff how great and amazing she is.. Can't believe she even said that
Jade and Debbie 😭😭😍😍 sooo beautiful. Bless xx
The goats are adorable!
That puppy ♥️♥️♥️
so cute and calm and inquisitive!!!
Honestly it makes me really happy how Lynsey used this to kick off a whole new life for herself. Watching this again now knowing exactly what triggered the obsessive cleaning behaviour makes so much sense and I really admire her.
Obsessive COMPULSIVE disorder. That is what OCD stands for
@@Chiller-pc1dv I think you misread what I wrote. I know what OCD stands for, I was diagnosed almost 20 years ago.
To clear up a misconception (in part encouraged by this sort of show), this disorder causes obsessive behaviour and compulsions/repetition, it doesn't speak to the actions themselves, but yes obsessive cleaning does manifest in some people. So does hoarding, actually. For me, I repeat actions over and over again in a sequence. I count. I open doors with two hands instead of one because it must feel "even" on each side. And maybe 20 more things that would take a really long time to explain 😅. But I couldn't care less about keeping things tidy.
I said that it was interesting knowing what triggered the obsessive cleaning behaviour. That was exactly what I meant to say.
The goats are soo cute!
I love the “ocd” “germaphobes” going on and on about germs and how scary they are. Yet they will be cleaning something gross with gloves on to protect their hands, and the end go on to touch their own faces with the gloves still on!!!!
This is the funniest episode thus far lol
I literally can watch these over and over just for the reactions I laugh to tears 🤣 everytime
After binge watching many episodes over the last few days, it has inspired a squeaky clean kitchen in my apartment. My house used to be in a state not too far from some of these hording people. Been doing much better the last few years. I know very well how it can get to that state. I think most of us have been depressed and really the clutter starts in the mind.. The cleaners also have a mind- trap to deal with, but its expressed in a different way. Really love these extreme cleaners teaming up with us horders. I hope they are all doing well.
Loved this episode
I'm proud of you! 💖
That woman has ruined her daughter Tuesday. And with the shoes, just use Detrol spray!
I know I am saddened by it
I think the mother has passed her anxiety to her daughter
That was one of the best episodes I’ve ever seen 👌
How much of Tuesday's OCD was caused by her mom's behavior while she was growing up?
000000,ocd is hereditary not learned,reason some parents are hoarders and still have normal kids
Yep, her mom pretty much caused her ocd.
To the cleaning-obsessed, have you considered installing centralized air purifier in your house, and to those who can’t do it just provide every room with the appropriate size air purifier and germ killer appliances? Even if you are still a obsessed cleaner you can keep your regimen less frequent and less tedious. You can clean in less time or every two days instead of daily and for 8 long hours. I have no OCD but I researched on how air purifiers work and all about the HEPA system and decided to put air purifier in each of my rooms. I noticed afterwards less dust settles on surfaces and I breathe really great air indoors. My family’s allergies stopped. And one more thing. No bad odor can survive.
Can you recommend good ones or ones you use please 😁
I bought all my purifiers from Amazon. For larger rooms like the living room I measured the square footage and bought purifiers with twice the cleaning coverage. The smaller the room footage the smaller the turn over purifying performance you will need of course. I will try to find their names and post later.
Scott is a hoarder and that should've been taken into account and he should've had more help regarding that - not an OCD cleaner having a go at him! They are both psychological issues, not just a question of cleaning.
Deborah should have thought long and hard before marrying Scott. Marrying a hoarder is like marrying an alcoholic or a drug addict. It's very difficult for them to change.
@@ncfriend5233 100%. I have no idea why she went beyond the first time she saw his house.
He is the one that wanted the help and it seems he's not even willing to change AT ALL even his WIFE is having a go at him. If ur not ready for help or for change u shouldn't ask for it.
Yes he is and these people are a nightmare to live with because they rarely ever change, even when the hoard is got rid of they start the cycle over again. It can go on for years making the people around them frustrated and miserable.
yah, that guy is an adult and doesn't need people cleaning up after him, he needs serious therapy. His partner should run, he will continue hoarding without psychological help.
It's quite common for people who repair things to have a hoard, but it's who can keep it well organized who gets to keep the hoard, and NEVER let it encroach on your relationship, keep it to one room tops.
Or a big shed
Why is she using sandwich bags instead of actual rubber gloves to protect her hands? 🤔
Leslie is an absolute pain. Could you imagine her as your mother.
if she was my mother I would’ve gotten a job at 16, saved up and moved out to my own place the second I turned 18.
So if someone these people are vacuuming their home 20+ times a day do they not go to work?
Probably house wife’s and may get dla
I love goats, but keeping them inside the house seems a bit excessive...
Right? Or letting them control you and taking over.
I didn’t keep them in the house. But had to keep them in conservatory because Skippy wasn’t well. They brought them in to mess the house up. X
@@deborahchennells6019 hi how is your house now , do they stay in the conservatory???
30:25 these 2 should stay friends. ❤ they're good therapy for each other.
This was delightful to watch ; the helpers are so caring ; the goats were sweet... I know we shouldn’t laugh - but it’s hilarious ; 9,10, 9,10, 9,10...
That 9,10 9,10 9,10 part I laughed too but I shouldn’t😂