7 Checkpoints To Know If You Should Marry Him/Her | Kingsley Okonkwo
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1. PERSPECTIVE CHECKPOINT
2. MUTUALITY CHECKPOINT
3. TIME CHECKPOINT
4. FRIENDSHIP CHECKPOINT
5. ACCOUNTABILITY CHECKPOINT
6. PRAYER CHECKPOINT
Thanks🙏 for this boss
I appreciate
📌📌
Thank you
If you are lonely now, marriage is not the cure, purpose is the cure.
7 Checkpoints on how not to marry wrong
1) PERSPECTIVE CHECKPOINT
2) MUTUALITY CHECKPOINT
3) TIME CHECKPOINT
4) FRIENDSHIP CHECKPOINT
5) ACCOUNTABILITY CHECKPOINT
6) PRAYER CHECKPOINT
Prov. 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart; lean not on your own understanding. In thy ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct thy paths.
God won't leave you abandoned when you come to him in prayer.
Prayer answers all things because we serve a Living God that answers prayers.
Thank you Pastor.
Thanks for taking it down.
Amen
God bless you dear
My Favorite line is "I KNOW YOU WILL FIND IT, JUST LIKE I FOUND YOU"
😂😂😂indeed,women and surprises
Amen 🙏
Loneliness is not the absent of affection, it's the absent of direction
Even as a single guy, your teachings has helped and make me see the clearer picture about marriage
Loneliness is not the absence of affection but absence of direction. Hmmmm thank you sir
WHEN TALKING TO A WOMAN (FOR MEN)
Don't
1. Dismiss
2. Disagree
3. Debate
4. Defend
WHEN TALKING TO A MAN (FOR WOMEN)
Don't
1. Complain
2. Criticize
3. Compare
4. Confront (It wasn't mentioned in this message but I think I've heard it in one of his previous videos)
Thank you molayo
Thank you
@@adedolapookekunle 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Bless you 🙏
Thank you Mojetioluwa, very well said. God bless you my friend.
Oh Lord,
Order my foot steps , I will not make more mistakes before getting the right one ……….. Amen 🙏
I will be at the right place, at the right time 🙏
I love the time check point,it's true that people can't deceive you for too long,all you need to do is slow down and don't rush.
1) perceptive checkpoint
Know her concept abt marriage and how he/her can endure on a Tim difficult, how does she see devorce .
* respect , marry someone u can respect natural.
+Someone u can respect not inspect)
R - romance for man
R- Respect for woman
2) maturity check point
Knw the level her thinking and action.
4 D
Don't demiss her
Don't disagree
Don't defense ur self
Don't debate .
4 C
Don't compare
Don't criticise
Don't complain
Don't
2) mutuality checkpoint
3). time checkpoint don't be in a hurry to get married and also don't over delay
4) accountability checkpoint ,who do u report to , who do u summit to ,ur authority over u , u can respect and obey
4) friendship check point
5) prayer checkpoint .
I agree when you said a woman’s mind is full of drama...I’m telling things continually play in my head
Very true
Listening to Pastors K and M is always a blessing.
Greater heights sir and ma in JESUS' mighty name
"Loneliness is not the absence of affection, it is the absence of direction."-- Pastor K. (from the video) 1:13
1. Perspective 00:50/2:22 --What is the perspective of the man and woman on marriage?
2. Mutuality 15:47 -- You both must want the marriage to work.
3. Time 17:07 -- Don't rush. A major way to show if he/she is right. Time reveals deception.
4. Friendship 17:56 --
5. Accountability 18:52 -- Authority figures over the life. Who do you report to? Who do you submit to?
6. Prayer 20:00 -- God will always reveal things to you.
(Point 7 is not in this video. Pastor K. ended at Point 6)
God bless you
Been waiting to hear from God whether or not I will marry a specific person. I’m convinced this video will be used to answer. Cant wait sir🙏🏾.
I mean the books
Cab I get it in any book shop
Really Romantic my partner introducing me to ''Pastor Kingsleys'' teaching. Looking forward to the LDM conference. 😌
Work on building a healthy relationship and falling in love with the person that you see everyday, who has been through so much pain and heartache, but still manages to gets through it all.❤️
💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationship
Awesome Word!!!
"People can't pretend for too long" 💯
I love how humorous you get with your messages. I Love your messages too!!
... and I love how you explained the time checkpoint where you said that a situation will arise in which the individual will show their true colors ... you're really on it PastorK! You're good in all your videos. I could write comments on every video that I've watched but I just resist the urge to over do it. I really enjoy your counsel.
Good msg Pst ..appreciate all what you do.. please can you let your sound engineer do more better with the audio quality.. its not the best
PERSPECTIVE CHECKPOINT
Purpose is the cure of loneliness
I ended a relationship on this perspective reason. The parent saying i made him cheat.
Men struggle to sort it out themselves Indeed.
God help me to marry right.
You will definitely get it wrong when your reasons for getting married are wrong
What should someone who is already married and sense that the purpose is gone, what should the person do?
Thank you Pastor K! Your teachings have helped me understand marriage better and taught me what to look for in a spouse! God bless you.
I don’t complain, I don’t compare, I only criticize when he criticize someone else, but he does everything both sexes should not do
Thank you Lord from protecting me over these years👏🏾👏🏾
Awesome life lesson on relationship and marriage . I believe all should focus on knowing as much as possible before commitment. Be the person best friend and learn as much as possibly from each other. I really enjoy your teaching and your enthusiasm as in all your sessions Pastor K. My favorite line is about the perfume and how to find it, that’s hilarious 😂. Also I agree that a man desires respect. Keep helping us, God bless you and your wife.
Great teaching pst sir are your books available in soft copies
This massage is for me,i had 2 kids with this guy,letter i fined out ,he is not a man i can settle for ,he uses in the name of kids and his church people to pest my life around,he cant take decision on his own without his pastor,any time i tried making him understand things he brings age in to it,he doest listen,he do more of listing to outsiders than me,his a man of god,but he do more on pleasing things to people,he doest take responsibility,any time i talk about it he brings excuses,and for me my late parents never want him around me ,but as for me am trying to make things work cus of my kids ,and my little sibling but all is on me,pls help me
May the Lord, help you. May He redeem you.
Omo this man just described me here 🥺🥺i which he can get better
Wow is is educative
So rich a message. Thank you sir. Please how can I buy your book.? I am in Cameroon
My favorite pastor..Love you man❤May God continue to increase wisdom
Amen in Jesus christ name.
What is the name of the book pastor use in this video, anyone who can help will be appreciated
The teachings here have blessed me tremendously and have come when I sought God's specific answers. Thank you Pastor and all those that put in the work to make this happen. God continue to bless you and make you flourish!
❤I love 💕 the word of God Pastor K said.
It really happened me a lot in Relationship .
Recently I’ve made a good decision
Thank you pastor K
Thanks PR. K & M, you're preaching has blessed me...love you guys
Power sermon please how can i get the book of A-Z of marriage. Thank you Sir
Thank you so much sir this teaching's have been a blessing to my marriage
Pst K, please, work on the volume of your videos. The volume 📢 of this video is too low.
Yes it's really low as with others. I had to hold the phone to my ear. Interestingly, his wife was of better quality.
Not for me
There's a difference between loneliness and
alone~Alone is u been on ur own doing ur thing
and still b happy Been one while lonely is done
many people are facing today, they re so scared
of staying alone (finds it difficult to stay a day
alone without feeling bored)
Wen u find ur gift (discover ur purpose on earth/d
reason y u re on earth)u wil never b lonely but u
wil b alone that's y people lol jesus always used
d word I will love to b alone n talk to my father n
he was having fun doing it and didn't desire to
marry same wit apostle Paul same wit Nelson
Mandela wen he was alone in d prison for
27 years.
So if u still feel lonely it's a great sign and signal
that u re only doing ur job(career) and not ur
work(gift and life purpose) and In genesis God
gave man work first before he gave him a woman
so u must first discover ur work(gift) n even b
lost in doing it before u will b given a wife that's
d order of heaven
Thank you for this teaching Pastor K.
Thank you JESUS CHRIST
Thank you so much sir 🙏 please where can i get the books
Just can't wait for this video
Very impactful message 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. Where you invest is where you harvest 💯💯💯💯💯.
There's only one thing I disagree with in this message.
Messi is the 🐐.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣it had to be that?
Amen in Jesus mighty name Sir,Many thanks
Good afternoon pastor, please what books would you recommend for me to read and prepare for my marriage.
Ronaldo person ❤❤love u sir
Hello PastorK,
Once again you are amazing and so funny when you said the part about "let's all have our own steering wheel - make it fair".
I was falling off my chair with laughter.
Your messages has been eye opener to us all....Sir please how can I get your books??
God bless you, pastor
Thank you o much for this message and God bless you abundantly. This is actually a cure. And eye opener.
Pease what is the title of the books?
Where in Ghana can we locate the books please ??? @pastor k
Thank you so much pastor, very helpful
And I was here busy wondering if it’s normal the way I can’t help but “over respect” or effortlessly submit to my boyfriend. I thought it was a tendency to toxicity. 😂🥺
ahah haba
I love your message sir...how can I get your books and be my mentor
Wow it was great sir more anointing
Check amazaon
I appreciate some of the checkpoints given in this message. But there is a much better way to know people for marriage without having to be involved with them relationally. It's anonymous inside out courtship.
People know themselves anonymously starting inside (spirituality, morality intellect...) and end outside (physique, external assets,...) at the time they are ready for marriage only if they match consistently inside. Many people can even be known simultaneously this way without risk. Anyone would maintain over time a pool of compatible prospect based on inner values. It's only when people are ready for marriage that the identity of their prospects are fully revealed and they can asses the external qualities and assets. Even without technology it's very feasible. But it's much easier with technology through a social platform.
The problem with the conventional approach is that many people get damaged when they try to know others and that negatively affect their experiences in their marriages.
Very true. Sometimes getting involved can come with emotional and psychological aftermath. Having a pool of friends helps. It allows time to assess perspective, morals and principles. If there is no alignment, it's easier to jump ship
Amazing piece as ever. God bless you sir🙏🏻
I'll try to make this the last one I comment on tonight Pastor. You said the church is a hospital, there are mad people here. 😅
Oh my my ... that's good, seriously
My sweet Isabella put me onto Pastor Kingsley
Never disappointed with this Channel 🔥
Thank u so much sir for this 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you Pastor K and M ♥️
Thanks pastor K.
Pastor Kingsley you just really know how to make a great point
Thank you Jesus
Thank you sir
Amen🙏, thank you Pastor
So inspiring..
Thank for sharing
Pls pastor K this video volume is very low
Where can I download the books sir
More anointing sir
I just started reading Men are from Mars women are from Venus and you literally just said the same thing about women and their feelings... Very accurate
Hmmm, real matter o!!!!!!!
Thank you sir
Amen
Please I want some of the books
How can one that base is South Eastern part of Nigeria get your books?
Thanks sir
Some men will tell u that they know adultery is a sin and they don't believe in it but yet still do it in marriage
Is there any open door to Uganda sir
I just cn't wait🤩🤩
When he said church is a hospital, they are mad people here
How do I get to buy books from you sir
What are the names of the books ?
Please, How do I get these books, I am in Uganda
Please where can I get these books in mowe Ogun State
Please how can I get these books?
All of them.
The hard copies ×2
I love you sir💖🙏
Please sir
Where can I get it
Pls the books where will get some in Ghana to buy
I think Amazon
A-z I agree
AMEN!!!
How can I get your books in portharcourt
Amen
The volume is low.
Amen and Amen