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We NEED to Talk about Trisha Paytas (I’m Legit Mad about This...)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ธ.ค. 2020
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Hi everyone, welcome to Abbey's Kitchen! In today’s highly requested video, we will be taking a look at highly controversial veteran TH-camr, Trisha Paytas.
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1)The information in this video is for education and entertainment purposes only so you should always speak to a health care provider about your unique health needs.
2) Don’t forget to please be kind in the comments, here and on Trisha's channel.
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This whole time I thought Abby was standing. And I was today years old when I noticed she’s sitting down
She does sit very straight tbf
yea i thought the chair was her thicc booty
Lmao dude does she always sit!?
Her posture is 👌👌👌
w o a h .+*MIND BLOWN*+.
I hate the idea of "rewarding" yourself for restricting by eating. So many people eat in terms of rewards and punishment and it can destroy your relationship with food.
Totally!
It’s like ISNT the reward what you worked towards??????????
Such a very important point!
I did this and it totally destroyed my relationship with food and probably F*d my métabolisme
@Joanna R. well, it’s an essencial activity, a source of pleasure, it has an effect on your appearance, your identity can be tied to your food choices, food can be a part of relationships, memories, cultures. It isn’t impersonal, like buying cleaning products or refueling your car
my favorite dietitian meets my favorite dumpster fire
Hahaha
RIGHT
Hear hear!
😂
EXACTLY
She’s pretty open about her eating disorder, binging and extreme restrictions.
Which is great for educating people. But if you only watched Trisha's videos where she's overeating and restricting, its glamorizing the disordered eating.
@@freakwithafaceYO Yeah, but that parts not her fault.
I'm really glad that you have started talking about overeating. Not because I don't appreciate your takes on undereating individuals, they probably help me more, but because Nuance is everything, especially on the internet.
I'm glad it's helpful!
Honestly so nervous Trisha's next video is gunna be "cancelling Abbey Sharp" even though Abbey is always respectful and considerate in her reviews.
Trisha doesn’t have the power to “cancel” anyone with her reputation. Everyone knows it’s either trolling, mental health, drugs, or a combination.
I dont think Trisha will even notice lol
I doubt she will. Abby was pretty gentle and diplomatic in her explanation. Def noodles roasts trisha every now and then in a light hearted way and it doesn't bother her.
tbh how can trisha even cancel abbey? abbey is unproblematic, kind, and reasonable.
Honestly though, who gives a crap?! Abbey is a professional dietitian with a discerning following. Plus there's a reason why NOBODY has done this, it's because "TH-cam influencers" know that doing a "diss" video on someone, only brings more attention to that other person (thus less for them).
Abbey, thank you for handling ED topics so professionally by including experts in the field and presenting research where appropriate. So many influencers only speak to their experience with ED, weight loss, or whatever the issue, but it’s refreshing to see someone presenting an unbiased view.
I'm so glad it's helpful!
Lol can’t believe we just found out freelee hate watches this channel. I think that’s a sign of success Abbey
🙌🏻
How did you find out ?
@@victoriatomkowicz1932 she replied to obese to beasts comment
@@Maryam-du7zx that's because he ws making videos of her and people were sending her links and demanding her to respond. Freelee has very limited internet where she's at. She doesn't have time to hate watch anyone. 😂
😂😂 Right??
Ok Abbey I see you!
You're awesome John! :D
👋 oh hi friend!
Getting INTO it lately!!
@@TheFrugivorediet yeah how dare two relevant TH-camrs who both talk about diet and health "suck up" to each other 🙄
@@TheFrugivorediet Go sit in a corner, eat a banana and stop thinking you're relevant these days.
i was in a cycle of constant "last suppers" and "diets" and gained 20 lbs in one year. breaking free of that has been so helpful!
omg i was not expecting this one at ALL
I hope you enjoy it!
Were you though? Lol it was bound to be coming eventually lol
"it's probably not clear what her intentions are" - this quote is literally summary of Trisha' carrier
😂
I feel binge disorder is a chemical imbalance and should be taken just as serious as any mental illness such as depression, panic attacks, social phobia and so much more. I do feel binge disorder is very serious and I feel her pain. It's very sad, I don't know much about her but I see pain,
It is a mental health disorder in the DSM-V
Thisss! So tired of people thinking it’s just people being lazy/not having self control. It’s literally a mental illness.
It's extremely dangerous too, especially if you're already overweight or obese.
Tbh, I kind of class anorexia, bulimia, bed + osfed involving a mix of those 3 as kind of one big ed. Especially when behaviours can be shared between disorders, it's the mental aspect, and it's common for people to shift from one ed to another, especially in recovery. I hate when people always neglect bed bc as someone dx w bulimia, when for me the binging aspect has ruined my life more than anything other aspects, even when I was starving.
All of the mental illnesses you listed aren't taken serious
Oof. I used to watch her mukbangs when I was starving myself so I would feel better about not eating. Lol. Now she's on the channel that's actually helped me with my ED.
Oh no, I'm so sorry. I have an entire video about the mukbang trend on my channel if you're interested: th-cam.com/video/O2pYg76yi7I/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=AbbeySharp
i still do this :(
How? I feel like watching someone else eat would make it harder to not eat...Then again I guess watching someone eating gross amounts of food might have the opposite effect. Idk. I don't think I have an ED. Although I have been "restricting" my calories so I can lose weight but not to an extreme...
@@Upper_echelon_exotics For me personally the way trisha ate grossed me out, so I'd watch her to trigger my ED into finding food gross. (No offense to Trish but the moaning and smacking sounds are awful) Meanwhile when I was recovering Stephanie Soo was one of my go to channels bc it felt like eating with a friend. She also always made the food look appealing which helped.
@@Upper_echelon_exotics for me I used to feel like they're eating for me and it's just fun to watch other people getting all the calories and not you
I just want to say, I get her eating situation. I practiced an extreme eating disorder for decades just on the opposite side of the spectrum. I dealt with being in treatment and "recovery" off and on for 20 years.
In the last two years I finally feel like something changed and I was actually able break up with "Ann" what I chose to name my disorder voice in my head. I have consistently been in and out of treatment my whole adult life. Fact of the matter was it didn't work until I was ready and I could be ready to actually go all the way and not just maintain.
Binge eating is probably a bit harder to get better from because its not as respected as a disease and its associated with a lot of stigma if you have weight gain side effects from it. Heck, most people don't acknowledge it as an eating disorder.
I feel for all people struggling with binge eating because they will never get the compassion I did which helped me maintain and seek treatment until I was mentally able to do the last steps.
Thank you for sharing your experience with this
What a great message.
as someone currently struggling with BED this was such a lovely message to hear!
@@Natalie-ri4ii I really really hope people take you seriously getting the help you need. It really is unfair the difference in compassion.
This means the world. Thank you
Trisha is literally the definition of diet culture ! Her eating a
habits are super unsustainable, unrealistic, and not healthy at all.
Bc she has multiple EDS
It's an eating disorder. You can't control an eating disorder, unless you decide to face it, but it's not easy, and it has psychological motives behind it. At least for me it's triggered by obsessive thoughts, depression and anxiety in general. I'd say I have an axious relationship with food, the more I try to follow a diet, the more I succed, the more I feel the urge to destroy everything I've achieved, and I do it, not only eating everything I want, but feeling the need to eat even if I don't want to. Basically it's like I'm constantly sabotaging myself. I've been anorexic for a brief period of my life with some health issues related to it and since I've decided to leave my unhealthy habits I've fallen in more unhealthy habits, like binging.
I've read that trisha has bpd. With bpd it's enormously difficult to cope with extreme mood swings and negative thoughts, because you're super impulsive, it's very hard to control yourself. Not that you can't get better, but it's really hard and from what I see I think that she's trying her best to follow an healthy lifestyle, even if it doesn't seems like this.
EDIT: Ok I've found out she has not bpd, but to me it seems like she has an eating disorder.
I never thought I’d see Trisha on this channel. Can’t wait to watch!
I hope it's helpful!
@@AbbeysKitchen it was! Thanks for the video 🙏🏻
Expect to see all huge influencers who make videos with eating or food in them on this channel lol.
Abbey girl your hair looks so good in this video 💁♀️
Thank you!
so true! actually in all of her videos 💯
@@AbbeysKitchen drop the routine sis!!! 🗣🗣
I wish I saw this video when I was 15. Took me until 23 to realise that "kickstarting" my diet only leads to binging; jojo dieting and gaining more weight in the end, at least in my case. Your explanation just brings it all together now
I'm sorry 🙁I'm glad it was helpful now
Honestly I'm always really worried for the peoples health that do large mukbangs almost constantly
I understand. I have an entire video about the mukbang trend on my channel if you're interested: th-cam.com/video/O2pYg76yi7I/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=AbbeySharp
Omg yes. And super triggering for people with history of binge eating
i always thought they spit the food out and cut the video properly, so nobody can notice it
Kim and liz eat an entire table of sweets every single day
@@raygin6581 I figure they have to spit it out though or be restricting off-camera, otherwise they’d be gaining like crazy
Her diet reminds me of my high school days when punishment fad diet for eating “bad” food was really popular and the media pushed the Beyoncé Cayenne pepper with lemon water diet to eat for a week 🤦🏾♀️.
Are you 25?
Oh, lord, I did that so much. Those cayenne pills fucked my stomach up, too
Master Cleanse !! I made it four days 😂
Damn I remember the Beyoncé cayenne pepper cleanse, too. How ridiulous is this 😂😂 the Media pushed it so hard.
@@mysharona6754 how much did you lose?
I wish people would stop acting so shocked when abbey reviews overweight people with disordered eating.
I know that she usually doesn’t, but it’s hard, as a thin person, to be on a platform like this and not come across as judgy, and I think Abbey has really grown into this skill!
I like that she has always discussed thin you tubers, because it shows that disordered eating can occur in ANY body, especially a body that people would look at and think “I want to look like that”, like VS models.
Thank you!
10:21 "It's a lot to digest." don't tell me that pun wasn't intended xD
😂
i was just about to comment that xDDD
I thought the same thing!
This sweater and neck line looks really good on you, Abbey.
Thank you!
“It’s a lot to digest” oh the dietician puns
I have never heard about the “last supper” mentality; yet, I have it. Thank you for the so helpful information :) Stay safe.
Glad it was helpful!
Working on starting to eat intuitively...mostly because I want my six month old to have a healthy relationship with food, so I figure I'd better model it. Thanks for the inspiration! 💕
Amazing! Keep at it. Makes me feel inspired and hopeful
Yay! I'm so glad
Keep up the good work
“There’s so much content on her channel. Most of it is her chewing.” Correction - Trisha doesn’t chew. She hard swallows every bite.
After watching a few dozen of Abbey’s vids I have learned so much! Today, two hours before dinner, I got my usual intense sugar craving. Turns out I was just really hungry. I ate a salad with a little cottage cheese and some hemp hearts, and now I feel great! Energized, satisfied, and my gut is happy from the healthy food. 💕
PS I learn the most from your convos with Alessandra.
Yum! I'm so glad they've been helpful!
I appreciate your videos. But lemme tell you right now, as someone who was addicted to intravenous cocaine and heroin, and got sober (I’ve been sober 5 years) it literally feels the same to be addicted to food. My food addiction was considerably less severe than my drug addiction, but it felt the same. So you can the jury is still out, and I respect that, as someone who has experienced both I can tell you the mindset and cravings and feelings of helplessness are the same.
Congrats on your sobriety!!
I feel the same way, was a cocaine addict and sugar was my first addiction. I have felt the same way other addictions-shopping, sex, etc. For me, addressing my childhood trauma, the thing that’s underneath all my addictions, is how I am healing once and for all. Congrats to you 💞
I'm sorry it's wildly off topic but I'm Italian and every time Alessandra Magisano appears I wish her name was Mangisano (eat healthy) 😅
the phrase "for some people even modest caloric restriction is going to trigger a binge" just caused me to actually physically cringe ... so true
oh boy when you mention Trisha you instantly activate beef in her eyes no matter what you say, hope it's worth it LOL
It’s worth the wake up call.
Timing’s actually pretty good I imagine Trisha’s pretty wrapped up with her frenemies meltdown rn
It’s worth it. She should hope Trisha shouts her out. It will send more ppl to this channel and most ppl don’t agree with Trisha even if we watch her haha
To be honest, I'm surprised she hadn't reviewed Trisha Paytas yet.
I hope it's helpful now
I feel like a bad person for saying this but every time I've relapsed into disordered eating and heard someone overweight say "no food should be guilt free, eat whatever you want" it scared me in to restricting harder. ED's are the worst man...
Me too
I feel this so much, thank you for sharing and putting words on my (and probably many other people's) emotions
As a plus size woman, I totally respect this!
Honestly
“Can I offer you a nice egg in this trying time?”
😂
I've been poisoned by my constituents!
i say this all the time so when she put it in the video i was rollin xD
Going for all the viral people lately! Not gonna lie, I love it and I admire you for fairly reviewing everyone regardless of how many or how few views they have💕 I feel like they need to be talked about most but aren’t (at least not in a serious manner) given their large platform/audience and the effect it can have ‘trolling’ or not. Love you Abbey!
Thank you! ❤️
she constantly talks about she has eating disorders such as binge eating and disordered eating and an unhealthy relationship with food
Ed are horrible. But she relinds me of pro ana girls who flaunt their ed like a lifestyle
@Alice Cooke swear AT you? Omg what a snowflake.
I never thought of calories as cumulative for a week! I loved the example with the numerical breakdown that you put up on the screen because I never considered that one day of indulgence wouldn’t ruin my entire week. I know it was just an example, but the concept really helped. Thank you!
Looking at it over a week, can also help you plan your intake. I have a party on friday so if I am at a 500 calorie deficit monday to thursday, i have 2000 extra calories to play with at the party.
Glad that was helpful!
@C true calorie obsession isn't good but I also know that calories and understanding calories isn't bad they are the energy units our body uses as fuel. Even if you dont count calories, saying I have a party on friday so I will eat salads for dinner this week or veggies with meat, to help balance out my intake on friday. There are ways to use the principle without focusing on individual calories.
One question though. Why do we (as a society) villainize people like Trisha and how her content triggers people but she is literally just out there doing her own thing, but think that people like Linda Sun are saints who are certainly more triggering for people who are in recovery or having an eating disorder. In her comments people are saying stuff like "See? The body is designed to move and work out!!", on her "Working out for 365 days" video. No, the body isn't designed to work out every day. We have evolved as a species. She doesn't have a healthy relationship with food either, so why are people like her so "amazing", but Trisha is so horrible?
The short answer to your question is that people are idiots. They see a thin person as healthy, regardless of what damage they are doing to themselves.
They see a person who weighs slightly more as unhealthy, regardless of what they are eating or what sort of other lifestyle choices they make.
Just part of our toxic culture.
I have a soft spot for Trisha. She is trying her best and she has battled her mental health on a public stage and been the punching bag for youtube and other platforms for years. Some of this she has brought on herself but sometimes I think she overly scrutinized for everything she does. I am aware of my personal biases for her and I understand your criticisms of her and validate your frustrations with her messaging. Despite it all, I am rooting for Trisha to get to a better place and be happy.
I definitely hope she is able to take control over her health
So do I - Trishas a nut but she’s an exciting nut! I love her though she makes me laugh so hard at her bone-dry humor
Sadly, 7 months later and she still isn’t better. I honestly think at this point she either isn’t trying or isn’t truthful about all of the issues she says she faces. It truly upsets me how trish constantly tries to use mental health as an excuse and a shield.
I mean we don’t actually have to talk about Paytas. We could all ignore her and assume she goes away when she stops having an audience. She is toxic in every realm of TH-cam that she touches.
Amen!!
Well that sounds good, she has influence and a following. It’s not ok to just leave people like this alone.
Well said.
People don't disappear because you want them to. That's pretty toxic.
@@aardfay it's toxic to want to deplatform a racist antisemite??? Yikes.
Unpacking and facing your internal dialogue around food is so important - the only way to repair your relationship with food IMO
If anyone watches her for diet advice they have more problems than just what they eat.
😂😂😂 or any advice!!
"It doesn't have to be all or nothing. It's a long game." Abbey
I think is such an important thing. People get caught in this last feast mentality, and when they break whatever extreme diet they are on, they feel like failures and binge. It's a horrible cycle and causes hate for yourself and food.
Interesting bird 😂 I can’t stop laughing and it just started.
😫
@Lehksea Love Trisha has been trolling the world since before TH-cam began. We can make a little joke about her, it’s ok.
@Lehksea Love Trisha is an awful person towards a lot of people. Her audience is made up of a lot of younger viewers who might not know she’s trolling. And I thought Abbey was very diplomatic with her choice of words. A lot of people don’t like Trisha because of her controversies, I think that’s all Abbey was referring to.
@Lehksea Love
How was she being rude? I don’t hear it anywhere.
I love how brave you actually are for filming all these videos. I imagine it to be really difficult to deal with potentially triggered fans who will overthrow you with hate but you still continue to upload great educational, honest videos. Thank you!
Thank you, I'm so glad they're helpful
She is doing better now! Her tiktoks about eating intuitively help me a lot she also openly talks about her disordered eating
'most of which is her chewing' 😂😂
😂
I have such a love/hate relationship with watching Trisha.😂 could you do Jordan shrinks next??
It seems a bit mean doing these on normal people who lost a lot of weight. They had to work so hard to get where they are now, and if they're in maintenance then what they're doing must be working for them! Someone who hasn't lost a lot of weight personally will never know the monstrous feat of huge weight loss so should just leave them be I think personally, unless they ask for help with their diet :)
On the list!
Yes!! I want to see one on Jordan shrinks
I love Jordan!!! But she has said herself that the way she lost her weight was not a good way and she gave herself an ED doing it the way she did.
I think jordan will appreciate it and be able to get some nuggets of knowledge from abby :) she's already pretty intuitive with movement so I think it could help her be more intuitive with food aswell!
Abbey uploads and I come straight here😉
😊
I really enjoy when Alessandra is in these videos. She provides such an interesting insight, and I love seeing two RDs talk about these issues.
I'm glad you enjoy that!
You're literally describing my behaviour a few months ago and I didn't even know I had an eating disorder💀💀💀
if you suspect that you have an eating disorder please reach out to a therapist! recovery is possible and i hope you will achieve it soon!🤗
I also think I have an eating disorder... I really struggle with eating but I'm still at a healthy weight so I can't bring myself to share it with my therapist because I'm not underweight yet and I don't look like I have an eating disorder!
@@ihnaghu the sooner you get yourself help, the easier it will be to stop it. Theres no need whatsoever to first get really sick, be kind to yourself. You are worth it!
@@sintara8442 thank you so much for your words! I finally managed to tell my therapist and it honestly felt like someone had lifted a weight of my shoulders... that was the first night I slept calmly in 6 months... I had no idea it was so heavy on me!
can't wait for the next frenemies podcast now
If there is one 😒did you see the one from today? She really crossed a line.
@@ashcatchum what did she do?
@@ashcatchum they both earn too much money and get too many views from it as to stop
This was very educational & accurate! I suffered with anorexia for 3 years that turned into severe bulimia
When she says "Oh I had a bad day so I deserve korean fried cheese" sure, but I agree but she needs other coping strategies to deal with those bad days that aren't just food
Trisha is so fragile she will lash out predictably, so I hope you are ready for that Ms. Sharp :(
abby knows what she is signing up for - trust me i don’t think this was unplanned
Have you seen the frenemies podcast how she lashed out on ethan. Its so sad to see how she cant control herself
@Alice Cooke I think Abby chose to do this for the audience that watches Trisha- not Trisha herself. This video truly reads as a warning to potential audiences of Trisha’s content. It seems to me that’s what most of Abby’s videos focus on-warning and educating the audiences and not the TH-camr themselves. Because honestly, most of the youtubers are too far gone to take anyone’s advice. But in many cases, their audiences are not. TH-camrs hold a great deal of power and influence, and I think Abby realizes that and tries to help vulnerable audiences with her videos. Just my opinion- I don’t think her main goal is to start beef or anything- her main goal is to steer away audiences from possible triggering or unhealthy content
@Alice Cooke No I think she’s just finally reviewing all the big names people have been asking her to do for a while. Just because someone has a mental disorder doesn’t mean they are immune to criticism especially if they want to put out videos like Trisha does, who has quite a young audience and a lot of influence over them.
Being here before the queen herself has started liking and commenting is a huge flex...
it's weird to me that you, me and Trish are all the same age. like how are you the same age as us. you're such a mom 😂 even though I'm also a mom but I mean I'm still like a child 😂 and I think Trish is too.
I know! Abbey is the best. So comforting to watch, almost like getting advice from my own loving and caring mom. Her kids are so lucky
"Pretty interesting.......
Bird" -Abby Sharp
Gosh....i love her
😂
I’ve struggled with binge eating for years, your videos have been really helping me lately especially this one. Thank you
I'm so glad they've been helpful!
I think another important part of these "accepted rules" with disordered eating is also what you do after you have your "cheat meal." Like if you stop restricting for one day then feel like you HAVE to compulsively exercise and work off all of your calories by adding extra work outs or physical purging, that's still an unhealthy eating even though you ~allowed~ yourself to have that bigger meal.
For sure
Abbey I’m so scared for you! We all know trisha is going to spin this to fit her own narrative. But thank you for being brave!
This is the healthy side of the internet Trisha isn’t gonna find her lol
Abbey is professional and classy... whatever negative thing that Trisha says about her- people will be laughing at Trisha.
I had a problem with food when I was young, then I had a problem with alcohol when I was a young adult, now I have a problem with cleaning. Either I clean way too much or not enough. We always find something to focus on. But Recently I think I’ve been truly settling into the balance of life and I don’t think I’m close to perfect by any means but at least I’m settling down. Base-lining is what my husband and I like to call it. No crazy peaks. Just a steady beet.
FINALLY a dietician who isn’t obsessed with diet culture, THANK YOU ❤️
My mother has told me one thing, that I have seen it happen to me every time I went on an extreme diet when I was younger : If you lose weight fast, you will gain them fast. I am so happy I stopped doing this and lost weight slowly and steadily.
Abbey, thank you for constantly bringing to light and helping diminish the stigma around eating disorders. The way you and your colleague discuss EDs is probably the most accurate way I have seen here as you do not focus on the food but more on the coping and the driving force behind this terrible illness. As a person who’s gone through recovery and has experienced relapse, I appreciate your videos and knowing you keep it real and push for a safe space. Keep doing great things!
Ps: have you ever considered doing a video on the stigma/judgment within the eating disorder realm itself? For example, as a person who’s ED was primarily restrictive, I found it very hard to empathize with people who were on the “opposite” side of the spectrum. It’s almost like there’s a competitiveness in the eating disorder world when you’re in the midst of disordered thoughts. This is a very loaded and vaguely written topic but I would love to see some discussion about this.
I literally died laughing when abbey said that most of Trisha's vids are her chewing lmao it's so funny but also accurate.
😂
She doesn’t even chew enough 4-6 chews per bite max
Hi Abbey i had something to say about this video: I used to be a huge Trisha fan. I was in a bad place at the time, and after i started getting better i had to stop watching her, Because everytime i did it started bringing me back to where i was. But what i wanted to say, is that when i loved Trisha i was at a place in life where i mentally couldnt eat due to being so down. But watching her eat and watching her enjoy it actually made me feel hungry for the first time in a long time. And i would eat while i watched her because it also made me not feel lonely while i ate. Everything you say in this video is true, but im still grateful that while i couldnt eat somehow eating with her and watching her enjoy food helped. Just my story! Cant watch her at all now though. Thanks for this video!
Watching these videos make me realise that I haven't had a very good relationship with food in the past
I hope they are helpful to you!
Lol, this is a rough day for Trish. Anyone else watch the Frenemies podcast earlier today? My heart goes out to her, she's been through a lot :(
What happened?
I hope she feels better I felt bad when she started crying.
But she brought it all on herself. It didn’t need to turn into the huge blowup she made it into
Quit being a simp.
@@slickrick4129 acknowledging that women have feelings and treating them like human beeings doesnt make one a simp
Trisha: I wonder why Im so erratic and depressed.
Her diet: 😑😑😑😑
So the best way to lose weight... is to go to therapy...
Welp if there was anything that could get me to go to therapy lol
Abbey! ❤️ know this is off-topic, but I just want to ask about what you’d recommend to people new to intuitive eating who learned restrictive eating not from dieting but from growing up with a lot of food insecurity. I have been finding the process of embracing intuitive eating really challenging but never find people talking about food restriction from a poverty and food insecurity perspective.
Two of my favorite content creators in one video! Excited for Abbey’s hot take.
I hope it's helpful!
5 min in and off topic but I really like the music choice for your background music! It’s the sugar that helps the medicine go down lol
Thank you!
I get concerned about her eating so much cheese at a time. That's the worst.
Those "Korean"-cheese on sticks (wth?) are HUGE. How is it possible to eat one, let alone 4?!? Ugh.
@@homla8116 smoke a joint its not hard then lol
what is scary about Trisha is she has thousands of impressionable teens that follow her religiously , IMO she is mainly a troll & makes a sizeable income by promoting bad behaviors, fabricated stories, etc. Loved the video Abbey & I am happy to see you are tackling these controversial Ytubers
I'm glad it was helpful!
I love how nice and considerate you are in your videos!! Also... where did you get your cup?!!! It's sooo cute!!
Thank you! It was a gift, so unfortunately I'm not sure where it's from. Sorry!
Abbey, in the article that you feature at 8:56, its conclusion literally says "The available evidence so far sugggests that there is little detrimental effect of weight cycling on current and future obesity and metabolic risk, and therefore weight loss efforts in individuals with overweight/obesity should continue to be encouraged". Why do you cite this article when talking about the 'dangers' of weight cycling when it says the opposite?
that’s what i was thinking
Weird, but the article itself seems to be contradictory. The results and conclusion blurbs are saying opposite things. I’d probably read the article in its entirety to try and understand the reason for citing it.
Because she thinks we can’t read lol
Omg hahaha that kills me you included a clip of Frank Reynolds holding that egg hahaha
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I feel like this is the equivalent of analyzing a cartoon character.. she (and others) is a trash characters on YT for the cash. I dont know much about her but all I've seen is just fake crap for views. Why bother dissecting her character as if it's real?
Your vids are all I've been watching for 2 weeks on lunch and before bed. I'm literally obsessed 😍 and my eating habits have gotten so much better for it!!!
Thank you!
I'm so glad!
I feel like Abbey's advice is mainly helpful for people who struggle to eat enough, not for people who have trouble with eating too much- which makes sense honestly given her background.
Some people, like me, need to lose weight- for a multitude of valid reasons. Our health and fitness journies look different (not to say that trish is a good example). We have to do some things in different orders and it just feels like she lumps everyone together in this one "listen to your body, eat intuitively" thing. Some of our bodies are literally lying to us on the daily. We have to build healthy habits with food (which technically requires SOME form of dieting to take place), but that's not always fun. It's frustrating because our bodies are used to things that don't give it what it need and it screams at us for the things it usually has whenever it wants. Like a toddler. So we have mental and physical addictions/coping going on.
It almost feels like gaslighting. It feels like the fat person problems are spoken about like they dont actually exist. "Your addiction isn't real, just listen to your body, eat intuitively (whatever that means to us), fat people dont need to lose weight, your body regulates to exactly where it wants to be, etc"
I just hope she understands how she sounds when she does these videos. It's very alienating to me as a plus sized viewer and it feels insensitive to plus sized people in general. It feels like another "One size fits all but it's really for skinny people" thing. Honestly I've realized that her advice hasnt been helping me. Gonna unsub now.
I think she's run out of actual youtubers she can criticize, so now she goes and makes videos about literally anybody that eats on camera and shames them. It's horrible.
Trisha never claimed that her way of eating is good and that her viewers should follow her. She has said that it's an addiction, and therefor this video is so insensitive and frankly cruel.
I hear you. I’m beyond frustrated with people who tell me to “eat intuitively.” It’s too harsh an example, (but not really), but imagine if you told an alcoholic to just “drink intuitively.” Like what??
Can you do Krocks in the Kitchen? They are a couple that is doing the whole food/plant based diet and they collectively have lost like 300 lbs but they have been struggling recently. Or any of the whole food/plant based/starch solution diet content creators on TH-cam. Love your channel!!!
I'll have a look!
This morning I literally thought about the fact that you haven’t done a Trisha video yet 😅 I have been heard.
I hope you enjoy it!
People’s health is THEIR business. I have not ever seen her having a severe negative impact on the eating disorder community the way other influencers have. As someone who has struggled with a restrict eating disorder, I have never seen those who also struggle, whether in the present or in the past, complain about Trisha’s eating in that way. Of course I could be wrong, but no body that I have seen ever seems triggered or even care about her diet (unless they are making fun of her for overeating, which is truly the only triggering part.) Talking about food or diet (choice of food, not “dieting”) will always trigger an eating disordered person, that is a given. But if anything, I and others are MOST triggered by people commenting on other people’s diets and judging it when they are not the person’s personal doctor or nutritionist, the way this video has seemed to do, as well as putting a picture of her putting food into her mouth mid bite in the thumbnail.. for what? If we are going to talk about her negative impact on vulnerable people, let’s focus on her attacking people for drama constantly and exploiting the mental health community/ other mentally ill people. Not her diet, or impact on the ed community when I have genuinely never even seen an actual disordered person severely triggered by this. People fear this girl apart by the millions and never hold back, and still I have never seen the ed community saying that she is severely triggering or upsetting in that way. I’m not a fan of Trisha in the literal slightest, but this all just feels unnecessary. That’s my personal view.
Oh god....this is going to be a whole drama
I love these videos I find them really educational. Are used to struggle with an eating disorder. But I got some counseling not for my eating disorder but for something else and after I received counseling for the other thing I felt more confident and I gained a lot of weight because I actually start eating again and I didn’t know how to properly eat. I’m in the process of trying to lose weight in a healthy way and I find these videos to be very helpful.
Ok but can we take a moment to appreciate how good Abbeys hair looks
Thank you!
I lost 20 pounds without any specific diet. I just ate more fish, chicken breast, vegetables and fruit. Less soda, added sugars in general. I still eat ice cream, fast food, and anything I want in moderation. I don't make any foods off limits. I also walk more. I definitely can agree with Abby. Much better way to live too. I have tried eating a very low calorie diet and it didn't last long. Didn't even lose any weight because I couldn't stand how I felt. I also was afraid I would develop an ED. I feel much better eating the way I do now and it was more successful.
I don’t get mad about Trisha because it’s clear to me that she has some serious issues.
I definitely hope she is able to take control over her health
@Alice Cooke there is a difference btwn shaming someone and holding someone accountable for their actions.
@Alice Cooke If Trisha is not emotionally stable enough to handle THIS response video, then she definitely should not be an influencer. This is one of the nicer ones I’ve seen reacting to her.
@Alice Cooke ok where did she shame Trisha?
@Alice Cooke I don’t think that Abbey’s intention is to shame at all. Abbey made this video (and others like it) to help viewers recognize harmful behaviors and become educated on how to improve their relationships with food. For better or for worse, Trish has influence over her viewers and a certain responsibility comes with that. I think Abbey’s “passion” comes more from a place of concern and care, and less from judgment toward Trish. I really don’t think Abbey would make a career out of helping so many people recover from disordered eating if she didn’t understand the sensitivity surrounding it and if she didn’t have a heart for people.
Is it just me or is Trisha looking totally normal and actually quite nice in the first shot there? Why does she need to loose weight? What am I missing?
I feel the same. I think she has a lovely shape and is perfect.
The first shot is from awhile ago. Right after the Jason breakup and she was working hard on a revenge body. She has gained quite a bit while she has been with Moses because he is willing to eat all the fast food with her every day. Jason was always into eating healthier.
No, she uses angles to look slimmer. Watch her on other shows.
i’m sorry but this comment totally rubs me the wrong way. i agree trishas body looks good in the first clip but does that mean she should just keep eating junk and nothing but junk every day? wouldn’t it be better if she looked that way while having a remotely decent diet? the way she looks doesn’t matter she’s still prone to so many issues. that’s what this entire channel is about educate yourself.
Would love to see you do a video on Bazaar's Everything Emma Chamberlain Eats in a Day!!
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I honestly don’t understand why people like this remain so popular on YT. Truly can’t imagine being drawn to the drama and dysfunction. My life is stressful enough, and I find people like Tricia incredibly stressful😅😅😅
I have a theory that it’s along the lines of watching Honey Boo Boo- it makes you feel better about yourself compared to such a dumpster fire, you know?
@@chelsea7229 lol I like your theory
I used to think my diet was unhealthy, but while watching this video i realize i'm actually not that bad. I eat twice at day, and it's mostly bread, eggs, rice, beans, veggie soup, steamed chicken or chicken stew, pasta with minced meat, tomato, onion & carrot salad + guava juice when we have enough money to buy fruit. I don't eat fried foods nor drink sodas. When l want something sweet, i buy bananas or papaya. I only get super hungry at night during my period days. So here's the thing, having a limited budget for food is the reason why i don't have a lot of options. My situation has forced me to stay away from unhealthy options like salty snacks or candy bars i used to love a lot as a kid. It's actually kinda sad, i can't even eat cake on my birthday cause it's so expensive where i live. I wish i had their money to eat more things. Lately, i have strong cravings for pineapple. Can't afford it tho. 😭🤧
I normally love these videos, but this one was a bummer for me. Because there are tons of rich influencers you review with clearly fake videos, and obviously highly calculated meals... Trisha for me is a real human. She is a regular person who consistently struggles with her body. And she doesn’t sugar coat anything. She makes a lot of people feel normal. Not everyone eats grain bowls for every meal. Obviously she struggles with BED and she is open about that. But also, it’s nice to see someone be honest. It’s easy to say “get help” and harder to achieve it. I’d take Trisha over a “perfect” influencer any day.
Trisha actually helped me stop starving myself because she was so body positive.
I think it’s important to show over and erratic eating as well as under eating.
Oh boy. This kind of videos actually help me remind myself how ridiculous some of my old ideas were. “Last-supper mentality” is, I recognise now, what had brought me from diet culture to the verge of engaging in ED behaviours.
When I was 12 i went to my friends slumber party. They were all a little thinner then me. I wasn't overweight but they were just smaller built then me. They were actually starting themselves, and doing it to get skinny. I wanted to be smaller like them, I always had bigger thighs, so I started doing it too. I didn't eat the entire time I was at the slumber party. My mom picked me up during the afternoon the next day and I was so hungry but didn't want to eat. She got upset with me and told me that my body is fine and that its not good for you to not eat. She was kinda angry with me for ever considering that, anyways my stomach was upset from not eating for that long and she poured me a bowl of cheerios. Just a random memory I have . That's how some younger girls are though, they are easily influenced so people need to be careful with the content they put out
can you review The Glow Up Diaries (a TH-cam series by Alivia D'Andrea)?
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