AA ,Step One For Begginners !

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  • In this video, I'm sharing Step One AA, the first step in the Alcoholics Anonymous program. If you're looking for help with your drinking problem, this is the first step you need to take.
    This video is for beginners, so if you're new to AA or need a refresher on the steps, then this is the video for you! I'll explain the steps carefully, and by the end of the video, you'll be ready to start your journey to sobriety!
    Terry G
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  • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
    @AnAlcoholFreeLife  ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Did you find this video helpful? Please LIKE, COMMENT, and SHARE with anyone who may benefit from this content and my channel. Thank you
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    • @nazywilson
      @nazywilson 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It was awesome, thanks for sharing!

    • @nikkijubilant
      @nikkijubilant 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you

    • @AlphonsoEarl-hq2yo
      @AlphonsoEarl-hq2yo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Step one thanks a lot I really needed that

    • @marthasoto4063
      @marthasoto4063 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, being sober 5 years

  • @earlterepocki1
    @earlterepocki1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I am the slave, it is my master. It’s a physical, mental, and spiritual disease, and I know that I know I need a strong foundation and I must get step one to begin and I know that I have to do this step one hundred percent. The first thing I had to do was stop drinking and using, and admit that I was an addict, I had trouble over the years admitting this as I thought I was just partying a bit to hard at the time until I hit rock bottom.

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Alcoholism is a really seeky thing.One day, we are having fun, and then out of the blue our lives are completely fuck.

  • @MCBoftheDMV
    @MCBoftheDMV 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Just got home from my first meeting, 24 hours sober, this video gave me a lightbulb moment when you said step 1 wasn’t eventful. That it is a process done one step at a time that rewards you along the way. I also was expecting something miraculous when I finally admitted my powerlessness over alcohol. Thank you for reminding me that with hard work, I really can change my life and that it isn’t over for me.

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @MCBoftheDMV It's far from over ,that for sure;)
      Your new chapters in your life have just begone:)

  • @Jack-il3qv
    @Jack-il3qv 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I was too chicken to go to AA but eventually I fell in the door and stopped clucking. The Twelve Suggested Steps were there to save my life. So were the people who demonstrated that they worked.

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Great positive share, thank you .

  • @nelliemoore3792
    @nelliemoore3792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hello Terry, your channel has helped me very much.
    I am powerless over alcohol and my life is unmanageable. I honestly admit powerlessness over alcoholism. I'm waiting to go into treatment soon, yay. God bless you.🙏

  • @maudemax1
    @maudemax1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you, Greg. I'm glad I found your channel. I've been sober for 23 years, and for 13 of those years, I was living an isolated, miserable, dry drunk life. I recently returned to the program and enthusiastically working the steps with my sponsor. Returning to the basics makes me feel like a child learning to walk or, in my case, returning to the human race. Thanks again, and God Bless.

    • @kayyoung4023
      @kayyoung4023 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🙏 ❤

  • @SmittysPlace
    @SmittysPlace 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Just found your page. Thank you. I'm almost 6 years down. Some days are good. Some not so much. Thought I'd start from the beginning again try and get a better understanding. Seams simple. Why a good sponsor or friend at the very start is so important.

  • @markg.4246
    @markg.4246 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have never "done" a "First Step". Step 1 was something that "happened" to me. I didn't plan it, direct it, design it, fabricate it, choreograph it, implement it, buy it, or "think" my way to it.
    "It just happened". What was the "It" you ask? A moment of peace, that I had finally reached the bitter end of my "endurance". There was no anger, no debate, and no "poor me".
    It was simply the realization that physically, mentally, emotionally, and morally, I could not live another day with the guy in the mirror! The "pitiful, incomprehensible demoralization" was OVER!
    To this day, I do NOT wake up and say, "I'm an alcoholic, and my life is crap". What I say is, "What a gift to be able to "live to good purpose", and be with other people who live in the solution, instead of the problem. Simple as that! All the best...Mark 5/8/1994

  • @firefoxhunter148
    @firefoxhunter148 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks mate for your words very true,I'm 2 day sober but was drinking for weeks it was so terrible,so many problems faced , it's completely disaster to face alcohol,I got evicted from house ended up on the streets ,I have big shame of myself about that drinking

  • @drycell183
    @drycell183 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As always Terry . Thank you for your great videos and insights. Your channel is so underrated and you deserve way more subs

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The channel is reaching the right people. The niche is small ,but Im growing, s-l-o-w-l-y :)

  • @lolliisabusdriver.4447
    @lolliisabusdriver.4447 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love this. I am a bus driver in MD.
    Happy joyous and free is for real. Struggling now but that's normal.

  • @louisecarduner6702
    @louisecarduner6702 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great video! I respect your honesty and transparency!

  • @titorodriguez3238
    @titorodriguez3238 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank You, looking forward to seeing more of your videos. Yes I have a major problem with drugs & Alcohol. Yes I’m an Alcoholic. And yes I feel alot better in admitting it. 👍

    • @garrydion8907
      @garrydion8907 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hopefully you will get to some meetings and start working the program. Good luck.

  • @lynnepaquette4124
    @lynnepaquette4124 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much for content and teaching us about the steps. Last time I was in AA and got really stuck and confused on step 3 and dropped out. I'm going AA another try. I'm desperate and hurting so so bad. I mistreated really nice kind people who kept forgiving me and I keep making the same mistakes. I'm an angry drunk if I have too much I can't drink like other people or control my intake.

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was an angry drunk, too. Just go back and keep an open mind and go easy on yourself;)

  • @TheJoshuamooney
    @TheJoshuamooney 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Well said and very helpful. Thanks!

  • @michelewilson9937
    @michelewilson9937 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you Terry ❤

  • @smudgecook3078
    @smudgecook3078 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So very helpful Terry. Thank you. I wish you all the best, Greg

  • @nelliemoore3792
    @nelliemoore3792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank God the music isnt over powering.!!

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm going to make sure the music is lower :)
      Where are you from ?

  • @mariohernandez7489
    @mariohernandez7489 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great message.

  • @rodelmar1
    @rodelmar1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you Terry!

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're very welcome, Happy New Year

    • @rodelmar1
      @rodelmar1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AnAlcoholFreeLife Happy new to you too!

  • @raylenerusthoven9604
    @raylenerusthoven9604 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for doing these videos!

  • @jeffreysmith4196
    @jeffreysmith4196 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for your share. Well put.

  • @antoinetanguay-normandeau7993
    @antoinetanguay-normandeau7993 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    good Video Man!

  • @jezsanderson9780
    @jezsanderson9780 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great video thanks for sharing.👍👍

  • @triumfant2
    @triumfant2 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank u for your videos ,

  • @anoysaikia3384
    @anoysaikia3384 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's been 11 years of heavy drinking for me. And now from the last two days I am suffering from heavy Diarrhoea & this is not the first time I am suffering.
    Yes you are right. When I start drinking I have no control when to stop. Before beginning I am pretty sure that I will drink only a small amount but after I get buzzy there is no limit to my drinking 😢😢😢 I have spoilt many relations in my life due to this habit. Now I am married but if it goes the same way, it will end up very bad.
    And also there is a history of alcoholics in our family tree who have died due to this. I dont want to end up that way

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Are you still drinking today

    • @anoysaikia3384
      @anoysaikia3384 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AnAlcoholFreeLife No. For the past two days I have not been drinking. And I want to quit this addiction. I don't want it to be too late . It will be tough but I want to quit it

    • @juliekonicke5329
      @juliekonicke5329 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your story sounds a lot like mine. Except I've been drinking on and off for 50 years. I have been sober for 10 days today.
      Reach out for help. I know it's hard, I hated needing to ask for help, but I'm so thankful I did.
      You can do it❤

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@juliekonicke5329​@juliekonicke5329 Hi there
      I found it very hard to ask for help When did my life start to get better and felt not so alone .

    • @anoysaikia3384
      @anoysaikia3384 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@juliekonicke5329 Hey... I have started again😢

  • @Morgan-pf8nu
    @Morgan-pf8nu ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Terry!

  • @JamesBland-n4r
    @JamesBland-n4r 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you

  • @aliceeckardt1694
    @aliceeckardt1694 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really liked this video! Thank you

  • @TheMuddyrivers
    @TheMuddyrivers 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    HGV and PSV driver of all categories here in the UK would love a chance to work in Canada. Do get in touch, your friend in fellowship Chris

  • @JohnWhite-r2h
    @JohnWhite-r2h 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks

  • @nelliemoore3792
    @nelliemoore3792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your accent, ❤️

  • @frankramirez4818
    @frankramirez4818 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When I was in High School and College I did not have a lot of friends. I often drank alone at home or went to Vegas, Mexico, National Parks, Spring Break, alone. I got into Insurance because as an insurance broker I could get involved in my community and help other people. Join the Chamber. Go to networking mixers at wineries, do the Young Professionals club and make new friends and do their events. Life is a lot better than it used to be socially. But now because I am older drinking has caused me to miss work, be in the hospital, detox and lose my car forgetting where I parked it and then the cops found it days later. But am I supposed to give up all my hard work to make the life I created to get sober? Am I really going to date sober, have no alcohol at my wedding!! Not have a real bachelors party? I am in a position that I can create my own Ski and beach trips. And for work I often friend new Business Friends for insurance by hanging out with them. Am I supposed to give up the fun life I created? It is hard. I am 37 days sober now but I am still going to do these things but I guess have moctails.

  • @YolandaLooez-of7gt
    @YolandaLooez-of7gt 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    A man with heart problems Celebrated 2yrs 🎉

  • @KeithGreenshields
    @KeithGreenshields 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Like the apostle Paul said he was powerless over the laws command and when it said thou shalt not envy, it became more envy no matter how hard he tried and became miserable as a result. He surrendered and Jesus restored him. The idea of powerlessness is "I can't stop drinking, when the desire comes, you can't refuse the drink" so you saying just stop is bs. The second and third step is the answer to having power from above to stop less you say you stopped drinking on your own power and if you did then you were never truly a alki.

  • @AlphonsoEarl-hq2yo
    @AlphonsoEarl-hq2yo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Do you also do meetings on zoom

  • @carlosarmandonavargarcias646
    @carlosarmandonavargarcias646 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I need help my life is falling apart for drinking

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can you get to an AA meeting .Or do you have anyone that you can talk to ?

  • @AlphonsoEarl-hq2yo
    @AlphonsoEarl-hq2yo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have 455 days clean and sober and I'm still struggling with step one

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What part of the step are you struggling with?

  • @jannorris4140
    @jannorris4140 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The only place i end up when i drink is .... alone. By choice.

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you still drinking?

    • @jannorris4140
      @jannorris4140 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AnAlcoholFreeLife Yes. frequently, and alot. But only lite beer ..after work and after the gym.

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jannorris4140 Are doing it all by yourself

    • @406MenaceRacecar
      @406MenaceRacecar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Heck, if you choose to be alone that's normal, there's no alcoholism in that. You chose to.

  • @Spacehealing
    @Spacehealing 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Community = No I in TEAM

  • @julianmcpeake1174
    @julianmcpeake1174 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey bro what stims you on hmu

  • @paulmcgill2754
    @paulmcgill2754 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    O train SUCKS!

  • @jordanlineger-nd5gz
    @jordanlineger-nd5gz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Call your sponsor get him to explain anonymity to you.

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I will thanks

    • @406MenaceRacecar
      @406MenaceRacecar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Get him to teach you what Step One means to AA, in the book. Not what you think it means.
      Try this if you didn't see what the book states in masterly detail
      th-cam.com/video/hJ9NieFzdjk/w-d-xo.htmlsi=NwTq-7fnnsaWfrVP

    • @chrisbrunelle39
      @chrisbrunelle39 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think you’re well intentioned. For those who are new, AA is not a place to plug jobs and there is the issue of anonymity. Those are traditions and they’re important for a lot of reasons. Best of luck to you.

    • @nikkijubilant
      @nikkijubilant 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1935 had less technology and way, way, way more shame, it was taboo and dangerous to talk about alcoholism and substance abuse disorder. We are not in that era anymore.

    • @nikkijubilant
      @nikkijubilant 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Here is a forum to carry the message. Terry G, there is the anonymity, a last initial. Not showing a face? Hmm, this is not a witness protection program. We are not in 1935 anymore.

  • @nathancranford6369
    @nathancranford6369 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can't stand AA.

    • @AnAlcoholFreeLife
      @AnAlcoholFreeLife  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It's not for everyone, that's for sure :)

    • @markg.4246
      @markg.4246 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ...but the negative consequences in your life are tolerable? Ok.

  • @jameswalker4704
    @jameswalker4704 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks