Why Dating Success is NOT All About Good Looks
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ม.ค. 2025
- Consider the commonly held belief: "Dating success is all about being good-looking." At first glance, this seems straightforward, but the reality is far more nuanced. Let's unravel this statement by examining four key reasons why it's overly simplistic and often misleading.
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Looking better is not the first thing..its how we FEEL about ourselves that gets an upgrade be it by finishing projects, improvements to our looks and health, becoming someone who doesnt NEED anyone to complete them. Upgrading our lives is where its at . Out "attractivness" i e ability to attract and be open to another increases
This does not acknowledge that if men don't like the wrapping, they won't be interested in seeing the gift inside. Looks matter to get people to want to know you. Even fish need bait.
True I don’t know why people keep denying that appearance doesn’t matter,well it does matter and big time ,i just laugh when someone tells me i wasn’t attracted to you because of your look but more because your personality,I am like you don’t have an X-ray personality scanner don’t you ?
true but our task as women is to be healthy and inspired, these 2 things make us beautiful from the inside out
Pat Allen says that men are attracted to pulcritude and virtue in a woman and you dont have to be a supermodel to have pulcritude, which many of them do not have
Then you don’t know what pulchritude is. It means Definitions of pulchritude. noun. physical beauty (especially of a woman) types: curvaceousness, shapeliness, voluptuousness. the quality of having a well-rounded body.
@@brandidamore1751read Pat Allen and report back you ignorant troll
@@brandidamore1751 you are free to keep wh0ring yourself, I don't care. I mean check yoursaelf for sTDs, public toilets like you are not disease free. You are welcome :)
I don’t know the last time I wore any make up, except lipstick/gloss. Yet, I had a gentlemen as me out on a date. It’s been 2 years since my husband passed away from Cancer. He only asked me in early March, but told me he has been watching me since October, he only had the courage in March to ask me out.
Good for U ...enjoy ❤
Great topic and I love the split screen!
Yes I agree
wow! I loved this video.
13:48 this is why I try not to dress up too much… 😂 poor me!
😮😅thank you for telling us
Hi guys
Can you please talk about how to deal with a man who look at other women, though he's pursuing me but as a woman I find it hard cause it makes me feel less than especially when he looks at women with big b**bs, while I'm a medium size , I never told him about this cause I don't want to look jealous or insecure but it really bothers me sometimes when we walk together and he looks at other women.
Guys.
I was fit and fine and single 20yrs not I can lose 20lbs now and still single. I’m am a flexible 6.
Some fine me to be beautiful in my personality. Because I don’t exude expectations or plots.
I’m shy, I don’t like certain approaches… like am under a microscope 🔬 😂
I’ve worked myself to middle age. I’m hiding in the country suburbs…
Work, home, grocery store, gym….
Isn’t enough but it’s so comfortable and peaceful.
I dated 3 guys just for weeks but I didn’t trust them because they all were too recent divorced, all three were handsome and fit.
I’m playful and laid back and boring.
It’s about peace, rest, fine dining, movies and traveling and studying the Bible for me.
So, physical attraction for men is less valuable than the emotional connection. Will this theory applies to a woman with a handicap?
As much as I appreciate the message… how did this end up feeling like as if the message was “feel bad for the pretty girls?l
it's a pretty strategic ad. "our unattractive women do so much better than your run of the mill attractive women."
U have to like whats on the mantle piece to poke the fire 😊
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That’s not true just because I’m single I start working out at the gym. I started working out because my doctor lifted restrictions on my health. This changed my whole outlook in life. I’m attracting more guys now.
Adam you're looking more muscular...chonky muscular hahahh....looking good tho
Men are attracted to youth and beauty. Women are attracted to power and success.
This is a low quality video because these “experts” never get to the point. Don’t pay these goofballs by the hour ladies😂
I think these guys are wrong. Tall, good looking men get action. Short, fat bald guys dont get much action. Who cares about their personality.
do you want a long term relationship or one night stands?
A short bald guy asked me out and we are having a great time. Never hurts to ask.
13:48 this is why I try not to dress up too much… 😂 poor me!