She blames her boyfriend for being obese
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You don't even need to be an empath to feel his depression
His face said it all.
He just looks stuck
yea it’s written all over his face, i may be an hsp but it’s clear how much pain he’s in
"How?" says it all
Amen
I hate when people put the blame on others when it's clearly their own fault
Same
FR THOUGH
Thats called Karen
frrrr
fr fr
Dude got rid of a huge weight on his shoulder. Like literally 🤣
Nice.
🎉😂
He got rid of a *HUGE* problem
She had a big impact on him for sure
And he didn’t even need surgery to do it 😆
She just doesn't know how lucky she is to have someone willing to even be with her. That dude is the prime example of taking one for the team.
He's an emotional abuse victim. Most don't know when they are in that situation. You know something is wrong but blame yourself from the gaslighting.
This is so sad 😢
She must have some major neck game for him to stay with her ass.
Laughing
"you are ruining everything"
Its crazy how she blame others for the shitty situation that she caused by herself
she's a femcel.
@Dazana I am a gamer, pretty good situation in life, I study, I workout, I play games, hang out with friends
@@Cosmicmorales Stop blaming femcels/incels just because an obese woman got mad with her boyfriend.
You don't know what happens behind closed doors between the obese woman and the man. Maybe they have a lot of heated arguments about other stuff like money, etc. and each side blames the other side. Maybe she is just mentioning her obesity in order to take out her anger at him during their previous arguments about money, etc.
From her point of view, she might believe that he is abusive because they get into fights a lot. Many of those fights end up with name-calling on both sides. So she views him as abusive due to the name-calling, and is using food as a drug to cope with his abusiveness.
@@dazana7843 why? Playing games is not going to ruin your life like being morbidly obese , you could use that time in other productive things but they are not bad and not make your life worse(unless they become an addiction)
I believe, 'blame someone else' is in the top ten of the fatties' must have bible, '1001 reasons/excuses why I'm fat' book!
I actually did the same mistake when I was obese. I blamed my family for my weight. Until I realized I was the only one who could do something about it and changed my ways.
I was 13, but that mentality really did some trouble. I am ashamed of that phase. Glad I changed.
Congrats to you for changing my brotha
@@lanie_loo Thanks, mate. Stay strong.
@@gabrielpretto5235 you too
at only 13, it WAS your families fault
@@jamesnesran2348 yeah exactly, parents make the kid fat not the kid makes himself fat
I remember this clip. The boyfriend supported her for the entire time, truly. He decided to quit her the moment when she was angry at him for her mistakes
What show/episode is this?
"You're really stressing me!!!"
*Grabs a large pizza*
Family sized
@@samusaran7317multi verse size
*eats the whole thing in one setting*
shes the reason therse hungry kids in africa
shes the reason pizzahuts a billion dollar company
I feel so bad for her partner. She needs to take accountability and start focusing on her own issues, to better herself. But these people can be incredibly delusional..
From her point of view, she might believe that he is abusive because they get into fights a lot. Many of those fights end up with name-calling on both sides. So she views him as abusive due to the name-calling, and is using food as a drug to cope with his abusiveness.
dont feel bad for him... hes dating a whale = he has no self respect...
@@SocialCreatureor she got what she wanted almost everytime and no one told her "No" A single time henceforth leading to this reaction
@@SocialCreature it’s literally still her fault 💀
She is narcissist
He is sitting there next to her by the doctor. He is in a relationship with her despite her obesity. He stays calm. Even when you scream, throw a tantrum and are rude and disrespectful. How much more support do you want?
Hope he left her.
He did, thank goodness. He was way too good for her.
I think that was the point of this video. He did
Car company screwed up: his fault.
She eats too much before meeting him: his fault.
People stare: his fault.
She refuses to follow the diet: his fault.
She kept blaming him for everything. Even after he left.
@Jame Gumb she blamed him for everything because he was the closest thing to her to blame that wasn't herself. These people can't take any accountability so need to project their failures onto someone else, unfortunately that usually comes in the form of their partner if they're lucky enough to have one.
I was in a similar relationship, EVERYTHING is your fault. It's either directly your fault because of an action or inaction; or its your fault because they are responding to something you did or didn't do. Zero accountability. And like you said, eventually you reach a point where you are sitting there listening to how much you suck, how you don't do anything, that are not supportive, etc.. and you look around and realize you have taken on so much responsibility, are lifting so much, and working so much that they are either straight up lying to you / manipulating you / or they are delusional.
Starts slow and builds with time. And it's 100% our fault for allowing and accepting it. Glad he (ultimately) walked away...
I like how she’s tries to get her mom to talk to him and he don’t even wanna deal with her shit also 😂
Bro, whoever you are, your videos opened my eyes, I left a relationship where it was all about her all the time. Now I am stable, working full time and studying at uni, I've done multiple courses and am now a google certified marketer. Every weekend I am on the grind, doing courses and getting out and living my life
I still watch your videos when I am having a bad day and they get me pumping.
Thank you man.
FOR THE BOYS!!!
Epicccc
W brother
Glad i have helped bro, keep going!!! 🦍🦍🦍
“Small-minded people blame others. Average people blame themselves. The wise see all blame as foolishness” - Epictetus
Not always, picture you get injured and you ask your father to take you too the hospital to get treated and refuses think you are making it up, so you end up stuck to a bed cause you fracture your spine an can't put weight on it.
Sometimes in life it is cause of another person.
@@renevil2105 in unique situations there can be someone to blame yes, and the person to blame is usually the fool.
Pretty sure is was Lizzo said that
this is not true.
what if i blame foolishness of my self?
I also noticed that it isn't just the daughter. Her mom's literally being an enabler to her!
Mom just wants a worker bee for her daughter
@@lestefani9517 bro your pfp though 💀
@@lestefani9517 I can't really blame her for wanting to pawn her off of someone else lol. Though it was her horrid parenting that has resulted in her daughter's current state.
How can someone make horrible life choices and blame it all on someone else that has only been caring and supportive? Shame on her
I feel so bad for the guy. If it was me, I would've just left the moment she started giving me drama and blame me for her screwed up life
She does all the talking. He says one well-timed word:"How?" And she tells him to 'stop?!" The entitlement on her is off-the-charts. No therapist can fix that. And the mother who raised her to be that way, just enables her more.
Welcome to a lot not all but a lot of modern women my man. there's video evidence on youtube just look for it. it's not the majority which is obviously a thank god thing but it is a very very vocal minority that are trying to ruin dating for everyone because they can't keep a man.
DBT could help
@@humantacos9800 Emphasis on could.
Therapies work only when people want to change, so people with strong narcisstic behaviours are mostly incurable because in their mind there is no way its something with them, but its everyone else.
@@michasokoowski6651 It's not narcissism with her. Read Motivational Interviewing and Motivational Enhancement Therapy from Rollnick and Miller. I always included that in the first DBT module.
At the end of this I looked at my wife, hugged her and kissed her and told her I love her. Neither of us are perfect but videos like these make us appreciate who we are to each other.
Noone needs to be perfect, to me perfect is boring... Just love, respect each other and give/take the same amount to each other
@@Anna-li8dyyep exactly, it’s more fun to improve yourself, even though it can never hit the perfect mark
Good man 👏
5⭐️
Now go on and give me grand children
As someone who eats because of anxiety i can confirm that its only her fault
One thing I've learned: Not everyone can be helped, not everyone wants to be helped, not everyone deserves to be helped. Having said that, choose where you will give support wisely...
wise words indeed...
Once I heard her mom, a lot of things made sense
Yeah, go tell her mom all she want, the way a kid copes. Man needs to face no countless bs he's been to. Free him from the difficulties of those who cannot be accountably careless about their well-being
I didn’t hear a dad either.
Should’ve said: Nope not happening, ya leaving my house by tomorrow. I’m not getting blamed for some bill shit you decided to do.
"But if you could just cooperate a little longer, I don't see how it's going to hurt you."
This shows that her mom doesn't give a shit about him at all.
He's clearly hurt by this relationship, a lot, but the only thing she could implied was "I don't care about you. Be my daughter'slave, so that she might improve her condition."
From what I saw in the episode it was more like - “be my daughters slave so I don’t have to come cross country to do it myself.” She did not want to be bothered with her daughters crap and I can see why 😂
@@butterlettuce4259 Oh, I see. That's even worse 😂
Imagine being a grown arse woman n complaining to mom like a child, thts the moment he knew he gonna leave.
This poor man had enough and rejected her.
It brings me the tears that im so proud of this guy's guts coming together.
Hey I remember when TBYS talked about this in one of his videos. It was very informative and helpful, It taught me how to avoid these problems and how to be a better person
This mentality is extremely damaging. If you blame other people for your problem you will always have that problem, because you will always find something to blame. For example, I became a severe alcoholic because of a breakup, but my ex-girlfriend didn't make me drink, I chose to, and I later solved it. It's hard to do, but you have to look inwards if you want solutions
Congrats on getting sober!
It's the femcel/incel coping mechanism.
@@BartlebyHiggensworth Thanks, brother
@@CosmicmoralesYou do not know what happens behind closed doors between the obese girlfriend and boyfriend. Maybe they argue a lot with each other a lot about money, etc., each side blames the other side. Maybe she mentions her obesity only to take it out on her boyfriend for the previous heated arguments about money.
From her point of view, she might believe that he is abusive because they get into fights a lot. Many of those fights end up with name-calling on both sides. So she views him as abusive due to the name-calling, and is using food as a drug to cope with his abusiveness.
Stop projecting the experience of the @MidgardMessiah's alcoholism onto incels. It is a myth that incels are entitled to sex. @MidgardMessiah probably never blamed his alcoholism onto his ex-girlfriend. I don't think anyone would blame their alcoholism on their ex-partner just because of a break-up.
@@SocialCreature Indeed, I never blamed it on her.
Good on him for standing his ground with no hesitation. My man is now free at least
Good, fucking Chad.
Don’t label him as slave. My man is a gem to even sit with that woman. Respect bro❤
Slave
"I'm so stressed out because we fight all the time!" Dude is literally chill and waits on her, putting up with all her emotional abuse.
I remember this long ass video, she says she barely eats and no way she doesn't lose weight and then confessed that every day she goes to mcdonalds and eats like 3 burgers
Lmao
LOL
She probably does not know that it will take work to loose weight
@@plokoon2128 no, she's allergic to hard work. But not McDonald's
Did she want to lose weight or gain more weight?
Her blaming him for her obesity is like blaming a gun victim for being shot.
be kind always, all truly strong people are kind
but kindness is not submission, by first trying compassion and support in the obvious way and that failing he had to leave her alone, it wasn't malicious, or it shouldn't be. He should wish her her best and live his life free
I can relate. I had a toxic manager who had a lot of red flags. Some people told me to stay but I'm so glad that I quit my old job.
Same here man, toxic manager just put you down mentally it just like you can't do anything right, in my case they even add some drama in the mix, playing victim and spreading false rumors, good to see you finally free from them 👍
@nerdstudent8852 Thanks, man. It was so draining just being with him. Quitting that job made me feel a huge sense of relief.
Her: "You're ruining everything! How dare you? Us fighting is the reason I'm fat!"
Him: "Okay, I won't fight with you or be involved with you anymore. We're done."
Her: shocked pikachu face
Like, girl, if you tell the man who is trying to help you that he is the problem, he's gonna solve it by taking himself out of the equation. And then you're still gonna be fat, but jow you'll blame it on being sad that he left. Keep your head high, kings, you'll find someone who appreciates the support one day. And don't forget to support yourselves.
Her: “You are the reason why I will die.”
Me: “Well hurry up then.”
The chair prepared its whole life for that moment...
Dude I really hope he left her for good. Nobody deserves to live like that
He did in the end
@@ooljimboloogood for him I hope he’s doing well in life
“You’re ruining everything!”
*_Ah yes, as if he was the one shoving all that garbage food down her throat.”_*
I wouldn’t be mad if he left her right that second. He doesn’t deserve someone like that~ she needs to work on herself alone if she’s bringing him down like that
Everyone deserves a chance, but not a second one
My mom watches this show regularly, and a lot of these people actually work hard to lose weight. Dr. Now is a chad.
The old doctor doesn't mess around
@@iamthegreatiam2075 I think they definitely need surgery because of their skin
@@iamthegreatiam2075 I'm not an expert. Maybe they were too fast in losing weight?
"How." I think that was the moment he finally gave himself permission to walk away. Good for him.
If someone abuse your kindness, use you, blame on you, steal your freedom and manipulate you, do not talk with them - just walk away peasefully.
I spent way to much years with toxic people, cuz of bullying in school, I don´t to be alone. But as I realised, that they´re toxic, I walked away.
And when they come back to you, with a lot of excuses, don´t believe theit excuses and ignore them. They know, what they´ve done to you.
Right now I´m a loner and I enjoy my freedom, cuz being around with toxic people is more worse.
Stay strong and live you own life! Your a free person, don´t you ever forget that!
"No amount of Therapy will make this moment ever be okay."
saying "no" may be hard but its the best answer to most of the problems
linxyc might post ws but says w comments
The fact that she said it out so smoothly and naturally just sums up everything, she has been blaming others for her entire life, that's why she is carrying all those weight.
Run. You have nothing to gain and everything to lose
It’s always nice to see people get out of the situation their in. But I don’t see her getting out.
It is necessary.
Also very mature of him to walk away and not let emotions get the best of him. 🔱🔱
Our brother can certainly find someone better 💪
I don't have any energy to deal with the delusion of others any longer
Solid channel you got here Mr Gains. Keep it up!
I‘m having issues with two people of my class because I try to be nice all the time but they keep joking about me and the worst thing is that they do it when they are next to me. I‘m bigger and stronger than them but I don‘t want to get in Trouble. People like this really are stopping you from improving and try to put you down.
F*ck them. Be the better person.
Same some kid in my class keeps being a nuisance as he jokes around and tells everyone around about my secret and tries to get kids in trouble for saying words they did not say
You gotta learn how to look right thru people. I have been antisocial for years probably as a result of having a personality like my grandfathers. Extremely direct but if he didn't like nan's friends, he would go hide somewhere else in the house or shed until they were gone. I can ignore people right in front of me and have even developed a skill of slipping out of a place totally unnoticed (despite being 6'2) if I don't feel like being there.
Sadly if you don't want confrontation, just ignore them, but also don't shy away from them. Don't be nice to them, don't smile to them, don't laugh nerviously if you feel uncomfortable by their words. Just stare at them and when they (or someone at the same place) eventually ask you what's wrong with you, say it loud and clearly that they are fucking assholes and don't want to be involved with their immaturity. If then they mock you for taking it to heart, tell them "yes, piss off". Continue that honest and no-nonsense attitude and I'm pretty sure they'll leave you alone. Good luck.
You could always buy a tube sock and fill it with nickels for every joke they make. Save it up for a fun playdate during the summer
In Eastern Europe, Middle East and Africa couples argue a lot more, much higher divorce rates as well as unsatisfaction, but they're not fat. Stress is a bad excuse to get fat.
They don’t have food like we do in the US. They intentionally poison us which is why we are getting dumber and fatter by the moment. If we still manage to survive the illegals invading then we will look like the humans from Wall-E
There are absolutely not higher divorce rates in the middle east, eastern europe, and Africa than in the US. In most middle eastern countries divorce is not even an option without jumping through a lot of hoops. It's often easier to get your wife stoned to death than leave her amicably.
"its easy to blame but its hard to change"
Damn respect for him at the end, he wasn't so easily manipulated. The daughter is crazy, the mother seems reasonable and good intent but is manipulative.
Cow: “NOOOO!!! Now I have to manually lose 250lbs like a normal person instead of other people doing it for me, costing me as much as a vacation trip!”
Guy: “Yes”🗿
“This is all your fault!”
LIVE Husband/Boyfriend Reaction: 😐
She almost said MOOO instead of NOOO!
She belong to the -streets- uber eats.
👀😹
Mad props for the guy standing up for himself and saying "No." At this point he realizes he cannot help her.
"Support it a little bit longer" means, stay at her side until she lost weight feel confident and finally replace you (for a black guy)
I know some black guys lack respect for themselves but i doubt they want a whale as a gf
The acorn did not fall far from that tree, plopped straight down, the way the mom was gas lighting the boyfriend was almost exactly like the woman except with less of a tantrum.
This is textbook “time to leave to her” scenario right here.
Poor guy. Hope things work out well for him.
There comes a time when you just need to realize a person isn't going to change, and that you need to move on. Glad he figured that out when he did and got out
" I pay my bills my bills are paid 💰 "
Im just glad he finally stood up for himself and told her and her mom no. That woman and many others nowadays have issues with accepting accountability for their life being shitty.
Run, man. Run for your life.
This One speaks for itself. Poor guy deserves better
If you always blame others for something you did, then you won't succeed in life.
“If it’s me being with you that’s holding you back I’ll make sure you have no limit.”
Blows my mind an adult can act like this. Throws a temper tantrum for not getting her way then calls her mom to tattle.
This is what zero accountability looks like.
“No.”
It was just one simple word yet a powerful and effective one.
This gives me, "it hurts me to see how corrupted you are." Vibes
I was obese. I could of blamed everyone and everything but at the end of the day it was my fault i was that fat. I decided to get healthy lost 100+ lbs and have kept it all off for 5+ years now
Good for you! 🤙😎
Assuming you're a male. Real men don't blame others for their problems they deal with it themselves like you did. It's only a thing among women to lie to each other that they look good when they're overweight or blame their relationships for things going wrong in their lives.
@@ybone8709 💯
You're never gonna succeed if you don't have the determination.
Don't blame others for your failure.
"Don't blame others for your failure" could be a straw man. A lot of times you think people are blaming other people but they are not. Maybe they were explaining not actually blaming. Maybe they sound like they were blaming because they were texting you instead of talking to you (texting lack nonverbal cues like smiling so it is easy to perceive the texter as mad when they are actually not.)
@@SocialCreature that’s still your job to communicate and clear any misunderstanding. stop making excuses for other people
Women always blame men for everything they do wrong, society teaches them that by playing the victim they can get away with almost anything.
@@SocialCreaturesounds alot like excuses for weakness.
I went to high school with Maja. I saw her get upset like she did in this episode but she was justified. We had science together freshman year. She was big back then too i say high 300 low 400 pounds. In our science class there was someone in our class that would always give her crap. She did drawings for a project in another class she had and he wrecked the drawings. This same guy put a ketchup packet on a chair that she was about to sit on and she sat down on it not knowing that it was there. She got really upset (justifiably so) cried and then took gum that she was chewing from her mouth and then went and hit him in the head with it
i think that guy has lost the will to live, he should just run and don`t look back
I would’ve been like, “Well, if it’s my fault, then I’ll just go.”
Incredible channel for people who have grown in this world in which if you are a man that you are something like a slave and you have to listen women, weak people etc. this channel helps to understand that it is not a right way.. greetings from Poland
POLSKA GUROM 💪
She attached to a machine that keeps her alive, the refrigerator 😂😂😂
This one of MANY reasons why I learn who the person is and how they treat others, before I even consider having a relationship with them.
I've been lucky enough to have 2 relationships go without many issues, and had a lot of fun with them
I just hope that younger people don't get into a abusive relationship, so they're aren't mentally or physically hurt at a young age.
YOU FORCED THE FOOD IN MAH MOUF!
In all seriousness, I hope the dude finds true happiness. He needs it after living with this hamplanet.
Hippopotamus 🦛
@@Dav624what's the difference between a hippo and this lady?
Hippos are amazing creatures that I don't envision being cut up and dumped in acid to reduce my blood pressure.
This is like the equivalent of a robber blaming the victim when he's brought into court, saying "you're the reason I rob you"
You put the cookies in there!
-Bill Burr
I had to reach breaking point once to understand that me being nice to everybody wont bring me peace, it brought me despair because others expected perfect help but no one returned the favor and even felt entitled to my "services"
Ended up cutting all ties to all people and wait if anyone actually needed me or were interested in my well being, ended being a resounding NO, they just used me because i was available
Funnily enough no one cared when i started becoming an asshole to those that demanded my help, they were just "eh" and kept.on their way
Since then I've been in a much better state of mind, at times i tend to regress to the point of servilism, but as soon as i am demanded things, i send them to fuck off and keep doing my thing
Stay Strong Brothers!!!!!! ❤️💪🏼🙏🏼
If this last "no" was a breakup - I would like to congratulate him. :D Not sure why he waited so long to do this! Guys, if you become broke and homeless, almost any girl will dump you immediately, so why do you stay with girls who are sooooo overweight and no willing to change?
probably because he did his best and hoped for her to change but yeah that didn't happened but at least he did his best, no regrets there.
It’s videos like this that make me proud of the relationship I’m currently in
tbh the editing is something i would see in a ytp
At least he had some self respect in the end imagine your acting tougher than men when you can even stop to be emotional dependent to a woman.
The only workout this women gets, is her heart trying to keep up.
It's always difficult for some people to take responsibility... but when they do that's when progress can be made!
Respecting others is important, respecting yourself even more so.
My man is free to live a furfilling life now
He feels bad about leaving, which is inevitable, but that relationship, at least at this point, is toxic. She needs to figure out who she is and what she wants. And he needs to give himself a chance to date someone else that is not emotionally burdening him.
Why would he possibly feel bad about leaving? I wouldn't feel bad about leaving her 100 miles from civilization.
@@dbond0018it’s psychologically proven that when you’re in love, the part of your brain that detects the red flags in a human being is usually less active, which is extremely dangerous if you’re in a relationship with such a girl shown in the video.
i’m glad the guy left the relationship, and i hope he finds someone better.
I don't know who she is or what she wants, but I know she will likely need a hole dug by a backhoe at some point.
If someone does not want help they will not get help. Nothing short of imprisoning her will help her, and free will is her right, as it should be. He needs to leave her and see a therapist who can tell him that. He needs someone to tell him he’s right and she is abusive. I’m so tired of seeing people’s lives ruined because of a gaslighter like her. Sometimes you HAVE to give up on someone. It is what it is.
This is definelly the best episode from this series, also the name is mortal weights i think
Even if he stresses u or smthing emotionally is inflicted on u, the fact u have power to change ur life is still there. Welcome to life mf. Its not rainbows. Stay hard.
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Losing weight is not easy at all. I'm in month 2 of exercising and I'm not motivated to do it everyday but I do it anyways and I feel happy with myself that I'm doing something positive but when you put the surgery cancelation on him is absolute bullshit. Be a real adult instead of being a child and go to the gym and be happy, it'll take time but the results will come if you stay with it. Stay focused brothers 💪💪
Losing weight is super easy. Just eat less calories than you burn. It’s literally that easy. Lmao
Amen
lol I am just starting to try to loose weight. I have lost 5lbs so far and I am still working hard. It might not be a lot for some but it is a big accomplishment and is a good beginning! surgery is not a good solution because if you don't break you unhealthy habits you will end up the way you were before you had surgery and just have a scar and down a lot of money.
i lost 3kg in 2 days at below 10 percent body fat lol
@@danystyle6665 good job keep up the good work man
She deserves to be alone for the rest of her life.
Probably 3 years.