Stepmom Falsely Acc*sed Me of Assa*lt to Stop Me From Getting My Dad's Inheritance When I Was 21....
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- Stepmom Falsely Acc*sed Me of Assa*lt to Stop Me From Getting My Dad's Inheritance When I Was 21. My Dad Believed Her & Decided to Cut Me Off, 7 Years Later My Dad Found Out the Truth.
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Your dad pulled an Avatar “When the world needed him the most, he vanished.”
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bro is NOT Aang 😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙅♂️🙅♂️🙅♂️
At least Aang had a valid reason to vanish... a 12yo who ran away from home because he was about to be separated from his father figure. Also, he was too young and inexperienced to do anything and would've probably perished in the Fire Nation's attack, had he stayed.
LOL but its so funny just imagine "Father The Last Believer"
water, earth, fire, and air. long ago the "5 Nations/people" lived together in harmony then everything changed when "Gina attacked" only the "Father" master of all "Decisions" could stop "Gina" but when "The OP" needed him most he vanished (Just like the OP's trust in his dad)
But the avatar was 11 year old kid who didn’t even ask for this. But this dad is an adult who chose to have kids and not believe them.
If someone only “comes clean” when there is money on the table then they’re obviously lying
Especially when not 5 minutes beforehand, Gina attempted to contest the will. A brick wall wouldn't be dense enough to fall for that obvious lie, but OP's dad is a special breed of idiot.
@@SnowyWolborg i love the double standart on the greece holliday ...
so they can mock his body all day but he can't fight back once ? "man" can't say anythink to women body ? loool
@@TelManothHexperax fairly common sentiment, *especially* amongst feminist men. No matter how badly she attacks, and defense is evil
@@SnowyWolborg He isn't stupid, he is evil.
The father will always be terrible for not believing Op. And nothing he does will ever make things right.
When the world needed him most, he disappeared.
Except leave his entire inheritance for his son.
@@michelleho3034 throwing money at emotional/trust issues will just make it worse.
He and his side of the family believed that gold digger lies.
It's way too late to apologize. This isn't even about the inheritance. This whole problem has been going on ever since he got married to this woman. The father can't go back in time and #undo all of that.
OP: "She's lying, listen to me!"
Dad: *lol no*
Some years later
Dad: "I was wrong, forgive me!"
OP: *lol no*
What does op stands for
@@devotizeOriginal Post/Poster
@@devotizeoriginal poster so the main character/person who is telling the story
Best summary ever 😅
Should hv said womp womp 😅
I respect OP immensely for not forgiving the dad. We had a lot of doormats on this channel lately, so it’s nice to see stuff like this, especially since I despise people who don’t hear you out when you’re being accused of terrible stuff.
I don't care if you spoiler it, i'm glad this OP aint no 🐱
If he did forgive him, that wouldn’t make him a doormat. Him solely forgiving his dad isn’t being a doormat. If he forgave then welcomed him back into his life, then he’d be a doormat.
Me personally, I’d forgive him, but still want nothing to do with him. Not that I’d hate him but I wouldn’t love or trust him anymore
Rather op forgave or didn’t forgive, he wouldn’t be wrong either way.
Personally now with all the info the OP has he should sue Gina for slander along with other things for all she has done.
Ah yes, so nice to watch a father lose his only son because of his mistakes, especially when the son doesn't even give the father a chance to ammend for them. Like seriously the father did wrong sure but he didn't deserve to die alone and depressed only wanting to see his son again.
Why are so many people acting like the father is a terrible person when he was just in the wrong and got punished for it?
At that point you literally do not even want a family, you never wanted your dad's love if you're that willing to get rid of him
@@whole_wheat_soup9321That's completely untrue. While I will say that people really overuse the whole "doormat" thing (not everyone willing to forgive and give another chance is a doormat) that also doesn't mean that because karma hit the dad, he has to be forgiven. It would be one thing if OP was mad over a single incident but OP suffered under his father's inaction for YEARS. That hurt doesn't go away with a simple apology and OP isn't obligated to give his father a chance when he already had many chances to make things right. Is it sad the father basically lost everything? Kinda. But it was his own fault and OP doesn't need to forgive him or give him a chance for that.
Also it's completely unfair to say that someone never wanted a living family just because they weren't willing to wait DECADES to get it. People want things, then give up on waiting all the time. That also applies to affection.
What a horrible dad, he never stood up for his son and he will never change
u cant say that when the nigga was blind. to the fatha he thought he had a loving family he didnt know ths bs plus he said the dad was tryna process her comments wild comments like that isnt gon make you think straight you act like the fatha was completly terrible towards his son judging from the context he wasnt the dad was just a lil off in the head.
Ya, he clearly doesn't deserve to be called dad, but Marshs(OP gf) is gonna teach and prove to him that what Ginna did is just normal woman things, can't wait for him to go through that again😊
@@lifeisamess8100do you honestly believe what you just wrote I mean seriously that would be like a women named nancy saying all men are abusers cause one abused nancy
@@lifeisamess8100 I apologize if you had a terrible mother, but I have many women in my life who are full of integrity. A completely illogical over-generalization of women. It's quite obvious that the woman in this story is just a narcissistic psychopath.
It’s also OPs fault for not speaking up, if he did that her character would have been tarnished.
"Oh your father has suffered enough! You're being stupid!"
Me: Oh boo hoo, cry me a fucking river, here's ten cents, go call someone who GIVES A DAMN!
💀💀who let this man cook 🔥🔥🔥
Am gonna continue "
"Too bad so sad womp to the wompiest fucking sad womp womp oh put the fries in my back boo ho you are the reason shampoo has instructions and u are the reason that disappointment was discovered to bad so sad"
@@Xrk-krxthe your the reason shampoo has instructions killed me 😭😭🙏🏻
@@rayroo4363 I forgot to add that she is the reason that world hunger was a thing 💀
Even giving ten cents to that manipulative prick is too much especially since the father winded up keeping all his money and property in the divorce anyway - and the father is a manipulative prick because he used his own side of family to harass OP both when accusation happened and years later for forgivingness.
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
that father was obviously the reason for his parents divorce... can a human being be so willfully oblivious in their own failure as a parent?
Bro was a simp emperor
Yes, yes they can. And I speak from experience being said child failed by her parent.
Absolutely correct. I was failed by both parents. @rainbowmommelissa
@fluco98 I'm so sorry. I hope you were able to oull through and came out stronger 💜
@@rainbowmommelissaI feel so sorry for you. I was lucky with my parents, they are the best, but my dad was as unlucky as you. His parents tormented him and gave their best to make his life as bad as possible. They broke his heart and even after that they still tormented him. No one would or could believe how messed up things like this are until they don’t see it by themselves.
Edit: He did everything for them, he was a fantastic son who deserves better parents.
Glad op didn't forgive him. No one is owed forgiveness.
If it were you, you wouldn't forgive them for any reason, right?
What does op stands for
@@devotize Original Poster
i remember not knowing and nobody would tell me n for some reason i just couldn't put 2 and 2 together until suddenly i had a light bulb go off and realized it probably ment original poster @Hinatsuru-San
@@gluteusmaximus09 I wish it was as easy for me to figure out because I literally had to search on google-
Child abuse , this father is blinded. This kid should never go to the father's house, CPS should be involved. Is this man this blinded so badly.
Sometimes it's just really hard to notice, I lived with a upper class family for 2 months. Months after I left I was told the daughter was being abused by a family member and the police were investigating. I wish I could say that I saw any signs, but no there wasn't anything I could pinpoint even though we shared the living space.
No, he isn't blind, he decided to ignore it.
I'm glad OP stayed away from her evil stepmother and stepsister. And your father is very bad “When the world needed him the most, he vanished.”
I'm glad OP stayed away from her evil stepmother and stepsister. And your father is very bad. “When the world needed him the most, he vanished.” How did OP manage to stay strong through all of this?
The OP is a guy
He picked some random wh0r3 and someone else’s children over HIS ONLY CHILD
Not only is OP's dad a horrible father, he's also an idiot. The step mom waits until money is involved to make these claims? He should have known right then and there she's a gold digger.
Yeah the dad sucks. She literally just did that on the spot after arguing about the inheritance with him. It was so obvious she was lying and he believes her anyway.
i can imagine the dad secretly harbored hatred for OP for the same reason as gina stated, and looked for an excuse to "justifiably" get rid of him
Family members say the dad is going through unnecessary pain, well OP went through unnecessary pain way longer and before the dad dealt with. They're ignoring his feelings. Dad is a downright simp who doesn't love his son. If something like that is called out, investigate, don't jump to the end.
'Dad' side of family is a circus.
"He suffered enough."
Pfftt, how about "No."? That's barely enough.
And what about OP, who suffered for years? Get tf outta here...
They have thick faces to say those words after they call him pervert over his mum's cp
Forget about how long someone has suffered in comparison. It’s not anyone’s place to demand forgiveness of someone who’s been hurt, especially not the person who’s done the damage.
That kind of “forgiveness” is only meant to ease someone’s conscience and NOT about healing the other person.
Op should've said lil bro womp womp I dont care about your damn family anymore
Damn the same wife that he defending literally cheated on him and the same son he didn't want anything to do with abandoned him.
Now he has nothing, no wife or kids.
That is his Karma 😂
I'm glad you spoiler for me, Fuck that dad
Now that he has nothing, its probably best if he gets revenge on his wife. Is he really gonna allow her to live happily????
@@thousandyardgavri2785 who knows and who actually gives a f**k about him
@@thousandyardgavri2785he made his bed he can lay in it. It’s that simple. Both horrible people.
😂😂😂😂😂😂# No Sympathy
Honestly, I hate it when some women use the SA victim card on innocent men and OP’s father lost his title of being a father when he believes his second wife without proof. He could be lonely for all I care, but that still doesn’t erase the past.
This is why when a woman talks about her SA experience nowadays, I always assume she’s lying unless there’s proof or anything that can prove her story. Automatically believing every woman’s SA stories without giving it any thought is EXTREMELY harmful, both to the man she’s accusing and the REAL sexual assault victims who are afraid their voices won’t be heard since most stories are fake and ruins their credibility.
Because the son provided proof? It's almost like both sides had equally 0 amounts of proof and the father was torn between who to believe, his son or the woman he loved. He just chose wrong. I get not wanting to see him during that time, but he never did anything wrong enough to justify complete no contact even after EM left, and when the dad is genuinely sorry for what he's done.
Being punished this harshly for obliviousness is ridiculous
@@whole_wheat_soup9321 It shouldn’t have come down to just outright believing one side on the spot then lmao if he had any backbone then he would have told them both he needed to think on it but instead he neglected his own son and cast him aside for his whore of a wife, obviously knowing him far more than her and doing irreversible damage to his mental health. If you think the father should be pardoned because he “feels bad” then you’re no better than his god awful family members dog piling on OP.
@@whole_wheat_soup9321 Because what reasonable person would expect the innocent party to prove their innocence? Like "Oh, yeah let me just pull out this mountain of I didn't do anything that I had prepared in case some psycho accuses me of something I didn't do..." Wonder why she didn't go to the cops with the accusation... That would have worked to get rid of him as well, right? Right? Or would they have expected her to maybe have something more to back it up than "Because I said!"
@@davidrose8777I agree. With it being years ago, FALSE, and it of left field. How do you have proof to counter an SA accusation, in the heat of the moment, with the clarity of mind to get you point across in your early 20s. Nope, not happening. Maybe I've personally seen too many women weaponize DV and SA accusations. But I wouldn't buy that being thrown out there like that, at least as written, on a child I've helped raise and said child showed no inclination towards deviant behavior. I'd have called the police, even if they couldn't do anything, just to gauge the wife's reaction. Especially because that accusation came after not giving my step children EVERYTHING.
Gina's bed skills and 🐈 must be top of the top tier for this poor excuse of a dad to be so dismissive of his child's needs.
Some men just can’t be alone. That’s why so many of them remarry so quickly after divorced or being widowed.
I think it's more likely that this guy is just stupid. He seems like one of those people whose only concern is to have the image of a happy family.
Let's be honest with ourselves here. No amount of skill in bed would deter a responsible, mentally sound and caring parent. If she is good, that was just the cherry on top for OP's sperm donor's diarrhea sundae.
@@kimcreatesstufffor real, some people just want to have another body in their bed, which is understandable, but ignoring your blood and choosing your spouse over your child, it's wrong, and ignorant.
lmao. that was funny.
Consequences often snowball harder than good decisions. The father is learning what happens when you ignore red flag after red flag.
Believing your son is even capable of something so heinous when you WITNESSED the twins and their mother being terrible to him. "It's just a joke" "you don't comment on women's weight" etc etc. He is a less than father and doesn't deserve OP after he allowed his gold digging wife to traumatize his son. And then to not even think about how this came out when he was talking about his will is still beyond me. It was obvious, even if I think about it from his POV. They never spoke, they ignored the hell out of him, and mistreated him and you still had the audacity to believe them? I understand, believe the "victim" (quotes only because of this story) but you also had to have known that your child wouldn't have done that if you knew him like that, and then he let his family go on and on about how bad his son was to his mother and then again when he properly told him off. Smh. Eff that noise. OP is NTA in the slightest.
Totally agree! The dad really dropped the ball here. Believing his son could do something so terrible when he knew how the twins and their mom treated him is just beyond me. It's like he took a page out of the "How to be a Clueless Dad" handbook. And then to not even question things when discussing his will? Wow, talk about being oblivious! He really needs to get his head out of the sand. OP is definitely not the asshole here-maybe the dad needs a reality check and a pair of glasses! 👓😂
Advice to people who have a will, don’t talk to your family about it. It’s better to keep them guessing and force them to grovel to you instead of backstabbing each other.
After failing that badly, the dad should have had the decency to apologize for being 3/4ths braindead and not listening to his son about all the awful crap his stepmonster was saying and doing to him. Dad failed his son early and often, all because he was too engrossed in the idea of a loving wife and daughters that turned out to be fake.
I politely disagree. You have said that they are 3/4 braindead, and I think this sounds rather accurate. Do you REALLY expect a man operating on that LITTLE of a brain is capable of anything approaching sincere decency?
Mouth dropped like never before shocking!! What a nightmare situation for a kid that age and luckily he didn’t lose it. You really have to separate yourself from the situation to not be severely damaged. Dad has no clue what his son has been through!!
The father is not a victim in this when the time came for him to be a father he chose to be a husband instead knowing full well that any child he has comes before any piece of a** he's put a ring on...
It’s still possible he could have been one someone like her manipulate anyone she knows but still he chose not to believe his son hopefully for the dad op can find forgiveness in his heart.
Ignorance can be forgiven. But stupidity of this level? It deserves no sympathy. As soon as the talk of inheritance and property, Gina all of a sudden makes accusations of SA that happened years ago, and OP's dad doesn't find this to be too convenient?
@@SnowyWolborg exactly! I don't know why OP didn't just call that out at the time. " 'Stepmom', it's funny how you immediately decide to bring this up when we are here talking about inheritance and you were just arguing with my dad about me getting anything. Dad, wake up and realize what's going on!"
@@sjsimom2 I can only assume it's because after so many years of being bullied into silence by this woman that OP just knows it is an exercise in futility to attempt to defend himself against her because dad always takes her side. Especially with an accusation this egregious.
Cries of his child throughout the years? "nah he's good"
Cries of his shitty wife literally bringing up SA during an argument about the Father's will to obviously get money? "I believe her this isn't suspicious at all".
I want to say that I'm surprised that any parent could be so stupid, but I'm not. OP's father deliberately chose to stick his head in the sand, wanting to pretend that the whole family was living in Candyland, all the while his own son was being bullied every time he turned his head away. There's no excuse for being this deliberately obtuse for years.
agree all allong he prefer belive in his own fairy tall all this years and coulnd belive all sign, his son or ex wife .
now reality op up on his face, he don't deserv anythink .
Two words.
Bad. Father.
"your dad has gone through enough"
No, that is not enough. She accused OP for rape, a serious crime. Even when fully cleared of all charges rape accusations still affect peoples lives. Furthermore the father ignored the treatment of his son from Gina, Which any parent should have seen.
It's messed up that OP cared about their father enough to tolerate the disrespect from stepmother and stepsister but OP's father didn't care to try to listen to OP
Do not shame the penguins by comparing those psychos to them!
Valid counterpoint. We should apologize to the penguins.
@@wolfehologram3539 We apologize dear penguins! 🙏🥺😆
When mother fat/height shamed him the father taught it was a "joke" but when the son told truth he was like "hOw dArE yOu"
Lil bro is a complete idiot frfr 💀🙏 (not you)
Woah, real life evil step mom and step sisters. I'm glad OP is away from them and doing a lot better.
The father is worse, doormat material till the day he's one floor under that
False accusations should be a MINIMUM of five years in prison.
10 years for that women for cheating on him the whole life
False accusation should be the sentence of the accused crime.
OP should have reported the stepmom and the simp of a dad to CPS. But I guess not everyone has the stones to take any initiative. I’m glad OP at least didn’t forgive his dad. He doesn’t deserve forgiveness.
OP kept a lot of it to himself because stepmom threatened him. OP's mom didn't even know the worst of it until it was all over. The fact that his mom was ready to throw hands when the bodyshaming thing happened tells me that mom had his back and would have handled things herself if she had known.
@@sjsimom2 Fair enough
Stupid Dad, I have full custody of my two kids and I would never allow another woman to down talk either one of them....
imagine having zero facial reading skills on a terrified child for years, or ability to take care of his child, father or mother literally didn't care about him...
My thoughts about this.. the dad was an AH doormat, allowing the Stepsisters and wife to abuse his Blood Son while he watches it seeing through the love fog. The son should have spoken up about the cruelty he suffered sooner from the evil trio, and the Father wanting to reconnect after siding with 2nd wife after a blatant lie years after the fact just shows the stupidity of his Father. Not to mention allowing the 2nd wife to shoehorn her daughters as being more important to the father than his own son is cruelty on another level.
False SA accusations should carry jail time and massive damages, carried on to the parents if the false accuser in a minor.
"Your father has suffered enough"
What about OP? His father's son? What about his son who he chose to cut off because he believed his narcissistic wife's lies. Father has shown who he cares about, and he only wants a relationship with OP because now he has no one else.
He's no father!, He is less of a man!, Fathers protect their children.
I had an evil stepmother growing up. I never told my dad all the stuff she would do when he wasn't around for similar reasons as OP. I finally broke at 18 and we left her. Once me, my brother, and my dad left, she accused all of us of similar things with her and her daughter. At that point she was off her meds going crazy and using drugs so nobody believed her, but it still pissed me off. I'm about to be 33 now, and she's still a part of my inner voice that loves to shit on me and put me down. I didn't realize until I was older how much of an affect she had on me.
Then your dad is also bad, otherwise he'd have noticed and you'd have felt safe enough to tell him.
Your dad only came back because he knows he has no one to take care of him now that hes old, and he wants you to do that. Tell him No and maybe in the next life time, learn to not jump into conclusion too fast.
The father put himself through all of this suffering.
He shouldn't have been so permissive of his wife in the first place, and he NEVER should've taken an outsider's word over his son's. I'd demand that he change the will and block him immediately after.
After a few years of his neglect, I wouldn't care if he was on the street, not even out of self-interest.
The son had a mother he could move in with, so if his dad had nowhere to go because he didn't want to hear him out, well, that's just too damn bad.
That being said, I'm the vindictive sort, and I don't always think things through, least of all when I'm angry, and I've never had to deal with anyone like them.
Finally an story where OP isn't an doormat who will forgive his "dad" or/and "mom" just cuz he/she didn't know truth and wears "i'm sorry" mask (and acting like that "parent" didn't choose to believe some outsider instead of their child😂)
i wouldve called the bio mom saying what happened and asked for her if she could call her lawyer and i could talk to the lawyer and ask if i could sue stepmom for defamation
i would have told him that he's disowned and is not my dad anymore and to never contact me ever again.
I never understood people like this like they are trying to battle a child for someone's love and she even threatened to steal all of his father's money and leave she is literally fighting a toddler in everything just like oh yeah I'm winning I'm winning kid and you're losing how's that feel to be a loser when they're fighting with someone who's not even playing their game and just wanting to have their Father's Love
Dad was an idiot. Got played for a fool and couldn't see the toxic family he married into.
When she said yall have double chins I screamed Peter griffin and then I heard the stomach one and I was like did she just get pregnant or is he just obese
The father has suffered enough? OP suffered for a lot longer than the father did. OP suffered when his father married that woman and never believed him on what a horrible person she and her daughters were. I would tell the father what he let happen and what he ignored
OP's dad not believing his son was the straw that broke the camel's back. His ignoring Gina's behavior despite her getting more and more blatant about her hate towards OP just compounds how justified OP's choice to cut his dad out was
Should have demanded his entire inheritance if he wanted to speak with you again.
I wouldn't let him bribe me.
OP should sue the step mother and step sister for false accusations and abuse. This can destroy someones life
Are we really at that point now with youtube where we have to censor the word ACCUSED?
There was another video a few days ago where they censored the word "sued"
bruh fr
The mother sounds like more of a motherly figure and a fatherly figure than the father does
Step mom from fairy-tales
Statistics still showing the evil step mom thing is high in percentage.
@@kyleanuar9090 it's really sad. Why marry someone if you cannot love their family.
@@Digdigimoney
Actually, even if this is fake, single mothers will go to any length to take whatever they can from simps
Good on the mom believing in him and supporting him.
"Your dad has suffered enough and you're making it harder for him!"
oh so whatever OP suffered, you don't even care about it? Not to mention how father's side of family thrashed him for being an alleged 'assaulter', not once did it crossed how OP suffered? It's only when OP did not want father back into his life did you guys start on with this tirade
Less toxic single mom
Geez, dad's family are hypocrites. Complain about how much pain dad suffered from a single divorce, yet had no problem relentlessly harrasing OP and his mom. Suddenly, the family dynamics explain a lot about OP's parents divorcing.
"Believe all women", yeah sure. Father and mother suck since she forced the kid to go.
Step-Mother Gina
She is really attacking a CHILD lmao Im glad OP got his name cleared.
The being nice only in front of others, but fucked up to you in private, the snooping, the comparing themselves to you, or misinterpreting you, then getting mad whenever ppl see any good in you, then desperately trying to sabotage and take away anything that will make you grow in life. My accuser fits this entire profile lmao.
Please! Never believe things without proof!
I wonder how people don't ever think to record these horrible people saying horrible things?
She was a child that was abused. You can't expect someone in that situation to be doing the smart move all the time.
OP is a he since they call him “a man that should make his own wealth”
1. it's a crime in many jurisdictions. 2. Don't think that would change anything. It's a decision to believe the lies. His father would only hold that against him.
And the dad at no point thought: "... You waited until we had a discussion about Inheritance to bring this up?"
The thing he doesn’t realize is that you think you know someone and they would never do something horrible but then they do. So the dad is right to question him. But what he should have done is pull him aside to talk to him. Personally, I would write a letter explaining everything about her just to make him feel worse.
This is probably fake, but in case it isn't, I'm glad OP isn't a doormat like half the other stories on this channel.
Honestly the dads worse than the stepmother. Making those false claims is evil incarnate. But his father with no evidence just believed her and left him. He left his own kid over nothing. If she never cheated, he wouldn't have ever believed him. The stepmom can leave but your dad, is your dad. He allowed her to make those claims and believed them. He chose them over op. And that is unforgivable.
It’s even more ridiculous cuz this whole he sa’d me came out AFTER A WHOLE FUCKKNG ARGUMENT ABOUT MONEY AND INHERITANCE red flag way too obvious way to easily recognizable red flag
If I was mom..I would've caught some charges..I look good in orange..doesn't matter how oldmy child is..I'm always momma bear!!
Tell him you forgive him and make sure he leaves you everything 😂
Some people are so evil. Gina wanted her children to benefit from another man but not his actual child.
A friend of mine had this same situation in 2014 where his stepsister falsely accused him of having molested them. His dad believed the stepsister and publicly disowned my friend. Now after ten years, I got a call from my friend telling me about how his dad had tracked him down to apologize. I flew into a rage when I heard this and told him to just forget about his dad however after hearing that his dad only has a couple of months to live, I advised him to take his advice and follow his. Now, he is living with his dad and making sure to take care of him for the good time he gave him while he was kid.
Idk man, i get that hindsight is 20/20 but…your child comes to you saying your wife is bullying you, then starts making excuses to not come to your house…is that not enough proof that MAYBE your wife is awful…?
Also interesting how when his vile wife/step siblings mock Op, oh they’re just teasing, but when Op snaps back, suddenly THAT is going too far.
Personally i’m really glad Op didn’t forgive his spineless father.
In such a situation, the appropriate behavior is to talk to a therapist about whether it is better for *you* to reconnect;; an abused and abandoned child has no obligation to talk to the parent who turned a blind eye to the abuse and then abandoned him. A real father would have listened and taken steps to verify what his child told him.
I hope your mother meets Gina face to face one day, better yet I hope you drag her to court for child abuse and slander.
How you gonna side with your sick wife and throw your son out and essentially push him to dark thoughts only to call years later and act like he can fix it. 7years too late my dude
OP should have told dad after the 1st time she insulted to give full custody to his mom so that dad can have his "perfect" family and leave him tf alone
Your dads family needs a reality check
Op's dad is so horrible. How could the father believe this witchy step mom. The dad does not deserve a relationship with the son.
Dad sounds like a simp
He married a single m o m. He’s a massive simp. Why would a man raise some other duds kids?
I’m gonna be in the minority here but I think he should give him a chance. If he can’t emotionally, that’s completely understandable. What I will say though is that when you’re in a situation like that in our society, when all the important woman in your life is alleging sexual assault, as a man you’re obligated by society to believe the woman. That by no means make what she did right at all, but it’s understandable why he made that decision however wrong it turned out being. It’ll take a long time for him to heal but I hope he brings him back into his life one day.
I’m glad OP didn’t forgive his father he wasn’t a good dad
Blindly believing his wife, without hearing out his son. Father of the year.......
I hate the oblivious parent.
If I was in place of OP, I will probably tell my mom and probably do CPS if your dad actually ignores the harrassment or teasing you face, move on. He's a pathetic figure of a father
OP never made any complaints and that was his biggest mistake!
The mom is the op’s true parent
I'm really sorry to hear about everything you went through. It sounds like you had a really tough time with your stepmother, and it must have been incredibly painful to feel unsupported by your dad. It’s really brave of you to share your story, and I hope that by doing so, you can find some comfort and support. Remember, you deserve to be treated with kindness and respect. Thank you for being so open and sharing your experience.
Dude he was totally right to believe the stepmom because a lot of women are scared to tell people that they were sexually assaulted because they fear not being believed and if she wasn't believed and it had happened then she might fear speaking out about any other incidents.
The step mom suddenly "speaks up" as soon as the inheritance comes up. The dad is so dense.
He didnt know all of this was happening, honestly his fault for not even telling him everything
Win mother!
There is nothing of a father thing about his dad, if he is defending someone's kids instead of his own. That dad was a walking disrespect "punching bag", since there is nothing to respect him for his behavior.
I think OP could sue stepmom and dad for defamation, since he was accused of something he didn't even do. Could possibly even sue for inheritance
I wonder what the Father is doing rn? Probably wondering how it went so wrong? Maybe realizing that her cheating wife was a POS from the start? I do, at thr very least, hope he moved all the inheritance to OP. It won't fix everything but at least he can lie to himself that he did something good for him after all this time
Dad is supposed to provide and protect. This one failed on every single account
I see a trend in these stories, the evil stepmom comes in and the dad slowly starts to live the stepmom more and more and feed into her bs, so much so that he may have even loved her more then his daughter. Which is something no father should ever do.
He doesn't have a daughter, only a son.
If it were me, that father would never hear from me again
I can't believe something like that is real. This is incredibly sad.
OP suffered enough and the father should be ashamed of himself pushing his son to forgive him.