The mom was clearly way broken before getting her children. She also needed guidance and deliverance. Before y'all judge her....a broken parent raises a broken child. Jesus is the only way.
The genesis of the problem is the parent. We need to be much more serious and diligent in bringing up those we have brought into this world. This story brought tears to my eyes. To you precious Kiki, Jesus knows and nothing is impossible with him. He is the strong tower you can run to and you will be safe. My sincere prayers for better days ahead for you. You shall live to testify
I really appreciate you Njoki for having come out with this story. You are doing great and only God will fight for you. Let the Satan of suicide not take control of your life. You are a cute gal. Be positive
What a beautiful lady ,she needs help may God send people around her who wont judge her but build her ,may God heal her family and bring peace and love and unity ,may she be destined for God's kingdom
The presenter or interviewer is on an international level!! she's so good! The manner in which she handled the interview and the questions she'd asked. Impressive👌👏👏👏👏
@T C actually it's because 99% are humans who don't judge a book by its cover and actually have compassion for fellow humans. 99% also don't have their heads up their asses and don't look down on others who have lived life different from them. Get it together
i see pain, i see hurt and sadness. abandonment issues. God see her through, its not even about HIV, am not sure what to say i pray for her healing. God remember her, heal her. turn her pain to joy
This Interviewer is so professional and understanding, Her voice and mannerism are so calming and therapeutic! She seems like someone you go to for counselling after trauma. I love her! wish I could talk to her about my life heartaches and pains! (off camera) I'm sure she'd offer a good shoulder to cry on! Bless her soul!
The dislikes are from people that don't know what it is to be rejected and hated. I have been depressed and at some point of my life I contemplated suicide but this woman is on another level depression. I pray God provides her the healing she needs.
Pole sana Njoki, your storry has really touched me. What I can give you tight now Njoki, is that pls try JESUS. He is the only one who can heal you my dear. Never mind of all what you have gone through, just go to him the way you are you will get relieved and a pease of mind. May our loving Father reveal Himself to you; you never regret.
Sometimes you think your pain has never been felt by anyone in this world, but when you listen to the stories of others, you just drop it and pray for others. Jackline your past should not define you. You're a strong lady and gorgeous. Find healing, find your freedom and find your future. It's not the end of life. Go girl!
She is just so beautiful and strong, as a therapist I feel her pain and we all make mistakes people shouldn't judge her.. Kiki take heart may God bless you and keep you.
No no no, I totally disagree. This was not a mistake on her part it was her circumstances that led her to prostitution. We need to highlight that, and she should not feel guilt at all. 16/ 17? No no no she deserves a full exemption from criticism. I wish I can talk to her face to face. This should not be taken lightly. She didn't even have to go public, she didn't comit crime. She must try to work on the pains of her past and release the guilt she's feeling because she's alone in that guilt road. The person who infected her did he disclosed he's hiv status? Her mother who abandoned her is she feeling guilty? The family members who didn't help her to remain and complete school are they guilty?
Tuned from USA and l was brought up in Kenya with such parents who didn't not care for us, me and my two younger sisters. Hata wangu wote walikua majuu na mimi nikaenda majuu different even they didn't know how l went. From that experience l promised myself that l will never leave my kids to any body l will take care of them myself. It's a sad to hear children suffering from the hands of close relatives. It is also very hard to ask ppl for help while your parents are abroad they can't believe you. If you can't look after your child why give birth. I am so sorry for this kid and l know there many who are suffering like this girl. Your government is onather one, it can't help the poor in any way. Poleni sana Wakenya.
I feel her pain.. I don't receive love from my mom too. And my dad isn't in the picture. But I'm not prostituting and also, her story is inspiring to me. God bless and heal her..
People commenting negatively, am waiting for that day when you will understand mental health issues and also learn not to judge...are you perfect yourselves? She made a mistake and she is bold enough to come out.! She needs help...not negativity.....nkt.! Wacheni za ovyo.!
We know that lakini guess what boz wako aende kudrink alafu apatikane na huyu demu one night ampe ugonjwa alafu aje kwako what wud you feel ikiwa anatumia urembo wake nakuwa ambukiza watu. She will pay this kesho ahera tell someone the truth sio kusambaza if you don't no you're status it's ok
@@alisuleiman8110 listen to yourself,ati aende kukunywa apatane na huyu dame....anapatana na yeye akifanya nini? Stick to your partners if you don't want to be infected,stop judging women whilst men should also be responsible? Did she force any man? Stop negativity.!
First advice"forgive urself ,accept what has happened in ur past,embrace it .live today by doing and living the right way, hang on to God and surround urself with positive people. Time heals all wounds.
Yes the title is not appropriate and sometimes it not necessary to ask the person to go through all small details that may embarrass the person. We are adults we understand when she said she was a prostitute.
The lady needs lots of healing... mentally, physically and spiritually... instead of hating on her we need to pray for her. ... otherwise you ladies look cute...much love
First of all I respect Kiki for her courage and honesty in discussing such a difficult subject matter. Secondly, to my fellow Kenyans please see the gold in her and not the dross of a sad story. She had to fight for a better life for her and for her family members the best she knew even as a child. She cannot walk this journey alone, she needs allies and a support system so if you are within Nairobi please help out and bless this beautiful soul.
About parents, Well said!! I went through rejection by my parents that my younger siblings would hold a meeting and I was told by my dad to stay outside..and yet I was the older gal..my younger sisters made verdict over my life and my kids to be taken away by my ex...I feel you Njoki as a young girl you needed love and care...so you jumped into the pool of life the best you knew how...coz you didn't have guidance..be strong and seek God as your father and mother ..lean to him,accept him and he will heal ,guide you and use as his tool...Yale niliopitia thru my family rejecting me..it's only God who held my foot..labda nigeaguka into prostitution coz I had no family support no job no money even to foot my bills!!! But Grace ya God was sufficient...I can't judge you gal coz if I do ,I will also be judged...but love you as a sister..coz Jesus died for you,me and all others.look unto him..Colossian 3:1-2
You don't need to cry coz she is lying like a rug ask yourself how could everyone in the whole entire family is against her that means she is the problem
This is the only thought I had watching this video. That’s why the Bible says judge not. How can you judge without knowing the whole story is always my caution
@@paulinelima2235 This fool is blaming everyone for her misfortunes and her bad decisions! Kama aliamua kua malaya ilikua ni her decision. There are so many full orphans who have made it in life after having gone through many difficulties! Looks like she wanted slaves to work for her...She has not even gone through a quarter of what most have gone through... It would be better to listen to the other side of the story before making a conclusion! No way your relatives can hate you for no reason! Kuna watu ata hawakuona wazazi wao... pure orphans living great lives... akwede kabisa!
@@Truthseeker580 This fool is blaming everyone for her misfortunes and her bad decisions! Kama aliamua kua malaya ilikua ni her decision. There are so many full orphans who have made it in life after having gone through many difficulties! Looks like she wanted slaves to work for her...She has not even gone through a quarter of what most have gone through... It would be better to listen to the other side of the story before making a conclusion! No way your relatives can hate you for no reason! Kuna watu ata hawakuona wazazi wao... pure orphans living great lives... akwede kabisa!
Exactly 🙏 ata Kuna mtu sai anapeana ukimwi na hasemi ukweli so without her Bado watu wataambukizana tw ukimwi so it's just a matter of asking forgiveness from whom she wronged and also forgive herself then finally God will take control of her life it's good to be honest 🙏♥️ I love you dear napenda npate number we be friends aki me too I have no friends but am perfectly fine 🙏♥️
Am in tears mum can u give me ur Number l connect u with my daughter who has been chased away by his dad. Cuz am not in Kenya. She need counselling cuz l know she is lonely. God bless you.
Steven Ngure life for everyone is indeed spiritual. Both good and bad things have a spiritual origin, nothing happens randomly. Let's pray for her. All will be well
As you can hear a lot of people's problems stem from their childhood. Please take time to show All your children love, kindness and respect, it goes a long way
So if I had a daughter with HIV that decided to sleep with her brothers or all her sons and gave it to them with indifference would she invite my daughter to dinner and best friends or Nah?
You are not a counselor nor a therapist but an outstanding and exceptional interviewer with a heart. The story is very touching. Someone has reached out offering counseling and I hope someone did also, to assist her with getting through COVID-19 financially.
This lady's story is so moving. Now she needs a support. 1. Funding for medical treatment for her bleeding condition. 2. Professional counseling services 3. Any HIV related NGO to take and use her bravely to speak about HIV in the society. Any Gynaecologist, counselor, NGO body, watched this video.. Please give service to humanity. Thanks to Lyn for giving this lady a platform. Kiki this i the first step to healing. One cardinal virtue is Courage.. You are very courageous Kiki.
We live in a society where sinners judge others for sinning differently.This story is so touching. The lady is so empty deep down she needs genuine love and support. Please if you cant help her then dont bash her with more painful words and insults.
Cetribea burundibwiza let me guess ur the kind of people who stigmatize hiv positive people uh?so nobody should talk to her for fear of being suspected of sleeping with her? You are full of bullcrap get a grip ur disgrace to humanity
My name is Steve, this lady's story is so touching, even though i support the idea of spreading the disease, I am willing to donate a little token to help her. people of good will, let's help this lady have a good life and become a blessing to others like her whom may be hurting.
I have realized Most of the people who grew up in the late 80's and 90's were brought up in toxic environments. From abusive parents to drunk parents and irresponsible parents, parents who felt as if they are doing their children a favour by even doing basic responsibilities like providing basic needs and paying school fees. However, it's our responsibility to fix ourselves. I know it's hard but we have to. Because we cannot afford to carry the bitterness to our next generation. I hope you find help and feel better.. Do it for yourself..sending hugs your way❤❤❤
sarah wangechi If you think about the time in which those parents were born 60’s 70’s a lot was going on wars colonial stuff and all, as well as I think maybe that’s how it was before the 60’s😂 I’m not sure I’m a millennial
Very true. Been there and it isn't a good thing. The thing caught with me recently and I sunk into depression. I even tried to kill myself severally, let's say like 20times, But I thank God coz with all the suicidal attempts He still kept me. The healing journey hasn't been easy, but I have made good progress. I have learnt to make peace and forgive. May God see her through the this.
She did a fantastic job with this interview. She asked direct questions without being overbearing or judgemental despite the sensitivity nature of the interview. She also took an understanding approach where many in a similar scenario would have the tendency to put down the interviewee.
As a young man, this is eye opening. As a future parent, this is eye opening. As a sibling, this is eye opening. This is one of those interviews that conflict emotion and understand, one of those that triggers thoughts that in many ways are an inflection point. Good luck to her. And many many MANY thanks to Lynn and the team.
Do u know she must have told a lot of the men to wear protection and they will refuse to be bare that they like it that way and yet blame her. Zip up men. If u are married stay with your wife.
Life can turn .....on Monday everything is ok then boom on Friday you even don't have a clue .I have been here, through depression ,rejection ,sick but I can testify that there is God . First step is to face the world ,hugs Mami .He's a God of second Chance
@@mildredmulijani7500 Please read your bible before you condemn yourself to hell, according to it. (Matthew 5:22) - "But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother shall be guilty before the court; and whoever says to his brother, 'You good-for-nothing,' shall be guilty before the supreme court; and whoever says, 'You fool,' shall be guilty enough to go into the fiery hell." According to your bible you just bought yourself a one way ticket to hell by calling me a fool🤣🤣🤣
Strong wall shakes but never collapse.u are a strong woman Njoki dont commit succide again.just pray hard.lilian nice to see you again my primary school mate
This is lady needs therapy. She has a PTSD. She should also understand that being HIV now does not means "imminent death". HIV has became a chronic disease is it is treated.
Everyone make mistakes in life, we are not perfect, but we have a merciful God who is ready to forgive us if we repent...Pray without ceasing for ur healing with God all things are possible👏 I will keep u in prayers 👏
My sister no parent is willing kuacha mtoto wake hyo ni kaz ya shetani the devil came to still destroy and kill coz umesikia akisema alibadilika akawa jeuri yaani hakusikia its only God but my sis Jesus loves you
I'd really wish I connected to Jackie. she should not give up. Jackie has a destiny and it's not too late for her. God will keep her.... I am praying for her.
As much as this lady is depressed, girls when growing up Need just love ,hug them and make them feel special 😊😊 even if they are hungry they may forget
Baby girl Njoki, remember that Jesus loves you more than you can imagine. Call upon Him in the day of trouble and He will hear you and scoop you out all these demonic lies. Jer33:3 Jesus, came to give us life more abundantly, the devil came to kill, steal and destroy John 10:10. Jesus will wash you with His precious blood and restore you. Only Jesus can, Mark 9:8. Jesus will never condemn you,come to God x.
I did that to my dota but she left my house without telling me where she was going .children also are not easy some times after everything l passed through as asingle mum.l hv pain
Thank you for being a strong woman. Remember God loves you and the bible says" Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed". The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.
No one was born a prostitute. Situations leads people to find themselves in difficult places. Learn to forgive and ask God for His guidance. May your mum talk to you. This is so sad.
so true,my sister...saddest part society alwyz judge harshly&put alot of pressuretowards single,widowed&divorced women struggling to both married&unmarried (esp women above 30)society puts pressure to women and worse come from family\parents to get married to men whom mistreat physicaly,emotionally towards our women...may all my sisters,women put their trust in the ALMIGHTY ALWYZ and learn to alwys to know one thing never depend on a man for support in ur life,better hata ukuwe grocer hawker kwa kibanda and depend on the ALMIGHTY ONLY,,,,
That means alot coming from a man. May God bless you. We are not advocating for prostitution but if we are sent to such circumstances, there is life after. Positively. Thank you
Your correct and I recommend girls kid to be rised up with care and support from the entirely family to avoid all this tragedy, if parents doesn't offers care to their daughter they will get it somewhere else and elsewhere it will come with more Challenges
@Mangrove Roots No The Messiah is Not fake. Why would he fix Covid. Covid was sent for a reason, so God could get the Worlds attention. that it's time to Repent for the Kingdom of God is at Hand. So what you need to do is Seek the Lord while he may be found because time is Over and the Rapture is upon us. It's time Repent! Romans 10-9;
I feel bad for you, the pain you went through as a young girl. I kindly ask that you forgive your mother and your sister and you will be blessed. God bless you.
there is always two sides of a coin ....I feel her and all n I support her but on the part of parenting u should listen to the other side of the story...find the diaspora show on TH-cam not Ull know the other side...not noo judgements ....u should listen to her family's part of the story ...things are not always as they seem....not am not justifying anyone it's only we should not judge pple without knowing the whole truth
@@milkahkimani3546 I agree with you to a certain degree. But that said, the veracity of my statement still stands. Being a parent is the highest calling any human can have... And God is always ready to provide the needed wisdom for proper parenting.. In this age and era, especially, parents need this wisdom more than ever..
Cant judge her at all. I have been careless in my past, I could have gotten anything back then. I am amazed at your courage to tell your story to the whole world. Hope it will bring closure or help release the burden or start the journey of healing. Mungu wa neema akuongoze dada.
Njoki is in pain and needs help. I feel like she did not tell her full story as it was too much for her to let it out. But the good thing is that she has come out in the open and this marks her journey to healing. Njoki, I believe that you will come back and share your happy story with us. Your tears and pain will be your greatest testimony You will share with us, what God has done for you. That's my prayer to you. With God ,He will work out everything for your good.
Wow! Speechless and in awe for her Boldness! Njoki you're a leaving testimony that we humans are sinners! and fall short of glory from God! But there's repentance, forgiveness and hope. Don't give up on life, because life had not given up on you! God has a purpose for you no matter how Bad the situation looks. You have embarked on a new journey of forgiveness and a new life as a Christian. God will see you through. I Will remember you in my prayers! And for us parents, this is big lesson, of how important having open and honest conversations with our children is on important things like See, and also loving our children equally. Bravo Njoki! You are on a healing journey.
Njoki may God continue to bless you. God will never give you something you can not carry. He who has started the good work will surely finish it. Just don't give up
Yes mama, what I thought too, we are cooped in our lives and daily struggles as parents and neglect our childrens emotions and struggles 😭 we strive to be providers only
@GLORIA WADIKO - Unfortunately, some people just cannot do that, they just CANNOT 'be there' for their children. Many parents have psychological disorders, including 'Cluster B personality disorders' like Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) or Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). And many of these disorders (especially NPD) cannot really be treated or cured. People with NPD are not capable of having empathy, and are not capable of 'self-reflection'. And they are emotionally immature - they LOOK LIKE adults, but they are actually children in adult's bodies. So..... in families where there is at least one Narcissist parent (and sometimes BOTH parents are Narcissists), there will always be at least one favourite child (in psychology, this is called the 'Golden Child'), and there will also always be at least one 'Scapegoat' child. The 'Golden Child' will be spoiled, and will be treated as though they are above the rest of the children. And the 'Scapegoat' child (or children) will be treated very poorly - these Scapegoat children will be the ones that receive all of the anger, and all of the bad feelings, and all of the frustrations of the other people in the family. In Jackline's situation, there were only 2 children, and both of the children were daughters. It sounds like at first Jackline's mother chose her to be the 'Golden Child'. But then, when Jackline did something that her mother did not like, or that caused her shame.... from that moment forward, Jackline was suddenly no longer the Golden Child, and instead became the SCAPEGOAT Child. And her sister, who was once the SCAPEGOAT, Child now became the 'Golden Child'. This is very very psychologically damaging to children! There should NEVER be children in any family who are treated either ABOVE or BELOW the other children. That is child psychological abuse. And it's so so sad. Unfortunately it is also very common.
Why can't we organize a day and flock that spa for shaves in show of support and love. She's so broken and never been loved
So true💔💔💔
Wow people like u are the ones we need in this world big up bro
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Your so caring , keep up
This is the beginning of her healing. She is sick and she is crying for help. Lord have mercy and heal her. I speak healing in Jesus Name.
Amen
Amen!!
Amen
I say Amen to this prayer and intercession for her. He is the God of possiblity to all who trust His Mighty Hand
Amen.
Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future. I wish her nothing but God's love.
Amen my brother.
Amen
and the difference is repentance. hapa sijaona repentance. no woner mumeletewa corona as punishment.
You have talk bro God bless you 🙏
The humility of the interviewer is commendable!
Sure
For sure...
She is the best
I feel your pain my love. Stay strong my mom is like you. Keep strong its not the end of the road
A paybill number would have made good samaritans to help her sort out some urgent issues.
The interviewer did a great job. Compassionate, non-judgmental, no interruption. I enjoyed the interview.
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The interviewer is such a good listener. She is also very nurturing and kind hearted. Lord please heal this Beautiful woman’s heart, Body, and Spirt.
So true 💖💖
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth
Dunia hii kilamtu ako dunia yake who will take the advice or not!
Kuna mafundisho ! angles wewe niwajakoya!
Wewe nimzalishaji wakipindi!
The mom was clearly way broken before getting her children. She also needed guidance and deliverance. Before y'all judge her....a broken parent raises a broken child. Jesus is the only way.
He is ALMIGHTY 🙏
There is a lot in PARENTHOOD
The genesis of the problem is the parent. We need to be much more serious and diligent in bringing up those we have brought into this world. This story brought tears to my eyes. To you precious Kiki, Jesus knows and nothing is impossible with him. He is the strong tower you can run to and you will be safe. My sincere prayers for better days ahead for you. You shall live to testify
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AMEN....but one lesson Never Victimize Your Own Children otherwise u will pay double🙏🙏🏾☝️
Everyone has a past and it's never too late to do the right thing. No condemnation from this corner.
I really appreciate you Njoki for having come out with this story. You are doing great and only God will fight for you. Let the Satan of suicide not take control of your life. You are a cute gal. Be positive
Am with you on this it’s never too late to change
Jesus said it clearly "and now there's no condemnation to those who believe in Him....." Jesus will heal you and give you peace in abundance
The lady is true to her self. Please don't blame her. Good girl.
thz not apast thz apresent continous cause the diseases is permanent
What a beautiful lady ,she needs help may God send people around her who wont judge her but build her ,may God heal her family and bring peace and love and unity ,may she be destined for God's kingdom
The big question is, how many people are going through the same and dont know what to do? Dear God help my Generation.
So many ,may God help us
Amen
GOD protect us for everything that is in front of us bcoz we are not able without u
@@truth9270 loll l ok lololol ok
Lynn you are so sweet
The presenter or interviewer is on an international level!! she's so good! The manner in which she handled the interview and the questions she'd asked. Impressive👌👏👏👏👏
I was just thinking the same! I love her mannerisms.
Only Jesus can give you peace of mind and save you. Receive Jesus and sin no more.
Mandisa did you noticed that there's too many words that are similar to isiZulu kodwa???...
Not like dr.king'ori who keeps interrupting his talks
True Talk. I just thought same. She's very impressive and on point. Big ups to her. Great interview
The comments are very encouraging, I love how everyone is not judging her
Sure wanaume mnapenda kila mitu bure
@T C actually it's because 99% are humans who don't judge a book by its cover and actually have compassion for fellow humans. 99% also don't have their heads up their asses and don't look down on others who have lived life different from them. Get it together
i see pain, i see hurt and sadness. abandonment issues. God see her through, its not even about HIV, am not sure what to say i pray for her healing. God remember her, heal her. turn her pain to joy
Serene Barber Shop and Spa. Tuendeni huko 10th October we celebrate this woman's courage. She's not alone.
Wish I could join. But I'm watching from Uganda.
Brave woman
I would definitely, i am in Rwanda, she has been torn a part by her surroundings from childhood. She need unconditional love.
Iko wapi
Did it happen?
This lady is very depressed may God see her through
Yeah ave noticed haki she needs alot of healing
Never judge a book by its cover. I really feel her.
If you have ever faced rejection and hatred, you understand her clearly
that true .tuko wengi but God s gd.we will overcome God time s the best.
True
True. She is hurting like mad.
Very true
True
She’s beautiful and I admire her courage. You can see the void in her eyes, It’s obvious she hasn’t healed from the childhood trauma. May God heal her
Exactly I swear childhood trauma is ruining lots of lives, I have witnessed a lot
This Interviewer is so professional and understanding, Her voice and mannerism are so calming and therapeutic! She seems like someone you go to for counselling after trauma. I love her! wish I could talk to her about my life heartaches and pains! (off camera) I'm sure she'd offer a good shoulder to cry on! Bless her soul!
i agree
True. She is so professional. I seem to like her thing. On point.
I second
You might end up falling for her cuz she's also so lovingly beautiful.!!.🥰
@@charlesjohn4518 Yes she is!
The dislikes are from people that don't know what it is to be rejected and hated. I have been depressed and at some point of my life I contemplated suicide but this woman is on another level depression. I pray God provides her the healing she needs.
Wapi Likes za Lynn😍
Lynne Lynne I salute you u gal u are really an African queen congrats that interview have changed even losse tongue to comment negative.
Thank you🙏
Anytime gal,,,live long and blessed
Great woman
@@LynnNgugi you looked so uncomfortable,but you do a good job
At least she is honest enough to tell men to back off ... amesaidia wengi
Pole sana Njoki, your storry has really touched me. What I can give you tight now Njoki, is that pls try JESUS. He is the only one who can heal you my dear. Never mind of all what you have gone through, just go to him the way you are you will get relieved and a pease of mind. May our loving Father reveal Himself to you; you never regret.
Stay strong dear.
....I salute the lady interviewing,she's a genius,she handles the discussion with time maturely.
Sometimes you think your pain has never been felt by anyone in this world, but when you listen to the stories of others, you just drop it and pray for others. Jackline your past should not define you. You're a strong lady and gorgeous. Find healing, find your freedom and find your future. It's not the end of life. Go girl!
Sorry to that gal😭😭
The lady is in depression and she needs counseling.
Lynn try to help her my dear😭
I have seen alot of interviewee and the look judgemental but this lady is so calm and she's a good listener u can tell she's a good person
She is just so beautiful and strong, as a therapist I feel her pain and we all make mistakes people shouldn't judge her.. Kiki take heart may God bless you and keep you.
No no no, I totally disagree. This was not a mistake on her part it was her circumstances that led her to prostitution. We need to highlight that, and she should not feel guilt at all. 16/ 17? No no no she deserves a full exemption from criticism. I wish I can talk to her face to face. This should not be taken lightly. She didn't even have to go public, she didn't comit crime. She must try to work on the pains of her past and release the guilt she's feeling because she's alone in that guilt road. The person who infected her did he disclosed he's hiv status? Her mother who abandoned her is she feeling guilty? The family members who didn't help her to remain and complete school are they guilty?
Please reach out and help her
So touched on heart
Tuned from USA and l was brought up in Kenya with such parents who didn't not care for us, me and my two younger sisters. Hata wangu wote walikua majuu na mimi nikaenda majuu different even they didn't know how l went. From that experience l promised myself that l will never leave my kids to any body l will take care of them myself. It's a sad to hear children suffering from the hands of close relatives. It is also very hard to ask ppl for help while your parents are abroad they can't believe you. If you can't look after your child why give birth. I am so sorry for this kid and l know there many who are suffering like this girl. Your government is onather one, it can't help the poor in any way. Poleni sana Wakenya.
hmmm I feel ur pain plz
Such true 😔
Mothers need to heal themselves first while raising their kids.... Njoki take heart your story is indeed painful
I can't stop having an interview with such a professional interviewer , such bringing the hope of life .
She's a very strong woman.
May GOD Almighty raise her help
Interviewer you did a great job.
More Grace my sister 👍
I feel her pain.. I don't receive love from my mom too. And my dad isn't in the picture. But I'm not prostituting and also, her story is inspiring to me. God bless and heal her..
I can relate to you and to her. Both my parents passed away years ago. I forgave them both.
Don't worry dear... God loves you much, so sorry
Tuko wengi
Bless you darling
Sometimes life hits you head with a brick, don't lose faith Jackline.....before God no one is better than the other.
We love you!
People commenting negatively, am waiting for that day when you will understand mental health issues and also learn not to judge...are you perfect yourselves?
She made a mistake and she is bold enough to come out.!
She needs help...not negativity.....nkt.!
Wacheni za ovyo.!
True sis
very true who are we to judge
We know that lakini guess what boz wako aende kudrink alafu apatikane na huyu demu one night ampe ugonjwa alafu aje kwako what wud you feel ikiwa anatumia urembo wake nakuwa ambukiza watu. She will pay this kesho ahera tell someone the truth sio kusambaza if you don't no you're status it's ok
True
@@alisuleiman8110 listen to yourself,ati aende kukunywa apatane na huyu dame....anapatana na yeye akifanya nini?
Stick to your partners if you don't want to be infected,stop judging women whilst men should also be responsible?
Did she force any man?
Stop negativity.!
First advice"forgive urself ,accept what has happened in ur past,embrace it .live today by doing and living the right way, hang on to God and surround urself with positive people. Time heals all wounds.
Well put
Well put though she needs someone to talk to and she needs love
the title of this video makes this woman look so malicious but she's unlike that. Her story is very touching
exactly 😕😕
They had to title it that way to get views
@@woimarateng yes her story is indeed very touching
Yes the title is not appropriate and sometimes it not necessary to ask the person to go through all small details that may embarrass the person. We are adults we understand when she said she was a prostitute.
Soooo she didn’t purposely infect other men with this incurable disease
I know a man who can help you. His name is Jesus, the redeemer of men
He doesn't do shit
Nonsense
@@mubarakolad1899 lol
AMEEEEEN
That jewish man thought he died
I WILL NEVER JUDGE.NJOKI MAY YOU HAVE PEACE IN YOUR LIFE
Amen Njoki u will get peace only from God
The lady needs lots of healing... mentally, physically and spiritually... instead of hating on her we need to pray for her. ... otherwise you ladies look cute...much love
OMG! I just commented the same.
Kiki gal we all have been there only we are luckly that were did not turn positive
First of all I respect Kiki for her courage and honesty in discussing such a difficult subject matter. Secondly, to my fellow Kenyans please see the gold in her and not the dross of a sad story. She had to fight for a better life for her and for her family members the best she knew even as a child. She cannot walk this journey alone, she needs allies and a support system so if you are within Nairobi please help out and bless this beautiful soul.
When she says watoto wapewe condoms and pads, it really is something to think about ✅
if only parents knows what children go through for their mistakes,they would also ask for forgiveness too
About parents, Well said!! I went through rejection by my parents that my younger siblings would hold a meeting and I was told by my dad to stay outside..and yet I was the older gal..my younger sisters made verdict over my life and my kids to be taken away by my ex...I feel you Njoki as a young girl you needed love and care...so you jumped into the pool of life the best you knew how...coz you didn't have guidance..be strong and seek God as your father and mother ..lean to him,accept him and he will heal ,guide you and use as his tool...Yale niliopitia thru my family rejecting me..it's only God who held my foot..labda nigeaguka into prostitution coz I had no family support no job no money even to foot my bills!!! But Grace ya God was sufficient...I can't judge you gal coz if I do ,I will also be judged...but love you as a sister..coz Jesus died for you,me and all others.look unto him..Colossian 3:1-2
Well said
@@preciousruby5805 waao encouraging message. I wish you God's peace. It shall be well with His people🙏🏽
Sooo true
True
This story is just too tragic. You can't even get mad at what she has done. She is so broken.
Depression is real😢. .. Too bad our society Doesn't take it seriously..
Oh dear I can’t stop crying. This girl needs love.
You don't need to cry coz she is lying like a rug ask yourself how could everyone in the whole entire family is against her that means she is the problem
@@koshpit1 People can be against you for many reasons.
That's a lesson to people to stop judging others without knowing any background or context of there's lives
This is the only thought I had watching this video. That’s why the Bible says judge not. How can you judge without knowing the whole story is always my caution
I have learnt so much from Kikis story.She is very bold n also empty inside.Lets fill that void with love. I would love to be her friend.
She's really broken please don't judge her.
Life is a road with soo many signs
Rubbish.. She has endangered many lives by infecting people with aids
You're dumb af! What do you mean don't her?
@@paulinelima2235 This fool is blaming everyone for her misfortunes and her bad decisions! Kama aliamua kua malaya ilikua ni her decision. There are so many full orphans who have made it in life after having gone through many difficulties! Looks like she wanted slaves to work for her...She has not even gone through a quarter of what most have gone through... It would be better to listen to the other side of the story before making a conclusion! No way your relatives can hate you for no reason! Kuna watu ata hawakuona wazazi wao... pure orphans living great lives... akwede kabisa!
@@Truthseeker580 This fool is blaming everyone for her misfortunes and her bad decisions! Kama aliamua kua malaya ilikua ni her decision. There are so many full orphans who have made it in life after having gone through many difficulties! Looks like she wanted slaves to work for her...She has not even gone through a quarter of what most have gone through... It would be better to listen to the other side of the story before making a conclusion! No way your relatives can hate you for no reason! Kuna watu ata hawakuona wazazi wao... pure orphans living great lives... akwede kabisa!
@@marcelinomkenyanmj7305 I'm thinking it's a crime
She is really honest woman. She needs both spiritual and physical healing.
Exactly 🙏 ata Kuna mtu sai anapeana ukimwi na hasemi ukweli so without her Bado watu wataambukizana tw ukimwi so it's just a matter of asking forgiveness from whom she wronged and also forgive herself then finally God will take control of her life it's good to be honest 🙏♥️ I love you dear napenda npate number we be friends aki me too I have no friends but am perfectly fine 🙏♥️
She needs Counseling, l can offer her counseling for free
May God bless you Mme
Ur a blessing
Am in tears mum can u give me ur Number l connect u with my daughter who has been chased away by his dad. Cuz am not in Kenya. She need counselling cuz l know she is lonely. God bless you.
Amen.
@@rispathequeen take ❤
It’s not easy,,,, her case is more spiritual than we think ,,,I pray that she may heal from the bitterness of the past and God will make a way
I said so, it’s so sad. I pray she gets the peace of our Lord Jesus Christ amen 🙏
miss Ti yaaap n she shall be free
@@katalambano2608 your very right it's not easy, Haki mungu ashushe Rehema zake .
@@ashleynatasha5524 for sure God loves her,,,,also her family need to show her love n she will heal
Steven Ngure life for everyone is indeed spiritual. Both good and bad things have a spiritual origin, nothing happens randomly. Let's pray for her. All will be well
As you can hear a lot of people's problems stem from their childhood. Please take time to show All your children love, kindness and respect, it goes a long way
Well said.
So if I had a daughter with HIV that decided to sleep with her brothers or all her sons and gave it to them with indifference would she invite my daughter to dinner and best friends or Nah?
Well said. Starts with the the parents, I am pretty sure we can do much better maybe not for us now, but for the future of our kids. Asante
Kabisa
thankyou
You are not a counselor nor a therapist but an outstanding and exceptional interviewer with a heart. The story is very touching. Someone has reached out offering counseling and I hope someone did also, to assist her with getting through COVID-19 financially.
God loves you my dear. Don't feel alone. Let Jesus take the wheel.
This lady's story is so moving.
Now she needs a support.
1. Funding for medical treatment for her bleeding condition.
2. Professional counseling services
3. Any HIV related NGO to take and use her bravely to speak about HIV in the society.
Any Gynaecologist, counselor, NGO body, watched this video.. Please give service to humanity.
Thanks to Lyn for giving this lady a platform.
Kiki this i the first step to healing. One cardinal virtue is Courage.. You are very courageous Kiki.
Mr you have said it,let hope for well wishers to help the lady. It's so touching also we pray for her.
True. She's very courageous but hata nimeogopa and learnt a lot too.
Maybe she has a cervical cancer that’s why she bleeds.. I pity her.. Hope someone could help her please...
We live in a society where sinners judge others for sinning differently.This story is so touching. The lady is so empty deep down she needs genuine love and support. Please if you cant help her then dont bash her with more painful words and insults.
She's so beautiful, hiv does not defines her loving soul,I would love to help her.
Yes!
AMEN 🙏
Yeah let’s forget the fact she gave a bunch of men a death sentence!
@@spi1616 ....yeah, she did that to them at gun point !!!, poor dogs ...
"Sinners judge others for sinning diffently"... this is an excellent summary of our world today.
This girl needs deliverance and how she's expressing herself she's suffering alot just pray for her
At an individual level this girl is very strong. No matter what she had gone through, she still managed to stay solid. I wish everyone was like her.
Empathy, empathy, empathy!!!!!.....just imagine yourself being in her situation. The worst thing you can face in this world is rejection.
Really hurts to be rejected especially from a parent.
Very true and especially from people you call family, worst feeling ever...
@Knowledge Tree ...eat 💩
I engaged in a conversation with Kiki once. She has a beautiful heart. We all fight our on demons but God will see her through.
I hope you didn't sleep with her and give to your wife or girlfriend
Cetribea Burundibwiza you sleep with everyone you know? Get that silly stigma mind out
Kennedy paul...😂😂smooth one there
Cetribea You sleep with every person you talk to?
Cetribea burundibwiza let me guess ur the kind of people who stigmatize hiv positive people uh?so nobody should talk to her for fear of being suspected of sleeping with her? You are full of bullcrap get a grip ur disgrace to humanity
My name is Steve, this lady's story is so touching, even though i support the idea of spreading the disease, I am willing to donate a little token to help her. people of good will, let's help this lady have a good life and become a blessing to others like her whom may be hurting.
Thanks Steve
Exactly
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I'm always struck by the femininity of African women, so elegant and dignified. I wish her the very best.💔
You are a Hero
And you will change others through your story for the good
this is the most heartbreaking thing I’ve ever heard😭💔💔.. I do pray God to be with her.
I have realized Most of the people who grew up in the late 80's and 90's were brought up in toxic environments. From abusive parents to drunk parents and irresponsible parents, parents who felt as if they are doing their children a favour by even doing basic responsibilities like providing basic needs and paying school fees. However, it's our responsibility to fix ourselves. I know it's hard but we have to. Because we cannot afford to carry the bitterness to our next generation. I hope you find help and feel better.. Do it for yourself..sending hugs your way❤❤❤
Thtz thrue kabisa I now wat wi went
Honestly why we love our parents but they pay us tears in return
sarah wangechi If you think about the time in which those parents were born 60’s 70’s a lot was going on wars colonial stuff and all, as well as I think maybe that’s how it was before the 60’s😂 I’m not sure I’m a millennial
Very true. Been there and it isn't a good thing. The thing caught with me recently and I sunk into depression. I even tried to kill myself severally, let's say like 20times, But I thank God coz with all the suicidal attempts He still kept me. The healing journey hasn't been easy, but I have made good progress. I have learnt to make peace and forgive. May God see her through the this.
Manzee
That tuko madam should be a therapist she knows how to handle someone 💯
She did a fantastic job with this interview. She asked direct questions without being overbearing or judgemental despite the sensitivity nature of the interview. She also took an understanding approach where many in a similar scenario would have the tendency to put down the interviewee.
Lynn should be promoted. I mean salary iongezwe
She has to learn to forgive. First herself then others.
She will be free in Jesus's name.
Amen
As a young man, this is eye opening.
As a future parent, this is eye opening.
As a sibling, this is eye opening.
This is one of those interviews that conflict emotion and understand, one of those that triggers thoughts that in many ways are an inflection point.
Good luck to her.
And many many MANY thanks to Lynn and the team.
I love your comment
Great comment indeed
Do u know she must have told a lot of the men to wear protection and they will refuse to be bare that they like it that way and yet blame her. Zip up men. If u are married stay with your wife.
Very true.Guys do tht alot
100%
your very right
Exactly!!! Then they start making excuses and pointing fingers....
True
There is only one place I know that she will get the healing she is looking for. It's called the Vincentian Retreat Center at Thika
Life can turn .....on Monday everything is ok then boom on Friday you even don't have a clue .I have been here, through depression ,rejection ,sick but I can testify that there is God .
First step is to face the world ,hugs Mami .He's a God of second Chance
She is so hurt, I feel for this lady. God walk with her, Heal her pain😢😢
In Jesus Christ Name you are fully healed AMEN
YES YES YES God will heal her
She needs Therapy not Jesus.
@@nomxhosapekani7966 you are a fool.
@@mildredmulijani7500 Please read your bible before you condemn yourself to hell, according to it. (Matthew 5:22) - "But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother shall be guilty before the court; and whoever says to his brother, 'You good-for-nothing,' shall be guilty before the supreme court; and whoever says, 'You fool,' shall be guilty enough to go into the fiery hell." According to your bible you just bought yourself a one way ticket to hell by calling me a fool🤣🤣🤣
Hey am a clinical psychologist I can offer this gal an ear .
🤐🤐🤐🤐
With that grammar 😳
@Gifa your number...?
I'm hoping to you reach out to her
Strong wall shakes but never collapse.u are a strong woman Njoki dont commit succide again.just pray hard.lilian nice to see you again my primary school mate
This is lady needs therapy. She has a PTSD. She should also understand that being HIV now does not means "imminent death". HIV has became a chronic disease is it is treated.
This is true but some people probably think that life as they know is over . God look over her
I just want to hold her. 😭😭😭 Her heart is so broken.
Lynn Ngugi is the real deal. She knows how to handle all kinds of interviews.
She needs to be absorbed in the mainstream media
Shes has more impact here than there, regurgitating mainstream media propaganda is really a waste of her light
Getting into mainstream media will be the death of her career. She had better stay off mainstream media and grow her personal brand organically.
Marvine Malenge I wouldn’t want her to! She’s done so well here and created a legacy I absolutely love her
That will be the greatest mistake she will ever do.
I pray she doesn't.. That will be the end of her impact in the society
Everyone make mistakes in life, we are not perfect, but we have a merciful God who is ready to forgive us if we repent...Pray without ceasing for ur healing with God all things are possible👏 I will keep u in prayers 👏
Parents don't realize the kind of impact they have on kids. Which is why no child of mine will go through what I have gone through myself.
it's very true. it's a disaster for a parent to hate their own children
My sister no parent is willing kuacha mtoto wake hyo ni kaz ya shetani the devil came to still destroy and kill coz umesikia akisema alibadilika akawa jeuri yaani hakusikia its only God but my sis Jesus loves you
Thanks for the story she is a strong lady God bless you all
Same age as my sister , may God heal you sister. How I wish our parents could listen to us. Treat your children equally
May she heal,she is carrying alot inside her ..I love how sympathetic Lynn is.
i won't lie.. was kind of judgemental at first .. but on following the whole story .. if anything you are very bold and brave
I was right there as you! At first I was already judging her! Wow... listening to her story makes it such a different feeling!
HIV ORGANISATIONS IN KENYA WHERE ARE U?
SHE NEEDS YOUR HELP TOO AND SHE CAN WORK FOR U IN TELLING STUDENTS, ETC AWARENES ABOUT HIV AND GIVE HER SALARY
Bythway
I'd really wish I connected to Jackie. she should not give up. Jackie has a destiny and it's not too late for her. God will keep her.... I am praying for her.
I just want to hug this woman and tell her I am Proud of Her!!💜💜💜
i want to hug you too.
😁😁
She is very strong
As much as this lady is depressed, girls when growing up Need just love ,hug them and make them feel special 😊😊 even if they are hungry they may forget
Baby girl Njoki, remember that Jesus loves you more than you can imagine. Call upon Him in the day of trouble and He will hear you and scoop you out all these demonic lies. Jer33:3
Jesus, came to give us life more abundantly, the devil came to kill, steal and destroy John 10:10.
Jesus will wash you with His precious blood and restore you.
Only Jesus can, Mark 9:8.
Jesus will never condemn you,come to God x.
I did that to my dota but she left my house without telling me where she was going .children also are not easy some times after everything l passed through as asingle mum.l hv pain
This lady is still seriously depressed!! She needs a good counsellor and treatment
Thank you for being a strong woman. Remember God loves you and the bible says" Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed". The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.
No one was born a prostitute. Situations leads people to find themselves in difficult places. Learn to forgive and ask God for His guidance. May your mum talk to you. This is so sad.
so true,my sister...saddest part society alwyz judge harshly&put alot of pressuretowards single,widowed&divorced women struggling to both married&unmarried (esp women above 30)society puts pressure to women and worse come from family\parents to get married to men whom mistreat physicaly,emotionally towards our women...may all my sisters,women put their trust in the ALMIGHTY ALWYZ and learn to alwys to know one thing never depend on a man for support in ur life,better hata ukuwe grocer hawker kwa kibanda and depend on the ALMIGHTY ONLY,,,,
That means alot coming from a man. May God bless you. We are not advocating for prostitution but if we are sent to such circumstances, there is life after. Positively. Thank you
why easily chose it instead of patience
Most parents forget that even young daughters get married at early age coz they never found love from parents but found that love in men.. 😭
True
Well said
Most kids are getting a raw deal from parents in the love department
very true 😧
Your correct and I recommend girls kid to be rised up with care and support from the entirely family to avoid all this tragedy, if parents doesn't offers care to their daughter they will get it somewhere else and elsewhere it will come with more Challenges
This lady need to be loved, she has lived a life of rejection I pray she meets Jesus
Please get a professional councillor
She needs deliverance.
She also need to Repent. Romans 10:9;
@Mangrove Roots No The Messiah is Not fake. Why would he fix Covid. Covid was sent for a reason, so God could get the Worlds attention. that it's time to Repent for the Kingdom of God is at Hand. So what you need to do is Seek the Lord while he may be found because time is Over and the Rapture is upon us. It's time Repent! Romans 10-9;
Meeting Jesus is a sign of psychosis LMAO
I feel bad for you, the pain you went through as a young girl. I kindly ask that you forgive your mother and your sister and you will be blessed. God bless you.
Her actions was evil
How many people she killed by now and you guys ignorantly healing her
Loved the fact that she's honest about things. That takes alot of courage for a good looking girl like her.
True
This is a professional talk maze I respect this lady
God bless this woman.Give her courage to keep going.And long life.
She’s a beautiful woman and so strong. Prayers and hopes that she gets therapy
This girl is playing strong yet she is broken within. She needs help
I agree maskini and she's so beautiful
Completely broken. She needs a lot of love(agape love).
Poor parenthood is the number one cause of social ills..
there is always two sides of a coin ....I feel her and all n I support her but on the part of parenting u should listen to the other side of the story...find the diaspora show on TH-cam not Ull know the other side...not noo judgements ....u should listen to her family's part of the story ...things are not always as they seem....not am not justifying anyone it's only we should not judge pple without knowing the whole truth
@@milkahkimani3546 I agree with you to a certain degree. But that said, the veracity of my statement still stands. Being a parent is the highest calling any human can have... And God is always ready to provide the needed wisdom for proper parenting.. In this age and era, especially, parents need this wisdom more than ever..
@Rose kaoto agreed!
Cant judge her at all. I have been careless in my past, I could have gotten anything back then. I am amazed at your courage to tell your story to the whole world. Hope it will bring closure or help release the burden or start the journey of healing. Mungu wa neema akuongoze dada.
Amen.
She is in soo much pain, my heart break for her 💔💔 May the LORD locate and heal her! I’m so sorry the world was so cruel to you Ma!
Hapa ni maombi ,huyu msichana ataomoka
Njoki is in pain and needs help. I feel like she did not tell her full story as it was too much for her to let it out.
But the good thing is that she has come out in the open and this marks her journey to healing.
Njoki, I believe that you will come back and share your happy story with us. Your tears and pain will be your greatest testimony
You will share with us, what God has done for you. That's my prayer to you.
With God ,He will work out everything for your good.
Wow! Speechless and in awe for her Boldness! Njoki you're a leaving testimony that we humans are sinners! and fall short of glory from God! But there's repentance, forgiveness and hope. Don't give up on life, because life had not given up on you! God has a purpose for you no matter how Bad the situation looks. You have embarked on a new journey of forgiveness and a new life as a Christian. God will see you through. I Will remember you in my prayers! And for us parents, this is big lesson, of how important having open and honest conversations with our children is on important things like See, and also loving our children equally. Bravo Njoki! You are on a healing journey.
AMEN AMEN I believe that too
Very true waaah I think she's holding back may God bless her aki and change her life totally aki
Yes She actually has a lot to share but the pain is too much. God help her.
Njoki may God continue to bless you. God will never give you something you can not carry. He who has started the good work will surely finish it. Just don't give up
You are healed in Jesus name.......all the pain, the anger, the bitterness he will lift away from you because He is able.
Mothers, parents, let's listen to our children when they come to us
Yes mama, what I thought too, we are cooped in our lives and daily struggles as parents and neglect our childrens emotions and struggles 😭 we strive to be providers only
Very true
@GLORIA WADIKO - Unfortunately, some people just cannot do that, they just CANNOT 'be there' for their children. Many parents have psychological disorders, including 'Cluster B personality disorders' like Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) or Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). And many of these disorders (especially NPD) cannot really be treated or cured. People with NPD are not capable of having empathy, and are not capable of 'self-reflection'. And they are emotionally immature - they LOOK LIKE adults, but they are actually children in adult's bodies.
So..... in families where there is at least one Narcissist parent (and sometimes BOTH parents are Narcissists), there will always be at least one favourite child (in psychology, this is called the 'Golden Child'), and there will also always be at least one 'Scapegoat' child. The 'Golden Child' will be spoiled, and will be treated as though they are above the rest of the children. And the 'Scapegoat' child (or children) will be treated very poorly - these Scapegoat children will be the ones that receive all of the anger, and all of the bad feelings, and all of the frustrations of the other people in the family.
In Jackline's situation, there were only 2 children, and both of the children were daughters. It sounds like at first Jackline's mother chose her to be the 'Golden Child'. But then, when Jackline did something that her mother did not like, or that caused her shame.... from that moment forward, Jackline was suddenly no longer the Golden Child, and instead became the SCAPEGOAT Child. And her sister, who was once the SCAPEGOAT, Child now became the 'Golden Child'. This is very very psychologically damaging to children! There should NEVER be children in any family who are treated either ABOVE or BELOW the other children. That is child psychological abuse. And it's so so sad. Unfortunately it is also very common.
Omg help our children
This is deep!!! Interviewer LYN is amazing very gentle and good listener and shes a great coach