अगर Marriage करने का दबाव पड़ रहा है तो जरूर देखें | Family Marriage Pressure | Zorba The Zen
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युवाओं को उनकी मर्जी के अनुसार जीवन जीने कि प्रेरणा दे रहे हो।
लड़कियों पर ये pressser कितना हैं कोई नहीं समझ सकता, 😭😭😭😭😭😭
ना कोई समझने को ready हैं, please हर एक माँ बाप को भी जाके समझाए बच्चा कितना भी अच्छा लेकिन नहीं सुनते 😡😡😡😡
Seedhey boltye hey ki larki biger gai hey yesa boltye hey or gao mey to or jada pressure hey
Ye aap sahi kah rahi mam☝️💯🔥🔥🔥Mai bhi pressure me rahti hai
@@ranjanachaudhary6361me bhi yr kya kru
Mere saath me ho gya bahan 😢
ladkiyo ko kis baat ka presure
जो मा बाप अपने बच्चे के दुशमन होते है वही अपने बच्चे की शादी करते है आज के टाईम मे ।
Hahaahaha
Ryt parents ko sirf next Generation to generation chahiye bs aur kuchni
Agreed
😫😫😫😭
Totally agreed
Thank you so much.... seriously going with this family pressure like a hell, feel like if I can run away from here
I am at the same stage and thinking the same. It not just about women and man when getting married like that. both the parties are involved if anything happens
Ya right
Are yr sabka yhi haal hai
Im doing job thn also treating me like im nothing🙄
@@Banglar_rosogolla I think its really important to be friends with eachother once you are married
No marriage
No alimony
No tension
No kid tension
Single life best life
I am Egery
@@mlmkiduniya71 good
Absolutely right... I agree
एकल जीवन सर्वोत्तम जीवन
Aur Sharir Sukh Sukh Ke Papad Ban jaega Jata masturbation hone ki vajah se😅😅😅😅😂
जिनमें घर छोड़ने का जिगरा हो , वो सब कुछ कर सकता है।
Hello sir, मे 32 साल की unmarried लड़की हुं , इतने साल में मेरी family जितना pressure
दे सकते है दिया है। जितना और जैसा कह सकते है कहा। जितना emotional blackmail कर सकते है कर रहे है । मेरा किसी से affair भी नहि है । पता नही क्यूं मैंने जब से होंश संभाला है तब से शादी से चिढ़ सी है शायद ये कोई mental problem भी हो सकती है। में चाहे कितना भी अपने मन को positive विचार दुं, पर में ये नहि कर पाती । मुझे सारे रिश्ते से नफरत सी हो गई है ।मुझे पता है कि मैं सामने वाले लडके और उसके परिवार को खुश नहि रख सकुगी, लेकिन मेरी बात कोई नही समझना चाहता ।मेरे मन मे हर वक्त suicide के विचार ही चलते रहते है। pls Sir help me..
Both you and your family are correct from their own perspectives . They want you to be happy but they don't know the right way .
You don't have any mental problem . Your uniqueness is not your weakness . Find ways to express what you feel , to a member of your family who is close to you . They will understand your personality and will support u definitely . Everything is possible with love and patience. Your life is precious don't you ever think of suicide . Love yourself . Value yourself .
LIVE INDEPENDENT.....LOVE LIFE
May the supreme power bless you with inner peace and joy .
Thank you sir for advice..
I hate marriage
Sheela sis ap mere Sath pls ek bar baat kar Lijiye bcz hamari same problem hai 😭😭😭
@@ashalatamartha6243 where do you live.?
Life ki 99% problem shadee k baad aatee hai
Kash mere parents ko ye video TH-cam recommend kre... 😂
Right 💯💯
Apne kisi uncle aunty ko bhej ke bolo ye parents ko share kar dene 😀
खुद जा के दिखाइए ना क्या बोल्ते है ?
Wo don't recommend me dal denge
I want to marry but I'm poor
Nailed it correctly Sir. The pressure to get married is often discussed about women but rarely about men.
पहले बच्चे के मां-बाप पावर में होते हैं जब मां बाप बूढ़े होते हैं तो बच्चे बड़े होकर पावर में होते हैं.... टिट फॉर टैट
Heheh sahi baat hai
But absence of pregnancy can increase the risk of breast cancer for women?
@@tanishaullal6551 पुरुषों में भी ब्रह्मचर्य प्रोस्टेट कैंसर को बढ़ावा देता है
@@sadhvisadhvi8867 hilate rho kuch nhi hoga... Ek president and pm or current pm sab bachelor hai
Mein to 30 yrs ka hu or single hu but khus hu .😊😊 mere parents ki expectition hai mujse. Same sir.
Bhai ghar wale ko kaise manae smjhao na u r achiever 😂😂
Dishnat ji khush raho hamesha
Bhai kuch bhi bta yrr ajkl sbne pareshan kr rkha h yrr
@@ShubhamGupta-wp7wu kya hua kya problem hai
@@bbross2275 thanks s2u mere naseeb me nhi lekin
Marriage should be only by 30 to 35 when person is mature and settled and has enjoyed his life.
Sahi kaha simba chowi
fir baad me fati huyi hi milegi ldki ...hahahaahahhahah
Agreed
he's telling marriages are not right and you're deciding age...
Agree
30 से पहले सादी नहीं krungi भले घर से अकेले भागना पड़े 😠😠😠😠
Same yr😂😂
Bhagne mt add jana bus 🤗🤗
You will say same at 40
M ready to run with you.
@@ToThoseWhoVanished it's her life she can decide what she wants
Independent life is better than marriage life
True❤
True ❤️❤️
Right 👍
Single is better than toxic relationships
Sir aap great h ....
Lgta h kise maha purush k awtar h
Aise video bnate rhe h .......aapki kripa hogye
Thankyou sir
Most speakers use word "Khachchar" for such society's pressure creating act. At the end it damages whole generations. Thank you for your suggestions. God bless you!
I showed it to my parents but for them ego and society is more important than child so what should we do? ??
Live that place
Leave* that place
Leave them , this is a great chance if ego and society is more important for them then your happiness should be important for you
"Aap ho gaye settle?" was epic 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Never settle if you have a vision
Yes sir i agreed with your thoughts last from 15 years in Europe and usa is suffering lot with divorce cases so they started with live and relationship thoughts because if they dont like relationships they can move on no one had any burdens to show up that he is mine or she is mine etc...
I got married @ 30 & got divorced @34. Now that I am 39, I feel lonely & a bit socially isolated too. Remarry or not IS the biggest confusion of my life. हे भगवान, क्या करूँ! Above all, all laws are in females' favor 🙁
Orphanage se ek bachche ko adopt Kar lo. Uska bhi bhala Hoga aur apka bhi akelapan dur ho gayega.
@@NidhiKumari-vq2pj Awesome thought. But aapne #Equal_laws_for_both_genders pe kuch nahi bola. 🙂.. After all, mujhe bhi toh ek sathi chahiye jo meri feelings samjhe aur main uski ❤.. Hum dono ek dusre ki care karein...
@@jatingirdhar1589 run from marriage .find your passion.
@@jatingirdhar1589hi
1शादी उनको अच्छी लगती है जिनकी शादी कम उम्र मैं हो जाती है,जिन्होंने असली आज़ादी को जिया नहीं, जिनको आज़ादी का अनुभव नही केवल एक पक्ष ही उनको पता होता है और उनको लगता है कि शादि से अच्छी कोई नही है।और जिनको सही मैं आज़ादी का अनुभव है वो शादी और ज्यादातर बधन को बिल्कुल मना कर देंगे है 2।कोई शादी इसलिए ही नही करता है कि मुझे शादी ही नही करनी मैं शादी को सही नही मानता ,बल्कि शादी ना करने के कई दूसरे कारण होते है जैसे किसी लड़के को किसी लड़की से पयार हुवा और आप जैसे लोगो के द्वारा बनाये गए समाज जिसमे धर्म,जाति अमरी गरबी देखकर उनको मिलने नही दिया जाता,फिर ऐसा आदमी किसी से शादी नही करता और फिर इनमे से कोई ओशो ,लतमंगेसकर, अटल जी,योगी जी, मायावती जी, रतन टाटा,अब्दुल कलाम ,कांशीराम आदि बनते है,हो सकता हो किसी का मन साइंस और अपने काम मैं पूरा मजा आता हो वो शादी ना करना चाहता हो,कोई किसी की यादों मैं ही जीना चाहता हो आप लोगो ऐसे लोगो की जबरदस्ती शादी कराके के उनकी ज़िंदगी खराब कर देते हो 3।ज्यादातर मानसिक बीमारी,डिप्रेसीन,bp हाई,शुगर,कैंसर आदि शादि और पारिवारिक समस्या के कारण उतपन होती है4।कोर्ट कचहरी और थानों मैं जायदातर मुकदमे शादि और तलाक से हुए होते है5शादि के बाद परिवार की जिमेदारी और आर्थिक समस्या और घरेलू झगडे की वजह से बहुत सी लड़की और लड़कों को जान गावनि पड़ती है 5।शादी के बाद आदमी ज्यादा धोकेबाज ,चापलूस और झुट बोलने वाला हो जाता है,शादी के बाद आदमी ज्यादा क्राइम करने लग जाता है जैसे पैसो की जालसाजी,भ्रष्टाचार आदि।6 शादी करने के वाद आदमी बंध जाता है लेकिन उसकी नेचर है अलग अलग लोगो से रिश्ते और सेक्स सम्वन्ध बनाने की फिर अगर वो ऐसा करता है तो परिवार मे झगड़े होते है पति पत्नी को मार देगा या पत्नी पति को मरवा देगी।7शादी के बाद आदमी बंध जाता है ना तो वो अपनी तरीके से खा सकता है,ना सो सकता है,और ना कही आ जा सकता है और ना नाच गाना कर सकता है और ना ही खुल के हस सकता है और ना ही अपना खुद का पैसा अपने ढंग से ख़र्च कर सकता है,अगर वो किसी और पयार और सेक्स करना चाइए तो शादि का बधन उसको ऐसा नही करने देता है।8 शादीसुदा आदमी की सोच भी छोटी हो जाती है कही अगर उसको 2 या 4 आदमी हँसते दिखयी दिए उसको बुरा महसूस होता है,कोई लड़का किसी लड़के से पयार करता है वो कही बैठे है उनको ऐसे जोड़े दुश्मन दिखाए पड़ते है।9 शादीसुदा आदमी आदमी अपने आप को कुछ ज्यादा ही सिरियस बना लेता हैऔर हमेसा एक भाग दौड़ मैं लगा रहता है10 मेरे अनुसार पयार करो जब मिलना है मिलो जब एक साथ रहने का मन हो एक साथ रहो और जब दूर रहने का मन हो दूर रहो,रही बच्चे पैदा करने वाली बात तो बच्चे ये सोचकर पैदा करने चाइए का हमारे देश,पयार्वरण औऱ दुनिया मे और बच्चों की जरूरत है अगर है तो आप कर सकते है वरना कोई जरूरी नही है ,बच्चे भी पैदा करने का सिस्टम अलग होना चाइए वो भी बिना शादी किये और उनके लालन पोषण की जिमेदारी कम्यून की होनी चाइए10आदमी शादी के बाद बहुत बड़े स्तर का काम नही कर सकता बहुत मुश्किल होता है क्योंकि परिवार की जिमेदारी और रिश्ते नातो मैं उसको जायद टाइम नही मिल पाता और वो साहसिक निर्णय नही ले पाता क्योंकि बच्चे और परिवार की चिन्ता उसको ऐसा करने से रोकती है।
I showed it to my parents...they are speechless
Great job. What did they say?
Are they forcing you now?
Agr m dikhau to ni smjhege...
Good
Woow.. great job
Atleast yo showed it to them
पुरी तरह से सहमत हूं महोदय जी
"Aap to game khel rahe the ,vo ho Gaya'🤣🤣,vo bhi soch me pad Gaya ki me game khel Raha tha😜
Aap hogye settle?? 😂😂
🤣🤣
आप क्या कर लोगे दुनिया के सात बिलियन से ज्यादा लोगो को सेटल कर के? ये सभी लोग ऐसा नही कर सकते।
इस प्रकार की सोच हिंदुस्तान का भभीष्य बदल सकता हैं sir
Marriage is a curse. The worst thing that can happen.
True
THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO ON TH-cam. MAN I SALUTE YOU 🫡🫡. HATS OFF TO YOU. YOUR VIDEO WILL OPEN THE EYES OF LAKHS OF PARENTS.
*जितना ढक्कन छोटा, उतना धंधा मोटा ||*
*परिस्थिति मत बदलो 🚴 मन: स्थिति बदलो*
*जिस दिन मन: स्थिति बदली 🙇 उस दिन परिस्थिति* 🤹 *खुदबखुद बदल जाएगी ||*
Vivek bindra's thought
इनका बेटा तो 24 का ही है सर 30 साल वालो का तो जीना नर्क कर देते
😁😁😁😁😁 i think personal question
@@Bhadresh_Parmar aap aise hi sabko advice dete firte rhte hai kya, waqt rahte busy kar lijie apne apko nhi to bad me pachtaenge
@@Bhadresh_Parmar lagta sir aap ne nature ka signal nahi samjha aabhi bhi aap black mein jee rahe ho
100% truth bola aap ney
Right
Children come from you, but not for you - Khalil Zibran
Content mil gya re ghar walo ko samjhane ka dhnywad zorba ji
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@anchalpatel4458 bubu mujhse baat krogi ka🥺🥺🥺
Population wala point to sabse sahi tha. Bina matlab ke shadi kr rahe hai. Iska matlab ye nahi k hamari community hi iska dhyan rakhe aur baki sab suvar ki tarah bache paida karte rahe aur majority banke atyachar kare
Sir amazing
You make a union of unmarried persons at present time
I'm stern and adamant to not get married and remain independent and single forever ❤🙏. I wanna live my whole life with full liberty and freedom 😊.
our prime minister must be like you. all problems will be solved. peace, happiness, justice only no pressure..
Sir me aapka bahot bada fan hu aap ek nayi soch ho aapke jese sabhi log ho jaye to india ko better banne me time nhi lagega
meri social life ka goal:
duniya ki har country ek baar ghumna, pura india k har states me 1 year rehna. aur shaadi nahi karenge to branded clothes, grooming , health pe bhi dyhyaan denge.
aur sex karenge pehle e bolke shaadi nahi karunga, aur proatitutw to hai hi😁
majani life🔥🔥.
Wah sher jio... Mai b tumhare trh hu
ek bat hai sir apki har video jindagi me sahi rup se jine ka sabk deta h lekin main apki sari video ko har bar dekhta rahata hu aur sare videos ko apne harddisk me v save kar liya h taki future me v ise aram se dekh saku....
I'm agree with you sir,, but mere parents ko ye sab lifetime me samjh nhi ayega
Same
I wish everyone's parents could understand this. My family is putting a lot of pressure on me to get married but I have no interest in it.😢
There's a lot of things we should explore and njoy rather than settle for a f**ing stranger
I like this one
Thanku very much sir aap ne pura bhar Halka kar diye God bless you sir
Sir agar mai 3 saal pahle aisi video dekha hota to mai sadi kabhi nahi karta sir I love you
Kitne bacche bana liye
u r great sir..............thnk u so much
Pairent pal posh to dete hai lekin ..uske badle Puri life karjdaar bna lete hai....
It's really like a hell and I am also going through this pressure.
Sir ek video is par banaiye ki 30 ki age me career kese start kare 👍👍
ye kalyug hai ab ap sadi kro ya na kro sukhi koi b ni hai puri tarah se
Sir....aise mein bacche parents ko kaise samjha ye😪....joh mentally harassment hoti hai...zagde hote hai... after all Ghar mein zagde kisse Chahiye...n issue job performance low hota hai job mein🤦🤦😩......ab kya bolle unhe?
100% sach kaha hr sir ne
Ye video apne Family group me share kro
Guys please suggest successful tips. Really fed up to convince parents...
Mera maan pasand ki baat kaha aapne .Thank you so much sir . very nice.
How to tackle parents when they are after your life LITTERLY to get married the second time, and making you feel that you will left alone in the world when they are gone
Be self sufficient. Learn every skill needed to live a life on your own.
Be financially independent.
Why second time marriage ?
@@rajendrasriwas4051 divorce
Well tell them if it's about living with someone that I can find... Heheheh... But to go through hell again... Well sorry...
Ekdm sahi topic pr video bnayi apne sir ji.abhi meri life me bhi yhi chal rha hai.
Sir kaha the 8 saal pahle....... I think I would be far more happy and richer if u come 8 years before in my life......
Aapka AMIT
😂😂😂
Absolutely correct statement sir
IN MY OPINION NEVER MARRY AND NEVER REPRODUCE. THE WORLD WILL BE SAVED, AND THERE WILL BE NO PROBLEMS MORE.
Sir you r absolutely right
Perfect talk on how marriage shouldn't be a requirement. It should be a choice. But Bhai one request, I didn't like the fact that you kept your hand on a much older gentleman's shoulder like he's much younger than you. I'm sure he has his logic based on his experience.... Just saying humbly.
sir my age is 23 i am still completing my graduation with good marks i want to study more i need to improve my career but gr wale ne har wqut ladke ko sadi ke liye dudtee hai
Same 😢😢
@@MoniM-u9x if you are a girl dont get married by pressure society is trap
😂😂😂
Muze nhi karani he shadi but everyone forcing me😢
Pressure mein aake mat Krna kabhi independent hojayi yh akele rhe single is better than toxic relationships
सर मेरा प्रश्न आपसे यह है कि यह जो आए दिन हमारे देश में बलात्कार के मामले सामने आ रहे हैं और सन 2019 में यह आंकड़ा काफी बढ़ चुका है तो इस पर कोई कानून क्यों नहीं बनाया जा रहा!
आखिर क्यों हमारे देश मे धर्म युद्ध चल रहा है?
More then 70% Rape k cases trail me jhute nikalte hain. NCRB ka data dekh lijiye. Money extortion k liye juthe rape case lagaye jate hain
I agreed with you sir whatever you said.
Marriage can be an ultimate jeopardy... specially when you are a woman
I think it is ultimate jeopardy for Men.
Superb ....fact and true advice....
Ye video kisi parents tak nahi jaa rahi vo aesi video dekhte hi nahi hai dikh bhi jati h to ignore kar dete h
Ekdam sahi kaha hai Aapne
बिल्कुल सही बात है 👌🏻👌🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙏
Sir ke liye dil se ek like
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love u bhai
Amit aap bhi comments krte Ho dusro ki videos mai 🙁
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Sir i am 24 yrs old...i completed my mbbs abroad at Kyrgyzstan just on this june 2024,before 2 yrs parents had aarranged aaramge marriage to me with a girl...while on this year march when i was going in my last semester she run away with someone,i hardly stand with my brain 🧠 and focus again on my career and now when i am doing fmge preparation and also i wish to achieve big mile stine then my parents nowadays they are standing against to me and enforcing me to get a merry with other girl what to do sir...i again can't focus on my educational career due to this thing
Pressure from parents will soon come under saviour disease...and more and more people should talk on this topic
शानदार, जबरदस्त, जिंदाबाद💐🙏🏽😊
I'm not a parent still i watched this video,
Mere sath bhi Sadi ka pressure hai sir .
Zorba the zen does no pregnancy increase the risk of breast cancer for women?
Just listen 👂 to aacharya prashant ji ❤✌✅🙌👍🙏❤
Thank you sir really you are right speech
Sir aap har baat ko bade pyar se smjha dete ho thank you so much
Sir agar parents ki margi k boys pasand na aye fer kya kre 30 cross age ho aur kio lover bf v na ho fer kya kre parents pressure krde h choose kro ladka 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️but how jab ladke ki sakal hi na pasand ho than kaise ek aise person se saddi kre jo face se hi ni pasand but family boldi h look matter ni krda but mere life m look matter krda h what can I do
Haha, same here 😂 but yes looks sabko matter krta hai but koi bolta nhi. Har koi khta hai ki looks doesn't matter but that's not true
@@monikask2233 ye yr mere sath yhi ho raha h yr
Yr same here yr kya karu m
Superb. .100 percent right view.
68 dislikes from married people
No from marriage portals
From parents lol
Parents dislike this video
Thank you so much sir 🙏🙏🌹🌹 you always gives us right solution of life.🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹
Whatever you said is absolutely correct sir
Thanks 👍 I hope this video will work
Sir ap meri mummy papa ko samjhaiye na plz
i hope indian parents also think this way as well.
Just said the whole thing of my heart , the whole truth of India is this aur jb bche ho jate Hain pressure se to the whole thing sirf aur sirf bche ko next Generation ko bhugtna prta hai for everything
Sir please help me on this topic = ghr walo ne mera बालविवाह kar dea h , but m MBBS 1st year ka student hu or vo gav mai kheti ka kam karti h ,mujhe usse koi attraction nhi h kyu ki use padhni Tak nhi aati h ,,,,, please make vedio on how to break बालविवाह
Mere sath ho chuka aisa...5years ho gye bt ajtk settle nhi hu sir...jindagi narak bana Di sabne milke meri Kya karu ab...bataiye
Same story meri b meri 24 m shadi hui thi or ab 26 ki hu ab tnaav h life m sirf bcha krk e chlani pdegi shadi or uski shadi aise pressure dal k n krni bcz m ldki thi villager toh bda pressure dala even i lv smone shadi sbhd se b nfrat h mjhe
Abhi apke husband saath hai kya
Aap ki jitni Tarif Karun uthana kam hai
Wow....very nice explanation
Can u suggest successful tips?
Thank you so much sir
You Are Doing Great
Bilkul sahi baat sir
Sir aap jesa koi nahi sochta kash aap jesa koi hmare ghar m bhi hota mai aise roz roz nahi marte
53 dislikes from parents
Great thoughts sir 👌