There is no what if, only what is. Most of us already knew from the beginning but keep giving extended chances to a broken popcorn machine and keep sitting there and waiting for what if the popcorn came out.
Amen. Resentment builds up over time so that every thing they do, even the smallest thing, just pisses you off because you are ALREADY mad at them. PLEASE don’t ever let frustration build up because it can lead to tragedy. Deal with every situation as it happens. Be real and be fair or go your separate ways best for all parties concerned.
Good Saturday morning Susan, and thank you yet again for a this topic, as you helped me personally with this ordeal, I learned myself never to ignore red flags early on, and don't wait for someone who doesn't want to help themselves. What's happened has happened but it ended up a blessing in disguise as the situation was definitely going to get worse, and you pulled me out of that constant constant loop of what if, or what could be. You are a blessing, we love you, I love you and very grateful for all you do for us ❤
Thank you Thank You Thank you for making this! Me and My Bestie knew a Friend whose in a situation where it clearly Checks off all the boxes that the relationship should have ended long time ago. In Summary, its a complete dead horse - trying to maintain it but is falling apart. His girlfriend?/partner?/wife? clearly is the one who is being toxic in being crazy possessive over him. Completely using Manipulative ways to keep him trap to where he is. Keeping tabs on what he does online, who he follows, Always using her group of friends to meddle in where their not suppose to etc. Complete Red Flag central. It even got to a pointed where she blocked me and my bestie on social media when we haven't done nothing wrong. It saddens me and my close friends to see that our friend clearly wants to get out of it but doesn't know how. And I feel like the more longer he's in that relationship, He becomes lesser version of himself compare to who we know. What should someone like myself and my bestie do in this very difficult, troubling predicament?
Susan, can you make a video about when your a couple dating, that some don't give the relationship enough chance. You might think you know someone, or have them wrongly figured out. When in time, if they made themselves more vulnerable they would learn that the person is a very good catch that might have got away.
For the person who asked if you would discuss how to get a good relationship...uh...did he/she not read the title of the chat? 🤔 While I appreciate most of what Susan advises, those of us who take our time to watch a video do so based on the topic. Did that person walk into a math class and raise their hand and ask if the professor was going to talk about the French Revolution??? NO!!!! 🙄🤦♀️
Jolt to the real reality of your relationships??? Ha ha Lot of WASTED TIME AND ENERGY in a stupor of wishful thinking??? YEARS? So sad. Better awake than NEVER??? 😢😢😢
There is no what if, only what is. Most of us already knew from the beginning but keep giving extended chances to a broken popcorn machine and keep sitting there and waiting for what if the popcorn came out.
Spoken like a wise sage.
Amen. Resentment builds up over time so that every thing they do, even the smallest thing, just pisses you off because you are ALREADY mad at them. PLEASE don’t ever let frustration build up because it can lead to tragedy. Deal with every situation as it happens. Be real and be fair or go your separate ways best for all parties concerned.
Good Saturday morning Susan, and thank you yet again for a this topic, as you helped me personally with this ordeal, I learned myself never to ignore red flags early on, and don't wait for someone who doesn't want to help themselves. What's happened has happened but it ended up a blessing in disguise as the situation was definitely going to get worse, and you pulled me out of that constant constant loop of what if, or what could be. You are a blessing, we love you, I love you and very grateful for all you do for us ❤
Your videos are therapeutic
Just subscribed, like the channel very much. Thank you ❤
Susan thank you for all your advice really appreciated xx
And I appreciate your taking the time to write me and let me know!
Very good and informative video. Wakes you up to reality even though all the time you THOUGHT you were already awake??? Thanks
Thank you Thank You Thank you for making this! Me and My Bestie knew a Friend whose in a situation where it clearly Checks off all the boxes that the relationship should have ended long time ago. In Summary, its a complete dead horse - trying to maintain it but is falling apart. His girlfriend?/partner?/wife? clearly is the one who is being toxic in being crazy possessive over him. Completely using Manipulative ways to keep him trap to where he is. Keeping tabs on what he does online, who he follows, Always using her group of friends to meddle in where their not suppose to etc.
Complete Red Flag central. It even got to a pointed where she blocked me and my bestie on social media when we haven't done nothing wrong. It saddens me and my close friends to see that our friend clearly wants to get out of it but doesn't know how. And I feel like the more longer he's in that relationship, He becomes lesser version of himself compare to who we know. What should someone like myself and my bestie do in this very difficult, troubling predicament?
Thanks!
THANK YOU!!
Just love your blogs, I’m learning so much, thank you from the Uk, Bridget x
Love your work Susan!!
Thank you!!!!
Good video. Thanks
Susan New term! FIZZLED
Perfect timing ❤
Helpful video information. Thanks
Helpful
Susan, can you make a video about when your a couple dating, that some don't give the relationship enough chance. You might think you know someone, or have them wrongly figured out. When in time, if they made themselves more vulnerable they would learn that the person is a very good catch that might have got away.
Please. If I have no chance for love, just tell me. Don't see the point of getting mixed messages.
For the person who asked if you would discuss how to get a good relationship...uh...did he/she not read the title of the chat? 🤔 While I appreciate most of what Susan advises, those of us who take our time to watch a video do so based on the topic. Did that person walk into a math class and raise their hand and ask if the professor was going to talk about the French Revolution??? NO!!!! 🙄🤦♀️
Or another video about... she keeps rejecting guys
When I get bored?
Jolt to the real reality of your relationships??? Ha ha Lot of WASTED TIME AND ENERGY in a stupor of wishful thinking??? YEARS? So sad. Better awake than NEVER??? 😢😢😢
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