The Joy Luck Club - Amy Tan - So You Haven't Read

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  • @extrahistory
    @extrahistory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

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    • @factsmachine9905
      @factsmachine9905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      All quiet on the western front plz

    • @loganfish1015
      @loganfish1015 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reading my comment.

  • @301terf
    @301terf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    As a Chinese Canadian, I'm thankful for you guys bringing attention to this book and encouraging an open discussion!

    • @extrahistory
      @extrahistory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Thank YOU for being here!

    • @WilliamSchmidNetwork
      @WilliamSchmidNetwork ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Since you are a Chinese Canadian, what did you think of Turning Red?

  • @zhubajie6940
    @zhubajie6940 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I still can't restrain my tears watching the end of the movie. The twin sisters' words 妹妹 mei-mei, little sister, chokes me up just writing this.

  • @clowned8979
    @clowned8979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    I'm reading this book in English class rn. What a coincidence :)

    • @extrahistory
      @extrahistory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      We have PERFECT timing.... sometimes.

  • @erichloehr5992
    @erichloehr5992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I grew up in the Bay Area (and went to SJSU like Amy did) and one thing I really like about Amy Tan’s writing is here ability to evoke the sights, sounds and smells of the locales she describes. I can viscerally experience the settings as if I were there, and the characters are like so many people I grew up around it is as if I know them as she writes about them.

  • @vertigq5126
    @vertigq5126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Thanks for posting this! I’d heard a lot of positive and negative things about this book, but had never really understood its significance before. This was a really concise look that covered all the bases. God bless you!

    • @extrahistory
      @extrahistory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Thank you for hanging out and watching!

  • @Alexis-bz7kl
    @Alexis-bz7kl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    We actually had a book signing with Amy Tan as the guest of our county recently. It was put off for a couple years due to the shut down, but after the long wait it was well worth seeing her in person 😊

  • @catholicfemininity2126
    @catholicfemininity2126 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Not Chinese, and totally Christian Catholic, but this movie...I can't explain it. I like how it shows SF in the 80's or early 90's how the city was and how people dressed, I also loved how early 1900's China was depicted with that culture, the homes, the clothes, the sets with beautiful architecture and plants (even if it was a rougher time for the women characters).

  • @s_spiritstar
    @s_spiritstar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    My opinion: the book most definitely puts Chinese culture in a harsher and darker tone, but does it’s best to show that the characters are people, and doesn’t sugarcoat Chinese culture into a more plain and much more “Americanized” point of view. It still does in a sense, as Amy Tan is also American, but it still holds pretty true to how it would be realistically.

  • @sakura5167
    @sakura5167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I had never heard of this book until your video convinced me to read it, it was beautiful and poetic and I couldn't stop crying. thank you so much for the suggestion

  • @Cecily_Smith4
    @Cecily_Smith4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I remember reading excerpts of this in elementary school and once I read the title, the parts I know came flooding back in full. 😳

  • @Herefortheteaandfood
    @Herefortheteaandfood 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    I love this book... Was hoping someone could do a summary... This is perfect thank you.

  • @obi-wankenobi1233
    @obi-wankenobi1233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    How about a summary of The Scarlet Pimpernel by Baroness Orczy? The novel basically paved way for the modern concept of superheroes with secret identities.

  • @GordonGordon
    @GordonGordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was such a wonderful summary of this book. I should read this again, it's been many years... As an Asian American immigrant, i wonder how I'll see it now.

  • @b.santos8804
    @b.santos8804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    One of the things I seem to remember about the movie was that its depiction of Asian men was straight out of old Hollywood racist tropes. The Asian men in the film were either abusive, philandering jerks, or emasculated and effeminate. The daughters in the film always seemed to find happiness with Caucasian mates.

    • @secularmonk5176
      @secularmonk5176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Look at it this way ... feminism is far more fleshed out in Western society, so by a simple law of averages, the more immersed in traditionalist society a self-respecting Asian woman is, the more alluring Western men will seem

    • @georgeso4364
      @georgeso4364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well it makes perfect sense since Amy Tan hated all the prominent Asian men in her life growing up in Oakland California

    • @giselletorres4156
      @giselletorres4156 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only Waverly (in a way). Rose and Lena tried to leave their husbands.

  • @sirmr6597
    @sirmr6597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved this book, I had read it in 10th grade as a reading assignment. It was so lovely.

  • @AceMoonshot
    @AceMoonshot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I would like to point out the story is good but the writing is great. Just on a craftsman's point of view. The structure, pacing and her use of symbolism was just so spot on. I am as far from the supposed target demographic as one might presume such an audience to be but I still rank this as one of my favorite first time reads. Go read it.

  • @chickennuggets1540
    @chickennuggets1540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The timing for this video is honestly amazing since i'm reading this book for school right now

  • @MariaVosa
    @MariaVosa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's been decades since I read this - and now I want to revisit it. Great book!

  • @ukeyaoitrash2618
    @ukeyaoitrash2618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I don´t have time for new books RN, I am already swamped trying to read all three of the awesome MXTX danmei series as they are officially published in English! XD

  • @2fsycho
    @2fsycho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This makes me want to see you do a video on Farewell to Manzanar, because though that's about Japanese families in America being put in camps, it's another story about how hard it was being Asian during WW2 and the stigmas that followed the main narrator.

  • @sgxthach
    @sgxthach 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was an AMAZING movie. I admit I've not read the book and I should. However, I watched the movie with my mother and it was beautifully done. I can only imagine that the book is 10x better.

  • @danielkilgore8654
    @danielkilgore8654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm sad that there were so few all-asian casted movies in Hollywood, but may I recommend the dumb fun of Big Trouble in Little China? John Carpenter was clearly calling the industry out on this in 1986.

  • @kaltaron1284
    @kaltaron1284 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Sounds like an interesting read.
    Something I can recommend is the Belgariad saga (and the sequel the Maloreon saga) by David Eddings and his wife. Basically take some stereotypical characters and fantasy countries and still make an interesting and intriguing story out of it. And some of the banter between the characters is legendary.

    • @extrahistory
      @extrahistory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      We're ALWAYS up for legendary banter!

    • @kaltaron1284
      @kaltaron1284 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@extrahistory Have you read it? It's a really good exercise in what you can do with standard tropes.

  • @d.s.mokrys_art
    @d.s.mokrys_art ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love watching your videos , sometimes i get to listen about books i have never heard of❤

  • @aidanjackson5084
    @aidanjackson5084 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I vaguely remember seeing the movie the book was based off of sometime when I was in my first year of (community) college. Saw it with my parents. Don't remember if it was for something class-related or just something I ended up watching with my parents. It was a pretty decent film from what I remember, even if a lot of the details are lost to me.

  • @Munchkin325
    @Munchkin325 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I actually saw the movie first when I was in high school and read the book years later. One of my favorite books and the movie is a great adaptation.

  • @ICountFrom0
    @ICountFrom0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I happen to have the exact same reaction as Zoe when reading a good book. I don't even look up, I just go "BOOK", and keep reading.

  • @ASLTheatre
    @ASLTheatre 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I am heavily reminded of the recent Pixar movie “Turning Red”.

    • @extrahistory
      @extrahistory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      OMG we LOVE that movie so much!!!

    • @ChristianCTaken
      @ChristianCTaken 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Pixar, don't give the mouse credit for their acquisition-studios' work.

    • @ASLTheatre
      @ASLTheatre 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ChristianCTaken Thank you. I made the correction. To be fair I saw it on Disney Plus. Sorry for the mistake.

  • @tonk8735
    @tonk8735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You need to do one of these on a book called an absolutely remarkable thing by Hank Green. It's an amazing book

  • @jaives
    @jaives 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    watched the movie in high school. had a big crush on a young ming na wen. :D
    and then our teacher assigned us Amy Tan's The Kitchen God's Wife. Also a great book.

  • @TheCreepypro
    @TheCreepypro 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had never heard of this book before unfortunately but I am glad that I now do and look forward to checking out both this book and its movie adaptation

  • @elliottcanuel2196
    @elliottcanuel2196 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Legit one of the best books ever.

  • @Googledeservestodie
    @Googledeservestodie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Happy Asian American/Pacific Islander Heritage month everyone. For those wishing for other great Asian writers I also recommend Gene Leun Yang, personal favorite comic author who wrote for Superman and Avatar, As well as original stories about everything from basketball to historical fiction

    • @cthulhutheendless1587
      @cthulhutheendless1587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His run on Batman/Superman was a highlight for me, especially since he took over the series from a high-concept writer who frankly wasn’t very good

    • @TheAyanamiRei
      @TheAyanamiRei 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In a comic class I had to read one of his works and it was good! Definitely a fun elective, and had read intelligent discussions in that class

  • @jocabbb
    @jocabbb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    coming in clutch for my english final essay

  • @moonbound6478
    @moonbound6478 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I read this book a month or so ago for english. It was a good book and i liked analyzing it.

  • @safaiaryu12
    @safaiaryu12 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I read this in high school, but I need to reread it (it's been fifteen years!). Even though I'm Italian-American - my dad's dad was an immigrant - I remember connecting with it and feeling like I understood my dad and grandpa better. Also, I have learned how to play mah jong since reading it and I want to see if that changes how I interpret the stories.

  • @CJB98
    @CJB98 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am starting to read the book, but I enjoyed the movie which showed an Immigrant mother and American daughter relationship between the mother and daughter with them building a relationship with each other in the story.

  • @zainsalhani4705
    @zainsalhani4705 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my god I’d read this book in high school and totally forgot about it this video unlocked a deep memory

  • @fence03
    @fence03 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    AYYYY MAJONG IS FEATURED LETS GO

  • @TheAyanamiRei
    @TheAyanamiRei 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Movies frequently have complicated relationships with their books. I think you can praise something, but still find faults, while also looking at the broader context. Doubly so for WHEN both versions were written and released. An that's not even getting into the differences between first generation and 2nd generation immigrants with how they see and interact with their culture of origin.

  • @Ryu_D
    @Ryu_D 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the video.

  • @AndreTheSalty
    @AndreTheSalty 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've seen the movie of this but not read the book so this is nice to see.

  • @g_raffthearchlich
    @g_raffthearchlich 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am literally learning about this book in English right now

  • @hilaryharris7171
    @hilaryharris7171 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember reading one of the stories of this book when I was in school.

  • @syzygythenightwingwatches
    @syzygythenightwingwatches 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, we literally JUST read this book two months ago in my English class! It was quite an interesting read for me as well, considering I'm... also a Chinese-Californian, but I suppose there are some experiences that can even transcend time. There were quite a few places in that book where I thought they may as well have been describing me or some of my friends. It was obviously not a _carbon-copy_ thing, but it was close enough...

  • @user-ys3et3vq8f
    @user-ys3et3vq8f 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    MY IGCSE END EXAM ON THIS IS IN 3 DAYS - THIS IS MY REVISION NOW

  • @sebastianrichter6943
    @sebastianrichter6943 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good vid sorry I didn’t see the skyrim birthday stream I tried to do a ancient gods part 2 but obs key bindings got mixed up. But happy late late late late birthday.

  • @superdevton1137
    @superdevton1137 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I liked this book when I read it back in high school for a class

  • @macaylacayton2915
    @macaylacayton2915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    never heard of it, time to learn! 8 focal characters in 16 INTER-WEAVING STORIES?! welp my head is about to start spinning out of control over 'wtf is going on?!'

  • @johntheunholy2498
    @johntheunholy2498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys should do "A Song Of Ice And Fire" that would be really cool

  • @helencrafford2616
    @helencrafford2616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Make a video of South Africa please 🙏🙏🥺

  • @blaisedw
    @blaisedw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I dug out my late mother's copy while playing this video.

  • @loganfish1015
    @loganfish1015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you make a video of the history of hypnosis please.

  • @davidwilliam9681
    @davidwilliam9681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is the story more enjoyable if you're familiar with mahjong? Should you play a few games of mahjong first to learn the basics?

    • @barbarak2836
      @barbarak2836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No, you do not have be familiar with mahjong. It is just a really enjoyable book!

  • @sparrowsparrow7505
    @sparrowsparrow7505 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are lucky you run into this coffee shop... with an armored tank.

  • @MagnusWurzer
    @MagnusWurzer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    4:36 "L" missing!

  • @pendragonxt3674
    @pendragonxt3674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is quite an interesting book!

  • @NajwaLaylah
    @NajwaLaylah 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I started this book once, and don't even remember if I finished it.

  • @obierka5610
    @obierka5610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Dont tell me this book wasn't required by your school to read 😂😂

  • @manuharter6382
    @manuharter6382 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cover "All quiet" pls

  • @joshuawells835
    @joshuawells835 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So You Haven't Read Harry Turtledove's Timeline 191 series or any of Harry Turtledove's works in the genre of alternate history.

  • @GordonGordon
    @GordonGordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Any chance you can do Starship Troopers?

  • @va960
    @va960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I see mahjong, I come in

    • @extrahistory
      @extrahistory  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad to have you here!

    • @Underestimated37
      @Underestimated37 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Proper Mahjong is such a fun game, I wish it were more known in western countries, I’m left playing online

  • @cyketrik
    @cyketrik 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this was the book we read in class before we started *the forbidden name* book

    • @georgeso4364
      @georgeso4364 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s the forbidden name?

    • @cyketrik
      @cyketrik 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can’t say, it’s forbidden.

  • @BetterDeadthenRed1991
    @BetterDeadthenRed1991 ปีที่แล้ว

    POV: your here becasue you searched up "THe joy luck club chapter 1" and saw this video

  • @lazlo2
    @lazlo2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ayo 38 seconds hella on time

  • @postapocalypticnewsradio
    @postapocalypticnewsradio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PANR has tuned in.

  • @ElonMuskrat1930
    @ElonMuskrat1930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I read some of this in 7th grade for an assignment

  • @RedShirtSmith
    @RedShirtSmith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A note, at 4:37 the word "culture" is missing the L. at least I'm assuming that isn't an intentional distortion for effect.

  • @TheTomac
    @TheTomac 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Frankly, even hearing about these family dynamics secondhand exhausts and infuriates me. I really don't know how the east can do it.

  • @shawnheatherly
    @shawnheatherly 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sounds like a fascinating read.

  • @bobgilbert1953
    @bobgilbert1953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Huh. A "So You Haven't Read" that I actually haven't read. This is a surprise, but a welcome one

  • @robertfrazier3334
    @robertfrazier3334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fanastic book

  • @AmericanMeiling
    @AmericanMeiling 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Never got to read the book 💝 seen the movie .... Moved to tears , highly recommend

  • @Salem_Rabbit
    @Salem_Rabbit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Next... So you haven't read Orlando. Virginia Wolf

  • @gilmichaud5852
    @gilmichaud5852 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really liked her second novel. The Kitchen Gods Wife A great book even better than this one

  • @emeraldplayer5635
    @emeraldplayer5635 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Foundation when?

  • @ramonram1rez
    @ramonram1rez 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    essay tmw and never payed attention pray for me😭

  • @billybonk7673
    @billybonk7673 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve actually been reading this book lmao

  • @mattdragon333
    @mattdragon333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anyone thinking turning red could have drawn inspiration from one or two of these tales?

  • @Myer2011
    @Myer2011 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why is your cat the size of you?

  • @seootea6679
    @seootea6679 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this book along with the kitchen gods wife

  • @camoakes976
    @camoakes976 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haven't read this one. But I did read Kitchen God's Wife and loved it.

  • @luisandrade2254
    @luisandrade2254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how accurately representing a foreign culture gets you criticized as “distorting” it

    • @yugonostalgia8961
      @yugonostalgia8961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao and where are you getting the idea that it was "accurate"

    • @luisandrade2254
      @luisandrade2254 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yugonostalgia8961 lmao from actually living in a culture instead of an internet bubble like you

    • @georgeso4364
      @georgeso4364 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He follows the Agenda

    • @yugonostalgia8961
      @yugonostalgia8961 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@georgeso4364 again, wtf are you talking about

  • @razorka1293
    @razorka1293 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    cool

  • @Dudewithhair4500
    @Dudewithhair4500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I get this book has had an impact on the Asian American narrative but honestly it’s written with a white savior perspective which is problematic but I appreciate your coverage of this book

    • @extrahistory
      @extrahistory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We appreaciate your commentary and being here to watch it!

    • @Silent_Speaker
      @Silent_Speaker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought it was written by an Asain American though.?

    • @johnyricco1220
      @johnyricco1220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Silent_Speaker The only way books about the Chinese experience get any attention in the West is if it’s written as a polemic about “China bad, except the main characters in this book”. One critic has described this as a Schadenfreude phenomenon. Even today, the main reason major news papers hire Chinese-American journalists is to produce stories that confirm the American cultural superiority standard narrative.

    • @User-vz4xm
      @User-vz4xm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johnyricco1220 What a weak argument.

    • @soohandy9851
      @soohandy9851 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Silent_SpeakerThis novel was one of the only books by an Asian American authors that was popularized...and its not hard to guess why. It appeals to western non-Asian readers by presenting Asian peoples/culture in a palatable way, essentially just walking Hollywood tropes of that era. The story also doesn't 'rock the boat' like other novels such as No No Boy so that why its school literature today. In reality this book is really outdated with a lot of yellow peril stereotypes that will not bode well for the average Asian American in todays political climate.

  • @rebeccamenkel195
    @rebeccamenkel195 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I actually have read the book. I'm a big fan

  • @misterwheatley1386
    @misterwheatley1386 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Obligatory mrenter joke

  • @DawnReiFaun
    @DawnReiFaun 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "You haven't read it?" I watched the movie....?

  • @Kanakadea
    @Kanakadea 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've read this book twice, once in high school and once after college. And both times I severely disliked it. I'm aware of its cultural importance and resonance with many Asian Americans, but have consistently failed to empathize with the stories. (The one exception is in the Chess Chapter where the daughter yells at her mother for taking credit for her achievement. That shout is the way I feel about the book as a whole.) I found every character thoroughly unlikeable and their continual friction was frustrating and tiresome. (I'm thinking especially of the married couple's attempt to divide their expenses evenly which fails because they attempt to apply quantitative reasoning to a qualitative process.)
    Has anyone else felt this way and have they found a way to connect with this significant work of recent American Fiction?

  • @BenCDBrown
    @BenCDBrown 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah, I can tell why I would have never read this.

    • @eliu868
      @eliu868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why?

    • @typacsk
      @typacsk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We're waiting...

  • @RowdyVnson
    @RowdyVnson 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate this series, but prefer when you focus on classics rather than making it about just any modern book.

  • @jonn_mace_80_95_
    @jonn_mace_80_95_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That book is extremely racist which is littered with self-loathing tropes and misandry against male counterparts of the central female characters.

    • @georgeso4364
      @georgeso4364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That pretty much sums up all her books. Same with Maxine Hong Kingston

  • @michaelgray5262
    @michaelgray5262 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The narrator’s Chinese / Cantonese pronunciation in this video is sloppy.
    It sounds weird and unnatural.

  • @pyeitme508
    @pyeitme508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow & first

  • @Hammahlovesyou
    @Hammahlovesyou 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Noice

  • @jameschambers9969
    @jameschambers9969 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    imagine if extra history reads the communist manifisto next

    • @theotherohlourdespadua1131
      @theotherohlourdespadua1131 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's wrong with that? Countless channels already did that and other problematic literature...

    • @iprobablyforgotsomething
      @iprobablyforgotsomething 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That immediately prompted the memory of Folding Idea's "A Lukewarm Defense of 50 SoG" video and the reading aloud of the line "my face must be the colour of the Communist Manifesto".
      .
      Imagine if E.C. read FSoG. : s ...do we hate E.C. enough to force that on them? Has Covid lockdown / social distancing driven us that far into cruelty and madness?? You tell me!

  • @jeroylenkins1745
    @jeroylenkins1745 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    why? because I am a straight man mainly.

  • @vonkug
    @vonkug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been forced to read Amy Tan and I hated every minute of it. They're objectively bad narratives.

    • @yugonostalgia8961
      @yugonostalgia8961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They did some things very well but it's also a racist polemic so...

    • @iprobablyforgotsomething
      @iprobablyforgotsomething 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also remember being really put off by the pov of the mom regarding her timid shy daughter as a failure who had no fire in her spirit because her mother (the mother thinks) had been so worn down that by the time of her daughter's birth she'd had no fire to give her.
      .
      Talk about self-centered and egotistical, and way to judge a person a failure because they don't have the personality you favour. And of course, even back when I read this (in high school) I had some inkling of understanding that adult children being so deeply insecure usually came from being raised by neglectful or abusive parents they could never please. So yeah, mom, the fault was yours, but because of your criticism and lack of appreciation; not because you failed to magically pass on fire into your daughter's soul.
      .
      Relatability aside (and their different race and race-related struggles didn't stop me from identifying -- or not -- with other aspects of their personhood and life), none of the characters were very likable or memorable to me.
      .
      I tried reading other stuff by her and authors recpmmended for similarity of prose or content, but the style just didn't appeal to me then and probably still won't now.
      .
      A work can be important without being personally likable to any given individual, of course. It certainly didn't *hurt* me to read the book Joy Luck Club. But it sure didn't go on my re-read list.

    • @User-vz4xm
      @User-vz4xm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iprobablyforgotsomething The book accurately reflects the reality, only those who has East Asian mothers understand the book. It's like me not being able to relate or understand any Shakespeare's work.

    • @soohandy9851
      @soohandy9851 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@User-vz4xm Shakespeare's plays are a work of fiction and so is JLC according to Amy Tan but a lot of people take this book as a memoir of sorts and its just real bad with some of its outdated yellow peril undertones. It's definitely heavily, heavily dramatized to cater to a non-Asian western reader base and I too made the mistake of thinking this book was a reflection of Asian-American lifestyle when I was reading this book.