Unrequited Love (Four Weddings and a Funeral, 1994)
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- Fiona professed her love for her BFF Charlie... even knowing that it can never work between them. It's a beautiful yet heart-wrenching scene that paints such a realistic, unsugarcoated reality of love ... Go Fiona!
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the lead-up to 'you Charlie'...the eyes looking away, the smile at someone off camera, the tobacco in the teeth, the poise, the neck.....oh master class of acting. Love her.
Yes, absolutely superb and touching performance!
Tobacco doesn't get in your teeth if you're smoking filtered cigarettes.
@@MilanVoorhees tbf, she picked her teeth then flicked something 🤷🏼♂️
@@MilanVoorhees Actually it sometimes does. As a former smoker, bits of it gets stuck in the bottom especially if the box gets shaken.
@@rumblefish9 I'm a smoker and it's never happened to me.
Can’t believe they didn’t make this the love story for this movie. It would have been so much better if they had ended up together!!! Fi was awesome 👏🏼
It would have been lovely of course if they did end up together, but the fact that they didn't bring them together at the end really punches home the very real human experience of loving someone you know doesn't love you back. This scene wouldn't have been as memorable if they ended up together ya know? And the film wouldn't have been as great as it was, at least in my eyes anyway
@@bppmurphy I guess it's just cos i disliked the Charlie/Carrie content so much. I felt his friendship with Fiona would have been a much better basis for a romantic relationship than what we got. but that's also just personal preference and I love Kristin Scott Thomas and preferred the chemistry with her and Hugh Grant. But I get your point. Sometimes we fall in love and the object of our affection doesn't love us back or is in love with someone else. Still love the movie though.
@@Dumdumblonde I couldn't agree more with you. Maybe it's the casting or just the lack of chemistry but I was never rooting for Charlie and Carrie...
Life doesn't work that way.
This is such a beautiful and emotional scene. Most people at one stage have been in Fionas shoes and it's gut wrenching when they dont feel the same way.
Yup
It’s even more difficult when you mutually love each other but you realize that you are at peace and better off without them. With that said, you eventually learn to move on. I know because I went through it. It took a long time to heal and get over that ex-suitor, and in the end, I just focused on moving on. Eleven years later, I have since met another man who is now my husband. :)
This scene shows what true love really is and I admire Fiona for not settling for anyone else.
This was the first movie I saw Kristin Scott Thomas in, and I instantly fell in love with her !
Not moving forward from someone who doesn't want you is foolish.
@@olivierbesson8559 Et moi donc, je suis plus que fan, j'adore cette actrice, cette femme.
Fiona did marry a grumpy soldier at the end of the movie, watch it full
@@manasdhawan9533 she was shown dating Prince Charles at the end
Fi was so cool, sophisticated, funny and caring. She was honest and loving. So he picked a boring manipulative american girl who married a rich guy for his divorce settlement.
Laura Thomas lol indeed
What a load of crap. Fi was a malicious and hard block of ice... look at her viciousness towards Henrietta for instance. At least Carrie was warm and tender.
BLTKellys how was she vicious?
Kat Thomas She called her Duckface and mocked her mental health problems. Degrading someone for their physical and emotional state is not cool, funny OR caring.
I knew Carrie was bad news when she showed up at the first wedding in a hat bigger than her face and a white jacket of all things.
"Mathew darling, where's Gareth?"
"Torturing Americans"
"How thoughtful of him"
I've watched this20 times and I feel the same killing pain every single time
My favorite scene in the movie. Very poignant, relative scene. There's many who can relate to this.
Superb scene.
Brilliant to have a beautiful woman profess her unrequited love for Charles at the very moment when he gazes with sorrow on the love of his own life at her wedding do.
And marvellously acted by two top class thespians also.
She really is stunning and very elegant, a word that doesn't apply to too many people in the modern world.
Her expression at 1:01 would break you in two. That's real acting.
Absolutely.
That hurts... on deeper levels than what I'd care to detail.
Being in love with someone who adores you but will never, ever love you the same way you do is painful for both. The person suffering froom the infatuation will ache in places she or he didn't know existed.... and the one who is loved but doesn't feel the same will very likely feel a deep sense of guilt for hurting a friend, even when he or she doesn't mean to.
Love bites. Only a chosen few really do find their happily ever afters....
Uerf
Try on the idea of being okay with wanting and desiring but not getting. Yes one wants it... And at the same time one is at peace with not having it.
Not getting what one truly desires builds character. Having one's deepest wants and desires fulfilled leads to complacency and even more desire and want for more and more.
Being desperate and needy is unattractive. It is a repelling force. Being truly at peace without receiving what one desires is actually attractive as well as counterintuitive.
MetrazolElectricity Sweet of you to offer, but I get plenty of those dear, so no thanks. It's true love I have an issue with, and given that I have no clue who you are and whether or not you carry any painful STD's with you, I'll courteously decline. Thanks anyway.
my son-in-law decided that after 14 years together with my daughter (7 years married) that he was not happy. He went on his way and my daughter is still broken :(
Van E. Brand damn. so damn true.
Kristen Scott Thomas is sooooooooooo exquisite.
She was too good for him, anyway, and he wanted a lesser woman. At least Ralph Fiennes appreciated her in The English Patient.
They played a married couple in Bitter Moon. Its even more weird considering her name is also Fiona in Bitter Moon.
Yeah, but he got turned into crispy Peking duck in that film. She’s never lucky in love on screen.
@@rumblefish9 That film is a difficult watch. Bothered me for weeks after.
She was so feminine and stunning in TEP; here, with that haircut and hair color, she looks butch.
I can relate to this scene really well.
I'm in love with a good friend of mine. But she's been together with the same guy for 5 years, and I don't see them breaking up. On the other hand, another friend of mine is in love with me, but I don't feel the same way.
When love works, it's amazing. But 99% of the time, love is a bitch.
sirprintalot when does love ever work?
If it was easy, it wouldn't be so special when it happens.
Danny Smith what happens when love is impossible? Does that make it super duper special (sarcasm)?
Be strong friend ✌️
SAME 🥺
I always preferred Fiona. Shame he couldn't have fallen in love with her.
I say good for him for rejecting her and moving on.
Had a taste of unrequited love at 17. Knows how Fiona felt. BEST scene of the whole movie. This scene sticks out
he should have gone for Kristin to be honest
And she was rich too!
@@hamburg1306 Rich and miserable... just how we like them.
Robin Finetto Yep!
Definitely.
Oh, well done.
Kristen is a striking beaut in this movie, and yes it pains deeply to be into someone so much who doesn't share the same feelings back.
I would choose Fiona in a heartbeat. Feel sorry for her, been longing for Charlie’s attention for the longest time.
My favorite scene in the movie. Fell in love with KST right then too =)
Fiona is alot prettier than Carrie.
Carrie is warmer though, and men want that. Fiona is icy and aggressive.
Hmm well some people are icy on the surface because they're scared to let people close. Here Fiona finally let down her gard, but it was too late... Sad reality for many.
Mmmh... Nothing to do with physical attractiveness... Love comes from nowhere. It is an attraction that catch you... And strangely gets you even stronger when the beloved one does not feel the same for u...
Strange, isn't it...
a lot*
Twat.
I just believe Fionas more mature.
I've seen this many times and it still makes me 'draw my breath' Quite wonderful
My favorite scene! I love Kristin Scott Thomas in this movie and she acted so great in this scene!
Her lines killed me BIG.
I've always related to Fi, but now more than ever. Same bloke for over 4 years now. And I am actually in the midst of four weddings & a funeral in my life this year. Odd coincidence.
Nobody does vulnerable but strong women as well as KST
Super sad scene, especially because I could identify with Fiona IF I'd be brave enough to confess to my friend but I'm too scared *sigh* I even watched this movie with him and during this moment I wanted to scream: "I understand her so well!",yet I kept it to myself. Stupid me.
I watched this clip over and over and over again.
I'd give anything to have KST look at me like that and say those words! Right, time to get back to work now.
This scene caries such intense heartbreak
kristin scott thomas is the best british export since the beatles!!!!
One of the realest movie scenes ever
Kristin Scott Thomas what a brilliant actress!
I would have married you, Fi. Right there on the spot.
one of the best movies ever :-)
Best scene in this movie
Ugh this was relatable. I had a guy friend and I realized I loved him - why? I don't know. We're incompatiable but we somehow always manage to have fun together anyway. I told him one night and he rejected me but said we should stay friends... Just that it's never going to happen. We did stay friends... But not for long after that. He couldn't get over me admitting I had feelings for him even when I later claimed i'd just been silly and I met someone else just to prove to him I could be just friends. Shit sucks. Don't fall in love with a friend. I can't fully regret telling him though. It's the first and so far only time i've ever been so vunerable with someone... Many people never dare to admit their feelings and in the end it's for the best because it was an often toxic friendship because of how different we were regardless of how fun we could have together and how much we'd been through together.
Know what you mean. Problem is sometimes you don't always get to decide who you fall in love with, which makes it all the more depressing. Anyway on that reassuring note, hope you're alright now
Such superb actors…..
I was watching this movie in 90s, in 00s, in 10s... And now here I am, in exactly the same situation...
Seems, as a society and as individuals, we're always one ideal person/mate out-of-phase with happiness.
Happened to me.Told a girlfriend how much I loved her Hurt so much.This scene takes me back.
To love and not be loved back is a painful experience. Like you, I was there as well. This scene brings back the feeling.
Been there done that...... there is a bravery in doing it, sometimes its worst to say nothing at all.
I saw this film back in 1995 in VHS and I inmediately fell for Kristin Scott Thomas.
Fiona in the friend zone
Charlie missed the boat with Fifi
HOW COULD I FORGET
Thank you!
Its always been you ..Lloro con esta escena
Story of my life
Love Fiona in this movie 💋 it would be so cool to make Charlie and Fiona together
A mighty pain to love it is,
And 'tis a pain that pain to miss;
But of all pains, the greatest pain
It is to love, but love in vain.
(Abraham Cowley)
Fiona deserved better
My favourite scene in the movie
Oof indeed. That look though... wrecks me every time I see it.
Such a bitter pill to swallow
I fell in love with Kirsten S-T in this scene and remained faithful ever since.
All I can say is, what a babe.
Sometimes when you watch a movie and it just hits a little too close to home.
I'm really happy he didn't fall in love with her. They've been friends for ages and when she finally confessed...they're still friends.
Well, Fi.. you're lucky. At least he's your friend and you get to chat with him and all. Mine's never a close friends. We're just acquainted and he lives far away. Yet it's still always be him to me.
Actually you are lucky. Its really bad when you have to be just "a " friend when your heart wants to be so much more. I have been in that shoes for 4yrs. Fought every day to confess my love or not. And remained bstst frnd aftr getting rejected for anothr 2 yrs to only leave him behind for the sake of my deteriorating sanity. But the unrequited love made me a better person. I love myself and am grateful for every little thing in my life.
@@arthippie333 "deteriorating sanity" eh? How painful must've it all been. It's a whole like physical pain isn't it? There's only so much weight your shoulders can carry before you're buried under it.
The helplessness of watching him/her from a distance, completely oblivous to your longing and affection, wanting to shoot oneself in the head all the time... yk what's the worst? You're reminded of his/her existence all the time. Like even sleep ceases to become a refuge with all those recurring nightmares. Really felt bad for Fiona (and you too). There's far too many of this kind in this world.
Unrequited love is the worst. No one should give his/her heart to someone who doesn't want it. It's best everyone walks their own ways.
Most beautiful and sophisticated women from the UK I know. They worked together in Bitter Moon (1992) also where he let her down also...
Love her in this and many more.. meanwhile this is thw strength that won the war
Good for Charlie staying true and moving on from Fiona and Fiona finally acknowledging it’s best to move on from Charlie.
Charlie's heartbreak and anguish over Carrie marrying that old dinosaur Hamish really got to me.
Only British could choose Andie MacDowell over Kristin Scott Thomas
My parents watched this when it came out..and my mom said this scene was sad..that she felt bad she didn't end up with him at the end.
Kristin is a goddess
IT WAS LAST WEEK FROM MEMORY
So subtle
Fiona was waaaaay too elegant and lovely for Charlie. Charlie needed a wild woman who had tasted 31 men and made efforts to admit that she prefers him over the other 31. Even that can't make him commit. Deep rooted insecurities explains that. Run Fiona run! So glad she was spared from this hesitant coward. I don't find these type of men and their hesitancy endearing at all. It is pathetic and almost funny.
More power to you, miss! And yes, how lovely this Fiona (and indeed Kristin herself) is!
Kristin Scott-Thomas was impeccably beautiful and classy in this film. Could never understand why Charles wanted Carrie rather than Fi. Or how Carrie could have married that knob end Hamish. The latter in particular just wasn't believable.
Like I have said about life since I was 15, you cannot help who you fall for...
It was at this point that I fell in love with Kristen Scott Thomas - and was faithful ever since.
Fiona looks so elegant and independent! I bet she's attracted to him only because he is always in love with someone else. A kind of challenge :)
Their kids end up getting married so I guess it's meant to be afterall in a different kind of way
NO WOMAN SHOULD WAIT FOR THE MAN TO MAKE A MOVE, SOME OF THEM WILL WAIT FOREVER
Story of my life...
Unrequited or not, love is love. No truer love than friends choosing each other. But that doesn't mean strangers falling in love is fake, inappropriate, manipulated or wrong. One's perspective of love is different from another's. To love a friend and consider them ur partner is no lesser than those who don't settle for anything less than love. True love. However, no purer love than a mother's or ur friend's.
Thats what happened to me, i had feelings for her for about 4 years :(
Kristen Scott Thomas won the bafta in this. 😄
this scene is beautifully poetic... and has always scared me............ as to how true it really rings......... its seems like a kind of "grass is always greener" metaphor but is it?... is it really?.... if you can see THAT grass... and are longing for THAT grass .... is it the greener" part you are even interested in... or the favorable humanity you see in some one else that doesn't yet see it in you...... so whats to be done but try to show that person.... but that never seems to work either........ its a timing thing... and a compatibility thing and a mutual thing..... that when you strip away the looks and the physical attractions if the HUMAN thing and respect is not there... it will almost certainly never last......... genuine admiration, mutual respect and a good sense of equal footing is what makes a relationship last... and if you find THAT..... HOLD ON FOR DEAR LIFE........... but if its anything less than that....... move on.... for both of your sakes just move on... ............ peace........ ✌😎
Too much for Charlie!
kristin scott thomas is so fine
The room reminds me of GWTW, where Scarlett makes her similar confession of love to Ashley. The couch, especially. IN GWTW, that's where Rhett was hiding.
Great observation! This should have been Fiona's dialogue to Charles: "Why don't you say it, you coward? You're afraid to marry me. You'd rather live with that silly little fool Carrie who can't open her mouth except to say yes, no, and raise a passel of mealy-mouthed brats just like her!
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yeeeeessssss
Love that she smokes
this made me fucking cried
I’d have gone for Fiona.
Why would he want Carrie when Fiona wanted him? You really think Carrie would suddenly stop cheating when she is with Charles? She would get bored in a few months. Doubt the kid in the last pic was his.
I've never loved someone who didn't return my love. It must be purgatory.
"i'm single but my heart is taken" . Unrequited love hits you take this piece of free advice: run fast, run far; else it will mess up your life for a long time, if you let it ...years ....
You're one lucky man
From 1994😊
Jaja...hay una parte de la historia que desconocemos!
this scene kills me
The problem I have is that the American girl has the charisma of a fridge, whereas Fi has charisma oozing from her pores…she doesn’t even have to speak!
The love of your life can be in front of you as and slap you in the face
It gets better. I'm sure of it.
you have to be strong and just say fuckum, i know it sounds hard, but eventually you learn how to tell them to go to hell
He should have been with Fiona!!!
Id love it if the woman I really like even though she's gone quiet, if only she saw me in the same way as I see her.
Not to worry, ralph feinnes filled that void.
after she married Colin Firth first
Love Kristin Scott Thomas