I QUIT My Job as a Teacher! WHAT NOW?

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  • @2Aprillove
    @2Aprillove 7 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I'm a first year teacher and I feel exactly the same way. I have never worked this hard at anything. I have never felt so unsupported.

    • @JL-ks8jq
      @JL-ks8jq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      man.. at first i wanted to be a teacher.. but no.. teahcers do so many jobs at once.. drill instructor (Fire drills and shooting drills), theyre therapists for troubled students, suppliers (pencil, paper, etc.), theyre after school tutors, theyre caretakers, theyre bodyguards, etc... bless your heart.. its hard especially for such low pay

    • @miriamoppenheim
      @miriamoppenheim 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel the same after 6 years

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JL-ks8jq Do you have a college degree? Do you have any type of teaching experience?

    • @JL-ks8jq
      @JL-ks8jq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Michelle-pn9xt teacher assistant

  • @Sydonnewarren
    @Sydonnewarren 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I need to step out, But I'm so scared. Sometime when I'm at work I feel like walking out all the time but the security of a paycheque every 2 weeks makes me stay. I'm so sad every night knowing I have to go somewhere and pretend to be happy. I hope I'll have the courage one day to leave & I pray god opens a door for me! Thanks for sharing your story! Settling is the worst!

  • @user-xn2hf9re8r
    @user-xn2hf9re8r 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Mary I so identified with your teaching and no one should lose themselves for a job. I cried so much before leaving the profession but teachers can't keep sacrificing themselves for education as no one remembers or understands when you are no sleeping at night and living on cereal bars because you have no time or energy to shop. Teaching needs a serious review x

    • @dollysoto4974
      @dollysoto4974 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      s r. I'm with you!

    • @musiclady72076
      @musiclady72076 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I just quit after 21 years. The sacrifices to my family and myself just didn't add up any more. Thank you so much for this video!! Everything you said is right on time. I love teaching, but it was time to go. I'm waiting to hear from God as to what is next...#faithwalking

    • @crownreflectionsministries8827
      @crownreflectionsministries8827 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@musiclady72076 Amen❤

    • @suzycreamcheesez4371
      @suzycreamcheesez4371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@musiclady72076 God helps those who help themselves

  • @MyNaturalMyChoice
    @MyNaturalMyChoice 7 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I received every word that came out of your mouth! I've been wrestling with fear to do this and that. Fear is of the Devil! When you stand up step out on faith God will see you through! I cried listening to you. I haven't cried in so long! Continue to walk in faith and please share your experience and thoughts. I will be here to listen... Thank you and God favor you in all your heart desire 💓💓

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      MyNaturalMyChoice You're absolutely right! Fear is from the devil! And he can keep that! I'm so glad this video blessed you! ☺️

  • @colettemallory3813
    @colettemallory3813 7 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Every word you said about being an educator was so true. Teaching is such hard work.

    • @reenisabenjamin6643
      @reenisabenjamin6643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree! It's okay to follow your dreams...

    • @maxxitee4761
      @maxxitee4761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve done it for over 30 years.

  • @simplysunni9796
    @simplysunni9796 7 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I am so overwhelmed with the joy of the LORD right now!!! Your video is my 3rd confirmation that what I am doing in leaving my teaching position of 10 years is the right move for me. I am opening my own daycare/preschool. Wow!!! Just wow!!! Thank You Jesus Christ!!! You be blessed & I am praying for your continued success!!! At a lost for more words because of God's great gifts!!!

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nikki C Omg!! I thought I responded to you.. I'm sorry! Congratulations!! That's so awesome! May God bless you in every part of your journey!! 🙏🏾

    • @simplysunni9796
      @simplysunni9796 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Msnaturally Mary No problem. Thank you so much. I put in my notice Dec. 1st & I open my business Jan. 3rd 2017 🎊🎉

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nikki C oh Wow!! Congrats girl!! God will cover you! Provision, creative ideas and no stress 🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @a.d.w8385
      @a.d.w8385 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Sunni Are you doing good?

    • @simplysunni9796
      @simplysunni9796 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I know this is a super duper late reply, but I am grateful to say YES!!! I am thriving!!! Only God can do this. Over a year later of listening and being obedient to HIM.

  • @alyssamarie9757
    @alyssamarie9757 7 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I plan to quit my teaching job at the end of the school year as well... it's too much.

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Uhleesuh Marie I understand.. be prayerful about it and allow God to lead you.☺️

    • @dollysoto4974
      @dollysoto4974 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Uhleesuh Marie I have the same plan

    • @miriamoppenheim
      @miriamoppenheim 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same plan

    • @millymissc2685
      @millymissc2685 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am also a teacher and have the same plans.....it is tough and thankless.

    • @debrajames6316
      @debrajames6316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@millymissc2685 It is a thankless job and the administration are extremely rude and ungrateful. They gossip all day instead of working.

  • @ShelbySteele23
    @ShelbySteele23 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    You just dont know how much this video is blessing me right now. I am in the EXACT same situation as you as a teacher. All year I have resisted quitting in the middle of the year but I am so miserable. I decided to hang on until the end of the year but that is it for me. I just cant do it anymore. I recently told admin that I will not be returning next year even though I have no idea what Im going to do. All I have is a hope and a prayer that God will lead me and bless me for stepping out on faith. Thats why I know that God is using you right now because he knew I needed to hear this. It is such a confirmation that I made the right decision and I thank you for being such an inspiration. 💞

    • @ShelbySteele23
      @ShelbySteele23 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      By the way, I also live in Houston so I would love to learn more about your group and possibly attending one of your meetings.

    • @SimplisticallyDigital
      @SimplisticallyDigital 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shelby Steele Use your degree in a related field. Way less stress.

    • @jowelgray303
      @jowelgray303 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May God bless her. 👏

  • @ossier2796
    @ossier2796 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I didn't think planes were my thing either but at 48yrs I became a flight attendant, retired 2013, When I went to college I thought that I wanted to teach.

    • @ShelbySteele23
      @ShelbySteele23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ossie R I would love to do that. How did you get a job?

  • @Jane_Toussaint23
    @Jane_Toussaint23 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Girl, you are telling my testimony. I quit teaching after almost 5 years the same time that you did. It was rewarding for awhile but so much was happening and I was reaching severe burnout from the pressure of it all. By the grace of God, I started my current job in January and I could not be happier. It pays less, but it is my dream job and it is actually an opportunity that God has been urging me to take for years. It's amazing what God will do when you exercise just even the smallest amount of faith in Him.

  • @MrCaptk7
    @MrCaptk7 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Go Ahead FAITHWALKER!! Your Dad is a Faithwalker, He left his Homegrounds & familiar surroundings to come to a strange City with holes in his shoes and was homeless for a few years and was moving from place to place, and he didn't let your dad down, I look at where I was & now where I am & be reassured, He is leading you beside the still waters and is going to make you lie down in Green Pastures for his "Name Sake" and yes thou I walk THROUGH not stay there THROUGH (not stay there but THROUGH it) the valley of the shadow of death (its a shadow a shadow can't hurt anybody or anything) i will fear no Evil for thou oh God art with me!! You are coming out of this looking Good! DAD

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      MrCaptk7 Thanks dad!! You're testimony is encouraging 💞

    • @LiberatedOne7777
      @LiberatedOne7777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww! What a beautiful and powerful message to impart to your daughter! You're an awesome dad! :)

  • @firespawn0006
    @firespawn0006 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’ve been teaching for 4 yrs now, i am starting to hate everything about it, esp kids

  • @terrapatterson6323
    @terrapatterson6323 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    🎉CONGRATULATIONS! Good on you for following your ❤️. I taught for 11 years and left to work in film and television.
    Knock, knock... You're still a teacher 😝🙏🏽☝🏽️#thankful

  • @scjonesteach
    @scjonesteach 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I can totally relate to your video! I am a teacher in NC, actually an alumni of ECSU and the pay is pretty frightening! I am in my sixth year of teaching and this year has given me the confirmation that I've needed to start focusing on the next chapter. Just like you, I spend weekends, late nights, and countless hours thing of how I can help my students make growth.
    There are so many ventures that I hope to pursue and have not moved forward with due to fear!
    I appreciate your videos on hair, faith, and your career; three things that are also a huge fixture in my life.
    Best wishes on your new and exciting endeavor- GOD's got you!

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stephanie Nowell Wow!! I'm an alumni of ECSU. How cool? Blessings to you in all you do!!🙏🏾

  • @eugenierunner7988
    @eugenierunner7988 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    From one Mary to another, this is also my life story, word by word! 20 yrs of teaching and am finding it more and more difficult as each year goes by! Kids have changed soo much, parents, society, in general! We are responsible for a million and one tasks in the classroom and out of it! Love my profession but it's become more and more difficult and draining! You have to be in this profession to really understand how demanding it is! Soo happy that you are close to God, so am I and He is the one who gives me courage! Have about four more yrs to go! Hope I will make it to then, sometimes am uncertain!?! God bless you Mary and all of us and may he take the fear out of our lives! Thanks soo much for this beautiful video! You are charismatic and and have a beautiful soul and voice!!

    • @cherishdeb
      @cherishdeb 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Eugenie Runner I'm less than 6 years. in and I don't know how you made it to 20 years....there's no way I can do this for the rest of my life....it's too much work, pressure and stress...the only way ppl can last for 20+ years is because they started when society was different. to me it's not worth my while. I'm broke all the time, stressed, under paid and undervalued. I can't freaking do it.

    • @anna-kaybrooks317
      @anna-kaybrooks317 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      cherishdeb lol.. I'm laughing because I can totally relate.. Here praying and asking God if I should return in September... sigh

  • @carolinewithlove4443
    @carolinewithlove4443 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    As I am crying as I write, i want to thank you for your God sent message. I, too feel compelled to move from my teaching job and move to a spiritual path. I'm just so scared of losing the stability. Fear is a "motherflower" and I hate being fearful. I have to know God is going to bless my every step. The first step is the scariest. Please update us on your journey. I personally need it. God bless you in every way. 😢 Thank you for sharing sis😊

    • @miriamp4437
      @miriamp4437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally agree, I am in the same boat😀

  • @ossier2796
    @ossier2796 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Become a flight attendant and travel the world

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ossie R we'll see I don't know.. planes are no my strong suit 😅

    • @suzycreamcheesez4371
      @suzycreamcheesez4371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you don't "become". you apply and hope you get chosen

  • @getfitwithadrianne3183
    @getfitwithadrianne3183 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I identify deeply with your story.
    I'm also a former teacher, as the end of October, and I'm also here in Houston by myself with no family.
    I identified with all of the emotions and fears that you shared, even the fear of flying.
    I'm also stepping out on faith except instead of TH-cam, I'm offering my services as an Online Tech Strategist.
    We should connect.

  • @SandrineJamaica
    @SandrineJamaica 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Been teaching since I was 14, I can't anymore. I am passionate about educating just not in the constructed stifling way

  • @Tatikea
    @Tatikea 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I am an educator also and I can totally relate to everything you mentioned in this video. I love the profession, but I do feel like the stress and pressure is not worth it. Complacency can really stump your growth. Thank you for this, you have really put some things into prospective to me.

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tati Kea you're more than welcome! Glad it was encouraging!! ☺️

  • @kburgess3371
    @kburgess3371 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This was amazing! After 14 years and lots of talks with God, I walked away. The first 3 months of this past school year were the most trying of my career. Thank you so much for having the courage to do this video. Blessings!!

    • @t.terrell7037
      @t.terrell7037 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What work did you transition to? Thanks

  • @QueRicoRecipes
    @QueRicoRecipes 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great video, I have a friend who also quit teaching. This person loved teaching and was very passionate about it, but there s a lot of politics and the bullying some teachers are exposed in some schools (Not in every school, but some) can be unberable. Anyway, you ve got a great channel

  • @pascalebernard9058
    @pascalebernard9058 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Wowwwwww my story exactly! Last year was a very hard year for me also... I cried going to work and leaving work lol it was the worst experience... I left the charter school in February and went to a public school thinking it would be better and it was worst. I resigned in June. I've taught for eight years and year after year i didn't want to do it anymore. In my heart I know I should have my own fashion boutique but I am transitioning into School Counseling. Getting my masters in that while I work as an early intervention teacher which is actually supplemental instruction so it's not a classroom teacher anymore 🙌🏾🙌🏾 and I will do home Instruction...God opened up doors and as I finish my masters and build my finances even more I will open up that boutique and the fashion aspect of my life... God is faithful

    • @pascalebernard9058
      @pascalebernard9058 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      School counseling has been also been a passion of mine...I love helping students but not in a classroom setting

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pascale Bernard The commonality is Sooo crazy!! I pray God does the impossible for you!! 🙏🏾

    • @eugenierunner7988
      @eugenierunner7988 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pascale Bernard Go for it girl!

    • @SimplisticallyDigital
      @SimplisticallyDigital 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pascale Bernard Thanks for sharing and letting us know we are not alone. I have a undergrad degree in Elementary Ed. I never became a traditional elementary classroom teacher because I went to grad school and got a SPED degree and have done that for 15 years. I am trying to transition into therapy now and then eventually a career in technology. Carrying on! 😊

    • @suzycreamcheesez4371
      @suzycreamcheesez4371 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      worse not worst Fix it!!

  • @trophiedouglas
    @trophiedouglas 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Omg I totally feel your pain! I was in that place 2 years ago at my old school. I'm at a new school and so much happier and I actually leave work on time! 🙌🏾 I don't want to teach for too much longer though, I also feel there's more out there for me! I hope I can do TH-cam full time one day 🤗

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      trophdoph Girl at the rate you're going you will be able to 😘

    • @trophiedouglas
      @trophiedouglas 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you girl! We both will!!!

    • @Ife360TVOnline
      @Ife360TVOnline 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      trophdoph i

  • @aprilcheeseboro2964
    @aprilcheeseboro2964 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for sharing this! You feel how many of us feel especially me. I felt like I was listening to myself talk! I began following you because you were a Christian, a teacher , and recently moved to a new state just like me! Thank you for inspiring me to step out on faith and to take the cap off of God! I pray that you continue to stay positive during this transition. Just know that God will ma way!

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      April Cheeseboro Aww.. we are like Seesters from another meester 😂 It's cook that we have so much in common! Many blessings to you in everything you put your hands to! Direction and purpose in Jesus name! With God anything is possible! Mark 9:20 😘

  • @TheHeartsandcake90
    @TheHeartsandcake90 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    thank you so much for this video! I have been teaching for a year and 3 months and from the beginning I felt like I wanted to do something else, but I stayed because I was told to give it more time. I definitely have felt a lot of what you feel already. I am a TH-camr and artist and I would love to pursue those two things more. thank you for sharing and I wish you the best on your journey. SN: you're gorgeous and your hair is poppin! lol

    • @thisbelieversdiary
      @thisbelieversdiary 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      and look at you now!! talk about growth! way to go girl!!!

  • @syrgirl
    @syrgirl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Cried at work at the end when you started singing Travis Greene. I was listening to that song this morning on my way to work and I feel stuck as well but I know God will make the next step clear because He brought me into my current role, a job I didn't even know existed and He has kept me. But my heart longs to be creative and I feel barren all the time because I have natural abilities but don't know how to use them/don't want to use them if all they'll bring is self-glorification. Can't wait to see what God does in your life soon!

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      syrgirl Aww... I'm so glad this video spoke to you! God has a way of giving us gentle reminders ☺️

    • @dawndavis6964
      @dawndavis6964 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Msnaturally Mary
      i have been listening to your videos. i own a public relations firms and work with young businesses. additionally i am looking for influencers and fashion bloggers to work with. if your interested please email me at davis.miwa@gmail.com.

  • @paulag6199
    @paulag6199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Look at you now Mary... all your dreams are coming true 🙏🏽❤️

  • @TheHeartsandcake90
    @TheHeartsandcake90 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    thank you so much for this video! I have been teaching for a year and 3 months and from the beginning I felt like I wanted to do something else, but I stayed because I was told to give it more time. I definitely have felt a lot of what you feel already. I am a TH-camr and artist and I would love to pursue those two things more. thank you for sharing and I wish you the best on your journey. SN: you're gorgeous and your hair is poppin! lol

    • @kedadash393
      @kedadash393 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So funny I just watched your video on why you quit and now I see your comment! I love children, I love teaching, but I am ready to leave the classroom. You both are beautiful and inspirational.

  • @Kay2be2mr
    @Kay2be2mr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I could only dream of ever feeling like my teaching job was "comfortable" it is the worst thing ever! The students are horribly behaved, the parents are judgmental and mean. I want to quit. But I don't have any other hobbies, and I don't want to go back to school. I want a completely different job with the degree I already have. I've never felt good at being a teacher. I have the best intentions and try to be creative but the students just don't cooperate. My family tells me to go for my masters or for a different concentration in teaching, but why would I keep investing in a field I can't stand anymore? I need someone to point me in the right direction because it's not right to wake up every morning feeling hatred towards some kids, and wanting to cry and stay in bed instead of taking on the day. By the way, I live in the Caribbean and get paid less than half of $50,000. I almost moved to Texas because they offered me exactly that amount, and I considered that to be a huge amount of money. I have no interest in Texas though.

    • @SimplisticallyDigital
      @SimplisticallyDigital 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kay2be2mr Try Scholastic or working in a field close to what your degree field is. Adult school might work too.

  • @MissTierraney
    @MissTierraney 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Waitttttttttt you're in Houston? So am I!!!! You were a teacher? I am a teacher myself and well it's year 4 for me and boy is it tough! I struggle with the decision to quit every year. Pray for me. What church do you go to?

    • @MissTierraney
      @MissTierraney 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Never mind I heard u say Lakewood.

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Miss Tierraney How cool?? And yes!! I'm in Houston!! Know that whatever you decide God has you! He won't leave you hanging🙌🏾🙌🏾!

    • @suzycreamcheesez4371
      @suzycreamcheesez4371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MissTierraney Lakewood? oh brother no thanks

    • @suzycreamcheesez4371
      @suzycreamcheesez4371 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sarah R completely agree he gives me the creeps

  • @blackmariposa06
    @blackmariposa06 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is me right now! Feeling stuck and very anxious about this upcoming year because I have given my all! Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @RisWalker
    @RisWalker 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for your video! I’m ready to call it quits after 8 years of teaching but I don’t know what else to do? What do teachers do to make money after quitting?

    • @kiaj.d.5855
      @kiaj.d.5855 ปีที่แล้ว

      I quit at the end of last school year but started again this month in a new district. It’s so much work! I’m making a two year exit plan. I’m grateful to be gainfully employed though but I need a new adventure.

  • @ossier2796
    @ossier2796 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Follow your dreams. I think you're on the right track.

  • @MsEmpressneka
    @MsEmpressneka 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    when I tell you God speaks to me, He does! how funny that I see this months after it was posted, but just when I'm at the same crossroad that you were! I'm still I'm my process seeking confirmation and discernment. Pray for me please.

  • @Shefightsdifferent
    @Shefightsdifferent ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This blessed me so much (years later) I’m so glad I came across this video. As a believer I’m currently in the same “boat” (no pun intended lol) but I desire to go into worship and ministry, and TH-cam. Currently I don’t have enough subscribers but I am seeking God and praying because my job is definitely causing stress like never before and I’ve gotten too comfortable. I know the Father has more in store for me

  • @nadine7327
    @nadine7327 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You have a great personality. You are more than just hair. I'm looking forward to seeing your channel growing in all that involves you.

  • @blu4x5
    @blu4x5 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    if you enjoy teaching then have your own classes at your house. Chose your students. Get out of the system you don't need it.

  • @Ms.Francis
    @Ms.Francis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is way too frequent. So many of my friends have quit teaching! It's horrible. I am still hanging in there but full time is not something I want to keep doing it def takes soooo much from you!

  • @moyagreat7324
    @moyagreat7324 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i am also a middle school teacher and it sometimes can get hard.

  • @AshleyEmpowers
    @AshleyEmpowers 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is amazing! God bless you on your journey XO :-)

  • @margotalkie1370
    @margotalkie1370 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s September 30th, and I’m pretty sure I’ll be quitting at the end of first quarter. It’s the start of my 6th year, but I truly just hate teaching. Too much paperwork and not enough appreciation. It’s stressful and I feel guilted into going o work every day because of the unrealistic expectations society has on teachers.

  • @musiclady72076
    @musiclady72076 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so glad I found this group of people in this new season in my life. All I can do is cry as you speak my life. I can't even believe how I stumbled on this site!! God is amazing!! After 21 years of teaching, the sacrifice necessary for teaching does not add up to the sacrifice of myself or my family. I'm ending week 4 of unemployment. I don't know what's next, But God...#faithwalkin'

  • @DivaBooHoney
    @DivaBooHoney 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great message... I've been VERY stuck in my life for the past 2 Yrs due to caring for my dad. It's been very hectic caring for my husband son and elderly parent. I too was a teacher ( I feel your frustration and why moving on is necessary) and have been looking for my calling to do what God would have me to due. Fear has hindered me, but I believe in what God has in store for you and me. Good luck and God Bless you on your journey.

  • @Rameses3113
    @Rameses3113 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just quit my job as a teacher in Houston, after 10 years too. Wow

  • @itsyourworldtv8077
    @itsyourworldtv8077 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have been researching and stumbled across this video. I’ve also been praying for a sign and I really know teaching is not for me because I know there’s more out there for me. 🙏🏽😫

  • @angeleyes5020
    @angeleyes5020 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I too quit my job as a school counselor last year. I've been an educator for 16 years. I was miserable and I can sooooo relate to this video. I quit stepping out on faith and am working on moving to Arlington, Texas. I'm trusting God I know there is so much more for me. Thank you for sharing this, it just validates what I already knew for myself.

    • @Tammy8823
      @Tammy8823 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Angel Eyes hello? I’m considering studying to become a school guidance counselor....if you don’t mi d my asking, why did you quit?

  • @t.t.4645
    @t.t.4645 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great inspiration. Thank you for so much sharing! I’ve followed you and have been a subscriber for a while and never knew your story until now. Happened to be searching videos for transitioning teachers wanting to leave the field. Your story spoke to me on sooooo many levels! May god continue to bless you and your platform. You have inspired me to work at creating a future that will make me happy while utilizing my god given talents. After 14 years, teaching has been exhausting, draining, and just not fun anymore. My mother always says that I am the King’s child and that he owns everything I need. Stepping out on faith is super scary, but I have learned that if you put your trust in him he will always show up on time. Again, thank you, may God continue to bless you, and keep being an inspiration to others.

  • @win30034
    @win30034 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This message is life changing. Its 2:38 am EST. I am at the 12 min mark, and will pick up in the am. I am currently a ParaPro and have things in place to transition into teaching. Last year was so ...... I will just say I respect anyone who makes a career, and has the gumption to be a teacher. I go back in a few weeks, and I am dreading it.
    God willing January I will transition to another phase. I have never been more stressed and frustrated. I guess part of it is me, and part is the system, but regardless, it has been bad for my health. God bless.

  • @BlahBronxJodes
    @BlahBronxJodes 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    BEAUTIFUL. INSPIRING. EMPOWERING. SOUND! God bless you, I needed this!

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ms. King I'm so glad it blessed you! ☺💞

  • @Andersonmonty08Styles
    @Andersonmonty08Styles 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow, Mary, I've been watching your videos for years. Fellow NC educator here and this video brought me to tears. This popped back up on my feed after watching Martha's video recently on how she left the classroom. I've been feeling this same way for the last four years and God keeps telling me to just trust Him and let go of what's not serving me. I aspire to have some of the same things you have via social platforms and to hear you speak on your main goal being to serve the LORD, was a beautiful reminder for me. and to see how your beautiful life has unfolded though the years is amazing. You mentioned having 1 mil subs and here you are. So proud of both you and Martha for stepping out on faith and seeing God work miracles in your lives is amazing. I am truly blessed by your journey. We have so much in common!! I hope to meet you and Martha one day. GOD BLESS!!

  • @mmdmmj1
    @mmdmmj1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey...how did you explain to your boss that you wanted to leave?? I'm just curious because lately I've been feeling the same way about education. I'm considering putting in my resignation in a couple months

    • @sweetbee06
      @sweetbee06 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      mjbaybgurl did you end up doing it !?

    • @mmdmmj1
      @mmdmmj1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sweetbee06 I'm just seeing this comment, but no I'm still a teacher...lol. It has gotten a little better though. But we'll see what the future holds. It's all in God's hands

  • @helonbaker8104
    @helonbaker8104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love that you are a Christian. And I’ve been teaching 10 years too! I started wanting to leave at year 7. When they added 3 high school art classes to my load of 400 elementary students (25 classes), I was DONE. Oh and no pay raise AT ALL, like gave me another teacher’s job with my job (2 workloads) for no raise!! Ugh. And yes girl, we bring all that home. I’ve looked for other teaching positions but either wasn’t the right fit or I just didn’t get the job. I have several other options. I do nails, I am an artist and make paintings and pottery, and also do private art lessons (at my school). So I just need God to show me what to do. But so happy I could you!

  • @SuppleChicTV
    @SuppleChicTV 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    omg you are saying everything im feeling, is it me God

  • @AZSKINANDWAX
    @AZSKINANDWAX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is my 3rd year teaching and I have felt the exact same way. I just recently told my administrators that I will not be returning next year and the weight and fear was immediately taken. I have been working 3 different jobs for the past 3 years just to make it. I know God has more in store for me. Even though this video was two years ago its like you just spoke to me today. This was EXACTLY what I needed to hear to take away the guilt of moving forward. #faithoverfear

  • @angelica7588
    @angelica7588 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I recently quit my job, with much prayer and guidance. I knew with all of my heart God was saying okay. He opened another door but recently the door closed. I've been praying about where to go next. Trusting God is so hard. It's funny because all of this is happening as God has elevated me to a new level, as a leader in my church now . Now I'm a leader in my church and things are happening left from right. At night sometimes I have panic attacks, I fear the worst. But I'm trusting God never the less. In John chapter 6 Phillip was tested, but the word said Jesus already knew what he was going to do. I'm trusting God to work things out for us both because I know he already knows what he's going to do. I can't wait until you come back and tell us about God's goodness through you.

  • @muddypalmsera
    @muddypalmsera 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good for you! I quit my "teaching" job and *then* I moved to H-town.

  • @areallygoodlook
    @areallygoodlook 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Mary for sharing this. I am in the same position with being 5+years in teaching. It's just gotten unbearable in New York school system among other things. When you said are you crawling or walking .... I realized that I am operating out of fear and worry about taking a pay cut in transitioning careers. I get anxious when I keep praying about this and don't hear Gods voice. However I am exercising intentionality in trusting God to make a way. Thank you for sharing. I just binged watched all of your vlogs ..💜💜💜

  • @kaela606
    @kaela606 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was such an encouraging video. This was such a God thing for me to come across this video. Reason being, I had an idea and the first thing that came to mind was "Go do a vision board". (that was a couple of hours ago) Now I'm sitting in the parking lot about to go get the material and you start talking about your vision board. Amazing!

  • @promisegrace2248
    @promisegrace2248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People are giving up on the children take all the kids to altar of God and pray pray pray over them it's spiritual whats going on in the schools with kids the Devil wants our children I understand your points

    • @suzycreamcheesez4371
      @suzycreamcheesez4371 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      way oversimplified apparently you've never been in a classroom teaching position

    • @promisegrace2248
      @promisegrace2248 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@suzycreamcheesez4371 yes I have and everybody not called to teach as well

  • @gifto8
    @gifto8 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have just encouraged me with this video. I am so happy that you have teamed up with God and allowed him to take you on this journey. Thank you for sharing it with the world. Thank you for using your experience to encourage others. The lord has given you a voice, experience and a story. Keep going deeper with him, let the holy spirit continue to direct you. The lord is your strength.
    I am at the phase of my life where I don't like what I do at the moment but I don't know what else I can do or what I am good at. But I refuse to be defeated by the enemy. In Jesus name I am very talented, I refuse to be stuck in a job or career that I don't enjoy I will continue to wait on the lord to lead my steps to the anointed things he has created me to do.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽Amen

  • @shauntaay
    @shauntaay 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Almost 3 years later, this is a word for me! ❤️

  • @freegurl76
    @freegurl76 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    After suffering a stroke 3 weeks ago, I know now my 18 years as a teacher will come to an end on December 1st. I am asking God to guide me into a less stressful career, and at the moment I have no clue what to do with my life. However, just hearing your positive words made me feel like this is the right decision, and I have to make this drastic change for my health and my family. Thank you...

  • @a.scarbro8279
    @a.scarbro8279 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There is passion in your voice! Thank you for sharing this video to remind people to not get distracted with capitalism, but focus on plans God has for us:)

  • @lovelydrae
    @lovelydrae 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amen. You have certainly just inspired me. Thank you. I look forward to seeing the marvelous works he's getting ready to perform in your life.

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Danielle Davis I'm so blessed to hear that!☺️

  • @YellowSynth
    @YellowSynth 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    maybe you can do both. whatever you've given to those children is worth more than what money can give.

  • @BreLee003
    @BreLee003 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mary, this video inspires me to step out on Faith and do what God called me to do. God has been telling me to move to NYC and now I am finally takin steps to do so within the next few months. Pray for me.xo

  • @djiglehart
    @djiglehart 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG, Mary! I'm not an educator, but I can so relate to the need and desire for a drastic change in my life. From career and working out to choosing love and trusting God in all things. Thank you for giving me the courage to Step Out in Faith! You're someone I need in my life. I'm in Houston, too, and would welcome a friendship with you, my sister in Christ. BTW, I'm loving that hair!

  • @lyz18
    @lyz18 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't know why but my heart feels so heavy watching this, I feel paralysed by fear and have practically given up

  • @ldr792
    @ldr792 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You sound just like me! I always said I was gonna move on after 5 years. I’ve been praying because I do enjoy children but I dread work most days the behavior management, planning etc. and actually teaching them. Currently a 3rd year teacher in Detroit and so if I leave teaching what can I do realistically with an elem edu degree?

  • @teachermade766
    @teachermade766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm trying to leave the classroom now ♥️🙃 buying starting this youtube channel of mines

  • @teachermade766
    @teachermade766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm trying to leave the classroom now ♥️🙃 buying starting this youtube channel of mines

  • @GypsyGalPatriot
    @GypsyGalPatriot 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Congratulations on your choice to step out of the security raft, and trust Him only.

  • @tonyam59
    @tonyam59 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yass girl.... I am literally going through the same thing. the transition is real... BUT GOD!!!He will never leave you nor forsake you. Be blessed, this is just the beginning of what he ordained for you.

  • @AshantiempressGH
    @AshantiempressGH 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow I love you so much for this message. I definitely need to hear it. Thank you so much. God is always on time. I know He is taking you to higher places.

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ashanti_empress You're more than welcome!! I'm so glad it blessed you! And thanks so much for the encouragement 😘

  • @Yaya_J
    @Yaya_J 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This!!! Helped me soooo much I’m at the point of my life we’re I’m ready to move forward trusting God to give me confirmation to move forward!!

  • @JodiKayEdwards
    @JodiKayEdwards 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Really needed to hear this today, couldn't agree more!

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jodi-Kay Edwards I'm so glad it was encouraging 💞

  • @conniejohnson9340
    @conniejohnson9340 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    +Ms Naturally Mary this was so touching. As you spoke I saw myself, my life. I am coming up on my 10th year teaching in January. I have always loved children and I always wanted a career that would allow me to work with them. But Teaching was always been my last career choice. Since I've been education it has been a struggle and I've never fully just loved what I do. I've never felt like its something I do well, tho some would disagree. Like you I've been asking God if this is where He would have me then make plain to me. I don't want to be out of His will in any aspect of my life, but my job can make me so unhappy most of the time.

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Connie Johnson Know that God is near. He hears your prayers and will send you an answer. Many blessings to you 🙏🏾

  • @shetly2002
    @shetly2002 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    new Subie.... I have watched your videos for years.... thank you for being transparent and encouraging...

  • @ryanmartin873
    @ryanmartin873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I mean, just WOW! This video blessed me so! So many things that I needed to hear. Thank you!

  • @LovemeNikkibabes
    @LovemeNikkibabes 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You truly blessed my heart. I initially came to your page to look at your make up and get some hair ideas, but "I quit my job" popped up. I needed every word. I pray that you continue to pour into others what the the Lord has given you. Stay encouraged ❤️

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      NikkiJenLove Aww.. I'm so glad you were led here!! Means a lot to me that it encouraged you☺️

  • @negrettahughes550
    @negrettahughes550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Lord for giving Mary this message to inspire me! I receive it and I believe it. God has blessed me with so many gifts and I'm ready to use more of them and step out on Faith again. God Bless you Mary 💞#GodIsMySource

  • @indeedlove
    @indeedlove 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such a vessel! Thank you for sharing this, it is very moving as I was struggling with making the same decision, until now. You probably have no idea how many people you are touching with your story. Faith over fear! Have an amazing day sis! 💕

  • @djsantitv4685
    @djsantitv4685 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This message means so much to me. I am ready to put it all in Gods hands and not be complacent. I will like to move from where I live as well and start over. I have faith that God will bring me down the path He wants me to be. I want to step out the boat!!

  • @tamekamiller2808
    @tamekamiller2808 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really appreciate your video very encouraging

  • @mjp7300
    @mjp7300 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @michelleperez1808
    @michelleperez1808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been a teacher for 12 years now, I just feel burned out. I love teaching, but I think it's enough. It's like been in a relationship, a toxic relationship, it's not healthy to give all of you without the support of the other "people" in that relationship.
    Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @drothy12
    @drothy12 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ms Mary...God will do it for his glory. This is what the enemy fears when we step out on faith into our destine. God bless you and may his peace guard your heart

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      drothy12 Absolutely!! You're so dead on 👌🏾 Thanks so much!

  • @deborahsdestiny7978
    @deborahsdestiny7978 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this video fear is not of God .

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is similar to my story. I quit my job as a music educator and stepped out on faith in 2006 to moved from SC to Florida. Although there have been some challenges along this faith walk, God has remained faithful! Looking forward with expectation as to where He leads me next. Keep the faith....and continue to listen, trust, and obey. TFS!

  • @tlr8306
    @tlr8306 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this because I also feel like I am also at a cross roads and I am wondering if I'm hearing my voice or God's voice. And by the way your voice is beautiful. You need to sing more please and thank you.

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tia Roberts I'm so glad this video blessed you!! And thank you! I'll try to sing more 😌

  • @luckychimey
    @luckychimey 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need to step out, but I don't think I hear/see Jesus yet. I know He's working. I know He'll show Himself to me soon. Funny thing, I was going to go into education too. I've been working in after school programs for a while and I wanted to make that jump to full time teaching, but lately I stopped thinking it was the right choice. I'll keep praying though!

  • @shemikacampbell566
    @shemikacampbell566 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. Right now I am going through the same challenges and I'm praying for answers and I stumble unto your Instagram account. I pray that I will allow God to lead just as you did. #LeapofFaith

  • @loish781
    @loish781 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤ I have been following u and ur Twin Martha for yrs. I knew u said u were a teacher also. But this is the 1st time I have seen this Vlog. I 💕 How U stayed foused 🙏🏽. Ur Married to JJ 👨🏾‍🚒 and have Baby Josh. Look at GOD 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞. Continue Blessing to u and the family

  • @iamlyrics9118
    @iamlyrics9118 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me coming to your channel within past year or so and to see GOD was faithful to HIS promise and to perform it. I am so happy for you and YOUR best is yet to come.

  • @rlateish
    @rlateish 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this message love! I have been thinking about quiting my job for years now not knowing my purpose or what career field I should be in but I know it's not this. Your message spoke to me. Thank you!

    • @MsNaturallyMary
      @MsNaturallyMary  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lateisha Wallace I so glad it encouraged you ☺️

  • @FatimaBWriting
    @FatimaBWriting 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If only I could like 1000x! What an encouraging message. I know this was a few months ago...but look at all that God has done since!! He's so amazing!

  • @jazzyjayhellum7273
    @jazzyjayhellum7273 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mary to break free from fear do you remember watching cartoons as a child. The cat chasing the mouse's and the mouse casting his shadow on the wall and how big his little shadow. appear.Thats fear the big shadow, look down at the little mouse's and step on your fear. Pastor spoke on that and that's the way he explain it. That moment I let go of fear in every area of my life. God took it I don't walk in fear. Be set free my child. Thank U for moving forward

  • @IamPamelaMichelle
    @IamPamelaMichelle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is wonderful!! Many blessings to you. I would like to do the same, but I don't have any savings and don't know what I would do. Any tips?

  • @De3e3
    @De3e3 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    " it's not for me to have 1 million subscribers"
    Now Look at you almost 8 years later with over 1 million subscribers, a successful you tube channel, a wonderful husband, and a precious, adorable baby boy💙
    God Truly is AMAZING♥️🙌