Underprivileged millennials: Being young, poor in Jakarta

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  • @ezi_qurnia
    @ezi_qurnia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2692

    politikus hampir tiap hari ngomongin soal milenial, mereka berusaha meraih suara dari milenial dengan mengikuti kehidupan (tren) urban. padahal yg paling dibutuhkan milenial dalam menghadapi dunia dan yang harus diperjuangkan adalah pendidikan, bukan gaya hidup.

    • @FathiahAlhabsyi
      @FathiahAlhabsyi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      mantap bg

    • @evisya8826
      @evisya8826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Yap mereka bilang milenial harus mengikuti perkembangan zaman, melihat kemajuan luar negeri, bekerja dgn bidang yg berhubungan dengan teknologi tapi lupa akarnya ada di pendidikan..

    • @stressedbyamountainofbooks
      @stressedbyamountainofbooks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      ya, kalo bisa bahasa inggris saja dan punya uang untuk laptop(atau bahkan bisa ke warnet) mereka bisa cari kerja online yang bayar 5-10 dollar per jam, tanpa kuliah atau sekolah pun.... bisa kerja online jadi transcriptionis, microworker, search engine relevance dan lain lain....
      5 dollar itu 70 ribu, 8 x 70.000 = 560.000 rp per hari
      560.000 rp x 20 = 11.200.000 rp
      Edit: sekarang marketnya udh terlalu rame untuk microworker.
      lumayan kalo tanpa pendidikan formal itu
      orangnya juga bodoh, mau beli mobil dan alat elekronik terkini, atau baju/sepatu mahal. padahal gaji mereka tidak memadai, jadi mereka ambil utang... cuman buat gaya, padahal bisa di investasi ke diri sendiri dulu

    • @adamantobserver8655
      @adamantobserver8655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Tapi percuma juga bang pendidikan tinggi tapi masih nganggur.

    • @Sunzen44
      @Sunzen44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Bahaya buat mereka bikin edukasi yang "benar" kalo alasan mereka bisa bermain politik itu karena nge"bego"in rakyatny, model citizen buat mereka itu yang pintar teknologi dan sains tapi terlalu "bego" untuk sadar kalo rakyat sendiri jadi budak gaji rendah untuk perusahaan negara maju.

  • @meow710
    @meow710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2993

    Finally, someone that tells millennials is not only about glamorous life.

    • @dewivangreuningen5494
      @dewivangreuningen5494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Yess exactly! So we dont get jealous of the glamorous live and makes us grateful of the "normal" life we have

    • @vigovampiro5162
      @vigovampiro5162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      They need money to enjoy the glamorous lifestyle

    • @rajahutan1698
      @rajahutan1698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeahhh bitches

    • @hadison6838
      @hadison6838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      "Millennial" has always been about the years/time of birth.

    • @Zikeal-d4l
      @Zikeal-d4l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do they deserve money tho

  • @fandyyy2571
    @fandyyy2571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +985

    Kalau ada yang mau membantu mas Adit ini, bantuan paling besar adalah pendidikan. Bantu dia buat kejar paket C atau bahkan beasiswa untuk kuliah. Beliau sepertinya cocok jadi sesosok mahasiswa aktif dan supel, plus he cares about his community.

    • @nazelaafifah_
      @nazelaafifah_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Benar sekali, kelihatan dari pembawaannya

    • @bayup4829
      @bayup4829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      paket c itu membantu banget loh, ditempat saya ada yang lulus paket c dan diterima kampus pakai jalur sbm + gratis pula selama ikut paket C

    • @vigovampiro5162
      @vigovampiro5162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Suruh ikut kartu pra kerja

    • @porronesianparapio4044
      @porronesianparapio4044 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true!

    • @topanlazuardi9251
      @topanlazuardi9251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      jangan kuliah, lbh bagus skill, gw kuliah dan justru orng kyk adit itu bakal ditarik dimanfaatkan jadi kaderisasi parpol, ujunya bakal di suruh cari massa krn skill ngomongnya

  • @sunshinecooky6071
    @sunshinecooky6071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +520

    when Adit said: "I'm a poor millennial" while laughing, I thought: he is in such a state, but still able to laugh. I don't know, I salute him😭🔥

    • @rexevan6714
      @rexevan6714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Sometimes we can't helped but laugh at our situation

    • @alvirosy
      @alvirosy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      What a human. :')

    • @scambutterboi3988
      @scambutterboi3988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i mean like its better to be happy than keep complaining and stuff. maybe he is always thinking positif of what he have rn

    • @blockedinchina6015
      @blockedinchina6015 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ignorance is a bliss.

    • @sunshinecooky6071
      @sunshinecooky6071 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@scambutterboi3988 yeaaa

  • @keyaa03
    @keyaa03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1706

    Adit is a good example of millennials who sadly come from a poor family. I’ve seen many “poor millennials” who choose to do nothing except only burden their parents. But, Adit choose to fight for his life. Although, what he got isn’t comparable to his hard work

    • @ezatangguh9404
      @ezatangguh9404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How about u? I mean your parents economy class aw so Many people get offended because of my comment 😭 sorry🥺

    • @keyaa03
      @keyaa03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      @@ezatangguh9404 why do u ask? It’s none of your business. Seriously though, why are you asking me about my social class status?

    • @mzidanealfaridzi2124
      @mzidanealfaridzi2124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I was one of those ungrateful bastard , but when i hit 21 two years ago i now i have to change , now i have stable job and above avarege salary

    • @keyaa03
      @keyaa03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@mzidanealfaridzi2124 that’s nice! Cz in the end we’re the ones who should take responsibility for everything in our life. Wishing you great success ahead.

    • @Hans.Dewitt
      @Hans.Dewitt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I reckon he doesnt actually have much choice, he has to be the breadwinner of the family. Just a shame he did not get the opportunities in life some of us have

  • @muhamadfajar1554
    @muhamadfajar1554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2965

    Adit is a lively kid!
    If he was born into another condition with the same personality as he is now, he could be a great communicator I guess.

    • @gearryandreas5788
      @gearryandreas5788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I thought the same thing.

    • @qaffqahhaar9380
      @qaffqahhaar9380 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      I’d befriend him anytime

    • @riovitoni
      @riovitoni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Agree, i also support him , he so cheerfull and a bright person

    • @bayuajii4086
      @bayuajii4086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Wafi Hartono engles plis

    • @hermansyah2675
      @hermansyah2675 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wat al yu talking abot jar?

  • @dwiwahyuningtyas7402
    @dwiwahyuningtyas7402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2852

    My thoughts on this video:
    1. I love the reporter, Karina. You did such a great job, girl! I love your style, the way you speak, and gestures. Such a genuine and humble reporter.
    2. Millennials are not all about sipping a cup of coffee or tea in the morning. Many other millennials out there are struggling to fund their lives.
    3. High school and university graduates may have different ways of thinking about marriage life. This might be influenced from where they are; low, middle or high class family.
    4. This the content that I expect from Jakarta Post. Thanks for sharing!

    • @Nop1337
      @Nop1337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Yep! Her voice tone is relaxing and the way she knitted her words is splendid.

    • @nabiladara385
      @nabiladara385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      So true about no. 3. I and my parents postponed marriage proposal from my bf for the reason we are both just graduated from our profession education and we have to enrolled in one year internship program before we can obtain a real,steady job. Not in a slightest i and my parents have a thought about that taboo of rejecting marriage proposal, i know it the moment i watch this documentary 😂 damn

    • @Hans.Dewitt
      @Hans.Dewitt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@nabiladara385 thats probably the best, I would not even consider marriage until you can atleast afford to cicil your own place to live

    • @fos1451
      @fos1451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Hans.Dewitt too bad many people don't do that and the cycle keep continue with their generation

    • @nabiladara385
      @nabiladara385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Hans.Dewitt yeah, even if we still can live a decent living with side freelance job while rent a house, taking kpr needs at least working 2 years (cmiiw) and it's more worth the waiting to pay for a living place monthly but you'll get the ownership in the end

  • @caelumcae5484
    @caelumcae5484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +850

    Saya juga millenial miskin, Bang Adit. Demi 3 juta sebulan sering harus shift 14 sampai 20 jam sehari tanpa diupah lembur atau cuti dan kadang tanpa jam makan. Blue collar female here. Ayo kita semangat untuk survive, Bang. 💪

    • @nasiaking
      @nasiaking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Semoga selalu diberikan kesehatan. Kayak adit ini kalau sakit bisa nggak makan.

    • @emptyafterdark2479
      @emptyafterdark2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Open BO can fix this

    • @kancutmeong5390
      @kancutmeong5390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +228

      @@emptyafterdark2479 low minded

    • @caelumcae5484
      @caelumcae5484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +279

      I might get backlash for my opinion considering the ideology of Indonesia.
      I don't disagree with the fact that some women need to sell their body to earn money if there were very strong and well-intentioned reasons. Life is not a fairy tale. It's complicated and unpredictable. But, no. It doesn't matter how much I would earn for being a sex worker, that service job is simply not my cup of tea. I don't hate sex worker. My Dad taught me not to be hateful. I'm just not interested in doing sex-related job. Also, not all prostitutes are women so you might as well suggest your advice to other minimum wage male workers.

    • @mrizaldi7199
      @mrizaldi7199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@emptyafterdark2479 yes , if she is attractive

  • @taylorsanpedro
    @taylorsanpedro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    Idk but I'm crying over Adit's pure laugh and smile. He is such a goodhearted dude 😭😭😭😭

    • @mariesagabriellaa
      @mariesagabriellaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikrrr me too 😔😔

    • @Btr2084
      @Btr2084 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah me 3!!!!!! 🥲🥲

    • @alvirosy
      @alvirosy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed! :''

    • @meilv85
      @meilv85 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He cursed that policeman...

  • @lyaadonara1386
    @lyaadonara1386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    Adit, as a truck driver, travels a lot, meeting many people. That explains his great communication.

  • @putriadini3812
    @putriadini3812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1909

    I like the way she delivers the message properly without any judgment & additional opinion from herself. Good job!

    • @Alderina
      @Alderina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yesss

    • @lonerwolf6496
      @lonerwolf6496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yep objective reviews

    • @khairulazren1234
      @khairulazren1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      yeah agree. usually reporter will put it in a very sad way, you know because of poverty and shit. but this is good, she showed the truth ,

    • @theproofreader3204
      @theproofreader3204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, I agree! 💯👍

    • @muhammadadamreyhanfirnanda3554
      @muhammadadamreyhanfirnanda3554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no gimick

  • @faliq0826
    @faliq0826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2215

    Randomly found this video on the feed. As a new comer in Jakarta, I was blinded by the conditions around me where most of my friends were able to purchase precious things and enjoy their leisure time on the mall without thinking so much about "budget". This report from Jakpost is such an eye-opening video thus enlighten me that Jakarta is more than what I've encountered so far. Good luck Adit and Riska, may the odds be ever in your favor.

    • @adithya1791
      @adithya1791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Wealth inequality is present in every large country, even rich ones like US and UK, its the by-product of a capitalistic society

    • @pashauzan
      @pashauzan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@adithya1791 doesn't mean communism is better either

    • @vamick9531
      @vamick9531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @@pashauzan i don't think he's impliciting that communism is better either

    • @skyfeelan
      @skyfeelan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@pashauzan Not straight up communism like the Soviet Union, but rather Democratic socialism like you see in a lot of Northern European country, like Sweden and Denmark, that is better
      They has strong welfare system that allow poor people to get education, healthcare, and housing, thus reducing inequality

    • @pashauzan
      @pashauzan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@vamick9531 I know, I'm saying that cuz a lot of Indonesians thought about the stereotypical Soviet Union thingy. What we need is a balanced system like the guy above explained

  • @sakh2331
    @sakh2331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +526

    Keliatan Adit orang2 yang baik, sopan. Aku doakan Adit dimurahkan rezekinya dan sihat untuk mencari rezeki inshaallah

    • @jeffreysimohartono7857
      @jeffreysimohartono7857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Iya.. Baik sopan. Tpi sayangnya melanggar membahayakan org lain, ditilang ngatain polisi sialan.

    • @pandudewanata6449
      @pandudewanata6449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@jeffreysimohartono7857 wajar lah dengan latar belakangnya dia kayak gitu udah tergolong sopan.

    • @jeffreysimohartono7857
      @jeffreysimohartono7857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@pandudewanata6449 namanya maki sialan ga bsa dibilang sopan. Latar belakang jangan jdi pembelaan karena maki kata sialan itu pasti ud diajarin dri tk.

    • @pandudewanata6449
      @pandudewanata6449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@jeffreysimohartono7857 haha hidup lu dihabisin di bawa AC doang ya, belum pernah rasain kerasnya jakarta kayak apa ditambah lo lagi ales ketilang polisi.

    • @gilang-dn4bn
      @gilang-dn4bn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@jeffreysimohartono7857 untuk ukuran orang dengan latarbelakang seperti itu masih tergolong baik lho bro.. bahkan ada yg jauh lebih kasar lagi.. jangan bandingin sama mas nya yg pendidikan nya udah tinggi 😁.
      Memang itu salah sih.. tapi gausah dibesarkan lah.. masih wajar dan manusiawi.
      Mas nya pasti anak orang yg tergolong "mampu" yang hidupnya udah enak dari kecil.. makan tinggal ambil di meja.. sekolah tinggal belajar aja gausah mikirin harus kerja tambahan utk nutupin biaya hidup sehari2 utk orang tua dan adik2nya.. intinya cuman tau kehidupan mas sama orang2 yg sederajat yg mana bisa dibilang perjuanganmu "tidak sestruggle" si anak unprivileged di video.. kalo mas di posisi itu mungkin udah ngeluh, nangis2, tidur masih manja gak pake AC.. terus gak dikasih uang jajan sama mama papa 🤭

  • @blotchilim1980
    @blotchilim1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +753

    Karina, you did a great job. This is the cold, harsh truth. Social media distorts our reality so much these days, to the point where we keep looking up and complained on small things, only remembering there are those not as fortunate as us when we scroll through an app.
    Jadi inget, ada yg ngebash nikahannya atta aurel, terus dia dicaci 'nyinyir' 'sirik' dsb. Padahal gw rasa fokusnya beliau adlh masyarakat yg marginal begini.

    • @Hans.Dewitt
      @Hans.Dewitt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I think they are actually at decent footing with proper houses and somewhat stable income. Many more millions live far worse than this

    • @kim7990
      @kim7990 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh si Bapak

    • @F2004-k1k
      @F2004-k1k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kim7990 siapa? ga update wkwkw ga tau lagian ga penting jg kawinan artis

  • @queda5331
    @queda5331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    "Mungkin di depan komputer..."
    "Tidak selalu sih"
    The editor needs a raise.

    • @rizalm.s.5994
      @rizalm.s.5994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@trevorfranks69 kerudung kuning di 0:50? pake masker gitu ga keliatan muka nya. ga ngomong lagi cuman lewat.

  • @muqakhim
    @muqakhim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +603

    i stayed because of karina's english voice, her speaking skills are so damn good

    • @YovngPrince
      @YovngPrince 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Damn right!

    • @agestatsega
      @agestatsega 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah, Her Speaking Skill Is So Good.

    • @agestatsega
      @agestatsega 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @Paya Chinglish Uncommon, But Not Rare.

    • @atrudokht
      @atrudokht 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I bet she has been practicing since little kid

    • @riansaputra3128
      @riansaputra3128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed. So impressive

  • @MS-pd2yo
    @MS-pd2yo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +907

    Adit must be one of the nicest people in Jakarta. I haven't met one as nice as him in many years..

    • @azabujuban-hito8085
      @azabujuban-hito8085 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Y

    • @oryzahomes4441
      @oryzahomes4441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +232

      not Agree with that. Adit is typical young boy in jakarta or else where in Indonesia. Fun, Easy going and genuinely kind hearted. The lower social class tends to be more friendly as what I've experienced.

    • @umjackd
      @umjackd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@oryzahomes4441 Agreed, compared to many big cities in many countries I've never met so many nice friendly people as I would typically meet in Jakarta.

    • @kecebongkampret8350
      @kecebongkampret8350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Dont judge a book by its cover, its jakarta we are talking abt, this Adit can backstabing ppl whenever he could

    • @ameliariddle
      @ameliariddle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kecebongkampret8350 😂😂😂

  • @makonehofficial4203
    @makonehofficial4203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1711

    It's true , the saddest part of being poor millennials is that we don't even have an opportunity to pursue our dream because we are too busy to make a living.
    Most of us don't even have any good memories about 'youth'.

    • @yusupfebriansah4471
      @yusupfebriansah4471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      True

    • @lettuceskin7500
      @lettuceskin7500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That really hits me

    • @elegizuhri-egi-eya
      @elegizuhri-egi-eya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Yuph, when everyone else enjoying their youth lives by go to uny, hangout with their friends, naik gunung, travelling etc. Poor millennials struggling to make a decent living, to help their family, and saving for their dream to go to the uny maybe, for a hope of brighter future.

    • @Nuyulemon
      @Nuyulemon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definetely true.

    • @ximmkai_1
      @ximmkai_1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Suck being poor in indonesia. Especially when you get a "special ticket".

  • @merindinghiiseram
    @merindinghiiseram 3 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    Kebanyakan yg disorot emang yg kantoran / pebisnis muda..
    Realitanya, millenial di indonesia mayoritas ya masih kaya gini..
    Yaaa semangat aja lah..
    Circle pergaulan, tingkat pendidikan, dan pilihan sewaktu masih muda emang ngaruh banget sih buat masa depan..

    • @pamparam__6181
      @pamparam__6181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Iyaap bnerr, mereka yg disorot yang memang punya privilage sedangkan yang golongan menengah kebawah ya keadaannya kebanyakan seperti ini

    • @altezzaandre9651
      @altezzaandre9651 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Makanya sekolah yg tinggi jgn main mulu 😧

    • @novistravelvlog
      @novistravelvlog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kamu bener

  • @ChannelSudahDibeliOrang
    @ChannelSudahDibeliOrang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2834

    itu garuk nasi tapi ga ada nasi nya :(

    • @natxon
      @natxon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +386

      dimakan orang serumah 9 orang 😭😭😭

    • @tianzzzz
      @tianzzzz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Njir sepemikiran

    • @user-lm9ww2pf2k
      @user-lm9ww2pf2k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +264

      ngakak tapi sedih juga pas liat bagian itu

    • @muhamadtaufikhidayat6020
      @muhamadtaufikhidayat6020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Padahal gajinya 15 jt/bulan .. Temen gue banyak yang gajinya 4jt/bulan di Jakarta hahaha

    • @user-lm9ww2pf2k
      @user-lm9ww2pf2k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +285

      @@muhamadtaufikhidayat6020 1,5 kan? bukan 15

  • @kaesfas
    @kaesfas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    Kemiskinan dan Pendidikan adalah masalah serius.
    Putus sekolah karena tidak punya biaya, tidak akan memutus rantai kemiskinan di Indonesia. PR BANGSA!

    • @broshbrolin2395
      @broshbrolin2395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @The TH-cam Algorithm hmmm perkataan anda cukup menarik, sayangnya anda tidak mempunyai dasar untuk berkata seperti itu

    • @kaesfas
      @kaesfas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @The TH-cam Algorithm "...pribadi masing-masing" itu berarti ada faktor lingkungan disitu. (Saya tidak akan mengatakan "banyak" tapi "ada"), ada orang miskin yg karena pendidikan dia menjadi sukses, ada juga orang miskin yg tidak tamat sekolah dan menjadi sukses.
      Tapi kalo menganggap jika menyalahkan kemiskinan dan pendidikan itu terlalu klise, maka saya harap Capres 2024 memiliki visi misi "membuat pribadi rakyatnya menjadi lebih baik" bukan "menghilangkan kemiskinan dengan cara meningkatkan kualitas pendidikan". Dan membuat pribadi rakyatnya menjadi lebih baik adalah sebuah 'pendidikan' kepada rakyat. Paradoksikal?
      Tapi perkataan anda juga benar, kita sebagai warga negara harus punya inisiatif sendiri untuk menjadi yang lebih baik, tidak perlu mengunggu pemerintah untuk bertindak, tetapi kita warga negara punya hak untuk mendapatkan pendidikan dan kehidupan yang layak dari negaranya.
      "Your Habits Will Determine Your Future." ~Jack Canfield

    • @Siapaajabisa12
      @Siapaajabisa12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kaesfas nice

    • @hibreeze7079
      @hibreeze7079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@kaesfas yess bener bgt mas, faktor lingkungan itu bener2 ngaruh.
      and org yg 'underpriviledge' itu bener stuck in a loop, dimana mereka somehow pengen maju dan sukses ngejar mimpinya, tapi mereka harus berani ngambil resiko, dmana kalo gagal kehidupan mereka dan keluarganya seakan-akan di 'gambling'

    • @kelvin3706
      @kelvin3706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @The TH-cam Algorithm sotoy sarjana yutub

  • @rendiafriadi3260
    @rendiafriadi3260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    Konten yang sangat bagus. Good job, Jakarta Post. Selama ini, media mains stream cuma mengekspos kehidupan anak-anak muda urban yang aktif, energik, pekerja kantoran, atau enterpreneur dengan penghasilan dan kondisi finansial yang lumayan stabil. Sehingga2, isu-isu kehidupan anak muda seperti adit ini jarang sekali diangkat ke permukaan

  • @pinkclover8588
    @pinkclover8588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    Yg unik dari penduduk kita adalah, mereka yg hidup sederhana bahkan kekurangan cenderung lebih mudah bersyukur. Sering kita lihat saat liputan2, dg kondisi serba terbatas, mereka sering menyematkan ucapan alhamdulilah.
    Menerima keadaan seperti adit itu bukan hal yg mudah, di tengah pertunjukan hedon dimana2. Semoga mereka selalu bahagia dan bs membahagiakan orang2 yg mereka sayangi.

    • @irsyadazzawawi2176
      @irsyadazzawawi2176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Emang lo tahu Kalo mereka pasti bahagia?

    • @slayerazi3203
      @slayerazi3203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@irsyadazzawawi2176 bahagia belum tentu bersyukur, bersyukur juga belum tentu bahagia

    • @ruppiify
      @ruppiify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ini yg pingin banget gw pelajarin.. susah banget

    • @apalahartisebuahnama7684
      @apalahartisebuahnama7684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@irsyadazzawawi2176 bahagia itu subjektif

    • @gitas4814
      @gitas4814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aamiinn

  • @kimjung2343
    @kimjung2343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +640

    I just learn to be content now. Im 24 years old with a high income. Honestly, i often complain about my works but after watching this video, i realize that God give a lot of blessings to me. Thank you guys for sharing this precious life lesson, especially Adit! Dont say you are poor, you have a rich heart in kindness.

    • @MuhammadAbdullah-nq8yj
      @MuhammadAbdullah-nq8yj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      This content slap right on my face

    • @imadearyp.p6781
      @imadearyp.p6781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Im 14 and i whant to have earning so i can save my money and live hapilly

    • @om-tanteluna479
      @om-tanteluna479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Me too.. when I saw this video, I feel slapped on my face. My job is easier with higher salary and bonuses. I e to work only three days in a week and still complaining.. I feel so ungrateful. I gonna make sure I work harder now

    • @blackwhitey25
      @blackwhitey25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How much is a "high" income?

    • @om-tanteluna479
      @om-tanteluna479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@blackwhitey25 I don't think you can ask someone about this... It's improper question...

  • @sayidrayhan5442
    @sayidrayhan5442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Man, this youtube comment section is so awesome and positive. You guys are probably the best netizen I've been encounter on the internet. This is how the youtube comment section should be, not that toxic or the repetitive type of comment in the so-called "famous youtube channel".
    And also thank you to jakarta post for uploading this great content. It opened up my perspective about the other side of Millenials that we rarely know from the media.

  • @PigHunterExtreme
    @PigHunterExtreme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    Watching this gave a better feeling than the fakeness of how they portray Indonesian school life as being joyful. This had brought me back to reality because the two didn't match with the other and I had conflicted thoughts about it.

    • @HapPawhere
      @HapPawhere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      School life is always joyful as a children

    • @andyadinata4191
      @andyadinata4191 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well sometimes school life bring joy to children, coz they meet and have fun playing with their friends.

    • @topanlazuardi9251
      @topanlazuardi9251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      school are joyfull, perhaps you are the one that gettimg bullied

  • @codiphobia884
    @codiphobia884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Terselamatkan mbak riska. Di instagram isinya orang seneng doang, orang lagi susah jarang bat dipost. Bakal jadi beban pikiran kalo buat instagram, dikiranya semua orang bahagia dan mbak riska enggak. Padahal semua orang punya kebahagiaan dan kesusahannya masing". Semoga Allah memberikan keluarga mbak riska rezeki yang melimpah dan dipermudah segala urusannya. Aamiin

    • @rudychandz7113
      @rudychandz7113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ingat bro
      kehidupan sosmed itu banyak kepalsuan
      liat udah berapa banyak pasangan yg unggah foto happy rupanya beberapa hari atau bulan pengen cerai

    • @codiphobia884
      @codiphobia884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rudychandz7113 iya bang, takutnya kalau orang yang belum tau kalo orang disosmed itu gak selalu bahagia malah jadi kurang bersyukur

    • @rudychandz7113
      @rudychandz7113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@codiphobia884 udah banyak malah bang yang begitu gara2 liat sosmed banyak yg stress marah2 atau sedih merasa paling ngga beruntung kurang bersyukur dan ga bisa happy2 kek yang upload insta story padahal yg upload blum tntu happy juga kadang upload story karena hanya butuh perhatian orng2 aja
      Sosmed kayak insta itu masih terlalu byk racun nya lah daripada baiknya, manfaat nya sih ada cuman dari segi buruk atau baik nya buat mental kebanyakan generasi sekarang masih kurang bagus

    • @codiphobia884
      @codiphobia884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rudychandz7113 iya bang ada juga kasus anak minta hp iphone ke ortunya, padahal hp iphone belum tentu jadi kebutuhan dan prihatinnya lagi kalau ada ortunya yang keadaan ekonominya kurang mampu. Kalo dulu boro" mau minta hp minta mainan aja takut ke ortu 😂

    • @codiphobia884
      @codiphobia884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kecuali kalau dari beli hp iphone terus bisa hasilin duit itu beda lagi

  • @ezatangguh9404
    @ezatangguh9404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    And the most sadly thing is we can't help them much😭 all we can do is just saying "god bless you bla bla bla" instead of giving them a little price thing

    • @edryctan672
      @edryctan672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed

    • @apalahartisebuahnama7684
      @apalahartisebuahnama7684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Kebanyakan Virtue signaling dibudaya kita.

    • @fabulousimcatbulous690
      @fabulousimcatbulous690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      We can. Just stop looking as this kind of video and actually walk around your neighborhood and you'll see a lot of less unfortunate people around. Buy their goods, use their service and give little extra. Thats how you help them.

    • @Sunzen44
      @Sunzen44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@fabulousimcatbulous690 or maybe we need stop do volunteer work and makes the government do their work, no more defeatism mentality about changing the the corrupt nature of indo government and actually think to care ,not only for the millenials but also for every generation that gonna be born on indonesia.

    • @fabulousimcatbulous690
      @fabulousimcatbulous690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Sunzen44 I agree with no more defeatism but disagree with your proposed approach. I'd say anything that only demanded "government" to do the work is not only lazy but never ever proven to be effective.
      My way of doing thing are usually just focus on myself... but if you go as far as to clean up an organization as big and powerful and government theres only 2 answer :
      Either you become successful or powerful enough to influence government or you becoming the government itself (officials/politicians) and make sure that you do your best working there. The main reason why many democratic government become a joke is simply because the "good" people stay silent and letting "bad" one running rampant.
      You want government to get better? Be THE government and do your best.
      Im sorry, but I'm used to work as government official before retiring in 2020 and this is my verdict :
      NONE of complainers EVER get things done. All THEY do is just BITCHING about how things SHOULD BE without doing anything at ALL. If it were up to ME, I WILL make sure that all of the WHINERS and THEIR FAMILY to never receive the facility given by government like ELECTRICITY and IDENTITY CARDS. Such is my HATE to them. USELESS parasites that BREEDS another parasite.
      Always taken everything for granted, always wanted more, always COMPLAIN how POOR and UNFORTUNATE THEY ARE yet ALWAYS REFUSE to bust their own ass and spending their TIME to talk BULLSHITS about others.

  • @haritsdarwienm5886
    @haritsdarwienm5886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Millennial yg sebenarnya itu kelahiran 1981-1996 skrg umurnya sekitar 25-40 tahun. Kelahiran 1997-2012 itu sebenernya gen z/zoomer bukan millennial

    • @sierraapples8099
      @sierraapples8099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      kok dia udh punya kumis ya perasaan udh kayak 30 tahun

  • @nashbaro5978
    @nashbaro5978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Saya dari filipina , Saya sangat merindukan teman masa kecil saya, abdurahman dia orang indonesia, sayang kamu saudara-saudara indonesia

    • @ezatangguh9404
      @ezatangguh9404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Terimakasih!❤️

    • @vanonymous6461
      @vanonymous6461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ezatangguh9404 woe aqokawokawkkws

  • @ohhgetoo
    @ohhgetoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    Thanks Karina and Jakarta Post. Sudah mengulik kehidupan milenial yang ga pernah disentuh media lainnya. Keren!

  • @Ottttttttttttttttttt
    @Ottttttttttttttttttt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    Seems like he's so grateful for what he has now. I learned a lot from this video, one thing is always feel grateful for every single thing in my life because ther are a lot of people who are still struggling even for a one spoon of rice. Thankyou Adit & Karina for the lesson

  • @SofiyanArifKurniawan
    @SofiyanArifKurniawan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    This really put me back to reality ... Maybe my live wasnt so bad after all ...
    I really wish adit & riska have a happy live ...

    • @noname-wk6ze
      @noname-wk6ze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Being grateful is the key brother

    • @briantarigan7685
      @briantarigan7685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Riska lifes is still better, and i disagree to call her poor, his husband still make 3 million Rupiah per month and she still help with additional income with small business, and acting as a reseller in online market, she only lacks free time, and she use it pretty well, still visiting Atlantis waterpark pretty regularly.

    • @Mia-qs1zi
      @Mia-qs1zi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i'm ashamed of maself looking at this everytime like... ma life not so bad after all

  • @MrZadenyuki
    @MrZadenyuki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    one of the reaseon on why i hate watching tiktok, most of them would never imagine putting their shoes on other people

    • @tomatosoup2536
      @tomatosoup2536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      um i think das just your algorithm that sucks

    • @khitaraaldilla5406
      @khitaraaldilla5406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@tomatosoup2536 um everytime i put "dats" or "das" people always calling me 9 yearold so its better if you change it

    • @randomaccount6819
      @randomaccount6819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah my friends always sent tiktok vids mocking innocent teachers and stuff like “haha idc about ur life u suck all teacher sucks”

    • @aenirrinea523
      @aenirrinea523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed. Some tiktok videos are super inconsiderate toward underprivileged people. Food waste, overspending, flaunting their First World problems etc. They have the leisure to do those things when most other people my age don't because we have other things to worry about.

    • @tomatosoup2536
      @tomatosoup2536 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@khitaraaldilla5406 ​ um bocah apasih lu? I do understand what he meant, he just hates to see what hes seeing but das what you get when ure dumb for not putting any effort in undrstanding why ure dealing with this issue. Google is free, search je la, then poof you'll get enlightened, mudah je. Its bullshit when he tries to justify his hatred towards a platform with that reason when its his dumbass who interacted with dumb tiktok content. I never confronted with issues of seeinng never ending good for nothing tiktok content, bcuz why? I manage my freakinn algorithm. Oh and btw kid, show your parents what you typed first and let them proofread ur spellings, ok?

  • @theshuriken
    @theshuriken 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Despite of his humble condition, Adit seems like a very positive person.

  • @iwinlee
    @iwinlee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    12:30 this thing happens to 3 of my employee... they marry young, and that just because they believe that rejecting a marriage proposal would make them hard to find another potential spouse... a myth that surprisingly still widely believed and followed...

    • @plonkies
      @plonkies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Its the same stupid myth as feng shui that is still widely believed and followed surprisingly mostly by educated people. I find feng shui is to be more idiotic and supertitiously than any other myth

    • @iwinlee
      @iwinlee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@plonkies not only feng shui, other things like prefering number 8, avoid number 4, it's harm if marry spouse with 6 years old gap, etc... still widely believed & practiced by almost all chinese & it's overseas descendants...
      Most building owned by Chinese people, avoid putting 4th floor, 13th floor, 14th floor, and changed it as 3A, 12A, 12B instead, or in some case just skipped the avoided number and jump to the next...
      But the big difference is, marry young like women in this documentary, would affect your life significantly... while following feng shui has almost no significant effect in your life...

    • @mghufronsyahputra8017
      @mghufronsyahputra8017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@plonkies imo this myth more stupid than feng shui, at least feng shui did not force you to make important decisions such as marrying a guy with 3 million / month salary and forbid you to go to work for extra money.

    • @luckyzlugers7083
      @luckyzlugers7083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      they defo need to study more and use their logic😂

    • @iwinlee
      @iwinlee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@luckyzlugers7083 educated people is not immune from such kind of myth & superstition... logic is the key, but too much logic can make people become questioning God & religion, which is unacceptable for some society...

  • @Vokalplus
    @Vokalplus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +924

    Love this doc, thank you JP!

    • @AvZeYT
      @AvZeYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😱😭✌️

    • @JP-rn6co
      @JP-rn6co 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ah yes

    • @iloveyou-ju1jv
      @iloveyou-ju1jv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Muncul di beranda ya coch

    • @happenid7130
      @happenid7130 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Coach Terima kasih berkat coach saya jadi bisa nyanyi hhe

    • @dannyseen4245
      @dannyseen4245 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wahh ada coach,,bebaskan suaramu coach.. :)

  • @selections8014
    @selections8014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Menurut saya, video ini sangat bagus dalam menggambarkan sisi lain dari generasi milenial. Apalagi ini berkaitan juga ke pada kondisi bonus demografi di Indonesia. Dengan adanya bonus demografi (yang mostly disumbangkan dari generasi milenial) diharapkan penduduk Indonesia bisa menjadi lebih produktif dan dapat menurunkan rasio ketergantungan di Indonesia.
    Video ini menunjukkan bahwa ternyata dengan bonus demografi dan label milenial belum tentu berarti memiliki potensi produktivitas yang lebih, tetapi juga membutuhkan kualitas sumber daya manusia yang memadai. So, jangan pantang menyerah, harus lebih produktif dan kreatif dalam bekerja, jangan lupa juga untuk give something back to the community. Jangan pernah remehkan pendidikan dan pengembangan diri karena itu yang menjadi kesuksesan di zaman ini. Ayo gunakan potensi yang kita miliki, semoga kita semua bisa sukses ya^^

    • @davidalfasunarna
      @davidalfasunarna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Menurut saya yang butuh ditingkatkan pertama bukan macem2, tapi gaji adit dulu itu distandarin UMR ga manusiawi banget. Regulasinya ga ketat

    • @selections8014
      @selections8014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@davidalfasunarna Yes it's true. its a never-ending cycle for any relationship in social life. antara produktivitas, penghasilan, kesehatan, dan pendidikan itu semua punya timbal baliknya. semangat yuk, kita yang bukan golongan privilege juga pasti bisa sukses (in our own way😃)

  • @muhajier2239
    @muhajier2239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    this is Jakarta, one of the most advanced cities in Indonesia, now imagine those who are living in under-developed areas of Indonesia.
    Good reporting.

    • @fadlizikri1130
      @fadlizikri1130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jir, gua jadi kepikiran gimana saudara saudara kita yang ada di papua, aplg yang ada di 17000 pulau kecil lainnya

    • @diodio3499
      @diodio3499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      justru gw rasa hidup di kota kecil di indonesia lbh mudah di banding jakarta, karena opportunity untuk dpt pekerjaan dan memulai bisnis itu lbh sedikit sainganya..
      contoh kampung halaman ortu gw di lamongan, disana gw bisa lihat rata2 bisnis baru rata2 di kelola anak muda umur 20-30'an tahun..
      gimana gw bisa menyimpulkan ini? ya karena kaka gw salah satunya.

    • @diramoti7490
      @diramoti7490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      pengalaman gw sih sebaliknya, gw lahir di tapanuli, kuliah di Jogja kerja di jkt,
      yg gw liat jakarta, bandung, jogja, memiliki problem serupa dgn kepadatan penduduk,tp industrialized, gampang dpt cash, tp gampang bgt habis krn living cost jg lumayan tinggi,
      kalau di daerah (mostly luar jawa) beda lagi, spt tempat asal saya, ga pernah khawatir soal makanan dan tempat tinggal layak, tapi cash ga ada, soalnya lapangan kerja berupa aset pertanian dan infrastruktur industri pertanian blm holistik.
      saya pernah liat millenial di daerah pati, kudus, dan rembang, ya hampir sama dgn penduduk kota2 besar di jawa, sudah bener2 industrial semua, dan padat bgt penduduknya, masalahnya hampir sama lah.

  • @fransiskusbenyamin
    @fransiskusbenyamin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Melihat video seperti ini membuat saya sadar betapa banyak hal yang saya miliki yang tak dimiliki orang lain. Terkadang kita perlu sesekali melihat kebawah agar dapat mensyukuri apa yang kita miliki.

  • @MishaJohanna
    @MishaJohanna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    Kayaknya banyak orang yang masih salah persepsi terhadap siapa aja yang masuk kategori milenial. It should be people who were born within early 1980s and late 1990s, actually. Bukan cuma yang lahir di 1990-an atau bahkan 2000-an. Even that Adit could already be a Gen Z.

    • @zaupineppo927
      @zaupineppo927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Very true,those youngsters like Adit and Riska are actually centennials.

    • @izzurzuhri
      @izzurzuhri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      cited from Wikipedia, "Researchers and popular media use the early 1980s as starting birth years and the mid-1990s to early 2000s as ending birth years". So we can loosely defined him as millenial

    • @unrealitystudio
      @unrealitystudio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Karna km sudah milenial yg sudah kritis, orang di negara ini gk akan mengklasifikasi berdasarkan tahun walau sebenernya seperti itu,believes me until one decade or more people talk younger as a millennial, this not stupidity it’s just common to hears.

    • @shintapp
      @shintapp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Pengelompokan millenial dari 80-90s, lebih berdasarkan perkembangan di eropa & usa, yang notabenya lebih cepat dalam perkembangan teknologi. Tapi kalau kita menilai melenial sebagai pengelompokan cara pikir & budaya, kayanya memang angkatan 90-00 di Indonesia yang lebih cocok masuk dalam mold 'tech savy millenials'.

    • @atrudokht
      @atrudokht 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The true millennial celebrities in Indonesia:
      early millennials --> Dian Sastro, Nicholas Saputra, Reza Rahadian, Titi Kamal, Christian Sugiono
      middle millennials --> BCL, Raffi Ahmad, Agnes Monica, Marshanda, Nia Ramadhani, Irwansyah, Afgan
      late millennials --> Nikita Willy, Joshua Suherman, Atta Halilintar, Maudy Ayunda, Gita Gutawa
      The rests who are younger than the celebrities mentioned above --> "gen Z"

  • @albaihaqi4871
    @albaihaqi4871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Adit is one good example of hardworking young man.
    I wouldn't say he is underprivileged, he has privilege to learn realities around the road, he has the privilege of caring neighbours and community. He has good character and grateful for what he's had.
    He can be successful in his on way.

    • @RetractedPieces
      @RetractedPieces 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      you don't really understand the concept of privilege I guess.
      He may be happy or have a fulfilling life, but he can't have a "successful life"

    • @albaihaqi4871
      @albaihaqi4871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RetractedPieces of course I do understand, I was just making my own definition of it.

    • @hibreeze7079
      @hibreeze7079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      the true example of 'priviledge' is getting a good education, and sadly he didn't get that

    • @masyarakatcerdas6963
      @masyarakatcerdas6963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Those are not really "privillege", privillege is when you got some kind of leverage on something that people don't really have, for example: good education, loving family, connections, etc. i think

    • @firrialeksa3799
      @firrialeksa3799 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      agree

  • @shawnauchterlonie
    @shawnauchterlonie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    I have lived in Jakarta for almost two years and really enjoy learning about people and their stories. Good work, Karina! Please make more.

  • @mariaflo5759
    @mariaflo5759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Cuma lulusan smp tapi cara dia berbicara sama seperti orang berpendidikan tinggi 😊

    • @rinyeongi6322
      @rinyeongi6322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup moralitas akan berbanding lurus dengan tingkat kepandaian orang

    • @290198Nicholas
      @290198Nicholas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      dan kebalikannya banyak mahasiswa tapi cara bicaranya kayak ank smp. mending tuker aja org kyk gitu sama mas adit

  • @melodyling783
    @melodyling783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    The percussion group really increased the guy’s quality of life. Social life and arts always factor high in well being.

  • @BunToomo
    @BunToomo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Sweet lord that is some quality english narration!!

  • @AnakBentengChannel
    @AnakBentengChannel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Ini realitas,milenial yg digemborkan kreatif mapan gaji bla,... Itu cuma sedikit

    • @abrahamronny85
      @abrahamronny85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      so sad but true

    • @mochnuh2068
      @mochnuh2068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Gak semua millenial punya akses pendidikan kampus mewah dan kerja di startup dengan gaji 2 digit serta gaya hidup mewahnya, people like adit is exist ratusan bahkan jutaan millenial. gue salah satunya

    • @jacobamarjan2325
      @jacobamarjan2325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      selain itu, yang diliput di sini hanya Jakarta, kehidupan di kota lain atau bahkan kabupaten kecil sangat berbeda.

    • @gilang-dn4bn
      @gilang-dn4bn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Itu milenial yg orangtuanya tergolong orang mampu bro.. kebanyakan seperti itu..
      Menurut saya omong kosong kalo mereka ngaku berjuang dari "0", dari susah2 dulu. Semandiri mandirinya anak orang kaya, seketat ketatnya orangtua kaya mendidik anak supaya mandiri, gak mungkin ditelantarkan begitu aja.. pasti ada support lah 😁. Jangan terlalu naif memandang realita di dunia ini

    • @adamantobserver8655
      @adamantobserver8655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cuman buat kaum menengah keatas

  • @ekasupariyanti2288
    @ekasupariyanti2288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    This documentary is really sadden me about how the young millenials in the middle-class should really struggle to make the end meets. But i also learn about the importance of being grateful through this video. Thank you JakPost and all the best for Adit&Riska. Thank you for showing the other side of millenials life.

  • @samilay9622
    @samilay9622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Saya pekerja sampah organik, saya ubah menjadi pupuk dan pertanian modern dan ampasnya saya gunakan untuk pakan maggot dan saya ubah menjadi Pur ayam. inshaAllah meskipun ga bergengsi semoga bisa sampai export aamiin

  • @saturnring88
    @saturnring88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    as a poor millenial i can feels what he felt. i survive to my life living, imma working 12hour/day and get paid every weeks (dibagi 4dlm sebulan yg tidak mencapai umr).gak punya waktu banyak untuk main dan jajan kaya yg lain tapi masih bersyukur atas rezeki yg tuhan kasih.
    SEMANGAT TERUS TERUNTUK MILENIAL UNDERPRIVILLAGE.

  • @fajarzakri4936
    @fajarzakri4936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    The human spirit is beautiful. The human existence is a burden, a suffering. I admire Adit for his character, at the same time, I couldn't help but wonder about all of the trouble he would've been spared of had he not been born. Had none of us struggling millennials been born.

    • @rakatsceptic6379
      @rakatsceptic6379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Pesan moralnya, klo miskin dan ga bertanggung jawab jangan sekali" mengikuti permintaan otong.. kasihan anak klo harus lahir dari serba kekurangan..

    • @twistedchickennugget5362
      @twistedchickennugget5362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sounds like something zeke yeager would say

  • @MrAdhiSuryana
    @MrAdhiSuryana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Sangat relatable story lah.. Millenial (dan mungkin sesudahnya) menurut saya generasi yang harus bekerja keras dan bersaing ketat untuk bisa bertahan hidup aja. Bahkan menurut statistik juga begitu, beban kerja kita bisa 2x lipat hanya untuk mencapai tipe hidup yang sama dengan orang tua kita, bahkan beberapa jadi generasi kejepit yang harus juga membiayai anak dan ortunya karna gaji pensiun ortu sudah tidak mencukupi untuk biaya hidup ortu...
    Sangat beda banget dengan mainstream media yang menghubungkan dengan start up, unicorn, gadget, investasi, contohnya seperti yang digadang gadang Jenius dengan program saving bulanannya. .. menurut saya sangat out of touch banget dengan kehidupan banyak orang...
    Terimakasih buat JP sudah mengangkat cerita ini, ditunggu konten berbobot lainnya ❤

  • @theo_suharto
    @theo_suharto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    hey, at least he's dutiful and has work ethics. Much unlike those who sleep during political meetings discussing the well-being of those they're supposed to represent. You know who.

  • @azuanazman7504
    @azuanazman7504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm from Malaysia, I used to have a friend like him working here. such a nice and humble guy, hardest working amongst all of us even.

  • @RotuaDamanik
    @RotuaDamanik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Pendidikan adalah kunci. PR kita memilih pemimpin yg benar-benar peduli dengan pendidikan.

  • @agungwibowo9999
    @agungwibowo9999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Even though some Indonesian millennials live their lives in poverty, they are very happy

    • @cek0792
      @cek0792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Happiness can be found easily by enjoying the little fun and entertaining things in life as well as the presence of your loved ones

    • @mochnuh2068
      @mochnuh2068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      pfft happines comes when they doesn't understand anything. is sad fact

    • @rudychandz7113
      @rudychandz7113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mochnuh2068 this is true, ignorance is a bliss

    • @sarkowi6253
      @sarkowi6253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Happy on camera stare.. Behind that we don't know

  • @nazilramadhany658
    @nazilramadhany658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    11:20 did anyone notice its a spongebob jellyfish party instrument?

  • @catcatcat14
    @catcatcat14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    This is the reality. Those millenials we see everyday in social media are either only putting their best images of themselves or some rich kids who called themselves as influencers.
    Semangat ya Adit, kamu gak sendirian, dan hidup itu seperti roda, kita gak akan selalu berada dibawah kok, percaya suatu hari pasti bisa mencapai yang selalu dicita2kan, asal berusaha terus. Semangattt!

  • @kocwng-94
    @kocwng-94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    appeared randomly on my home tab, and I love the way The Jakarta Post gets its message to us. You guys have done a great job.

  • @putrianggra15
    @putrianggra15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you JP for making this documentary. Mbak Karina, your English is so astonishing and you are very humble indeed, so Adit and Riska didn't feel any pressure when interviewed.
    This documentary really slaps me hard, since I have the same age with them, with pretty good income compared to Adit and Riska but I am struggling at my current work, I feel ashamed not as hardworking as them. I will try to be better while healing myself from severe depression and anxiety. My wish for Adit and Riska to have blissful life and also their needs always fulfilled.

  • @nanananana1496
    @nanananana1496 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Gud content, give us a new perspective that millenials just not about coffeshop and social media

  • @Kjnvj-bu6wh
    @Kjnvj-bu6wh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    The most struggles people had must be middle class household.if you underclass and have Good mindset to change ur life then trying to get any scholarship it’s more easier than middle class who doesn’t get any access of financial support such as Bansos,Bidik misi etc.

    • @arum939
      @arum939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep, second this.

    • @elegizuhri-egi-eya
      @elegizuhri-egi-eya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      True, back then when i was in high school, i face those middle class problems. Unable to take bidik misi Scholarship because of the mid status, but have not enough money to go to uny. So then i work to pay for my tuition. My friends who come from lower class, able to received bidik misi and focused on their education. Meanwhile, I'm struggling to pay for my education and basic necessities in perantauan. Work and study is not that easy.

    • @elegizuhri-egi-eya
      @elegizuhri-egi-eya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Nisrina N. Fadhilah same here🙌 i did graduated on D3 (perhotelan) it's like kuliah to kerja major u know. So then, 4 years later in my late age, on my 24 yo, i take the real kuliah things (S1) with my saving and i'm graduated this year. Whoah.. mid class live is hard in Indonesia. I hope that your journey are better than mine.

    • @visencorp6502
      @visencorp6502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      middle class problem :
      Too poor to afford sustainable decent living, yet too rich to get financial support and economic aid.
      A class that almost constantly exploited by the upper class and at the same time get accused of exploiting by the lower class

    • @gusticahyaningrum4177
      @gusticahyaningrum4177 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@visencorp6502 what a way to put my thought into words.

  • @Kacrutbgt
    @Kacrutbgt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    😅. Khas banget dah. Bablas lampu merah be lyke "Gua nempel mobil depan bang. Tilang semua napa"

  • @cinnamonrolls7163
    @cinnamonrolls7163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I watch it on repeat, their life’s so warm.

  • @riripepet
    @riripepet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Adit was born in 1997.... IT MEANS HE IS NOT MILLENNIALS... HE IS GEN Z (those born between 1997 and 2015)

  • @rads2361
    @rads2361 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Kudos to Karina and JP for this eye-opening piece. It is truly this country's (our) loss to let this generation not taken care of.

  • @uranglintau
    @uranglintau 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    At first, I thought she was native which she might be, but finding out later that she spoke bahasa so well and looked very Indonesian got me amazed. Good job Karina!

    • @FreddiMuliantono
      @FreddiMuliantono 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      she's Indonesian who grew up in Singapore, what are you talking ?

    • @uranglintau
      @uranglintau 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@FreddiMuliantono are you asking me what I was talking about? that's all it. Karina is good, like really really good 🤷‍♂️

    • @khalilag8060
      @khalilag8060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@uranglintau mungkin si freddi gak paham dg pernyataan lu bro makanya sedikit gak nyambung, MUNGKIN😁

    • @harahapfrisca6915
      @harahapfrisca6915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For god sake it's not a big surprise guys!

    • @nasiaking
      @nasiaking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@harahapfrisca6915 buat gw sih big surprise. Kebanyakan perempuan yg lebih tua walaupun pendidikannya tinggi tetep aja baha inggrusnya dengan 'female asian accent' Coba lihat bu menlu kita dan bu menkeu. Karina dua dapat accentnya yang ngamerika banget.

  • @capitaldharma
    @capitaldharma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Great story. Gives us a nice glimpse into the lives of young people in the city. I'd love to see more reports like these. Also, the data provided at the beginning is very informative. I'd love to have more data like this about incomes, marriage, education, employment, etc.

  • @memecultivator3776
    @memecultivator3776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Adit, even though he addressed himself as a poor millennial, he could still laugh and life freely. Very nice guy

  • @lucasgdrezes
    @lucasgdrezes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Born in 1997 just like Adit, not sure if we qualify as millenials though... I am quite privileged compared to him. However, I'm really behind on people's expectations of me. In Brazil as soon as you turn 18 you are expected to get a job, find a boyfriend/girlfriend and finish your studies as soon as possible. Anyone that goes away from that path feels alienated from society. Why get married in a country where 80% of people get divorced? Why get a college degree if I will end up getting just a little over minimum wage? I think these are questions that get over our heads a lot.
    A college degree wouldn't do much for me but it definitely would be life-changing for someone like Adit. I hope he focuses on himself instead of getting married and having kids at such a young age. That would be the end for him.

  • @agungprabowo4509
    @agungprabowo4509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I think he is not millenials he was born after 1995, he should be gen z. Maybe JakPost should give more information what is millenials before ?

    • @TiToTheNa
      @TiToTheNa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Exactly my thought. Didn't JakPost do some research in advance what millennials really are? 1997 born is a Gen Z.

    • @rafisqiadhaputra6136
      @rafisqiadhaputra6136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      yap,its common mistake in our country to confused about the actual meaning of the terms and bruh its really cringeworthy.i mean after all these times they still think young = millenials

    • @yudhafajar1679
      @yudhafajar1679 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      The term millennial itself is not a scientific term. Sometimes it vary from nation to nation, because as far I know it's created for marketing generalization based on year of birth. If we gonna use wikipedia as source, it said millennial is from early 1980s to mid 1990s/early 2000.

    • @icysan889
      @icysan889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      that term of generation is based on how is the development speed of a nation, different nation could go different range as it economic and cultural paces are different

    • @alpinthor
      @alpinthor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@TiToTheNa 1997 is early gen z or very late millennials (loosely). The one who uses SMS, Yahoo Messenger, My Space, Friendster, Facebook in their youth is millennials, the one who uses What's App, Instagram, and TikTok in their youth is gen Z.

  • @tommysense
    @tommysense 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Sometimes, money isn't everything. Look at Adit, Even though he lacked of income but he has friends and hobbies to overcome that, and that's already a nice things to have. But what do I know, it's probably just my lonely-self talking.

    • @rudychandz7113
      @rudychandz7113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why can i related to this comment

    • @gandhi1945
      @gandhi1945 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tergantung persepsi dia sebenernya kalo dia nyaman maka dia nyaman

  • @spacey9707
    @spacey9707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    everything is high priced bcs the generation before us buying all the properties, we don't have enough room to move... to grow, it's impossible to have a living house in such a young age without sacrificing your dreams or do actually make it to your dreams. the stake is too high, and the price isn't worth a thing, it was never worth anything.

  • @Iworkwithnitwits
    @Iworkwithnitwits 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Even living in a home with 9 people, Adit has it pretty good. He has a job and a roof over his head. I know there are people living in tents in most large cities in America.

    • @Adrianirsyad1
      @Adrianirsyad1 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Americans: "how can i make this about myself"

  • @hafizwahyu1251
    @hafizwahyu1251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Never expect to have this type of documentary, served by any media group in Indonesia. Especially the topic you guys came up with, is very distinctive compared to the other. Real issues, humble & very talented host, nice presentation. Great job JP!
    And my prayers & support to them who is not giving up & still fighting for a better chance of life. This guy Adit has some spirit that we all should've had. Absolutely inspiring.

  • @superboltman7330
    @superboltman7330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Millenials are born in 1980 to 1995, not 1990 to 2000

    • @michaelsihombing5988
      @michaelsihombing5988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      you may right, but it depends on which theory

    • @anaskhoiri3653
      @anaskhoiri3653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @bolobolo bolo indonesia exprience new order(soeharto) and reformation (post soeharto) that exist separate generation for milenian and z even when smartphone popular that made new gap for next generation (alpha generation)

    • @accidentalinfluencer
      @accidentalinfluencer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @bolobolo bolo iya dia tetap masuk ke millenials lah dia kan 1990, millenials kan dari 1980 sampe 1995 kalo dari maksud abangnya, gimana sih logika hitung-hitungan lu

    • @arjunnair6023
      @arjunnair6023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's because it's the American definition of millenials , Indonesia is at least a decade behind US in terms of technological development, so someone born in 1990 in Indonesia would have had a similar childhood and exposure to technology as someone born in 1980 in the US.

    • @arjunnair6023
      @arjunnair6023 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Pride People That's because US had a huge cultural influences all over the World until recently Because of being the sole superpower. So these american definition of generations are being simply adopted by the rest of the world.
      For example unlike the US there is no equivalent of baby boomers in Indonesia, as the baby boom period of US happened after world war 2 but in Indonesia that baby boom is happening now. So anyone being born Now in Indonesia can be called a boomer.

  • @sallylemon5835
    @sallylemon5835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Meanwhile some Indonesian rich man's son was posting on his page "ordered all these Tesla coz I was bored and not knowing what else to buy". Damn the corruption.
    The competition locally is tight and it's even crazier in Jakarta, the land of racing ambitions and scarcities. Limited job opportunities, hungry citizens, exceeding job hunters and SMALL WAGES.
    Thank God for foreign and neighboring nations with job opportunities available from domestic fields, labor and services field and now widen in industrial and commercial retail fields, that now more of the underprivileged youngsters, including higher learning school graduates to have more career options to earn real income abroad, finally able to upgrade living and make savings.

  • @MrCorykjr
    @MrCorykjr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    That was a really nice profile on those people. Adit seems really cool.

  • @mashiroyuna2106
    @mashiroyuna2106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    video ini muncul di saat gue lagi struggle mikirin tanggungan rumah, terimakasih ya JP udah share ini, adit bikin saya makin struggle lagi buat ngejalanin semua

  • @kanade2605
    @kanade2605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I think I am one of privileged millennials. My monthly allowance way bigger than their salary. This video really remind me of how lucky I am. Thank you Jakarta Post

  • @Michael9-23-15
    @Michael9-23-15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Greetings from the United States/California. My girlfriend is from Java, and I hope to be there soon and get married. Thank you for sharing this story.

    • @syarifairlangga4608
      @syarifairlangga4608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dont live in my country.
      Its sucks with very little oppurtunity

    • @Michael9-23-15
      @Michael9-23-15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@syarifairlangga4608 My country isn't all that easy either. I'm planning on living there as long as possible or I'll live in both countries to make money. My girlfriend says we could survive on 6_8 million a month? I spend that much money on my food budget for a month here in California. I'm living in my car to save money for Indonesia,

    • @alexbeardsworth3783
      @alexbeardsworth3783 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      go back to your country!

    • @Michael9-23-15
      @Michael9-23-15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@alexbeardsworth3783 Gfy

    • @farikkun1841
      @farikkun1841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Michael9-23-15 congrats, make use of this monetary loophole. work in us for some years, save 100k. move here and u can retire

  • @nilevia
    @nilevia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Persetan dengan yang debatin milenial atau gen z, yg jelas video ini penuh dengan pesan dan menyadarkan.

    • @tegarkistapuri2659
      @tegarkistapuri2659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kesombongan intelektual, mencari informasi sebanyak2nya tapi penerapannya tidak sesuai konteks

    • @febyfebiolaa066
      @febyfebiolaa066 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gen Z? Dari mana ada gen z? Kan di video ini yang dibahas cuma kaum Millenial? Anda tahu perbedaan kaum millenial & gen Z?

    • @sandrianrachman3074
      @sandrianrachman3074 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tegarkistapuri2659 ya begitulah👀👏🏼

    • @AlexanderGarzowRonal
      @AlexanderGarzowRonal 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@febyfebiolaa066 baca komen2yg lain biar tau apa yg dia maksud,rata2 di komen ini pada bilang si adit generasi z bukan milenial

  • @thepaperboy9009
    @thepaperboy9009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great job reporting, filming and editing. Nice to see resources dedicated to this type of reportage. Saddened that there are so many Adits and Riska throught Indonesia.

  • @Afzn2020
    @Afzn2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Marry young.... The thinking of most people in Indonesia. Because if it has entered the number 24 years and not married, it is considered not selling. And be contemptuous of neighbors.

  • @wadafik
    @wadafik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So glad that I watch this. As a priviledged millenial from Malaysia, it is very humbling to see how hard lives for some people are. Hopefully Adit's and Aska's lives will improve for the better soon!

  • @ruppiify
    @ruppiify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Semua orang yang bekerja harus dihargai, apapun pekerjaannya, bekerja itu sangat keren 😊 just don't forget for saving

  • @haleydawnrickett
    @haleydawnrickett 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is very useful for the project I'm doing. Thank you so much, it was very informative.

  • @rubberduckfm7991
    @rubberduckfm7991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    So many of us walk this earth. With purpose in our eyes. But in our heart of hearts we know. This is a lie. The alarm goes at 6 am, so we can walk into a job we hate. Because we need the pay. All time does is take from us, But it never seems to give. Always waiting for the day to come. When we finally start to live. But we all too scared that soon we become just like the rest. Only walking with the crowd. Because our dream have been opressed. And then one day we look back at the opportunities that we missed. And realize..
    We never truly lived. All we did is just exist.

    • @rifarira9160
      @rifarira9160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And then when you get thru this phase you realize,
      " Hey, my life's not that bad at all. I was a lucky person more than i think i do. "

  • @PuntoDamar
    @PuntoDamar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    press F buat mas adit, yang kisah penolakan cintanya tersebar di internet :')

  • @meidyreza3201
    @meidyreza3201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But do not forget the impact of this pandemic was huge also. Before pandemic, me & my wife was that latte sipping 9 to 6 office worker millennials in Jakarta. But when the pandemic strike, now we moved back to my hometown and rent a small house and live only from warung, our only source of income. Fyi, I have live in Jakarta from 2009 struggling from down to top back to down and rise up again. But this time, this is the lowest drop point in my life. Crawling back to survive in this pandemic era.

  • @teksharian2066
    @teksharian2066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Bahasa Inggris reporter (Karina) sangat bagus!!!! Sukses terus!!!!

  • @eddaywangsa
    @eddaywangsa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Liputannya bagus Karina 😎
    Buat Adit dan semua milenial yg hidupnya sederhana tetap semangat, kami semua juga hidup di bawah langit yg sama kok 😊

  • @yanda9308
    @yanda9308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Keren videonya JP! Sepertinya memang banyak temen2 sekarang yang ngelihat keatas dan membandingkan diri sama orang yang bisa kerja di startup, bank, dll. tanpa sadar sama privilege yang dimiliki diri sendiri

  • @kanyakanyut
    @kanyakanyut 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i stumbled upon this masterpiece and got me reevaluate myself about how i live my own life. they inspire me to push my potential. great job mba karina and all journalists in jakarta post.... this touches my heart!

  • @duadinihari
    @duadinihari 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I'm pretty sure there's much more millenials with tougher life than Adit. I mean, he got motorcycle, decent job, a roof to take shelter, nice community, etc.

    • @ezatangguh9404
      @ezatangguh9404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It depends on your mindset

    • @Maelhere
      @Maelhere 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree!

    • @momogi618
      @momogi618 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah there's a lot actually, millenials that going wrong way in jakarta and become "courier" if you know what i mean.

    • @hypocritelife8018
      @hypocritelife8018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      classic Indonesian culture....
      when someone having a hard time.. their response always "ADU NASIB" instead of taking in the message of the show.
      A: shit man my life is so hard that I only earn 1.5 Million rupiahs.
      B: you are still better. LOOK AT ME IM WORSE THAN YOU.... blablabla...

    • @duadinihari
      @duadinihari 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hypocritelife8018 nah, it's not about adu nasib shite you mentioned. It's just simply a fact. I dont talk about their life. I talk about the information shared. Stop watching ikatan cinta, it's bad for yer brain.

  • @jfholsteinU
    @jfholsteinU 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Very informative. Thanks a lot for this!

  • @galileogalilubang9198
    @galileogalilubang9198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "But unfortunately i dont have a feeling to Him"
    One warrior down 😭

  • @dellyfathurachman5775
    @dellyfathurachman5775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Being grateful is the key, seeing this makes me cancel my shopping cart containing such expensive things i don't really need. Happiness is not about making good amount of money, happiness is about grateful that you're living without worrying. Social media plays role in this game, they keeps showing us upper class lifestyle we need to reach. Yet it's all bout how you use that tools.

  • @yosuakosasih9287
    @yosuakosasih9287 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    saya sedih... jadi inget adek saya... thank you Adit. Good luck for you.

  • @Masfugo
    @Masfugo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ga boleh nolak kalo dilamar
    ga boleh kerja sama suami
    ya ampun.... :(

    • @rinyeongi6322
      @rinyeongi6322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mindset jadul yang merusak generasi bangsa