Gaslighting Man "Rescues" Ex-Wife After Brutal Home Invasion | Rodney and Morgan Metzer

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  • @jeffa818
    @jeffa818 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +210

    I’ll take stupid plans that have absolutely no chance of succeeding for 600 please.

    • @jtzoltan
      @jtzoltan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Absolutely agree. Am I the only one who's a bit surprised he got 25 years in prison for it with 45 years of parole after? I mean I've seen people convicted of 2nd degree murder who get less time than that. Most people guilty of manslaughter get considerably less time in prison than that... what makes the difference here? Is it begause he was charged with 14 different counts, was he possibly overcharged?
      Don't get me wrong, what he did was psychotic amd he deserves many years behind bars, but he wasn't trying to end her living and yet he got more time than many people who do cause death or who falesly accuse others and get them locked up for years for example.

    • @kaym.2854
      @kaym.2854 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jtzoltan I don't feel an ounce of pity for him. As Dr. Grande mentioned, he was going to kill her and something changed his mind. What she experienced is traumatic on so many levels- not to mention what the kids must be going through. It's attempted murder full stop.

    • @vivianvandermerwe1380
      @vivianvandermerwe1380 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@jtzoltan Agree, even though what he did was bad, it does seem excessive

    • @jazzcat5950
      @jazzcat5950 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😆

  • @someonerandom256
    @someonerandom256 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +269

    I'm not sure why her parents didn't call the police when a 19 year old started dating their 14 year old.

    • @deboracopeland4795
      @deboracopeland4795 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Thank you for a hot minute that’s all I heard.

    • @ojgsk8ter
      @ojgsk8ter 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Yeah exactly. Not only is that a crime for a good reason, but no emotionally well-adjusted 19 year old would ever do that. That alone should have been overwhelming evidence that he was bad news.

    • @dicedrice7216
      @dicedrice7216 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      He didn't exactly date her -- he started grooming her.
      The fact that her parents did nothing to intervene makes me think that their household wasn't the healthiest either.

    • @Derpherppington
      @Derpherppington 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They’re trashy just like their kids. Wouldn’t suprised her parents also have similar age different

    • @Mandrake591
      @Mandrake591 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Why anyone would get married that young in modern times is beyond me. Her “boyfriend” was sick from the word go.

  • @JackessofalltradesMON
    @JackessofalltradesMON 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    He couldn't accept not having complete control over her; now, he will have no control over anybody for 20-25 years.

    • @back2nature608
      @back2nature608 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some of them think they have control over the one's effing them up the A!

    • @soicybunny
      @soicybunny 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There are narcissistic dangerous people out there who will spend years charming you, learning you, leaning into more and more manipulation. RUN FROM THE RED FLAGS ALWAYS, YALL. Look out for the red flags if you haven’t. I feel like everyone who stumbles upon the Dr Grande here has some sense.

  • @pragmatica_onpoint
    @pragmatica_onpoint 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    Rod was also EXCEEDINGLY creepy. I'm glad Morgan survived - this was a better outcome than I expected, though still awful. Another great case breakdown, Dr. G.

    • @babsdavis1228
      @babsdavis1228 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes! I love when Dr. G marks someone as exceedingly creepy!

    • @pragmatica_onpoint
      @pragmatica_onpoint 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@babsdavis1228 This guy fit the bill. Dr. G's list of adjectives was still excellent, though.

  • @Topself24
    @Topself24 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    Gaslighting is really dangerous. Escape the first time you’re a victim of it

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Part of the nature of Gaslighting is that the victim doesn't realise it's happening.

    • @Topself24
      @Topself24 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@eadweard. that’s true. I’ve identified gaslighting in my last relationship. I would always call it out on the spot and they would deny it like I’m crazy. 🤌🏾 chefs kiss gaslighting

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Topself24 You have my sympathies. It's a very sinister dynamic.

    • @NieceyWeesey
      @NieceyWeesey 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      For sure, you start to believe everything is your fault and start apologising for everything. It really takes a toll on your self esteem

    • @productioninquiry8937
      @productioninquiry8937 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It probably started when she was 19.

  • @tripledair
    @tripledair 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +462

    Nah, as soon as I saw the thumbnail, I started speculating about what could be happening in a situation like this.

    • @Flamsterette
      @Flamsterette 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Punctuation is a good idea here.

    • @tripledair
      @tripledair 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@Flamsterette open to suggestions

    • @DennisNeijmeijer
      @DennisNeijmeijer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Obligatory joke under every video

    • @virginiagirl6628
      @virginiagirl6628 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @steph7738
      @steph7738 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I’m speculating in my mind. 🌵 🤓 👓

  • @DavidKutzler
    @DavidKutzler 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I knew a woman who escaped from a similar abuser. Her husband would come home from work angry, verbally abuse her until she said something back and then beat her senseless. He told her that it was her own fault because she couldn't keep her mouth shut. One day she decided to not react, no matter how bad the verbal abuse. After 45 minutes of verbal abuse, he beat her anyway. When she said, "But I didn't say anything." He said, "But you were thinking it."
    That's when she knew at that he would end up killing her if she didn't get out of the marriage. When he left for work, she packed up everything she could fit into her car and left. She heard through family that he was looking for her "to beat her within an inch of her life" for embarrassing him by leaving. She moved two states away and lived in fear that he would find her and kill her.

  • @RullXov
    @RullXov 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Rodney's ego was the most important thing in the world to him. And people that pretend to have illnesses, like cancer, disgust me.

  • @STR82DVD
    @STR82DVD 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    It makes me wonder what percentage of women are married to men like Rod. Thanks for the great critique Doc. 😊 Acutely accurate as usual.

    • @mongoose6685
      @mongoose6685 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Borderline personality disorders and being histrionic are actually more prevalent in women. Narcissism is only very slightly higher in men than women. Schizoid affects more men, but they are usually never in long-term relationships.

    • @joewilson3393
      @joewilson3393 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I've read stories where people married people who ended later revealed to be their stalker.

    • @STR82DVD
      @STR82DVD 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@joewilson3393 I guess my question would be were they true stories as in this horrid case?

    • @joewilson3393
      @joewilson3393 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @STR82DVD Yeah, in one example she figured out her husband of 18 years had stalked her for two years before they "met" because he kept souvenirs.

    • @STR82DVD
      @STR82DVD 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@joewilson3393 Positively gruesome.

  • @rampage2587
    @rampage2587 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Nice to see someone survive a Dr Grande video

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    This one hits home. My ex husband said he was dying of cancer to cover up his drug use, told my family the same lie 😬Then he threatened me with a rifle...luckily he didn't act on that. Great breakdown again of another sad case. Thanks Dr G😊🖤🖤

    • @OvertPositivity
      @OvertPositivity 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well at least he wasn't vanilla. I know you girls don't like dating boring guys.

    • @jordahnnelson9926
      @jordahnnelson9926 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      ​@@OvertPositivitywhat's wrong with you?

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@OvertPositivity You're a very rude jerk.

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@jordahnnelson9926 Thanks. That's the nastiest comment I've heard in awhile. Typical keyboard narcissist bully.

    • @jordahnnelson9926
      @jordahnnelson9926 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @zenawarrior7442 they are all over video defending this guy and blaming women for being abused at the hands of their partner. what's so funny about this type of loser is that they get mad whenever someone characterizes men as dangerous yet are the first ones to defend abusive violent men. likely because they feel some type of affinity to the abuser and see any criticism of abusers as criticism of themselves.

  • @Simonisms
    @Simonisms 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +259

    An adult man dating a 14 yr old child is creepy af
    🚩

    • @ingridmay66
      @ingridmay66 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She wanted good S with an older guy.... 😂

    • @MonolithicCyanTsunami
      @MonolithicCyanTsunami 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Creepy is an understatement

    • @NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime
      @NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Yeah that’s not a healthy gap. Don’t even think that’s legal either. 17 and 15 , 18 and 16 ok, 14 is an 8th grader with a 19 year old adult man. That’s weird

    • @FungeHucker
      @FungeHucker 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTimehe's a pedophile, plain and simple 🤷

    • @Rebecca-hc5ju
      @Rebecca-hc5ju 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@ingridmay66 really? You think a 14-year-old wanted sex with an older guy?

  • @bubbabroad9051
    @bubbabroad9051 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    So glad she is alive and he is behind bars!!!

  • @deborahblackvideoediting8697
    @deborahblackvideoediting8697 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    So glad he ended up in jail and that Morgan and her children are safe - at least for the next 20 years.

    • @saun86
      @saun86 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That sounds creepy!

  • @LiveDogsMMA
    @LiveDogsMMA 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Shes lucky to be alive

  • @katthompson3852
    @katthompson3852 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Narcissistic abuse is the worst. Just glad she survived it.

  • @SegnahcX99
    @SegnahcX99 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    So many crazies out there. Best not to allow your emotions to over ride logic.

  • @breathnstop
    @breathnstop 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    She had no dating experience just the way he wanted it.

  • @themumblingdumpling2838
    @themumblingdumpling2838 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    He couldn't deal with real issues, so he kept creating some he thought he would, huh
    Ironically, getting himself arrested saved her in a way, so kudos to him, I guess.

    • @kazzz2765
      @kazzz2765 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      that’s video games for you.

  • @brendafenton8828
    @brendafenton8828 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    She was only 14 at the start! No victim blaming. She should have had more support and protection

    • @dariamancini963
      @dariamancini963 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The video preceding this one also featured a girl aged 14 who married her perp. Hopefully Morgan will have a better outcome in the decades to come

    • @SayNoToGod
      @SayNoToGod 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I do BLAME it and always will. THEY think they are grown and know it all. They are NOT innocent 👹🐍🤷

    • @dariamancini963
      @dariamancini963 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@SayNoToGod the name says it all. Must be trolling

    • @SayNoToGod
      @SayNoToGod 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @dariamancini963 uh YOU wish. I know these entitled browdz who THINK THEY ARE GROWN disturbs you but it's true. And a name means NOTHING 🤡

    • @SayNoToGod
      @SayNoToGod 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @dariamancini963 HAHA my name doesn't represent me. Stay mad that THEY are not innocent because THEY are arrogant. JUST like you for making assumptions about a name. Cultivate MORE brain cells 🤡

  • @Alden_Indoway
    @Alden_Indoway 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    So, is my math right…?
    He was 19 years old (old enough to be a college sophomore) dating a 14-year-old? (possibly an 8th-grader)?
    That in itself seems pretty creepy. 🤮

    • @42words
      @42words 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      dogs gonna bark, cows gonna moo, Georgia gonna Georgia ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

    • @Juhani139
      @Juhani139 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Isn't it illegal?

    • @electricpaper269
      @electricpaper269 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think it was high school senior and freshman

  • @Ninamode16
    @Ninamode16 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I had an ex who was exactly like this & I could see him doing just this tactic. It's creepy. He even poisoned my food once just to "save" me & take care of me to show me how good of a guy he was.

    • @BlackJesus8463
      @BlackJesus8463 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Have you ever heard of gangstalking?

  • @Betty_R
    @Betty_R 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    This is just like the Riley Gaul story. Riley tried these same tactics on his ex girlfriend, except in that case it ended in murder. How sad.

  • @kenmore01
    @kenmore01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Now for my analysis: glitter does indeed go everywhere and makes a mess.

    • @addjewelry
      @addjewelry 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s the herpes of the craft world.

  • @miriamorwin7603
    @miriamorwin7603 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Dear Dr G, a terrific informative annalysis. Especially the reasons you found as to why he did not kill Morgan. I agree, and that she did not understand that he was dangerous. Luckily she lives on and the children still have their mother with an absence of their father. So the end result is good. Rodney is no longer a danger in her life and is not in the children's lives too. Lucky for Morgan as she likely would never be safe or free of him. Great choice of case to analyise. Many kind thanks, from Australia.

  • @Kristoph-69-69
    @Kristoph-69-69 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Bro manipulating someone is an unsustainable way to maintain a relationship. U have to become a better person and think about the happiness of the other person not just your own. And some relationships just aren't meant to be

    • @deboracopeland4795
      @deboracopeland4795 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you Franco. You said that very well, also wait til the other person is older than 14 to date.

    • @misstbull
      @misstbull 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If u are not mentally challenged as an adult u cant be manipulated..u either just chose to go wit what one is saying or u vet a person and if what they say not true then they lied

    • @uluruise
      @uluruise 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@misstbullRod, is that you?! When they let you out of jail?!?! 😂😂😂

    • @cremdilly7176
      @cremdilly7176 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@wanya_telbornThe truth can be hard to understand but you'll get there.

    • @minka1781
      @minka1781 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He was 18-19 y.o. , when he started a relationship with a 14y.o. girl. This whole relationship was one big manipulation. She never had a chance to understand what he is before she married him.

  • @user-od3be8ny4o
    @user-od3be8ny4o 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I know it's wholly unprofessional of me but I wrote "women with a clothing deficit" in my clinical notes yesterday 😂

  • @betsylaughlin8652
    @betsylaughlin8652 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    Spoiler!!! I am always so relieved to see a story that doesn’t end in a massacre, and with the perpetrator safely behind bars.🙏That said, I’m astonished at the strength of this woman! Married at 18 yrs old, lost her first baby, then managing to survive this profoundly disturbed man? Just incredible. I pray she can finally find peace knowing he’s in jail and can’t physically hurt her (or those kids!) anymore🙏

    • @melonioilar8569
      @melonioilar8569 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      BEST COMMENT EVER!!!!!! You said it!❤

    • @ojgsk8ter
      @ojgsk8ter 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yeah she sounds like a very strong person mentally. Can’t imagine if I was put in that position at such a young age. One always hopes they would rise to the occasion under that kind of hardship and be able to cope but that’s impossible to know having never experienced anything like that.

    • @johnbauman4005
      @johnbauman4005 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Married at 21, not 18. Molested since 14 though.

    • @charliechurch5004
      @charliechurch5004 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ,😮 glaze over??? Plz explain this??

  • @Anita-tz5ox
    @Anita-tz5ox 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Given she was just a very, very young child when they started dating, she probably grew up and became her own person that he could no longer easily manipulate and control, hence the rage outbursts. I am glad she and the kids survived.

  • @DigitalNeb
    @DigitalNeb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I'm consistently shocked at how stupid these people's plans are. There was never any chance that this would work. How did he manage to convince himself that this was good idea?

    • @donovangray4246
      @donovangray4246 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      because narcissists believe their own hype and think they are smarter than everyone else

  • @samanthak5206
    @samanthak5206 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Excellent work, as always Dr Grande ❤❤❤❤

  • @steveeuphrates-river7342
    @steveeuphrates-river7342 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Not a hot Rod

    • @carpathianken
      @carpathianken 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      *In Rod we trust*

    • @60skidlostinspace
      @60skidlostinspace 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That was my nickname.

  • @rickjames5998
    @rickjames5998 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    funny how u can tell a narcassist in like 1 second of looking at their own images

    • @isitoveryet9525
      @isitoveryet9525 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol this is what’s wrong with people overusing these terms. If you think you can tell a narc by looks alone, you’re most likely wrong A LOT & also extremely judgmental

  • @alexandramail930
    @alexandramail930 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yep, playing with glitter sure does make a mess!

  • @kimberlys.7097
    @kimberlys.7097 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I like your cactus garden

  • @iloveplasticbottles
    @iloveplasticbottles 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dr Todd DRAGGED Rod with that description

  • @kenwillis8487
    @kenwillis8487 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    All these cases highlight just how simple minded most of these criminals are! Such fantasy like thinking. Like if it’s believable by them then everyone will believe them!

    • @falkor6615
      @falkor6615 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You’re right! I guess that’s the narcissism- they assume they are smarter than everyone else 🤨

    • @ojgsk8ter
      @ojgsk8ter 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      In some of his other videos Dr. Grande has made a point abt this that I’ve found very elucidating and has stuck with me for a long time. He’s said that the personality characteristics that drive people to commit violent crimes are also often characteristics that will ensure they get caught. So for example being impulsive, arrogant, and unable to control one’s emotions might contribute to a person committing a violent crime and then also contribute to them not having the insight, patience, and self control to adequately conceal the crime.
      The most terrifying kinds of offenders are the people who have the inclination to commit violent crimes but that are also very disciplined, insightful, organized, and highly functioning. One doesn’t immediately suspect them and they have some of the traits needed to actually escape justice.

  • @Olaqq
    @Olaqq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I think after watching enough of your episodes i can see the pattern of those fragile personalities who are insecure and will go as far as harming wife or children just to protect their fragile ego

  • @BonnieGillespieLive
    @BonnieGillespieLive 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Okay... so can his sentence include that his jail job is managing supplies for arts & crafts, specifically ALL THE GLITTER? 🎊🎇❇✨🤣

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Someone should send him a letter in jail just full of the most obnoxious glitter 😂

  • @breathnstop
    @breathnstop 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I've never heard Dr. Grande list more negative traits than he does in this case.

    • @jkjives1786
      @jkjives1786 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Definitely a new record. Even more than OJ!!

    • @andreawillingham8377
      @andreawillingham8377 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The way list was just going on and on

  • @McGeeification
    @McGeeification 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Why is Rod Smiling? The Gothic Horror of Imbecility
    "...I heard a gentle tapping, tapping at my chamber door..." Poe has informed all of us that Gothic literature requires a deep focus on the inner emptiness we all live with. In this dramatic case presented in a highly analytical manner, Dr. Grande verifies the truth of Poe's fascination with morbidity. In the account and including the smile, we see only two people. The world as we know it is in total eclipse. They lived in a psychological dungeon unrelieved by any light from above, or even just ordinary daylight. This is certainly another addition to the ever expanding Gothic literature of darkness.

  • @glenn9777
    @glenn9777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent, enjoyable watch. Thank you.

  • @commonsense2680
    @commonsense2680 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Please ladies when you are dating a guy who suddenly gets angry and yells, run the other way. You will never change him. It is just some baggage that he has and unless he's willing to seek anger therapy or whatever, the fighting just gets worse. My ex-husband had a huge temper and he would become irrational when he got angry. It was scary. Finally I realized he had a lot of unresolved issues from his childhood and I actually get very scared when people yell at me. Hence, he is my EX. Too many women try to stick it out with their husbands hoping they will change because he would end up apologizing and promise not to do it again. But, it never ended. Just be safe.

  • @williamwelch7
    @williamwelch7 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks Dr. Grande

  • @soonut
    @soonut 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Another great analysis, thanks! Why don't you do the OCEAN analysis any more? Very useful. Missing it

  • @bodacioustness5054
    @bodacioustness5054 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He chose a child to manipulate and control. Were her parents OK with it?

  • @WillPhil290
    @WillPhil290 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Holy smokes... The whole time I was watching this video, I kept thinking "please tell me he didn't kill her, I just can't handle this right now..." Thankfully he didn't because I would've went in my backyard and cried lol...

  • @chantelofeast
    @chantelofeast 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    What an awful man. When he starts screaming in jail, someone with a strong grip and a big back will whisper from behind ‘Shhhh, you’re just being dramatic’.

    • @FifiR3
      @FifiR3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      💀💀

    • @cremdilly7176
      @cremdilly7176 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Keep the gay fantasies to yourself, please

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Let us hope

    • @BlackJesus8463
      @BlackJesus8463 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You might be a sociopath.

    • @valalongtooth1
      @valalongtooth1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol!

  • @docsnake
    @docsnake 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Millions and millions of women in the world, leave that * one * that wants nothing to do with you alone!

    • @ayamystic2
      @ayamystic2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They’re raised to put one woman on a pedestal

    • @OvertPositivity
      @OvertPositivity 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@ayamystic2You don't understand men very well.

    • @jordahnnelson9926
      @jordahnnelson9926 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@OvertPositivityrods behavior is normal for men?

    • @Alden_Indoway
      @Alden_Indoway 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ⁠@@jordahnnelson9926- It’s timeless-Remember Shakespeare’s famous scene where Juliet cries out from the balcony, “Romeo, where fore art thou?” but then Romeo appears menacingly behind her in a ski mask and with one punch knocks her out for two-and-twenty hours.

    • @purrple.shadows
      @purrple.shadows 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@ayamystic2 And then control and abuse her.

  • @cathkails
    @cathkails 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, Dr. Grande. Glitter is the bane of my existence.

  • @Panwere36
    @Panwere36 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    He was nineteen while she was fourteen.. yeah.. gaslighting isn't the only thing he did! Wow.

  • @asmokeus
    @asmokeus 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    dude......."create a wound" is a hell of a workaround phrase. that's actually one that has a serious, sober sound to it

  • @cactusitude
    @cactusitude 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good video. Very weird and scary guy. Would love to hear your OCEAN analysis of this, please consider doing them again

  • @Nicana68
    @Nicana68 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Those poor kids must have been so traumatised by their dangerously sick father.

  • @Ezinma88
    @Ezinma88 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think Morgan's quick thinking also helped save her life. She managed to say the right thing - a loving comment about her husband - at the right moment

  • @INNdibongo
    @INNdibongo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks Dr Grande, an interesting thought that “the view from the inside of a marriage is a lot cloudier”

  • @markspark7634
    @markspark7634 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Now that was a proper sentence, and a good fit for the crime

  • @aarondavis8943
    @aarondavis8943 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Not s sceric of insight between them. I'm glad she got out alive and he's no longer her problem.

  • @FifiR3
    @FifiR3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Just RODiculous🤯

    • @carpathianken
      @carpathianken 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Gene RODdenberry is going to make a movie about it

    • @FifiR3
      @FifiR3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@carpathianken😂
      Very pRODuctive😜

  • @Ezinma88
    @Ezinma88 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm wondering why you didn't mention that he SAd Morgan during the attack? It makes the whole thing more insidious

  • @nataniahwhitmore9977
    @nataniahwhitmore9977 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Dr. Grande, you should do a video on Earl Leonard Nelson. He was a serial killer from the 20s. Very sad story.

  • @vaneast411
    @vaneast411 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    hopefully Morgan can find a man that will truly win her heart
    she needs to use this as an opportunity to make meaningful changes
    including becoming less naive in relationships

  • @Transformation.Massage
    @Transformation.Massage 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Nice button-down shirt Dr. Grande

  • @BaDazai
    @BaDazai 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    😮😮 There's a similar crazy case like this. The guy did it because his girlfriend wanted to be celibate until after they got married, the guy was impatient and stagged a kidnapping and suggest s3x before they were k1ll3d.

    • @SunShine-qk4rb
      @SunShine-qk4rb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’ve never forgotten that case.horrific

    • @MsPac-Man
      @MsPac-Man 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He did that story.

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh yeah , Grande covered that kinda recently
      That guy pulled alllll the stops to try to get laid
      Yikes

  • @williamwilson5718
    @williamwilson5718 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'd love to hear your thoughts on Terrance Howard

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you again Dr. Grande 🙏

  • @Big_Tex
    @Big_Tex 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Remember people - if you’re going to look up incrementing things on the Internet, be sure a borrow a friend’s cell phone to do it on.

    • @Jane-West
      @Jane-West 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂

    • @FifiR3
      @FifiR3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Incriminating..and i agree wholly😂👌

    • @deboracopeland4795
      @deboracopeland4795 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Nah your friend will be the first on newsnation telling all your secrets with video.

    • @carpathianken
      @carpathianken 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Or if you're going to do it at the library don't bring your sister with you while you do it. I was looking at picture of women with large posteriors (for research purposes) & I found one girl who's azz was wider than she was tall, & as soon as my sister saw her picture she laughed so loud that the on duty librarian kicked us out.

    • @ojgsk8ter
      @ojgsk8ter 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That or learn how to actually mask your IP address.

  • @twentyrothmans7308
    @twentyrothmans7308 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I'm pretty certain that I could dress in a gorilla suit, and my SO would recognise me in the dark, just by the way that I moved.
    There's one way to find out.

  • @tin2001
    @tin2001 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just a reminder, I'm not commenting on this video, only speculating on what a comment might look like on a video like this 😂

  • @68404
    @68404 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I 'rescued' my now wife from someone just like that.
    Same story, naive, innocent, first 'real' boyfriend, first sexual partner.
    With nothing to compare the relationship with, gaslighting aplenty, deliberate isolation from her parents and sisters, and two children to protect with nowhere to go; it was a nightmare at home and false smiles to the world.
    I got her and her children out of there.
    She is very happy now but still bears the emotional scars of those 20+ years of hell.
    The now ex husband is scared of me but still tries to play mind games with her as court orders insist he must have a meaningful relationship with the children. Ever the Narcissist, he uses this avenue to manipulate her and make her feel worthless. He's a grub.

  • @MadBroStudio
    @MadBroStudio 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Rodney looks like the person who called me racial slurs in halo 3 odst all those years ago

    • @nightcoreeclub
      @nightcoreeclub 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      💀💀💀💀💀

    • @LiveDogsMMA
      @LiveDogsMMA 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Nah that person was 13 lol

    • @MH-hy2ot
      @MH-hy2ot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I believe you, he just has that look

    • @OvertPositivity
      @OvertPositivity 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because he's white? Lol

    • @chickenlittle5095
      @chickenlittle5095 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wasn’t that pretty much every player?

  • @IDoBeSmarter
    @IDoBeSmarter 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was super BIAS!!! They never even found the mystery intruder! 😡😡😡

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson1602 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always interesting
    Thank you ❤

  • @tripledair
    @tripledair 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Rodd watched waaaay too many 90s sitcoms.

  • @dlc5166
    @dlc5166 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    All of these toxic relationships show good reason to focus on higher education first and foremost so you're independent and have time to grow as a person before entering into a relationship and bearing children - maybe channels like this one will be a shining light - because the world sure isn't a perfect place and we all can learn positive ways to maneuver through it.

  • @thelocalmaladroit8873
    @thelocalmaladroit8873 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Doesn’t that glitter around the holidays make you crazy?
    It may be April or May and you’re still dealing with it.
    Thanks, Doc.

  • @wendyhall8801
    @wendyhall8801 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Dr Grande - please could you analyse the case of Dr Michael Mosley’s death

  • @NieceyWeesey
    @NieceyWeesey 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how Dr Grande gets faster as he goes down the adjective list 😂

  • @productioninquiry8937
    @productioninquiry8937 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Her "friends..." Way to abandon someone at risk.

  • @damienluxford4480
    @damienluxford4480 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I counted twenty negative qualities attributed to Rod. 😂

  • @hankgesmag9650
    @hankgesmag9650 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    It is a real tragedy that so many women have to become involved with guys like that. Also, because it is so hard for them to get out of situations like that and then on top of that they had kids! Good thing that this kind of behavior carries a long prison sentence...

    • @MH-hy2ot
      @MH-hy2ot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bro, they don't have to, they fucking choose to. Many are drawn to emotionally unavailable men, this is a basic yet uncomfortable psychological fact

    • @jordahnnelson9926
      @jordahnnelson9926 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@MH-hy2ot what exactly is this "psychological fact" and what are you sources?

    • @AJ-hz3tx
      @AJ-hz3tx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@MH-hy2otah yes.
      The ol’ “It’s their fault for picking the wrong man.”
      At FOURTEEN.
      Totally 👍

  • @bigcooldaddy1965
    @bigcooldaddy1965 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Always creeps me out when there’s such an age difference in the relationship, at such a young age.

  • @MephieStopheles
    @MephieStopheles 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When you look at the world through rose tinted glasses, red flags just look like flags.
    Glad she made it out in one piece.

  • @ginafarley6190
    @ginafarley6190 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The manipulation of these unhealthy people is what we need to learn. People keep getting fooled

  • @AnAdorableWombat1
    @AnAdorableWombat1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rod: *buys zip ties for absolutely no reason*
    Also Rod: “Officer, I have no idea what these things are!”

  • @heatherl4739
    @heatherl4739 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dr. G - "What do I think happened in this case? This is just a theory, my opinion....."
    Me: Here we go!!!!......

  • @maryellengodfrey
    @maryellengodfrey 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She need the classes on healing from Narcissistic Abuse. 😢

  • @shameDJ5
    @shameDJ5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's a sucker move for him to fake that deadly illness as a way to get back with her through guilt and pity. I know someone personally who had pancreatic cancer and died from it.

  • @rileysmith9843
    @rileysmith9843 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you cover the case of former White County, Tennessee Sheriff Oddie Shoupe surrounding a controversial deadly force order (comments were caught on a body camera, and the order was made because he didn’t want his vehicles damaged due to PIT maneuvers) and controversial searches? I would like to see the factors in that.

  • @zodlord5669
    @zodlord5669 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    men who can't provide for their kids and themselves usually hurt people that love them the most

  • @tycobb2580
    @tycobb2580 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Rod . . . maybe move to another town so you can get her out of your head (too late now)

  • @Ryan_Rants
    @Ryan_Rants 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Zip ties? I ain't ever heard of them."- Rod

  • @serendavies7375
    @serendavies7375 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'll never trust that man! 😡

  • @genec5646
    @genec5646 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He was 19 years old "dating and sexual active" with a 14 year old girl. Love Ya Georgia.

    • @Jeff-bz6jp
      @Jeff-bz6jp 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, that only ever happens in Georgia. FO

  • @stitcher64
    @stitcher64 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Glitter, the herpes of the craft world. Dimitri Martin

  • @dreaem
    @dreaem 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love Dr. G. Not so much Punctuation Police.

  • @houseofsolomon2440
    @houseofsolomon2440 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice choice on her thumnail pic 👌🏼

  • @philoaviaticus
    @philoaviaticus 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Unfortunately a common enough pairing

  • @frisk151
    @frisk151 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I 'm not known for my brevity, but I will try.. The absolutely most impressive, and hopefully inspirational part of this story.. This WOMAN made decisions that ultimately saved her and her child.. (I know of another "man" (yeah right) who thankfully "unalived" himself (when he could have easily have killed his kids and their Mom - old friend..) There is a considerable difference in fighting something / someone you can see and understand, and what you don't even know what you are dealing with... Seriously.. A LOT of people close their eyes when they are faced with 'it'.. Some never blink and look it down "forever" - whatever forever may be.. To me, at least.. The guy that will die with my eyes open.. The person (WOMAN in this case) who stands up not even being ABLE to see what is coming... Absolute respect... (And, I didn't even talk about my beautiful narcissist that had me fish-out-of-water at a much older age than this Lady).. Predators..

  • @leebishop7591
    @leebishop7591 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This guys a genius