Hi Chechi, I faced some issues during my "penkanals." In 2021, I received a proposal through a matrimonial site. On a Sunday evening, the guy's family visited, and after some interview questions, they asked us to talk. While conversing, the mother entered the room and asked peculiar questions about my clothing choices and suggested they needed our money for their daughter's wedding. Despite this, I accepted. They inspected our house and took pictures ( her sister took) and later, they criticized our family and we heard it through a mediator. This angered me and I defended my family's honor. Two years later, I got married into a wonderful family, and God has been merciful. I heard the second daughter's fiancé's family cut ties with them, and I felt sorry for her. It emphasizes the importance of equal upbringing for both sons and daughters.
Sorry to say this. Im from the malabar area n dowry valare koravaanu infact njan kettitilla But nammal ,down South lekk proposal vanna udane parayunath aah sthreedana kaaranu . so happy that u n ur family thinks this way.b cos i thot all over there are totally okay with this dowry system.
@@sherinajohn720 daa.. matrimony okke nalla udayip aan ketto.. especially M4 and Christian matrimony..ellam alla..i have similar experiences..chila married aayitullavarde profiles kanum.. single nna status il..pinne chilavarde okke background middle class nn edum bt they are below that..nammal poy kanumpol aan realise cheyunnath..pinne kurae fraudukal nd ....nowadays it's hard to find a sincere guy with a strong faith in Christ ..
True😅 I did have same experience. I believe most of the girls face these similar situation. I feel that nowadays boys are taught by their mothers to bring large lump of money as their are boys and once girl is married supposed to take care of the house both financially and household chores. Once married , they shouldn't go to their own house or talk to their relatives. Girl shouldn't go for work and don't have individuality. They are considered as maid but no payment. Maids are treated better. Lot of incidents regarding dowry reported & some are suffering in silence/ some left the toxic relationship ----- still its keep on happening. V need a solution. A stop 🛑 to this mentality. They should be punished severely for breaking a soul. Human life is valuable. Breaking this girl mentally and physically. Like Filipino community, if a girl & boy wants to marry - they should make their own money & organise the marriage function. So that both families don't have a say . Its not just happening in Kottayam but many parts of kerala. Sad to say , its happening in most among so called educated people
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Hi Chechi, I faced some issues during my "penkanals." In 2021, I received a proposal through a matrimonial site. On a Sunday evening, the guy's family visited, and after some interview questions, they asked us to talk. While conversing, the mother entered the room and asked peculiar questions about my clothing choices and suggested they needed our money for their daughter's wedding. Despite this, I accepted.
They inspected our house and took pictures ( her sister took) and later, they criticized our family and we heard it through a mediator. This angered me and I defended my family's honor.
Two years later, I got married into a wonderful family, and God has been merciful. I heard the second daughter's fiancé's family cut ties with them, and I felt sorry for her.
It emphasizes the importance of equal upbringing for both sons and daughters.
Well said 💯
Well said chechi 🥰♥️oru job oru pennkuttiyude lifeilu tharunna mattanglae kurich video cheyyo
Your videos are so great..just became a fan of you
Very very useful one
16:45…. 💯👏the most important point ‘his’ parents should note 🫡
Sorry to say this. Im from the malabar area n dowry valare koravaanu infact njan kettitilla
But nammal ,down
South lekk proposal vanna udane parayunath aah sthreedana kaaranu . so happy that u n ur family thinks this way.b cos i thot all over there are totally okay with this dowry system.
Well said chechii🥰💯
Its her mistake i will say ...we should definitely give a value for ourself .....
Easy to judge. She fell in love.
@@Myjourney459 seriously with those who demanding more more money
@@anishagopal748 Yes ma'am
But she thought she can't survive without him
Kore parents makkale valarthunnond....... Sthreedhanam medich kettikkan....... Feeling pity.... Sthreedhanam medikkan padippikkana neram kond nattellinu urapp ondavan padippikk..... Oru pennine nokkan kazhivondele.... Kettavu.... Alland uluppilkand avalde appante cash kandond kettallu....
@@tinuthomas7801 sathyam
Aaah naamkettavan eee video kanda mathiyaayirunnu..
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Great Video Megha. Speak more about your life experiences..❤
iganey oru video itath nanayi
Please make a video on selecting a good life partner and how to know if they are a right person :)
yes please do pine matrimonial eganey ru sincere person namak find out cheym athum koode explain cheyuna video idumo?
I too need that...😊🤞
@@sherinajohn720 daa.. matrimony okke nalla udayip aan ketto.. especially M4 and Christian matrimony..ellam alla..i have similar experiences..chila married aayitullavarde profiles kanum.. single nna status il..pinne chilavarde okke background middle class nn edum bt they are below that..nammal poy kanumpol aan realise cheyunnath..pinne kurae fraudukal nd ....nowadays it's hard to find a sincere guy with a strong faith in Christ ..
True😅 I did have same experience. I believe most of the girls face these similar situation. I feel that nowadays boys are taught by their mothers to bring large lump of money as their are boys and once girl is married supposed to take care of the house both financially and household chores.
Once married , they shouldn't go to their own house or talk to their relatives. Girl shouldn't go for work and don't have individuality. They are considered as maid but no payment. Maids are treated better.
Lot of incidents regarding dowry reported & some are suffering in silence/ some left the toxic relationship ----- still its keep on happening. V need a solution. A stop 🛑 to this mentality. They should be punished severely for breaking a soul. Human life is valuable.
Breaking this girl mentally and physically.
Like Filipino community, if a girl & boy wants to marry - they should make their own money & organise the marriage function. So that both families don't have a say .
Its not just happening in Kottayam but many parts of kerala.
Sad to say , its happening in most among so called educated people
Exactly 💯..
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