Not only were you having anxiety because of everything going on so fast, feeling sick and trying to reason with everything- you were told you were bleeding out, so the morphine usually does help, but because the bleeding was going on it only exacerbated the situation. After all it is an intravenous medicine which gives you the pain relief that much quicker. They should have given you something for the anxiety, but then again maybe all of these medications should have been closely monitored instead of the nurse walking away. Just to make sure you were as comfortable as possible given the situation. Glad you’re doing good! God bless!
In a way, it’s as if you guys were able to give makeala a grand baby for him to take care of in heaven. Praying God heals your heart and guides you in processing all that has happened.
your daddy was taking care of you, he wasn’t ready to bring his baby girl home. Love you mak🤍, you are a woman who is so beautifully resilient and strong. Wish you nothing but the best always .
I always loved their relationship, but seeing ronnie comfort her while shes having a hard time is something else!!! NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS. This man is amazing to his wife and family.
When Ronnie put Macky in his arms and kissed when she started crying🥺❤️ I started crying! We are so happy you are still here with us Macky! We love you and the banks family so much!!!
when ronnie mentioned saying their final goodbyes i literally got chills all over my body. you two have been through so much i pray over you two & your family ❤️ but when ronnie was talking about the butterfly story & how he thought you turned into a butterfly 🤣 that was definitely your father 🤍 so beautiful
“Did Macky just become a butterfly?!” 😭😂 I’m so glad you’re recovering, your dad is definitely your guardian angel. He was in that operating room making sure everything was going good so you can go home with your babies 🦋💗
You can see the fear in Ronnie’s eyes as she was reciting the part where her blood pressure dropped... he was genuinely afraid of losing his wife and soulmate 💔 you can tell this took a toll on both of them but I love their love for one another ❤️
The pain in mackys face everytime her dad is mentioned!🥺 stay strong babygirl I can't imagine the pain of losing your daddy he's definitely watching over you and your family🤍!
so glad your alive makey. your dad and God had there hands over you and protecting you. This happened to my brother and his wife. But she had pre eclampsia and unfortunately she died and so did my unborn baby nephew ): it’s unfortunate for a lot of people. But i’m glad you made it. your truely blessed.
I feel like crying because I know stories from relatives who went through this, my cousin survived, but our uncle's fiance didn't. It was terrifying for him because he was about to take the bar exam but rushed home as soon as he heard the news but it was too late. I am so glad Maki's okay & strong! Get well soon, Maki! We love you! Banks Fam ❤
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; And through the rivers, they shall not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned, Nor shall the flame scorch you. Isaiah 43:2 @25:30 minutes into the video, as I watch you Makeala, I’m praying for Jesus to comfort you and to give you His peace that surpasses all understanding. This specific Bible verse is the verse that came to mind for you. I hope it comforts you! ❤️ Jesus loves you beautiful! I hope you can find peace knowing that your sweet precious baby is perfectly perfect in heaven right now! ❤️ Prayers over you and Ronnie and the family, In Jesus Name! ❤️🙏
I can’t even imagine how overwhelming these pass few months have been. I’m so proud of you guys for overcoming your triumphs. God really is good. You guys deserve all the best in the world. And it’s still summer, Take a mental break. Reward yourselves with a trip even if it’s a small one. Take the kids to the water park or a fair and just relax and create more good memories. Cause tomorrow really isn’t promised. Best to take advantage of your life and appreciate/create memories with the people in it while you still can ☺️ Much love 🖤
You’ve been through so much this past year Makeala girl. Sending you so much love and healing. I’m sure you’re tired. You got this mama!! Praying for your peace
This happened to my sister, she also thought it was just gas. The drs said she came in right on time because as soon as they started the surgery her Fallopian tube ruptured
You’re dad was protecting his baby girl 🤍 He was letting Ronnie know you were okay! I love you guys and I admire how strong you are Makey, strongest mama I know!! Keep your head up beautiful 🦋
Your doctor was saying you were experiencing tachycardia, which means your heart rate was high because your body was trying to compensate for the low blood pressure. Glad you’re okay 🙏🏼
I totally understand you Make! I got diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer June 2020 I went into an emergency intestinal surgery. I woke up and had an ileostomy & an open wound with 17 staples. I have been dehydrated, Two blood transfusions, Procedure after procedure, Emergency after emergency, etc. I totally understand your pain! What a warrior! I admire you! Especially being so disciplined posting videos, and dealing through all of the emotional roller coaster rides! I have an entrepreneurial mindset so I understand how this feels! I’m still traumatized from my journey, Separated from my partner of four years because he couldn’t be the man I needed emotionally but even so, I’m still fighting just like the both of you!
As someone going into the healthcare field to become a nurse practitioner... i can honestly say that not everyone should work in the medical field. It sucks because the field pays extremely well and some people go after the money but forget that they're responsible for the lives of others. Every employee is responsible for ensuring the patients are treated well, comfortable and receiving the proper care needed in a timely matter depending on the situation. I'm sorry you had to deal with some of the bad ones from the bunch but i hope going forward you guys have better experiences
Being from HI, I believe so heavily in spiritual amakuas! So when Ronnie mentioned the butterfly I literally got chicken skin & jaw dropped. You two have gone through so much together this year & I am so astonished at how you two deal with it, publicly. I’m praying things will only get greater from here on out for you two & your family. God bless you two always! I’m glad this story had an amazing happy ending to it. 🤍✨
I went through the exact same thing at Kaiser. Except I had 4 surgeons come in to tell me “do you have anyone to say your goodbyes to? You have lost too much blood and we can’t promise you’ll make it out alive” all I remember saying was “tell my son mommy loves him & I’ll always be watching him.” I cry every time I think of it. Thank god I made it out. I’m anemic now with other complications but I’m just happy to be alive to watch my son grow.
I'm literally crying as Ronnie explains how he looked at the situation. "We had no business being pregnant" y'all 😭😭😭 I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you're doing well, mentally and physically. I'm glad you're doing well😭💕
God works in mysterious ways I’m so sorry about y’all’s lost but god and your dad we’re definitely looking down at y’all and held y’all hand every step of the way
After a long day at the clinic at work, this was such an eye opening video. Knowing that people everywhere and everyday are going through things and it just reminds us that we are human and we experiencing everything differently. Such an uplifting message in this video. Loved the message behind it! Thank you for sharing! The #yeah yeah yeah hit so different
I just went through this a month and a half ago. I know the feeling. I’m so sorry for the loss. It’s definitely a scary situation. Prayers to speedy recovery and love to you and the family.
ive always donated blood thru out high school, and the most rewarding thing to hear is that i saved someone's life, and i didnt save just one person, but 2!! 💙💙
Thank you! You really are saving lives when you do this. I’m not able to donate blood because I’m one of the people who need it, so I appreciate to see healthy people do it
Thank God you’re okay. I’m so sorry this happened to you and pray you will continue to recover from here. I’m so thankful you’re safe and are able to be with your hubby and the girls. ❤️
When I saw the title, my heart shattered. I'm so sorry for your loss Maki and Ronnie. Sending lots of prayers your way. Speedy recovery girl ❤️ I'm so glad you're okay.
The way Ronnie was texting her and especially the message of her being alive to read the message :(( their love is like no other on this planet. God bless the both of you and here’s to a very speedy recovery ❤️
God bless you!! Your dad was with you, our loved ones are always with us and always giving us signs that they are with us. My dad passed away also, it is magical and sacred to have a parent on the other side. I’m happy that you recognize the signs. Know that everything in your life is meant to happen, you are relieving karmic dept, this is meant for you in this life. Prayers for your healing🙏
So glad my girl Mak is okay, thank God! Remember, God gives the toughest battles to His strongest soldiers. Sending the Banks Fam so much love & healing vibes 💛
I had this in April i lost my left tube 😭 it was so draining and stressful i have 3 healthy beautiful kids and this happen out of nowhere I’m not even sure how it happened. It really took a toll on my body and mental health but here i am a few months later healthy and strong im so grateful to be alive 🙏🏻❤️ Hope you have a fast and full recovery babe.
@@amypalomino1 well for me i had a missed period so i thought i was pregnant and i took test and they were positive we were happy because we were trying and then a week after my late missed period i started spotting like brown old blood and TMI but i kept feeling alot of pressure on my rectum they took about 1 week to tell me what i had because they couldnt find the fetus and so they gave me methotrexate to stop pregnancy because they were assuming i had ectopic and idnd t want it to rupture and a week later another dose so i ended doing another scan i was about 8 weeks and they finally fount it in my left tube so i had to have surgery
Butterfly’s symbolize that everything will be okay or new beginnings. I believe the butterfly was Makis dad watching over her baby girl and giving Rony some kind of peace. I’m glad you’re okay Maki ❤️
I have had this surgery twice in both my right and left fallopian tubes. Just as serious as yours, life or death. My heart was broken twice. Never having had any kids before. And my chance of being a Mother just ripped right out of my heart. Fast forward today at 29 my fiance and I have started our IVF journey with very high hopes. I'll pray for your healing Makeala. I know this feeling personally. Just be glad your husband Ronnie was there to love and support you.
I'm a sonographer, I do ultrasounds and I had a case with a woman just like this. Everything Makeala went through, she was going through. Luckily she got surgery. I hope shes ok. Ectopics are very serious. Glad you're ok Makey 💕
@@ps6348 most ectopics are diagnosed in the first trimester. Very few can survive past the first trimester. If you get an ultrasound, and the gs sac is not positioned centrally in your ut where your endometrium would be in a regular pelvic exam its considered an ectopic pregnancy. There are many types of ectopic pregnancies, the most common being in the fallopian tubes.
@@ps6348 sometimes its hard to know if its an ectopic in early pregnancy if a gs is not yet seen because it could either be too early, the woman could be miscarrying, or it could be an ectopic. That's why if a GS isn't seen if a woman comes through the ER, the doctors request them to come back for a short term follow up in a week or so.
I love how much ronnie supports maky. His love is so genuine. Maky needs a break..I know its hard with 3 girls. I think mizo taking an extra week at her moms should be considered, and I mean it in the nicest way possible. Macky goes above and beyond for her babies but she really needs the less chaos possible right now. The less stress the better. We all know macky is a super woman but lets be considerate shes been through so much emotionally. ❤
I don’t get how sending HIS daughter back to her mom for an extra week would help after all it is his responsibility and not hers so that dosent mean Mizo should suffer because of whatever they got going on he should step in as a partner and father to help her out with the kids more idk but the way I see it that would make Mizo feel weird and sad…
I teared up at the message Ronnie left Maki 🥺 pure love, so beautiful. Glad you're ok now, you guys are soo blessed! Love watching your videos!! 🗣YEAH YEAH YEAH 🤘
Ronnie should of emphasized “We had no business being pregnant again” I felt that prior experience 😳 But your family has gone through many heart aches and my prayers and blessing head your way 🤍 my respect to this family and channel.
What a year this has been for your family, Papa Jerry was definitely there protecting you guys through this. Praying Mackie’s recovery goes smoothly and that the rest of this year only brings blessings and joy 🤍🤍🤍
“F them kids” and “did Makey just become a butterfly” 🤣🤣🤣 God bless, Glad you’re okay. And it’s awesome you guys can laugh about things now that she’s okay💖 Your dad’s beautiful soul is definitely with you and your beautiful family💛🙏🏽
At 33:13 I feel like Makeala wanted to cry but she was holding it in, your father is forever watching over you guys. God bless you for getting through this & YOU ARE STRONG WOMAN !!
That’s probably what he meant in his text message to her, the part “selfish wants and needs”. They probably have sex and he purposely doesn’t want to pull out knowing that she just had another baby and it’s dangerous to conceive another within the same year of having their second child. I hope he takes this as sign that he needs to be more sexually mature and safe in his relationship or she just needs to be on a strong birth control.
You guys are extremely strong! Just one of the things that you’ve been through would break most people and still yet you guys are able to joke and smile and it seems like if anything you’re closer than ever before, so freaking inspiring! Grateful for all that you share with us and thankfully everyone is okay. Love you guys and keeping you in my prayers 🤍 God is so good!
I’m so thankful to come across this video especially today. I am also a patient of Kaiser and they didn’t listen to me or make my needs urgent while I had an ectopic pregnancy this past week. It took them 3 almost 4 days to finally offer a solution or want to hear about my pain. This was our first pregnancy and it was truly devastating. While going through this one of the nurses told me we would have to lose the baby and in the same breathe wanted to talk to me about her black friend and how she wanted to touch my hair.
I’m dying at Ronnie freaking out about the butterfly!! Lol “OH NO!!! SHE TURNED INTO A BUTTERFLY!!!” Lol but on a serious note I’m so glad you’re okay! That’s such a scary story and that butterfly was def your daddy coming to say hi and making sure you’re ok. ❤️❤️
This made me tear up.. your dad was there, watching over you, protecting you & supporting Ronnie. I lost my dad, and each and every life changing moment I have ever experienced I have had something like this happen. Each and every time it brings me to tears & for that split moment I feel close to him. Get well soon & sending lots of love and prayers. Xx
Aww that’s true poor ronnie is always just sitting around waiting from both point of views you guys didn’t know what was gonna happen and it was scary for both that’s crazy
Omg i’m so sorry 😭 I went through this June 29th💔 I was so scared and sad & just felt so many things all at once. Yes this is so TRAUMATIZING 🥺 I havent been able to cope so well with my loss😭 But we are blessed to be alive ! Wish you & you’re family all the best! 💕 I hope to have my rainbow baby one day, bless you & your babies❤️ sending love & prayers🙏🏼
i’m so sorry you guys went through that. i had a miscarriage at 3 months 2 years ago and it was such a horrible experience… it still hurts to this day.
Wow! I am astonished that I watched this video. I can relate to you on so many levels. First and foremost I am glad to see that you are okay and healing, sending you love and prayers for a speedy and safe recovery. On Monday I started experiencing what I signified was the worst pain I had ever felt, I brushed it off but it wasn’t before long I felt I needed to go to the ER. Thankfully I listened to my body and got the help I needed because I had been diagnosed with appendicitis and I too had to have surgery right away. My appendix was on the verge of rupturing. You couldn’t have said it any better, our god is amazing, there is so much to be thankful for, always listen to your body and check it out. It’s not worth risking your life for something that could have been prevented. I love y’all BANKS FAM! YEAH, YEAH, YEAH!!!!💕
My first pregnancy was ectopic. I went in for my first ultrasound and they couldn’t see the baby anywhere and the nurse pressed down on my uterus really hard and I believe she ruptured my Fallopian tube. They told us we would have to have an emergency surgery and we walked over to the ER. I fainted and woke up in a wheel chair going down the hall. I was sweating bullets but I was freezing and I lost like half the blood in my body. What you were feeling after they gave you morphine was what I was experiencing and I think it might be from the loss of blood like not being able to hear. It was so scary and they rushed me into surgery right away but my body was so cold they had to warm me up first. It’s probably the scariest thing I’ve ever experienced and I’m happy that you’re alive!!! You’re here for a reason.
I had to go through the same thing … i lost my right fallopian tube just this may from an ectopic pregnancy but i had no symptoms or pain. Im thankful to still be here , it was definitely a scary experience & a very sad time for me and my husband. I just kept reminding myself god has his plans for us 🙏🏻 it’s so crazy while in the hospital 3 other girls ages 21-26 + myself were there for ectopic pregnancies…
Makeala: The whole room was spinning... Ronnie: LOADED. 😂 I'm so glad you're okay. So scary to think what you were going through at that time. I wouldn't be able to keep calm. 😣
Thanks for sharing…just went through something similar (but I was 13 weeks, and needed 3 blood transfusions, and LITERALLY almost died)…glad you’re strong enough to share your story with us. It helps a little.
So sorry you had to go thru this. How long before the dr/OB diagnosed you? Did you take all ultrasounds and blood test to be diagnosed,? My sister is having similar symptoms- painful stabbing in her abdomen and heavy abnormal bleeding. The drs don’t are running tests (ultrasounds ct blood) but all came back normal so far. I’m worried for her. Worried that they are overlooking a ectopic pregnancy. She just had a baby 6 months ago
i’m crying ugh you guys both are so strong my heart hurts for you all. i kno that feeling and you’re right it’s out of your control… love love love your familyyyyy and sending 1,000 prayers
so glad you share your story as it is sad, miscarriages are very common, more common than we think unfortunately. sharing your story allows individuals that experience this feel seen or understood. although no one can take the pain you feel, you definitely make others feel heard/seen. i hope you heal from this traumatic experience. ❤️
Literally cried when you guys were talking about saying goodbye to each other, ugh I just can't! I'm so glad you're okay Makey, your dad was definitely looking over you 💜🙏
Omg! I am going thru this now but not sure how I made it to three months without it rupturing rather my egg shrunk and my hcg went down! I was scheduled for surgery when I found out the egg shrunk and levels went down and was able to get the medication to help everything die and come down! I know what your going thru and soo glad you made it out safe and alive! So glad you have Ronney as your rock and being there and loving you every step of the way! God was definitely watching over you as well as your dad! Keep your head up !
Kaisar has some really mean doctor when I was pregnant I was told to terminate my pregnancy at 4 months because my baby was diagnosed with spina bifida because my baby was going to have a lot of medical condition but a year later my baby is thriving and staring to walk!!
Coming from someone who has had not one but two ectopic pregnancies i LITERALLY feel what you went thru, the only difference is I did new I was pregnant and I’m so sorry you had to go thru that it is the most horrible thing any woman can experience, but I’m thankful everything went good and you are safe and back home with the family! God bless your family and keep them safe from any danger! Amen❤️
This is why it’s so important for women to go to the doctor/hospital immediately when you feel something is wrong. Women die like this from “waiting it out” because of family and job responsibilities. I hope ur ok now ❤️❤️
Your family has been through so much Mackey and thank God that you are OK and you just said you’re good to go to the hospital. I work for Kaiser and you for sure how to advocate for herself and I’m saying that as an employee. It’s crazy how ectopic pregnancies are so common I work in gynecology and obstetrics. When you said how low your blood pressure got I wanted to cry because that is so scary! Thank goodness you have an angel like your father taking care of you & your family♥️🙏🏻
I've had 3 miscarriage and I cry for all 3 of my babies all the time. I've always had natural and normal miscarriages. I'm sorry you went thru all that. Just know that God knows your path and unfortunately it's sometimes a rocky one but you push thru it 😔. God bless you and your family
You’re so strong makky!!! & Girl, morphine is not for everyone. I’ve had numerous surgeries that required lots of narcotics to keep my pain away, and every time I’m given morphine, different areas in my body get twitchy and I get very shaky and nauseous. I can’t stand morphine, I feel you girl. If you’re ever in a situation where you need strong pain medication in a hospital, let them know that you don’t react well to morphine, and they’ll offer you something else 😌 Also just know that all of banks family fans are supporting you and praying for you, know that your dad was with you the entire time making sure his baby girl was okay 💕 Take the time you need to heal darling, your health is everything ! I’m so sorry for your families loss with the baby
I’m so glad you’re fine macky 😭 you’re so genuine and strong. I cried for the first time in a long time while watching this. Especially when u guys talked about how u both wanted to say ur goodbyes but tried not to say it. You guys are so great together and ronnie’s love for you is so heart warming to see 😭❤️
Ugh I wanna cry so much. God is watching over your beautiful family. I’m sorry you guys are going through this, especially you Makeala. I can see the hurt in your eyes and face at certain points in this video. I love you guys. You and your family have such beautiful souls. You guys are warriors. God gives His toughest battles to his strongest soldiers. Keeping you and your family in my prayers 💕
I want to shed light on this my sister went through an ectopic in 2018 from conceiving to early after coming off birth control and hearing how common ectopic and infertility is.It broke my heart and made me more aware how hard it is for some women. Sending all the healing prayers to the women that go through this.
I cried most of the time you guys were explaining because I could see t trauma in yalls eyes. I just got home from a week stay in the hospital with my significant other and I know the heart wrenching feeling of not knowing what is going on ti your partner. You both are stronger than ever now. Never take anything for granted. ❤️ Thankful you are still here mama .
I just started crying as I’m reading the message Ronnie left😢😢❤️ Also, I know atm you didn’t think to do it but it would’ve been special if you were to take a picture of that butterfly and then get it tattooed; resembling Jerry being there at her surgery and saying she’s Alive and ok.
Thankyou for all the support Banks Fam!
Not only were you having anxiety because of everything going on so fast, feeling sick and trying to reason with everything- you were told you were bleeding out, so the morphine usually does help, but because the bleeding was going on it only exacerbated the situation. After all it is an intravenous medicine which gives you the pain relief that much quicker. They should have given you something for the anxiety, but then again maybe all of these medications should have been closely monitored instead of the nurse walking away. Just to make sure you were as comfortable as possible given the situation. Glad you’re doing good! God bless!
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I had a question doesn’t that only happen if you tie your tubes? Im so happy she is fine & healthy that must of been so scary 😟 🙏🏻❤️
Has makayla thought about birth control??? Or is she breast feeding still??
Always homiez!
In a way, it’s as if you guys were able to give makeala a grand baby for him to take care of in heaven. Praying God heals your heart and guides you in processing all that has happened.
This is a such a beautiful comment 🥺
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Wow so true
This comment made me tear up 😔
your daddy was taking care of you, he wasn’t ready to bring his baby girl home. Love you mak🤍, you are a woman who is so beautifully resilient and strong. Wish you nothing but the best always .
I always loved their relationship, but seeing ronnie comfort her while shes having a hard time is something else!!! NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS. This man is amazing to his wife and family.
He’s such a family man I love him so much
When Ronnie put Macky in his arms and kissed when she started crying🥺❤️ I started crying! We are so happy you are still here with us Macky! We love you and the banks family so much!!!
when ronnie mentioned saying their final goodbyes i literally got chills all over my body. you two have been through so much i pray over you two & your family ❤️ but when ronnie was talking about the butterfly story & how he thought you turned into a butterfly 🤣 that was definitely your father 🤍 so beautiful
“Did Macky just become a butterfly?!” 😭😂 I’m so glad you’re recovering, your dad is definitely your guardian angel. He was in that operating room making sure everything was going good so you can go home with your babies 🦋💗
You can see the fear in Ronnie’s eyes as she was reciting the part where her blood pressure dropped... he was genuinely afraid of losing his wife and soulmate 💔 you can tell this took a toll on both of them but I love their love for one another ❤️
The butterfly could also represent Jerry holding onto the baby you lost.
I’m praying for you all and I am so happy that you are okay.
He for sure came to fetch his grandbaby.
Thiss 😢❤️❤️
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The pain in mackys face everytime her dad is mentioned!🥺 stay strong babygirl I can't imagine the pain of losing your daddy he's definitely watching over you and your family🤍!
That butterfly was a sign, it’s your baby.👼🏼 he or she is with your Daddy now. I believe in that. 🦋🎭🙏🏼
I recently had a miscarriage, then 3 weeks later my mother in law passed away.. I know they are together in heaven 🤍🙏🏼
The one thing that I like about Michaela is she’s very intuitive with things and she really knows how to communicate things in a good way
so glad your alive makey. your dad and God had there hands over you and protecting you. This happened to my brother and his wife. But she had pre eclampsia and unfortunately she died and so did my unborn baby nephew ): it’s unfortunate for a lot of people. But i’m glad you made it. your truely blessed.
I feel like crying because I know stories from relatives who went through this, my cousin survived, but our uncle's fiance didn't. It was terrifying for him because he was about to take the bar exam but rushed home as soon as he heard the news but it was too late. I am so glad Maki's okay & strong! Get well soon, Maki! We love you! Banks Fam ❤
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When you pass through the waters, I will be with you;
And through the rivers, they shall not overflow you.
When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned,
Nor shall the flame scorch you.
Isaiah 43:2
@25:30 minutes into the video, as I watch you Makeala, I’m praying for Jesus to comfort you and to give you His peace that surpasses all understanding. This specific Bible verse is the verse that came to mind for you. I hope it comforts you! ❤️ Jesus loves you beautiful! I hope you can find peace knowing that your sweet precious baby is perfectly perfect in heaven right now! ❤️ Prayers over you and Ronnie and the family, In Jesus Name! ❤️🙏
I can’t even imagine how overwhelming these pass few months have been. I’m so proud of you guys for overcoming your triumphs. God really is good. You guys deserve all the best in the world. And it’s still summer, Take a mental break. Reward yourselves with a trip even if it’s a small one. Take the kids to the water park or a fair and just relax and create more good memories. Cause tomorrow really isn’t promised. Best to take advantage of your life and appreciate/create memories with the people in it while you still can ☺️ Much love 🖤
You’ve been through so much this past year Makeala girl. Sending you so much love and healing. I’m sure you’re tired. You got this mama!! Praying for your peace
This happened to my sister, she also thought it was just gas. The drs said she came in right on time because as soon as they started the surgery her Fallopian tube ruptured
You’re dad was protecting his baby girl 🤍 He was letting Ronnie know you were okay! I love you guys and I admire how strong you are Makey, strongest mama I know!! Keep your head up beautiful 🦋
She’s so hurt...even if she doesn’t say... think of it this way mama grandpa has his Angel with him now ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your doctor was saying you were experiencing tachycardia, which means your heart rate was high because your body was trying to compensate for the low blood pressure. Glad you’re okay 🙏🏼
I totally understand you Make!
I got diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer June 2020
I went into an emergency intestinal surgery. I woke up and had an ileostomy & an open wound with 17 staples.
I have been dehydrated,
Two blood transfusions,
Procedure after procedure,
Emergency after emergency, etc.
I totally understand your pain!
What a warrior!
I admire you!
Especially being so disciplined posting videos, and dealing through all of the emotional roller coaster rides!
I have an entrepreneurial mindset so I understand how this feels!
I’m still traumatized from my journey,
Separated from my partner of four years because he couldn’t be the man I needed emotionally but even so, I’m still fighting just like the both of you!
As someone going into the healthcare field to become a nurse practitioner... i can honestly say that not everyone should work in the medical field. It sucks because the field pays extremely well and some people go after the money but forget that they're responsible for the lives of others. Every employee is responsible for ensuring the patients are treated well, comfortable and receiving the proper care needed in a timely matter depending on the situation. I'm sorry you had to deal with some of the bad ones from the bunch but i hope going forward you guys have better experiences
Being from HI, I believe so heavily in spiritual amakuas! So when Ronnie mentioned the butterfly I literally got chicken skin & jaw dropped. You two have gone through so much together this year & I am so astonished at how you two deal with it, publicly. I’m praying things will only get greater from here on out for you two & your family. God bless you two always! I’m glad this story had an amazing happy ending to it. 🤍✨
When mack said “our God is so good” that was just a big amen to Hear
I went through the exact same thing at Kaiser. Except I had 4 surgeons come in to tell me “do you have anyone to say your goodbyes to? You have lost too much blood and we can’t promise you’ll make it out alive” all I remember saying was “tell my son mommy loves him & I’ll always be watching him.” I cry every time I think of it. Thank god I made it out. I’m anemic now with other complications but I’m just happy to be alive to watch my son grow.
The way Ronnie kissed and hugged her when she started crying 😩
I'm literally crying as Ronnie explains how he looked at the situation. "We had no business being pregnant" y'all 😭😭😭
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you're doing well, mentally and physically. I'm glad you're doing well😭💕
God works in mysterious ways I’m so sorry about y’all’s lost but god and your dad we’re definitely looking down at y’all and held y’all hand every step of the way
After a long day at the clinic at work, this was such an eye opening video. Knowing that people everywhere and everyday are going through things and it just reminds us that we are human and we experiencing everything differently. Such an uplifting message in this video. Loved the message behind it! Thank you for sharing! The #yeah yeah yeah hit so different
The most genuine couple on TH-cam I just love how raw you guys are here ,
Just fresh air .
Lmao the butterfly situation 😂😂😂😂 “did maky die and become a butterfly” I’m sorry this funny and scary lmaooo
I just went through this a month and a half ago. I know the feeling. I’m so sorry for the loss. It’s definitely a scary situation. Prayers to speedy recovery and love to you and the family.
ive always donated blood thru out high school, and the most rewarding thing to hear is that i saved someone's life, and i didnt save just one person, but 2!! 💙💙
Thank you! You really are saving lives when you do this. I’m not able to donate blood because I’m one of the people who need it, so I appreciate to see healthy people do it
Thank God you’re okay. I’m so sorry this happened to you and pray you will continue to recover from here. I’m so thankful you’re safe and are able to be with your hubby and the girls. ❤️
When I saw the title, my heart shattered. I'm so sorry for your loss Maki and Ronnie. Sending lots of prayers your way. Speedy recovery girl ❤️ I'm so glad you're okay.
the butterfly part is crazy, i love when symbols like this happen
im back bc they liked my comment 😩 ily guys sm❤️blessings to you and your family❤️
The way Ronnie was texting her and especially the message of her being alive to read the message :(( their love is like no other on this planet. God bless the both of you and here’s to a very speedy recovery ❤️
God bless you!! Your dad was with you, our loved ones are always with us and always giving us signs that they are with us. My dad passed away also, it is magical and sacred to have a parent on the other side. I’m happy that you recognize the signs. Know that everything in your life is meant to happen, you are relieving karmic dept, this is meant for you in this life. Prayers for your healing🙏
So glad my girl Mak is okay, thank God! Remember, God gives the toughest battles to His strongest soldiers. Sending the Banks Fam so much love & healing vibes 💛
I had this in April i lost my left tube 😭 it was so draining and stressful i have 3 healthy beautiful kids and this happen out of nowhere I’m not even sure how it happened. It really took a toll on my body and mental health but here i am a few months later healthy and strong im so grateful to be alive 🙏🏻❤️ Hope you have a fast and full recovery babe.
How long did it take you to notice the symptoms before going to see a doctor?
@@amypalomino1 well for me i had a missed period so i thought i was pregnant and i took test and they were positive we were happy because we were trying and then a week after my late missed period i started spotting like brown old blood and TMI but i kept feeling alot of pressure on my rectum they took about 1 week to tell me what i had because they couldnt find the fetus and so they gave me methotrexate to stop pregnancy because they were assuming i had ectopic and idnd t want it to rupture and a week later another dose so i ended doing another scan i was about 8 weeks and they finally fount it in my left tube so i had to have surgery
Butterfly’s symbolize that everything will be okay or new beginnings. I believe the butterfly was Makis dad watching over her baby girl and giving Rony some kind of peace. I’m glad you’re okay Maki ❤️
I have had this surgery twice in both my right and left fallopian tubes. Just as serious as yours, life or death. My heart was broken twice. Never having had any kids before. And my chance of being a Mother just ripped right out of my heart. Fast forward today at 29 my fiance and I have started our IVF journey with very high hopes. I'll pray for your healing Makeala. I know this feeling personally. Just be glad your husband Ronnie was there to love and support you.
i am so sorry for loss love you don't deserve any of this your so strong keep pushing mama
I'm a sonographer, I do ultrasounds and I had a case with a woman just like this. Everything Makeala went through, she was going through. Luckily she got surgery. I hope shes ok. Ectopics are very serious. Glad you're ok Makey 💕
Do drs always diagnose on the first ultrasound? Or does it sometimes take a few weeks to identify it is an ectopic pregnancy?
@@ps6348 most ectopics are diagnosed in the first trimester. Very few can survive past the first trimester. If you get an ultrasound, and the gs sac is not positioned centrally in your ut where your endometrium would be in a regular pelvic exam its considered an ectopic pregnancy. There are many types of ectopic pregnancies, the most common being in the fallopian tubes.
@@ps6348 sometimes its hard to know if its an ectopic in early pregnancy if a gs is not yet seen because it could either be too early, the woman could be miscarrying, or it could be an ectopic. That's why if a GS isn't seen if a woman comes through the ER, the doctors request them to come back for a short term follow up in a week or so.
I love how much ronnie supports maky. His love is so genuine. Maky needs a break..I know its hard with 3 girls. I think mizo taking an extra week at her moms should be considered, and I mean it in the nicest way possible. Macky goes above and beyond for her babies but she really needs the less chaos possible right now. The less stress the better. We all know macky is a super woman but lets be considerate shes been through so much emotionally. ❤
I don’t get how sending HIS daughter back to her mom for an extra week would help after all it is his responsibility and not hers so that dosent mean Mizo should suffer because of whatever they got going on he should step in as a partner and father to help her out with the kids more idk but the way I see it that would make Mizo feel weird and sad…
I teared up at the message Ronnie left Maki 🥺 pure love, so beautiful. Glad you're ok now, you guys are soo blessed! Love watching your videos!! 🗣YEAH YEAH YEAH 🤘
Wow im crying… your dad was definitely watching over you 🤍
Ronnie should of emphasized “We had no business being pregnant again” I felt that prior experience 😳
But your family has gone through many heart aches and my prayers and blessing head your way 🤍 my respect to this family and channel.
I just went through this 3 weeks ago.. I’m glad she is okay .. it’s tough for us mamas
What a year this has been for your family, Papa Jerry was definitely there protecting you guys through this. Praying Mackie’s recovery goes smoothly and that the rest of this year only brings blessings and joy 🤍🤍🤍
“F them kids” and “did Makey just become a butterfly” 🤣🤣🤣
God bless, Glad you’re okay. And it’s awesome you guys can laugh about things now that she’s okay💖
Your dad’s beautiful soul is definitely with you and your beautiful family💛🙏🏽
At 33:13 I feel like Makeala wanted to cry but she was holding it in, your father is forever watching over you guys. God bless you for getting through this & YOU ARE STRONG WOMAN !!
Mak is so strong 🥺 that was Jerry protecting her no doubt 🦋
I’m so happy maki is okay. But damn Ronnie improve your pull out game!
This made me laugh and I'm glad bcs I was crying 😭😂
Lol Ronnie mentioned in a video that he can't help it that he keeps on putting babies in Macky because she's beyond gorgeous
That’s probably what he meant in his text message to her, the part “selfish wants and needs”. They probably have sex and he purposely doesn’t want to pull out knowing that she just had another baby and it’s dangerous to conceive another within the same year of having their second child. I hope he takes this as sign that he needs to be more sexually mature and safe in his relationship or she just needs to be on a strong birth control.
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@@ladyrose7015 this is not an excuse… they need to take precautions it’s not cute when you have all these kids who you can’t give enough attention to
You guys are extremely strong! Just one of the things that you’ve been through would break most people and still yet you guys are able to joke and smile and it seems like if anything you’re closer than ever before, so freaking inspiring! Grateful for all that you share with us and thankfully everyone is okay. Love you guys and keeping you in my prayers 🤍 God is so good!
I’m so thankful to come across this video especially today. I am also a patient of Kaiser and they didn’t listen to me or make my needs urgent while I had an ectopic pregnancy this past week. It took them 3 almost 4 days to finally offer a solution or want to hear about my pain. This was our first pregnancy and it was truly devastating. While going through this one of the nurses told me we would have to lose the baby and in the same breathe wanted to talk to me about her black friend and how she wanted to touch my hair.
PAPA JERRY WASNT GOING TO LET ANYTHING HAPPEN TO HIS LITTLE GIRL. LOVE U GUYS
I’m dying at Ronnie freaking out about the butterfly!! Lol “OH NO!!! SHE TURNED INTO A BUTTERFLY!!!” Lol but on a serious note I’m so glad you’re okay! That’s such a scary story and that butterfly was def your daddy coming to say hi and making sure you’re ok. ❤️❤️
I am so sorry this happened to you and I am glad your ok and healing .
This made me tear up.. your dad was there, watching over you, protecting you & supporting Ronnie. I lost my dad, and each and every life changing moment I have ever experienced I have had something like this happen. Each and every time it brings me to tears & for that split moment I feel close to him. Get well soon & sending lots of love and prayers. Xx
I've been told, "Every time you see a butterfly passing by you, always say "I love you' " 🦋💛
i work at a blood center where ppl come to donate blood, this made me grateful. im glad you’re alive💜
Aww that’s true poor ronnie is always just sitting around waiting from both point of views you guys didn’t know what was gonna happen and it was scary for both that’s crazy
Omg i’m so sorry 😭 I went through this June 29th💔 I was so scared and sad & just felt so many things all at once. Yes this is so TRAUMATIZING 🥺 I havent been able to cope so well with my loss😭 But we are blessed to be alive ! Wish you & you’re family all the best! 💕 I hope to have my rainbow baby one day, bless you & your babies❤️ sending love & prayers🙏🏼
i’m so sorry you guys went through that. i had a miscarriage at 3 months 2 years ago and it was such a horrible experience… it still hurts to this day.
Wow! I am astonished that I watched this video. I can relate to you on so many levels. First and foremost I am glad to see that you are okay and healing, sending you love and prayers for a speedy and safe recovery. On Monday I started experiencing what I signified was the worst pain I had ever felt, I brushed it off but it wasn’t before long I felt I needed to go to the ER. Thankfully I listened to my body and got the help I needed because I had been diagnosed with appendicitis and I too had to have surgery right away. My appendix was on the verge of rupturing. You couldn’t have said it any better, our god is amazing, there is so much to be thankful for, always listen to your body and check it out. It’s not worth risking your life for something that could have been prevented. I love y’all BANKS FAM! YEAH, YEAH, YEAH!!!!💕
I’m so happy she’s on her way back too being as heathy as can be. Your family’s so strong. Much love❤️🥺
My first pregnancy was ectopic. I went in for my first ultrasound and they couldn’t see the baby anywhere and the nurse pressed down on my uterus really hard and I believe she ruptured my Fallopian tube. They told us we would have to have an emergency surgery and we walked over to the ER. I fainted and woke up in a wheel chair going down the hall. I was sweating bullets but I was freezing and I lost like half the blood in my body. What you were feeling after they gave you morphine was what I was experiencing and I think it might be from the loss of blood like not being able to hear. It was so scary and they rushed me into surgery right away but my body was so cold they had to warm me up first. It’s probably the scariest thing I’ve ever experienced and I’m happy that you’re alive!!! You’re here for a reason.
You’ve been through so much as a family this year but that’s what makes you stronger. Sending love and prayers your way.
Ugh. God bless you guys. That’s so traumatizing. I’m glad you both are ok for the babies. They need you. Stay strong.
I had to go through the same thing … i lost my right fallopian tube just this may from an ectopic pregnancy but i had no symptoms or pain. Im thankful to still be here , it was definitely a scary experience & a very sad time for me and my husband. I just kept reminding myself god has his plans for us 🙏🏻
it’s so crazy while in the hospital 3 other girls ages 21-26 + myself were there for ectopic pregnancies…
Makeala: The whole room was spinning...
Ronnie: LOADED. 😂
I'm so glad you're okay. So scary to think what you were going through at that time. I wouldn't be able to keep calm. 😣
Thanks for sharing…just went through something similar (but I was 13 weeks, and needed 3 blood transfusions, and LITERALLY almost died)…glad you’re strong enough to share your story with us. It helps a little.
So sorry you had to go thru this. How long before the dr/OB diagnosed you? Did you take all ultrasounds and blood test to be diagnosed,? My sister is having similar symptoms- painful stabbing in her abdomen and heavy abnormal bleeding. The drs don’t are running tests (ultrasounds ct blood) but all came back normal so far. I’m worried for her. Worried that they are overlooking a ectopic pregnancy. She just had a baby 6 months ago
i’m crying ugh you guys both are so strong my heart hurts for you all. i kno that feeling and you’re right it’s out of your control… love love love your familyyyyy and sending 1,000 prayers
so glad you share your story as it is sad, miscarriages are very common, more common than we think unfortunately. sharing your story allows individuals that experience this feel seen or understood. although no one can take the pain you feel, you definitely make others feel heard/seen. i hope you heal from this traumatic experience. ❤️
Literally cried when you guys were talking about saying goodbye to each other, ugh I just can't! I'm so glad you're okay Makey, your dad was definitely looking over you 💜🙏
Omg! I am going thru this now but not sure how I made it to three months without it rupturing rather my egg shrunk and my hcg went down! I was scheduled for surgery when I found out the egg shrunk and levels went down and was able to get the medication to help everything die and come down! I know what your going thru and soo glad you made it out safe and alive! So glad you have Ronney as your rock and being there and loving you every step of the way! God was definitely watching over you as well as your dad! Keep your head up !
Kaisar has some really mean doctor when I was pregnant I was told to terminate my pregnancy at 4 months because my baby was diagnosed with spina bifida because my baby was going to have a lot of medical condition but a year later my baby is thriving and staring to walk!!
God bless you and your baby. 🤍💕🤍🙏🏼
@@pitatorres9091 thank you! ❤️
Literally cried watching this. I went through the same situation few months back one of the scariest things ever. So glad you are okay ❤️🙏🏼
Seeing you guys be so emotionally supportive really makes me happy❤️🥺 I wish to one day experience this……love you guys
Mak : “ I’m gonna cry “
Me : cryinggggg
just know dad is forever guiding and protecting you from above 🥺🦋🤍
Coming from someone who has had not one but two ectopic pregnancies i LITERALLY feel what you went thru, the only difference is I did new I was pregnant and I’m so sorry you had to go thru that it is the most horrible thing any woman can experience, but I’m thankful everything went good and you are safe and back home with the family! God bless your family and keep them safe from any danger! Amen❤️
I’m over here crying tears and tears of how sad it was for you to say bye to each other before surgery 😭 thanks for sharing
This is why it’s so important for women to go to the doctor/hospital immediately when you feel something is wrong. Women die like this from “waiting it out” because of family and job responsibilities. I hope ur ok now ❤️❤️
I know! I wish she would’ve gone sooner instead of waiting 48 hours or more. 😖
Your family has been through so much Mackey and thank God that you are OK and you just said you’re good to go to the hospital. I work for Kaiser and you for sure how to advocate for herself and I’m saying that as an employee. It’s crazy how ectopic pregnancies are so common I work in gynecology and obstetrics. When you said how low your blood pressure got I wanted to cry because that is so scary! Thank goodness you have an angel like your father taking care of you & your family♥️🙏🏻
After a storm comes a rainbow get ready guys HUGE blessings are coming your way!!
I've had 3 miscarriage and I cry for all 3 of my babies all the time. I've always had natural and normal miscarriages. I'm sorry you went thru all that. Just know that God knows your path and unfortunately it's sometimes a rocky one but you push thru it 😔. God bless you and your family
I literally cried several times during this video. Especially with the butterfly. So glad you’re okay!
At least now your dad can hold, protect & love the baby that didn’t come to this earth with y’all 💋🥰❤️
You’re so strong makky!!! & Girl, morphine is not for everyone. I’ve had numerous surgeries that required lots of narcotics to keep my pain away, and every time I’m given morphine, different areas in my body get twitchy and I get very shaky and nauseous. I can’t stand morphine, I feel you girl. If you’re ever in a situation where you need strong pain medication in a hospital, let them know that you don’t react well to morphine, and they’ll offer you something else 😌 Also just know that all of banks family fans are supporting you and praying for you, know that your dad was with you the entire time making sure his baby girl was okay 💕 Take the time you need to heal darling, your health is everything ! I’m so sorry for your families loss with the baby
Whew the story about the butterfly had me in tears ❤️ your dad will forever be with you guys!
I’m so glad you’re fine macky 😭 you’re so genuine and strong. I cried for the first time in a long time while watching this. Especially when u guys talked about how u both wanted to say ur goodbyes but tried not to say it. You guys are so great together and ronnie’s love for you is so heart warming to see 😭❤️
Instant chills. I've been keeping you all in my prayers. Haven't watched yet but I'm hoping everything is better now. Much love & God bless ❤
Ugh I wanna cry so much. God is watching over your beautiful family. I’m sorry you guys are going through this, especially you Makeala. I can see the hurt in your eyes and face at certain points in this video. I love you guys. You and your family have such beautiful souls. You guys are warriors. God gives His toughest battles to his strongest soldiers. Keeping you and your family in my prayers 💕
So happy you’re ok. I’ve gone through an ectopic pregnancy myself when I was 17 and yes, it’s a very traumatizing experience.
I want to shed light on this my sister went through an ectopic in 2018 from conceiving to early after coming off birth control and hearing how common ectopic and infertility is.It broke my heart and made me more aware how hard it is for some women. Sending all the healing prayers to the women that go through this.
omg the butterfly thing made me freak I could imagine Ronnie heart out his chest omg
I cried most of the time you guys were explaining because I could see t trauma in yalls eyes. I just got home from a week stay in the hospital with my significant other and I know the heart wrenching feeling of not knowing what is going on ti your partner. You both are stronger than ever now. Never take anything for granted. ❤️ Thankful you are still here mama .
I just started crying as I’m reading the message Ronnie left😢😢❤️
Also, I know atm you didn’t think to do it but it would’ve been special if you were to take a picture of that butterfly and then get it tattooed; resembling Jerry being there at her surgery and saying she’s Alive and ok.