unconditional love = self love, acceptance & respect towards the self and others Accepting things as they are, accept who you are, accept who your twin flame is/ isn't atm and just let the f go And when you reach inner balance aka your state of being aka your soul, you feel whole and you are in this androgynous state where you possess the best qualities of male and female, yin and yang, you're soft, yet strong, and you feel invincible.
I feel those of us that have met our twin flame have experienced the metaphysical type of love. My twin and I have experienced the Zen before when we were together. No words, no thoughts, just being when we were together. It is something we remember to this day and I know it will be again. ZEN forever!
We had a blowout at 2am after I got home, I asked a questions about the recent past which confirmed my intuition. Now my twin is pushing me away because he can't understand because he said he feels guilty for what he did in the past. He doesn't get why I love him so unconditionally. He is scared of abandonment because his parents abandoned him. I literally just want him to raise his VIBRATION and heal. I literally love him the way a mother would love her child. I want him to be safe and succeed. I want him to heal.
This feels very familiar. My twin feels guilty and doesnt know why I love him unconditionally either. I want him to heal and be okay. I've worked to make peace with the past and how he's hurt me. I know he didnt intentionally hurt me. I love him like I love myself, because well, he is... 😂
You have to go within and love YOU and want YOU to heal or rather realise that there's no healing to be done because you are infinite love, you are the Soul. Until you focus on him, in whatever form, he's going to run.
@@jamilea81 Yesss that is exactly what I feel. I love him but I know that if I cling he'll keep running. I have to let him be free and use this time for self improvement and healing. I have heartache I really can't eat... He feels pressure and he feels down because of his financial troubles. I sent him messages like 30 he responded that he doesn't want to hurt he feels regrets about his Karmic ex. He said he's really sorry he hurt me... I told him we should change our relationship into single and to enjoy a friendship together... he agreed and then immediately asked me what I was doing but I'm at work. I feel like this was a lesson for the both of us and now is the time for self love and feeling whole. I know that he is my mirror and as long as I do my work he will follow. I want to achieve Zen and peace. I am a master manifester so I have no doubt I will align with my soul purpose. I'm trusting the process. Let go and let God.
I also realized that everything I was pouring into him is actually what I should have been pouring into myself. I keep telling myself positive affirmations to help me get through. His initials are actually DM lol I want him to get through this time because he's out of work because of the Corona virus closed his job
It’s so true. I have unconditional love. With him. It just is. We are just zen. Because we are the same. We are the same soul. It is unconditional. No no butterflies. No need. Just is.
Im currently cleaning my apartment listening to this awesome video. I already knew and know everything you were going to say. I just wanted to confirm my strength and knowledge with You and everyone who's suffering with Twin Flame Pain. I met my twin flame Autumn of 2011. My heart dropped and my entire body inflamed when I saw him 15 feet away, without even seeing his face yet.. I had to walk up 2 him and meet who this Man was. Instantly I knew (He's the One). I was 17. he was 26. and I knew NOTHING about Twin Flames till last MONTH July 2020. For years I suffered not understanding why I couldnt get him off my mind.. I knew i loved him DEEPLY and SWORN he was the ONLY PERSON WHO CAN SEE RIGHT THROUGH ME. I waited almost 4 Long years to finally be intimate with him. Of course the Pain, Heartache and back and forth's happened since June 2014. We even had a major separation October 2016, and didnnt see or speak to each other until April 2020. During the almost 4 years of NOT speaking. My heart still ached for him. and id cry days and nights CREAMING! "i hear you! I sense YOU! I know youre thinking of ME!!!" Finally I started doing doing research and silly "human Form me" thought "ohhhh, hes JUST A NARCISSIST" LMAOOOO But the pain never stopped. The eye contact, the similarities, how we'd go weeks without speaking to each other, but yet I always feel his presence. Anyway. Came LAST MONTH. and BAMMMMMMMM. TWIN FLAME! DUH! I have a SOUL! DUHHHHHHHHHHHH. I broke the Cycle 2 weeks ago. My energy has NOT been sucked out of me for the 1st time in 10 years. I am no longer afraid to text him, speak to him, or not even see him. I know we are connected, and he and I, have much much to learn b4 our next reunion. I have'nt seen him in a week. But everyday I feel this intense Positivity sent my way from him. I smile and laugh everyday. I unfollowed 94 people on Instagram, who I no longer care about. I realized I am a Soul, just living in a miserable human experience. Going through everything Im going through, to WAKEUP, SMELL THE ROSES, and REMEMBER WHO TF I AM. I AM ME. THE ONE. THE ONE & ONLY ONE. Being in my Spirit, has made me realize all the lessons and heartaches and pain i went through in my life. My Name Is Batel Skater and i shared my Survival story on my youTube Channel, and am now Inspired to help others Find themselves. I came out of a Sexually Abusive home at age 16. Found my Twin Flame a Year After. Sent my Father to Prison for Rape after 13 years of fighting. He's now in Prison for 42 years. I over came my Abuse in Human form, and now Know - My Soul can let go of All The Human Made memories my brain stored and held on to, painfully all these years. At age 27, I realized the Love of my Life is actually Me, and believe it or not, Me and my Twin Flame were both Born on the 27th, just have a nice age gap. BUT, Find Your Soul my Friends. Its speaking to you Everyday. Nothing here is something you need to hold on too. Thank You for bringing up the Tora. I was Born in Israel. and ill never forget, that God always said "let GO of Materialistic Things, and you Shall Return to the Garden Of Eden", where all the Spirits Are. Blessings to All. And No, I don't believe in God. The Universe holds my Energy
You are a gift i swear. I remember i used to be in zen mode until i reached middle school, even my mom used to think i was crazy, after some time my mind took over lmao, but when i first heard you try to explain zen i just knew what it was right away because my whole childhood was zen, when my mind took over i used to to tell my mom i felt like i lost this inner peace i had and i don't know why. But you guided me towards myself again thank you💜
Saturn Witch I know exactly what you mean. I never had intense attachment to anyone and I felt so myself during my childhood. Now I battle with my duality mind to get back into zen. It been a challenge for me for quite sometime even before I met my Twin Flame.
@@LOLOx0na yes! When you experience zen and yourself, being controlled by your mind after that sucks it feels like a depression, kurt saved me i tried to find satisfaction outside myself, but now i don't. God bless you ❤
@@BaraaKnows I was just thinking the same- the fact that everything was Zen until I hit Middle school. Funny, how they say Middle School is where there is the most transformation occurring- hormones kicking in big time, becoming independent, etc. Thats when I actually first CARED what people thought of me. Those felt like such carefree days. Maybe if we had more people like Kurt around to teach this to kids *before* they got to Middle School, kids would be better off. (Well, they are starting to do this actually)
Unconditional love is the only kind of love. Love is unconditional. If there are conditions or strings attached then it isn’t really love. It is not a choice. I repeat, it is NOT a choice. It just is. Meeting my twin flame and the spiritual journey that arose from it reminded me of this fact. When I came to accept it, and let go of the shame I felt for loving someone unconditionally. (Long story of maternal abuse behind that but I won’t digress into that) I love and it requires nothing in return. I just love. This awareness has come into a beautiful play in all my real relationships with my son, my friends and with the other half of me. 💙 This isn’t to say that you put up with abuse or remain in a bad situation. It just means that you love no matter what. Wether they are with you or not and even when you don’t get the physical outcome you desire. It is peace and yes, it is Zen. You are able to accept things as they are and as they evolve.
My mother is a narcissist and I was her scapegoat child. From birth, I learned all the wrong things about love. I first “met” my other half when I was 16 and I had no clue what was happening to me. The spiritual journey it sent me on was a roller coaster ride that lasted 30 years (and counting) the day I woke up and realized that I’d always loved him... never stopped ... and every abusive relationship I’d gotten into afterward was just me trying to find another “him” and also me thinking that abuse was what love is. (He’s the only one ever who didn’t abuse me...he ran but never was far gone from my life.) But when I realized that I was allowed to love him... it didn’t require anything from him in return and was not a shameful thing... that’s when I found my zen place. It’s ok to feel whatever you’re feeling (not to say it’s ok to act on things irrationally, but feeling things... that’s perfectly normal and fine)
En M yes! So very painful when we try to NOT love them. I say try because it’s not possible. I was able to fool myself and people around me for a couple decades... by ignoring the feeling, the random thoughts and the dreams and intuition. A guy I thought I loved proposed to me ...I was so happy...thought it would make my life perfect...afterward I ended up trying to figure out who would give me away... my parents are divorced and if I couldn’t have my dad there, I wasn’t inviting my mom... my brain instantly thought... oh just call (tf) He can give you away... I ended up crying myself to sleep that night because I couldn’t stand the thought of him giving me away... It should be noted that at the time, I didn’t know that he was my tf... I was still stuck trying to replace him and get over him and still very much in denial... it never dawned on me the “connection”. Also, ended up that the Bf who proposed left that night and never came back. Turned out he had another gf pregnant... I was devastated for a while but now am just grateful I dodged that bullet lol. I’m so much wiser and more zen now.💙
En M yesss! (And I’m actually writing my book/memoirs and the whole story is so wild! Finding this channel was more of a confirmation for me than a lesson. I’d already come to the awareness and then found this channel but it is still beautiful to have to confirmation. He and I are not together (yet) but we are friends and I’m ok with that however it works out.
I met mine on Tinder of all places. I swiped right because be wore the jersey of my fave hockey team to be honest. I was looking for a one night stand- seemingly getting out of my soulmate relationship. When I met my twin flame, even that first night, my whole world shifted on it's axis. I studied so many different things about this, but I go with what I felt. After four months, we split. Since, (five months) I am lost. I loved him so unconditionally, that I did what I could. He was like me, yet so different. Loving him healed broken parts of me, yet left me so empty afterwards. It broke me to my core. He was a part of me that is painful to live without and even now, I only hope he is happy. I loved him at his worst, and I loved us both. His pain was mine, his joy mine. I understand his moments of numbness and loss, I went through that too. It was so painful, but I loved him more than I thought I loved my soulmate who I gave two kids to. Thanks for this. It is more than I could explain. "The felt experience of the soul." K.R you were and are my twin flame forevermore,
Same for me. Also met him on Tinder. And I swiped as a mistake (he seemed too full of himself) 😆 but he had already swiped me so we matched. The rest is history. Already 6 years now.
the love of the universe is infinitely unconditional, and when I connect through meditation I have unlimited access to the love of the universe. Now I seek to share this with others.
I do feel like I recently reached the “zen of the soul”, the unconditional love toward my TF without expectation. I have a lot of peace about it which feels much different than the 3D version of love. It wasn’t easy to get to this place, but definitely a noticeable difference and feels amazing. The 3D version slips in here and there, but I’m able to get back to the zen version when I let go again. Good video. Much needed info on this.👏🏽
I'm only a few weeks into hearing the term "twin flame" and I'm certain that I've known mine for nearly 25 years. This video really made things click for me. We live in different states and there was about 20 years of not seeing each other in person but the occasional text on holidays did happen. A year ago we did meet for dinner and it was great! It was effortless and my brain definitely felt Zen but I just referred to it as being quiet. But then I started doing the things that I thought I was supposed to do in a relationship and that caused him to run. Now I realize it's just the quiet mind (or Zen) that I want. That inner peace! I think I'm on the right path. Today I am truly grateful for this wonderful video. 💖
When we finally grasp that every experience is one of love because it gives us the 3D experiences of duality that we come here for, when we finally stop judging every event as good or bad and rejecting painful experiences and disappointment ... that is the key to real love. (Unconditional Love).
Really grateful to have found you... I have been struggling with not understanding what this was or why I have been so affected. I am at ease and better learning how to navigate what I am going through. Thank you!
Thank you, Kurt ❤, for sharing your knowledge, experiences, and helping through. I feel like I am listening to my true buddy when I am in a situation where no one around me can really understand me.
Man when my other half randomly just gave me a hug. My heart chakra blew wide open that I had to call my Reiki teacher. He was like I’ve never felt or seen a hearts energy so big before. I didn’t even know about twin flames then. Still living with my twin and I’m diving deep into self. I had taken in the DF role and he the DM but I just had back surgery and now he’s having surgery done in both hands and now we are switching roles. I’m becoming the DM and he the DF which makes sense. We’re just switching polarities since I’m doing the work. Just working on accepting things about myself and I’m having zen moments to where for 10-15 mins a few times a day I’m totally present with no thoughts roaming around my mind. When that happens I have a goofy happy kid grin on my face while doing absolutely nothing 🥰
I must be finally moving out of the hamster wheel of mind and dropping into the soul zone. Cuz twelve hours ago I didn't know about this channel. I was doing "Pick-A-Cards" obsessively for a month about "my person." And suddenly around 1 am your channel randomly popped onto my feed. And within the span of say, eight hours, I have gone from obsessing about "my person" to feeling a growing sense of wholeness and peace. And beyond that, I'm actually premonition-ing what you are going to say before you say it. Like I already know all of this shit. For instance, in this video, as you began to break down the concept of "unconditional love," vs experiencing twin-flame soul recognition, I noticed the thought: "Oh, so maybe it's sorta like how I felt as a kid, that sense of innate fulfillment, like everything was okay, and my needs were all met. Like nothing was missing in my life. I was just in that eternal now moment and was deeply satisfying. Maybe it's that ' little kid' feeling." And as I was finishing observing this thought, it hit 18:48 in the video, and I perked up my ears to hear you say "....similar to the way you usually felt when you were a little, little, little kid." Boom. Mic drop. Yeah. That.
Yes, I remember looking at him and the feeling of nothing but we were peaceful and it was bliss and stillness when together, one. The energy field around us too was intense.. I noticed I was the noticer when realizing, I was having what was similar to an outer body experience when he was laying his head on my chest.
I feel like this verse from the Bible explains unconditional love. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 1 Corinthians 13:4-5
Kurt, me and my DM reconnected in the 3D yesterday after 5 months😊 It was like we never separated. Didn't miss a beat. You predicted this last week! Funny, after we parted ways, I felt at rest (zen). No need for the attachment. Just unconditional love❤
Nicole Kidman Nicole, what do you mean how??? Have you listen to all of Kurt’s videos? You would need to listen to all his videos in order to understand. Also, and VERY important as Kurt teaches: WHO is asking How? Who is asking the question? Do you get it? If you listen to Kurt’s video, then you would understand. He even mentions it in this video
Kurt, I have followed you for years. I used to call you the Gangster of Love, or Maurice, who could miss it? You always speak of love. You are ground zero for lovers. Of every sort. Thanks for being.
In my journey, I always have to re-learn a lesson; just when I thought I know what it feels like to know something, it changes overtime. I keep a journal for the lessons learned and I notice that I have to revise the lessons twice 😅 I don't know if I'm a slow learner or it just has to happen that way.. so everytime I learn something new, I keep an open mind that the knowing/feeling of a lesson might change one day
It's funny you brought up the beginning of our lives. The beginning of my conscious awareness was in samadhi. I didn't know who I was, where I was, or who anyone else was. I woke up alone, and I said out loud, "Who am I? Where am I? What am I?" I was filled with bliss and silence. It felt so good I laid back down and repeated the process before getting up and wandering around to meet my family. I only told them I had no clue who they were once I was grown
I remember so much from the "before" life. I could write a book but i dont think anyone will even believe me 😁😂. So... I remember both the before and after the soul split. My soul was thinking (in the way a soul "thinks") This soul is amazing!!! Let split into two "beings" to make it double good! I was terrified becouse i had so much peace and "zen" but i did NOT know what to expect 😳 Next memory is me waking up in the arms of my souls DM. I had No clue about anything. All memorys was viped out! All i could feel was "I am." Floating around in a Beautiful Beautiful Beautiful White light. The love hit me like thousands beams exploding into my soul.
I watched all 3 parts of the samadhi movie & after watching my twin sent me like $200 and said “just because I love you” she ghosted me 2 months prior 😂 but on a more soulful note, that movie changed everything for me. Everything you’re saying has been coming to me & I haven’t even taken your course yet. So when I watch your videos It’s already something I just knew after watching. Especially knowing we can change our matrix experience but after just being. I am. Awesome , you’re a blessing & thank you to your twin who ran the hell away from you 😂❤️
Note to mention. She sent it 5 hours after watching the samadhi movie I was almost in disbelief. Our physical bodies aren’t together but who gives a shit anymore.
Man, I never sought for twin flame stuff but for some 'misterious' reason I was suggested your videos. I'm alone. I'll die alone. But I do have perceived someone else in a very strange way. I said to myself that person was like she had to do something with me. After listening to her it was like if I was listening to a past me. I had a strange feeling, I couldn't find a right term. I felt it like if she was a daughter, my own flesh, even myself, but I thought it all wasn't accurate and that I was mad. I suffered because I felt urged to help her and I couldn't. I didn't fall in love for that person. I don't need that person in my life. But at the same time I wish permanently for her the same as for myself: 'freedom' (which I do have). I'd give my own life to know that person has a permanent smile and no more pain. I've even thought or seen things that person later said or showed. Life is very strange to be understood man, but at the same time wonderful. Regards.
Kurt I have been on this journey for sometime now and finally stumbled upon you 🤯💕🙏 Everything you are saying is in total alignment with all spiritual teachings and I had some confusions which is all clear now.I am so grateful to have found your teaching at a very crucial juncture.Most of it “I know” but you have provided such clarification .I grew up in a Muslim family and Islam means surrender and Allah is eternal and absolute.More power to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ your work You cut through all information out there with such finesse about twinflames. I am back to reading power of now and focusing more on my meditation practice 💕🙏
The kundalini awakening a while ago I had massively and unexpectedly introduced me to what unconditional love would be like in a snapshot, peace and sublime bliss without any grasping or longing, just "being". I just happened to re-watch this video and it made me realize what was happening back then, at least as a "prelude". Oh, well. Not expecting anything but now I am thinking the twin flame journey was nice while it lasted. It had a purpose. I cannot go back but the journey did have a purpose. Party on, Sir Kurt.
I am the Love, I am the Source, I am Devine, I am an Privilege. It's easy... Love is God, Universe, Multiverse call it how ever you want... Love is limitless, and speak many ways. Not only energetically.. Your exist ist love.
My Twin Flame and I were together last night and now I, the chaser, feels the need to run. I want to run because I fear he will never leave his situation and I'm afraid we will never unite on the 3D plane. We are together physically rarely but I feel our connection so strong, it's like he leaves and stays, all at once.
My twin flame after 4 years is finally here in my home. After not being able to be around each other for long periods in the past...Due to all the dynamics. Now, after two days of him here .. it feels just like someone is there... I don’t know it’s new. I’m still trying to understand the feeling but it’s not really that under-stable. I met a soul mate while we were in separation recently. The soul mate is more like an awesome relationship. As of now I am trying to spend time alone to stay aligned and balanced. The zen part is true. Not really an emotion. And I still like the feeling of my soul mate to have a feeling. So for now I am just keeping my balance in some solitude
Kurt, First of all, I love that you actually read and respond to our comments. Second of all, I just realized that astrology comes from the world astral. It’s ALL about the mind. This is LIFE CHANGING. I mean it. Thank you!!!
Kurt! He lives in a different country and we hadn't spoken in years, then I found your channel. Everything you have said happened. He didn't say stop talking to me, but admitted his feelings (also that he's in a relationship) then we couldn't talk for about a week. Then on Tuesday he apologized and said he can talk on Thursday. I thought on the phone. Then today he asked if I can pick him up bc he doesn't have a car when he's in the states! 😮😂🎉 I asked, "you're here?" 😮 He hasn't been in town for over 2 years! I knew I was going to see him soon and my mind said oh probably later on, don't get your hopes up. It lied! My mind tried to say different than me. I knew I would see him and only trust what will be will be. I watched Sumadhi and it ties in everything I've ever studied. I took philosophy, American transcendentalists literature, mythology, religious studies, politics and urban studies. Thank you for all your guidance. It's very helpful. I am also seeing a therapist to help sort out the ball of yarn that's all my experiences tangled up because I know those aren't me either. I was born thinking I was still French. My Mom had to coach me into this American life and speaking English over the 5 languages I knew. He's in town. Even, like you said when it seems weird or unlikely for that to be. Something made him come here. I thought a phone call, but that was just my limited mind saying nothing important.
I'm also separated from an abusive husband I left recently. I'm not looking for a relationship. He knows full well I need a friend right now, but things unfold as they do and I trust nothing will feel forced or rushed because we're timeless.
I saw my other self on Facebook he has a weather storm page which is highly successful. we were phone pals at first till he message me one day said watch the news so I did they had interview him I knew then, I called him so when we going to meet. He rang me to go storm chasing I was nervous but the day arrived I went to his house. I knew where everything was and I felt at home, he said the same 6months later all changed he ran been 3 years now since we have spoken. he watches me blocks on social media. lol I have let go I love him definitely. now I'm understanding this journey just getting on with my life with no outcome. I love your teaching videos Kurt they really do help. This has also help me physically and mentally with in my self I'm so much better now so huge Thankyou. 👌❤✌
Thank you Kurt I need to take your advice. The first time he ran it was in my gut for 3 weeks. Last night it was in my heart but I got over it pretty quickly. I know everything is going to be alright. He'll be back, I needed this lesson to get back on track with my life and soul purpose and put me first.
Two years on and I still feel so cynical about all of this... and yet, and yet...everything you say describes my experiences exactly...hmm...well, whatever it all means, I LOVE knowing what this soul feels like...
I’m trying to runaway from him , it hurt so so bad when he started running, and now when he is stalking me on media and want connection I am so fucking scared that I will have that pain again , so I make every effort that he will run again 😭😩🙈
Rosie Röös im in that situation as well. This experience you are having is called the duality. If you don’t know what to do when the other self comes back. Then you must detox.
Rosie Röös stop watching twin flame videos and tarot readings. Anything that relates to the other person. Listen to Conversations with God and Power of Now on youtube.
Rosie Röös There is no doing and there is no not doing, it’s energy. Yearning for your Twin Flame emotionally is exactly what is pushing them away. Intention, the reason why I do a thing is more important than the thing that I’m actually doing. It’s all about your energy, this is not soulmates. There’s no conversation you’re gonna have with your Twin Flame that’s gonna make any difference at all. It’s intention.” -Kurt Johnson
Hi Kurt, I really like this video, but I think what the commenter meant with the 'chakra activation/opening' is actually the start of the breakdown of the EGO. IT'S EXTREMELY PAINFUL, and not the 'duality love' as you describe. I also had a 'heart chakra activation' and it was a 10 minute long energetic beam through my heart space and it felt like a heart attack, and it was painful. It was actually the start of my dark night of the soul. So what I think the commenter meant, or my take is, is that the heart chakra activation IS ACTUALLY the start of the breakdown of the astral body/pain body, so it does align with your perspective :) So I fully resonate with that unconditional love = REAL LOVE, love from the source, the other part of the comment is in my opinion really about the start of the breaking down of the astral body.
I asked my TF what he feels as to what we have right now. And he said "I feel comfortable. We know we have each other even in silence and we have our own separate lives." Is that the same?
I'm still trying to figure out if we're twin flames but both of us have past trauma. Hers more extreme & it was hard to accept all that & it hurts her which created blocks between us.
It is a heart burning 🔥🔥🔥Soul _ OverSoul "Activation" and or Self Alignment 🌹⚡🔥 yes Kundalini Shakti* Activation "The Fire 🔥of the Holy Spirit" within AUM
Instead of Duality in Truth there is Oneness. It is like Talking to Yourself and everytime You Are willing to say something You realize and eventually learn that it is You as One who You Are talking to. Better Be Unconditional Love otherwise there is no Forgiving which needs to come Before acceptance to Be Real. It is Mirroring as I AM. How to teach Your Soul - You can't 😂 just BE.
I want to request you to teach your way of meditation.. How to do.. Step by step guide.. What actually meditation is etc.. I think there is no vdo especially on this.. However you want to teach.. Your experience etc.. Hope you are getting what actually requesting.. Many many out there but would appreciate to listen from you
On a more serious note though; heartbreak means attachment, right? And I must be unattached to be in "union", no? So what if I get into "union" and my twin passes away? Will I not even grieve? Grief is a reaction to loss, and the feeling of loss comes from attachment. So how would that work?
As Kurt says -when we do the thing we call 'die' your body and mind cease to exist. What's left is the soul. It does not die. My take on it is if you are truly 'Zen' then you understand that and there is little grief that comes from that, just the acceptance of what is and that they have never truly 'died'. I also believe that because of your strong soul connection you will be able to communicate by other means.( I know a TF who has gone through this, though I don't know her very well so I wouldn't probe her for more answers. I just know what I have just told you) That's my take on it anyways.
Interestingly though I use the words Soul and Love interchangeably. When the word Love is used in a "soulmate" context, that's actually counterfeit love because it's usually conditional. If there are conditions, it shouldn't be called love as far as I'm concerned. So technically even in a soulmate dynamic, because of the conditions, you aren't guaranteed "a happily ever after" either
Kurt, I really hope you read this. I've been watching your videos since last year. Before I dated my TF, about 2 years before I had a feeling one night that we would end up together. We dated briefly last year, he himself even said "why do I feel like this has happened before?". Sadly, I met him during a stage of being an alcoholic and doing alot of drugs 😢😢 it was so sad to see. We had a major break up, as he was drunk and acting so out of order. His drinking and drug taking had gotten out of hand. I didn't hear from him and tried messaging his family to do an intervention. I went to see him after he stopped messaging me. He was Indenial. Not listening to anything I was saying and was angry I'd spoken to his family. It was awful because he was being such a cold person. He turned things on me and said "you made me feel like I didn't know myself" at times where I was trying to help him get over his past, as he kept bringing up the past like it was his personality. He previously said I was the love of his life, but when I went to see him he said I wasn't. I said I loved him and felt the energy bounce back instantly. It was weird, I felt the energy deflect. After the break up, I didn't hear from him again. It tore me apart. My soul felt like it was on fire trying to escape my body, I had a mental breakdown and quit my job without another one lined up. Spent days in bed, just couldn't think about anything else. I took some time out, I gradually for a new job a few months later. It's been... 7 months. Each month I have about 10 dreams of him in it, n I have to try and find him. It's intense. I do have a history of nightmares and sometimes I can have intense nightmares about it. It's so sad because I know he could be a great person but it's been so heartbreaking seeing him being an alcoholic and watch that dictate his life. These videos pretty much saved me from the tragedy of it all. I'm definitely traumatised as he came to me and told me all his problems and then left and closed off. He blocked me after everything went down and I have blocked his brother as its too hurtful seeing him pretending he's okay to his family and everyone. Just wanted to put this out there to gain some better perspective. Is there any hope when the TF is an alcoholic??
@@NewWorldAllstar but it's all happening at the same "time" right? Like even if there's 20 lives in between our lives, all of my reincarnations are happening at once. But is there still hope for the DM if they are an alcoholic? X
I keep running from my twin flame but then when I wanted to be with him.. he was running away and then he went on to blocked me on every social media...I had obsessive thinking for 2 months now,I had panic attack and there is unease around my abdoment and inside my chest...I am a man, so he is...But i cant take him out of my mind.....I thought I was gonna die...😢😢😢...I still loves him, I never loved anyone this much...😢😢I hope he unblock me soon...When he proposed me I had this insecurities that he would leave me later in life , I keep ta
Is your soul trying to Help you out when you are struggling to grasp what you must do. Because I do feel a sense of guidance from me ?? !! I’m understanding me my soul ❤️
Hi Kurt, here's a question that's been on my mind. If my Twin flame runner is the only one who's supposed to be in "thought" mindset, and who can obsess over me when in "no separation", wouldn't that make this TF dynamic one-sided. Coz in union they tend to do the chasing, although there's no running right? So why is that? I mean I get the science behind it, but why can they perfectly live out the way they see fit, and I have to always maintain a zen no reactional/triggered state so that I could be with them.
Can you be with them for a few months and leave again because that has happened to me too he just always leave amd goes with someone else and i feel those pains I feel it in my gut bigtime and its been years coming and going
I did it. I hit rock bottom. I give up!. She is not coming back. It's over. I do wish you would stop giving people false hope. It was a beautiful thing for a little while, it ran its course. She moved on. I also need to. And no she is not coming back, I am sure of that. Just because I'm dis connecting in my mind doesn't mean she's going to return. It's done! I wish you would help people move on instead of giving them false hope.
@@jpavlovic we reunited, with lots of work on my part. love hate relationship for sure, one day she breaks up with me for another guy, that really hurt. Then I took her back, but twin flame or not I could not deal with the dishonesty and betrayal, So, I ended it for sure , after 10+ break ups since we met in Jan 2022. now she wants me back that she realizes our connection . Glad its over, she was a pain in my ***@@ fck her!
Kurt, would you also describe it as completion and/or wholeness of oneself? That is how I feel inside myself in my connection with my DM and we are not in union yet. It is almost like a fullness of unconditional love of myself of my divine masculine, and within myself. Can you relate to this feeling?
so from how you are describing it, would it be safe to say that if you get to the point where you feel those "butterflies" you are ascending, because that part is leaving you ? Aka, you're leaving the duality based love into the twin flame, zen love. ? Kind of like a flashback of memories before you die ? I have no yet experietnced those butterflies ( I don't think) but from how you explained it, sounds like a positive place to get to because it means you're ascending on your journey.
what things do you do in your daily routine to go into the soul self? (disclaimer: i totally understand that this is coming from the ego self and the perception of “gaining more”, i’m just wondering if u have tips)
Unconditional love feels like a child again. Pure,at peace, and your true self
unconditional love = self love, acceptance & respect towards the self and others
Accepting things as they are, accept who you are, accept who your twin flame is/ isn't atm and just let the f go
And when you reach inner balance aka your state of being aka your soul, you feel whole and you are in this androgynous state where you possess the best qualities of male and female, yin and yang, you're soft, yet strong, and you feel invincible.
how do u get there? cant meditate all day
@@CynthiaLaChina by seeing my worth and seeing reality for what it is
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very well wrote.
I feel those of us that have met our twin flame have experienced the metaphysical type of love. My twin and I have experienced the Zen before when we were together. No words, no thoughts, just being when we were together. It is something we remember to this day and I know it will be again. ZEN forever!
True. This is the type of love we felt, also. I understood it, but he didn't.
We had a blowout at 2am after I got home, I asked a questions about the recent past which confirmed my intuition. Now my twin is pushing me away because he can't understand because he said he feels guilty for what he did in the past. He doesn't get why I love him so unconditionally. He is scared of abandonment because his parents abandoned him. I literally just want him to raise his VIBRATION and heal. I literally love him the way a mother would love her child. I want him to be safe and succeed. I want him to heal.
This feels very familiar. My twin feels guilty and doesnt know why I love him unconditionally either. I want him to heal and be okay. I've worked to make peace with the past and how he's hurt me. I know he didnt intentionally hurt me. I love him like I love myself, because well, he is... 😂
You have to go within and love YOU and want YOU to heal or rather realise that there's no healing to be done because you are infinite love, you are the Soul. Until you focus on him, in whatever form, he's going to run.
@@evedietmann6657 Thank you so much 😁❤
@@jamilea81 Yesss that is exactly what I feel. I love him but I know that if I cling he'll keep running. I have to let him be free and use this time for self improvement and healing. I have heartache I really can't eat... He feels pressure and he feels down because of his financial troubles. I sent him messages like 30 he responded that he doesn't want to hurt he feels regrets about his Karmic ex. He said he's really sorry he hurt me... I told him we should change our relationship into single and to enjoy a friendship together... he agreed and then immediately asked me what I was doing but I'm at work. I feel like this was a lesson for the both of us and now is the time for self love and feeling whole. I know that he is my mirror and as long as I do my work he will follow. I want to achieve Zen and peace. I am a master manifester so I have no doubt I will align with my soul purpose. I'm trusting the process. Let go and let God.
I also realized that everything I was pouring into him is actually what I should have been pouring into myself. I keep telling myself positive affirmations to help me get through. His initials are actually DM lol I want him to get through this time because he's out of work because of the Corona virus closed his job
It’s so true. I have unconditional love. With him. It just is. We are just zen. Because we are the same. We are the same soul. It is unconditional.
No no butterflies. No need. Just is.
My lord Kurt....you get better every time i hear you. It is slowly sinking in
Im currently cleaning my apartment listening to this awesome video. I already knew and know everything you were going to say. I just wanted to confirm my strength and knowledge with You and everyone who's suffering with Twin Flame Pain.
I met my twin flame Autumn of 2011. My heart dropped and my entire body inflamed when I saw him 15 feet away, without even seeing his face yet..
I had to walk up 2 him and meet who this Man was. Instantly I knew (He's the One). I was 17. he was 26. and I knew NOTHING about Twin Flames till last MONTH July 2020.
For years I suffered not understanding why I couldnt get him off my mind.. I knew i loved him DEEPLY and SWORN he was the ONLY PERSON WHO CAN SEE RIGHT THROUGH ME. I waited almost 4 Long years to finally be intimate with him.
Of course the Pain, Heartache and back and forth's happened since June 2014.
We even had a major separation October 2016, and didnnt see or speak to each other until April 2020.
During the almost 4 years of NOT speaking. My heart still ached for him. and id cry days and nights CREAMING! "i hear you! I sense YOU! I know youre thinking of ME!!!"
Finally I started doing doing research and silly "human Form me" thought "ohhhh, hes JUST A NARCISSIST" LMAOOOO
But the pain never stopped. The eye contact, the similarities, how we'd go weeks without speaking to each other, but yet I always feel his presence.
Anyway. Came LAST MONTH. and BAMMMMMMMM. TWIN FLAME! DUH! I have a SOUL! DUHHHHHHHHHHHH.
I broke the Cycle 2 weeks ago. My energy has NOT been sucked out of me for the 1st time in 10 years.
I am no longer afraid to text him, speak to him, or not even see him.
I know we are connected, and he and I, have much much to learn b4 our next reunion. I have'nt seen him in a week. But everyday I feel this intense Positivity sent my way from him.
I smile and laugh everyday.
I unfollowed 94 people on Instagram, who I no longer care about.
I realized I am a Soul, just living in a miserable human experience. Going through everything Im going through, to WAKEUP, SMELL THE ROSES, and REMEMBER WHO TF I AM.
I AM ME. THE ONE. THE ONE & ONLY ONE.
Being in my Spirit, has made me realize all the lessons and heartaches and pain i went through in my life. My Name Is Batel Skater and i shared my Survival story on my youTube Channel, and am now Inspired to help others Find themselves.
I came out of a Sexually Abusive home at age 16. Found my Twin Flame a Year After.
Sent my Father to Prison for Rape after 13 years of fighting. He's now in Prison for 42 years.
I over came my Abuse in Human form, and now Know - My Soul can let go of All The Human Made memories my brain stored and held on to, painfully all these years.
At age 27, I realized the Love of my Life is actually Me, and believe it or not, Me and my Twin Flame were both Born on the 27th, just have a nice age gap.
BUT, Find Your Soul my Friends. Its speaking to you Everyday.
Nothing here is something you need to hold on too.
Thank You for bringing up the Tora.
I was Born in Israel. and ill never forget, that God always said "let GO of Materialistic Things, and you Shall Return to the Garden Of Eden", where all the Spirits Are.
Blessings to All. And No, I don't believe in God.
The Universe holds my Energy
Thank you for sharing this Batel 🙂
May God bless you❤
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You are a gift i swear. I remember i used to be in zen mode until i reached middle school, even my mom used to think i was crazy, after some time my mind took over lmao, but when i first heard you try to explain zen i just knew what it was right away because my whole childhood was zen, when my mind took over i used to to tell my mom i felt like i lost this inner peace i had and i don't know why. But you guided me towards myself again thank you💜
Saturn Witch I know exactly what you mean. I never had intense attachment to anyone and I felt so myself during my childhood. Now I battle with my duality mind to get back into zen. It been a challenge for me for quite sometime even before I met my Twin Flame.
@@LOLOx0na yes! When you experience zen and yourself, being controlled by your mind after that sucks it feels like a depression, kurt saved me i tried to find satisfaction outside myself, but now i don't. God bless you ❤
@@BaraaKnows I was just thinking the same- the fact that everything was Zen until I hit Middle school. Funny, how they say Middle School is where there is the most transformation occurring- hormones kicking in big time, becoming independent, etc. Thats when I actually first CARED what people thought of me. Those felt like such carefree days. Maybe if we had more people like Kurt around to teach this to kids *before* they got to Middle School, kids would be better off. (Well, they are starting to do this actually)
@@lauriehaisley5634 yeah and if we didn't have people treating us like weirdos too lol
@@BaraaKnows TRUTH! Yes, there are other elements to it too!
Unconditional love is the only kind of love. Love is unconditional. If there are conditions or strings attached then it isn’t really love. It is not a choice. I repeat, it is NOT a choice. It just is. Meeting my twin flame and the spiritual journey that arose from it reminded me of this fact. When I came to accept it, and let go of the shame I felt for loving someone unconditionally. (Long story of maternal abuse behind that but I won’t digress into that)
I love and it requires nothing in return. I just love. This awareness has come into a beautiful play in all my real relationships with my son, my friends and with the other half of me. 💙
This isn’t to say that you put up with abuse or remain in a bad situation. It just means that you love no matter what. Wether they are with you or not and even when you don’t get the physical outcome you desire. It is peace and yes, it is Zen. You are able to accept things as they are and as they evolve.
My mother is a narcissist and I was her scapegoat child. From birth, I learned all the wrong things about love. I first “met” my other half when I was 16 and I had no clue what was happening to me. The spiritual journey it sent me on was a roller coaster ride that lasted 30 years (and counting) the day I woke up and realized that I’d always loved him... never stopped ... and every abusive relationship I’d gotten into afterward was just me trying to find another “him” and also me thinking that abuse was what love is. (He’s the only one ever who didn’t abuse me...he ran but never was far gone from my life.)
But when I realized that I was allowed to love him... it didn’t require anything from him in return and was not a shameful thing... that’s when I found my zen place. It’s ok to feel whatever you’re feeling (not to say it’s ok to act on things irrationally, but feeling things... that’s perfectly normal and fine)
En M yes! So very painful when we try to NOT love them. I say try because it’s not possible. I was able to fool myself and people around me for a couple decades... by ignoring the feeling, the random thoughts and the dreams and intuition. A guy I thought I loved proposed to me ...I was so happy...thought it would make my life perfect...afterward I ended up trying to figure out who would give me away... my parents are divorced and if I couldn’t have my dad there, I wasn’t inviting my mom... my brain instantly thought... oh just call (tf) He can give you away... I ended up crying myself to sleep that night because I couldn’t stand the thought of him giving me away...
It should be noted that at the time, I didn’t know that he was my tf... I was still stuck trying to replace him and get over him and still very much in denial... it never dawned on me the “connection”. Also, ended up that the Bf who proposed left that night and never came back. Turned out he had another gf pregnant... I was devastated for a while but now am just grateful I dodged that bullet lol. I’m so much wiser and more zen now.💙
En M yesss! (And I’m actually writing my book/memoirs and the whole story is so wild! Finding this channel was more of a confirmation for me than a lesson. I’d already come to the awareness and then found this channel but it is still beautiful to have to confirmation. He and I are not together (yet) but we are friends and I’m ok with that however it works out.
I met mine on Tinder of all places. I swiped right because be wore the jersey of my fave hockey team to be honest. I was looking for a one night stand- seemingly getting out of my soulmate relationship. When I met my twin flame, even that first night, my whole world shifted on it's axis. I studied so many different things about this, but I go with what I felt. After four months, we split. Since, (five months) I am lost. I loved him so unconditionally, that I did what I could. He was like me, yet so different. Loving him healed broken parts of me, yet left me so empty afterwards. It broke me to my core. He was a part of me that is painful to live without and even now, I only hope he is happy. I loved him at his worst, and I loved us both. His pain was mine, his joy mine. I understand his moments of numbness and loss, I went through that too. It was so painful, but I loved him more than I thought I loved my soulmate who I gave two kids to. Thanks for this. It is more than I could explain. "The felt experience of the soul." K.R you were and are my twin flame forevermore,
Same for me. Also met him on Tinder. And I swiped as a mistake (he seemed too full of himself) 😆 but he had already swiped me so we matched. The rest is history. Already 6 years now.
the love of the universe is infinitely unconditional, and when I connect through meditation I have unlimited access to the love of the universe. Now I seek to share this with others.
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I get peace when his energy is around. Since he is my doctor, taking care of me is his love language..
I do feel like I recently reached the “zen of the soul”, the unconditional love toward my TF without expectation. I have a lot of peace about it which feels much different than the 3D version of love. It wasn’t easy to get to this place, but definitely a noticeable difference and feels amazing. The 3D version slips in here and there, but I’m able to get back to the zen version when I let go again. Good video. Much needed info on this.👏🏽
I'm only a few weeks into hearing the term "twin flame" and I'm certain that I've known mine for nearly 25 years. This video really made things click for me. We live in different states and there was about 20 years of not seeing each other in person but the occasional text on holidays did happen.
A year ago we did meet for dinner and it was great! It was effortless and my brain definitely felt Zen but I just referred to it as being quiet. But then I started doing the things that I thought I was supposed to do in a relationship and that caused him to run. Now I realize it's just the quiet mind (or Zen) that I want. That inner peace! I think I'm on the right path. Today I am truly grateful for this wonderful video. 💖
When we finally grasp that every experience is one of love because it gives us the 3D experiences of duality that we come here for, when we finally stop judging every event as good or bad and rejecting painful experiences and disappointment ... that is the key to real love. (Unconditional Love).
The opening of these chakras can be very painful, with so much emotion and soul shines through!
Yes, especially the heart energy. If I could close it, I would, but haven't figured out how?
Lol- before I found you Kurt - I messaged my DM and told him he’s teaching me unconditional love! Hard lessons sometimes! I thanked him. 🥰
The best and most satisfying explanation of unconditional love I have ever heard ❤
Really grateful to have found you... I have been struggling with not understanding what this was or why I have been so affected. I am at ease and better learning how to navigate what I am going through. Thank you!
I felt calm and peace when I came into contact with him, was amazing till about 5 months, then it spiralled
In Sanskrit the soul is called "Atman"...and "Atman" means "I". Thus Soul = I ,in Sanskrit language.
Love from India 🇮🇳🙏❤️
Thank you, Kurt ❤, for sharing your knowledge, experiences, and helping through. I feel like I am listening to my true buddy when I am in a situation where no one around me can really understand me.
Love ur twin is like loving urself...there is no difference
Man when my other half randomly just gave me a hug. My heart chakra blew wide open that I had to call my Reiki teacher. He was like I’ve never felt or seen a hearts energy so big before. I didn’t even know about twin flames then. Still living with my twin and I’m diving deep into self. I had taken in the DF role and he the DM but I just had back surgery and now he’s having surgery done in both hands and now we are switching roles. I’m becoming the DM and he the DF which makes sense. We’re just switching polarities since I’m doing the work. Just working on accepting things about myself and I’m having zen moments to where for 10-15 mins a few times a day I’m totally present with no thoughts roaming around my mind. When that happens I have a goofy happy kid grin on my face while doing absolutely nothing 🥰
I must be finally moving out of the hamster wheel of mind and dropping into the soul zone. Cuz twelve hours ago I didn't know about this channel. I was doing "Pick-A-Cards" obsessively for a month about "my person." And suddenly around 1 am your channel randomly popped onto my feed. And within the span of say, eight hours, I have gone from obsessing about "my person" to feeling a growing sense of wholeness and peace. And beyond that, I'm actually premonition-ing what you are going to say before you say it. Like I already know all of this shit.
For instance, in this video, as you began to break down the concept of "unconditional love," vs experiencing twin-flame soul recognition, I noticed the thought: "Oh, so maybe it's sorta like how I felt as a kid, that sense of innate fulfillment, like everything was okay, and my needs were all met. Like nothing was missing in my life. I was just in that eternal now moment and was deeply satisfying. Maybe it's that ' little kid' feeling."
And as I was finishing observing this thought, it hit 18:48 in the video, and I perked up my ears to hear you say "....similar to the way you usually felt when you were a little, little, little kid." Boom. Mic drop. Yeah. That.
It’s like a calm lake-never fluttering
Yes, I remember looking at him and the feeling of nothing but we were peaceful and it was bliss and stillness when together, one. The energy field around us too was intense.. I noticed I was the noticer when realizing, I was having what was similar to an outer body experience when he was laying his head on my chest.
I feel like this verse from the Bible explains unconditional love.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
1 Corinthians 13:4-5
Namaste 🙏🌅peace and light
Nailed it❤🥺
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Kurt, me and my DM reconnected in the 3D yesterday after 5 months😊 It was like we never separated. Didn't miss a beat. You predicted this last week! Funny, after we parted ways, I felt at rest (zen). No need for the attachment. Just unconditional love❤
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Nicole Kidman Nicole, what do you mean how??? Have you listen to all of Kurt’s videos? You would need to listen to all his videos in order to understand. Also, and VERY important as Kurt teaches: WHO is asking How? Who is asking the question? Do you get it? If you listen to Kurt’s video, then you would understand. He even mentions it in this video
'the felt experience of the soul' love that!
Kurt, I have followed you for years. I used to call you the Gangster of Love, or Maurice, who could miss it? You always speak of love. You are ground zero for lovers. Of every sort. Thanks for being.
Now I know for sure that person is my twin flame. All this has happened to me! Everything you have described has happened to me.
In my journey, I always have to re-learn a lesson; just when I thought I know what it feels like to know something, it changes overtime. I keep a journal for the lessons learned and I notice that I have to revise the lessons twice 😅 I don't know if I'm a slow learner or it just has to happen that way.. so everytime I learn something new, I keep an open mind that the knowing/feeling of a lesson might change one day
It's funny you brought up the beginning of our lives. The beginning of my conscious awareness was in samadhi. I didn't know who I was, where I was, or who anyone else was. I woke up alone, and I said out loud, "Who am I? Where am I? What am I?" I was filled with bliss and silence. It felt so good I laid back down and repeated the process before getting up and wandering around to meet my family. I only told them I had no clue who they were once I was grown
Thank you so much for this video. It cleared a lot of things I was going through. Lots of blessings to you.
I love how you say "mission" 😂😂
I remember so much from the "before" life. I could write a book but i dont think anyone will even believe me 😁😂.
So... I remember both the before and after the soul split.
My soul was thinking (in the way a soul "thinks") This soul is amazing!!!
Let split into two "beings" to make it double good! I was terrified becouse i had so much peace and "zen" but i did NOT know what to expect 😳
Next memory is me waking up in the arms of my souls DM.
I had No clue about anything.
All memorys was viped out!
All i could feel was "I am."
Floating around in a Beautiful Beautiful Beautiful White light.
The love hit me like thousands beams exploding into my soul.
I watched all 3 parts of the samadhi movie & after watching my twin sent me like $200 and said “just because I love you” she ghosted me 2 months prior 😂 but on a more soulful note, that movie changed everything for me. Everything you’re saying has been coming to me & I haven’t even taken your course yet. So when I watch your videos It’s already something I just knew after watching. Especially knowing we can change our matrix experience but after just being. I am. Awesome , you’re a blessing & thank you to your twin who ran the hell away from you 😂❤️
Note to mention. She sent it 5 hours after watching the samadhi movie I was almost in disbelief. Our physical bodies aren’t together but who gives a shit anymore.
Man, I never sought for twin flame stuff but for some 'misterious' reason I was suggested your videos. I'm alone. I'll die alone. But I do have perceived someone else in a very strange way. I said to myself that person was like she had to do something with me. After listening to her it was like if I was listening to a past me. I had a strange feeling, I couldn't find a right term. I felt it like if she was a daughter, my own flesh, even myself, but I thought it all wasn't accurate and that I was mad. I suffered because I felt urged to help her and I couldn't. I didn't fall in love for that person. I don't need that person in my life. But at the same time I wish permanently for her the same as for myself: 'freedom' (which I do have). I'd give my own life to know that person has a permanent smile and no more pain. I've even thought or seen things that person later said or showed. Life is very strange to be understood man, but at the same time wonderful. Regards.
Kurt I have been on this journey for sometime now and finally stumbled upon you 🤯💕🙏 Everything you are saying is in total alignment with all spiritual teachings and I had some confusions which is all clear now.I am so grateful to have found your teaching at a very crucial juncture.Most of it “I know” but you have provided such clarification .I grew up in a Muslim family and Islam means surrender and Allah is eternal and absolute.More power to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ your work
You cut through all information out there with such finesse about twinflames. I am back to reading power of now and focusing more on my meditation practice 💕🙏
The kundalini awakening a while ago I had massively and unexpectedly introduced me to what unconditional love would be like in a snapshot, peace and sublime bliss without any grasping or longing, just "being". I just happened to re-watch this video and it made me realize what was happening back then, at least as a "prelude". Oh, well. Not expecting anything but now I am thinking the twin flame journey was nice while it lasted. It had a purpose. I cannot go back but the journey did have a purpose. Party on, Sir Kurt.
I am the Love, I am the Source, I am Devine, I am an Privilege.
It's easy...
Love is God, Universe, Multiverse call it how ever you want... Love is limitless, and speak many ways. Not only energetically.. Your exist ist love.
My Twin Flame and I were together last night and now I, the chaser, feels the need to run. I want to run because I fear he will never leave his situation and I'm afraid we will never unite on the 3D plane. We are together physically rarely but I feel our connection so strong, it's like he leaves and stays, all at once.
Kurt I love you!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you for everything.. 🥰
My twin flame after 4 years is finally here in my home. After not being able to be around each other for long periods in the past...Due to all the dynamics. Now, after two days of him here .. it feels just like someone is there... I don’t know it’s new. I’m still trying to understand the feeling but it’s not really that under-stable. I met a soul mate while we were in separation recently. The soul mate is more like an awesome relationship. As of now I am trying to spend time alone to stay aligned and balanced. The zen part is true. Not really an emotion. And I still like the feeling of my soul mate to have a feeling. So for now I am just keeping my balance in some solitude
Kurt,
First of all, I love that you actually read and respond to our comments.
Second of all, I just realized that astrology comes from the world astral. It’s ALL about the mind. This is LIFE CHANGING. I mean it. Thank you!!!
Hey Kurt! The hashtags is one of my favorite songs!!😂😂😂
Kurt! He lives in a different country and we hadn't spoken in years, then I found your channel. Everything you have said happened. He didn't say stop talking to me, but admitted his feelings (also that he's in a relationship) then we couldn't talk for about a week. Then on Tuesday he apologized and said he can talk on Thursday. I thought on the phone. Then today he asked if I can pick him up bc he doesn't have a car when he's in the states! 😮😂🎉 I asked, "you're here?" 😮 He hasn't been in town for over 2 years! I knew I was going to see him soon and my mind said oh probably later on, don't get your hopes up. It lied! My mind tried to say different than me. I knew I would see him and only trust what will be will be. I watched Sumadhi and it ties in everything I've ever studied. I took philosophy, American transcendentalists literature, mythology, religious studies, politics and urban studies. Thank you for all your guidance. It's very helpful. I am also seeing a therapist to help sort out the ball of yarn that's all my experiences tangled up because I know those aren't me either. I was born thinking I was still French. My Mom had to coach me into this American life and speaking English over the 5 languages I knew. He's in town. Even, like you said when it seems weird or unlikely for that to be. Something made him come here. I thought a phone call, but that was just my limited mind saying nothing important.
I'm also separated from an abusive husband I left recently. I'm not looking for a relationship. He knows full well I need a friend right now, but things unfold as they do and I trust nothing will feel forced or rushed because we're timeless.
When together its just peace - i dont know How better to descibe it - and its not something i think about in the times of ‘togetherness’
Kurt you great man kudos to you!
I love these videos so much 💖💖💖💖
Literally, who ever disliked this video is INSANE!!!! 🤯🤯🤯🤯
If you liked this video, you GORGEOUS 😁😁😁❤️❤️
Kundalini rising happened 🥰
Thank you.
Thank you so much💐💐💐
I saw my other self on Facebook he has a weather storm page which is highly successful. we were phone pals at first till he message me one day said watch the news so I did they had interview him I knew then, I called him so when we going to meet. He rang me to go storm chasing I was nervous but the day arrived I went to his house. I knew where everything was and I felt at home, he said the same 6months later all changed he ran been 3 years now since we have spoken. he watches me blocks on social media. lol I have let go I love him definitely. now I'm understanding this journey just getting on with my life with no outcome. I love your teaching videos Kurt they really do help. This has also help me physically and mentally with in my self I'm so much better now so huge Thankyou. 👌❤✌
Thank you Kurt I need to take your advice. The first time he ran it was in my gut for 3 weeks. Last night it was in my heart but I got over it pretty quickly. I know everything is going to be alright. He'll be back, I needed this lesson to get back on track with my life and soul purpose and put me first.
Two years on and I still feel so cynical about all of this... and yet, and yet...everything you say describes my experiences exactly...hmm...well, whatever it all means, I LOVE knowing what this soul feels like...
I’m trying to runaway from him , it hurt so so bad when he started running, and now when he is stalking me on media and want connection I am so fucking scared that I will have that pain again , so I make every effort that he will run again 😭😩🙈
Rosie Röös im in that situation as well. This experience you are having is called the duality. If you don’t know what to do when the other self comes back. Then you must detox.
Rosie Röös I’m in the same position
S6ixty F4our ❤️ how do I detox 🙈 right now I am acting strange to scare him away
Rosie Röös stop watching twin flame videos and tarot readings. Anything that relates to the other person. Listen to Conversations with God and Power of Now on youtube.
Rosie Röös There is no doing and there is no not doing, it’s energy. Yearning for your Twin Flame emotionally is exactly what is pushing them away. Intention, the reason why I do a thing is more important than the thing that I’m actually doing. It’s all about your energy, this is not soulmates. There’s no conversation you’re gonna have with your Twin Flame that’s gonna make any difference at all. It’s intention.”
-Kurt Johnson
SO ABOUT THE SONG FROM VAN HALEN ABOUT TWIN FLAMES LOVE WALKS IN WAS WRITTEN BY SAMMY HAGAR DURING A OUT OF BODY EXPERIENCE
Hi Kurt, I really like this video, but I think what the commenter meant with the 'chakra activation/opening' is actually the start of the breakdown of the EGO. IT'S EXTREMELY PAINFUL, and not the 'duality love' as you describe. I also had a 'heart chakra activation' and it was a 10 minute long energetic beam through my heart space and it felt like a heart attack, and it was painful. It was actually the start of my dark night of the soul. So what I think the commenter meant, or my take is, is that the heart chakra activation IS ACTUALLY the start of the breakdown of the astral body/pain body, so it does align with your perspective :)
So I fully resonate with that unconditional love = REAL LOVE, love from the source, the other part of the comment is in my opinion really about the start of the breaking down of the astral body.
Thank you Kurt... superb one and very much gratitude to you sir💐💐💐💐💐
I just enrolled to be Kurt's student. Man... Just by watching his free videos haha...
I asked my TF what he feels as to what we have right now. And he said "I feel comfortable. We know we have each other even in silence and we have our own separate lives."
Is that the same?
How do you have an intimate relationship (physically) without emotion?
I'm still trying to figure out if we're twin flames but both of us have past trauma. Hers more extreme & it was hard to accept all that & it hurts her which created blocks between us.
Kurt: The love was so strong I started to wonder if I could actually have a heart attack
Me: Same
It is a heart burning 🔥🔥🔥Soul _ OverSoul "Activation" and or Self Alignment 🌹⚡🔥 yes Kundalini Shakti* Activation "The Fire 🔥of the Holy Spirit" within AUM
Instead of Duality in Truth there is Oneness. It is like Talking to Yourself and everytime You Are willing to say something You realize and eventually learn that it is You as One who You Are talking to. Better Be Unconditional Love otherwise there is no Forgiving which needs to come Before acceptance to Be Real. It is Mirroring as I AM. How to teach Your Soul - You can't 😂 just BE.
Wonderful, insightful commentary.
Awesome, thank you again
Soo intristing
I want to request you to teach your way of meditation.. How to do.. Step by step guide.. What actually meditation is etc.. I think there is no vdo especially on this.. However you want to teach.. Your experience etc.. Hope you are getting what actually requesting.. Many many out there but would appreciate to listen from you
At the age of 6 or 7 I used to question how I was in this body and who was I
Anyone else saw the wording in Russian on his t-shirt and understood it? HAHAHAHA!
the hashtags lol I'm deadddd
What home feels like 😉🌟✨💎💃💃
On a more serious note though; heartbreak means attachment, right? And I must be unattached to be in "union", no? So what if I get into "union" and my twin passes away? Will I not even grieve? Grief is a reaction to loss, and the feeling of loss comes from attachment. So how would that work?
As Kurt says -when we do the thing we call 'die' your body and mind cease to exist.
What's left is the soul. It does not die.
My take on it is if you are truly 'Zen' then you understand that and there is little grief that comes from that, just the acceptance of what is and that they have never truly 'died'. I also believe that because of your strong soul connection you will be able to communicate by other means.( I know a TF who has gone through this, though I don't know her very well so I wouldn't probe her for more answers. I just know what I have just told you)
That's my take on it anyways.
Interestingly though I use the words Soul and Love interchangeably. When the word Love is used in a "soulmate" context, that's actually counterfeit love because it's usually conditional. If there are conditions, it shouldn't be called love as far as I'm concerned. So technically even in a soulmate dynamic, because of the conditions, you aren't guaranteed "a happily ever after" either
Kurt, I really hope you read this. I've been watching your videos since last year. Before I dated my TF, about 2 years before I had a feeling one night that we would end up together. We dated briefly last year, he himself even said "why do I feel like this has happened before?". Sadly, I met him during a stage of being an alcoholic and doing alot of drugs 😢😢 it was so sad to see. We had a major break up, as he was drunk and acting so out of order. His drinking and drug taking had gotten out of hand. I didn't hear from him and tried messaging his family to do an intervention. I went to see him after he stopped messaging me. He was Indenial. Not listening to anything I was saying and was angry I'd spoken to his family. It was awful because he was being such a cold person. He turned things on me and said "you made me feel like I didn't know myself" at times where I was trying to help him get over his past, as he kept bringing up the past like it was his personality. He previously said I was the love of his life, but when I went to see him he said I wasn't. I said I loved him and felt the energy bounce back instantly. It was weird, I felt the energy deflect.
After the break up, I didn't hear from him again. It tore me apart. My soul felt like it was on fire trying to escape my body, I had a mental breakdown and quit my job without another one lined up. Spent days in bed, just couldn't think about anything else.
I took some time out, I gradually for a new job a few months later. It's been... 7 months. Each month I have about 10 dreams of him in it, n I have to try and find him. It's intense. I do have a history of nightmares and sometimes I can have intense nightmares about it.
It's so sad because I know he could be a great person but it's been so heartbreaking seeing him being an alcoholic and watch that dictate his life.
These videos pretty much saved me from the tragedy of it all. I'm definitely traumatised as he came to me and told me all his problems and then left and closed off. He blocked me after everything went down and I have blocked his brother as its too hurtful seeing him pretending he's okay to his family and everyone.
Just wanted to put this out there to gain some better perspective. Is there any hope when the TF is an alcoholic??
Your twin flame is just your past life. You are watching a replay of things you did 10, 20 lives ago...
@@NewWorldAllstar but it's all happening at the same "time" right? Like even if there's 20 lives in between our lives, all of my reincarnations are happening at once. But is there still hope for the DM if they are an alcoholic? X
All of this is just I don't very confusing when I try to think about it but I can feel it though.
Totally agree! 🎯
I keep running from my twin flame but then when I wanted to be with him.. he was running away and then he went on to blocked me on every social media...I had obsessive thinking for 2 months now,I had panic attack and there is unease around my abdoment and inside my chest...I am a man, so he is...But i cant take him out of my mind.....I thought I was gonna die...😢😢😢...I still loves him, I never loved anyone this much...😢😢I hope he unblock me soon...When he proposed me I had this insecurities that he would leave me later in life , I keep ta
child like love? innocence? zen?
Is your soul trying to
Help you out when you are struggling to grasp what you must do.
Because I do feel a sense of guidance from me ?? !!
I’m understanding me my soul ❤️
I am.
Hi Kurt, here's a question that's been on my mind. If my Twin flame runner is the only one who's supposed to be in "thought" mindset, and who can obsess over me when in "no separation", wouldn't that make this TF dynamic one-sided.
Coz in union they tend to do the chasing, although there's no running right?
So why is that? I mean I get the science behind it, but why can they perfectly live out the way they see fit, and I have to always maintain a zen no reactional/triggered state so that I could be with them.
Can you be with them for a few months and leave again because that has happened to me too he just always leave amd goes with someone else and i feel those pains I feel it in my gut bigtime and its been years coming and going
Haha I was literally looking at that comment the other day!
I did it. I hit rock bottom. I give up!. She is not coming back. It's over. I do wish you would stop giving people false hope. It was a beautiful thing for a little while, it ran its course. She moved on. I also need to. And no she is not coming back, I am sure of that. Just because I'm dis connecting in my mind doesn't mean she's going to return. It's done! I wish you would help people move on instead of giving them false hope.
What happened?You didnt surrender fully...Its without expetation to come back
@@jpavlovic we reunited, with lots of work on my part. love hate relationship for sure, one day she breaks up with me for another guy, that really hurt. Then I took her back, but twin flame or not I could not deal with the dishonesty and betrayal, So, I ended it for sure , after 10+ break ups since we met in Jan 2022. now she wants me back that she realizes our connection . Glad its over, she was a pain in my ***@@ fck her!
I am completely neutral.
Unconditional love is self love may be❤
I felt the pain in all three
Are you okay Kurt ? Don’t seem yourself today
I feel fabulous
If you lack understanding then you’ll lack unconditional love
how many years have you been on the tf journey? can u one day tell us your story
Rverde18 he has in his previous videos.
Well your twinflame took off running 😂😂
Kurt, would you also describe it as completion and/or wholeness of oneself? That is how I feel inside myself in my connection with my DM and we are not in union yet. It is almost like a fullness of unconditional love of myself of my divine masculine, and within myself. Can you relate to this feeling?
so from how you are describing it, would it be safe to say that if you get to the point where you feel those "butterflies" you are ascending, because that part is leaving you ? Aka, you're leaving the duality based love into the twin flame, zen love. ? Kind of like a flashback of memories before you die ? I have no yet experietnced those butterflies ( I don't think) but from how you explained it, sounds like a positive place to get to because it means you're ascending on your journey.
I found mine, but she passed just recently
what things do you do in your daily routine to go into the soul self? (disclaimer: i totally understand that this is coming from the ego self and the perception of “gaining more”, i’m just wondering if u have tips)