It's more about personal space than about thinking you're touching me romanticly. Men and women should respect people's bodies whatever motives might be behind it.
Easy. Just hold off. Stop touching people without their consent. I do not believe that physical connection is only romantic. However, platonic physical connection triggers my anxiety response and for really good reason. You don't know what someone has been with or what their childhood was like. So, just ask if they want to be touched. After that, touching with boundaries is 100% fine.
Agreed! If you're a touchy person that's fine but not everyone is so it's wrong to assume as such. I suffer from OCD and I get really bad anxiety if someone touches me. Like if someone (particularly a stranger) touches my arm or my back as they walk past without my consent that may seem like nothing to some people but for me it's awful and triggering. Consent is always key! 🩷
Consent is so key here! I enjoy physical touch, but I am also a survivor of sexual assault. Just because you enjoy giving the physical touch, doesn't mean that the person receiving the touch feels the same enjoyment. Check in first and make sure the touching is wanted and reciprocal. I do not like being touched by people that I don't know very well, but I am very cuddly and hands on with the people who I feel safe with an are on the same page as me about the touching. I think having Drew ask the person "is it okay if I touch you" and respecting the answer would go a long way. I have no problems with Drew being touchy during interviews as long as the other person has consented and is also comfortable with it.
I agree. Even with consent, she still needs to respect personal space. She gets into people's faces which really looks uncomfortable even for someone consenting
It's too much. Fake. I don't believe she is sitting in peoples laps in her personal life. Its not a real moment. When do you see this in real life? Constantly jumping on a strangers personal space when you aren't even drunk.
I completely understand touch communication.. but Drew truly did not need to hold on to Cynthia throughout the entire interview. She is overly touchy and tends to be uncomfortably close to her guests' faces.. that's why she's been asked her to back off.
yes But Cynthia didn't mind clearly but other people might so with Cynthia it's OK but it with somebody else ask all we're saying is respect personal boundaries
I don’t think she’s weird. She is trying to bring back kindness and compassion to a cynical and hard world. However I think Drew should give a hug at the start and sit on the couch and as they start talking, at an appropriate time, if the conversation needs it, ask to hold a hand or touch someone. That is more appropriate. I’m a hugger and I love showing affection, but I believe in boundaries. I don’t think Drew should be labeled weird though or something she isn’t just for trying to be nice and as I said bring more love and what Cynthia said! 🙂
Unfortunately many of us have experienced the abuse and unsolicited intrusion of touch and space invasion. There are individuals with Autism and other related conditions where touching is absolutely spurned and undesired. We need to realize our conduct and learn to keep our hands to ourselves and give space. Learn to refrain from assumed acceptance to just touch and let the other party make the initial contact and still do not assume freedom and permission to touch as you please.
I’m not a touchy person but I know people that are and I understand that😊I wouldn’t go as far as to tell someone who is not to be. I feel it’s to the person who doesn’t feel this way to them what their boundaries are it just respect on both sides.😊
There’s being affectionate and there’s invading people’s personal space. Drew has zero awareness nor respect for a persons personal space at all. The fact that she makes excuses for it is weird and off putting and I like Drew. I just can’t stand how she drapes herself on top of her guests. I’ve stopped watching because of it. Too cringy
I love Drew but she really does need to calm down with the touching. I am not a touchy person whatsoever and I expect I would feel even more uncomfortable with it if I were being watched by millions while it's happening.
It's like this: Drew is who she is. People come on her show and know how she is. If they don't, they should research ahead of time and perhaps set a boundary before they go on live TV acting weird when Drew gets close so they can stop acting like someone is disrespecting them. Don't go on someone's show and tell them how to act! If a guest doesn't like it, communicate and if they don't trust that Drew will suppress herself, don't interview in person. ❤ I think it's sweet but not for everyone. At least she's aware because people have told her to back off.
The guests' wishes should be honored. These celebrities' personal spaces should be respected, and not just theirs, anyone's. Thats just common decency and Drew should be able to suppress making people uncomfortable when they come to her show. There would be no show without the guests.
@BayouBarbie504 oh no do not use “being spiritual” as an excuse. With being spiritual, you should know how many humans are suffering internally because of this lack of touch. There’s something unresolved deep inside a human to be so afraid of another human entering their energy field. Some human’s boundaries are wound up so tight, that they literally have lost their innate sense of knowing how much we need this connection. I will respect a person’s wishes. But, still believe that person doesn’t realize what they’re missing by avoiding the natural human connection. Of course, should that touch be from a dark perspective instead of from light and love…. Your intuition would let you know. But, there are too many so out of touch with this that they can no longer differentiate between the two. Bring more light and love to yourself and you will learn to relax, and know the difference. Even if you’ve had a disturbing experience from the past. May you be able to release that anguish, and come to live in the present. Humanity needs each other now more than ever. ❤️
We live in such an electronic & robotic type world. We are losing our humanity, now so afraid of communicating in person and afraid of touch. We do not feel safe & vulnerable these days in an untrustworthy and agressive society so I don't blame people. Just Sad😥
Listen I’m sure she’s very sweet but there are other ways to show love empathy admiration whatever then coming for people’s personal space like everyone has been saying it’s fine that she is this way it just makes some people uncomfortable so just ask before you touch to make sure the other person is ok with it and if they’re not back off it’s as simple as that no offense meant at all ❤
The people complaining about this woman being ‘too touchy’ really need to get a life and mind their own business. Seriously how lonely and sad do you need to be to be so triggered by how someone treats other people? Ellen Degeneres groped people on her show and made young women cry for years and no one batted an eyelid! But Drew holds people’s hands and everyone is losing their minds!
She's not just holding hands she's getting up in peoples faces some people are uncomfortable with that and that's fine it's called respecting personal boundaries she needs to learn how to do that and then she'll be fine
It's not about something being wrong with holding hands. It's about consent. She crosses the line of touching people and evading their space without asking them. She needs to ask and know if they are comfortable with it, not only because she likes touching!
I tend to touch peoples arm when I’m trying to get their attention and speak with them at work. I will think about that from now on?😳 y’all get offended by weird things nowadays lol
You clearly haven't seen enough of her interviews to know how cringey she is. Touching someone's arm to get their attention is fine, but Drew will get all up in your face and start petting or caressing you even if she doesn't know you that well. That's not normal.
@@kiranolan7104It's not normal at all. It's like she has flipped the predator script somehow. Smiling in your face while invading personal space is not healthy.
I understand what Drew is saying but as someone who's physical boundaries were crossed as a kid, it's important to get permission. Drew just said she touches because she needs touch, and that's something that other people may not want to be a resource for her.
i will allowed drew to hug me and touch me while talking, because i am like ther also, but now i controlled it because some people are judgemental and thinking that i like them hahahahaah now i am only doing this to the cats and dogs that i meet and to my family and loved ones who know me well
You need to ask permission to enter somebody's physical space. Of course, a lot of her guests aren't going to call her out because they don't want to make her feel bad. I myself don't like being touched by strangers. But i'm not afraid of physical touch by friends. But i'm on the side that she should reserve that for her personal life and not on cameras. Or not every guest. it just appears very awkward.
Physical connection doesn't only have to be about romance. There is still a need to respect personal space even when being comfortable with physical touch. She can learn to self-soothe so that she doesn't overstep boundaries trying to soothe everyone who comes onto her couch. Someone who really loves her needs to suggest therapy. Predators smile in one's face and say nice things while overstepping personal space and engaging in inappropriate behaviour. What she did with Martha Stewart had a hint of that
She's not a predator she's not doing it with the intent to hurt someone she's just trying to be nice but she needs to learn to respect boundaries that's all
@Lissa102 A lot of abusers engage in destructive behaviours without an understanding that it's actually harmful. A lot of them think it's an expression of love or that they're being nice or 'wanting the other person to feel good.' The brain is a tricky thing when you spend time analysing it 🙏
I don’t like strangers getting too close to me and touching is definitely off limits. Drew is just weird, entitled and arrogant to do what she does to people.
Too much in everyone's face. Make some space not everyone likes to be touched or too close in their space. I think she's going to have her own downfall and be cancelled. She's sickening.
Cynthia looks so uncomfortable. Look how she’s pulling her head back the entire time 😄. She trying so hard to act like she’s ok with all the touching, I bet she washed her hands immediately afterwards
I love Drew and her show...but i get why she was told to not be so touchy... if she was a man doing the same thing, i dont think lots of people would find it okay.
For GOD so Loved the world that He Gave His One and Only Begotten Son JESUS CHRIST, so that anyone who Believes in Him will not perish but have Eternal Life (John 3:16)
Because its fake. Cringe af. Noone is all over someone else like thiw. My friends don't sit on the couch facing me. Never mind turning from the whole audience. Most people don't like someone they dont even know all over them. You can tell when guests are so uncomfortable. So fake. Not that I don't hold a friends hand or hug but drew is ridiculous.
I don't even like the Drew Barrymore show. And its because Drew is out in left field. Probly never going to be able to find the right field. Goofy AF.B
It's more about personal space than about thinking you're touching me romanticly. Men and women should respect people's bodies whatever motives might be behind it.
Easy. Just hold off. Stop touching people without their consent.
I do not believe that physical connection is only romantic. However, platonic physical connection triggers my anxiety response and for really good reason.
You don't know what someone has been with or what their childhood was like. So, just ask if they want to be touched. After that, touching with boundaries is 100% fine.
Agreed! If you're a touchy person that's fine but not everyone is so it's wrong to assume as such. I suffer from OCD and I get really bad anxiety if someone touches me. Like if someone (particularly a stranger) touches my arm or my back as they walk past without my consent that may seem like nothing to some people but for me it's awful and triggering.
Consent is always key! 🩷
Especially if theyre sick. but hopefully people arent crazy enough to touch someone when they are sick.
There's a difference from touching when the moment calls for it, but Drew is like... All over people every interview. It is too much.
It makes her not seem genuine.
I know it's too much. Watching her makes me uncomfortable.
100% agree
Somebody gonna claim assault 🙄
It is weird how she asks Martha, what makes you soft and gooey? and then starts rubbing her back 😳
Very. Looked like grooming behaviour
I’m so not a touchy person, I wish I was but then again I appreciate my boundaries. But I do appreciate when someone tries to tap in
Exactly it's about respect. If the other person is ok with ... Ok. But I have notice people use this tactic to bulldoze people to get only their way.
I love how Martha pushed her
Consent is so key here! I enjoy physical touch, but I am also a survivor of sexual assault. Just because you enjoy giving the physical touch, doesn't mean that the person receiving the touch feels the same enjoyment. Check in first and make sure the touching is wanted and reciprocal. I do not like being touched by people that I don't know very well, but I am very cuddly and hands on with the people who I feel safe with an are on the same page as me about the touching. I think having Drew ask the person "is it okay if I touch you" and respecting the answer would go a long way. I have no problems with Drew being touchy during interviews as long as the other person has consented and is also comfortable with it.
I agree. Even with consent, she still needs to respect personal space. She gets into people's faces which really looks uncomfortable even for someone consenting
boom!!!!
@@lotusphoenix8 I think by back off they meant that too and I think she understands that
@@Lissa102 We'll see if she actually understands that with her behaviour going forward
Respect personal space....not everyone is touchy feely...back off
It's too much. Fake. I don't believe she is sitting in peoples laps in her personal life. Its not a real moment. When do you see this in real life? Constantly jumping on a strangers personal space when you aren't even drunk.
I completely understand touch communication.. but Drew truly did not need to hold on to Cynthia throughout the entire interview. She is overly touchy and tends to be uncomfortably close to her guests' faces.. that's why she's been asked her to back off.
yes But Cynthia didn't mind clearly but other people might so with Cynthia it's OK but it with somebody else ask all
we're saying is respect personal boundaries
I don’t think she’s weird. She is trying to bring back kindness and compassion to a cynical and hard world. However I think Drew should give a hug at the start and sit on the couch and as they start talking, at an appropriate time, if the conversation needs it, ask to hold a hand or touch someone. That is more appropriate. I’m a hugger and I love showing affection, but I believe in boundaries. I don’t think Drew should be labeled weird though or something she isn’t just for trying to be nice and as I said bring more love and what Cynthia said! 🙂
People shouldn't have to warn you Drew, keep off!
Humains get depressed and disconnected to one another. No love in the cold world. We need to feel protected and loved. ❤ Beautiful episode :)
I always wondered why she gets so close while talking
😂 this is the most LA conversation I’ve seen this week
Unfortunately many of us have experienced the abuse and unsolicited intrusion of touch and space invasion. There are individuals with Autism and other related conditions where touching is absolutely spurned and undesired. We need to realize our conduct and learn to keep our hands to ourselves and give space. Learn to refrain from assumed acceptance to just touch and let the other party make the initial contact and still do not assume freedom and permission to touch as you please.
I’m not a touchy person but I know people that are and I understand that😊I wouldn’t go as far as to tell someone who is not to be. I feel it’s to the person who doesn’t feel this way to them what their boundaries are it just respect on both sides.😊
I dont like strangers touching me period 😂 with Barry she looks like she gone pounce on her guest.
You can’t even get her name right!
Barry 😂 I love what you did there!
I'm a very touchy feely person but NOT like that you should ALWAYS respect other people's boundaries!! Ask first before you touch!!!
I honestly thing it’s very sweet ❤ I’m a very touchy person.
Keep the touchy Drew
I’m a touchy person.
There’s being affectionate and there’s invading people’s personal space. Drew has zero awareness nor respect for a persons personal space at all. The fact that she makes excuses for it is weird and off putting and I like Drew. I just can’t stand how she drapes herself on top of her guests. I’ve stopped watching because of it. Too cringy
I love Drew but she really does need to calm down with the touching. I am not a touchy person whatsoever and I expect I would feel even more uncomfortable with it if I were being watched by millions while it's happening.
It's like this: Drew is who she is. People come on her show and know how she is. If they don't, they should research ahead of time and perhaps set a boundary before they go on live TV acting weird when Drew gets close so they can stop acting like someone is disrespecting them. Don't go on someone's show and tell them how to act! If a guest doesn't like it, communicate and if they don't trust that Drew will suppress herself, don't interview in person. ❤ I think it's sweet but not for everyone. At least she's aware because people have told her to back off.
What a beautiful perspective and response! Refreshing to read. Bless you girl 😊
The guests' wishes should be honored. These celebrities' personal spaces should be respected, and not just theirs, anyone's. Thats just common decency and Drew should be able to suppress making people uncomfortable when they come to her show. There would be no show without the guests.
The host/ess usually makes the necessary adjustments to accommodate their guest.
I’m very spiritual and don’t like when people randomly touch me without permission. It’s a violation of my energy.
@BayouBarbie504 oh no do not use “being spiritual” as an excuse. With being spiritual, you should know how many humans are suffering internally because of this lack of touch.
There’s something unresolved deep inside a human to be so afraid of another human entering their energy field. Some human’s boundaries are wound up so tight, that they literally have lost their innate sense of knowing how much we need this connection.
I will respect a person’s wishes. But, still believe that person doesn’t realize what they’re missing by avoiding the natural human connection. Of course, should that touch be from a dark perspective instead of from light and love…. Your intuition would let you know. But, there are too many so out of touch with this that they can no longer differentiate between the two. Bring more light and love to yourself and you will learn to relax, and know the difference. Even if you’ve had a disturbing experience from the past. May you be able to release that anguish, and come to live in the present. Humanity needs each other now more than ever. ❤️
I don't even like people hugging me. I need the distance or I feel very uncomfortable.
I’m a hugger too 😮 I think for some people it’s just a natural thing with people who some people who have a very strong instant connection 🤷🏼♀️
We live in such an electronic & robotic type world. We are losing our humanity, now so afraid of communicating in person and afraid of touch. We do not feel safe & vulnerable these days in an untrustworthy and agressive society so I don't blame people. Just Sad😥
yep. it’s a bit too much
Based on how much Drew has shared about her upbringing and the lack of support, love, etc. I can see why she wants/needs/crave physical touch.
Love! ❤
Listen I’m sure she’s very sweet but there are other ways to show love empathy admiration whatever then coming for people’s personal space like everyone has been saying it’s fine that she is this way it just makes some people uncomfortable so just ask before you touch to make sure the other person is ok with it and if they’re not back off it’s as simple as that no offense meant at all ❤
I think it's lovely and wonderful how touchy she is, it's should of course always be done with consent
Has she never heard of Covid? All this touching and breathing all over each other!
Shes such a sweet person its just a natural thing with her, what the world needs now 😆😆🥰😍
Um no. The world doesn't need touchy people
The world certainly doesn't need people who overstep boundaries and invade personal spaces. That's what predators do
never trust anyone who doesn't love daily hugs !
Not from strangers
I appreciate her sincerity but the excessive touching and invasion of personal space is so cringe-y.
It's odd because it looks out of place all most every single time and then you have Cynthia Erivo encouraging it and it is almost comforting lol
The people complaining about this woman being ‘too touchy’ really need to get a life and mind their own business. Seriously how lonely and sad do you need to be to be so triggered by how someone treats other people? Ellen Degeneres groped people on her show and made young women cry for years and no one batted an eyelid! But Drew holds people’s hands and everyone is losing their minds!
She's not just holding hands she's getting up in peoples faces some people are uncomfortable with that and that's fine it's called respecting personal boundaries she needs to learn how to do that and then she'll be fine
It's not about something being wrong with holding hands. It's about consent. She crosses the line of touching people and evading their space without asking them. She needs to ask and know if they are comfortable with it, not only because she likes touching!
This is creepy and almost disgusting …
Emotionallty unavailable people get triggered. Someone touching you means they like or wanna connect.Its uncomfortable, yes.but you ger used to it
Not true
I experienced that
Stop it Drew!!!!😮
Drew "don't touch me" Barrymore.
It seems disingenuous and too much
Cynthia and Ariana also had a very physical connection.
Its over board and so cringy. I no longer can watch. going foward. But good luck
Drew went from cool to cringe. Seems like she doesn’t have healthy boundaries.
Think about her kids😮😮
She was probably touched like that so she thinks it’s “ok”
@@IGlowIFlow Fifty years old and still touches and gropes, therapy is not working.😯😯😂😂
I tend to touch peoples arm when I’m trying to get their attention and speak with them at work. I will think about that from now on?😳 y’all get offended by weird things nowadays lol
That's not it. Drew is almost sitting in these people's laps, it's disrespectful
Bro. Watch Drews interview with martha Stewart.
You clearly haven't seen enough of her interviews to know how cringey she is. Touching someone's arm to get their attention is fine, but Drew will get all up in your face and start petting or caressing you even if she doesn't know you that well. That's not normal.
@@kiranolan7104It's not normal at all. It's like she has flipped the predator script somehow. Smiling in your face while invading personal space is not healthy.
Nothing wrong with physical touch in general…but people are just to Touchy about accepting it
😂
Sorry Drew I don't like the touchy feely you don't have to be all over everybody
Maybe we as humans intend to judge people especially women too harsh sometimes
Not necessarily. We just understand social cues and respect boundaries
I understand what Drew is saying but as someone who's physical boundaries were crossed as a kid, it's important to get permission. Drew just said she touches because she needs touch, and that's something that other people may not want to be a resource for her.
She needs to learn to self-soothe
Yea, shes too touchy touchy.
They should put a desk in the middle just out of respect for the viewers and her guests
i will allowed drew to hug me and touch me while talking, because i am like ther also, but now i controlled it because some people are judgemental and thinking that i like them hahahahaah now i am only doing this to the cats and dogs that i meet and to my family and loved ones who know me well
You need to ask permission to enter somebody's physical space. Of course, a lot of her guests aren't going to call her out because they don't want to make her feel bad. I myself don't like being touched by strangers. But i'm not afraid of physical touch by friends. But i'm on the side that she should reserve that for her personal life and not on cameras. Or not every guest. it just appears very awkward.
Hey Drew, I’ve been told I look a little bit like you, but I’m pretty sure not as much as I do in one single photo
I used to love Drew but now she seems so creepy to me...
People should mind their business, if the people that go on her show don't mind it shouldn't bother you.
Physical connection doesn't only have to be about romance. There is still a need to respect personal space even when being comfortable with physical touch. She can learn to self-soothe so that she doesn't overstep boundaries trying to soothe everyone who comes onto her couch. Someone who really loves her needs to suggest therapy.
Predators smile in one's face and say nice things while overstepping personal space and engaging in inappropriate behaviour. What she did with Martha Stewart had a hint of that
She's not a predator she's not doing it with the intent to hurt someone she's just trying to be nice but she needs to learn to respect boundaries that's all
@Lissa102 A lot of abusers engage in destructive behaviours without an understanding that it's actually harmful. A lot of them think it's an expression of love or that they're being nice or 'wanting the other person to feel good.' The brain is a tricky thing when you spend time analysing it 🙏
Geez Drew. You have no right to invade anyone's personal space. It is so ooo disrespectful.
People are the problem, NOT DREW!
Not true. She doesn't understand giving consent is important.
Leave Drew alone! She is the best!!!!!❤
Maybe she needs a fidget while she’s interviewing a guest?
She’s so weird
I don’t like strangers getting too close to me and touching is definitely off limits. Drew is just weird, entitled and arrogant to do what she does to people.
Too much in everyone's face. Make some space not everyone likes to be touched or too close in their space. I think she's going to have her own downfall and be cancelled. She's sickening.
Cynthia looks so uncomfortable. Look how she’s pulling her head back the entire time 😄. She trying so hard to act like she’s ok with all the touching, I bet she washed her hands immediately afterwards
Why are adults so childish??
Do we ever really quit being children or do we just start looking different?
I love Drew and her show...but i get why she was told to not be so touchy... if she was a man doing the same thing, i dont think lots of people would find it okay.
Even in this video, Drew is too much. Girl, back up! Why are you so close? I could never be a guest on her show, I’d be extremely uncomfortable. 🥴
With lots of people, Drew seems so small
Um she is a bit touchy lol 😂 but for me I always go by people’s energies
I think it's waaaaay tooooo much. That's why people make fun of her and men run. Like me like me please like me. It's exhausting
She is too touchy Feely, step back a little, it's cringy
Shes waybto in your face and ketting her dog get on people. Aruana used a pillow to fend off drews dog today!!! I was screaming get the dog off her!!!
I think Drew does it on purpose.
It’s cringe 😂😂
For GOD so Loved the world that He Gave His One and Only Begotten Son JESUS CHRIST, so that anyone who Believes in Him will not perish but have Eternal Life (John 3:16)
Because its fake. Cringe af. Noone is all over someone else like thiw. My friends don't sit on the couch facing me. Never mind turning from the whole audience. Most people don't like someone they dont even know all over them. You can tell when guests are so uncomfortable. So fake. Not that I don't hold a friends hand or hug but drew is ridiculous.
Drew has been unhinged since I can remember She need help. The funny part is she probably wouldn’t touch or even talk to anybody outside her bubble
I don't even like the Drew Barrymore show. And its because Drew is out in left field. Probly never going to be able to find the right field. Goofy AF.B
Don’t touch wtf
Hey Drew, I’ve been told I look a little bit like you, but I’m pretty sure not as much as I do in one single photo